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I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

A woman's back may not always be the first thing we notice ;) But certainly very sexy for those who pay attention to details... I find a woman's back very alluring. I'm often told mine is athletic, fit but still feminine and delicate. If you like a sexy and athletic back with nice curves, I hope you enjoy this pic and that one too ;)

http://www.cbc.ca/m/sports/hockey/nhl/carey-price-gets-emotional-in-meeting-with-b-c-boy-1.3006502 Programs like these are so important. I am trying not to cry while at the nail salon. Don't mind me lol

Cristy, there certainly are contradictions everywhere here. But I'd like to point to the ''hybrid'' scenario where you are both friend and frisky buddy. I give another example from my life here on cerb and the Ottawa scene. Some ladies maintain regular communication with me outside their work. In some instances, the lady is initiating and continuing contact with me by text, calls or emails. I've had some ladies that must have spent 2-3 hours of their day sending hundreds of texts back and forth with me playfully. And I was very happy and grateful to receive them. I believe it was mutual. So to put it in perspective, if I am seeing someone for 1 or 2 hours in a week and they spend 3 hours texting, talking and messaging, I take it as a sign that perhaps we are a bit more than just a business relationship. Especially if they are sending personal photos of themselves, their pet and friends. These are the kind of people that I could be connected to for life, even if we didn't keep a physical interaction. I'd still offer them a helping hand, a shoulder to lean on and my time and companionship when they needed it. In these cases, if it unfortunately has to come to an end, the ''break-up'' really feels like a break-up. I personally don't like hurting anyone's feelings and I'm telling you, it happens more often than you think. Also, I am reading some posts here focusing on the paid friendship aspect. I have personally always seen the exchange not so much as payment but as me taking care of someone who is taking care of me. I think folks get caught up on the paper currency aspect of it, but on a more primal and basic level, the male is providing the female with resources (money for shelter, food, clothing, etc). Isn't that often the case in some male-female relationship? (I recognize that there are many women out there who do not depend on a man, and some women are the ones taking care of their man. Just saying.) I perceive some sort of negative reaction when we talk about paying for companionship. It shouldn't be, IMO. In my non-industry relationships in the past, it was not uncommon for me to drop tens of thousands of dollars a year on a girlfriend in cars, gifts, travel, restaurants, shopping, etc. None of my past gf's ever asked me for something. I gave because I wanted to give and we had a great time exploring the world together. So why focus on the payment? Why can't we just look at it as taking care of or helping a casual gf or a friend? (and if the lady is already wealthy and I'm still paying her, then I'd have to amend my position and say that I am spoiling someone I care about :icon_biggrin:)

It's not that they don't care about their reputation as a client. They probably don't even realize the damage they are causing to it, because in their mind, they are in their rights. Unfortunately, writing a negative review in retaliation of a break-up is only part of an escalation process. It rarely ever stops there...When a lady fires a client, it is certainly not because he was too handsome. These parasites may write all the crap that they want online, we are not the ones who will end up with a restraining order at the end of the day. We have this power.

