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Hey baby, if you want me to be married, yes I am. I will be what ever you want for our time together. However, if you want others to tell you WHO is married, not really cool.

It is a tricky question to answer, as I find often you are damned if you do and damned if you don't answer it. Like I have lost clients for being truthful, but yet have gained by answering too. This also applies to answering the question " have you had many appts today" If you say yes, you may turn them off, if you say no, then they were hoping you did. I refrain from answering these questions now. Like, I do not ask if they are married or not, it does not matter and is up to them to tell me if they want to.

There very well be married ladies. I would assume as in any cross section of society you will find this. Is this a question I would as an SP? Not a chance! Most everyone I'm aware of goes to great lengths to maintain distance between their regular life and their working life. I respect that boundary and would never ask.

I have to agree with everyone when it comes to sharing a lady's personal information with others (a big no-no) but I don't see anything wrong with him asking and having the lady herself PM him directly (or even post in this thread IF SHE wishes) and fulfill his fantasy. OP, I hope you find what you're looking for. That's as close as I'll ever be to being married lol I love my freedom and our virtual arrangement works just fine for me! :) RG, when are we going to finally all get together to celebrate a different kind of honeymoon? ;) Malika, since our current arrangement is great, perhaps I should introduce you to Virtual Hubby #2 and #3?

Unless they publicly post about it, no other client has the right or permission to tell you, the OP, about sps who have SOs. Sorry, but no.

My biggest concern is that the PM is quite capable of winning another election. There are two areas which concern me, not about specific legislation, but about his style. In the US, although dysfunctional in their own way, their three branches of government are independent and counterbalance each other, Here with a majority Harper controls both the administrative and legislative branches, and seems to thumb his nose at the supreme court, by flouting their decisions. If you remember he came to power by painting the Liberals as dishonest and in government to further their own interests. He promptly introduced accountability and transparency legislation. I think it's pretty clear that he doesn't believe in these ideas. He runs a government that hides behind secrecy, and I believe puts the interests of the Conservative party above the idea of good non partisan governance designed to further the interests of the average Canadian.

I don't think politicians are any different from one to the other. They all have agendas, twist and turn them as their power strengthens and terms lengthen. They all have their own motivations to win, none of which is the betterment of the general public. So the option is to choose the lesser of the evils. To think that times were better is imo being kind to past follies but we all see things differently. People have to conform and change as times and governments change. What else can anyone do? With bill c36 we acclimate, carry on, survive and thrive. What doesn't kill you makes you stronger and more clever;) As far as the anti terrorism legislation, it's about power and control not our safety. I believe we are all being mislead about the truths of who the real terrorists are. But these are things I can't change nor completely understand so I focus on what I can and do.

The lady that is married and wants him to know can always just PM him. Good answer Sophia.

Old Man Winter, you are hereby given notice that you have overstayed your lease on the Maritimes. The Sheriff will be here on Friday, March 20, 2015 to REMOVE ALL YOUR BELONGINGS. Don't let the door kick you in the ASS.

yeah, Sens win again, Boston looses so we're 5 points behind with 1 game in hand. Isn't this fun.

After doing a little site browsing and not really finding what I was looking for, I decided to ask my question. I enjoy this aspect and have been told I have great hands. When it comes to a hand job, I'm making an assumption everyone likes an attentive SP ie: varied tempo and pressure, attention to the balls, varied grips. But when it cums to a finish, do you like to build straight to it or do you like multiple builds? Or like anything else, does this depend on what you're in the mood for at the time? In addition, is there anything you REALLY enjoy about it (certain grips, strokes etc)?

30 minutes just isn't enough time to get to know a lady, and be comfortable with her before having an intimate encounter. On the other hand, I never seem to last a full hour, especially when I'm with a lady that is very sensual.I've requested 45 minute appointments a few times and am usually accommodated. For me, a 45 minute appointment means that I have enough time for an enjoyable encounter, and I can visit my favorite ladies a bit more frequently. Would anyone else like to see 45 minute appointments become a standard offering?

I don't think anyone would publicly admit that because it may ruin the fantasy for some. I've had guys try to ask indirectly that why' a nice woman like me is still single. If that's their way of finding out if I have a boyfriend or something more serious, they will disappointed. Mr Right hasn't reached his full manifestation just yet. ;

A 45 minute appointment would not be something that I would look for but if it works for the lady and the client then good for them. Just my Qpinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Newbie here at the national capital Ottawa. Cheers!

