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I say: "Oh sweet! The penis picture exchange game! Here's mine"! Then I send the picture of a penis twice their size. Or I send a very nasty one, the medical record type of nasty one. I got this idea from a lady here, but I don't remember who. I just thought it was brilliant, hahaha! They see me trollin', they hatin'...

I think some of the attachment problems may be due to people being young or inexperienced or even just in a bad place in their lives. When I first got started 3 or 4 years ago, I was starved for love, affection, attention, etc. So much missing in my life caused me to develop inappropriate feelings that led to much grief. I wasn't able to separate sex and chemistry from real love and attachment. Experience makes such a huge difference. I totally understand what ER means. If there's no chemistry there's no point and there's no way to force it to happen. Only experience, however, will let you understand that you can have tremendous chemistry and really like each other while never forgetting the true nature of the relationship. I enjoy this hobby so much more now that I have no confusion in that regard. I would definitely walk away from any situation in which I felt un-reciprocated 'feelings' were being developed by EITHER party.

Chemistry is not emotions or feelings its a connection. You can't buy chemistry or pretend its their. You either have it or you don't. There is a HUGE difference between chemistry and feelings and the two should not be confused with one another. I won't spend any amount of time with anyone that I don't have chemistry with, there is no point. However if you choose to wreck great chemistry with the confusion that you love me - its bye bye. No amount of money or great company is worth the problems feelings cause. If you had feelings for your doctor you would probably find a new one, same goes with a companion. I hate having to be blunt and to the point, but there are ALOT of people out there who this its ok to cross the line when it comes to feelings.

So many things. First of all I am sitting in my greenhouse where it is 29 degrees. Just about ready to strip down - no wait, not good imagery. My road is open to traffic but only one track with 12 foot banks on either side but I am free! I went to Veseys yesterday and got my first seeds so may plant them today. My house disaster is almost cleaned up. I will be in Halifax soon for about a week with all Of my kids there and my baby grandson. And so far, it's only a rumour of another snowstorm on Saturday. Lol.

I laugh, shake my head, then have a "yurk" moment, mark as spam, delete, and forget about it. Dick pics are a turn off! Additional comment: And no, Lee, you cannot send me one either lol

I think this is a great attitude. With some clients' postings, I get a distinct impression that they are projecting onto the sp, then get either hurt feelings or anger when they finally realize that the sp is not swept up in mad love & emotions for them. They may read 'signals' that are not there, or the sp may be unintentionally giving off a 'i want more' vibe, or something they say is misinterpreted. She wants to let him know she appreciates him as a client and wants to ensure he knows he is welcome to contact her again, and he sees that as her falling for him. And she is put on the spot, fear of confrontation, conflict, backlash or just hurting someone's feelings, disappointing them, etc. Loss of income, of course, as well. an sp who does screen well doesn't want to lose someone who went thru the process and started off as a good client. Additional Comments: I firmly believe you shouldn't stay unless you are the type of guy who is willing and able and ready to just go with the flow. Something attracted you enough to get you to the door, and it wasn't just the photo in the ad. So you may be a guy who proceeds with a now lowered expectation, but maybe allow her to do her thing, and see if her thing does something unexpectedly good for you lol i just had this happen recently, i would have been happy enough had he decided to go, he decided to stay, and I thanked him for being a good sport, actually. But he was super nice, polite, generous natured, not rude, condescending or crude, otherwise i would have been the one to show him the door. i doubt if his uncertainty could have affected my personal self esteem on any day, but even less so on that particular day. I know i am not a match for everyone, but i don't expect to be and i don't try to be. I don't tell new clients i am the 'best' or 'number one' or 'great at' anything in particular, i don't tell them they will be 'blown away' or even that they 'won't be disappointed'. i don't hype myself up, and if they still decide to show up, I'd rather they choose to stay because they want to, not because they feel obliged having taken up my time before they got there. it wasn't a lot of notice, he didn't take up more than 15 minutes betwen phone call and arrival, if he decided to go, no one was turned away to accommodate him.

