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I was going to say something like this, For example, we see a picture that is obviously photo shopped. But there is no reason why we also must assume that the photo is not longer representative of the sp herself. That was the point i was trying to make. There is a style of photographs that are meant to attract a specific type of clientele, this is what i was referring to when i said professional photos tell a type of client that the sp is heavily invested in her reputation and her business, and for that type of clientele, it signals that she is the exact sort of escort he wants to see. This is not a client who is impresses by selfies, he is impressed by what professional photos & marketing tell him more about the escort. There are escorts who know who this clientele is, and you can see from their pro photos that this is their main target market. Some agencies are aware of this as well, so they have a tendency to use that same style of photography on all their escorts pages. it isn't misleading, it is doing exactly what it intends to do. i haven't met the sps who use this type of photography, so it isn't my place to decide that they are using photo shop to mislead. If i met face to face all of the escorts who have chosen this type of photography (as in that type of client) then maybe I could claim that i know it is all misleading to use retouching. This is a different market, it is not one that i make claims to try to access. However, I can recognize that the style works, and it is meant to draw in that kind of client. Also that these clients are comparing sites/photos/info from many different escorts or agencies, and all of those are using the same style photography. if the word 'elite' has meaning, this is where it would show up. Elite (wealthy, traveling, business class) clients seeking elite escorts (discreet, professional, attractive, mature, able to blend in social activities, and so on).

Victoria, I find this thread to be distasteful and not in the spirit of this site. I truly feel an apology is warranted. It's one thing to discuss bait and switch (which you have indicated to not be the case), but you are critiquing those that photo shop their pictures to "an extent of changing how they really look". It airs on the side of airing out dirty laundry. I can just see the pm's you must get saying "who are you talking about". Since you have read the sticky on airing out dirty laundry, you understand this is not ok. Especially after posting this: If you can't support others, don't complain about those YOU feel are doing something you don't agree with. Either support others or stay silent please. My civilian look is totally different then my business look. I'd hate to think that someone is going around saying I look nothing like my pictures. My pictures are 100% me. No retouching and no photoshop. I do crop them but that's it. I admire those that get professional pictures done and have no issue with them enhancing them. I've never lost business because of someone else's business practices. I do my thing and do very well. I would never post a critical post like this. If you know of someone who is blatantly posting pictures on THIS SITE that are not accurate, AND you have proof, post in bait and switch or notify mod. However insinuating otherwise is not cool.

Maybe you should take a gander over to the "REVIEW BOARDS" and read the kind and lovely comments from men who admit to never have seeing a certain companion yet tear her photos to shreds. It exists everywhere and the ones who have never met ladies are usually the worst with their comments. Not everything in this business is fairies and rainbows.

I've been here since may 2011 and my weight has fluctuated up and down 20 lbs or so and I have clients that keep coming and never mention anything. Most don't appear to notice. I will say though, I did lose a boyfriend over my decision to do my breast augmentation. He said he would leave if I changed them and he did. So I benefitted doubly when I did my boobs, lol. I went from a C to a D and lost an ass;) I think most men when they find someone they like are fine with some changes, most aren't that shallow. At least the ones I've met.

This is where I have an issue. This site is about positive issues. By "venting," it changes what this site is about. We are not allowed to vent. I'm sorry this issue bothers you, and you feel it's important to point out what others are doing (again this is your opinion not necessarily shared by others, and I still don't understand why you felt the need to vent about). Now, if you were talking about public figures (like Halle Berry making herself appear white in her recent pictures), that's an entirely different matter. However, to mention being 20 pounds heavier, buck teeth and such, sorry, it's not ok ON THIS SITE. Unless you have something positive to say...Please stay silent about these types of issues. Thank you for apologizing.

