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Hey baby, if you want me to be married, yes I am. I will be what ever you want for our time together. However, if you want others to tell you WHO is married, not really cool.

It is a tricky question to answer, as I find often you are damned if you do and damned if you don't answer it. Like I have lost clients for being truthful, but yet have gained by answering too. This also applies to answering the question " have you had many appts today" If you say yes, you may turn them off, if you say no, then they were hoping you did. I refrain from answering these questions now. Like, I do not ask if they are married or not, it does not matter and is up to them to tell me if they want to.

There very well be married ladies. I would assume as in any cross section of society you will find this. Is this a question I would as an SP? Not a chance! Most everyone I'm aware of goes to great lengths to maintain distance between their regular life and their working life. I respect that boundary and would never ask.

I have to agree with everyone when it comes to sharing a lady's personal information with others (a big no-no) but I don't see anything wrong with him asking and having the lady herself PM him directly (or even post in this thread IF SHE wishes) and fulfill his fantasy. OP, I hope you find what you're looking for. That's as close as I'll ever be to being married lol I love my freedom and our virtual arrangement works just fine for me! :) RG, when are we going to finally all get together to celebrate a different kind of honeymoon? ;) Malika, since our current arrangement is great, perhaps I should introduce you to Virtual Hubby #2 and #3?

Unless they publicly post about it, no other client has the right or permission to tell you, the OP, about sps who have SOs. Sorry, but no.

My biggest concern is that the PM is quite capable of winning another election. There are two areas which concern me, not about specific legislation, but about his style. In the US, although dysfunctional in their own way, their three branches of government are independent and counterbalance each other, Here with a majority Harper controls both the administrative and legislative branches, and seems to thumb his nose at the supreme court, by flouting their decisions. If you remember he came to power by painting the Liberals as dishonest and in government to further their own interests. He promptly introduced accountability and transparency legislation. I think it's pretty clear that he doesn't believe in these ideas. He runs a government that hides behind secrecy, and I believe puts the interests of the Conservative party above the idea of good non partisan governance designed to further the interests of the average Canadian.

I don't think politicians are any different from one to the other. They all have agendas, twist and turn them as their power strengthens and terms lengthen. They all have their own motivations to win, none of which is the betterment of the general public. So the option is to choose the lesser of the evils. To think that times were better is imo being kind to past follies but we all see things differently. People have to conform and change as times and governments change. What else can anyone do? With bill c36 we acclimate, carry on, survive and thrive. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and more clever;) As far as the anti terrorism legislation, it's about power and control not our safety. I believe we are all being mislead about the truths of who the real terrorists are. But these are things I can't change nor completely understand so I focus on what I can and do.

The lady that is married and wants him to know can always just PM him. Good answer Sophia.

Old Man Winter, you are hereby given notice that you have overstayed your lease on the Maritimes. The Sheriff will be here on Friday, March 20, 2015 to REMOVE ALL YOUR BELONGINGS. Don't let the door kick you in the ASS.

yeah, Sens win again, Boston looses so we're 5 points behind with 1 game in hand. Isn't this fun.

After doing a little site browsing and not really finding what I was looking for, I decided to ask my question. I enjoy this aspect and have been told I have great hands. When it comes to a hand job, I'm making an assumption everyone likes an attentive SP ie: varied tempo and pressure, attention to the balls, varied grips. But when it cums to a finish, do you like to build straight to it or do you like multiple builds? Or like anything else, does this depend on what you're in the mood for at the time? In addition, is there anything you REALLY enjoy about it (certain grips, strokes etc)?

30 minutes just isn't enough time to get to know a lady, and be comfortable with her before having an intimate encounter. On the other hand, I never seem to last a full hour, especially when I'm with a lady that is very sensual.I've requested 45 minute appointments a few times and am usually accommodated. For me, a 45 minute appointment means that I have enough time for an enjoyable encounter, and I can visit my favorite ladies a bit more frequently. Would anyone else like to see 45 minute appointments become a standard offering?