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions

I know lately I've actually received a few dick pics literally out of the blue from guys. :icon_rolleyes: So, I'm wondering personally how everyone handles these! Out of curiosity, ladies (&service gents), how do you react to this? Personally, I have a habit of either ceasing contact or getting angry at the guy in question. Gentlemen, why do you send this, if you ever have? I mean only if you've sent these photos without any indication that she wants one-- do you feel like it may be expected of you to send? :ThankYou:

Block! How rude is that?

I can't begin to understand why anyone could feel obliged to send stuff like that. Do any of the ladies text pics of their rack or other regions?

On second thought..... humor people who aren't afraid to express themselves....... honestly men who are kind to and thoughtful of animals humble intelligence those who are giving, helpful and understanding.... without expectations acceptance men who can cook well.... ultra sexy!

Maybe it's me or this early hour LOL but when I hear the term feelings used it conveys the idea of like and affection beyond just chemistry/connection and even friends. Feelings to me means the "L" word....yes love. Whether real or puppy love This is supposed to be no strings and drama free. A lady wants a good client, not a boyfriend And most gentlemen like this lifestyle because there are no next day phone calls etc Love implies lots of strings and a drama in the making and in this lifestyle would usually be one way without feelings reciprocated A early morning rambling RG

Hi darling, I remember way back that a French lady friend of mine that was visiting and that after I had told her so hot stories told me 'well if they say French ladies R hot, Québécoises R boiling hot!!' and that's what I provide in my companionship times!!! A very boiling hot lady and just aiming at pleasing U and just wanting to make sure U R having a great relaxing and pampering time babe!! But just should U be aware I am a size plus beauty which mean I am not a Barbie darling and LYLA has many Barbie ladies that R very sexy. I am not there to try to divert U from that fact. I love my curves and they can be very pleasurable chéri !! I am an open minded lady that really loves to please in many ways. I am Barbara, an artisan of pleasure and I hope I will get to meet U very soon darling! I am pretty with mid long flamboyant curly red hair, sexy green doe eyes, natural 38D and curvy as suggest my pics. Sexy week of March 23rd to 27th From Monday to Wednesday available from 9 am to 4 pm. Thursday, March 26th from 9 am to 8 pm. Friday I will be off. If U would like to see me at a later time let me know babe with enough advance and I will probably be able to see U love. Beginners welcome! To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Thanks darling! Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

Isn't this why one hires an escort and not have a girlfriend? No drama.

Sunshine, warm(er) weather and flip flops! :)

Not an SP but I have a bit of experience with this as well. I think it really depends and there isn't a right answer. Fundamentally, the question you have to ask is, "Was this a deliberate bait and switch or just me having overly high expectations?" For instance, a couple of times I've met ladies who REALLY didn't live up to what I imagined. The reason in these cases was that the photos were very selective and only highlighted a few features. In one case I went through with it to not hurt feelings but didn't enjoy it very much and felt a bit ripped off. In the other, I simply told her I wasn't feeling it, asked what appropriate recompense for her trouble would be and walked away after paying half her fee. In both those case, I consider myself at fault. They had real and recent pictures of themselves that just didn't show enough. I know that I have particular tastes and I didn't have enough information to make an informed judgement but I rushed in and let myself down. In this case it would be unfair to them to just turn around and walk away. Another situation that could arise is pictures that are very professionally done, perhaps with photoshop touch-ups, etc. These pictures should not be used to form an expectation either because realistically, ain't nobody look as good as a pro photographer can make you look. Personally, I think it's important for SPs to temper those pictures with a few 'real world' type shots (selfies, etc) that are not as polished. Not all do though, so it's really up to you to understand that real women have flaws. You're not perfect either. The final case is a true bait and switch. She is absolutely not what is pictured, described, etc. We're talking, this girl belongs on Cowboy Kenny's page. I don't know what to tell you about that. Never had it happen but I imagine it's a shitty and stressful situation. I like to think I'd nope the fuck right out of there but I'm kind of cowardly and don't like confrontation so I might wind up paying at least some of the fee in spite of it being a scam. I think in a case like that, any money given is just enabling bad behavior. In any event, all the ladies on this site are legit so I'm not sure they can really comment on the third case either. Ultimately, I think that if you make an appointment, you should pay her for her trouble whether you go through with it or not. Unless it's clearly a deliberate scam.

