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The Easter Bunny gave me an early present this year...the news I am now cancer free! The doctors called me this morning, and this certainly made it an Easter weekend to remember. I want to thank everyone for their words of encouragement and concern over the past couple of years. You certainly helped me keep my chin up through a difficult time! :D Thank you Spud271

You won't get into any legal trouble if you choose to walk away. I'm not sure why you would even consider that to be a condition to stay where you don't want to be. I mean the law is about staying & paying, really, so not staying and not paying, seems pretty simple lol there are a ton of 'how to walk away gracefully and politely' regardless of the reason, and roamingguy has hit every point that any client should follow. As an sp, I'd rather someone gives me a percentage of the fee and decline to stay, come up with a lame excuse if necessary, than to 'go thru with it' with both reluctance and the accompanying negative attitude. if it is a fee change on arrival, then no compensation, no reason to stay, no lame or polite reason necessary. You can just say that wasn't the agreed rate, so sorry, i'm going to have to pass. I know that if a client shows up and decides for any reason he's not going to pay the fee that i gave him over the phone, I show him the door. I tell him that his making the appt meant that he was agreeing to the rate that i quoted, it wasn't up to him to change it. I didn't agree to any discount in making the appt, in other words.

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I just came across a poem, which in light of recent events surrounding C-36 seems apt. Therefore, I thought I'd share... very fine laws I have heard that your laws are very fine Very strong and right I'm afraid they don't do much For me. For chaos has a sneaky hand To reach between the rules If you don't believe me, just Go look out the window. Here is the victim's face. I know you don't like to see it. Why not cover it, then With a pillow, for example? All of us fall through the cracks Through the slippery fingers Of your fine and righteous laws You may as well join us Down here laughing. - Suzanne Vega

its possible. three of my four ex's had split personalities and could seem to be two places at once

Great news Spud, It's so nice to see a positive result for a change.

if the pictures are not of the person that opens the door (or the pics are 5 years ago and not what she looks like now) then you definitely have the opportunity to walk away. To me, that is false advertising. If the rate is different than agreed upon making the appointment, feel free to walk away. Rates are established when making the appointment, why would they change when you get there? Different is if the girl is reducing the rate as they may not be able to offer certain parts that were agreed upon, but they should never be raised unless you ask for longer time, more services than agreed upon, along those lines. Clients have just as much right to walk away if they feel they are being bamboozled.

Still is. I was there last Friday for a fetish evening. The space is really big (maybe 1500 is square ft??) Main social area has plenty of table with bar stools and a fair amount of couches. The main walls are all mirrors and lots of TV that show porn. The main bar seem to have a good amount of alcohol. I only drink wine, but bottle service seem alright. Bathroom are really clean. HOWEVER...I am not sure if that was for the fetish night only or if it is like this all the time, but the "private"/sex section wasn't so great. Mirrors everywhere, but it was mostly couches, but what I would think a sex club would have more beds for fun time...at least from my experience in other sex clubs, they have more bed/flat suraces Massive shower area, I think sex is allowed in it. Last friday there was roughly 120 ish people attending, mostly social, some BDSM play and barely no sexual activities but I was told that a fair amount of people there were regular. Surprisingly the average age was mid 20/mid 30 for couples and single women. Older random guys were there . I would assume that going with a lady friend ( or SP) would be a fairly good change of swapping/swinging

When guys send me dick pics, I just keep replying with random pics of Justin Bieber. One thing I will say though, if you're going to take a picture of your junk, at least be arty about it. Nothing looks worse than seeing your limp dick draped over your thigh like a dirty sock.

I say: "Oh sweet! The penis picture exchange game! Here's mine"! Then I send the picture of a penis twice their size. Or I send a very nasty one, the medical record type of nasty one. I got this idea from a lady here, but I don't remember who. I just thought it was brilliant, hahaha! They see me trollin', they hatin'...

You've got to be careful not to waste their time, and you have to know where to draw the line, but one thing I really enjoy on here is the introductory, get-to-know-you flirtations that some of our women members indulge in before the first meeting, and after. It's fun, and it's good to have a sense of the other person before you actually meet. It makes those initial encounters much more comfortable, and even more exciting. I know not everyone has the time or inclination to do this, but when there's a fun exchange of pm's with an about-to-be new friend, it makes the experience way better, I find. So a special thanks to my pm partners in flirtation. I appreciate your time and effort.

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Congratulations, we have yet to meet, but this is definitely something to celebrate! Happy Easter, with many more to come! Hugs to you xoxo

That is an awesome news for the Easter weekend.

Great news, new lease on life. Stay healthy.

What's a passport or classic? I'll pick classic because I'm at the age where the stuff I grew up with is starting to be called classic. Coffee or espresso

Good morning, Just a quick thank you for a lovely time back in Toronto, it was great to be back and the weather was amazing.... Happy Easter weekend and see you soon, xoxo Emily

Thanks for the link I actually enjoyed that and it's a bit of an eye opener.