This seems to be a sensitive topic, and I am not surprised. I have been on both sides of the crossed lines and have had to end a cerb connection more than once (favourably and unfavourably). I sincerely did the best I could to be respectful and mature, but sometimes it just got ugly. I observed in all of my experiences that someone felt rejected in some way and it caused discomfort to say the least. Now some will deny the rejection and say they have no feelings for any of their connections. However, in my own experiences (can't speak for everyone), this was not true. To me, it's that 1 out of 20 that tugs at your heart. Guys and gals here have genuine feelings. Be honest. And just because you have not yet met someone in this industry that triggers those emotions, it does not mean that there isn't someone out there that can't touch your heart. It is possible. And if that happens and the other person ends it abruptly, rejection will occur. The nature of human beings and their chemistry make it very challenging to remain unattached to everyone you see. Some people will inevitably develop feelings for another. I know I have. And I have had others who felt that way about me. At first, I tried to brush it off as infatuation but I quickly realized the signs were there and I was denying those emotions. And I recognized those same patterns when the roles were reversed and someone wanted a relationship with me. So when it ends, it can be hurtful. I see that some ladies and gents here are suggesting they have the ability to control their emotions and always keep it professional... A wise policy and I admire their dedication to establishing defense mechanisms to prevent those awkward moments. However, I would wager some individuals in this industry are not the greatest at self-control. Just saying. I know you must have all met someone at one point or another who was not playing with a full deck, was in a financial jam or was under the influence of something that would affect their mood and perception. In my experience these people are even harder to reason with and ''break-up'' with. Have you ever tried to end it with a lady who gets really upset, yells and curses at you, calls and texts incessantly and then says they hate you? Well, it happens. And when they are intoxicated, it's a disaster. You can get hurt, physically. Been there, done that. How can we expect to control our feelings? I think the better word may be ''manage'' them. But in the end, if you had real feelings for another, wouldn't you take the shot to find out if it's mutual? If it is not mutual, then you move on and fast... and gracefully. I really don't think that having feelings or ugly ''break-ups'' in this industry is that uncommon, regardless of whether it's on the man or the lady's part. I understand the point some have made here that in an ideal world it should be dollars for dildos, but I know I am not built that way and I am sure other cerbites will feel the same way (even if they won't post about it for a number of reasons). If someone you've seen 25 times for years just disappears or blows you off, it will sting. Human curiosity and rejection will prevail. In any case, I think the topic took a tangent again and, although I did not believe myself capable of this, I think I just rambled more than Roaming Guy. :icon_smile:

If some one doesn't want to see me any more...... shrug If I don't want to see some one any more ...... shrug. No need to make anything or everything complicated. Peace MG

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

I'm ready to answer another question...lol Bianca xxx

I am finally able to make it to a Ottawa social. Looking forward to meet some new faces.

That ad caught my eye too. Unfortunately, the pic popped up in a lot of other places in Tineye.

I don't know if I would call it ending a relationship, but a couple years ago under my previous cerb handle I had a moment where I decided I wouldn't see Emma Alexandra again, I had seen her twice both two hour appointments. The first time I saw her was amazing we got along, she put me at ease it was the first time I would say I had the prefect intro-appointment. I remember I went home and wrote a glowing recommendation about it, even said something I shouldn't have (toothpaste). A few weeks later she announced another trip on her birthday no less, I made an appointment right away. I found the thought of seeing her again a little consuming, I worked double shifts so I could get the time off and so my budget wouldn't take a hit. The second appointment was even better then the first. I remember near the end sitting on a couch with her and deciding that I wanted to take a back from the hobby, it was because she was occupying my thoughts a little to much and I wanted to try to find something real. In my mind I had the highest expectations of her this second time around and she blew them away, she lived up to the fantasy that I had created in my mind. I decided that no matter what I wouldn't see her again, I saw her twice both times were prefect even now those two appointments are the best I have ever had and I want to preserve that memory, where do you go from 10, not up. I never told her that and I hope it's OK that I put it up here. Now years later I'm kinda back at the hobby, I take long breaks between appointments. Few and far between make it better for me. Posted via Mobile Device

There is one major difference, and I'll speak in generalizations. If a client wishes to break up with a companion, she'll accept the break up and move on. But if a companion wishes to break up with a guy, yes some guys are mature and accept a break up. But many do things, unfortunately, like threaten to bash a lady on review boards, write bad reviews etc. Some even exhibit obsessive behaviour, such as stalking, threatening to out the lady etc etc etc A lady realizes her professional reputation is at stake. So she will remain quiet about a break up. There is no such comparable professional reputation for a gentleman. Any man who has a good reputation as a client will accept a break up and move on. One who does not care about his reputation as a client will be less inhibited about bashing a lady At the end of the day though, relationships take two people. If one of those people no longer wish for the relationship to continue, it's over...time to move on Most everyone at least once, probably more, in their life has been through a break up, either as a break-upee or break-upor. It's hard, no argument, but everyone survives. Move on and move forward Just part ways, don't make the other person's life hell for breaking up RG