But we are all accepting of each other, no possessiveness, no jealousies. We are all thinking of moving to Salt Lake City Utah LOL Roamingguy has two Wifeys and a BBFF (best beautiful friend forever) I answer to roamingguy, RG, hubby, "your going to wear pink or else" but I call myself Lucky RG

I am in an online poly-triad marriage with Roamingguy and Gabriella Laurence. Emily Rushton often seem to be in the mix... Does that count as being married? (most of this silliness happen over Twitter)

It's the perfect amount of time for a "nooner"... lol

I implemented 45 minute appts a while ago and it is a good time to frame to offer. Some people just don't have an hour in the middle of the day while they often sneak away from work to meet a lady and sometimes a half hour isn't enough.

I don't like anything less than an hour. I hate to feel rushed. I want to relax and just enjoy it and the company. I don't watch the clock what happens happens. In the end I want the lady to say she had a good time. For me there is always the next time.

I prefer 60 to 90 min. appts. I like to take my time even if I meet the Lady for the first time or the 100 the time.

It is good to see Dave Cameron getting a chance as a coach, playoffs could happen if the Sens continue to get the fantastic goaltending. Additional Comments: A big game in Tampa tonight, the results could decide first place in this division, if our Habs win we have a four point lead with a game in hand over Tampa, Mr Price will have to have another stellar game for this to happen.

To each their own, some want 15 min appts, 40 min appts, soon it'll be 5 min appts, lol!. I just don't get why some get worried about 15 mins, whether that is over or under. Sometimes my clients are a little under their time , some a little over, it all balances out in the end. What I want is for the gent to be happy when he leaves. Lets face it no one is done at the same time, every session. But if you provide that option then hopefully you'll find it to be beneficial.

Good evening everyone! I know that for most what I am about to write is a no brainer, however it seems that at most previous socials, we had to take some ppl aside and explain how to behave at these events. So hopefully this will be clear enough. 1. Respect: Appropriate language is to be used when addressing other members. We have many wonderful ladies attending and they are to be addressed as such! 2. What is inside a lady's pants, dress or in their chest area belongs to the lady not the gentlemen's hands. If you can't control ur hands, buy 2 drinks at once to make sure they are busy. Anyone improperly behaving will be asked to leave immediately. As for dress code, there are none per say. Its an individual choice as long as you do wear clothes that cover's most of your body and that they are clean. Lets all make sure everyone can enjoy a wonderful evening! Alexxandria and loneskater!

This is a really good thread, I won't book a client without a real cell phone so I would not expect him to book me without one either. Trust needs to be established. Yes in some rural places I use text me, but we have already confirmed over the phone on my real cell prior to my arrival. Too many shady people and problems these days, that one can never be too careful on either side. If your going to hide your cell number what else are you hiding? I want ZERO part of time with anyone who feels the need to secretive, as it only leads to problems later on.

I ignore such things as an SP... google #s and other spoofed numbers indicate to me that you have something to hide. Even though this is kind of expected from men who are married or have jobs they are concerned about losing. Fine, I get it. But guess what? Guys intent on doing us harm would also do this. At the end of the day, MY PERSONAL SAFETY is of paramount importance to me, as should yours be to you. I'm not saying the girl in question is unsafe or up to no good...Maybe it's her personal cell tied to her real name and she doesn't want to mix that in with this business? But perhaps she should get herself a phone number that is legit to use for the hobby so as to not give off an air of .... sketchiness.

You may want to know more about the lady you are seeing, but right there, that is an unrealistic expectation. I don't know many ladies who are open or comfortable sharing personal details like that. At least not when they first meet someone (or ever). In fact, from my experience that is a sure way to ruin the mood. I have great connections with many of my clients who are not privy to my personal business, nor me theirs. There are some gents I have gotten to know over the years who have become more privy to certain things, but they do not text or email me out of the blue just to chit chat. An occasional hello is great, but incessant texting or emailing is not only time consuming but inappropriate I believe. If you don't hobby often but would like to stay in touch via email on a regular basis, perhaps negotiate a set number of emails per week or month and expected turn-around time, where you compensate her for her time to doing this. If you're feeling of a genuine connection is you wanting to be "friends" with her by sharing personal stuff, then you are being totally unrealistic in my opinion. Just remember yes, it's a business transaction, but that doesn't mean we she isn't being genuine when you are together.

