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I think most post the pics they want seen, so asking for more would be pointless. Some have a private members area on their site where they may post more revealing pics. I won't speak for anyone else but if someone messaged me asking for nude pics I'd ignore the request, after all if I wanted to be seen nude I'd post those pics. I'm not going to send out pics to anyone, especially someone I don't know.

Some time ago I learned an important life lesson while spending time with a beautiful dancer. After being approached and spending about 20 minutes with this beautiful young lady she asked me "would you like to go for a dance" to which I replied "of course, I was just looking for the right moment to ask you". She let out a huge sigh and replied; "Thank you. You have no idea how nervous I was to ask you to go for a dance". I was stunned. "Why would a beautiful, sexy and intelligent woman such as yourself be nervous about asking a shy middle aged guy like me if he wanted to go for a dance"? Her reply changed me forever. She asked; "how many times in your life have you been shot down by a girl in a club, or asking her for her number.....30-40 times total in your life". Well it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, we dancers can often get turned down for dances that many times in one night. Rejection hurts and I feel it each time I approach a customer.......especially one I've never met before". I've always been highly respectful and appreciative of the times that I've spent with dancers but before that encounter I'd never given a second thought to a dancer's insecurities or vulnerabilities. That encounter changed me as a patron of SC's but more importantly it changed who I am as a man for which I'm eternally grateful.

CK's site is for B & S\ ripoffs \ dangerous encounters. Bad service\hygiene etc does not usually make it into the diary. To the OP, in the future, do as much research as possible & solicit opinions (via pm) from members whom have seen the provider you are interested in.

From my perspective when this happens unless it was a blatant B&S or there was a dangerous situation or illegal activities ie. money stolen etc then you need to just chalk this up to one of the risks of the hobby and move along. I understand that when things like this happen we hate to feel like someone has taken advantage of us but the reality is there is not that much you can actually do about it. On CERB / Lyla we restrict ourselves with good reasons to an environment that focuses on the positive so with few exceptions this is not a place to air dirty laundry... I think someone suggested that there are other sites where if you were so inclined you could go and freely air your dirty laundry but I would suggest to you that if that is your plan then keep in mind that the reality is that this becomes a "he said" "she said" and those discussions often don't come out positive for either side ... the end result might just be that other ladies who you may want to see may choose to not see you as they don't want to risk a similar situation in their future. The bottom line is there are risks associated with participation by both clients and ladies... ladies see bad client who treat them bad or short pay just like clients see ladies who might act inappropriate.... both need to move on. I am a big believer in Karma... whether it is a client or a lady that acts inappropriately it will ultimately come back to them as our actions represent us in the world and try as we may most people will in the end actually see us for who we really are. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I hope you dont catch slack as you say, since your question seems asked in good faith and I think it is best for everyone if people feel like they can ask questions (better than not doing so out of fear and making a mistake in my opinion). I would say though that it is not a question you should pose. Rather, it is likely a safe bet that if a lady was comfortable sharing nudes that she would be doing so. Yes, there is always a chance she might share some upon request, but there is a much, much bigger chance you will just make a poor impression. Not worth the risk of unintentionally insulting someone or souring a potential relationship in my opinion. Cheers.

Dear members, I have recently visited an escort, after saving up for it, and was expecting to have a decent time. The place was horrible, her hygiene was poor, and the whole experience was extremely rushed and not smooth at all. The SP also lied about several things. There was nothing positive or even neutral about the visit. Is there any way I could do something about that? Like I said, I've been saving up for it, and now I lost the money but gained absolutely nothing.

aHH, my place:) Well I like to be comfortable so I'll say a nice hotel room with a bottle of nice wine or bubbly, candle light, sexy music and some good food for after wards. I'm always hungry after a good workout;)

Having an early supper. Surfing Lyla and going over my new pictures from my photoshoot this week :)