That's why i generally use the Google image search as it usually takes care of that for you. also another thing i like to do is Google search the number to see if its linked to different ads and names, doesn't work 100 percent of the time, but i have a good example of when it did work. I found an ad for a great looking brunette on BP so i checked out the pics and they came back clean, I then searched up the number on Google and it came back with a bunch of ads with different girls (and even a guy). This doesn't necessarily mean that this is a bad situation but it always raises flags for me.

one of the honey's I sell in stores is a cinnamon honey. Honey itself it is a fav topic of mine. It has amazing health benefits. But make sure your using raw unpasteurized real honey. For instance if you have a blemish put some honey on it and cover it if you like with a small band aid and in the morning take it off. The honey is a low grade hydrogen peroxide and is amazing for cleansing your skin. I could go on and on but will not because most of this you can easily find on the internet.

30 minutes just isn't enough time to get to know a lady, and be comfortable with her before having an intimate encounter. On the other hand, I never seem to last a full hour, especially when I'm with a lady that is very sensual.I've requested 45 minute appointments a few times and am usually accommodated. For me, a 45 minute appointment means that I have enough time for an enjoyable encounter, and I can visit my favorite ladies a bit more frequently. Would anyone else like to see 45 minute appointments become a standard offering?

Linguistic skill or dexterity of the feet? I believe that's the question. For me I prefer to showcase my skills as an orator, as my feet are not dexterous at all.

Well speaking for me I give a gift and tip I won't say publically how much...thats private But for me an encounter has an intangible value far exceeding any donation asked for I hope my gift/tip giving shows just how much I value their companionship As for protocol I have the gift in a gift bag upon arrival. And a tip given at the end of the date I don't know if thats an answer RG

Never heard of any protocole...it goes from no tip at all to very generous tips and gifts... You decide ;)...whatever you will give will be appreciated. Bianca

I was given a teaspoon of honey by my grandmother in the late 50s when I was sick. Today we look to the over-the-counter cures, or prescriptions. Grandma was a lot wiser than I gave her credit for.

Agreeing with honey man, love my raw honey!! Honey to heal wounds, it is TRUE and used in many hospitals in Europe. Watch this quick video: And for the ladies that like "home made masque", honey=adieu to pimples and welcome healthy skin...a honey face masque works wonders leaving skin purified, clear, silky, soft skin like a baby :)

WC, your point is very interesting and a novel way of thinking about it. Perhaps it helps you put a particular perspective for yourself on the 'relationship' that appeals to you. That being said, I think that many might view being thought of that way as condescending. I think quite a few companions take great pride in being fiercely independent business women. They provide a service, advertise, market, manage and operate it in a complex environment with a lot of variables, difficult customers and other challenges. Not implying that your mode of thought is insulting but (putting on my feminist hat), it might be seen as a bit patriarchal. Back to the currently discussed topic. I agree that the majority of companions "breaking up" with clients is due to bad behavior from the client but I can think of at least a couple other reasons. One, retirement. Sometimes people leave the business. And two, getting too attached. I've read right here on CERB and even spoken to ladies who've been in a situation where they found themselves developing feelings for someone and had to break it off. I actually had to do that myself with a friend (not an escort) for whom my feelings were inappropriate and un-reciprocated. I broke it off to protect my heart but it was painful nonetheless and left a big hole in my life. Anyone think of other perfectly innocent reasons why someone would break off the relationship? I know people aren't generalizing but it kind of feels like beat up the client day here.

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I feel like there are some contradictions in some of the posts here. Some elude to friendships don't happen when paid, yet on other posts it's been said that you can become friends when in a pain relationship. Regardless, I feel it best, when in a paid relationship to keep it that way. I would think that drama may be more likely or more dangerous when one knows someone personally, when the two move from paid to friendship. Either way, I'll never understand wanting someone that doesn't want you. I also believe that either side can be subject to inappropriate behavior. After all, some companions move on as well, simply because we want to move on, not because of anything nefarious or negative.