I disagree... one can be happily married and still go hobbying... I love my wife, I see service providers because the sexual needs of my wife and I do not mesh, but otherwise I am quite happy with her... we get along as good friends... no plans on leaving her what so ever...

Cool topic idea:) I have been told I give an extremely nice hand job. I think that if you are creative, and putting alot of visual stimulation to your hand job it helps in the art of teasing and pleasing. Visual stimulation is the key to any kind of session. I will use my breasts, rubbing the head of the penis up and down between my breast, on my nips, and always lots of good lube:) This is a good way to start it off and returning to this method a few times throughout. Visual stimulation is also shared by almost touching the penis to my lips, not really doing it, a mere warm breath is felt, and this is great arousal!! I find many men like it when your hand covers over the head, and not stroking down, but rather stroking up wards. Changing your grip and pressure is a must, so that you are not boring your participant. When done proper, this can be so much fun and your participant will be so excited and aroused that all other activities are forgotten about, and the satisfaction is certainly felt:)

Really no choice... Peace MG

If being with a married woman is your fantasy then let your imagination run wild in your time spent with a lady. Fantasize she is married, she is a virgin, your the best she has every had, your turning her on in ways she has never been turned on before. Whatever you do, do not let reality hamper your fantasy.

Whether the SP or MA has a SO or not I have often wondered how they keep the business/personal sides separate. That must ( I am guessing) be tremendously challenging when it comes to all levels of intimacy with the SO. I am single--and have been for many years. I am just not sure how challenging that would be to the MA or SP.

Happy Birthday Zealous4u! Hope all your wishes come true :p xoxo

Well a few comments. First the STD risks...if anything, my experience in this lifestyle is that the ladies are absolutely religious about safe sex. I would hazard a guess that the STD risks are more than likely less in this lifestyle than in random bar pick ups. And my personal experience, clean bill of health STD wise since embarking on this lifestyle in July 2010, and I've seen since that time exclusively professional companions Second, why are there social responsibilities needed in the actions between two consenting adults in this lifestyle. Partners should be responsible to one another, but social responsibility??? Do you propose the same "social responsibility for bar pick up's. Companions are very religious about safe sex, far more than any ladies I met in civilian life. That said, if your focus is on social responsibility shouldn't it be more directed towards the civilian dating scene As for your assertion about sex addiction, who warns whom. Does a prospective client warn a companion about sex addiction because a lady may be a sex addict. Or does a companion warn a prospective client about sex addiction because the client may be a sex addict. We are all adults and will choose to do what we like, making adult choices for ourselves. Unless you want us to all have warning labels like cigarette packs have written on us across our foreheads. What you want isn't social responsibility. It is infantilizing all adults for having adult sexual relations because maybe, just maybe a few adults have sex addiction, and of those, likely even less in this lifestyle have sex addiction Finally, nothing done in this lifestyle will make it be considered normalized. As for legally normalized, it was until very recently, legal. And so called social responsibility as you see it wouldn't have changed them from changing the law. I as of yet haven't seen any evidence from you substantiating your arguments. Just you posting your unsubstantiated opinion and wanting us to accept social responsibility as you see it. Just my opinion but I get the impression from your posts you have some hidden agenda or something in your personal past and you want to blame sex addiction and this lifestyle, and not take personal responsibility RG

I like it anyway as long as it is in a women's hand the speed should vary with attention paid to the head and the sac. Lots of lubricant, build it up and then let it slow down. The feeling of getting ready to cum is almost as good as the climax. I like to look into a ladies eyes while she is buffing the carrot. Most times we are both rewarded with a good load. All this is making me look forward to it happening soon

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Happy Birthday Zealous4U xxx one more younger year :D

Happy Birthday to my very good friend. I hope your day was as special as you ! xoxo

Why bother if she doesnt pass tin eye? Dont take any chances. as far as blonds with large breasts and small waists, Have you seen CristyCurves or Christina4U (shes in town till the 20th). many of us on this site can vounche that they match their pics and that they are true professionals.

