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If some one doesn't want to see me any more...... shrug If I don't want to see some one any more ...... shrug. No need to make anything or everything complicated. Peace MG

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

Daniel, I believe it's entirely up to you how you decide to handle the situation. Since you've already received good feedback from other members on that matter, I'd like to take this issue to another level when it comes to break ups in SP/clients relationships. What I would like to say applies just as much to the ladies as it does to patrons: when the relationship is over, no matter what the reason is, or are, please move on without causing any sort of drama! Drama is no good for anyone! As far as I know, we are all adults and should respect the other person's choice (to move on) without resorting to petty games, nastiness, threats--of bad reviews, online slender, etc.-- name calling, insults, guilt trips, harassing emails/texts, stalking, and on and on and on, just because our feelings might be hurt or we would prefer the relationship not to end. Once it's over, it's over. There is NO point in trying to destroy the other person. It will not do any good to anyone and will definitely not bring back what you had. It's time to show some maturity, self-respect and dignity and let it go! Let's all remember one of the main reasons we are involved in this lifestyle to begin with... Drama-free fun times!

I have to echo my dear (virtual) wife's opinion In a perfect world, a lady, or gentlemen who no longer wishes to see a client/companion, as the case may be should send a nice email basically saying thanks for our past, but it's time to move forward. I'll remember with fondness our times together, but its time to part ways...or words to that effect. But that's in a perfect world. But even getting a one line "I don't want to see you and want no further contact" is enough The flip side, if a gentlemen or lady receives such an email, take it like an adult. If that gentleman or lady TRULY liked and respected her client/his companion, he/she should respect their decision to end the SP/Client relationship. In other words, be mature, and be an adult about it. Take the Dear John/Dear Jane email on a high note, say goodbye and move on. When someone if they received a "Dear John" "Dear Jane" email pesters and harasses that person, it just shows they never ever cared about their client/companion in the first place. And breaking up was the right thing to do, the relationship was unhealthy Sometimes in this lifestyle, which is about mutual respect and mutually beneficial relationships, ending relationships is the best for all concerned And at the end of the day, all that is owed is time and companionship for the donation paid. An encounter with a regular client/companion does not mean a marriage like commitment. And even marriage doesn't always last a lifetime A long winded rambling RG

As an animal lover, and activist, I have NO doubt animals have emotions! And unfortunately I have seen an animal shed a tear, a horse was being whipped with metal chains for over an hour, and one tear ran down his beautiful face, that was enough to impact me for the rest of my life! As for emotions, of course they do, whoever thinks they don't is heartless, in my opinion! They feel pain, loneliness, happiness, just as we do, animals are simply one of life's blessings, and they ALL should be treated as such

Some may not care, some may not believe others may be on the fence. Some may say it's being anthropomorphic, but is it? Maybe we need to be anthropomorphic to understand the commonalities between species. We do know that animals have and show emotions, we've all seen our own animals/pets react and display emotions and scientific research in evolutionary biology, cognitive ethology and social neuroscience supports this. We also know that elephants have a huge hippocampus, the part of the brain that processes emotions, there are also studies that prove chimps, rats and other animals can laugh like humans, but can they shed tears from sorrow, can they cry? Certainly they can shed tears, but are they from emotions? There are theories, studies and opinions which depict findings to such and that also deny such abilities. But what if it is the case? Would it change your opinion on how you treat them? Would you stop eating them, would you spend more time with them, would you feel more for them? If you saw an animal cry like a human before it was slaughtered, before it was put back in it's cage at the zoo, or put into an aquarium from the wild, would it cause you to react differently than you do now? Would it cause you to care more? https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stuck/201002/can-animals-cry