I don't think anyone would publicly admit that because it may ruin the fantasy for some. I've had guys try to ask indirectly that why' a nice woman like me is still single. If that's their way of finding out if I have a boyfriend or something more serious, they will disappointed. Mr Right hasn't reached his full manifestation just yet. ;

A 45 minute appointment would not be something that I would look for but if it works for the lady and the client then good for them. Just my Qpinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Newbie here at the national capital Ottawa. Cheers!

But we are all accepting of each other, no possessiveness, no jealousies. We are all thinking of moving to Salt Lake City Utah LOL Roamingguy has two Wifeys and a BBFF (best beautiful friend forever) I answer to roamingguy, RG, hubby, "your going to wear pink or else" but I call myself Lucky RG

I am in an online poly-triad marriage with Roamingguy and Gabriella Laurence. Emily Rushton often seem to be in the mix... Does that count as being married? (most of this silliness happen over Twitter)

It's the perfect amount of time for a "nooner"... lol

I implemented 45 minute appts a while ago and it is a good time to frame to offer. Some people just don't have an hour in the middle of the day while they often sneak away from work to meet a lady and sometimes a half hour isn't enough.

I don't like anything less than an hour. I hate to feel rushed. I want to relax and just enjoy it and the company. I don't watch the clock what happens happens. In the end I want the lady to say she had a good time. For me there is always the next time.

I prefer 60 to 90 min. appts. I like to take my time even if I meet the Lady for the first time or the 100 the time.

It is good to see Dave Cameron getting a chance as a coach, playoffs could happen if the Sens continue to get the fantastic goaltending. Additional Comments: A big game in Tampa tonight, the results could decide first place in this division, if our Habs win we have a four point lead with a game in hand over Tampa, Mr Price will have to have another stellar game for this to happen.

To each their own, some want 15 min appts, 40 min appts, soon it'll be 5 min appts, lol!. I just don't get why some get worried about 15 mins, whether that is over or under. Sometimes my clients are a little under their time , some a little over, it all balances out in the end. What I want is for the gent to be happy when he leaves. Lets face it no one is done at the same time, every session. But if you provide that option then hopefully you'll find it to be beneficial.

Good evening everyone! I know that for most what I am about to write is a no brainer, however it seems that at most previous socials, we had to take some ppl aside and explain how to behave at these events. So hopefully this will be clear enough. 1. Respect: Appropriate language is to be used when addressing other members. We have many wonderful ladies attending and they are to be addressed as such! 2. What is inside a lady's pants, dress or in their chest area belongs to the lady not the gentlemen's hands. If you can't control ur hands, buy 2 drinks at once to make sure they are busy. Anyone improperly behaving will be asked to leave immediately. As for dress code, there are none per say. Its an individual choice as long as you do wear clothes that cover's most of your body and that they are clean. Lets all make sure everyone can enjoy a wonderful evening! Alexxandria and loneskater!

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

I ignore such things as an SP... google #s and other spoofed numbers indicate to me that you have something to hide. Even though this is kind of expected from men who are married or have jobs they are concerned about losing. Fine, I get it. But guess what? Guys intent on doing us harm would also do this. At the end of the day, MY PERSONAL SAFETY is of paramount importance to me, as should yours be to you. I'm not saying the girl in question is unsafe or up to no good...Maybe it's her personal cell tied to her real name and she doesn't want to mix that in with this business? But perhaps she should get herself a phone number that is legit to use for the hobby so as to not give off an air of .... sketchiness.