We may also consider this from another viewpoint. Do animals possess the emotions we lack or don't have access to? Often human beings see themselves at the top of the evolutionary ladder. Yet when you take any singular moment in your day there is so much what we are unaware of that I often find it mind-boggling. It is not too much of a stretch then, to consider that there might be emotional experiences literally outside of our comprehension. Many animals and indeed some brain injured people live in such vastly different worlds that they would have to have additional emotional states more in line with their reality. The most accessible example of this is someone who feels uncontrollable rage, and I only picked this example because in our culture negative traits are often more visible. But the converse could equally be true, and not just with human beings. At the end of the day we may yet find that, as a species, we have only been nibbling on one corner of a much larger emotional pie. PatrickGC

I have always been a sporty girl, I love to keep active doing different things in the summer like soccer, tennis, roller skating, hiking, biking, jogging. In winter I like to go ski, skating and going to gym. The treadmill is one of my favorite friend and I love doing SQUATS Lol! They make me sweat in a sexy way and keep it really, really firm... ;) Finally, having a dog keeps me in great shape too, especially when we are going for long walks. Hey, let's not forget that staying active is a great way to deal with stress! And we all know the most fun, natural way to burn calories and be happy (wink, wink ;)

I have always loved the look of a lady lying on her stomach on the bed... that combination of back and butt just is amazing. Just my opinion. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I remember your lips on mine...mmmm Time for a duo gorgeous!! Bianca xxx

For me, kissing is seductive, it always turns me on... Especially if you remember that I love kisses on the neck as well ;) Kissing is something natural when connection is shared. I also think it makes the date more fulfilling and fun. Who will say the opposite ? Who doesn't like to feel the heat raise, one's body getting warmer and the atmosphere becoming more sensual... ? You know when you think: omg, he/she is into it, this is going to be really nice and fun !! This being said, each his own and I understand and respect people that find it too intimate or engaging. For those who like kissing, a magical date might be what will come next... ;)

I recall a friend of mine, an older farmer, with his advice on relationships. He said a relationship was like a glass of milk. If someone poured some vinegar in the milk it soured, and a relationship that breaks up it like proverbial sour milk. Now if you could take all the vinegar out of the milk, it's too late, the milk stays sour. Likewise, after a breakup it's like the milk, stays sour even if everything "fixed". And getting back still doesn't fix the sour. Best bet, it's over, ended, move on. Best for both of you BTW my friend said it much better, but this is the gist of what he said RG

Lets be frank here, my response is as one sided as yours. If a lady ends the relationship 99% of the time the client has done something - plain and simple....A client ends the relationship when he has moved on or wants more. Yes, relationships are complex but a business relationship is one that does not require feelings and should not result in resentment. Im firm on my belief that if your resenting things, you crossed the line. A client should NOT develop feelings for a companion and if he does he should walk away instead of making things weird.... One can't compare this lifestyle to a real relationship, this is how lines get blurred and how problems start. You keep mentioning drama, do you enjoy it? a relationship in this lifestyle should be drama free....

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

This is a great post! Very informative and like most natural foods, there is a lot to them than meets the eye. Take it from someone who has been through an all-natural treatment for cancer, it certainly does incredible wonders for the body. Honey and cinnamon is one of the things I've been using daily to help my digestive tract. Certainly has helped!

in China and Japan all school aged children eat a teaspoon of honey every day. Did you know that honey is the only thing in the world that can fight the super bugs they get in the hospital. Honey is the only food that never spoils. Then you also have bee pollen, propolis and royal jelly. Bees give us many gifts

The most I do is go to see a beautiful lady as often as I can. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Talking about dogs... As a dog owner, I have seen too many times, people getting dogs just to show off or for appearance... and unfortunately, lots of people don't take responsibility for their pet's welfare and make sure to provide a safe environment for them to strive. Animals are beings with souls and emotions...so yes they feel pretty much the same emotions as we do and they cry sometimes... Especially when they are mistreated and left alone. If you don't have time/money or patience, don't get a dog lol (especially a puppy or big dog). It is a long term commitment and investment requiring that one is ready and willing to invest time, money, patience and love. For the other animals in nature...I sometime wonder if mother nature, intended this "natural selection" to keep some time of balance ? Anyways, it always breaks my heart to see this. And props to compassionate people that always try to help the best they can. :)

