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Painting every lady or client who uses textme with the same brush is much like saying every Muslim is a terrorist. You simply cannot generalize like that in real life. We can talk about establishing trust all we want. But think about when we book... The client doesn't know our real name, our home address, our personal email address -- so why do they need our personal cell phone number? Using these apps leaves the companion with the opportunity to "turn off" business when she wants to. Not everyone wants to carry two phones and not everyone is comfortable mixing business with personal - phone number or otherwise. I have had some wonderful gentleman who have explained why they use a text app and that is 100% ok with me. Additionally I have met some lovely ladies, who - for their own reasons, use a texting app. Choosing not to see a reputable lady because they use a texting app means you could miss out on a great experience. People do what they feel is best for them. If you aren't comfortable seeing someone - either lady or gentleman - that uses a texting app - that's your own choice. But take the time to ask why they use it. It could end up being a completely reasonable explanation. You just can't automatically judge someone on the technology they use. Just my thoughts.

Ad Dr. Seuss would say... I like kissing here or there. I like kissing anywhere. I like kissing deep or light I do like them if alright. I do like them on on the lips I do like them on all bits. I do like them here or there. I do like them anywhere. I do like them with some tongue. I do think they are quite fun. On a train! In a tree! In a car! Yes, come kiss me! I would, could, on a "box". I would, could, with a fox(y lady). I will kiss her feet to hair. I will kiss here or there. I will kiss her anywhere. I will kiss both lips and ass. I will kiss a lady with sass. I do like them Brad-I-am. Ahem. As for safety. Well nothing is 100% safe in this world and everyone has to decide for themselves what their comfort level is. I'll respect a lady's preference if she has a no-kissing rule though I won't deny disappointment. I do not, however, recommend kissing a dementor...

I do believe there are those addicted to sex. I can't comment on if many, any or lots are involved in the adult industry as I don't have any stats . For anyone to be helped, no matter their addiction, they have to want and seek the help themselves. Any addiction can lead to risky, sometimes shocking or dangerous behavior as the addicted will often act beyond their norm to get their fix of whatever it is they are addicted to. But only trained professionals can and should be the ones to offer help, support or advice. It's no one else's responsibility.

How exactly are you able to draw this conclusion? Also regarding ads, since I am offering time and companionship, why would I find it necessary to make a statement that if someone is seeking unprotected sex, that they should not ask, and seek help. That would infer that I only offer protected sex and why would I do such a thing? Also, industry aside, it is not up to me to ascertain if someone is a sex addict and counsel them accordingly. I am not qualified to do such. Even if I thought they were, unless their behaviour is impacting me, it's really none of my business. Finally, who is to say that sex addicts are only found in this industry? Unless they have an endless supply of funds, I would think that they would also seek out dating and hook-up sites to meet people. I believe there are a lot of assumptions being made on the part of the OP and I am not clear as to why he thinks it is up to this industry to save these people.

Wonderful story... I would have kept them for good! :biggrin:

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I'll have to chime in again because I think some people interpreted my last comments differently than I expected. I in no way said the girl is "sketchy", in fact I made sure to say she probably wasn't. What I did say is that this communication method is grossly misused by wrongful people, intent on doing harm and or other negative things. Until such people are eliminated from this world, I will never trust such apps. If clients want to use it, go ahead - but not with me. If SPs feel this works best for them, who am I to dictate? I simply shared my honest opinion of such apps, which was that I stay away. Far, far away.

I do not agree and will explain...I do use textme With that app I could get ride of my second phone...now im only using my personnal phone and no I don't want my personal number all over the place and I choose who I share it with...It has nothing to do with having something to hide or being sketchy... Just my opinion... Bianca

I received a few pairs of underwear at a discounted rate while buying other lingerie a few days ago. Never worn, still in the bag so I gave them to my friend. lol.

