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Good morning ladies and gents! Ticket sales for the OT Spring social next Thursday officially ended last evening. Including a few members who have contacted us for tickets we have sold 32 Gent tickets and 47 ladies tickets. Hopefully not too many will get last minute schedule changes and miss what will be a great evening! Alexxandria and I do plan on being there lol and we look forward to meeting old friends and those for whom this will be there first social. Approximate timings for entertainment/draws will be as follows: 08:30 First performance 09:00 Draw Gents Door prizes 09:30 Second performance 10:10 Draw ladies Door prizes We will also be making an important announcement during the evening. Hope everyone enjoy their evening. 5 Days left! Alexxandria and loneskater!!!

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Does sexy have an age? Not to me. Christly Brinkley (61) Michelle Pfeiffer (57) Sharon Stone (57) Courtney Cox (51) Julianne Moore (51) Cheryl Tiegs (68) Suzanne Somers (65) Raquel Welch(75) and there are plenty more.

The cause doesn't suck, but the result does; It's a bright sun morning catching my windows right now, but its causing me to sneeze like crazy this morning (eyes are light sensitive)

Ottawa beats the leafs, so a good night ;) pretty much a given. And the habs win. Anther good night of hockey

What you're describing are behaviours, and behaviours are shaped as much by culture as biology. Both genders are equally competitive; but the way that competitiveness gets expressed is channeled by the culture in which it takes place. Men are culturally encouraged to act out overtly and physically, and so guess what... they tend to do just that. Women have been encouraged to conform to a non-threatening, male-devised ideal (passive, gentle, etc.) and guess what... for a long time, that's the direction they tended toward, at least publicly. Happily, these are no longer those times. Women have always been equally capable of competition, aggression, and violence in those forms that the culture permitted. See: women competing for/fighting over men, and the vaunted danger of "mothers defending their children". These are both roles that men are comfortable with women inhabiting, so the culture "allows" them. But what they reveal is that women possess these attributes just as much as men, when given the opportunity to express them. Today, we see the dramatic rise of women gamers, since they can move into that sphere on equal footing with men because their gender isn't apparent online. They frequently dominate the areas they play in. Women also serve in the armed forces of several nations as extremely able troops, pilots, and commanders. The inclinations and behaviours of the human genders are very nearly interchangeable; and there is much, much more variance among the set of all men, than there is between men and women in general. Be wary when citing evolution as direct explanation for complex human behaviour, or as the source of a box in which to confine it. The evidence is all over the map, and we tend to see in it whatever we're looking for. That particular study takes some attributes of the face and extrapolates wildly on why they might take their shape. They haven't proven causation, they're just putting forward one possible interpretation. It's just as likely that faces have been shaped by climate and diet. But if you prefer, we can certainly claim that all through primates' evolutionary history, while both genders have been expressing their equal competitiveness and propensity for violence, women used more subtle and varied methods to achieve their goals. But men a) tended to resort in dim-witted frustration to just punching each other in the face, and b) were forever too slow and clumsy to move their faces out of the way. I imagine the women found it amusing to watch.

Both Montreal and Ottawa will win tonight, my predictions are: Ottawa 5 Leafs 2 Montreal 4 Sharks 2, Habs score a empty net. Goaltending will be the factor for both teams tonight. Go Habs Go If I was Boston Fan I would be getting nervous!!!! Additional Comments: I was right on a couple predictions, Habs win with an empty net goal. Low scoring game it was like a playoff game, Carey Price shines again, looking good for regular season MVP. Ottawa wins with five goals, Leafs get three. If Ottawa wins the game in hand they gave on the Bruins they move ahead of the Bruins. The rest of the regular season looks very interesting.

A wise lady I met years ago told me she always uses her real age, and she looks amazing at 57 (you know who you are). I decided to follow her example when I turned 50 and started using my real age and it has worked in my favour, rather than against me. This year I will be 55 and my oldest client, a 95 year old man, says I'm a "youngin". I can live with that. Not to criticize any mature ladies who advertise younger, but there are definitely more ads for 40-something ladies than 50+. I do chuckle though when I get the odd person asking me "If you're advertising 54, does that mean you're really 60?"

