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If some one doesn't want to see me any more...... shrug If I don't want to see some one any more ...... shrug. No need to make anything or everything complicated. Peace MG

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

Daniel, I believe it's entirely up to you how you decide to handle the situation. Since you've already received good feedback from other members on that matter, I'd like to take this issue to another level when it comes to break ups in SP/clients relationships. What I would like to say applies just as much to the ladies as it does to patrons: when the relationship is over, no matter what the reason is, or are, please move on without causing any sort of drama! Drama is no good for anyone! As far as I know, we are all adults and should respect the other person's choice (to move on) without resorting to petty games, nastiness, threats--of bad reviews, online slender, etc.-- name calling, insults, guilt trips, harassing emails/texts, stalking, and on and on and on, just because our feelings might be hurt or we would prefer the relationship not to end. Once it's over, it's over. There is NO point in trying to destroy the other person. It will not do any good to anyone and will definitely not bring back what you had. It's time to show some maturity, self-respect and dignity and let it go! Let's all remember one of the main reasons we are involved in this lifestyle to begin with... Drama-free fun times!

I have to echo my dear (virtual) wife's opinion In a perfect world, a lady, or gentlemen who no longer wishes to see a client/companion, as the case may be should send a nice email basically saying thanks for our past, but it's time to move forward. I'll remember with fondness our times together, but its time to part ways...or words to that effect. But that's in a perfect world. But even getting a one line "I don't want to see you and want no further contact" is enough The flip side, if a gentlemen or lady receives such an email, take it like an adult. If that gentleman or lady TRULY liked and respected her client/his companion, he/she should respect their decision to end the SP/Client relationship. In other words, be mature, and be an adult about it. Take the Dear John/Dear Jane email on a high note, say goodbye and move on. When someone if they received a "Dear John" "Dear Jane" email pesters and harasses that person, it just shows they never ever cared about their client/companion in the first place. And breaking up was the right thing to do, the relationship was unhealthy Sometimes in this lifestyle, which is about mutual respect and mutually beneficial relationships, ending relationships is the best for all concerned And at the end of the day, all that is owed is time and companionship for the donation paid. An encounter with a regular client/companion does not mean a marriage like commitment. And even marriage doesn't always last a lifetime A long winded rambling RG

As an animal lover, and activist, I have NO doubt animals have emotions! And unfortunately I have seen an animal shed a tear, a horse was being whipped with metal chains for over an hour, and one tear ran down his beautiful face, that was enough to impact me for the rest of my life! As for emotions, of course they do, whoever thinks they don't is heartless, in my opinion! They feel pain, loneliness, happiness, just as we do, animals are simply one of life's blessings, and they ALL should be treated as such

Some may not care, some may not believe others may be on the fence. Some may say it's being anthropomorphic, but is it? Maybe we need to be anthropomorphic to understand the commonalities between species. We do know that animals have and show emotions, we've all seen our own animals/pets react and display emotions and scientific research in evolutionary biology, cognitive ethology and social neuroscience supports this. We also know that elephants have a huge hippocampus, the part of the brain that processes emotions, there are also studies that prove chimps, rats and other animals can laugh like humans, but can they shed tears from sorrow, can they cry? Certainly they can shed tears, but are they from emotions? There are theories, studies and opinions which depict findings to such and that also deny such abilities. But what if it is the case? Would it change your opinion on how you treat them? Would you stop eating them, would you spend more time with them, would you feel more for them? If you saw an animal cry like a human before it was slaughtered, before it was put back in it's cage at the zoo, or put into an aquarium from the wild, would it cause you to react differently than you do now? Would it cause you to care more? https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stuck/201002/can-animals-cry

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

There is one major difference, and I'll speak in generalizations. If a client wishes to break up with a companion, she'll accept the break up and move on. But if a companion wishes to break up with a guy, yes some guys are mature and accept a break up. But many do things, unfortunately, like threaten to bash a lady on review boards, write bad reviews etc. Some even exhibit obsessive behaviour, such as stalking, threatening to out the lady etc etc etc A lady realizes her professional reputation is at stake. So she will remain quiet about a break up. There is no such comparable professional reputation for a gentleman. Any man who has a good reputation as a client will accept a break up and move on. One who does not care about his reputation as a client will be less inhibited about bashing a lady At the end of the day though, relationships take two people. If one of those people no longer wish for the relationship to continue, it's over...time to move on Most everyone at least once, probably more, in their life has been through a break up, either as a break-upee or break-upor. It's hard, no argument, but everyone survives. Move on and move forward Just part ways, don't make the other person's life hell for breaking up RG

Don't know if my dog ever cries, but I sure as hell do when I have to clean up his diarrhea. Arggggg! And of course they have emotions; some animals more than others. Maybe dogs have picked up emotions as a result of evolving with the company of humans. I don't like seeing any warm blooded animal suffer, but many of them are a renewable resource to be used by those higher up the food chain. If an animal must be killed it should be as quickly as possible with no forewarning to the animal. My mercy extends to fellow mammals only though; I'll rip apart a live lobster and toss it in the pot no problem.