I'm having this problem as well.. I'm not getting any emails from Lyla. (Not that I mind having to sign in everyday, but email notifications were quite helpful..) -P

I do prone a certain degree of relationship with clients and other SPs/MAs. But not the GFE kind. Just a certain level of intimacy to get to know to what point my regulars are willing to try new trends or what kind of play they like. Also in different events (i.e. socials) I get to meet to know what kind of personality my eventual encounters have, so if it does not click with so or so, I know what I'm dealing with... We are just strangers aiming for the same goal: Play. Why not doing it with somebody you enjoy being with, no strings attached?

too soon; it ain't over till its over. I just think its some politician jumping on the band wagon to get his name in the news.

I wanted to make a broad post here for all you gentlemen that rely on Tineye or other image search functions. Generally, you get very good results however no results does not always mean "good. There is a flaw in the search functions and that is the picture must match in order to pop up. If you take a picture, well known on the internet and use it in a search, it will pop up many results. However if you take that same image and FLIP it in any image software, many times the image searches will NOT pick it up. So, if you have someone you're checking out that seems "clean", save the image(s), flip them and try again. Extra time and effort yes, but also extra precaution. Many are not sophisticated enough for this trick but some are and your safety is paramount. Happy searching.

The City of Ottawa has re-opened the Sens Mile today!

And the Punishment is ?

Getting a great price on some upcoming flights....

Your senses were not mistaken and didn't deceive you either... but actually you saw an extremely beautiful and captivating lady! I will fascinate you from the first moment we meet. You will learn that I am a woman who not only has stunning looks, but also has every possible desirable quality you could wish for. With intense seductive charms of a true woman, being both wild and passionate but also able to be softly seductive and delightfully romantic. You will become addicted to my velvety skin, which becomes warmly and infinitely sweetly sensual in the heat of my desire. I love varied and sentimental moments of intimacy. You can be assured your wonderful moments alone with me will put in the shade everything you have ever experienced before. Breathtaking attire transforms me into the vision of heaven. With dedication and tact, I will grant you your deepest and most desirable encounter. I hope you will give me the opportunity to pamper you and cater to your every need and wish. Allow me to help you relax and put a smile on your face. My goal is to provide you with an unforgettable time with an appreciative, unrushed experience. I am visiting: Halifax, March 27th - 30th Encounters will be possible at a discreet location, by pre-booking only. Kindly view my website, prior to contacting me http://www.emilyrushton.com If you would like to get better acquainted, I can be reached at [email protected] Take a moment and introduce yourself, for compatibility is as paramount. Your privacy is important to me and discretion on both parts is held in priority. All information shared will be kept private. I prefer to establish a connection via email prior to any encounter, and I enjoy getting to know who I will be visiting with. Therefore short notice or last minute requests will be declined. I look forward to hearing from you, Emily

What loneskater doesn't know is there is a camera there and a projector inside LOL

I met with Aura solo about a month ago, and was very happy. She is very hard to get a hold of though.

2-1 for Habs in Nashville after two periods, I like the defensive game they are playing, two points would be nice to get to keep ahead of Tampa Bay. Additional Comments: An overtime loss for our Habs,great game with excellent goaltending from both sides, one point could be very important at the end of the season

After much putting off I finally decided to give one of the very very few Asian SPs a try, having a thing for cute Asian girls made this a very very desireable encounter to persue. Well i am glad to say I was not disappointed by Sasaki, her pictures are real and she has a very cute personality and a wonderful appearance. Transforming from her very nice clothes to a sexy white bikini with designs on it and a garterbelt. I was not rushed out and she even engaged in coversation with me before I left, I will surely visit again.

No way. I already bought some Viagra!

I'm ready to answer another question...lol Bianca xxx

It is still too early to determine if it is gone forever. A good lawyer could probably get it open again soon. They could also go the "non-alcohol" route like a lot of US clubs.

