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If some one doesn't want to see me any more...... shrug If I don't want to see some one any more ...... shrug. No need to make anything or everything complicated. Peace MG

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

Daniel, I believe it's entirely up to you how you decide to handle the situation. Since you've already received good feedback from other members on that matter, I'd like to take this issue to another level when it comes to break ups in SP/clients relationships. What I would like to say applies just as much to the ladies as it does to patrons: when the relationship is over, no matter what the reason is, or are, please move on without causing any sort of drama! Drama is no good for anyone! As far as I know, we are all adults and should respect the other person's choice (to move on) without resorting to petty games, nastiness, threats--of bad reviews, online slender, etc.-- name calling, insults, guilt trips, harassing emails/texts, stalking, and on and on and on, just because our feelings might be hurt or we would prefer the relationship not to end. Once it's over, it's over. There is NO point in trying to destroy the other person. It will not do any good to anyone and will definitely not bring back what you had. It's time to show some maturity, self-respect and dignity and let it go! Let's all remember one of the main reasons we are involved in this lifestyle to begin with... Drama-free fun times!

I have to echo my dear (virtual) wife's opinion In a perfect world, a lady, or gentlemen who no longer wishes to see a client/companion, as the case may be should send a nice email basically saying thanks for our past, but it's time to move forward. I'll remember with fondness our times together, but its time to part ways...or words to that effect. But that's in a perfect world. But even getting a one line "I don't want to see you and want no further contact" is enough The flip side, if a gentlemen or lady receives such an email, take it like an adult. If that gentleman or lady TRULY liked and respected her client/his companion, he/she should respect their decision to end the SP/Client relationship. In other words, be mature, and be an adult about it. Take the Dear John/Dear Jane email on a high note, say goodbye and move on. When someone if they received a "Dear John" "Dear Jane" email pesters and harasses that person, it just shows they never ever cared about their client/companion in the first place. And breaking up was the right thing to do, the relationship was unhealthy Sometimes in this lifestyle, which is about mutual respect and mutually beneficial relationships, ending relationships is the best for all concerned And at the end of the day, all that is owed is time and companionship for the donation paid. An encounter with a regular client/companion does not mean a marriage like commitment. And even marriage doesn't always last a lifetime A long winded rambling RG

As an animal lover, and activist, I have NO doubt animals have emotions! And unfortunately I have seen an animal shed a tear, a horse was being whipped with metal chains for over an hour, and one tear ran down his beautiful face, that was enough to impact me for the rest of my life! As for emotions, of course they do, whoever thinks they don't is heartless, in my opinion! They feel pain, loneliness, happiness, just as we do, animals are simply one of life's blessings, and they ALL should be treated as such

Some may not care, some may not believe others may be on the fence. Some may say it's being anthropomorphic, but is it? Maybe we need to be anthropomorphic to understand the commonalities between species. We do know that animals have and show emotions, we've all seen our own animals/pets react and display emotions and scientific research in evolutionary biology, cognitive ethology and social neuroscience supports this. We also know that elephants have a huge hippocampus, the part of the brain that processes emotions, there are also studies that prove chimps, rats and other animals can laugh like humans, but can they shed tears from sorrow, can they cry? Certainly they can shed tears, but are they from emotions? There are theories, studies and opinions which depict findings to such and that also deny such abilities. But what if it is the case? Would it change your opinion on how you treat them? Would you stop eating them, would you spend more time with them, would you feel more for them? If you saw an animal cry like a human before it was slaughtered, before it was put back in it's cage at the zoo, or put into an aquarium from the wild, would it cause you to react differently than you do now? Would it cause you to care more? https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/stuck/201002/can-animals-cry

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

There is one major difference, and I'll speak in generalizations. If a client wishes to break up with a companion, she'll accept the break up and move on. But if a companion wishes to break up with a guy, yes some guys are mature and accept a break up. But many do things, unfortunately, like threaten to bash a lady on review boards, write bad reviews etc. Some even exhibit obsessive behaviour, such as stalking, threatening to out the lady etc etc etc A lady realizes her professional reputation is at stake. So she will remain quiet about a break up. There is no such comparable professional reputation for a gentleman. Any man who has a good reputation as a client will accept a break up and move on. One who does not care about his reputation as a client will be less inhibited about bashing a lady At the end of the day though, relationships take two people. If one of those people no longer wish for the relationship to continue, it's over...time to move on Most everyone at least once, probably more, in their life has been through a break up, either as a break-upee or break-upor. It's hard, no argument, but everyone survives. Move on and move forward Just part ways, don't make the other person's life hell for breaking up RG