I agree that the use of the app may make someone decide to not book but so could a huge number of other factors... I fail to see how it less honest or open than working names... ads with no face pictures.. when we are talking about cell numbers and emails it's not like you can look them up in a directory... the text app is as open or honest as a burner phone purchased in a bogus name and address... in my opinion it's a red herring... look at the companions overall presence and reputation...A lady using an app does not make her dishonest and it's kinda insulting to the many reputable ladies who do to suggest that it does. Some ladies don't advertise a number at all but do use an app for texting after the initial contact.. are they dishonest... they don't hide the fact they are using an app? Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

Panties are to be worn with sexy lingerie so they can be peeled off lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

been quiet of late. my 16 year old daughter was almost the victim of a 27 year old internet creep from the states. When she told me about him and told me she wanted to meet him I said before you meet you have to agree to see the police and talk about this, She agreed and I took her in to talk. The police officer was a god send. He explained to her what was happening and she ended her so called relationship with the jerk. police are investigating him now and she is safe and seeing a counselor to learn why she was attracted to such a person and learn about healthy relationships. She has a lot of work ahead of her but at least she is doing it now and not latter on in life. All in all life has been stressful, best move ever was taking her into the police to talk. I am sure it saved her from something very bad happening.

It's actually a perfectly level playing field... clients can use an App and yes that might mean that some ladies will not accept booking requests but likewise a lady can use an App and some clients will not book with them. That said let's be realistic... for the client your exposure is only to the ladies you choose to make your number available too... so you totally control who has access to your number... if you do your research and stick to booking established ladies or ladies that can be verified that risk can be effectively managed so it is minimal... of course if you are less cautious you might increase your risk the choice is yours. In the case of a lady she is putting her number or email out to the world... she does not control who gets it and runs a huge risk that the person will harass her or bully her or try to out her so it's kind of reasonable that some ladies would use an app that is a cheap and easy way to have a number that they can use publicly and when their is a problem quickly discard. In reality the lady has to do what she needs to do to protect herself and I am ok with that. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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I seen the lovely Annike at paradise this week could not believe how stunning she is in person . The massage was out of this world with all the body slides and the view in the long mirror just kept you wanting more . She was a lot of fun to talk to and really enjoys what she dose the hr just flew by to quickly went in there a fifty year old man left feeling like ,I was in my twenty's , So book fast guys because ,I will be definitely spending more time with this Angel .

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Open minded means YMMV. Often offered in 1h+ sessions, it means that we may try new things, things you don't usually do with and SP. It can go from special treatment to games, to special request. I just don't kiss and tell since... YMMV!

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All the adds linked in this thread of her. And believe me gentleman she is the real deal. I have met her several time and look forward to our next engagement. She has a few recos on this site. I may as well quote Seinfeld and say in regards to those picture "they are real, and spectacular".

Going to expand my drinks of choice here. A Vesper martini with an orange twist 3 oz Hendricks 1 oz Kettle one 1.5 oz Lillet Blanc Shake hard with ice, serve in a chilled glass, but only have one this drink will knock ya on your bum. Old fashioned 2oz bourbon Sugar cube Bitters Orange wheel Cherry Soak the sugar cube with the bitters muddle the add 1oz of bourbon and stir, add the ice then everything else, top off with soda. A Danish Mary, something I think is far better then a Ceasar 2 oz aquvit (A dill liquor) 2 oz ruby port Celery salt 2 dashs Tobasco sauce 2 dashs Worchestershire sauce Tomato or clamato juice Rim a glass with course salt and fine ground pepper, add ice then everything but the port and stir it well, then drizzle the port over the back of the spoon to create purple streaks that cascade against the red of the tomato juice. Garnish with a cocktail onion. Oscar Collins (from the most recent food and drink) 1oz gin .5oz simple syrup Sparkling white wine Add the gin and simple syrup over ice, top with sparkling wine and give a stir. Garnish with a lemon wheel and a pinched fresh cherry dropped right on top. For beer Porters or stouts in the winter and pilnsers for the summer And I just opened my first attempt at homemade flavored vodka, buy cheap high proof vodka cut a couple of orange and vanilla beans throw it all in a mason jar and let it sit for 40 days, then open and strain Mixology is a hobby of mine I like ending my day with a decent cocktail, at my last count I was sitting around 30 that I can do off the top of my head, I own a respectable set of bar tools and the proper glassware. To Ceasar fans out there I would highly recommend the danish Mary, it may just change your summer. Posted via Mobile Device

The ladies I know who use such apps tour frequently and use them to establish communication and screen potential clients before giving out their "real" cell number. As has been suggested, with anyone you wish to see, you need to do your research and ascertain whether they are an established and reputable companion. If they are, the use of such app, is inconsequential. I personally do not finalize bookings by text or email. The client has to be able to call me from a unblocked number which I can call back if need be. So, I do not accept bookings from clients who use those apps and I personally don't find a need for them. I have had potential clients contact me via the app you mentioned, and I tell them when they are ready to book, they need to call me from a "real number" and those who are serious, do so. So I don't think everyone who uses these apps are "sketchy", but we do need to be faithful to our booking protocol.