You may want to know more about the lady you are seeing, but right there, that is an unrealistic expectation. I don't know many ladies who are open or comfortable sharing personal details like that. At least not when they first meet someone (or ever). In fact, from my experience that is a sure way to ruin the mood. I have great connections with many of my clients who are not privy to my personal business, nor me theirs. There are some gents I have gotten to know over the years who have become more privy to certain things, but they do not text or email me out of the blue just to chit chat. An occasional hello is great, but incessant texting or emailing is not only time consuming but inappropriate I believe. If you don't hobby often but would like to stay in touch via email on a regular basis, perhaps negotiate a set number of emails per week or month and expected turn-around time, where you compensate her for her time to doing this. If you're feeling of a genuine connection is you wanting to be "friends" with her by sharing personal stuff, then you are being totally unrealistic in my opinion. Just remember yes, it's a business transaction, but that doesn't mean we she isn't being genuine when you are together.

I disagree... one can be happily married and still go hobbying... I love my wife, I see service providers because the sexual needs of my wife and I do not mesh, but otherwise I am quite happy with her... we get along as good friends... no plans on leaving her what so ever...

Cool topic idea:) I have been told I give an extremely nice hand job. I think that if you are creative, and putting alot of visual stimulation to your hand job it helps in the art of teasing and pleasing. Visual stimulation is the key to any kind of session. I will use my breasts, rubbing the head of the penis up and down between my breast, on my nips, and always lots of good lube:) This is a good way to start it off and returning to this method a few times throughout. Visual stimulation is also shared by almost touching the penis to my lips, not really doing it, a mere warm breath is felt, and this is great arousal!! I find many men like it when your hand covers over the head, and not stroking down, but rather stroking up wards. Changing your grip and pressure is a must, so that you are not boring your participant. When done proper, this can be so much fun and your participant will be so excited and aroused that all other activities are forgotten about, and the satisfaction is certainly felt:)

Really no choice... Peace MG

If being with a married woman is your fantasy then let your imagination run wild in your time spent with a lady. Fantasize she is married, she is a virgin, your the best she has every had, your turning her on in ways she has never been turned on before. Whatever you do, do not let reality hamper your fantasy.

To indulge the use of the alcoholic comparison, a bar is obliged to cut off a patron if they seem obviously intoxicated. Whether that happens or not, and at what point a specific bartender will determine a person to be drunk, are up for debate. What isn't up for debate is that a bar will not refuse entry to someone who comes to the bar every day of the week, as an alcoholic might. Since sex addiction wouldn't, in our current frame of discussion, mean the client is having sex with a provider dozens of times in one day, the only way you could argue that the provider would guess a possible addiction is if the client comes back day after day. In this industry, that's considered a "regular", and doesn't particularly indicate pathology. Going with the bartender theme, if one won't refuse a repeat customer, why would a sex worker? @RG, I find your assertions that there might only be a "few" sex addicts in the mix, and probably fewer here, in this industry, than elsewhere, interesting. Why would you, or what are your reasons for thinking that? Sex workers are not therapists. They aren't here to diagnose or treat disorders, particularly one this complex. Addicts also are, by their nature, not likely to readily recognize that they have an issue and self-seek help. Assuming either of those things is a pretty big mistake.

My private life is irrelevant as is yours unless we have specifically agreed upon a role play type of encounter. If we reach a point where we wish to discuss more about our personal lives, that is a decision we have mutually agreed upon and would be considered "just between us". I wouldn't ask a lady to let me know who is single, married, in shape, well off etc... If you have a fantasy of being with another man's wife, then describe your fantasy to the lady you wish to see and she can let you know her comfort level!

Harper as MOD? Argh! This should be added to the "things that suck" thread. I think he should have a tougher time with the upcoming election... Canada's economy fell out of the ugly tree and is currently hitting every branch on the way down due to our reliance on natural resources. telling the difference between parties is becoming challenging for me I just hope for minority every time. bill c51 or variation there of seems to be all the rage in a growing number of developed nations, it is frightening but Canadians will win in the long run, unless they change the people.... Always the best country!

