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To each their own. We should all focus on what works for each of us individually. Variety, after all, is the spice of life! :)

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

Public client recos are kinda redundant: 1. We already have a bad-date section. 2. There is also the note feature. Also, it feels weird to me to reco a client. I mean, as far as I'm concerned, as long as you did nothing to warrant being black-listed, and your hygiene is good, you're ok by me.

I'm not sure how cost effective it is but I know my parents found a washer/dryer they liked, and while they actually went into the store to view it, they ordered online, arranged delivery and install and was a very good price. While I love online shopping and finding a great price, for many things, especially big ticket items, I want to be able to feel it or open it or sit on it. Just because it looks pretty doesn't mean it's built well or comfortable. For me, nothing will replace being able to see it in person before you buy on certain items.

I haven't been here long, but I do like the fact that everyone has a common interest, and I am learning to be the Escort that I want to be, and there is no shame on that! I love what I do, and have met many interesting and sweet men, who have lifted me up beyond words, and I have had gratitude from them, not just for activities but for listening and helping them through personal issues, this to me, is more fulfilling then anything else! Lyla has helped with this, in introducing me to knew people, and friends, in which I greatly appreciate! I agree with Christy, Ottawa is the capital of the planet lol and just because we are on Lyla,doesn't mean we are better or worse then anyone else:) unfortunately I think people when it comes to posts,, need to be abit more thoughtful instead of making accusations and telling people to be quiet , that needs to change, but as a whole, I do enjoy the site :)

Kind sincere words from a friend when I really need them. My three Siamese cats, My 11 year old nephew, I get to relive my life again and he reminds me of the joy and mystery in the world. The hope of spring and plans for new flowers, gardens and just the joys of learning about gardening . I'm a late learner with an expert teacher. A better relationship with my mother, neither of us are here indefinitely, I am cherishing out time together. My belief in the spirit world and the comfort it brings, truly this is the area that makes most sense to me. The possibility each day brings. Additional Comments: All good points Cristy, I love my cats because they don't drink my wine. They look at me like I'm the smartest person ever and all they want is love and to sleep at my feet. Can't beat that!!

I would tell the person contacting me that it was an ad from another day when I was offering specials, but am not anymore!

Victoria, I find this thread to be distasteful and not in the spirit of this site. I truly feel an apology is warranted. It's one thing to discuss bait and switch (which you have indicated to not be the case), but you are critiquing those that photo shop their pictures to "an extent of changing how they really look". It airs on the side of airing out dirty laundry. I can just see the pm's you must get saying "who are you talking about". Since you have read the sticky on airing out dirty laundry, you understand this is not ok. Especially after posting this: If you can't support others, don't complain about those YOU feel are doing something you don't agree with. Either support others or stay silent please. My civilian look is totally different then my business look. I'd hate to think that someone is going around saying I look nothing like my pictures. My pictures are 100% me. No retouching and no photoshop. I do crop them but that's it. I admire those that get professional pictures done and have no issue with them enhancing them. I've never lost business because of someone else's business practices. I do my thing and do very well. I would never post a critical post like this. If you know of someone who is blatantly posting pictures on THIS SITE that are not accurate, AND you have proof, post in bait and switch or notify mod. However insinuating otherwise is not cool.

Years ago when I traveled more and I was looking to meet a lady in whatever city I might be visiting I would always pull out the phone book and the local paper.... the reality now is that I can't recall the last time I looked in the paper or yellow pages... now that might just be me because I enjoy using technology. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I think the Yellow Pages is going to dry-up pretty soon. Every year, the book gets thinner & thinner. I haven't used one in years. A waste of trees and advertisers money IMO. Old technology.

I may be an escort but first and foremost I am a woman. Yes this is business BUT it is one of the most intimate businesses out there. It seems sometimes that a gent I may meet thinks I am some sort of machine or borg with no life beyond that ,with no emotions. But tell me this would you want to meet with someone cold and detached or is that small intimate connection even for that moment in time the reason you hobby. You can love your significant other like they are your last breath but lack that bedroom spark. People don't marry based on how the bedroom goes they marry their personality their habits and dreams. We are woman if you treat us right we bloom and warm and that moment spark can be explosive and you leave with a smile. We are in a business and that should never be ignored,like you get up and go to work every day we get up puy on our mask(make up) and clock in. To each their own as one lady already said,ask her but always keep in mind even if you do connect outside that at the end of the day you go to bed with your wife and we take off our masks and go shopping or pay a bill. Ok enough from this peanut gallery good luck and happy moments for all.