I went to school Commando once. Got the rest if the week off. lol Would you believe a buddy in the reserves brought a grenade launcher to school?! It was empty but he still got in shit, though not the kind of shit a kid would've gotten into these days. Another buddy did a biology project demonstrating the lethal effects of cyanide as he killed tadpoles in a jar. He was "detained" for a while too while they tried to figure out where he got it from. Ahhh, the 80s. Everybody's so touchy these days.

http://newbrunswick.craigslist.ca/rnr/4918233324.html hey guys wanted to say pm'd the original poster and cleared it up when this thread was first posted. That is an example of one my ads on c-list. And others. But not all of them lol. I found one of my pictures on a porn site and a escort agency I wasnt to happy about that. It could be worse though. I redirect them to my reviews here and another review board.

The impression that you and others have left is that the use of an App is an indication of hiding something and not being open and being dishonest... i am saying that while it is true' someone could use an app to hide and be dishonest it is not fair to suggest that or leave the impression that all who do are being any less open... i suggest you look at the full package a lady presents and then make your own decision. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

We all started with this hobby at one point, glad this site could help. I was noob no less than a year ago. :) enjoy your stay.

I'm currently studying psychology and neuroscience, though I'm by no means an authority, and am actually academically interested in exactly this topic. It's a complicated topic! First off, to address RG's question, a "normal" behaviour can be the focus of an addiction if it has certain characteristics. Addictions involve biological, neurochemical and behavioural components that can all be observed and measured to some extent, and involve specific structures in the brain that are generally termed the "reward centre." Behavioural addictions can activate and affect the reward centre of the brain in very similar ways to substance addictions. That's why gambling addiction is a recognized disorder in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-5). Sex addiction is a lot more controversial, and it has been classified in previous DSM versions, but removed from the DSM 5. Escalation of the type of sex a person seeks isn't necessarily a sure-fire sign if addiction on its own, as there are a lot of other criteria that need to be met for a diagnosis to be confirmed. One study I just finished reading actually found very little correlation between the level of "deviance" of a person's sexual interests and their level of compulsive behaviour. Most people investigating the sex industry are interested in the motivation that drives the ladies to work in that field. I would bet that there are as many variations of motivation that drive clients to be consumers of their services. I'm sure addiction is a part of the demographic. An abnormally high percentage of the demographic? I dunno. I'm not there yet, but I'd love to research it. If we believe our illustrious leaders in government (I'm unconvinced), it would almost definitely have to be the case. And, if it were, how does criminalizing clients address what is essentially a mental health issue, then? As RG would say, just some ramblings.

Mine are small and have hair around them LOL Had to post it :)

Well first I'm no expert, not pretending to be. But some ideas First I personally am not a fan of someone using the term sex addict. There may be some, but I am of the opinion that most people using the label sex addict do so to excuse their behaviour. A spouse caught cheating for example by his/her SO justifies the action, "It's not my fault, I have a disease, sex addiction" Questions, how can a normal activity (sex) be an addiction? How can escalating bad behaviour be considered sex addiction. It strikes me more as the profile of someone who may be a serial rapist As for what can be done...it is up to the "addicted" party to seek help. Last I looked we are all responsible for our own actions. Even if labelled with a diagnosis of sex addict, it still doesn't mitigate personally responsibility. He/she isn't exempt from treating others with respect. Non consensual violent behaviour, asking for unprotected sex etc, well within the community they should be blacklisted. If criminal acts (assault, sexual assault for example) they should also be reported to the police It isn't up to this industry to get sex addicts out of this industry. It is up to the individual to seek professional help and with the assistance of professional help get away from this lifestyle Just my opinion RG