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I like it anyway as long as it is in a women's hand the speed should vary with attention paid to the head and the sac. Lots of lubricant, build it up and then let it slow down. The feeling of getting ready to cum is almost as good as the climax. I like to look into a ladies eyes while she is buffing the carrot. Most times we are both rewarded with a good load. All this is making me look forward to it happening soon

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I'll have to chime in again because I think some people interpreted my last comments differently than I expected. I in no way said the girl is "sketchy", in fact I made sure to say she probably wasn't. What I did say is that this communication method is grossly misused by wrongful people, intent on doing harm and or other negative things. Until such people are eliminated from this world, I will never trust such apps. If clients want to use it, go ahead - but not with me. If SPs feel this works best for them, who am I to dictate? I simply shared my honest opinion of such apps, which was that I stay away. Far, far away.

I do not agree and will explain...I do use textme With that app I could get ride of my second phone...now im only using my personnal phone and no I don't want my personal number all over the place and I choose who I share it with...It has nothing to do with having something to hide or being sketchy... Just my opinion... Bianca

Hi Everybody! I don't know if I'm too much of a newbie to start a thread, especially one on such a strong subject but it's one that I feel very strongly about: BBFS in the Hobby, I don't get how anyone can justify it. Browsing other boards that are, lets say, less politically correct than this one I see an increasing amount of talk around either more and more SPs offering BBFS ... one post even had a link to a BP ad near TO where the SP has it listed in her extras!! ... or johns asking for it, sometimes very aggressively according to some ladies. It seems prevalent enough that they even started a board dedicated to the pursuit of this dangerous activity!! (I won't promote it here) Unless I'm really behind the times and some new miracle cure as been invented for all STDs isn't this pretty much the most dangerous activity to experiment in? Also, being a DATY lover this "trend" is scaring the living crap out of me. Aside from the very obvious heath risks involved (HIV being at the top of the list), the thought of ... squeamish people turn away now! ... licking up someones sloppy seconds is totally disgusting!! ... call me a prude but I won't even snowball my own stuff! lol Levity aside I don't want to die, or be incapacitated, from this hobby because a few morons (male and female alike) want to play russian roulette with their sex lives. Now a few posters, again on other boards, have suggested starting screening new SPs when booking by asking if they provide the service as if you want it, the logic being they will then expose themselves more freely. Really not sure about this one, First I would need to play the creep (not my style), and second using this method might put me on the blacklist with the careful, reputable ones and ruin my rep. I mainly repeat with 2 lovely ladies I'm very comfortable with but I like to "explore new territory" once in a while so a screening method would help ease my mind. Any comment on the subject ... from both Service Providers and fellow hobbyists ... would be appreciated. Also, I'm very curious as to what the general consensus on the subject is? Am I overreacting here or is it as dangerous as I feel it is? Is it something that's more prevalent in other market/cities where competition is more fierce?

The ladies I know who use such apps tour frequently and use them to establish communication and screen potential clients before giving out their "real" cell number. As has been suggested, with anyone you wish to see, you need to do your research and ascertain whether they are an established and reputable companion. If they are, the use of such app, is inconsequential. I personally do not finalize bookings by text or email. The client has to be able to call me from a unblocked number which I can call back if need be. So, I do not accept bookings from clients who use those apps and I personally don't find a need for them. I have had potential clients contact me via the app you mentioned, and I tell them when they are ready to book, they need to call me from a "real number" and those who are serious, do so. So I don't think everyone who uses these apps are "sketchy", but we do need to be faithful to our booking protocol.

I agree that the use of the app may make someone decide to not book but so could a huge number of other factors... I fail to see how it less honest or open than working names... ads with no face pictures.. when we are talking about cell numbers and emails it's not like you can look them up in a directory... the text app is as open or honest as a burner phone purchased in a bogus name and address... in my opinion it's a red herring... look at the companions overall presence and reputation...A lady using an app does not make her dishonest and it's kinda insulting to the many reputable ladies who do to suggest that it does. Some ladies don't advertise a number at all but do use an app for texting after the initial contact.. are they dishonest... they don't hide the fact they are using an app? Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Unfortunately she posted fake photos here on cerb. She was suspended for this (banned for a minimum 6 months) good sp or not I would encourage everyone not to support such a thing.