I too have never witnessed an animal crying tears from sorrow, however I'll believe the studies that claim they do and accept the claims that say they don't. However, I do believe many humans use the differences in emotional display as a reason to categorize themselves as superior beings.

God , this is such a sad thread , I have been feeling terrible for all the animals that are on the brink of starvation due to this terrible weather , soooo sad . Yes animals do cry , seen it and I have lots of them

Oh yes. Especially when she's fit and athletic. I love the little dimples above the hips...mmm...

Well I have seen my dogs eyes water from wind or dust but I have never seen them cry with a emotion behind it,my sweety Moana Lisa has hip issues so if any of them would cry it would be her,she does have sad puppy look down great when she wants something though. I would never eat my dogs so they are safe anyways,sadly I love steak way to much to stop eating cow. I tried the vegetarian root once but I got so sick I gave it up. I feel for any animal even the ones I fear like rats in fact I probably feel more for poor animals if they could cry or not more then I do most humans who can cry. I have probably rambled enough :)

Let's see... do I have a dirty mind? Most bloody definitely! Being physically disabled society would have me be, among other things, politically correct. That would simply be far too dull of an existence. I am left leaning, both physically and mentally, as well as, in a multitude of other ways. I was at a party last night and was shocked at how calm and contained things were. Spontaneously I made the suggestion that the water supply the spiked with Ayahuasca and surprisingly the older people in the crowd got it immediately, while those 30 and under were stunned and shocked. [This was supposed to be a left wing party where the radicals gathered.] I think a dirty playful mind is essential for life :), and I will occasionally I do get into trouble. At the end of the day I find it an indispensable gift. Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, I own this dirty old mind. Whatever comes out of it, I take full responsibility for it. From the best in dirt the most beautiful things can grow. I have met some on the most playful and dirty minded people right here on this site. Thanks to one and all! May we play in the mental mud bath once again soon. I'd say more, but it would be censored but I'm sure the people here can fill in the blanks. Take care, PatrickGC

Does sexy have an age? Not to me. Christly Brinkley (61) Michelle Pfeiffer (57) Sharon Stone (57) Courtney Cox (51) Julianne Moore (51) Cheryl Tiegs (68) Suzanne Somers (65) Raquel Welch(75) and there are plenty more.

Found that I had couple of hours of free time and decided last minute to go get a massage, as I had just come from the gym, and had worked out hard as I had not had time to go during the cold spell. I have been admiring picture of Kristie for some time as Vibe had started to give us a preview about their latest MA. There is not much on her, but what I could find was that she gave a great massage and were several members favourite. She was being compared to Gina, who is one of my favourites. So I took a chance and called and found that she just had a cancellation and I had the time slot. So fate must have been on my side. This is the first time I have seen someone without any previous Emails, PM's or chats. So I was hoping that made the right choice. When I arrived at Vibe, she was at the reception waiting for me. A beautiful girl that had her hair in tight braids, up in a bun. She wore a bra and panties and high heels that made her seem tall. She gave me a hug and brought me in to the room and started the shower. We took off our clothes, and when she removed her High heels, she was then shorter to me :). She is a spinner, slim, perfect bum and perfect breast, and tanned. She was very beautiful and sexy. Has great sexy eyes also. We begin with a shower, and those that know me, know I enjoy showers. And Kristie was a lot of fun in the shower, she has such a perfect body, and she rubbed it up against me and made sure my whole body was clean, and then again made sure it was clean. The shower was fun :). Then on to the table, where she gave me a really good massage, that was hard and light at times. She is good at teasing and can actually do a massage, which I do enjoy and need :). Body slides felt great, then comes the flip, where she was very erotic. She did things on the table, that I had not seen before in a MA session. She massaged me with her amazing oiled breasts. She was so sexy and erotic, that I did not last as long as I usually do. She cleaned me up and massaged me a bit more. Then invited me to the shower for another hot fun soapy time. Congratulations to Vibe Urban Spa. I think that Kristie will be great addition to the team. Guy's I think you will like her, I certainly did. :) She is Beautiful, Sexy and brings a few different techniques to her massage, that I am sure you will enjoy.

