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Hey baby, if you want me to be married, yes I am. I will be what ever you want for our time together. However, if you want others to tell you WHO is married, not really cool.

It is a tricky question to answer, as I find often you are damned if you do and damned if you don't answer it. Like I have lost clients for being truthful, but yet have gained by answering too. This also applies to answering the question " have you had many appts today" If you say yes, you may turn them off, if you say no, then they were hoping you did. I refrain from answering these questions now. Like, I do not ask if they are married or not, it does not matter and is up to them to tell me if they want to.

There very well be married ladies. I would assume as in any cross section of society you will find this. Is this a question I would as an SP? Not a chance! Most everyone I'm aware of goes to great lengths to maintain distance between their regular life and their working life. I respect that boundary and would never ask.

I have to agree with everyone when it comes to sharing a lady's personal information with others (a big no-no) but I don't see anything wrong with him asking and having the lady herself PM him directly (or even post in this thread IF SHE wishes) and fulfill his fantasy. OP, I hope you find what you're looking for. That's as close as I'll ever be to being married lol I love my freedom and our virtual arrangement works just fine for me! :) RG, when are we going to finally all get together to celebrate a different kind of honeymoon? ;) Malika, since our current arrangement is great, perhaps I should introduce you to Virtual Hubby #2 and #3?

Unless they publicly post about it, no other client has the right or permission to tell you, the OP, about sps who have SOs. Sorry, but no.

My biggest concern is that the PM is quite capable of winning another election. There are two areas which concern me, not about specific legislation, but about his style. In the US, although dysfunctional in their own way, their three branches of government are independent and counterbalance each other, Here with a majority Harper controls both the administrative and legislative branches, and seems to thumb his nose at the supreme court, by flouting their decisions. If you remember he came to power by painting the Liberals as dishonest and in government to further their own interests. He promptly introduced accountability and transparency legislation. I think it's pretty clear that he doesn't believe in these ideas. He runs a government that hides behind secrecy, and I believe puts the interests of the Conservative party above the idea of good non partisan governance designed to further the interests of the average Canadian.

I don't think politicians are any different from one to the other. They all have agendas, twist and turn them as their power strengthens and terms lengthen. They all have their own motivations to win, none of which is the betterment of the general public. So the option is to choose the lesser of the evils. To think that times were better is imo being kind to past follies but we all see things differently. People have to conform and change as times and governments change. What else can anyone do? With bill c36 we acclimate, carry on, survive and thrive. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and more clever;) As far as the anti terrorism legislation, it's about power and control not our safety. I believe we are all being mislead about the truths of who the real terrorists are. But these are things I can't change nor completely understand so I focus on what I can and do.

The lady that is married and wants him to know can always just PM him. Good answer Sophia.

Old Man Winter, you are hereby given notice that you have overstayed your lease on the Maritimes. The Sheriff will be here on Friday, March 20, 2015 to REMOVE ALL YOUR BELONGINGS. Don't let the door kick you in the ASS.

yeah, Sens win again, Boston looses so we're 5 points behind with 1 game in hand. Isn't this fun.

After doing a little site browsing and not really finding what I was looking for, I decided to ask my question. I enjoy this aspect and have been told I have great hands. When it comes to a hand job, I'm making an assumption everyone likes an attentive SP ie: varied tempo and pressure, attention to the balls, varied grips. But when it cums to a finish, do you like to build straight to it or do you like multiple builds? Or like anything else, does this depend on what you're in the mood for at the time? In addition, is there anything you REALLY enjoy about it (certain grips, strokes etc)?

30 minutes just isn't enough time to get to know a lady, and be comfortable with her before having an intimate encounter. On the other hand, I never seem to last a full hour, especially when I'm with a lady that is very sensual.I've requested 45 minute appointments a few times and am usually accommodated. For me, a 45 minute appointment means that I have enough time for an enjoyable encounter, and I can visit my favorite ladies a bit more frequently. Would anyone else like to see 45 minute appointments become a standard offering?

I don't think anyone would publicly admit that because it may ruin the fantasy for some. I've had guys try to ask indirectly that why' a nice woman like me is still single. If that's their way of finding out if I have a boyfriend or something more serious, they will disappointed. Mr Right hasn't reached his full manifestation just yet. ;

A 45 minute appointment would not be something that I would look for but if it works for the lady and the client then good for them. Just my Qpinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Newbie here at the national capital Ottawa. Cheers!

