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Painting every lady or client who uses textme with the same brush is much like saying every Muslim is a terrorist. You simply cannot generalize like that in real life. We can talk about establishing trust all we want. But think about when we book... The client doesn't know our real name, our home address, our personal email address -- so why do they need our personal cell phone number? Using these apps leaves the companion with the opportunity to "turn off" business when she wants to. Not everyone wants to carry two phones and not everyone is comfortable mixing business with personal - phone number or otherwise. I have had some wonderful gentleman who have explained why they use a text app and that is 100% ok with me. Additionally I have met some lovely ladies, who - for their own reasons, use a texting app. Choosing not to see a reputable lady because they use a texting app means you could miss out on a great experience. People do what they feel is best for them. If you aren't comfortable seeing someone - either lady or gentleman - that uses a texting app - that's your own choice. But take the time to ask why they use it. It could end up being a completely reasonable explanation. You just can't automatically judge someone on the technology they use. Just my thoughts.

Ad Dr. Seuss would say... I like kissing here or there. I like kissing anywhere. I like kissing deep or light I do like them if alright. I do like them on on the lips I do like them on all bits. I do like them here or there. I do like them anywhere. I do like them with some tongue. I do think they are quite fun. On a train! In a tree! In a car! Yes, come kiss me! I would, could, on a "box". I would, could, with a fox(y lady). I will kiss her feet to hair. I will kiss here or there. I will kiss her anywhere. I will kiss both lips and ass. I will kiss a lady with sass. I do like them Brad-I-am. Ahem. As for safety. Well nothing is 100% safe in this world and everyone has to decide for themselves what their comfort level is. I'll respect a lady's preference if she has a no-kissing rule though I won't deny disappointment. I do not, however, recommend kissing a dementor...

I do believe there are those addicted to sex. I can't comment on if many, any or lots are involved in the adult industry as I don't have any stats . For anyone to be helped, no matter their addiction, they have to want and seek the help themselves. Any addiction can lead to risky, sometimes shocking or dangerous behavior as the addicted will often act beyond their norm to get their fix of whatever it is they are addicted to. But only trained professionals can and should be the ones to offer help, support or advice. It's no one else's responsibility.

How exactly are you able to draw this conclusion? Also regarding ads, since I am offering time and companionship, why would I find it necessary to make a statement that if someone is seeking unprotected sex, that they should not ask, and seek help. That would infer that I only offer protected sex and why would I do such a thing? Also, industry aside, it is not up to me to ascertain if someone is a sex addict and counsel them accordingly. I am not qualified to do such. Even if I thought they were, unless their behaviour is impacting me, it's really none of my business. Finally, who is to say that sex addicts are only found in this industry? Unless they have an endless supply of funds, I would think that they would also seek out dating and hook-up sites to meet people. I believe there are a lot of assumptions being made on the part of the OP and I am not clear as to why he thinks it is up to this industry to save these people.

Wonderful story... I would have kept them for good! :biggrin:

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I'll have to chime in again because I think some people interpreted my last comments differently than I expected. I in no way said the girl is "sketchy", in fact I made sure to say she probably wasn't. What I did say is that this communication method is grossly misused by wrongful people, intent on doing harm and or other negative things. Until such people are eliminated from this world, I will never trust such apps. If clients want to use it, go ahead - but not with me. If SPs feel this works best for them, who am I to dictate? I simply shared my honest opinion of such apps, which was that I stay away. Far, far away.

I do not agree and will explain...I do use textme With that app I could get ride of my second phone...now im only using my personnal phone and no I don't want my personal number all over the place and I choose who I share it with...It has nothing to do with having something to hide or being sketchy... Just my opinion... Bianca

I received a few pairs of underwear at a discounted rate while buying other lingerie a few days ago. Never worn, still in the bag so I gave them to my friend. lol.

I agree that the use of the app may make someone decide to not book but so could a huge number of other factors... I fail to see how it less honest or open than working names... ads with no face pictures.. when we are talking about cell numbers and emails it's not like you can look them up in a directory... the text app is as open or honest as a burner phone purchased in a bogus name and address... in my opinion it's a red herring... look at the companions overall presence and reputation...A lady using an app does not make her dishonest and it's kinda insulting to the many reputable ladies who do to suggest that it does. Some ladies don't advertise a number at all but do use an app for texting after the initial contact.. are they dishonest... they don't hide the fact they are using an app? Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

Panties are to be worn with sexy lingerie so they can be peeled off lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

been quiet of late. my 16 year old daughter was almost the victim of a 27 year old internet creep from the states. When she told me about him and told me she wanted to meet him I said before you meet you have to agree to see the police and talk about this, She agreed and I took her in to talk. The police officer was a god send. He explained to her what was happening and she ended her so called relationship with the jerk. police are investigating him now and she is safe and seeing a counselor to learn why she was attracted to such a person and learn about healthy relationships. She has a lot of work ahead of her but at least she is doing it now and not latter on in life. All in all life has been stressful, best move ever was taking her into the police to talk. I am sure it saved her from something very bad happening.