Oh Hell... I fall in love with all of you !! I have 35 engagement rings in my safe probably .... No just kidding about the ring thing.... I do have two bra's and a pair of ear rings there tho to return :) Shouldn't be too complicated me thinks. On a serious note Emma... speaking of drama... I did enjoy Allotta bit of CSI up close and "under the covers" work/pleasure to determine if you were ....... Innocent ? OR Naughty ? Emma !! You have the right to remain silent ....... ;)

As an animal lover, and activist, I have NO doubt animals have emotions! And unfortunately I have seen an animal shed a tear, a horse was being whipped with metal chains for over an hour, and one tear ran down his beautiful face, that was enough to impact me for the rest of my life! As for emotions, of course they do, whoever thinks they don't is heartless, in my opinion! They feel pain, loneliness, happiness, just as we do, animals are simply one of life's blessings, and they ALL should be treated as such

Montreal's large (lots of spots on Montreal's island) but you cant go wrong being in the downtown core, depending of what you mean by "hot spots". There are great indys as well as agencies. Indycompanion.com is a good site of a collective of independent ladies, and the following thread is still relevant in listing the agencies (and should get you started) http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=163662 GoodGirls/girls 4 u is an agency you might want to look into, but not exclusively relative to what you are looking for. A few indies too.

I think a 45 minutes option is great. Never really thought about it. Thanks for bringing this up.

This site will give you lots of helpful info concerning this business, proper protocols, laws, others experiences, etc. But keep in mind, any comments about anyone are just another's opinion and or experience and those should be taken with a grain of salt. People say things for a myriad of reasons and not always for the right reasons. Do your own research when wanting to meet anyone, make sure their pics are real, that they are of legal age, that they are to your taste, but most of all, communicate with your intended companion, that will tell more than anyone's opinion. In the end, only you can determine who will be your best match, not someone else. Most here are helpful and will answer any questions you may have. It's about having fun, staying safe and meeting new people. I hope you enjoy and find it to be all you want and need.

I implemented 45 minute appts a while ago and it is a good time to frame to offer. Some people just don't have an hour in the middle of the day while they often sneak away from work to meet a lady and sometimes a half hour isn't enough.

We all started with this hobby at one point, glad this site could help. I was noob no less than a year ago. :) enjoy your stay.

Always, always, if you see a companion outside of an encounter in public, don't acknowledge her. Actually acknowledging her in public is impolite. She may have a family that doesn't know what she does. Or a daytime job and those co-workers don't know she is also a professional companion. The lady you see may genuinely like you. You may genuinely like her. But any acknowledgement that you know and like one another is done discreetly within the confines of an encounter or in otherwise private circumstances (ie email) The lady expects you to be discrete the same as she would be discrete if she saw you in public. If concerned about being impolite, you can always text/email the lady after seeing her, and say you saw her but didn't acknowledge her because you were being discrete...she will understand and appreciate it...and consider you polite for not acknowledging her publically A rambling RG

Good information - thanks ! I always got my kids to use honey on their pancakes instead of syrop.

I think one reason why sps dislike the 'your daughter' question is that it kind of presumes that as parents, sps failed the test if we say that we are OK with it. It also presumes that as sps, we are more likely to encourage our children to choose sex work. The reality, in some cases for some sps, we are simply more open minded about sexuality and sex activity choices, perhaps. So if we are OK with our female or male relatives choosing sex work over something else, it is because we know it can be done safely and healthily and by choice, so of course we would be OK with them choosing it. We know also that it is entirely possible to do this without coming to any harm, over many years, achieve one's goals in a short time period, and have fun along the way. If i wanted my daughter (or son) to be able to enjoy their live, not live pay cheque to paycheque, afford to go to university, afford to travel, and afford to pay their bills and not do a lot of struggling, then I am going to be OK with the type of (legal) activity that allows them to do this. now that's a lot of rambling. :)