I have been on this wonderful site for just over a year, and I have to say that I find it incredible. There are so many supportive people, great information, wit and candor that it makes my day just reading some of the posts. We are a community that helps each other, is supportive of one another in every way. What have I learned from Cerb/Lyla? I have learned: - to be less self critical - to listen intently to others - to encourage others - that I am not to everyone's taste nor they to mine (but politely said, lol) - that there is absolutely nothing wrong with what I choose to do as a hobby - is that there are wonderful people in which I can be friends with for a few hours and have lots of fun with, no strings attached - to give advice to someone of something they ask that I may have great knowledge of - to be welcoming and more passionate in my personal life - to celebrate all the little flaws that make me who I am I found out about this site from a friend, and I am so glad that it was shown to me. It is the best decision I ever made to be a part of this wonderful community. I give thanks to all of those that have helped me, and I hope for continued reading and learning on here.

it seems pretty obvious from the lack of SPs that have availed themselves of this have not brought it to fruition that it is indeed a dead issue. I personally don't want to 'rate' clients. If a lady asks me about a client that has used me as a reference, I will tell if I have or have not seen the person. I don't go into precise details about the tryst, I may say enjoyable, punctual, courteous, etc. But, only if a lady has asked me. Like Tempted Monk states, I wouldn't want to put clients on the edge by 'rating' them, as it seems. Best to leave the recommendations to the clients themselves.

ha! touché ;) lol

Oh Cristy, I am going to bed shortly . That is the highlight of my day. What a wonderful gesture and I am sure it meant a lot. I never lose faith , nice and kind people exist close to us , we just don't know. Love you, love you!! Awesome. :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile: Additional Comments: Can you imagine the dancing now??!!

I was in a store to day and a customer was short $, he asked his friend for $ but his friend didn't have extra, so he went and put back some of his purchase but still fell short. I felt bad for him so I paid for his purchase, it wasn't very much. He offered me what $ he had but I asked him to pay it forward instead when he could. I felt good for doing this and hopefully someone else will benefit as well.

There appears to be some who just don't find something appealing until it is no longer available. I'd tell him to stop contacting you. If he hasn't booked yet I'd say he isn't going to.

I watched the last episode tonight...I had recorded it...it was amazing!! now we have to wait for the next season....:(

<--- goes to look at Cristy's rates....

Ask yourself -do you really want this client? If so, tell him it's no longer available and if he wants to book he'll have to pay todays rate. If he wants the old rate he'll have to wait until it's offered again. This happens often to me as well, when I advertise my 1/2 hour , because so many request it, most want it after I stop offering it, lol. Just the nature of the beast:)

Hello!! I'm not sure where you are, but I'd love to take care of your dog:) I'm sure you won't have a problem finding someone to go to Aruba. By the way that is one of the few places where you wouldn't have to quarantine your dog.

I think there is something to the idea that some gentlemen would like a reco section for hobbyists because they'd like to know how they "rank", for lack of a better term, but they would probably be disappointed by the criteria most sp's would use to grade them as clients. Things like hygiene, willingness to submit to screening, not haggling on prices, not insisting on a menu, etc, would be much higher on their lists than say, prowess between the sheets. I don't want to pull back the curtain on the wizard of oz for anyone, but I don't think a hobbyist's skills are of much concern to the average sp. Don't get me wrong, I'm sure they think it's a lovely bonus when you show some level of competency in bed, but it's hardly a dealbreaker if you're all thumbs. If recent board subjects are any indication, not sending a d**k pic puts you in elite company :p

This is where I have an issue. This site is about positive issues. By "venting," it changes what this site is about. We are not allowed to vent. I'm sorry this issue bothers you, and you feel it's important to point out what others are doing (again this is your opinion not necessarily shared by others, and I still don't understand why you felt the need to vent about). Now, if you were talking about public figures (like Halle Berry making herself appear white in her recent pictures), that's an entirely different matter. However, to mention being 20 pounds heavier, buck teeth and such, sorry, it's not ok ON THIS SITE. Unless you have something positive to say...Please stay silent about these types of issues. Thank you for apologizing.

You've given no real examples of ladies using photo shop overkill as you put it, hence it comes across as any lady using professional photographers (who use photoshop) are misrepresenting themselves. It does a disservice to many ladies out there, and leads prospective clients (especially newbies) to think professional photos are misrepresenting the ladies If you could cite facts to back up your opinion, then the response you're getting would be different. But you've cited no facts, just posted an unsubstantiated opinion And your unsubstantiated opinion has to be offensive and disrespectful to each and every lady who invests in herself, time and money, getting professional photos done. Said as someone who has been fortunate to see many ladies who have had professional photos done, and the ladies in person, if anything are much more beautiful than the photos they use to represent themselves RG

Tips are like the business itself, unpredictable. Getting them or not isn't necessarily an indicator of anything, nor is their amount. That can vary greatly. None of us ever expect them but certainly appreciate them. When I'm given a tip it causes me to believe I've surpassed his expectations, I hope:) If a gentleman overstayed his welcome by a 1/2 hr then he should have offered you a half hour fee, if you have one, but that's just my opinion, but both should be aware and are responsible for keeping track of the allotted time.