Your mileage may vary, as they say. To return to the original point of this thread... quite apart from the money issue, remember that when you pay to see Alotta Fagina, what you're getting is... what you want (or at least, what she thinks you want). It's not that what you see is fake or unreal, necessarily, but... Alotta won't spend the first half-hour with you unloading about the horrible morning she had, even if she did. She won't say she's tired and she'd rather not, even if that's the case. She won't bring you her problems, because that's not what you're there for. So, when you're thinking about what you feel about her, remember that behind the Alotta Fagina you think of so fondly, there's another person who you've never met. Of course, that doesn't mean you can't maintain cordial relations outside scheduled appointments... but it's better not to trespass upon her time more than she's happy with (and how much that is may vary enormously) and it's unwise to assume that it'll lead to anything more, even if that may happen very occasionally.

Jobin, I think that makes you human... It is natural to develop a certain affection to romantic partners. It is a tricky business for both parties. You would think money is there to prevent feelings from developing, but there is a thin line between treating those relationships as affairs - involving feelings, expectations of one another... or as business transactions. And it differs with each partner, based on chemistry. As harsh as that may sound, given the fact that you are married maybe you should stay clear of the girls you "like" ;) Good luck out there Aellyn

congratulations ... you are human lol no seriously, what you are feeling is completely normal. It is natural to grow feelings for anyone you have slept with.. You are obviously seeing good girls but you must always remind yourself that we are providing you with a fantasy, it is not real life. Your real life belongs with your wife and your family.. just enjoy the times you spend with the ladies you choose but don't forget about your reality have fun xoxo

BBFS I really hope to change your mind So please listen to my plea Rumour has it SPs from my city Offer full service BB Which means they use no condom When letting clients 'in' You all know in this business That's a major mortal sin We must keep one another safe It's the only thing we've got So by accepting this behaviour You're worse off than I thought No amount of cash you've got Will convince me to sex bare If you ever try and do it I'll crush your balls I swear Paid sex can't be unprotected Your dick could get infected So for those of us who don't And no matter what we won't Are the ones you need to see To remain STD free

I always felt that those that want or demand this type of service are actually already infected, angry that they are, and want to spread it around. Conversations I've had are typically "you don't know ME from a hole in the ground, you know I work in this industry, why would you think I am clean?????" I know I am clean, I get regular testing, but they don't know that. So, I go with the assumption that they are infected and stay as far away from them as possible. I am also noticing an increace in clients that don't even think they have to pay extra for this service. I should automatically give them this service because they are so special...WTF I have a neighbour who was on a break from her boyfriend. She wanted to meet new guys, and would actually go see strangers, give bbbj, cim, and bbfs because in her words "it tastes so good, and I can't get pregnant". I was horrified that she seemed to think this type of behavious was not dangerous and I had to give her a lesson in STI 101. She ended up getting back with her boyfriend, and of course he found the videos she made of these various guys she was giving it away to. It seems that there is a mentality out there that "I can't get it, so I will do what I want". Thank you OP for starting this thread. I know many sps that really can't believe how things have changed and the pressure we feel to give services we don't want to do because if we don't we won't get clients. I say, if it means I will never see another client because I want to live to be a horny OLD woman, then at least I still have my fingers and toys and water pressure to help me out. Stay safe everyone - don't do something you realize will jeapordize your life and wellness. xoxo meaghan

It's as dangerous as you think. It's a lot like a client saying to an SP, "hey, can I draw some of my blood with this needle and inject it into your veins during our session? Don't worry, I'm totally clean." It's a ridiculously stupid, reckless, and insulting thing to expect. I think there are two things going on here: a) the client may genuinely feel like sex with a condom just isn't the same and he really wants the full unprotected thing (and he's a complete idiot, ignorant or for some reason indifferent to the obvious risks to health and life for both involved) b) the client wants to prove he can force his will past the woman's sensible boundaries; essentially proving "my money puts me in charge and you will deny me nothing I want". Anyone looking for this is simply insane.