It's actually a perfectly level playing field... clients can use an App and yes that might mean that some ladies will not accept booking requests but likewise a lady can use an App and some clients will not book with them. That said let's be realistic... for the client your exposure is only to the ladies you choose to make your number available too... so you totally control who has access to your number... if you do your research and stick to booking established ladies or ladies that can be verified that risk can be effectively managed so it is minimal... of course if you are less cautious you might increase your risk the choice is yours. In the case of a lady she is putting her number or email out to the world... she does not control who gets it and runs a huge risk that the person will harass her or bully her or try to out her so it's kind of reasonable that some ladies would use an app that is a cheap and easy way to have a number that they can use publicly and when their is a problem quickly discard. In reality the lady has to do what she needs to do to protect herself and I am ok with that. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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just catching up on season 4, anyone other than me like this series??

Hey all, Just wanted to say Thanks to all Who use this site......Has been useful to me as newbie. Keeps us all informed on the good and the bad experiences that are out there. Have met some really nice people on here & hope to meet more of you as time goes on!!. Just wanted to say Thank you!

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A very nice kiss and a huge hug is what I feel R needed so U and I understand there is still a connection until next time! Then again everybody is different for I have clients that just go for a hug or a basic kiss on the cheek. But when I reach for them for a nice sexy kiss and lovely hug and they respond we R then also both happy and looking forward next time we meet. One just needs to adapt in some cases and accept the situation presented to her. Barbara xxoo

Open minded means YMMV. Often offered in 1h+ sessions, it means that we may try new things, things you don't usually do with and SP. It can go from special treatment to games, to special request. I just don't kiss and tell since... YMMV!

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The ladies I know who use such apps tour frequently and use them to establish communication and screen potential clients before giving out their "real" cell number. As has been suggested, with anyone you wish to see, you need to do your research and ascertain whether they are an established and reputable companion. If they are, the use of such app, is inconsequential. I personally do not finalize bookings by text or email. The client has to be able to call me from a unblocked number which I can call back if need be. So, I do not accept bookings from clients who use those apps and I personally don't find a need for them. I have had potential clients contact me via the app you mentioned, and I tell them when they are ready to book, they need to call me from a "real number" and those who are serious, do so. So I don't think everyone who uses these apps are "sketchy", but we do need to be faithful to our booking protocol.

The inference is that a "real" number is open and honest. How is a "real" number attached to a $50 burner anymore open or honest than a texting app number?

Its 77Sierra77 Glad to hear you had a good time. She's awesome

What? Working names? Burner phones? Are you trying to tell me her God-given birth name isn't Loverly Snowflake? Snap! I suppose the next thing you're going to try to tell me is that wasn't her real apartment. I feel so... deceived. LOL So it goes....

Absolutely incredible time with Sierra today at lunch. I simply could not say enough about her sensuality, non-rushed, exquisite nature. To quote John Mayer (not something I normally do!) - Sierra is definitely sexual napalm! A true gem, gents. Treat her well! Does anyone know her cerb handle? I thought I saw a post by 777sierra777 or something like that, but can't find her now... Wanted to thank her! Cheers!

http://newbrunswick.craigslist.ca/rnr/4918233324.html hey guys wanted to say pm'd the original poster and cleared it up when this thread was first posted. That is an example of one my ads on c-list. And others. But not all of them lol. I found one of my pictures on a porn site and a escort agency I wasnt to happy about that. It could be worse though. I redirect them to my reviews here and another review board.

I didn't say it makes them dishonest. What I said "Openness and honesty is important in this lifestyle. Apps hiding cell numbers aren't open" The app isn't what I would call open As for a companion's overall presence and reputation, that works when the companion has been around awhile and established a reputation. A lady just getting started though, she doesn't have that presence and reputation yet. So something like this app used by a companion just starting out, well it doesn't appear she is open and may raise red flags to potential clients And irrespective, do you not agree that openness and honesty are important in this lifestyle? RG

I would wonder why a lady is trying to hide her cell number. Initial impressions are important and trust has to be established on both sides. So when someone does something like hiding her number, you have to wonder if she is hiding something else Even if the user's intent, be it a companion or client is innocent in using this app, they should know it can be cause for concern. A client may not get booked. A companion may miss out on seeing a potential client. Openness and honesty is important in this lifestyle. Apps hiding cell numbers aren't open A rambling from a guy who techie knowhow limited on these things but believes in openness and honesty RG

We all started with this hobby at one point, glad this site could help. I was noob no less than a year ago. :) enjoy your stay.

Well said. this community is an invaluable resource.