Don't know if my dog ever cries, but I sure as hell do when I have to clean up his diarrhea. Arggggg! And of course they have emotions; some animals more than others. Maybe dogs have picked up emotions as a result of evolving with the company of humans. I don't like seeing any warm blooded animal suffer, but many of them are a renewable resource to be used by those higher up the food chain. If an animal must be killed it should be as quickly as possible with no forewarning to the animal. My mercy extends to fellow mammals only though; I'll rip apart a live lobster and toss it in the pot no problem.

I too have never witnessed an animal crying tears from sorrow, however I'll believe the studies that claim they do and accept the claims that say they don't. However, I do believe many humans use the differences in emotional display as a reason to categorize themselves as superior beings.

God , this is such a sad thread , I have been feeling terrible for all the animals that are on the brink of starvation due to this terrible weather , soooo sad . Yes animals do cry , seen it and I have lots of them

Oh yes. Especially when she's fit and athletic. I love the little dimples above the hips...mmm...

Well I have seen my dogs eyes water from wind or dust but I have never seen them cry with a emotion behind it,my sweety Moana Lisa has hip issues so if any of them would cry it would be her,she does have sad puppy look down great when she wants something though. I would never eat my dogs so they are safe anyways,sadly I love steak way to much to stop eating cow. I tried the vegetarian root once but I got so sick I gave it up. I feel for any animal even the ones I fear like rats in fact I probably feel more for poor animals if they could cry or not more then I do most humans who can cry. I have probably rambled enough :)

Let's see... do I have a dirty mind? Most bloody definitely! Being physically disabled society would have me be, among other things, politically correct. That would simply be far too dull of an existence. I am left leaning, both physically and mentally, as well as, in a multitude of other ways. I was at a party last night and was shocked at how calm and contained things were. Spontaneously I made the suggestion that the water supply the spiked with Ayahuasca and surprisingly the older people in the crowd got it immediately, while those 30 and under were stunned and shocked. [This was supposed to be a left wing party where the radicals gathered.] I think a dirty playful mind is essential for life :), and I will occasionally I do get into trouble. At the end of the day I find it an indispensable gift. Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, I own this dirty old mind. Whatever comes out of it, I take full responsibility for it. From the best in dirt the most beautiful things can grow. I have met some on the most playful and dirty minded people right here on this site. Thanks to one and all! May we play in the mental mud bath once again soon. I'd say more, but it would be censored but I'm sure the people here can fill in the blanks. Take care, PatrickGC

Does sexy have an age? Not to me. Christly Brinkley (61) Michelle Pfeiffer (57) Sharon Stone (57) Courtney Cox (51) Julianne Moore (51) Cheryl Tiegs (68) Suzanne Somers (65) Raquel Welch(75) and there are plenty more.

Found that I had couple of hours of free time and decided last minute to go get a massage, as I had just come from the gym, and had worked out hard as I had not had time to go during the cold spell. I have been admiring picture of Kristie for some time as Vibe had started to give us a preview about their latest MA. There is not much on her, but what I could find was that she gave a great massage and were several members favourite. She was being compared to Gina, who is one of my favourites. So I took a chance and called and found that she just had a cancellation and I had the time slot. So fate must have been on my side. This is the first time I have seen someone without any previous Emails, PM's or chats. So I was hoping that made the right choice. When I arrived at Vibe, she was at the reception waiting for me. A beautiful girl that had her hair in tight braids, up in a bun. She wore a bra and panties and high heels that made her seem tall. She gave me a hug and brought me in to the room and started the shower. We took off our clothes, and when she removed her High heels, she was then shorter to me :). She is a spinner, slim, perfect bum and perfect breast, and tanned. She was very beautiful and sexy. Has great sexy eyes also. We begin with a shower, and those that know me, know I enjoy showers. And Kristie was a lot of fun in the shower, she has such a perfect body, and she rubbed it up against me and made sure my whole body was clean, and then again made sure it was clean. The shower was fun :). Then on to the table, where she gave me a really good massage, that was hard and light at times. She is good at teasing and can actually do a massage, which I do enjoy and need :). Body slides felt great, then comes the flip, where she was very erotic. She did things on the table, that I had not seen before in a MA session. She massaged me with her amazing oiled breasts. She was so sexy and erotic, that I did not last as long as I usually do. She cleaned me up and massaged me a bit more. Then invited me to the shower for another hot fun soapy time. Congratulations to Vibe Urban Spa. I think that Kristie will be great addition to the team. Guy's I think you will like her, I certainly did. :) She is Beautiful, Sexy and brings a few different techniques to her massage, that I am sure you will enjoy.