It been 2 years on the 11th that I have now belonged to Cerb. So I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned, especially of late 1. That is: Who some say is a good client may not necessarily be for me. If I get the sense that the person interested in seeing me isn't my type best not to follow through. I've done this to many times resulting in wasted time, no fun and regretful moments. I used to get the feeling just because someone, especially a Cerb member, wanted to see me it was necessary to book. I guess I was afraid of the repercussions of refusing:( One persons champagne is another persons beer! 2.Just because someone is a Cerb member doesn't mean their character is golden. I am grateful to be here and thankful I'm accepted by a lot but I have realized that there are unreliable people everywhere, cerb is no exception and, trust has to be earned it isn't guaranteed by any site. Nothing is. :) 3. This is a great place to discuss sex and to dirty talk. 4. We are lucky to have a Canada wide FREE advertising site and I'm happy and thankful to be a part of it:) 5.Thankfully, a site where there can be no bashing, some still make digs, but hey, they have to have something to do:) 6.That perhaps Ottawa is the center of the universe, lol. 7.Research, research ,research- this goes both ways. 8. Being a provider isn't anything to be ashamed of, it can be like actual dating and sometimes surprisingly nice things can result from it. Never be afraid to go beyond your boundaries. Its my time, my body and, mine to share and to do with as I please:) 9. Ignore, ignore, ignore maliciousness. When you do, good things happen:) 10. Most importantly- ENJOY- its alright to have a good time with a date. It is after all about having fun and wanting to give someone else a sample of "you" and that needs to be beneficial for both sides:) 11. Recommendations are nice but they are just an opinion 12. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm the best at just being myself, to some that'll be great and to others not so good, win some lose some. I've learned that its okay not to be liked by everyone . Well my last sentiment-I've been bad-I've been booted out a couple of times-live an learn-move on:) and I've been good-have lots of rep points now:) and cerbie friends- so thanks for letting me into your neighbourhood:)

Ladies and gentlemen, I'm sure this thread is nothing new but... Seeing so many fellow friends posting about loneliness and depression, I'm feeling lots of people are having the "blues" lately. So, I thought about bringing some positiveness in the atmosphere (like we say in french lol). So guys, what makes you happy ? Simple things, little things, random things.... Please share and let's spread more smiles and happiness around us :) Personally, I enjoy small things that always put a smile on my face like making other people happy, good time with friends, spending time with my dog, mountain retreats, funny movies, eating chocolate (lol), laughing, drawing/sketching, feeling the support of loved ones... and smiling, always ! What about you ? On this note, have a great, happy day ! ;) Eva xox

Just back from lunch at Barb's. Was sorry to leave. Lovely regulars Claire, Bridget, Chanel, Sabrina, Serenity and Shelagh. Newcomers Diamond, Harmony and a smokin' hot Cuban girl Havana. And a blast from the past, Siya, looking lithe and cheerful. Haven't seen her in ages. And one very curvy blonde whose name I didn't catch, with some very outstanding natural assets. I think I'll have to head back down after work.

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I know I tend to live in the past, but I not only like to see the merchandise in person, but I like to talk to a salesperson who knows the product well and can help me to figure out what best suits my needs. I will pay a premium (to a point) for this type of service but it is getting harder and harder to find. Even in many brick and mortar stores, trained salespeople are being replaced with minimum wage teenage "clerks" who know (and often care) very little about the products.

Planning a fun Easter weekend getaway....

Had a Le Max tonight from McDonald's in honour of the Canadians... Buuut it didn't help them tonight lol ;)

I wouldn't mind it so much, but when its been a few times that the same person has done this, it makes me wonder if they are just waiting until the 'deals' come and then they wait until after its over to ask for it.

This is a good question, and I'm glad it's been brought up! I've always marketed myself as curvy, voluptuous, and most importantly, a redhead. But lately I've been tired of the red and considering changing colours to something else just as dramatic, but I'm afraid it might make me lose potential clients, since I wouldn't be able to advertise as a redhead anymore. I think if the men have met us, and there is good chemistry and connection, a bit of change here and there won't make them stop seeing us, but some men may be more specific in the reasons they see a lady and the changes could make them seek someone else. Then again, as they say the men like variety, and certain changes could make it feel like they're with a whole new gal while still enjoying the chemistry with the same one! ;) Posted via Mobile Device

Heather C. has always been my #1 Cato. Elle #2.