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

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Would like some escort recommendations for next week Wednesday night, prefer outcall to my hotel. Feel free to send me reco's. Either post or PM.

Here's a video of a cow crying just before she is scheduled to be slaughtered. Don't worry, it has a happy ending. https://m.facebook.com/claudette.babineau?fref=nf&ref=bookmark

This will be my first ever social. Looking forward to meeting everyone.

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Cristycurves, you have pretty much summed it up. I don't think anyone will ever find a better definition of happiness! I just wanted to say thank you. This message made my day! PatrickGC

Just practical advise: make your age cut 29 instead of 30. From my observations 29 is y longest lasting advertising age :-). But as many have already said maturity is not always refection of the age. It is more related to the experience, personality, and how you see the surrounding world. Saying that I have to confess that I have maturity age cut myself, just to feel more comfortable.

And I have a feeling you will too :wink: I'm slowly posting my new photos, I hope you're liking them! I'm a petite brunette with beautiful brown eyes and a respectful, discreet and well-spoken woman who carries herself with class and is bubbly and knows have to have good fun :smile: I host at my clean, discreet, smoke/pet free space located in Centretown West near Parkdale & Wellington. My schedule is somewhat flexible so the best way to book an appointment is to request the time and day more convenient for you and I'll do my best to accommodate. Please note I only see first time guests until 8PM. For more information visit my website and also become a member of my private site. For booking or questions, PM me or e-mail me at [email protected] or a text message at 613-400-2722 Isabella Gia

More wine.... it was one of those AWFUL travel days and I flew back into winter :(

Hmmm was hoping to wear something that screams summer but i guess I'll have to wait until the summer social...don't worry I won't be wearing a turtleneck ;) Bianca

Wasn't able to go the last couple of socials, not missing this one though, can't wait!

Helen Mirren (69)! Smart, sexy, outspoken. What I'd give just for dinner with her!

Being surrounded by morons returning from vacation in the airport....FFS you fly once a year and think you own the airport....Where the hell are peoples manners?....

Another reason for their declining popularity - they're getting too damn expensive! Cover charges, expensive booze, $20 for a table dance or lap dance. Better to spend your money on some intimate time with an escort.

I'm 40. I'm kidding! I'm in ny mid thirties.

I am optimistic about this. With police turning their backs on this as mere rubbish I think in one year all this will be forgotten. Ladies that run a quiet, discreet service have no more worries that they did before. Likewise for those of us that see guests in high end non suspicious hotels. Gents are you nervous? Do your homework, see ladies , young of older with a reputation and everything will be fine. Although there seems to be a few less visitors that is to be expected. We are all treading new water and some are less informed that others. We are doing nothing wrong, lets hold our heads high and continue doing what we all love!

The former, I think. The only real effect of the new law that I can see is that we have to be more careful about what's discussed and what isn't (hence the censorship you may have seen), and ladies - and especially agencies - have to be careful about what they advertize. Lyla seems to be taking a rather more play-it-safe approach to this than some other places. The official myth is that nobody here is offering sec for money... when we spend time with the ladies we... well, I don't know what we do, but it's definitely not sex, okay? ;) But apart from that, I don't think there's been much impact on who does what with whom. I've also heard that there's a lot of folks out there who don't know the law changed at all! Additional Comments: I disagree. The zealots will always complain that not enough heretics are being rounded up and burned at the stake; nobody else cares about quotas. Occasional bust on the streets, yes - this is far and away the most visible sector of the industry, and therefore the one that the public tends to complain about. Posing as incall escorts? I was originally concerned about this possibility too, but so far it doesn't seem to be happening and I recall having one conversation with one of our lovely ladies where she gave me some good reasons why it'd be very unlikely. Unfortunately, I can't remember what they were :( The same way as the old laws were: by demonstrating that the restrictions imposed make things more dangerous for sex workers. The fact that LE don't bother enforcing the law much isn't actually relevant; what matters is that the law exists.