I kinda think we all make to much of pictures... I agree they are great marketing tools and should be reasonably recent and generally be representative of the person who will answer the door. But to expect a lady to match a photoshoot picture with perfect lighting and the photographers eye positioning her for the desired image is really unrealistic in my opinion. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Ok, let's make it clear... 1. We do have pictures. It's our first contact with you. The most beautiful ones are the one SELLING. 2. Some of us are paying CRAZY money for them. Photographers, suits, background decor... 3. We are not all Spinner models. Some of us are older, having some things to hide (I, for myself, have tattoos and light strechmarks). When we pay for our pics, they are modified. Not photoshopped, but certainly ''enhanced''. Tone is corrected, we strike some poses to be at our best. And yes, sometimes, they don't show everything. Strech marks are not the best sellers. If I don't show them, do I modify my pics? NO! I'm showing what I want to show, and accusing somebody of posting fake pics could be very dammageable for there reputation. Please, when you look at our pics and call us, ASK US if we have ''factory default'' as it may not be fake pics, but what we are hiding could be a turn off.

I think education is the key. During the past decades, religion has been the main educational tool society had to educate people about sex (?!?). I think, from an old school perception, having sex is a sin because we are ''suppose'' to make babies, and that's what sex is for. For us, this is all WRONG! Sex is a new way to VENT, to enjoy LIFE, to make EXERCISE, and to get rid of the STRESS of the day. This is a whole new psychology... Don't worry, it will eventually be accepted in society, just as alcool (prohibition) and drugs (medical uses)...

I use to have sleeping issues, but I developped a very healthy routine before going to bed, and it works! I was on sleeping pills for sleep walking (creepy, I know) and sleeping issues, but this is how it goes... I always go to bed at the same hour. 9:30 for me, could be later for you... Light snack around 8:30 (Berries and fresh cream, or cream cheese bagel with a glass of milk, usually) At 9:00, I shut down EVERYTHING in the house. Absolutly NO INTERNET ACCESS from this point. No TV either, or playing on my phone. No alcool either. It contains a LOT of sugar that could prevent me from sleeping. I keep a little night stand light with a 40watts bulb to read a little it. Just for 15-20 minutes. If I wake up during the night, I stay up for about 10-15 minutes before going back (or I take this occasion to have some lazy fun...). When I go in my bed room, whatever the time of the day or the night, I leave my problems at the door. My room is a calm and peaceful place. A refuge. I don't want any negative energies where I sleep. Problems will still there when I wake up, and I will be able to solve them in the morning, with a fresh and peaceful mind, ready to attack my day. I wake up at 4:00 in the morning, fresh and ready to start my day.

I would forward the information to Cowboy Kenny to post in his diary. That's probably the best way to go.

simple answer to that question, there is no way of asking. We post pics that we want seen. To ask a lady to send you 'those' pics, especially if she has pics on here and/or on her site, is just asking to be blocked from being able to contact her. I get asked to text pics like that, and I don't. I refer the person asking for them to my website and state that pictures are there to be viewed. Why on earth would a lady send pics like that if she has pics on here?

That's too bad to hear. Agree with what RG said and will add a couple more: - you didn't mention where you found the lady but that can make a difference. I have found sticking to reputable sites and reading reviews isn't a guarantee but does help increase the chances of a good encounter. Some conversation by chat, email, phone or text can also help determine if a connection and positive experience might be there. - and as the customer you can vote with your future choices. That doesn't give much satisfaction in the short term but from what I have heard is that many of the ladies really value good and long term customers. So the lady you met has lost that opportunity with you. But the next meeting just might bring that connection and the future lady will be grateful for your business. Cub

RG's right. This is not the place to post a bad experience. However, Cowboy's Diary is a fantastic resource in Ottawa for reporting bait&siwtch, ripoffs, etc.