It has long been a fantasy to try Greek and none of my mainstream partners in the past have been willing to try. So I decided my next SP visit would be with someone who enjoyed this and offered it. I always pre-book well in advance and look up the SP's I am interested in and took notice of Sabrina's posts (her cerb name is Grass_Hopper). She always seemed so sassy and mentioned a few times that she loves Greek. Booked a morning session (love morning sex) with her and called an hour in advance to confirm. She mentioned she was expecting Rogers after our allocated time (she just mioved to Ottawa) but hates to rush and asked if we could meet for coffee 30 minutes early. Being a big fan of getting to know the person before we get to the playtime I happily agreed. We met for coffee near her place and I have to say it was a neat experience. You ever see a sexy woman and wonder what they look like naked? Well I was sitting with one in the sun knowing I would be experiencing all of her...it was very nice. After a short while we headed to her place (still no rush at all) and talked a bit more. She excused herself to freshen up and I got comfortable. When she got back she had me lie on my front and gave me a baby powder massage (very nice BTW, never had that done before). She was stripped down to a cute set of underwear that really showed off her amazing ass. She flipped me over and proceeded to tease me for many, many, many minutes. I was going crazy as she performed a great BBBJ, rimming and many other crazy things that made my head spin. I kept asking to taste her, or give her some pleasure and she kept saying she wasn't done with me yet. The whole focus for her was pleasing me...and man was that nice (although I do love giving a woman pleasure, it was nice to be selfish for a while). She brought me to the edge so many times and decided it was time for me to do what I wanted. Some kissing then DATY for a while, greatly enjoyed her beautiful and tasty kitty, then on to the main event. The raincoat went on (she put it on with her mouth, something so erotic about that) and we started in Mish. She knew I wanted to try Greek so after a few minutes this look came into her eyes and she guided me in. I am not going to get crazy graphic but the view and feeling was amazing. We did this for quite some time and there is nothing like hearing a sexy woman moaning 'Don't stop'. Because she had me close to the edge so many times my stamina kicked into overdrive. Sabrina took this as a challenge and many more positions, activities and sensual play was performed until she was satisfied that I was...well satisfied.:wink: After a little bit of cleanup she did something that surprised me a bit, she came over, sat on my lap and gave me a very passionate kiss. It surprised me because it was a very intimate and well, GF thing and it was very nice. I noticed after I showered that we were well past our time (despite starting early). She just shrugged and said some things should not be rushed. This was a crazy hot GFE/PSE (definitely PSE) experience and particularly memorable as I tried many new things that I enjoyed very much. So much so that as I was writing this I was getting excited again just thinking about it...thanks Sabrina, looking forward to our next encounter!:twisted:

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

I recall a friend of mine, an older farmer, with his advice on relationships. He said a relationship was like a glass of milk. If someone poured some vinegar in the milk it soured, and a relationship that breaks up it like proverbial sour milk. Now if you could take all the vinegar out of the milk, it's too late, the milk stays sour. Likewise, after a breakup it's like the milk, stays sour even if everything "fixed". And getting back still doesn't fix the sour. Best bet, it's over, ended, move on. Best for both of you BTW my friend said it much better, but this is the gist of what he said RG

Kittens, rainbows and new puppy. Established clients I really like spending time with.

Unfortunately not all subjects are happy ones and if something can be learned by discussing something, then why not? It is sad to a point, after all I did mention that some laugh as well:) I know this winter has been brutal for many species and believe me my pocket book is a reflector. I've been feeding many bird species all winter and worrying about all the other animals that can't get food because of the deep snow, everywhere. However, I was told by someone, that deer will congregate and move in such a fashion to trample down deep snows in fields. Whether or not it's true?? But it was said by someone who spends a lot of time in the woods. Regardless, other than humans, mother nature can wipe out her share in brutal ways.