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looking for any feedback on Stacey from Backpage. PM me if you have any words of encouragement. Additional Comments: Here is a link to her add http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexy-classy-sassy-stacey-upscale-companion-incalls-available-now/26826925

I don't normally write a review. But this time I have to say it out loud, Pepsi is the only provider who let me feel I am actually doing it with my girlfriend. Her pics are real. The location is a little bit far from the city, but totally worth it. The encounter was amazing, even her orgasmS WERE real. Go meet her while she's still here.

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Thursday evening will be the highlight of this week for me. So looking forward to coming And I have three ladies' door prizes to donate too RG

we haven't got as much snow as you guys but I sure hope it will be all melted when I get back from vacation on april 9th...We usually always get a snow storm in April...SOOOO depressing...:( Is it safe to hit the road out east mid april...hope so :D Bianca

More snow, my hands are on my snowblower way too much recently.

It is interesting how many different way are there to find out which provider could be the next. As many of other guys, I prefer to meet the girl whose personality is attractive and who I believe I would enjoy to spend time with. And I found pretty effective way to get some impression about the woman I am interested in - Twitter. Most of ladies have Twitter accounts nowadays and publish it on their web sites or adds. Spend half an hour on reading Twitter postings and you can understand if you have something in common and have something to talk about. For sure, you will see if this is "no go" case. At least it works for me well

Saw this today...was amused...

I am currently making changes to my website... but I'm still available to meet! Let's share some deliciously intimate time together at my private and discreet downtown location, or invite me to visit with you at yours. I am currently in full-time studies, with a fairly flexible schedule. Please have a look at my website to find out more: http://www.kathrynbardot.net Reach me by email at [email protected] A little bit more... 5'8" 34B-28-38 Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a few lovely tattoos. Read what others have to say... http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15829 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63938 xo, Kathryn.

36 cupcakes for an office meeting.

You and me both, frank!

After several visits she warms up to you. It used to get pretty hot. Used to chat with her all the time. It has been a long time since i have been back to see her. She was a pretty good friend actually.

San Jose Sharks VERSUS Montreal Canadiens Mine: 2-3 Go Habs Go! --------------------------- Toronto Maple Leafs VERSUS Ottawa Senators Mine: 0-4 Go SENS Go! This one should be interesting! ;)

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 613 712 1200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm

Easter eggs that is:) A quote I heard today- happy people aren't the ones with the best of everything, they are the ones who make the best of everything. So why not be happy and make the best of your free time and spend some with me. I provide a very relaxed, unrushed hour, in which you'll be pampered like a true vip and hosted in style. Drop by and experience Cristy...you'll be glad you did. 300 hourly this week only 150 1/2 hour. I will only be responding to phone calls-902-453-6323-thank you- Please- when calling don't ask what's included-thank you. -when calling please let me know that you are a Lyla member-thank you-looking forward to hearing from you.

I too was told of this site by another SP, and LOVE IT,,thankfully it exists,, I am truly grateful to this site! it brightens my day, no negativity, or drama, which in our line of work, is of up most importance,,we should be sticking together, helping each other, having each other's backs, the general public causes enough grief with the judgements and stigma, we need each other,,thank you LYLA!

like most older ladies here, I post my real age. I'm proud of my 50s :) no need to add anything else... Bianca

Left very happy with Anna (Heavier East Indian lady). Make sure you make an appointment with only her. I tried 2 other ladies with no success.

try posting in the main forum... you may get more of a response.

I saw Laurence when she was in St. John's. Absolutely fantastic body, apparently she's a stripper in her day job. The experience was ... okay, not spectacular. Actually the Quebec girl I really liked was named Jessika who was here with Olivia a few weeks ago. Actually Olivia is nice too, but Jessika was amazing. Unlike Laurence, I don't think Jessika fully understands how stunning she is, so her attitude is better.