That sucks, I've had a few bad experiences too That said, Lyla is a recommendation board not a review board So no negative reviews are allowed here There is a forum on Lyla, a warnings section to report dangerous encounters, bait & switch etc...but it isn't to post negative reviews Here's the link https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=17 Also Cowboy Kenny has The Cowboy's Diary http://www.cowboysdiary.info/ Tell him your experience, he may post it in his diary But really, if just a bad date, chalk it up to experience, and move on RG

All of you who are making arguments about trafficking, pimping, violence, drugs etc. making up a significant portion of this trade are forgetting something. We have very real and significant counter examples in places like New Zealand and Australia where legalization/decriminalization are having measurable positive effects on the social problems of prostitution. The New Zealand Ministry of Justice reported that "Information received from Immigration Service NZ indicates that no situations involving trafficking in the sex industry have been identified." Don't be fooled. The creators of these documentaries and stories have an agenda. Anecdotes don't make statistics.

I like boobies... small boobies big boobies perky boobies saggy boobies natural boobies enhanced boobies but most of all, these boobies...

So I'm in front of my computer since MONTHS, having terrible issue with ads. I share the monster with my 13yo, who always download programs to look at her videos, download free music... And Addwares. So, I have couple of them that show so many popups on the Internet, I can't even get to Lyla's. A real PAIN! And I foud Revo Uninstaller. A jewel in the rough! I was'nt able to remove those at all, even through the add/remove programs, but when I found it, well, it deleted everything, and I mean EVERYTHING (trace, cookies, access) on my computer I did'nt want. Be careful though, you have to make sure (perhaps some research) you want to delete it because when it's gone, well, it's GONE. All of it. But overall, I would give it a 4/5. Very friendly, clear, with a lot of options and security warnings before deletion (well appreciated).

I might catch some slack here. Sorry, if so. I'm not sure how else to ask :( Is there a proper way to ask if any ladies provide n.u.d.e.s.? What do y'all think??

I'm not sure that there is any advantage for the lady to do so in most cases. Most of the photos that are provided already show enough to get a good idea of the body, the size, and the fitness, of the lady. There is enough information to determine if you are attracted to the body type. I don't see how being able to see 'everything' would change someones choice on who to book. There may be those out there with a preferred shape of the naughty bits, but most I'm guessing do not. We all like to look at them but at the end of the day, there just isn't that much variance. I'm not questioning your particular motives, but I suspect that in general, many who ask for this are merely looking for some free spank material, not trying to decide on who to book. These ladies are running a business after all, so you always have to ask yourself what is in it for them? Just my initial thoughts on the subject.

Just finished cleaning my BBQ, hope this is a sign that spring has finally arrived.

on the boardroom table at the large firm where I work

Just turned the venison steaks over in the marinade and put them back in the fridge And made garlic olive oil which I'll use for frying the steaks up in Saturday night Mouth is watering already RG

Hi Guys, just curious if anyone has any info on this girl. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/brunette-beauty-waiting-for-you-100-real-and-satisfied-every-time/2420668 Seen her ads up on BP before but haven't been able to search anything on her. Any help would be much appreciated. Thanks

Hi its Karina here from Philippines. Text me for more details or book now . Text only for now, Calls are ok when I start working. 4389377745. Thank you.

What are the best boards to look for people advertising? there's obviously Lyla, BP, and those are the only ones I know of and looking to find out other options.

Look at the gap between her legs !!

I am mature, tall and naturally VERY busty. I'm 50 yrs old, 5'11", 180lbs, 38-F (40DDD) Cup, tanned skin and have long brown hair. I have an hourglass figure measuring 44-34-44. If you don't already know me feel free to familiarize yourself with me on my site http://www.carriemoon.com or google me as I've done some naughty adult magazines and movies I'm very easy going, fun and friendly I'm available for 1/2 hr at $200 and for an hour at $320/hr.. and couples (male/female or male/male) at a rate of $450/hr. My general hrs of availability are 9 am til 10 pm. Contact by phone is preferred.. phone call over text. Email preferred over pm. 613+762+4551 [email protected] cheers, Carrie Moon See my reviews here http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthr...ht=carrie+moon http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthr...ht=carrie+moon If you have a blocked number unblock your number before calling or your call won't be successful

i saw an ad of hers on Backpage March 25th. I had the pleasure of seeing her back in January but that was the last time she was really advertising!