Today is the first day since I got a flu that I feel myself. Slept a whole night with no coughing and slept in my bed ( was on couch to stay upright) Also is now 6 days with no smoking:) Have no plans to start either! Yay, blessing in disguise:)

I have a theory about those who ask for this 'feature'. I don't think it's REALLY because they want to help the ladies screen or otherwise choose men. As has been pointed out, they already have ways to do that. Also, there are already things like P411 and such that have rating systems for clients. So OP, I'm about to cast aspersions on your motives. I hope you don't take it personally but what I think you and others who have lobbied for this in the past REALLY want is to know is what the ladies think of them. They want to know how they rank, are they actually good in bed, are they attractive, do they have something about them that makes them better than the other guys, etc. It's a competition thing. He who gets the most positive recos wins. Thing is though, think about the position it puts the ladies in. As soon as they write a reco for one client, other clients could potentially be put off. Maybe they don't want a reco written. Maybe they're jealous if one guy got a reco and they didn't. Besides, could a lady ever really write down a true opinion? Their position in the relationship is very different than yours. They will be sexy and intimate with all manner of men, some of whom they might never touch with a ten foot pole in 'real life'. Because they are professionals, they will give their best effort to make that man feel special and enjoy his time with her. Perhaps you're a great client. Maybe you rocked her world. Or maybe you're just ordinary and she faked it. Would you REALLY want to know? This is about fantasy, about believing what we want to believe. There's no room for truth here because, if truth be told, by definition most of us are pretty average. The business model depends on making you feel special. If the ladies were to suddenly develop a case of truthiness, we would probably be dismayed to find out just how forgettable many of us are.

today is my birthday and all 4 kids of mine forgot again. its not like they are young ones. 25. 23, 17 and 15. my 17 year old daughter who lives with me I let it slip it was my birthday so she said she was sorry and wished me a happy birthday from behind her bedroom door when I told her good night. at 9 tonight I got a facebook message from my 25 year old son to say happy birthday. I guess its nice he took the time to message. A phone call would have been nice. Not one of them did a darn thing to try to make my day special or show they care.

I agree the OP's post could have been worded better, but can we please avoid the subtle disparaging of street-based workers? The w*horearchy is really distasteful.

The idea has been brought up several time before here: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126558 and here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=8728&highlight=reviewing+client Privacy, discretion and confidentiality were often brought up against. Addendum; References and it's alternatives (when offered for new clients to the business), is an option.

Isn't discretion the #1 or 1 A) reason a man seeks an SP or MA ?

I think it unfair for anyone to assume why the op suggested this. Only he knows his reasons. What some think is a good idea, others will not. There are as many good reasons for having a reco section for hobbyists as there are bad. The arguments about size, performance are mute since no one should be mentioning those things any way, we are getting paid to spend time with one another, after all. As far as jealousy for being up talked or excluded, if companions can handle that couldn't hobbyists? As far as what's written or even if one is written, there could be a rule that you have to be okayed by the hobbyist before doing so, but.... All these aren't viable anyway as the mod in an old post said writing these would be pushing the boundaries of the law. So next idea:)

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

I have had the displeasure of people misrepresenting themselves with their photography in the past, but it was a bait and switch, not an over photoshopped picture. As pro photographers get paid to make people look their best, I don't expect anyone to look exactly like they do in a staged photo in a controlled environment like a studio. Lighting plays a huge role in how you look in a picture, and a professional can emphasize a woman's best qualities in a way that a selfie will not, but I don't think that is necessarily misleading, it's just a photographer doing their job to the best of their abilities. There is one very beautiful woman who has commented on this thread with a wide variety of pro pictures, and while there may be some evidence of photoshopping here and there, I can say from experience that this woman does indeed look quite spectacular in person. I would be quite shocked if anyone felt mislead by her portfolio, and on a personal level, I think she looks much better in person ( with less make-up - another photography *trick* :p )

MM I am sorry you feel that way, the post was in no way to be disrespectful to anyone, it was simply an opinion on photo shop over kill, and my feelings on it, not to start disrespecting anyone on photos of any kind , which I previously posted, I'm not sure how this offended anyone, but if it did I apoligize, I don't feel it's airing out dirty laundry, when you simply have an opinion, but I am new to Lyla, so again I apologize if the thread did offend anyone

Really if you do know of ladies who have had professional photographs done that are a clear misrepresentation of themselves, you should report it in the Warnings Section of the city they are in. Your post, at least to me implies all ladies who have professional photos done are misleading potential clients. Even ladies I saw and couldn't recommend, their photos were accurate. And to say I have been lucky, I have partaken in this lifestyle since July 2010. Not one lady's photo a misrepresentation of her I haven't been lucky, I do my research. A lady who misrepresents herself with photos needs to be reported in the Warnings Section, because fake or misrepresented photos are part of bait and switch My concern with a thread like this, it paints all ladies who use professional photos as misrepresenting themselves. And ladies who invest in themselves by having professional photos shouldn't be painted with the same brush as those who use what I'll call fake photos Your thread does a major disservice to many professional companions here on Lyla, especially the ones who invest in themselves by having professional photos done. A rambling over cup number two RG