Here's a video of a cow crying just before she is scheduled to be slaughtered. Don't worry, it has a happy ending. https://m.facebook.com/claudette.babineau?fref=nf&ref=bookmark

Good afternoon, I think it's about time that I make a trip to visit you again, in Saint John! I'll be arriving Friday March 27th and I am so excited to see you!!!! If you're available to get together please email me at [email protected] Please feel free to take a peak at my new website http://www.carleychase.com I hope to see you soon! Sending love and hugs Carley xox P.S. I might, just be happening to be working on a new album! I can't wait to share it with you ;)

This will be my first ever social. Looking forward to meeting everyone.

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 613 712 1200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm

Montreal's large (lots of spots on Montreal's island) but you cant go wrong being in the downtown core, depending of what you mean by "hot spots". There are great indys as well as agencies. Indycompanion.com is a good site of a collective of independent ladies, and the following thread is still relevant in listing the agencies (and should get you started) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=163662 GoodGirls/girls 4 u is an agency you might want to look into, but not exclusively relative to what you are looking for. A few indies too.

Cristycurves, you have pretty much summed it up. I don't think anyone will ever find a better definition of happiness! I just wanted to say thank you. This message made my day! PatrickGC

Come & experience what you've been longing for... I'm back and miss sharing my intimate time with you... As you may know, there are many things that make me different from the rest: You will always be greeted with a warm hug and a smile because I'm always happy to have your company. I take my time and you will never be rushed, I always leave myself lots of time to regenerate my energy so I am able to give you the best experience you deserve: Never be left feeling like you're next in line. I take pride in my clean, upscale environment so you will always feel confident in partaking in a relaxing, sensual journey with me... See how wonderfully beauty and brains can collide. My hours vary from week to week...Here is my upcoming availability exclusively at Vibe: Monday from 10am Until 4pm Tuesday from 4pm-10pm & Friday from 10am-10pm Please Call VIBE at 613 680 8059 To Reserve Your Time With Me. Here are some of my Cerb Recommendations, if we have not already had the pleasure of meeting: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=123097 xoxo

And I have a feeling you will too :wink: I'm slowly posting my new photos, I hope you're liking them! I'm a petite brunette with beautiful brown eyes and a respectful, discreet and well-spoken woman who carries herself with class and is bubbly and knows have to have good fun :smile: I host at my clean, discreet, smoke/pet free space located in Centretown West near Parkdale & Wellington. My schedule is somewhat flexible so the best way to book an appointment is to request the time and day more convenient for you and I'll do my best to accommodate. Please note I only see first time guests until 8PM. For more information visit my website and also become a member of my private site. For booking or questions, PM me or e-mail me at [email protected] or a text message at 613-400-2722 Isabella Gia

A decent cup of coffee, a well made meal and knowing that I put in a decent days work Gotta love the little things. I almost forgot Grandma's pancakes, the best way for me to transport back to my childhood. Posted via Mobile Device

I am currently making changes to my website... but I'm still available to meet! Let's share some deliciously intimate time together at my private and discreet downtown location, or invite me to visit with you at yours. I am currently in full-time studies, with a fairly flexible schedule. Please have a look at my website to find out more: http://www.kathrynbardot.net Reach me by email at [email protected] A little bit more... 5'8" 34B-28-38 Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a few lovely tattoos. Read what others have to say... http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15829 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63938 xo, Kathryn.

I'm 40. I'm kidding! I'm in ny mid thirties.

I certainly do! In fact I get disappointed when there is either very little or NO breast play involved.

hey guys how are all of you great men,just wanted to say hello.I miss all of you!! great big hugs and kisses xoxkyraxoxo

Good evening everyone! I know that for most what I am about to write is a no brainer, however it seems that at most previous socials, we had to take some ppl aside and explain how to behave at these events. So hopefully this will be clear enough. 1. Respect: Appropriate language is to be used when addressing other members. We have many wonderful ladies attending and they are to be addressed as such! 2. What is inside a lady's pants, dress or in their chest area belongs to the lady not the gentlemen's hands. If you can't control ur hands, buy 2 drinks at once to make sure they are busy. Anyone improperly behaving will be asked to leave immediately. As for dress code, there are none per say. Its an individual choice as long as you do wear clothes that cover's most of your body and that they are clean. Lets all make sure everyone can enjoy a wonderful evening! Alexxandria and loneskater!