I don't think I would ask a lady I have met many times to give me nude pictures... lol... I might secretly hope she would but I don't think I would ask... so I definitely would not ask a lady I have never met as I think in most cases it would mean you would never get the chance to meet her. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

JMHO But proper way to ask....don't Ladies often have pictures on their websites and albums on Lyla And some ladies have members only sections too Those are the pictures she is willing to post and share, and done as part of attracting prospective clients/clients But to ask a lady if she will provide you with n ude pictures, I wouldn't She may think you're just a tire kicker looking for free pics, and not a prospective client looking for a date. Any pics she has are used for getting clients...in other words as part of her business RG

their are several threads about she is formerly sincindy and you would have a blast she has several reco's under both names

Hello there, I'm Raphael! Do you love dancers, but are looking for something a bit different? Well, look no further... I'm as enthusiastic as they come, I simply love what I do. I know just how to sneak right into your head and give you what you need. I'm wise beyond my years, with an intelligent, quirky personality and a wicked sense of humour to boot! I identify mostly as a Domme and heavily enjoy obedient gentlemen who crave a strong & sassy woman. However your submission is not mandatory, I'm happy to entertain vanillas with a quality experience, sans fetish, as well... I ALSO LOVE FETISHES, and have a few myself: - rope bondage (tying as a Top as well as self-bondage) - high heels - receiving foot worship - face sitting & much more! Whether you'd looking to witness passion and exhibitionism at it's finest...enjoy some interesting conversation with a highly sensual yet down-to-earth lady...or perhaps to escape into some quiet time under My feet, I'll find what you need most. *Bondage BONUS!* You might catch me tying and suspending myself while I'm on stage - PM to see when this is happening ;) Come take a walk on the wild side with me at THE NUDEN (1560 Triole) this week... Wednesday: 8pm-1am Thursday: 1-10pm Saturday: 12-9pm Sunday: 7pm-2am (P.s. Always PM me to confirm work times if you're coming in to see me! You know strippers...)

According to posts on another board, she has left the business.

At least one picture doesn't pass tineye.

Let none of us believe that the issue raised in the initial post is a simple one. Most of us to this point have addressed this from our own personal perspective and from a Cerb perspective as is quite natural. When one thinks back to the initial debate, and I use the term with sarcasm, the talk was that this legislation is dangerous, that it would cause harm to sex workers, it would force them to back alleys and that it would kill women. As the legislation came closer to being proclaimed and since, the discussion here has been that it's really not going to have an impact, that LE will and is ignoring it, and that with common sense everyone will be fine and dandy. I was one of the few that disagreed with that perspective from Day 1, and right now I am not yet ready to say that I was wrong. I am more fearful than ever, based on little news items that are starting to appear across the country that LE has simply been putting their ducks in order and are now beginning to enforce the law. Newspapers are starting to refuse advertising ads, Yellow Pages will remove all questionable ads in May, and if one follows Stella from Montreal or Pivot from B.C. one sees the crackdown beginning. It has become politically correct on Cerb to minimize things. As much as I hate to agree with anything that comes from the mouth of Peter MacKay, he is not wrong that many sex workers are victims. Many are victims of economic and social circumstance that forces them to stand on street corners for survival. That is real. The solution of providing a social network, of creating affordable daycare, of creating jobs that are more than working in call centers or as coffee shop hostesses, of keeping real jobs in this country with a real salary, of providing serious viable alternatives to desperate people are all being ignored. Somehow what is important is getting sex workers out of the trade. End of story. There is nothing there as an alternative, nor a recognition that in fact some sex workers do this by making a rational choice. Yes we live in our own personal worlds inside and outside of Cerb but let us not forget that there is another world as well. Just telling each other that everything is fine and dandy does not make it so. So Patrick and FunAdventures and Phaedrus and Christy and Midnight and all that responded to this point have all been right on target - it's just that this is not a simple question and nor is there a simple solution. In the for what its worth department I still send my small and probably insignificant contribution each month to POWER of Ottawa, because one day organizations such as POWER and PIVOT and STELLA and MAGGIES will be the organizations standing up in court for all of us - Cerb clients, Cerb companions and street workers alike.