Vanessa and Jenna at Barb's both have very lovely, big, natural boobies! They both tend to work in the evenings. Vanessa is usually in on Thursdays after 4pm, not sure about Jenna.

If men notice they really don't say to much which is wonderful and a sure sigh its not all about a certain look. I have done extreme changes like go form blond hair to green hair, although that was noticed it didn't seem to matter either. I thank my good regular guests who accept my weight, hair and boobies. :icon_smile::icon_smile:

I have had the displeasure of people misrepresenting themselves with their photography in the past, but it was a bait and switch, not an over photoshopped picture. As pro photographers get paid to make people look their best, I don't expect anyone to look exactly like they do in a staged photo in a controlled environment like a studio. Lighting plays a huge role in how you look in a picture, and a professional can emphasize a woman's best qualities in a way that a selfie will not, but I don't think that is necessarily misleading, it's just a photographer doing their job to the best of their abilities. There is one very beautiful woman who has commented on this thread with a wide variety of pro pictures, and while there may be some evidence of photoshopping here and there, I can say from experience that this woman does indeed look quite spectacular in person. I would be quite shocked if anyone felt mislead by her portfolio, and on a personal level, I think she looks much better in person ( with less make-up - another photography *trick* :p )

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As someone who invests 110% in their business and marketing I feel I need to say something. Yes, I use professional photos on my website and ads, yes they are photoshopped to make me look my best(there is no harm in evening my tan or whitening my teeth). NO I have never been walked out on and I frequently get told I look better in person than my photos. I don't lie about using photoshop and I have no issue with it all all, I've been upfront on numerous occasions about being glammed up in my pics. I also tweet a lot of selfies (which are untouched), however i would never use them in my advertising. If one is going to be professional and treat this as business you need to invest in it. Once you have a professional shoot (in a studio or hotel, with hair and makeup) you don't go back. There is nothing better than being made to feel beautiful for an afternoon and have others make you feel your best. Your photos speak louder than your ads and they are usually the FIRST thing potential clients look at. I mean there are ladies who have pics with piles of laundry in the background or a full garbage can (you'd never get pics like that from a professional) I don't judge ladies who can't be bothered to take professional photos, but I don't think those of use who do should be judged either. Don't knock it till you try it.

I agree with you Victoria but, I think some do this because they may feel a need to please all. In this business there is a lot of pressure to stand out, shine and be the "one". Perhaps, some may think, perfecting their image in photographs as a way to. Of course it is a misrepresentation and no one will know until they meet the person. So awkwardness about staying or leaving will become an issue for some. Those of us who take selfies can also be criticized though. I'm told occasionally that I should have a pro take my pics because they are grainy, not good angles, or not showing enough. So no matter what one does, in this business, someone will have something to say, or advice to give about what they'd like to see. Next thing will be having to provide virtual images, lol. I remember the days when a gentleman was happy with a description given over the phone and as long as she resembled that, all was good.

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Cristycurves, you have pretty much summed it up. I don't think anyone will ever find a better definition of happiness! I just wanted to say thank you. This message made my day! PatrickGC

I have a few game acquaintances that for a variety of reasons I most likely will never meet and we kibitz a bit through email and twitter. There a couple of companions that I have seen and communicate with but most likely will not see again professionally or socially for that matter but we do banter, communicate and have a similar world view. I'm open and genuinely interested in people and have learned lots of personal stuff but by no means do I consider these to be friendships. After all it's a business relationship and when the business ends I have no expectation of anything else. Peace MG

I'm a boss where I work and all my employees come and sit and talk with me in my office from time to time and confess, ask for advice, share stories, tell me there problems and even ask for a $20-$50 to help finish the week. Do they love me? I hope they do as a boss, do they want to leave there spouse for me? I sure hope not. Do they respect me? They better. Every thing that happens in my office with my employees stays there, I do not repeat anything with anyone. Yes I laugh with them and I also cry with them too, I have feelings and they are close to me. All this to say that I agree with Daniel on the circumstance that you keep it a business. It's life.

congratulations ... you are human lol no seriously, what you are feeling is completely normal. It is natural to grow feelings for anyone you have slept with.. You are obviously seeing good girls but you must always remind yourself that we are providing you with a fantasy, it is not real life. Your real life belongs with your wife and your family.. just enjoy the times you spend with the ladies you choose but don't forget about your reality have fun xoxo