. In reality yes we all provide a fantasy or an escape in what we do. However the reality is this business can be a VERY cruel one and the real truth is very visible on other boards which allow it. This site is a nice and friendly place where the cruel reality of negative reviews or comments do not exist. You would be surprised at how many new people wild believe a post from someone with a high post count (true or not). If we don't not the fact this BS goes on, it will only get worse and people need to be made aware of it.

Socks with sandals ,, seriously ??!! Lol

Tempted Monk, Read the links and you will understand the difference. If after reading the threads you are still unsure, let me know and I will gladly explain ;)

Ladies have their own screening methods And ladies should be the ones to decide if needs be, amongst each other, screening methods It's not for us clients to advocate how a lady screens, just support a lady when she asks a client for screening information from a prospective client Sometimes as part of screening, they look at a board member's posting history Hence why often a lady wants a prospective client to confirm his board handle by PM Also there is the Ladies' Only section on Lyla But who knows what is discussed on the SP Only section of Lyla (which is btw part of this board, just gentlemen not allowed) Just because us men don't see it on Lyla doesn't mean it isn't there And even though I'm not allowed, nor never will be allowed access, I don't feel excluded ;-) RG

You know, up until this point: I was willing to excuse what could potentially be poor choice in wording or a language barrier. If OP had simply asked, can anyone recommend a provider in the $xxx-$xxx range, this wouldn't be offensive. But then OP took it a step further: And further still: Something. Something. Some thing. Not a person, but a thing. And just to be sure, reiterated again: OP, even if my rates were somehow in your concept of a "cheap" price range (because yes, one person's affordable might be out of reach for another person), your post has successfully made my vagina completely retract back up into my body, where it is currently hanging out with my spleen and is never producing another drop of lubrication, ever.

I dunno. I'm interested to know too. I think I could refer a few guys her way. They're obviously not looking for me. Many years ago, I used to visit a town and see a few guys there. To be honest, it was a stressful trip for me. At some point, they informed me that they'd found someone who'd do the job for a lot less plus some groceries. They graciously offered me the chance to counter offer. I declined. It wasn't a whole year later when they were begging me to visit again, but by that time, my circumstances had changed, and it was no longer convenient. I don't blame people for trying to get a better deal, if that's what they want. And maybe people don't need the quality they don't want to pay for. Who's to say that's wrong? Each of us can only decide that for themselves. If someone would be happy with a lacklustre session for cheap dollars, sure. He probably won't like my rates. But I don't price for him. I price for the guy looking for a quality experience. To each his or her own.

to decide on who to see next. There are so many new and beautiful women entering the business, both as SP's and MA's, that it is getting difficult to decide who to see :). I've met many new women lately and have been treated to fantastic experiences. I want to repeat with most of them, plus I like to repeat with many of the one's that I have already met in the last couple of years also. But there is only so much funds and time available. With bill-36 looming, it may be good to meet more new women now, so that if the bill is pass, you will have a larger list of women to choose from that you have already seen :) So many choices and so many wonderful women of Cerb. It is so hard to choose now. ? Decisions, Decisions :) What are you feelings on this ? I bet you thought I was going to be talking about something else. lol :)

This is my first ever recommendation ever on CERB. I have met Molly of CMJ twice already. I know I posted a thread on her , but not in the recomendation thread. Molly by far, is one of the sweetest and most romantic masseuse I have ever met :) And she really has such amazing body and lovely face. I'd suely vouch for her.