This industry is in large part driven by disposable income so it's not unrealistic to think that many of the more active clients are people who are more established financially which in a lot of case is when they are older. As an older guy in my mid fifties who has some degree of financial independence and who enjoys the company of a beautiful sexy intelligent woman I have seen ladies in the age range from 19 to mid 50's and all I can say is I tend to have the best connection with women who are mid thirties and later. I am not saying I have never connected with someone younger just that in general the connection has been better with ladies in their 30's. Now don't get me wrong the younger ladies I have meet have been wonderful... the sex has been great and their bodies have been the thing guy's constantly fantasize about but with the ladies who have had a few more years of life experiences I have just shared a greater connection in addition to the amazing sex. Let's face it... if I am booking for a couple of hours there will be lots of time for other things besides sex and it is that companionship time that often makes the difference for me. Beyond the sex the more mature ladies have generally understood me better.... they had the life experiences that were more in common with me. I will suggest however that these more mature ladies are I think with out exception younger in spirit and outlook then their age might initially suggest and yes they were all extremely sexy. In life as we get older I think we often come to learn to appreciate as sexy things that we might not when we are younger... aging with grace and showing that in how you carry yourself can for me be very attractive. So bottom line I can understand why a lady might choose to market herself to the demographic that she feels she best connects with just like I might select who I choose to meet. As long as the lady who opens the door is genuine to the image she has portrayed in her ads then I don't think I would care that she fibbed about her age. Just my Opinion.... makes sense to me might not to anyone else. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I've had someone contact me with the comment that he called me BECAUSE my age was over 40. It is pretty rare, so the ones who do post ages over 29, tend to be fairly busy as many clients are looking for if not over 40, at least over 35.

I post my true age, I am proud of being 40, love this era of my life. Besides I like posting my age, so that I can attract clients who are closer to my age group. Although I am 40, I feel much younger than that!

It's the perfect amount of time for a "nooner"... lol

I prefer 60 to 90 min. appts. I like to take my time even if I meet the Lady for the first time or the 100 the time.

I'm like roamingguy, plan well in advance so most times it's before they post availability. I've even been lucky enough to have a couple of ladies decide to see me on days they hadn't plan on working. So just ask, worst result is she says no. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I usually advertise daily on backpage. It does not mean I am always available. I like to advertise daily because I do not want to miss out on a person that I might have a great connection with!! Its almost like the lottery..... If you dont play; you wont win ;)

Great question! I prefer not to advertise on backpage unless I have a cancelation or have a day off from work and I'm feeling frisky ;) I advertise on EC and the boards on a weekly basis, and i am avaliable daily with some notice to work around my schedule , as well i prefer text or email for discretion. Felina xo

I don't have set hours and welcome calls anytime. If I'm unable to answer I just hope the gent will leave a message letting me know when he wants to meet and if a call back is wanted and when I can call back. As I'll never return a call unless I'm asked to . So speaking for myself, yes I welcome calls/appts on days I don't advertise:)

I always contact ladies ahead of time. The ladies advertising (I'm referring to their Lyla ads ;-) ) posts aren't helpful to me insofar as a specific date to see them. Where those ads are helpful however is they also provide a link to a lady's website, her Lyla profile (plus chance to read her posts) and contact information. With that information I can contact her, and let her know I'm interested in meeting her at a future date. As for why I can't see a lady on her advertised date, I live in smalltown Ontario, and usually need at least four months lead time to plan a date But a lady's ad isn't a waste, nor should she think it is. Her ads for the near future also attract clients for the distant future encounters too Just a long range planner's rambling RG

Well I'm with Pistol and Excaliber . I think if a gent wants to know about someone then they should research, check reco's, or other threads, or start one to inquire. I would find it intrusive if I were queried and I wouldn't respond. As to whether or not it was LE, who knows, anything is possible. I did have a client not long ago pm me to tell me he had a man pm him asking questions about me, I found this odd as the man had never visited my profile, nor pm'ed me looking to meet. So it happens to others as well. However I didn't ask, nor was I told what questions were asked. I feel it's gossipy, but that's just me.

I would have to agree with this. Now that the ladies have to be far less forthcoming with details, the gents are at a loss for information. (Especially the ones who are not so good at reading between the lines yet.) They are turning to each other, often without realizing that they are still taking chances. While I share your paranoia to a certain degree, I think it is far more likely that most of these are innocently intended requests that are asked without thinking. I try to be as helpful as I can, without taking any chances for myself. Your approach to a reply oldblueeyez would work too. ;)

I think it's more a state of an influx of new members that don't have a clue about the new laws. Ladies are not revealing too much because it is now against the law to discuss. posts are not being made about it so they are going to the source after connecting the dots. It's well within your right to respond anyway you see fit. I think it's more ignorance than LE.

Nothing can bring a smile to my face any quicker than a dog, they are pure joy in a hairy package:) Soulfully speaking, being loved is the real meaning of happiness for me and I'm sure for many. When you know you are truly loved by someone then it's hard not to be happy. Laughter as well, I was at the gym yesterday and a couple of girls were laughing hysterically at something on their phone, the laughter was contagious, it made me happy. It is easy to find, smile, say something nice to someone, or do someone a favor. I guarantee in those you'll find happiness:) Or eat something yummy, food brings me happiness, lots of food:)