While I am a bit of a heck geek and love the latest gadgets i kinda think I will stay old school when it comes to booking time with a wonderful companion. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

There is no one right answer to this question as not every companion conducts her business in the same way. I, for example, may be available, but have not necessarily advertised for whatever reason, that day, and vice versa. There is nothing wrong with trying as long as you are polite. If you don't get an answer back right away from text or the lady does not answer your voice call, let her know when you may want to see her. If possible, indicate if and when you may call/text back and/or if it's permissible for her to call/text you back. Even on days a lady is advertising, she may be occupied with other things, and as such will not be able to answer all enquiries right away. However, if you don't get a reply, please refrain from serial texting or calling as that can often be a deal breaker. I once had a gent call me 18 times in a 15 minute span while I was driving, and when he called back later, I was not inclined to answer.

I'm like roamingguy, plan well in advance so most times it's before they post availability. I've even been lucky enough to have a couple of ladies decide to see me on days they hadn't plan on working. So just ask, worst result is she says no. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I usually advertise daily on backpage. It does not mean I am always available. I like to advertise daily because I do not want to miss out on a person that I might have a great connection with!! Its almost like the lottery..... If you dont play; you wont win ;)

I don't have set hours and welcome calls anytime. If I'm unable to answer I just hope the gent will leave a message letting me know when he wants to meet and if a call back is wanted and when I can call back. As I'll never return a call unless I'm asked to . So speaking for myself, yes I welcome calls/appts on days I don't advertise:)

Times and dates listed generally reflect when a lady is available for appointments. Sending messages to enquire about setting up an appointment is not only ok, its desireable. Having pre-booked appointments makes this business much easier for ladies, because we can be better prepared for our day. However, some of us cannot always answer our phones outside of advertised hours because we have other commitments (jobs). Text or email may be better, and it may take us a little longer to respond outside our posted hours. My two cents! Kisses, Porscha

My dear gentlemen, This is the broken record of a " senior lady". I'm really trying to help here and this will be my last attempt at advice, promise. :icon_smile: I think its awesome for gents to visit with new ladies whether here or other sites like BP. However please do your homework, check other ads, run pics through Tin eye and PM each other as to experiences. I love a bargain as do most people , however if I buy cheap shoes I will have sore feet. I used to think it was ok to have sore feet but now I won't tolerate . I find its better to save up and buy quality. Shoes, Steak, Cars, Diamonds, Hotels. I will always stand by the statement you ( we) get exactly what we pay for .

I always contact ladies ahead of time. The ladies advertising (I'm referring to their Lyla ads ;-) ) posts aren't helpful to me insofar as a specific date to see them. Where those ads are helpful however is they also provide a link to a lady's website, her Lyla profile (plus chance to read her posts) and contact information. With that information I can contact her, and let her know I'm interested in meeting her at a future date. As for why I can't see a lady on her advertised date, I live in smalltown Ontario, and usually need at least four months lead time to plan a date But a lady's ad isn't a waste, nor should she think it is. Her ads for the near future also attract clients for the distant future encounters too Just a long range planner's rambling RG

Well I'm with Pistol and Excaliber . I think if a gent wants to know about someone then they should research, check reco's, or other threads, or start one to inquire. I would find it intrusive if I were queried and I wouldn't respond. As to whether or not it was LE, who knows, anything is possible. I did have a client not long ago pm me to tell me he had a man pm him asking questions about me, I found this odd as the man had never visited my profile, nor pm'ed me looking to meet. So it happens to others as well. However I didn't ask, nor was I told what questions were asked. I feel it's gossipy, but that's just me.

I would have to agree with this. Now that the ladies have to be far less forthcoming with details, the gents are at a loss for information. (Especially the ones who are not so good at reading between the lines yet.) They are turning to each other, often without realizing that they are still taking chances. While I share your paranoia to a certain degree, I think it is far more likely that most of these are innocently intended requests that are asked without thinking. I try to be as helpful as I can, without taking any chances for myself. Your approach to a reply oldblueeyez would work too. ;)

The "L" word!! I smile and continue whatever may be going on. I find it is usually a slip of the tongue and they either continue or apologize and that is that. I will see them again. In the case of someone saying the "L" word and becomes stalkerish, infactuated and crosses the boundries, I will decline any further contact and encounters with them.