If men notice they really don't say to much which is wonderful and a sure sigh its not all about a certain look. I have done extreme changes like go form blond hair to green hair, although that was noticed it didn't seem to matter either. I thank my good regular guests who accept my weight, hair and boobies. :icon_smile::icon_smile:

If this is being thought of because a client would like to know how he rates in comparison to other clients, my question is this. Who cares. The lady's other clients are likely not even known to him, or at the most, known only as a board handle and vice versa. If that is the case, that someone is concerned about other clients, kinda comes across as a tad insecure A good client wouldn't want to be part of this "recommendation" pool, because he wouldn't want to put a lady he's seen in the unenviable position of ranking her clients And a recommendation from a client about a lady is not the same as a reference from a lady about a client. Although I'll grant you, while it may appear analogous, they are not the same. And yes, it has been brought up and discussed before. But more importantly, not accepted. That in itself should be an indicator that it isn't going to be accepted now And since now clients pay a companion only for time and companionship what criteria are men rated on. Is the lady going to say he played a good game of checkers LOL. Any discussion, by lady or gentleman discussing a paid sexual encounter now (thanks to MacKay and the CPC) is verboten. We only see companions for time and companionship At the end of the day the only thing that matters (besides the lady and myself having had a wonderful escape) is that she was happy with me as a client and I was happy with her as a companion. Being put in some recommendation pool won't change that An after lunch rambling RG

I think I've said it before, but I am her #1 fan!!!

This is a very interesting movie which captivated me through the whole length of the movie although I must admit it is a bit too long to my liking. It was heartwrenching and it depicts the ugliness of wars and the inhumane treatment of POWs by the aggressor of WWII. I recommend this film. http://www.rottentomatoes.com/m/unbroken_2014 http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1809398/

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Thank you to mistert, we have the references to two old threads regarding the same question. I believe there was even earlier similar discussion in 2006 or 2007 but I could not find that thread. Considering that this idea is alive for many years and pops up from time to time, there is probably something here and it is not so bad. Regarding the discretion and confidentiality, I don't see much difference between client giving recommendation to the Lady or Lady giving recommendation to the client (but maybe I am missing something here). And of course I did not mean any ratings or scores, exactly like it is for Ladies.

Good evening everyone! I've missed you all TERRIBLY!!! (I was a bad girl AGAIN!) I owe many apologies in regards to my previous ad's, they were only meant to be smart, cute and unique, but new rules ban this creativity and each one has been deleted. Everyone here is trying to adjust to the best of their abilities with these changes, and so am I. That being said, from now on I will just have to be short and sweet :) As many of you already know, I have moved into my very first house in Kanata. It was a very big endeavour for me and I want to give a whole hearted thanks to those here who have supported me well beyond any expectations I have had. I can only hope everyone will be so kind :) Gentlemen, thanks to all of you, over all these years, I am at the prime of my life! I wouldn't be the woman I am today without you! My reviews here are FANTASTIC but instead of dwelling on the past, I want YOU here with ME now to generate NEW levels of insurmountable, immeasurable happiness for each tomorrow. *insert BIG HUG here* I'm overwhelmed with excitement to be back!!! :) Please call/text/email me ANYTIME you need to share a smile, I'll always be around from now on. 613-8l8-o993 [email protected]

I'm considering getting these... http://www.cbc.ca/news/trending/men-are-going-nuts-over-lululemon-s-anti-ball-crushing-pants-1.3013141 Has anyone seen them in 'real life'? Dislike: - sweaters with animals on them - worn Curdoroy Jeans / pants - any clothes obviously too small - big panty lines Like: - no or suggestive panty line - lingerie with full fashion stockings (or Cuban heels) - ties - nice jeans on a woman - Tailored shirts

With all due respect OP I am having a hard time trying to understand why another lady would care about the way other ladies run their business. Don't get me wrong, I do have my opinion on the way certain people do things but my opinion doesn't mean what I think is right and why would I tell others what I think they should or shouldn't do? If someone uses photo shop in a deceitful way then it will impact their business and they will have to correct that or suffer the consequences, simple as that. If it's meant to be as advice that's cool but to be honest it doesn't sound like it to me plus I believe in this case any of us who do photos a certain way whether if that way is using Photoshop or not, pictures being professional or not they (we) do it because is what works for us meaning there is no rule on the type of photos to use. I didn't want to mention about anything about the way I do mine because don't want to come across as me thinking is the right way and it's only the right way for me which is what matters but I do not do professional shoots because I'm camera shy and it took me years and many attempts to actually feeling comfortable having someone take photos of me however I don't think the fact that they're not done by a professional photographer means they´re bad photos or/and will have an impact in someone deciding to see me or not, the way I present myself as in what I wear in those pictures, poses, wording in my ads and communication with potential guests does. What I'm trying to say is IMO, a photo does not make a provider, her way to do business does. There are ladies with studio photos who may not be professional and ladies who only have selfies who have great customer service skills which again IMO overshadows the quality of one's photos but that's just my thinking.