Isn't there an expression "never ask a lady her age":) Let me quote a "guy" that, when I was running services, said. He called looking for a girl/female/woman, I described who was available, they were all between 20 -29, slim and very attractive. I told him I have girls between 20 & 29.....29 he said, "she needs to be put out to pasture"! I'd get those types of replies multiple times a day. So yes I'd agree with Fortunateone, services did fudge a bit on details, what choice was there! If I described a 23yr old, 5ft5 girl at 120lb, they'd feel that was too big and too old. Yet the girl in front of you, that 23yr old, would be tiny, pretty, very young looking, sweet and available and deserved of an appt. She was never sent away. Many guys have certain illogical images concerning ages, sizes and over all appearances. I've worked with 20's that looked 30's 40 that looked 20's and late 20's that looked 20 and so on. So to me numbers should be irrelevant, as you just can't generalize. Older, younger, youthful, mature, mid age, senior, and so on should suffice. Because if you are to be honest, perceptions change with each decade. 20 is thought to look a particular way, as is 30, 40, 50 and so on and each decade eludes to something as well which isn't always reliable or positive. Now with the internet and pictures it's my feeling that many of us reveal far more than necessary when advertising, but that's just my opinion. It's become so that men seem to think they need to know everything about a companion, right down to the number of moles or freckles on each square inch of her body, every action or thought she makes. We are after all, not proposing marriage, we are spending time with one another. I feel if a man can't decide on whether or not if he wants to see a woman/girl/female from her posts/pictures or website then perhaps she or this hobby isn't for him. Yes, some pictures can mislead but in general most are as they appear so you would think that should suffice. If we are going to be honest, age, in this business does seem to matter, if you are going to listen, believe and read some comments, posts and reco's and reviews. Older isn't as respected overall as some have posted in this thread, generally speaking and younger can for some, be suspect. As far as what others do or say about their own age is their business not mine, it would be catty to remark on. I will say, that if all the men who said they liked mature actually meant chronologically mature, more mature women would post their age. But to most guys, and this is just from my experience, mature means over 25. So to end, I also tell my real age. I tell my age as being mature:)

I "outed" myself back in 2013 in a similar thread about age and I was not ashamed to admit it. 09-19-2013 Late night confession... I still believe it was the right choice to make for myself and I don't regret having done so.

This industry is in large part driven by disposable income so it's not unrealistic to think that many of the more active clients are people who are more established financially which in a lot of case is when they are older. As an older guy in my mid fifties who has some degree of financial independence and who enjoys the company of a beautiful sexy intelligent woman I have seen ladies in the age range from 19 to mid 50's and all I can say is I tend to have the best connection with women who are mid thirties and later. I am not saying I have never connected with someone younger just that in general the connection has been better with ladies in their 30's. Now don't get me wrong the younger ladies I have meet have been wonderful... the sex has been great and their bodies have been the thing guy's constantly fantasize about but with the ladies who have had a few more years of life experiences I have just shared a greater connection in addition to the amazing sex. Let's face it... if I am booking for a couple of hours there will be lots of time for other things besides sex and it is that companionship time that often makes the difference for me. Beyond the sex the more mature ladies have generally understood me better.... they had the life experiences that were more in common with me. I will suggest however that these more mature ladies are I think with out exception younger in spirit and outlook then their age might initially suggest and yes they were all extremely sexy. In life as we get older I think we often come to learn to appreciate as sexy things that we might not when we are younger... aging with grace and showing that in how you carry yourself can for me be very attractive. So bottom line I can understand why a lady might choose to market herself to the demographic that she feels she best connects with just like I might select who I choose to meet. As long as the lady who opens the door is genuine to the image she has portrayed in her ads then I don't think I would care that she fibbed about her age. Just my Opinion.... makes sense to me might not to anyone else. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Snow. We officially broke a 52 year record BEFORE this latest dump. I'm hearing another storm is coming on Saturday. I surrender. Please make it stop.