Fabulous!!! Xoxo

JMHO if you show up to a lady's place and she wasn't who you were expecting, a couple of options. First, if the lady didn't misrepresent herself in any way, you can either go through with the date or politely decline the date, but compensate her. She did nothing wrong, and shouldn't be penalized for what is, in reality, you changing your mind at the last minute Second, if she changes the conditions of the date at the last minute, such as a higher rate, either tell her that wasn't the agreed to rate. If she agrees with the original agreed to rate, continue on with the date. If not, I believe you are in your rights to decline the date If she changes the conditions of the date (mind you it should be a red flag if any detailed discussions beyond time and companionship have taken place) bear in mind that it always comes with...well acronyms not allowed, but you have to be the best hygienically and otherwise speaking client. To me once you step into the door, and spend time with the lady, irrespective of what happens, she gets paid. What may or may not have happened could be due to you. Although I'm not a lawyer, all that is legally I believe is the right way to phrase it, required is time and companionship. Nothing more Now third, if clearly a bait and switch, a different lady is at the door, well turn around and walk away. Personally, I view all dates with a lady I have yet to meet as the ultimate blind date. If a lady doesn't misrepresent herself, her photos (if she has them) are accurate, I don't see a reason to not go through with a date. If she doesn't show her face and you book her with the knowledge you don't know what she looks like. Then when you meet in person, it seems like a poor excuse to cancel, stating you don't like her looks. Really it is cancelling on her because of your expectations. But if she has shown true photos of herself, well it was your expectations flawed, not anything the lady did or didn't do At the end of the day, you are dealing, business aside, with a real live human being worthy of respect. If she hasn't misrepresented herself, I see no valid reason to cancel. I would also suggest that any date you book be a shorter date for a first date Anyhow, my two cents RG

Wonderful News.... xoxo

Nice way to start the weekend, Congratulations. Enjoy! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Good to know you'll be with us a little longer.. ;) Congrats! xx

If you run the pics through google images, you'll see for example, the second picture down on the right appears in ads for another ebony lady. The third picture down appears in 2 bp ads dated March 24th where she was supposedly available in Windsor and Ottawa the same day. If you click on the link, the text in the ad has been deleted but he poster did not count on the ad being cached to show same phone number for both cities. Draw your own conclusions.

I hope you find that amazing lady to celebrate your birthday with but to be honest in my opinion what each of us appreciate differs greatly based on personal likes and dislikes so you might get better advise if you give us a better idea of what you are looking for in a companion. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Awesome, congrats!

Happy for you, even though I don't know you.

That is fantastic news, I am so glad to hear that.

These stories are also more often then not posted in "In the news" section of this site. More specifically, i posted it yesterday and there are comments related to this story here: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=210348

interesting read http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-32165949

I am so glad to hear this! By the way, you looked healthy and refreshed when I saw you at the social. Way to go Spud!

WooT!!!! Awesome News!

I supose if your name is Dick and you send a selfie that would be a" warranted dick pic."

Not sure if you were actually after an answer, but the big difference is that there is an actual huge widespread issue of female genital mutilation, both historically and ongoing. The few times someone has actually done something equivalent to a man it typically is taken seriously, with charges laid. It's a news story because it's such an exceptional circumstance and (though it by no means justifies the act) it's often connected to some wider and inappropriate action the male took to get themselves into trouble. In the case of female genital mutilation it's mostly done simply as a means of subjugation. Basically it's easier and generally less offensive to make an innocent joke about cutting a penis off because that's not a common practice and so it is easier to take as the innocent joke intended. Female genital mutilation is invariably tied up into wider issues of mysogomy you can't separate it from. It's like if you made a joke where the punchline was about a high gas bill...it would take on a whole different and darker meaning if it was about a Jewish person because of the real historical tragedy associated with it. Anyway, not trying to derail the thread or start a debate and that's probably more than anyone wanted to read...but if you were really wondering what the difference is, there ya go.

Please don't let the fear mongering take affect. That's partly why news reports like this are published. They want to scare off some. Just be diligent in your research, screening and stick to those known to be safe and reliable, there are many:) We all must keep this business safe, fun, discrete and thriving. We all deserve to have fun, after all!

I believe it is a huge part of the atmosphere of becoming friendly, comfortable for both parties. My example would be flirting back and forth with a certain redhead from Montreal for quite awhile before we finally met. When we did meet it was like we already had multiple visits. I think it helps the SP get to know you which can help develop a trust between the two parties. For my favourites here in the Maritimes bantering is a great way to keep in contact, I enjoy flirting with my special ladies. In thinking about this it is a very important reason why I am here, thanks ladies.

Nice girl, pics are accurate. She has off-street parking, which is quite important these days...

How about Tia? She's well reviewed here. http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sexysultrytia-afro-carribean-girl-next-door-real-and-recent-pics-top-qualitygreat-review/25696360

As others have stated, people took offence when you generalized instead of providing facts, as well you did say you were venting(in post number one first line). I took your post as a personal attack (as well did some others), as yes I only use professional phots in my advertising and yes I photoshop (I admit it and am proud of it). Im selling a brand, one I invest in and yes I'm proud of what I represent and stand for. You get one chance for a first impression, how you choose to make it is up to you. How one lady runs her business, whether you like it or not is really none of anyones concern but hers. There will always be someone in this business or any business who over does something to an extreme, its best to just ignore it - move on and focus on ones own business. When we start to care what others do, it takes away from the focus on our own personal business. If you want to start a post like this, maybe think of using some real examples in the future instead of "some ladies".

Even if the OP was not venting about someone in particular, it's usually not in good taste for a companion to initiate a thread that criticizes how others conduct their business (in this case, using photoshop) while promoting their own upcoming photoshoot. Just my 2 cents.

Does that mean a micro penis gets a discount? Ummmm Just asking for a friend, who was asking. Posted via Mobile Device

Maybe his brain is in his head, penis head that is. Its a proven fact that if your penis is too big, blood will flow to the small head below the belt and stop going to the big one on top of the shoulder.

Then no need for ladies!!

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Supper tonight will be a surprise... A good one... my daughter is cooking and she always does something nice. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Agreed, but cougar? She is only half my age!

Hey Sweetie!! He He...we know each other pretty good!!

Booking a hotel and getting some tickets for the Bluejays, heading for Toronto for the weekend.

The obvious and only correct answer is typing this response to your thread. ;))