I have a few moments during our times together that stick out and I hope to express my great times with her in this post. Our first meeting together in Montreal has its memories. It was in the summer of 2008. We had a lovely dinner and returned to the hotel room. We had chatted many times before our meeting so there was no awkward moments. She promised me she would wear something special for our first time. She went into the bathroom and came out wearing a lovely white and pink negligee. I was in awe at her beauty. She turned down the lights and turned on some music. We both embraced one another while she let me feel her body. We both swayed in each other arms and we kissed softly. Cloe felt certain hardness on me and asked if I would sit down while she took special attention to it. She removed my underwear and began pleasuring me. She looked at it and played with it before slowly putting into her mouth. Her action was superb. She used her tongue slowly on the shaft; she did it with such precision. It was a long time since I had this kind of fun. We then proceeded to the bed where she continued the giving me oral pleasure. She also began to use her hands to make sure I was hard. Slowly up and down, I tried my best to hold off since she was doing it so good. She asked if she could get more comfortable and removed her negligee. Her breasts were like her photos on her website, amazing, soft to the touch. I had to lick those nipples. She �oohed� and �awed�. The left one, then the right, with my hand cradling them. She didn�t want to waste my raging hard on so she took out the condom and placed it on my cock with her mouth. She asked �what first�, I said her on top. She purred and proceeded to remove her panties to reveal her soft shaven pussy. It was already dripping with anticipation. She mounted my cock and began the movements. Her moans began while I felt her beautiful breasts. We were both enjoying our connection. I then asked her if I could take her doggy style. She couldn�t wait and got off me and assumed the position. Now I had a great view of her beautiful firm ass and the still dripping pussy ready to receive my cock. I slowly placed it in and then she began to ask for me to fuck her hard and fast. How could I turn down that suggestion? I proceeded with her making sweet noises of passion. She really knows how to make love. She felt that I was going to cum and wanted to ask me something but it was too late and I exploded in the condom. I felt that her movements and her tight pussy could not allow me to hold out any longer. We both embraced one another and kissed with our tongues. We both cleaned up and I didn�t know what to expect. We talked awhile so I can recharge and learned more of one another. She knew it was time for some more play. It was my turn to return the favour and get a chance to make her scream in pleasure. She lay on the bed while I began kissing her all over, those magnificent breasts, her arms, and her neck. I proceeded to where I had my sights on. I slowly began kissing her inner thighs, on the outside of her lips and then for the full effect. She was moaning with delight, I attacked her clit with fervour and then asked if it was okay to use my fingers. She replied with a soft yes and I began to explore her inner sex with a fervour which she enjoyed immensely. I know now that she needs to orgasm and continued till she reached her peak. When she erupted, both of us smiled at one another while she was still shivering from the moment. We began to kiss again, those lips. She then wanted to introduce me to something that I never tried. She suggested that I allow her to perform a prostate massage on me. It would bring sensations and feelings that I would enjoy. Since it was my first time she would be very gentle and go very slowly. With her assurances and those eyes I agreed, she would guide me to another level of enjoyment. She kept asking if I was ready and OK. I knew I was in good eyes/hands and replied yes. She began probing my anus, making it aware, then it happened, she penetrated me, not much but it was done. She took her time and slowly figured out my limits. While she was doing this, she was working on my stiff cock. It was a new feeling; she talked about the ability for a man to cum amazingly if the prostate properly stimulated �was found�. I wanted to know that feeling but it would take some effort and time and doesn�t happen all the time. She was soft and gentle. My brain was filled with the feeling of a new experience. She continued but I think since it was my first time, I would get better with more experience. She took her condom-covered finger out and disposed of it. The sensation of being penetrated still had an effect on my cock. She asked if I could play with myself. It was one of her favourite things that a man could do for her. She laid down on the bed while she watched me stroke my hard cock. It made her feel powerful telling me to go slower or faster while she began playing with herself. Her fingers working her clit and wet pussy, her fingers entering in and out. I obeyed her commands and she took pleasure. I was happy that I was making her happy. I was about to cum and she asked if I could cum over her breasts, another one of her favourite things. I was a bit worried but she insisted it really turned her on. So on cue, I proceeded to cum all over her beautiful breasts, with the prostate massage I think she found another way to get the most out of me. She enjoyed every single drop of hot cum on her. She rubbed it all over her stomach and chest and thanked me so much for that feeling. I was happy to oblige. For me, it was an amazing experience. Our first time together could not have more great. I knew Miss Cloe was a true courtesan insisting I had a great time but I gladly wanted to make her smile too. I know this was a start of a great relationship. Thank you always Miss Cloe for opening my new sexual world. We had many more rendez-vous/dinner dates since. Every encounter was better than the first. I will share more of our experiences later. Redstorm