I post my true age, I am proud of being 40, love this era of my life. Besides I like posting my age, so that I can attract clients who are closer to my age group. Although I am 40, I feel much younger than that!

Being from Winnipeg I am usually the one being envious of the weather somewhere else (anywhere else) BUT, yesterday I got the Harley out of the garage, battery charged up and took a 3 hour ride. What sucks here was I didnt get the HOG out till June last year.

He likes to take credit for our relative financial stability. He likes "talking down" to other countries to the point of provoking a rant from a Spanish diplomat at a G20 conference...Harper is a condescending twat. Most of all though, he is a fraud and a hypocrite. When he was in opposition he actually wanted our banking regulation harmonised (his words) with the USA. That would have meant a disaster for us as well during the financial crisis of 2008. So he takes credit for banking regulations that he actually fought to remove. What a fucking goof. Problem is, people believe all the BS he is spouting.

Shorter encounters just wouldn't work for me. There's more to seeing a lady than how long you last. Time for conversation over drinks, maybe dinner out, then time spent intimately with a woman you took the time to get to know, or you do know. And even then, it's not how long you last. You can lie in bed kissing and cuddling. An encounter for me is something to be looked forward to. Not just for sex, but for an evening spent with a lady. I've had wonderful encounters where most of the date was in the living room of my suite and the lady and I were catching up, sharing laughs. And others, no sex, but absolutely great dates. I'm not saying 15, 30 or 45 minute encounters are wrong, just they aren't for me. I'll stick with three to four hour (or longer) dates and let the dates unfold naturally and unscripted. And afterwards, I'm left with wonderful memories of evenings spent with special ladies RG

Hi Everybody! I don't know if I'm too much of a newbie to start a thread, especially one on such a strong subject but it's one that I feel very strongly about: BBFS in the Hobby, I don't get how anyone can justify it. Browsing other boards that are, lets say, less politically correct than this one I see an increasing amount of talk around either more and more SPs offering BBFS ... one post even had a link to a BP ad near TO where the SP has it listed in her extras!! ... or johns asking for it, sometimes very aggressively according to some ladies. It seems prevalent enough that they even started a board dedicated to the pursuit of this dangerous activity!! (I won't promote it here) Unless I'm really behind the times and some new miracle cure as been invented for all STDs isn't this pretty much the most dangerous activity to experiment in? Also, being a DATY lover this "trend" is scaring the living crap out of me. Aside from the very obvious heath risks involved (HIV being at the top of the list), the thought of ... squeamish people turn away now! ... licking up someones sloppy seconds is totally disgusting!! ... call me a prude but I won't even snowball my own stuff! lol Levity aside I don't want to die, or be incapacitated, from this hobby because a few morons (male and female alike) want to play russian roulette with their sex lives. Now a few posters, again on other boards, have suggested starting screening new SPs when booking by asking if they provide the service as if you want it, the logic being they will then expose themselves more freely. Really not sure about this one, First I would need to play the creep (not my style), and second using this method might put me on the blacklist with the careful, reputable ones and ruin my rep. I mainly repeat with 2 lovely ladies I'm very comfortable with but I like to "explore new territory" once in a while so a screening method would help ease my mind. Any comment on the subject ... from both Service Providers and fellow hobbyists ... would be appreciated. Also, I'm very curious as to what the general consensus on the subject is? Am I overreacting here or is it as dangerous as I feel it is? Is it something that's more prevalent in other market/cities where competition is more fierce?

Definitwly wanted to say welcome to all the new ladies to the community!

In the past few weeks, especially, I've noticed, there have been lots of gorgeous new sp's, MA's and dancers joining the ranks of cerb, posting albums, and getting involved in the social groups. I've enjoyed welcoming and interacting (only virtually so far) with several of them, but wanted to say thanks to them all publicly here, and particularly to the ones who've befriended me and taken the time to get in touch. I appreciate it. The list of women I want to see keeps growing (and growing....), and so does my excitement at all the beauty that surrounds us! :) So welcome again, and thanks.