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

There is one major difference, and I'll speak in generalizations. If a client wishes to break up with a companion, she'll accept the break up and move on. But if a companion wishes to break up with a guy, yes some guys are mature and accept a break up. But many do things, unfortunately, like threaten to bash a lady on review boards, write bad reviews etc. Some even exhibit obsessive behaviour, such as stalking, threatening to out the lady etc etc etc A lady realizes her professional reputation is at stake. So she will remain quiet about a break up. There is no such comparable professional reputation for a gentleman. Any man who has a good reputation as a client will accept a break up and move on. One who does not care about his reputation as a client will be less inhibited about bashing a lady At the end of the day though, relationships take two people. If one of those people no longer wish for the relationship to continue, it's over...time to move on Most everyone at least once, probably more, in their life has been through a break up, either as a break-upee or break-upor. It's hard, no argument, but everyone survives. Move on and move forward Just part ways, don't make the other person's life hell for breaking up RG

Don't know if my dog ever cries, but I sure as hell do when I have to clean up his diarrhea. Arggggg! And of course they have emotions; some animals more than others. Maybe dogs have picked up emotions as a result of evolving with the company of humans. I don't like seeing any warm blooded animal suffer, but many of them are a renewable resource to be used by those higher up the food chain. If an animal must be killed it should be as quickly as possible with no forewarning to the animal. My mercy extends to fellow mammals only though; I'll rip apart a live lobster and toss it in the pot no problem.

I too have never witnessed an animal crying tears from sorrow, however I'll believe the studies that claim they do and accept the claims that say they don't. However, I do believe many humans use the differences in emotional display as a reason to categorize themselves as superior beings.

God , this is such a sad thread , I have been feeling terrible for all the animals that are on the brink of starvation due to this terrible weather , soooo sad . Yes animals do cry , seen it and I have lots of them

Oh yes. Especially when she's fit and athletic. I love the little dimples above the hips...mmm...

Well I have seen my dogs eyes water from wind or dust but I have never seen them cry with a emotion behind it,my sweety Moana Lisa has hip issues so if any of them would cry it would be her,she does have sad puppy look down great when she wants something though. I would never eat my dogs so they are safe anyways,sadly I love steak way to much to stop eating cow. I tried the vegetarian root once but I got so sick I gave it up. I feel for any animal even the ones I fear like rats in fact I probably feel more for poor animals if they could cry or not more then I do most humans who can cry. I have probably rambled enough :)

Let's see... do I have a dirty mind? Most bloody definitely! Being physically disabled society would have me be, among other things, politically correct. That would simply be far too dull of an existence. I am left leaning, both physically and mentally, as well as, in a multitude of other ways. I was at a party last night and was shocked at how calm and contained things were. Spontaneously I made the suggestion that the water supply the spiked with Ayahuasca and surprisingly the older people in the crowd got it immediately, while those 30 and under were stunned and shocked. [This was supposed to be a left wing party where the radicals gathered.] I think a dirty playful mind is essential for life :), and I will occasionally I do get into trouble. At the end of the day I find it an indispensable gift. Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, I own this dirty old mind. Whatever comes out of it, I take full responsibility for it. From the best in dirt the most beautiful things can grow. I have met some on the most playful and dirty minded people right here on this site. Thanks to one and all! May we play in the mental mud bath once again soon. I'd say more, but it would be censored but I'm sure the people here can fill in the blanks. Take care, PatrickGC

Does sexy have an age? Not to me. Christly Brinkley (61) Michelle Pfeiffer (57) Sharon Stone (57) Courtney Cox (51) Julianne Moore (51) Cheryl Tiegs (68) Suzanne Somers (65) Raquel Welch(75) and there are plenty more.

Not everyone has the confidence to ignore an insulting post, comment or jibe or to realize that they are perfect just the way they are. So for them, I post this. When you feel you aren't good enough know there are thousands who'll think you are:) http://www.lamborgenius.com/2975436-8609921

Would like some escort recommendations for next week Wednesday night, prefer outcall to my hotel. Feel free to send me reco's. Either post or PM.

Woman are sexy all over, but I do find that a woman's back can be a very sexy feature, from the nape of her neck all the way down to just above her butt! Just curious if anyone else thinks the same thing?