Tall, Pretty, Super Curvy, Playful & Friendly! Hosting Downtown. Mark Your Calendars SVP ;) Hello Gentlemen of Cerb, My name is Vanessa Vale, and I would love to meet your acquaintance should you be interested in spending a very nice time with a voluptuous sweetheart ;) I am a very friendly and playful part-time escort ;) who enjoys entertaining nice gentlemen . I will be available for a special meet & greet this coming Thursday April 1st & Friday April 2nd. To see more pictures of me, please click here I will be located right within the heart of the downtown core ;). My hours of availability will be: Thursday April 1- 3:00 pm - 10pm. Friday April 2- 8:00 am - 4 pm. The rates for my time are : 1 hour = 250 1.5 hours = 350 Please note, I do not distribute my cell phone number for all to see. If you are interested in meeting with me, I absolutely require that you contact me via a private message here on CERB as I ONLY feel comfortable connecting with CERB members , and this requires verification via PM. Bye for now, Vanessa Vale xoxo

We may also consider this from another viewpoint. Do animals possess the emotions we lack or don't have access to? Often human beings see themselves at the top of the evolutionary ladder. Yet when you take any singular moment in your day there is so much what we are unaware of that I often find it mind-boggling. It is not too much of a stretch then, to consider that there might be emotional experiences literally outside of our comprehension. Many animals and indeed some brain injured people live in such vastly different worlds that they would have to have additional emotional states more in line with their reality. The most accessible example of this is someone who feels uncontrollable rage, and I only picked this example because in our culture negative traits are often more visible. But the converse could equally be true, and not just with human beings. At the end of the day we may yet find that, as a species, we have only been nibbling on one corner of a much larger emotional pie. PatrickGC

Yeah Sens in playoffs; 4 unanswered goals in 3rd period. This run from 14 points back to being in is the most amazing turn around in NHL history. Lets just hope Hammond and Zibanejad have no serious injuries.

Sens in the playoffs!... For now lol Was at the game tonight, got a bit concerned at the end of second that they would lose the game, playing very lackluster for me. But pulled it off in the third!

I don't know if I would call it ending a relationship, but a couple years ago under my previous cerb handle I had a moment where I decided I wouldn't see Emma Alexandra again, I had seen her twice both two hour appointments. The first time I saw her was amazing we got along, she put me at ease it was the first time I would say I had the prefect intro-appointment. I remember I went home and wrote a glowing recommendation about it, even said something I shouldn't have (toothpaste). A few weeks later she announced another trip on her birthday no less, I made an appointment right away. I found the thought of seeing her again a little consuming, I worked double shifts so I could get the time off and so my budget wouldn't take a hit. The second appointment was even better then the first. I remember near the end sitting on a couch with her and deciding that I wanted to take a back from the hobby, it was because she was occupying my thoughts a little to much and I wanted to try to find something real. In my mind I had the highest expectations of her this second time around and she blew them away, she lived up to the fantasy that I had created in my mind. I decided that no matter what I wouldn't see her again, I saw her twice both times were prefect even now those two appointments are the best I have ever had and I want to preserve that memory, where do you go from 10, not up. I never told her that and I hope it's OK that I put it up here. Now years later I'm kinda back at the hobby, I take long breaks between appointments. Few and far between make it better for me. Posted via Mobile Device

Lets be frank here, my response is as one sided as yours. If a lady ends the relationship 99% of the time the client has done something - plain and simple....A client ends the relationship when he has moved on or wants more. Yes, relationships are complex but a business relationship is one that does not require feelings and should not result in resentment. Im firm on my belief that if your resenting things, you crossed the line. A client should NOT develop feelings for a companion and if he does he should walk away instead of making things weird.... One can't compare this lifestyle to a real relationship, this is how lines get blurred and how problems start. You keep mentioning drama, do you enjoy it? a relationship in this lifestyle should be drama free....