In my opinion there are many elements that go into a lady's reputation and to lady a lady as shady because they use a texting app is a bit much. I appreciate that there are other alternatives they could use (2 phones or dual sim phones) but who am I to tell them what is best for them. I suggest that people look at the big picture associated with the lady... do they have a web site, their advertising, their presence on sites like this and social media... what are their recommendations like... are they well know in the industry??? As I suggested on another similar thread there are lots of reasons for a lady to be cautious about what info ie phone number or email address they put out to the world so I can accept the usage of an ap as long as I can verify the lady's reputation in other ways. While I respect every ladies right to choose their own approach and understand that some clients might choose to not book with a lady who uses an Ap I think it is wrong to suggest that just because a lady does she must be "shady". Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Cleaning something before I give it to a lady No matter how much washing I do it still is red in parts...strange because it hasn't been used in quite awhile ;-) Going to wrap it up for safety before I give it to her though RG :-)

I advertise on several sites, and I have had countless requests for b b f s. It never ceases to astound me at how many ask for this! It is something that I will never ever consider providing! I don't care how much money you have, how good you are, or how clean you claim to be. My health (and yours, hopefully) is important to me, and not worth losing over a stupidity act. As for fishing with any new sp as to if they offer this? Blacklisting happens very easily. Anyone that asks me persistently for this, definitely gets on my blacklist. Asking if I offer it isn't the problem, I politely state 'I do not offer that service, sorry'. If that satisfies your curiosity and you state you were just checking, no problem. When you moan/beg/whine/plead to try to get to me do it, that is when I blacklist. Regular testing is somewhat of a routine for me, it should be for anyone in this hobby. Don't ever take chances with your health, all it takes is once with someone, and now you have a potential problem. The sp may have been clean, but perhaps the last person she saw was not.

I recently visited an SP that uses textme.us. It was one of the best experiences I've had in a while. There are also SPs that use legitimate #s, but post fake pics and false information. This is the more prevalent type deceptive practice!Using a "Google #" is not only convenient, it's a self preservation technique for a married/working man. I can't afford the risk of using my primary cell to contact an SP, and I also can't afford the risk of owning a pay-as-you-go phone for private use. No matter how well hidden there will always be a risk of it being found.

That's it, I'm going to France! Lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

When we are grateful, so many wonderful things in life begin to happen. Another favorite... love and abundance meditation video which is very powerful: I listen to both of these every morning. Additional Comments: I live and breathe Abraham Hicks so here's a few....

So completely agree with this. Sierra is the best!

I tend to wear something of a business attire, so pencil skirt with a nice shirt and heels, but always have a matching bra set underneath. The majority of my work is massage, so I like to wear something that is easy to slip off to not get oils on my cloths;) Lately I have been a fan of nice leggings ( yoga leggings) with a crop top and heels. It is comfortable and cozy and hugs the ass cheeks so nicely! I also love a nice onezy piece, with a nice pattern or color.

Well since my dates tend to be the lady showing up at my room/suite I love, after hearing the knock on the door, to open it up and see her dressed in....whatever she is comfortable wearing She could be in a dress, or jeans & sweater or sweats or whatever she likes to wear. I'm just happy she's shown up and we are having an escape for at least a couple hours RG

I have to agree with Ice4Fun. Attitude and comfort count for a lot. The same piece of lingerie can either be the sexiest site on this planet or just another article of clothing depending on the attitude and personality of the one wearing it. I'm not sure I have a favourite, but being a fan of novelty and variety I do appreciate it when an outfit is a little outside the norm. My favourite is also going to change depending on my mood. Every option you listed sounded appealing. I only wish all of life's choices could be that kind of agonizing. :)

Perhaps I'ma traditionalist but you can't beat sexy lingerie for getting my engine running. In certainly not opposed to costumes or role play as well, but some tasteful lingerie (doesn't even have to be too revealing..... yet) really does it for me.

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IMPORTANT: In 30 days we are changing the PRIVATE PROFILE abilities. Council has decided to REMOVE that feature as it is being abused so ALL profiles will before PUBLICLY VIEWED. No bad apples can hide behind private profiles this way. Unfortunately those of you who use this feature to hide from stalkers and such will loose the ability. Because of this we are not making the change instantly instead we are giving everyone a 30 day notice.

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I'm a short skirt wearer all summer long as well... and indoors all year round :)