Oh Hell... I fall in love with all of you !! I have 35 engagement rings in my safe probably .... No just kidding about the ring thing.... I do have two bra's and a pair of ear rings there tho to return :) Shouldn't be too complicated me thinks. On a serious note Emma... speaking of drama... I did enjoy Allotta bit of CSI up close and "under the covers" work/pleasure to determine if you were ....... Innocent ? OR Naughty ? Emma !! You have the right to remain silent ....... ;)

That's why i generally use the Google image search as it usually takes care of that for you. also another thing i like to do is Google search the number to see if its linked to different ads and names, doesn't work 100 percent of the time, but i have a good example of when it did work. I found an ad for a great looking brunette on BP so i checked out the pics and they came back clean, I then searched up the number on Google and it came back with a bunch of ads with different girls (and even a guy). This doesn't necessarily mean that this is a bad situation but it always raises flags for me.

Heh. Come on Rebecca...we both know that you like pretty much every part of your body to be touched. You're like a big pussycat and you just purr the whole time. :-D

I dont know if I have a sexy back but I loooove my back to be touch & caress.. One of the most exciting part of my body to be touch!! :)

Ya, what the Hell, snow for a Spring Social. I was hoping to wear my Speedo.

Ultimately C.-36 will be overturned on a multitude of grounds, not least of which, is that it interferes with a person's right to safety in society. By effectively distancing all concerned from legal protection. It ostracized the individual based solely on their choice of work, and literally prevents them from securing a safe work environment. It is in short a human rights disaster. The truly violent in our society are not deterred by laws, and in this case the bill actually increases their control over another person. The police are well aware of this and are therefore quietly working around this unjust law. PatrickGC

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Hmmm was hoping to wear something that screams summer but i guess I'll have to wait until the summer social...don't worry I won't be wearing a turtleneck ;) Bianca

Wasn't able to go the last couple of socials, not missing this one though, can't wait!

A small chocolate frosty at Wendy's. Yup... Cause that's how I roll on a Sunday evening... Pilates tomorrow am! Xoxo, Miss Lane

Helen Mirren (69)! Smart, sexy, outspoken. What I'd give just for dinner with her!

Being surrounded by morons returning from vacation in the airport....FFS you fly once a year and think you own the airport....Where the hell are peoples manners?....

On the sunny side, I feel like the strip clubs will offer more variety and more strippers (perhaps more quality ones also). They probably going to become dive or gents clubs, depending on their politics, but I feel the customer will have more "bang" for their buck... Just saying...

Two things make me happy :) my little dog Mia and my work! I love this business, seeing a client leave satisfied and wanting to see me again, definitely puts a smile on my face!

I am currently making changes to my website... but I'm still available to meet! Let's share some deliciously intimate time together at my private and discreet downtown location, or invite me to visit with you at yours. I am currently in full-time studies, with a fairly flexible schedule. Please have a look at my website to find out more: http://www.kathrynbardot.net Reach me by email at [email protected] A little bit more... 5'8" 34B-28-38 Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a few lovely tattoos. Read what others have to say... http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15829 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63938 xo, Kathryn.

I'm 23. I'm really kidding! I'm in my 60's. My soul is still 23, lol.

I think a 45 minutes option is great. Never really thought about it. Thanks for bringing this up.

I saw a little confusion under the "discussion" thread about freddigirl and felt compelled to write a review. She has a few different ads that she runs on CL but doesn't use her Cerb handle there. Firstly, the pics are hers. I will say that as a rule, I don't visit with girls locally. I travel a fair amount throughout Canada and the US and usually reserve my hobbying for out of town (if anybody is heading the Phoenix PM me!!!). This is mostly because I don't really enjoy the transient girls and there haven't been any girls in town that meet my specific taste. I'm sure many of them are excellent people and great at what they do, it's just a personal taste thing. But freddigirl is different. She's young enough to enjoy the beauty of youth but mature enough to conduct herself with confidence and experience, hot, sweet, professional, and just an all around pleasure to see. She has a hard fit body with beautiful curves and a beautiful face. I would describe her style as somewhat submissive which is perfect for me. If you're looking for a "take charge" kind of girl, you may not get it from her. I've seen her 3 times now and would repeat more often if our schedules allowed. We had a minor pricing mix up and I now have a reason to go see her again very soon : ) I highly recommend. JB

I am optimistic about this. With police turning their backs on this as mere rubbish I think in one year all this will be forgotten. Ladies that run a quiet, discreet service have no more worries that they did before. Likewise for those of us that see guests in high end non suspicious hotels. Gents are you nervous? Do your homework, see ladies , young of older with a reputation and everything will be fine. Although there seems to be a few less visitors that is to be expected. We are all treading new water and some are less informed that others. We are doing nothing wrong, lets hold our heads high and continue doing what we all love!