As someone who invests 110% in their business and marketing I feel I need to say something. Yes, I use professional photos on my website and ads, yes they are photoshopped to make me look my best(there is no harm in evening my tan or whitening my teeth). NO I have never been walked out on and I frequently get told I look better in person than my photos. I don't lie about using photoshop and I have no issue with it all all, I've been upfront on numerous occasions about being glammed up in my pics. I also tweet a lot of selfies (which are untouched), however i would never use them in my advertising. If one is going to be professional and treat this as business you need to invest in it. Once you have a professional shoot (in a studio or hotel, with hair and makeup) you don't go back. There is nothing better than being made to feel beautiful for an afternoon and have others make you feel your best. Your photos speak louder than your ads and they are usually the FIRST thing potential clients look at. I mean there are ladies who have pics with piles of laundry in the background or a full garbage can (you'd never get pics like that from a professional) I don't judge ladies who can't be bothered to take professional photos, but I don't think those of use who do should be judged either. Don't knock it till you try it.

The saying is that beauty is in the eye of the beholder...and true as that may be, there is more to be said. A beautiful mind...a beautiful body...they are often a matched pair, and when tied into a person with a deep and caring soul, well, there's a combination that's hard to beat. Visiting a strip club, you're going to encounter the bodies....but rarely the minds. Here, well, the minds are here, and quite regularly the bodies also! MS

Went to Ottawa and after visiting a local Asian Massage close to my hotel, I was not that impressed. SO.... I decided to hop on a bus (FYI they have some great rapid bus lanes and I can only imagine if our city get's their crap together ours could also be that efficient)... but anyway I digress. I travelled by bus to VibeUrbanSpa (they have a constant ad in the side bar here on LYLA)... http://www.vibeurbanspa.ca/index.html MIND-BLOWING experience, not going into too much detail. But it was nice to be treated like a king and real person. This just means our local "spa's" have a long way to go. I like EB and they have taken lots of my money over the years, but after visiting Vibe....... All I can say is I can hardly wait for my next trip somewhere. So I took one for the team.... but if they are all like this.. I'm first in line to try it again! If you truly want details, PM me and I will share. P.S. The $$$ spent was less than we are expected to pay here.

I would consider going to the valley, but I would ask for deposits first. Being that some girls have been there before with no success, and having excuses such as 'someone might see my car', or 'someone might see me go in/leave the place', it seems that reliable and reputable providers might steer clear of there. If you are afraid that someone might see you/your car, then park where its not seen and walk a fair distance if you have to. Also, walk like you have a purpose going somewhere. There is nothing more noticeable than a guy trying to sneak around, it is so obvious it's not funny. Walk with confidence and look like you belong. I really dislike when I'm asked to go somewhere then have a bunch of no-shows. Like Katherine said, I don't want to sit around wasting money. It costs us to travel, to have a place to entertain you, so it seems fair that if you ask us to come there and you book with us, at least show up!