But we are all accepting of each other, no possessiveness, no jealousies. We are all thinking of moving to Salt Lake City Utah LOL Roamingguy has two Wifeys and a BBFF (best beautiful friend forever) I answer to roamingguy, RG, hubby, "your going to wear pink or else" but I call myself Lucky RG

I am in an online poly-triad marriage with Roamingguy and Gabriella Laurence. Emily Rushton often seem to be in the mix... Does that count as being married? (most of this silliness happen over Twitter)

It's the perfect amount of time for a "nooner"... lol

I implemented 45 minute appts a while ago and it is a good time to frame to offer. Some people just don't have an hour in the middle of the day while they often sneak away from work to meet a lady and sometimes a half hour isn't enough.

I don't like anything less than an hour. I hate to feel rushed. I want to relax and just enjoy it and the company. I don't watch the clock what happens happens. In the end I want the lady to say she had a good time. For me there is always the next time.

I prefer 60 to 90 min. appts. I like to take my time even if I meet the Lady for the first time or the 100 the time.

It is good to see Dave Cameron getting a chance as a coach, playoffs could happen if the Sens continue to get the fantastic goaltending. Additional Comments: A big game in Tampa tonight, the results could decide first place in this division, if our Habs win we have a four point lead with a game in hand over Tampa, Mr Price will have to have another stellar game for this to happen.

To each their own, some want 15 min appts, 40 min appts, soon it'll be 5 min appts, lol!. I just don't get why some get worried about 15 mins, whether that is over or under. Sometimes my clients are a little under their time , some a little over, it all balances out in the end. What I want is for the gent to be happy when he leaves. Lets face it no one is done at the same time, every session. But if you provide that option then hopefully you'll find it to be beneficial.

Good evening everyone! I know that for most what I am about to write is a no brainer, however it seems that at most previous socials, we had to take some ppl aside and explain how to behave at these events. So hopefully this will be clear enough. 1. Respect: Appropriate language is to be used when addressing other members. We have many wonderful ladies attending and they are to be addressed as such! 2. What is inside a lady's pants, dress or in their chest area belongs to the lady not the gentlemen's hands. If you can't control ur hands, buy 2 drinks at once to make sure they are busy. Anyone improperly behaving will be asked to leave immediately. As for dress code, there are none per say. Its an individual choice as long as you do wear clothes that cover's most of your body and that they are clean. Lets all make sure everyone can enjoy a wonderful evening! Alexxandria and loneskater!

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

I ignore such things as an SP... google #s and other spoofed numbers indicate to me that you have something to hide. Even though this is kind of expected from men who are married or have jobs they are concerned about losing. Fine, I get it. But guess what? Guys intent on doing us harm would also do this. At the end of the day, MY PERSONAL SAFETY is of paramount importance to me, as should yours be to you. I'm not saying the girl in question is unsafe or up to no good...Maybe it's her personal cell tied to her real name and she doesn't want to mix that in with this business? But perhaps she should get herself a phone number that is legit to use for the hobby so as to not give off an air of .... sketchiness.

You may want to know more about the lady you are seeing, but right there, that is an unrealistic expectation. I don't know many ladies who are open or comfortable sharing personal details like that. At least not when they first meet someone (or ever). In fact, from my experience that is a sure way to ruin the mood. I have great connections with many of my clients who are not privy to my personal business, nor me theirs. There are some gents I have gotten to know over the years who have become more privy to certain things, but they do not text or email me out of the blue just to chit chat. An occasional hello is great, but incessant texting or emailing is not only time consuming but inappropriate I believe. If you don't hobby often but would like to stay in touch via email on a regular basis, perhaps negotiate a set number of emails per week or month and expected turn-around time, where you compensate her for her time to doing this. If you're feeling of a genuine connection is you wanting to be "friends" with her by sharing personal stuff, then you are being totally unrealistic in my opinion. Just remember yes, it's a business transaction, but that doesn't mean we she isn't being genuine when you are together.

I disagree... one can be happily married and still go hobbying... I love my wife, I see service providers because the sexual needs of my wife and I do not mesh, but otherwise I am quite happy with her... we get along as good friends... no plans on leaving her what so ever...