In my opinion there are many elements that go into a lady's reputation and to lady a lady as shady because they use a texting app is a bit much. I appreciate that there are other alternatives they could use (2 phones or dual sim phones) but who am I to tell them what is best for them. I suggest that people look at the big picture associated with the lady... do they have a web site, their advertising, their presence on sites like this and social media... what are their recommendations like... are they well know in the industry??? As I suggested on another similar thread there are lots of reasons for a lady to be cautious about what info ie phone number or email address they put out to the world so I can accept the usage of an ap as long as I can verify the lady's reputation in other ways. While I respect every ladies right to choose their own approach and understand that some clients might choose to not book with a lady who uses an Ap I think it is wrong to suggest that just because a lady does she must be "shady". Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Mine and thick, juicy and sensitive. I love wearing tank tops so I can slide my hands in and fondle them anytime I like. They respond eagerly to lips and tongues and hands Oh My!

I was raise on my dad's ranch and pretty energetic. Also lazy, I would rather play outside than do my chores and my brothers would tease me about playing with the Grasshoppers. And so, the name stuck...

I advertise on several sites, and I have had countless requests for b b f s. It never ceases to astound me at how many ask for this! It is something that I will never ever consider providing! I don't care how much money you have, how good you are, or how clean you claim to be. My health (and yours, hopefully) is important to me, and not worth losing over a stupidity act. As for fishing with any new sp as to if they offer this? Blacklisting happens very easily. Anyone that asks me persistently for this, definitely gets on my blacklist. Asking if I offer it isn't the problem, I politely state 'I do not offer that service, sorry'. If that satisfies your curiosity and you state you were just checking, no problem. When you moan/beg/whine/plead to try to get to me do it, that is when I blacklist. Regular testing is somewhat of a routine for me, it should be for anyone in this hobby. Don't ever take chances with your health, all it takes is once with someone, and now you have a potential problem. The sp may have been clean, but perhaps the last person she saw was not.

I recently visited an SP that uses textme.us. It was one of the best experiences I've had in a while. There are also SPs that use legitimate #s, but post fake pics and false information. This is the more prevalent type deceptive practice!Using a "Google #" is not only convenient, it's a self preservation technique for a married/working man. I can't afford the risk of using my primary cell to contact an SP, and I also can't afford the risk of owning a pay-as-you-go phone for private use. No matter how well hidden there will always be a risk of it being found.

So completely agree with this. Sierra is the best!

It is a double standard. A reputable escort builds her reputation on discretion and security of the information you provide her with. This is why it's always stressed to do your homework especially with new or transient providers. A lady usually has a website, contact details, recommendations, ads etc. She has put part of herself out there. Apps are easy and usually cost effective in a business where it counts. A person coming to see her is screened for a reason; they have nothing except the information they provide. This is why we request information that can be verified in some way. If you use this app, you can put in whatever information you like so in essence, if you use it, she knows nothing more about you then she did before you called or texted. Many times, the app blocks the number as well or makes it untraceable. Most ladies specify, no blocked numbers. It ALL comes down to safety which is why there is screening in the first place. Every gentleman has the option to either provide or not provide the requested information. You can have the app however if a lady does not accept that, that is her option. It is a personal business, and as such, the lady chooses to do what she is comfortable with and what makes her feel safe. Double standard or not, it is what it is.

Cris I hope you don't mind me using your thread to share an article related to this topic, I really enjoyed reading it and it reminds us that inner beauty is the only beauty we should be concerned about, that one will stay with us, looks not for too long. Here is a paragraph from the article ... 'The key is to love and accept who you are right now, and your present form, whether you are strong or weak, short or tall, young or old - and love your form as it changes throughout the days, weeks and years to come.' Here is the complete article and as I posted in a thread I started not too long ago, we are all good enough or at least we all have the potential to be :)

Nothing but a smile! Seriously, I love women in all kinds of attire and I very attracted to a woman with confidence and a great personality!

Unless otherwise requested I wear a sexy dress with nice lingerie underneath. Never forgetting stockings and a great pair of shoes. :icon_smile: I have been told by my old friends not to go to so much work getting ready. The way I think of it its the least I can do to show my appreciation to my date. If asked I am happy to wear jeans and a T or yoga pants.

Well since my dates tend to be the lady showing up at my room/suite I love, after hearing the knock on the door, to open it up and see her dressed in....whatever she is comfortable wearing She could be in a dress, or jeans & sweater or sweats or whatever she likes to wear. I'm just happy she's shown up and we are having an escape for at least a couple hours RG

Actually I kinda like the lady to wear whatever she feels sexy in... if that's jeans and a tee... great. If the lady feels sexy then the session will be sexy. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I had the chance to visit both of the girls, that Vipotg has in town, and i had a fantastic time for both. No duo is offered as they are staying in different locations, but if you have the chance to visit them both, I highly recommend it!

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