But what you've outlined isn't crap, there in lines the reasons the public perceptions are as they are. There are a lot of clients that don't give a crap, they are there just to get their rocks off and couldn't care a less about the escorts position in life. A lot of the women are in this business because of poverty, drugs, abuse and other negative reasons. Sadly all of these things are true and do shed negativity on the business. There are also many women who have chosen this profession, who are happy to be in it and who are using it as a stepping stone in a positive way. There are also clients who seek out this type of escort and will only interact with responsible and professional women. The negativity of this business is harsh, real and unfortunately always overshadows the positives. As does the theory that a cheating man/women is a bad man/woman, as is the one he/she is cheating with. The fact that a lot of clients are attached also solidifies society's belief that those involved in this business cause the ruin of marriages and other relationships. That many of us are evil seductresses who have no morals or self respect. You would be hard pressed to find anyone in society to openly admit that an escort could actually enhance or help a coupled relationship, or that an escort may be an educated, level headed, productive member of society. These are my beliefs from my experiences in this business. I also believe that until society becomes more "European" towards sex, meaning, more accepting and open about it, the acceptance and opinions towards sex workers and their clients will stay unwanted and negative:(

At the risk of going all Debbie Downer on you... I'm going to anyway. I think that society's current expectations of clients are very low, but this is profoundly connected to society's impressions of sex workers. Unfortunately, the average person's vision of a sex worker is probably very negative. She might be a drug addict working for her pimp/dealer, or a trafficking victim at the mercy of the gang that got her into the country, but the general impression is of someone who is at the mercy of a person (or people) who control her activities, income, and entire life; she's turning tricks for their benefit, and she'll never see any of the proceeds. And that's before you even consider the idea that she may be underage... long story short; she's desperate, on the fringes of society, and she'll do what it takes to earn a few bucks to get her through the next day. That, in turn, feeds society's opinion of the client; he's a guy who just wants to get his rocks off. He doesn't give a damn about the well-being of the provider he sees; he doesn't care where the money goes. And he doesn't care that the girl sucking his cock may be, in the eyes of the law, a child. Society expects him to take what he can get; if he can, he'll rape a provider if he thinks he can get away with it. Long story short: he's an asshole, exploiting the vulnerable, and society expect him to behave as such. Now, everyone reading this post knows damn well that the impressions I've just outlined are absolute crap, and are in no way representative of this industry. Most of the ladies involved are doing exactly what they want to be doing, including a lot of the ones who have entered the country illegally. Most of the clients are, whatever their tastes in terms of age, not looking for someone under the age of majority; most of us would care if we met someone who we felt was being coerced in any way, and a lot of us would make an effort do something about it. Most of the ladies are not on drugs. Most of them are not under the control of anyone, even if they do choose to work for an agency. And most of us are also aware that not all sex workers are female, and not all clients are male. All of these things are... things that society as a whole doesn't get. The fundamental problem is the invisibility of the industry as a whole. I suspect that almost every adult in the country knows folks who are involved in this industry, as either clients or providers; they just don't know it, because none of us have neon signs on our foreheads. These things are changing, slowly; I've noticed over the past few years that sex workers' organizations have become more visible and have begun to get their message across in the mainstream press. This is a long, slow task (think of turning around an oil tanker) but they've made a good start, and people are - slowly - beginning to notice, and get their heads around the idea that there are a lot of sex workers out there who are strong and independent people who are doing exactly what they want to be doing. Clients are still much lower profile, despite being far more numerous, but I hope that will change. The recent changes in the law were designed in part to inhibit that, but I'm optimistic that eventually, reality will shine through. It'll be a long fight, and like many of these fights it'll take a generation or two and the road will be far from smooth. They say that a lie can run around the world before the truth has got its boots on... but when the truth starts kicking, the game's almost over. We'll get there.