Cool topic idea:) I have been told I give an extremely nice hand job. I think that if you are creative, and putting alot of visual stimulation to your hand job it helps in the art of teasing and pleasing. Visual stimulation is the key to any kind of session. I will use my breasts, rubbing the head of the penis up and down between my breast, on my nips, and always lots of good lube:) This is a good way to start it off and returning to this method a few times throughout. Visual stimulation is also shared by almost touching the penis to my lips, not really doing it, a mere warm breath is felt, and this is great arousal!! I find many men like it when your hand covers over the head, and not stroking down, but rather stroking up wards. Changing your grip and pressure is a must, so that you are not boring your participant. When done proper, this can be so much fun and your participant will be so excited and aroused that all other activities are forgotten about, and the satisfaction is certainly felt:)

Hi I thought I would start this thread on how you handle the common problem of Worrying and Stress in your live's. I'll start with one method that I have learnt. Most people worry about something that probably may never happen. Imagine the worst that can happen in your situation. Now can you accept the consequences of what would happen if this event should pass. If so, you do not have to worry any more, as you already you know that you could live with the worst that could happen. And the odd's of the worst that could happen, will not happen. So you now longer have to worry any more. I'm not sure if I explained that correctly. I hope you understand what I am trying get across. If that doesn't work. Have Sex, it'll take your mind off your worries for a while. :) Any other hints or tricks that you use to handle stress?

So the thread that was started to help send emma here worked wonders, im just wondering if we should start another one, more specifically one for MGF. I've always had a great time with the girls they sent, and would love if they started visiting again

I have been seeing Dorinda for close to a year now. What a year it has been! Dorinda is first and foremost a beautiful woman. From her long blond hair to the sweeping curve of her long delicate neck, from her generous breasts past her flat toned tummy to her magnificent ass, Dorinda is, every inch, a dream come true. Each visit surpasses the previous. Now that we are comfortable with each other; knowing what each other likes, our sessions become memorable, epic even. She knows how to please and pamper on so many levels. I have never been disappointed. Dorinda is easy to talk to, she is conversant across a wide range of conversational topics. She is also a creature of the flesh. Beauty and carnal intent are written into her DNA. I will continue to see Dorinda, whenever I can. But if I never hobby again, I will have banked a lifetime of hot memories, thanks to Dorinda.

Happy Birthday young man! :spank: BTW those are Bday spanks lol

Shorter encounters just wouldn't work for me. There's more to seeing a lady than how long you last. Time for conversation over drinks, maybe dinner out, then time spent intimately with a woman you took the time to get to know, or you do know. And even then, it's not how long you last. You can lie in bed kissing and cuddling. An encounter for me is something to be looked forward to. Not just for sex, but for an evening spent with a lady. I've had wonderful encounters where most of the date was in the living room of my suite and the lady and I were catching up, sharing laughs. And others, no sex, but absolutely great dates. I'm not saying 15, 30 or 45 minute encounters are wrong, just they aren't for me. I'll stick with three to four hour (or longer) dates and let the dates unfold naturally and unscripted. And afterwards, I'm left with wonderful memories of evenings spent with special ladies RG

You can always send your overflow on the bus as a cheap alternative. However if I may , Please rent a car . The scooter thing may not get you there in time and I know myself and many others are anxious to meet you. Best to play it safe on this one. :icon_smile: Time is not the only issue here , we do want you to arrive safely!

This also raises the issue of just how and when the new prostitution law will be challenged. Indeed, there is a conundrum: I believe that overall, LE's strategy on policing the sex trade will not change much. I'm sure they realize it would be somewhat pointless and a waste of taxpayer dollars to go after consenting adults. As such, they are focusing on real exploitation, pimping and/or trafficking cases. This is a positive development on two fronts: 1) They're going after the real criminals 2) It gives the effect that C-36 is working, which will appease the conservative base, which hopefully will give them nothing further to complain about in this regard. The only 'downside' to all this is that without anyone being charged aside from real criminals, what case do we have to launch another constitutional challenge and have this unjust law overturned? Perhaps someone could be so kind as to enlighten me on this particular aspect. I remember that before C-36 was passed into law, there was talk that it would be challenged almost immediately. Sadly, that has not transpired.