I note to say thank you so much you wonderful kind generous gentlemen of Ottawa... I truly enjoyed myself in your great city for one week... I will return in summer!!!! Best wishes to you all.. Stephanie xo

pics look good, anyone seen her??? http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/lindsay/2118659

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Thanks for all the replies. I think there was a misunderstanding of my question, and that might have been my fault for not wording it clearly, so I'll make a more concrete comparison to alcoholism: Let's say I'm an alcoholic, have never heard the term alcoholic before, know I have a problem, want help, am too ashamed to admit to anyone close to me that I need help, have never heard of Alcoholics Anonymous, and cannot even imagine that help exists and so seeking help has never crossed my mind, me thinking that my own will power alone is all the help I will get. Now let's suppose the alcoholic beverage industry decided to label its products with a quick sentence saying that if you need help to quit drinking, just contact AA, and provides the AA website. This would hardly be accusing each buyer of being an alcoholic, nor would it be claiming to psychoanalyse the customer or provide professional medical help. Rather it would merely be informing me that if I fall in that category, that help does exist and showing me where I can find it, but offer no help beyond just pointing the finger in the right direction. Considering STD risks in this industry, it would seem to make sense that BP and other such websites inform clients with compulsive behaviours that help exists, and just point the finger in the right direction, since some might have never heard of sex therapy or support groups for compulsive sexual behaviour, let alone imagine the possibility of its existence. We see similar labels on cigarette packages and bar walls concerning drinking during pregnancy and I believe lottery tickets too, and food products will often include allergy warnings and all include a list of ingredients. Toys will often include warning labels too. The advertizing of many products and services is highly regulated for reasons of public safety. So I guess my question is whether websites such as backpage should be equally regulated with the same public motives in mind. I guess another way of looking at it is that if we hope for this industry to ever become legally 'normalized' and like any other industry, then the best way to garner public support for it would be to convince the public that it accepts its social responsibilities just like the food, toy, alcohol, cigarette, gambling, and every other industry. After all, if it insists on a 'social exemption' in one area, then it's natural that this can only turn the general public against it.

My dear gentlemen, This is the broken record of a " senior lady". I'm really trying to help here and this will be my last attempt at advice, promise. :icon_smile: I think its awesome for gents to visit with new ladies whether here or other sites like BP. However please do your homework, check other ads, run pics through Tin eye and PM each other as to experiences. I love a bargain as do most people , however if I buy cheap shoes I will have sore feet. I used to think it was ok to have sore feet but now I won't tolerate . I find its better to save up and buy quality. Shoes, Steak, Cars, Diamonds, Hotels. I will always stand by the statement you ( we) get exactly what we pay for .

Appreciation has been expressed to Mod (and owners) for all the headaches they must be going through adjusting CERB to be compatible with this new draconian legislation But to the ladies we adore, they too are having to make similar changes to their websites. Changes which are time consuming and except for this draconian law, absolutely needless. I think all the ladies are also due a BIG THANK YOU for the time and trouble they are also going through, changing their websites etc. So to all the ladies, your efforts do not go unnoticed and are appreciated Thank You A rambling RG

Confidence, but not cockiness...Just a general aura of self acceptance and being able to show others they are perfectly happy with who they are. Selflessness, kindness and empathy. A sense of humour ! Making me laugh is the easiest way to my heart ;), Determination and ambition (no one likes a freeloader). Vulnerability, a good cologne !, a smile that catches your eye, intelligence, a good conversationalist, a devoted father/mother, someone who stands up for what they believe in. Style, class and a demeanour that is able to handle social situations. I'm sure I could add a lot more as the definition of what is sexy to me varies from person to person, these are just a few things that come to mind !

A few things for me...guys that don't come showered and sparkling clean. People that play games with us..example: booking and no showing. People that think we are all on drugs...AND last but not least ..dick pics...lol

from Nicky in Paradise album: Very Beautiful woman :)

I would hope no one would be that inconsiderate. As that would put the sp, at least myself in the awkward position of having to ask him to leave. That is if it were obvious. We obviously need our health to do our job and being resonsible I wouldn't work until I wasn't contagious. Hobbyists should do the same. What if I needed to work because of up coming plans or for any reason. No one can be that horny that they couldn't wait and if they were, use your hand.

I have been working continuous overtime since April 24th, 2000. I don't think she has caught on yet... other than the whole divorce thing.