Time to reactivate this thread to welcome our newest members to the lyla community. Again, it's been fun getting to chat with some of you, and I look forward to new friendships and connections. :)

Nothing can bring a smile to my face any quicker than a dog, they are pure joy in a hairy package:) Soulfully speaking, being loved is the real meaning of happiness for me and I'm sure for many. When you know you are truly loved by someone then it's hard not to be happy. Laughter as well, I was at the gym yesterday and a couple of girls were laughing hysterically at something on their phone, the laughter was contagious, it made me happy. It is easy to find, smile, say something nice to someone, or do someone a favor. I guarantee in those you'll find happiness:) Or eat something yummy, food brings me happiness, lots of food:)

I (the moderator) was asked if I would allow this to be posted here. I posted it on the persons behalf.

I'm sorry you were personally offended by his post, but I for one agree fullheartedly with his comments. Majority of hobbyists can't be bothered to follow the simple guidelines he mentioned. Stupidity? Maybe, maybe not. I would like to continue treating people who act like children, like children! If you go through threads on here, you will see MANY threads started by ladies to vent about all the "dumbfuckery" and "tomfoolery" we have to deal with on a daily basis. 80% of the questions I have had to answer via text/email/PM could have been avoided if the person had bothered to look at my website. His comments were not aimed at you directly, and seeing as they don't seem to apply to you, congrats! You're one of the few men who isn't wasting ladies' time... As for the rest of the gents, maybe his post did apply to them. Keep that in mind. Also keep in mind how many people are completely uninformed about the new laws and have no comprehension at all about why cerb is changing. I myself have been guilty on more than one occasion of "dumbing things down" because I have personally witnessed how difficult it seems to be for some people to educate themselves. Unrelated .. In regards to the list being published... Ladies who post on BP would know this, but the "General public" might not.... BP has had word censorship from the get-go. They do not have a list of censored terms (that I am aware of). I am not allowed to post my name, email or website with them because they all contain 3 X's in a row. Have I flipped out and accused BP of denying me freedom of speech? No. Because they didn't. I simply chose not to give them any of my money. The best part was, I did not find out about the censoring until I had finished writing the ad (which never got posted), when it was time to publish, I got a pop-up informing me that "XXX" is a forbidden term. Now, if this method of operation has been working for BP for so long, why can't it here? Are we, as a whole, less enlightened than BP users? If you can't preview your own post before writing, then you deserve to look stupid with a bunch of "......" cause I personally preview every post long before this censorship came about. Any good writer ALWAYS proof reads their work. /endrant PS- all the "..." In this post were intentional.

Can I still say the Bruins Suck LOL. Habs kick Bruins ass tonight !!

It is sad that our government is systematically taking away our freedoms and freedom of speech is the one we are talking about here.I despise this as much as anyone, especially in the week that we honor so many who have sacrificed so much for these freedoms. However, we have to do what we must to "weather the storm" as it were. This is hard for all of us and we will need to keep our wits about us and work together. Being divided amongst ourselves only hurts us. Let's support the site and the mods in their attempt to keep this community alive and safe for us all. What I see in this community is a great many intelligent, thoughtful adults, not a bunch of squabbling teenagers so let's try to remain civil with each other and united even in the face of something designed to tear this all apart. We will prevail in the long run. I truly believe that even though I admit that it won't be easy. I did not join this site for some "penthouse letters" talking about all the positions and details. I joined here because it seemed to rise above that with class and dignity. Maybe I'm talking out of my butt here but I want this place to go on and remain as a beacon of how to engage in this hobby the "right" way.

BBFS I really hope to change your mind So please listen to my plea Rumour has it SPs from my city Offer full service BB Which means they use no condom When letting clients 'in' You all know in this business That's a major mortal sin We must keep one another safe It's the only thing we've got So by accepting this behaviour You're worse off than I thought No amount of cash you've got Will convince me to sex bare If you ever try and do it I'll crush your balls I swear Paid sex can't be unprotected Your dick could get infected So for those of us who don't And no matter what we won't Are the ones you need to see To remain STD free