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I think chemistry and connection are the same however chemistry and compatibility are different. When a person has chemistry or a connection I think of it as an immediate attraction, sexual energy, a spark. Where as compatibility can occur without the latter, you just have things in common, a connection of sorts, but one without chemistry:). I may be wrong but that's how I see it. As a companion my preference would be to have both, compatibility and chemistry with someone and sometimes I do, sometimes I have one or the other, occasionally neither. In most cases chemistry isn't obvious or detectable until meeting in person, as it requires seeing, hearing smelling, feeling, sensing the person. But in all honesty most men pick their companion based on the physical with no real care for anything other than the hopes that her/his pics are real , so perhaps this quest for chemistry and connection some talk about isn't really all that important in the day to day reality of meetings.

My son's Father is into wood working. Him and his friends actually host an online show. But they were Always talking about Pinterest, and showing me stuff on his pinterest. Neat projects and what not. So one day while looking up some recipes , I decided to Pinterest. AND became INSTANTLY Addicted!! Recipes, hairstyles, sewing patterns, crafty projects, How to Draw, wood working projects, gardening and organizing ideas! And Pretty much Everything in Between I Just can not wait to make a flower tower I put some seeds in a starter pod inside my house already Because no way am I going to try directly from seed in my garden this year. Because the only thing that ended up popping last year was a few poppies in September or this Butterfly Feeder!

Oh my do I love kissing...It sets the mood so perfectly :) I have had session that we kissed for about 20-25 minutes before doing anything else...The kissing was so amazing...no need to mention that the rest was incredible also. Like a lot of ladies mentionned...it feels ackward when the gentleman turns away and présents a cheek...I don't take it personally but it does affect me...meaning it will take more to turn me on. Kissing...if a good kisser of course, will do that instantly. Let the kissing begin.....oufff just thinking about it is arousing :D Bianca

Dorinda would be the perfect SP for you. Aside from being gorgeous, she will put you at ease the moment you walk in the door. The only catch is that you'll have to explain why you have a silly looking grin on your face for days afterward. Good luck!! Posted via Mobile Device

I'd also suggest looking up their profile, and from there you can pull up their posting history. Take some time to go through their earlier posts and you should be able to get a real sense as to their personalities.

Love kissing...for me it's what brings the connection.

I like to kiss and I find it very off putting as SC stated. Its few and far between with guests but there are a some that for their own reasons do not partake in this wonderful activity. The first time it happened I thought, hum, do I smell bad of I wonder what is wrong? Now I accept it as a personal preference . As a SP its very awkward though as I forget sometimes and it just makes me have to remember not to do something that is very natural. ( for me)

I'll like to find out what how you define Connection between two people and the Chemistry between two people? Or are they the same. I've had many great encounters and have in contact with many of the women that I have met. With some I have felt a personal bond and friendship for some reason? I think this is what I defined as Connection? And with other women, there is instant attraction and both physical and emotional. It just feels natural and comfortable to be with each other right away, with no shyness or first meeting jitters. It just feels right. After 4 years of now of being on here on Cerb and starting off slowly in meeting women. As I was a shy man. I guess confidence comes with more experience. Now I can meet new women and find that I can now easily chat and entertain women and they seem to enjoy meeting me also. I've managed to make many friendships and have gotten close with several of the women I have met. Is this connection or chemistry? What is your definition and are they different or the same. What were your first experience where you met someone new and had a instant connection or chemistry? I'm interested in hearing your opinions and stories?

Hi guys, I TOFTT last week end with Lilly from Moncton/Riverveiw. After a few tentalizing messages form Lilly, we set up an early app. for Saturday morning. The morning after, no show and no answer to my texts. Finally, she answered back a couple of hours latter saying she was sorry and that she had overslept. She offered me to come to see her at her Grand parents's place! (First clue) Suposedly they were out west and she was taking care of the house. When I got to the house, I notice a lot of shoes at the entrance! (second clue). She invited me in a small room in the basement of the house. It was full of dolls!!!! (Third clue) (WTF???) BTW, her pictures are definitly not new. She carry an extra 50 to 75 lbs over and above what she looks like on her pics!!! (forth clue) I then gave her the agreed rate and sat on the bed. She asked me if I wanted a massage and I said ok. I then proceed to take of my watch and shirt then she freaked out. She told me that she was with the police (???) and that I should leave imediatly or she would call them. She then said that she would call her boyfried. I asked for for my money back, but she refused. Not knowing if there was anybody else in the house, I was now feeling that that my security could be in jeodardy. So I left immediatly. She is a thief , a crook and a con artist! Be very carefull guys. See her add and pic below. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/fr-ca/FemaleEscorts/love-5068711028new-pics-horni-girl-special-kisscuddle-full-sweet-deals-lilly-5068711028-23/1615660

High Heels and a smile are always a winning combination.