Cris I hope you don't mind me using your thread to share an article related to this topic, I really enjoyed reading it and it reminds us that inner beauty is the only beauty we should be concerned about, that one will stay with us, looks not for too long. Here is a paragraph from the article ... 'The key is to love and accept who you are right now, and your present form, whether you are strong or weak, short or tall, young or old - and love your form as it changes throughout the days, weeks and years to come.' Here is the complete article and as I posted in a thread I started not too long ago, we are all good enough or at least we all have the potential to be :)

Aside from advertising, I just manifest the clients in my mind. I send out the intention, go about my day and allow it to come to me. Then the manifestation can happen. I also do a lot of meditating every morning before I get out of bed. I mediate nice clients coming to me and do not allow the time wasters or jerks to come into any of my thought processes now. If I'm waking up in a shitty mood, the universe will bring me the match to that so I'm aware now of how to deal with emotions whether I feel anger or frustration coming on. Creating a belief is very powerful. Stress, fear and resistance won't allow the clients to come. Tell yourself everyday what you're going to do and it will happen. Any self doubt will take you out of the positive alignment that would make the business come. Appreciation for what I already have or something simple as nature or their pets will bring a person financial abundance. I'm very much into Law of Attraction and metaphysics. And it works every single time whether you ask for it or not! As for traditional methods of doing business, I rely solely on my intuition. I also speak to the person and within 20 seconds I know. I will not book an appt by text or email. Email is a waste of time to me. I like to get straight to the point so I can hear the voice. That's all that matters to me and I feel them out sort of like a hound dog. lol. I'm highly intuitive aside from my experience in this business so it serves me well. I could be speaking to the nicest sounding person and a red flag could go up with the questions they are asking or their tone of voice and I will get that NO! NO! NO! in my head. I excuse myself, tell them I'm booked/not available and hang up the phone. I pick up on a person's vibes so much that sometimes I have to do more meditation to get rid of that energy. I have also found advertising the night before to be very effective. If a prospective client wants to meet, chances are they will be looking at those ads in the late evening or early in the morning so they can plan their day.

It's almost certainly been mentioned here before, but it's been happening so much lately, and it's a definite turn-off. Men who see me, we have a great time together, and then afterwards try and convince me to see them off the clock later, and then try and make me feel bad when I obviously decline. I just find that disrespectful..unless the lady has explicitly discussed with you that she would like to see you in her free time, you shouldn't try and convince her to, and then shame her when she says no. Nothing's more of a turn-on then a man who is respectful of the relationship you both have in the time you meet, and never makes you feel bad about it ;) Posted via Mobile Device

I know it hasn't been good weather here and its been hard keeping warm..so why not kick back and enjoy the scenery..I love to cuddle and keep warm myself..just need someone to help me do this... Hope to hear from you..Olivia xoxox

Well, to be blunt, they are there because of the exchange that you do. But then, so are you. You wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the exchange, in other words this is a mutually beneficial arrangement. There is nothing wrong with mutually beneficial arrangements between consenting adults. Most sps do this because they are people who are able to be morally open minded. They wouldn't last long if they are judgmental, or if they were self judgmental for their choices. Many clients are also morally openminded, and non judgmental. It is possible to share time with people that are friendly, fun and seemingly intimate, but are really only sharing conversation in a nonthreatening environment. This is a good thing, and will benefit you in your everyday life. Take and enjoy the experiences, and the sharing, and don't try to put a label on it. I assure you that the majority of sps do not feel taken advantage of in these mutually beneficial arrangements, they will only feel that way if something changes in the agreed upon exchange.

I look for this basic information: -rates -availability (when she plans on working) -location (not a specific address, but a part of town is enough) -photos to see if I find her physically attractive -her age (or at least her age group) -how to contact her As for what she writes about her personality and service, I look for women who seem friendly, warm, and down to earth. I like a bit of humour. I'm not usually looking for the wild porn star types or the really raunchy ads, but lots of guys are. But you shouldn't write what you think clients want to hear. You should market yourself honestly. Write about the service you want to provide. Design your ads and website in a way that reflects your personality. There's demand for all types of women and if you market yourself honestly, then you'll attract clients who will enjoy your service. You'll have a better time, they'll have a better time, and your business will grow. That being said, read your clients' recommendations. See how clients describe you in words. Maybe they like something about you that you didn't even realize was attractive. You can incorporate some of that into your advertising. As for photos, again, honesty is the best policy. I generally become distrustful when the only photos an SP has are really dark, grainy, low resolution selfies that are all shot way too close and/or smothered in photoshop filters. Clarity is important. I think some guys dig the glamour of professional photo shoots. I just want a clear idea of who's going to open the door when I go to see her. I like to see a well-lit photo shot from a distance that I can see more than 25% of her body in decent resolution with no effects. Hope this helps!