The former, I think. The only real effect of the new law that I can see is that we have to be more careful about what's discussed and what isn't (hence the censorship you may have seen), and ladies - and especially agencies - have to be careful about what they advertize. Lyla seems to be taking a rather more play-it-safe approach to this than some other places. The official myth is that nobody here is offering sec for money... when we spend time with the ladies we... well, I don't know what we do, but it's definitely not sex, okay? ;) But apart from that, I don't think there's been much impact on who does what with whom. I've also heard that there's a lot of folks out there who don't know the law changed at all! Additional Comments: I disagree. The zealots will always complain that not enough heretics are being rounded up and burned at the stake; nobody else cares about quotas. Occasional bust on the streets, yes - this is far and away the most visible sector of the industry, and therefore the one that the public tends to complain about. Posing as incall escorts? I was originally concerned about this possibility too, but so far it doesn't seem to be happening and I recall having one conversation with one of our lovely ladies where she gave me some good reasons why it'd be very unlikely. Unfortunately, I can't remember what they were :( The same way as the old laws were: by demonstrating that the restrictions imposed make things more dangerous for sex workers. The fact that LE don't bother enforcing the law much isn't actually relevant; what matters is that the law exists.

I've had someone contact me with the comment that he called me BECAUSE my age was over 40. It is pretty rare, so the ones who do post ages over 29, tend to be fairly busy as many clients are looking for if not over 40, at least over 35.

I implemented 45 minute appts a while ago and it is a good time to frame to offer. Some people just don't have an hour in the middle of the day while they often sneak away from work to meet a lady and sometimes a half hour isn't enough.

I prefer 60 to 90 min. appts. I like to take my time even if I meet the Lady for the first time or the 100 the time.

I am with meaghan. My website and my ads here detail my availability. If I were to post everyday on every site I would have no time to do anything else! Send me a text, an email leave a message!!!! What's the worse outcome..:not avail ;)

I'm a lazy advertiser. There, I said it. I don't post everyday, and try to make sure my ad is on the first page at least. So if guys only contacted me on the days I advertise, I'd be a very lonely girl. My thought is if she specifies when to contact (ie call between 9 am and 9pm), then follow her cue. However, most of us check our email regularly, and even if not available that day will still reply. I turn my phone off when not available. So if I don't reply, feel free to try again another day.

I'm the same way. I advertise on here and backpage. Just because I don't bump ny ad on backpage or put up a cerb ad wary day, doesn't mean I'm not available.

Great question! I prefer not to advertise on backpage unless I have a cancelation or have a day off from work and I'm feeling frisky ;) I advertise on EC and the boards on a weekly basis, and i am avaliable daily with some notice to work around my schedule , as well i prefer text or email for discretion. Felina xo

I think it's more a state of an influx of new members that don't have a clue about the new laws. Ladies are not revealing too much because it is now against the law to discuss. posts are not being made about it so they are going to the source after connecting the dots. It's well within your right to respond anyway you see fit. I think it's more ignorance than LE.

Nothing can bring a smile to my face any quicker than a dog, they are pure joy in a hairy package:) Soulfully speaking, being loved is the real meaning of happiness for me and I'm sure for many. When you know you are truly loved by someone then it's hard not to be happy. Laughter as well, I was at the gym yesterday and a couple of girls were laughing hysterically at something on their phone, the laughter was contagious, it made me happy. It is easy to find, smile, say something nice to someone, or do someone a favor. I guarantee in those you'll find happiness:) Or eat something yummy, food brings me happiness, lots of food:)

The "L" word!! I smile and continue whatever may be going on. I find it is usually a slip of the tongue and they either continue or apologize and that is that. I will see them again. In the case of someone saying the "L" word and becomes stalkerish, infactuated and crosses the boundries, I will decline any further contact and encounters with them.