Well since my dates tend to be the lady showing up at my room/suite I love, after hearing the knock on the door, to open it up and see her dressed in....whatever she is comfortable wearing She could be in a dress, or jeans & sweater or sweats or whatever she likes to wear. I'm just happy she's shown up and we are having an escape for at least a couple hours RG

I have to agree with Ice4Fun. Attitude and comfort count for a lot. The same piece of lingerie can either be the sexiest site on this planet or just another article of clothing depending on the attitude and personality of the one wearing it. I'm not sure I have a favourite, but being a fan of novelty and variety I do appreciate it when an outfit is a little outside the norm. My favourite is also going to change depending on my mood. Every option you listed sounded appealing. I only wish all of life's choices could be that kind of agonizing. :)

Actually I kinda like the lady to wear whatever she feels sexy in... if that's jeans and a tee... great. If the lady feels sexy then the session will be sexy. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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Perhaps I'ma traditionalist but you can't beat sexy lingerie for getting my engine running. In certainly not opposed to costumes or role play as well, but some tasteful lingerie (doesn't even have to be too revealing..... yet) really does it for me.

Felina might be able to "Full Fill" Your needs :biggrin: Not sure about a Duo.

Well (virtual;-) ) Wifey, to be clear Wifey#1 :-) I'm not a hockey fan at all, although I do like poking fun at the Maple Leafs. But with you in that Hab's tshirt I could seriously become a fan...of the Habs that is. I'm already a fan of yours ;-) Signed (virtual) Hubby#1 ;-)

Been thinking that spending some time in a hot tub with one would be really enjoyable. Posted via Mobile Device

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Connection vs. Chemistry, I'm unable to define or quantify either. But, I look for both in the small stuff... Genuinely happy to see me. The look her face makes when those eyes and smile make a perfectly complimenting combination. Any curiosity about me? Also, let me please add, a note, no matter how short, if a man is thought of by a beautiful women out of the blue and she took the time to let him know, for me anyhow, that is a high, a very nice high.

If you search her name you will find her profile on here as well as recos in Ottawa and Kingston.

I think most girls, use hun, sweety or babe just because they forgot the name of the person lol

Not sure it sucks that much (yet) ... but I think my cat will hate me this summer. Was browsing the interweb and just found out that the major festivals in Montreal are now recruiting; Between work, the gym, and spending time at the festivals wether i'd work there or not (being minutes away walking distance from the major sites) i won't be home much. Nor sleep much for that matter.

You like it ... Yes I'm a flirt (other word is censored!!) so you'll have to come and see what I'm talking about ;) I'm a petite brunette with beautiful brown eyes and a respectful, discreet and well-spoken woman who carries herself with class and is bubbly and knows have to have good fun :smile: I host at my clean, discreet, smoke/pet free space located in Centretown West near Parkdale & Wellington. My schedule is somewhat flexible so the best way to book an appointment is to request the time and day more convenient for you and I'll do my best to accommodate. Please note I only see first time guests until 8PM. For more information visit my website and also become a member of my private site. For booking or questions, PM me or e-mail me at [email protected] or a text message at 613-400-2722 Isabella Gia A reminder ... Kidding ... Kind of hehe ;)

I totally agree. You need to take it easy, take a sane step approach. You are very young so you have lots and lots of time. You are fortunate and should take advantage of your young age. A massage is awesome, very relaxing and you get to have some intimate, quality and easy going time with a wonderful girl. Again, you are young and should take advantage of it. We are blessed with some amazing MAs in Ottawa :)

Emma and Cat and VJ are still around and fun !!! As for your hunch on Dorinda Bloom ...... She is an amazing lady !!!! Bright shiny and Fun fun fun. Nervous ? You'll be at ease with her in two seconds

Kissing is so monumental and important, it's definitely a deal-breaker for me! As others have mentioned, it's so exciting, pleasurable, fun, and the anticipation leading up to a first kiss is so thrilling. Ugh, just thinking about a good make-out session is wonderful! I will almost always prefer there to be kissing during encounters. I can understand why some do not want to partake in it, and that's fine as well, but given the choice, kissing is the ultimate foreplay and definitely a sure-fire way to have a great and passionate time together. Everyone in the world should make-out more, it would make the world a better place :) Posted via Mobile Device

I'll take C and B vitamins and the occasional oils, but it's always better to get your nutrients from foods. I don't eat meat, so I have to think a little more about where I'm going to get my protein and iron. I usually only supplement when I know I haven't been eating well (usually because of business travel).

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Seek the services of a massage person not a full escort, you have to walk before you run. massage relaxes, and endings will be happy ones. (trying to say what i need to say while avoiding censoring!). Repeat with one person until you feel ready to move onto the next stage, more intimate stage. Don't make the mistake some who are new to this by trying to do too much too soon with the wrong person, then repeating that mistake over and over with a different person for each encounter.