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I do not agree and will explain...I do use textme With that app I could get ride of my second phone...now im only using my personnal phone and no I don't want my personal number all over the place and I choose who I share it with...It has nothing to do with having something to hide or being sketchy... Just my opinion... Bianca

In my opinion there are many elements that go into a lady's reputation and to lady a lady as shady because they use a texting app is a bit much. I appreciate that there are other alternatives they could use (2 phones or dual sim phones) but who am I to tell them what is best for them. I suggest that people look at the big picture associated with the lady... do they have a web site, their advertising, their presence on sites like this and social media... what are their recommendations like... are they well know in the industry??? As I suggested on another similar thread there are lots of reasons for a lady to be cautious about what info ie phone number or email address they put out to the world so I can accept the usage of an ap as long as I can verify the lady's reputation in other ways. While I respect every ladies right to choose their own approach and understand that some clients might choose to not book with a lady who uses an Ap I think it is wrong to suggest that just because a lady does she must be "shady". Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Sex addiction is like any other addiction. It is up to the individual involved to seek and utilize help available. There are many forums, services and directives already in place but they must be sought out. In regards to escort ads, not everyone who asks for bb is a sex addict. Some are those who want what they want or are testing or pushing limits. Some just have no regard for much of anything. I do not believe an escort should be responsible for the health and safety of anyone except themselves. This is why there is screening in place and why most blacklist those asking for certain services or behaving in certain ways. If an escort were to take it upon themselves to provide information to someone or to classify someone as an addict because they asked, they are actually opening themselves up to potential legal action. It is like if you work in a casino or a bar, you cannot accuse someone of being an addict or assume they are or communicate this is any way. IF the person comes to you claiming this, then you are free to talk about it. Without that crucial step, you are only permitted to have resources and information available or you may be open to civil actions. Things may have changed but this is what I was taught and trained on. Can escorts be aware and have knowledge, certainly but it is not up to them to make the decision. Independents also do not have the time and resources to commit to such a grand scheme personally. By supporting some of the industry outreaches and programs in place, they are adding necessary resources to the cause. Again, it comes down to the individual to stand up and seek help. Addicts are addicts in the sense that there is something amiss in regards to something. Every individual has varying degrees and levels to which they act, react and escalate. You cannot assume someone is an addict because they displays certain behaviors or react/act in certain ways. Yes, there are signs but not all signs lead to an addiction. Those working in ANY industry where there is potential for addiction should have knowledge but they cannot be made responsible for more than what they have control over (IE: cut off limits, spending limits, limiting behaviors when they get to certain levels, providing resource information etc.). Can we, as individuals care? Yes, to a point, after that it's on the person. If the person acts in a way that steps outside certain societal boundaries, then they can act in a way the reduces the negative impact.

Oh my do I love kissing...It sets the mood so perfectly :) I have had session that we kissed for about 20-25 minutes before doing anything else...The kissing was so amazing...no need to mention that the rest was incredible also. Like a lot of ladies mentionned...it feels ackward when the gentleman turns away and présents a cheek...I don't take it personally but it does affect me...meaning it will take more to turn me on. Kissing...if a good kisser of course, will do that instantly. Let the kissing begin.....oufff just thinking about it is arousing :D Bianca

One of my favs, corned beef and cabbage

Well for fun- I'd create a vibrator that didn't break, a guy with the perfect penis(my idea of perfect that is;) ) make all food calorieless and last but not least allow my dogs to live forever:) In seriousness- If I could- every animal abuser would get there come uppens when I waved it and the animals they harmed would heal!

Which do you prefer ladies and also gentlemen. Younger companions, or older, and why so? Myself, I prefer to be in the company of someone older then me, as younger men aren't as respectable or as experienced ;) wink,wink..

congratulations ... you are human lol no seriously, what you are feeling is completely normal. It is natural to grow feelings for anyone you have slept with.. You are obviously seeing good girls but you must always remind yourself that we are providing you with a fantasy, it is not real life. Your real life belongs with your wife and your family.. just enjoy the times you spend with the ladies you choose but don't forget about your reality have fun xoxo

It's as dangerous as you think. It's a lot like a client saying to an SP, "hey, can I draw some of my blood with this needle and inject it into your veins during our session? Don't worry, I'm totally clean." It's a ridiculously stupid, reckless, and insulting thing to expect. I think there are two things going on here: a) the client may genuinely feel like sex with a condom just isn't the same and he really wants the full unprotected thing (and he's a complete idiot, ignorant or for some reason indifferent to the obvious risks to health and life for both involved) b) the client wants to prove he can force his will past the woman's sensible boundaries; essentially proving "my money puts me in charge and you will deny me nothing I want". Anyone looking for this is simply insane.