From CBC Radio "The Current" http://www.cbc.ca/radio/thecurrent/the-current-for-april-2-2015-1.3018995/brenda-cossman-sex-workers-given-lower-bar-when-it-comes-to-consent-1.3019150 The 7:30 audio piece link is on the left hand side, below the picture.

Yes to add to what Meaghan has said--when I worked for an agency, I got almost zero information about who I was going to see or what they were looking for. Sometimes, I didn't even have a name. You are going into the appointment totally blind. If you're not good on the fly, things can be awkward at first. As an indy, I am the one handling all emails and calls. I know who is coming to see me and what they're looking for in terms of service and look. We've often chatted prior to meeting, so there is no awkward initial conversation about what is going to happen. I mean, when I would do agency calls, I had a little speech prepared at the beginning about what I was willing to do and my restrictions because I had no idea what the agency may or may not have told the client. There was too much pressure on me to do everything and be everything because I didn't want to disappoint anyone. I find being an indy much more relaxed for that reason. I attract the clients I want to see who want the services I offer and things are less up in the air.

As someone doing a PhD in women's studies, let me say first off that there is no one definition of feminism, but as a generalization we can say that feminism refers to the political, economic and social equality of the sexes. There are many different strands of feminism, such as Marxist/Socialist feminism, radical feminism, liberal feminism, post-structural/postmodernist feminism. They all have particular histories and goals. It's much better to think of feminism in the plural, as feminisms, because there are many. In terms of the type of feminism influencing C36--this is a very specific form of radical feminism that was formulated during the 60s-70s-80s. But lest you think this a new incarnation, this type of "rescue the fallen women" has been a goal of middle class white women since the 19th century. Despite being very vocal, they are in fact a minority amongst feminists generally. I generally refer to myself as a sex radical feminist or a sex positive feminist. Those are labels that refer to a type of feminism that is supportive of sex workers rights, as well as trans rights (many rad fems are trans-exclusionary, arguing offensively that transwomen in particular are just men in drag). I would hope you wouldn't paint an entire group as man-haters because of a few bad apples.

The ole circadian rhythm as Natasha Summers pointed out.... it's surprisingly easy to throw out of whack and can take a few days or more to get it set right again. I always tell friends who are going through a phase where sleep is not coming easily to them that they should turn off their computer/tv/videogames/smartphone at least two hours before bed and read or knit or whatever your hobby is. The light cast by electronics is considered to be blue light which has a much stronger effect than the orange/yellow light of indoor lighting. Indoor lighting can still throw you out of whack, but start with curbing your electronics and see if that makes a difference. If not, then start lessening your indoor lighting (use a small lamp instead of the ceiling light, for example). Of course sometimes insomnia is caused by stress or non-melatonin imbalances in the body. Our body is a resilient and marvelous machine, but it can go wonky from time to time. If after a week of diligently ditching your lightsources for two hours before bed doesn't help, by all means explore other options such as stress management and hormone therapy (melatonin). Bearing in mind that insomnia is not the same as simply needing less sleep. The old adage about 8 hours a night is not true for everyone and some people genuinely require less sleep as they age (no offense, anyone). It's also natural for the body to reset it's sleep/wake cycles several times a year - which is why some of you may notice that you go through periods of a week or longer where for no reason at all you feel like staying up later or going to bed earlier. This is because before the industrial revolution and indoor lighting, we adjusted to the change in daylight hours. Our bodies still try to do that from time to time. Of course, that is not the same as insomnia and I'm certain you all know your bodies well enough to know what's what. Hang in there and don't give up: you'll find something that works to get you a good night's sleep.