I think most of the ladies have at least a reasonable amount of experience with folks who are new to seeing escorts. As for what you're after... I'm sure there are many who could help you out ;) If nobody contacts you, I'd suggest looking around the site, reading a few ads and recos, and contact someone who you like the sound of. Do remember to read ads/websites thoroughly - some ladies do have minimum age restrictions that might mean they're not available to you. Good luck!

I definitely think that kissing is a major aspect of a great loving session. It may not be a deal breaker for me if the lady is not comfortable providing it. But I find my session the most satisfied and intimate when I am with a lady who loves deep passionate kisses with tongue action and a lot of enthusiasm.

I love to kiss.... anywhere and everywhere. This is not something I necessarily confirm before a visit - I'm happy to see where the chemistry takes us - but it will figure in my consideration of a repeat visit. I could even have a visit and be very satisfied even if things never progressed beyond kissing and making out on the couch, lol! After all those were me initial forays into exploration back in the day. I find kissing to be totally sensual.

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Hello Gabby, My name is Mark. I'm a gentlemen is my early 40's. I saw your ad on Lyla and I was wondering if you would be available tomorrow afternoon (or give an exact time) for a 2 hour in-call. Please call me back between 2pm and 5pm today or send me a text at your earliest convenience. Thanks! -------------------- In a few short sentences, you have addressed her by name, introduced yourself, given her a day, time and length for a rendez-vous, location preference (in or out) and the best way to reach you.

Yes Roamingguy, I understand the position of the Council in this regard, and the fact that they are legally responsible at the end of the day. I know all too well, after fighting a number of my own personal legal battles with government over the years, that the site cannot afford any controversy. However at the same time I find myself getting very worried about the bigger picture of society in general. With bills like C-36, quite effectively, putting gag orders on the general discussions extending far beyond just this site. This is a trend I see in various political realms. This is what I was referring to, as well as the present situation here. I have seen huge changes over the relatively short life span of the Internet. If you remember when Windows XP was brand new and Microsoft rolled out their first automatic updates service people were gravely concerned about privacy and related issues. Today, people seem to just accept things without critical thought. That disconnection and resulting apathy tend to centralize decision-making and disempower people. If the Internet were created today in the current political and social climate with sites like this even exist? To say nothing on the Internet itself. Apologies, now I'm rambling... time to hit the hay. PatrickGC

While I'm in no position to speak to the question of posting deleted, there is a parallel concern which has cropped up since the recent legal changes in Canadian law which has had a very sad impact on this site and many others as well. That is the censorship of certain words and phrases in order to protect the site from legal prosecution. (On a side note: Is there an official list which users can referred to before writing their comments?) For all involved in this industry this is an assault on free speech and indeed hampers open and honest discussion. Canadians have lost their right to free speech, and as yet this has not been challenged. I am personally worried that this is a "slippery slope" situation which could lead to further social rights erosion. Ultimately we will see the demise of Bill C-36, but we have to find a way to discuss this openly in order to bring about this change. This is a very sad time for Canada, and one I never thought I would see. PatrickGC

It's been awhile, New Brunswick! But I'm very excited to visit again very soon, and just in time for spring! I shall be visiting Moncton March 25-27 Charlottetown March 28-30 Saint John April 13-15 Fredericton April 16-18 and available for incall to my upscale, downtown suite while I am in town In case we've not yet had the pleasure.. I'm a 5'6 true brunette, with a movie star smile and bright gorgeous eyes that you'll love to have look back up at you.. With a toned, and moderately tattooed all natural body that I love to show off and share with certain respectful gentlemen and couples, Let my body be your playground.. I offer my sensual, pampering attention for those who appreciate the sweeter, softer side of a lady; and a wild, naughtier experience for those with more... curious tastes :p Openminded and genuine, I love to indulge fantasies, from the vanilla to things a bit more intense, my true passion is pleasing my guests! With a wardrobe to captivate many tastes, and accessories for both of our pleasures, the possibilities for pleasure are endless, just share with me what you might enjoy, and I'll take care of the rest! Shower, amenities, and even a fresh pouf are available if you'd like freshen up before or after our date :) Please visit my site for details on what I offer, review links, and more, or pm/email for more info! xx

Came across this one, thought wow she is awesome hot! The did a tineye search, the pic in red is from a poster/pin up site. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/triple-d-discreet-25-year-old-blonde-sexy-and-ready-to-be-your-fantasy/1892117