Painting every lady or client who uses textme with the same brush is much like saying every Muslim is a terrorist. You simply cannot generalize like that in real life. We can talk about establishing trust all we want. But think about when we book... The client doesn't know our real name, our home address, our personal email address -- so why do they need our personal cell phone number? Using these apps leaves the companion with the opportunity to "turn off" business when she wants to. Not everyone wants to carry two phones and not everyone is comfortable mixing business with personal - phone number or otherwise. I have had some wonderful gentleman who have explained why they use a text app and that is 100% ok with me. Additionally I have met some lovely ladies, who - for their own reasons, use a texting app. Choosing not to see a reputable lady because they use a texting app means you could miss out on a great experience. People do what they feel is best for them. If you aren't comfortable seeing someone - either lady or gentleman - that uses a texting app - that's your own choice. But take the time to ask why they use it. It could end up being a completely reasonable explanation. You just can't automatically judge someone on the technology they use. Just my thoughts.

What? Working names? Burner phones? Are you trying to tell me her God-given birth name isn't Loverly Snowflake? Snap! I suppose the next thing you're going to try to tell me is that wasn't her real apartment. I feel so... deceived. LOL So it goes....

I didn't say it makes them dishonest. What I said "Openness and honesty is important in this lifestyle. Apps hiding cell numbers aren't open" The app isn't what I would call open As for a companion's overall presence and reputation, that works when the companion has been around awhile and established a reputation. A lady just getting started though, she doesn't have that presence and reputation yet. So something like this app used by a companion just starting out, well it doesn't appear she is open and may raise red flags to potential clients And irrespective, do you not agree that openness and honesty are important in this lifestyle? RG

Makes you wonder why we ever bother getting married. Most of the contented guys I know are (old and young) bachelors and are living life on their own terms!

That's it, I'm going to France! Lol Xoxo, Miss Lane

been quiet of late. my 16 year old daughter was almost the victim of a 27 year old internet creep from the states. When she told me about him and told me she wanted to meet him I said before you meet you have to agree to see the police and talk about this, She agreed and I took her in to talk. The police officer was a god send. He explained to her what was happening and she ended her so called relationship with the jerk. police are investigating him now and she is safe and seeing a counselor to learn why she was attracted to such a person and learn about healthy relationships. She has a lot of work ahead of her but at least she is doing it now and not latter on in life. All in all life has been stressful, best move ever was taking her into the police to talk. I am sure it saved her from something very bad happening.

Unfortunately she posted fake photos here on cerb. She was suspended for this (banned for a minimum 6 months) good sp or not I would encourage everyone not to support such a thing.

Had to do some investigating This is the person the pics belong to She is from AB so the number could be real I thought. https://m.facebook.com/ashley.dunn.520357?soft=search Trouble is she said she's 5' 5" in a text and the above profile says 5' 3" Also claimed that this site is fake lol Hope it helps

Haven't had Donair til you've had one in Halifax with that special sauce.

I used to be a worry wart and used to get bad anxiety as a result of what I couldn't control but I've been through a lot of situations in my life where I've come out on top. Now, if I'm worried about something, I deal with the situation to the best of my ability and let the chips fall where they may. I no longer sweat the small stuff. Life is too short and there are always options and support available to whatever the problem is. Situations or problems only control you if you let them. You are the one who is really in control and you can let it make you or break you.. Sounds cliché but true.

BBFS I really hope to change your mind So please listen to my plea Rumour has it SPs from my city Offer full service BB Which means they use no condom When letting clients 'in' You all know in this business That's a major mortal sin We must keep one another safe It's the only thing we've got So by accepting this behaviour You're worse off than I thought No amount of cash you've got Will convince me to sex bare If you ever try and do it I'll crush your balls I swear Paid sex can't be unprotected Your dick could get infected So for those of us who don't And no matter what we won't Are the ones you need to see To remain STD free

To the OP: no, you are not overreacting. This is as every bit as dangerous and buttfuck-stupid as it sounds. Fortunately, most of the SPs around here are not stupid, and anyone even hinting at BBFS will probably get instantly blacklisted. And to the guys asking for BBFS, should any of them be reading... I don't mind you killing yourselves (I consider Natural Selection and the continuous improvement of the species thereby to be a good thing), but I'd be grateful if you'd refrain from trying to kill other people too. Please and thanks.

I blacklist clients who ask for this, as to me, it signals not only a disrespect for my health, but their own and potential partners as well.