That's a bit much oldblueeyez; I show my face in my pictures, because I am not ashamed of what I do for a living and I am proud of how I look and wish to market that about myself. Each lady must make this choice for herself and weigh the pros and cons....not a decision to be taken lightly, indeed. But, let's not turn those of us who do show our faces into subjects of shame or stigma, or questionable moral fiber for choosing to do so, because that's what your inference is accomplishing. There is no parallel between that choice and how one handles matters of discretion. I conduct my business dealings with the utmost care. The gentlemen I see keep coming back for this and a plethora of other wonderful reasons. There are a number of other ladies who are active on this board who also show their faces and have great reputations. Best

Hi Everyone, council has asked me to "TRY" a health forum out. The contents of this section are just discussions on health and wellness subjects and not published by doctors or heath care professionals (they could be if a member is a doctor or heath care professional but lets just assume not!) We don't want a forum just filled with paranoid questions either or any comments stating that someone specific has a illness. This section can be used to discuss everything heath and wellness related. Discussions must remain positive (same rules of the entire site) and please try not to pass on bad information. Discussions are NOT to mention anyone with any specific heath issues or to vent about someone you think may have an illness or to announce you caught mono or something else from someone!

I hate hearing stories like that. to obviously and purposely scam people out of their money. But luckily with forms like this, those people get found out Sorry that happened Some people Just have no class

Pssssst :-) Hiya everyone ... (ALMOST everyone) nice to see the respectful responses on here and the WOT comments are deleted. Much Love and even more Roaring! 2015 has jusssst begun! ;-)

Scammers can and do post on all sites so one needs to check reviews first before booking someone and now more than ever. Thanks to bill C36 being made a law now, the only complaint a man can make is that he paid for a massage and never got it. He most certainly cannot complain of not getting sexual services!

To me connection and chemistry are two very different things, but come hand in hand.. Connection for me starts through a genuine conversation trying to feel each other out I do not know how it is for everyone, but I personally enjoy a proper introduction upon first communicating that way both parties can see if they are an equal fit for each other.. Chemistry naturally follows a genuine connection and most times for me in general it comes prior to meeting the first time.. A great conversation for connection I feel always leads to a equal feeling of chemistry!

Great Question. I have met people here on Cerb that I consider real friends as well. For example in Ottawa and a few cities I tour into I am fortunate enough to have an offer to be picked up at the airport and I never feel stuck in any city I frequent . If I were in real need I have friends I can contact. That is a gift I treasure. Thank you ladies and gentlemen for being there. One other thing I really appreciate prior to a first date is a proper letter of introduction. I enjoy getting to know people to the level they are comfortable. I am a talker and love visiting so when I get that nice first letter I know its going to go well and I really look forward to opening my door to that person. For me connection is first and that means getting to know each other, I find chemistry naturally follows that.

Ah chemistry and connection....... you might get it a bit through communications but the true test is upon meeting and even at first sight.......can't really explain it but I knew instantly and when it happens you know it. Only happened once for me that way, others it took a little time. The instant one is never forgotten. Peace MG

wow, sorry to hear that this happened to you Too bad girls don't use up to date pics, or pull bullshit like this, it makes it a scary situation for the guys. Hopefully you will continue to participate in hobbying, if the girl doesn't look like she portrays in her pictures, don't continue, just leave.

It's been a while since my last post, so i will mention these 4 that i seen in the past 3 weeks, except Vicki who i just seen this week. BROOKELLE: i seen this one during an out call, and it was quite short notice i was just lucky enough she was in the area near my hotel. She probably looks better all dolled up just like in her photos but because i didn't have much time, she just came over from the mall. She is shorter than i had expected, when i first met her, the rates she has posted recently did not match when i seen her, so i guess i was lucky. YMMV-although i guess she is open minded to other stuff that i don't practice, i didn't care to dive into those menu items. I just booked for HH. SADICA: Now her ad pops up here and there, i didn't see her ad this week or last, but it has been up the last 3 weeks for a while, so i decided to jump in! her in call was at a hotel near the airport, clean shaven, ymmv, i booked for HH, but it went close to an hour, i would totally repeat, but it seems her hours are earlier in the day and the latest i think i was told was 3pm. her CBJ skills were fantastic :) CASSIDY: this one is in the south end, now she works at a hotel i do not like to visit, so i booked a room further down pembina and she arrived at the time she said she would. She looks exactly like the photos except her hair is kind of different, YMMV, she is open to stuff i suggested, but she said it all depends how attracted she is to the client, the one thing i did find positive is that when her cell phone went off, she stopped and shut it down until we were done our session. i find that rare in sp.'s i meet, not all do that but its nice to see some one on one time. VICKI: i seen this gem on a lunch break, i would probably repeat but only on a weekend. just because although i don't care for people who smoke, when i got back to my office my co-workers could actually smell the smoke off my clothes, so i said ok next time, not while at work lol. Play Safe! Cheers PS69