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Generally speaking I have already liked my guest before we have even met. I spend some time chatting and kibitzing well before a date, I don't know what my date looks like but by meeting time its all immaterial. I have talked , emailed so much its a certain good time . The connection has been made and it all appreciative after I open the door!

With a new client, I tell myself that I am going to corrupt him with my feminine wiles. Hehe. I can spot personalities right away and have a plan to conduct the session adjust to all different types. I am always myself without a put on but there are some guys who don't say much or are very shy so I basically adapt to their personality.Usually it takes a few minute to see if someone is going to be a d*ck whether they are attempting to be too grabby or pushy or ask inappropriate questions. My advice to guys is never walk in the door and give the lady the up and down look. We don't like that! With good long standing regulars, it's like seeing an old friend. I have this one regular and he so nice. He one of those happy people to be around and it carries over to me when I see him. I locked keys in car at store when I was supposed to be on my way at my location to meet him and he picked me up. We talk about everything and I do tarot cards for him and then he told me one of my predictions came true. lol.

She is retired . Some ladies think joining this industry is a trip to fast easy money . Unless you are a long term companion this is not true. It takes several years to build a solid , reliable reputation . Ladies who preserve and take the time to build valuable regular clients will never have to drop away. However if you take your guests for granted and deliver unsatisfactory service you will be retired just as fast.....

Yes, last minute cancelations are a real pain! Thankfully, I don't experience them too often, but, sometimes, they come in waves and that is frustrating because it can make a whole day a practical write off. I find this especially true for me because I build in a generous amount of time between appointments for self care...relaxing, making sure I make time for meals, etc., etc., so, not only is the timeframe of the appointment lost, but also any potential appointments one turned down in the planned 'break times' in between...So, a last minute cancellation on a one hour booking can potentially result in pretty much a whole afternoons income lost. I find the following things to be helpful for me: For new and repeat clients booking days and weeks in advance, I ask for confirmation of a date the day before by or before 4pm. If I do not receive confirmation, I assume the date is not a go ahead and open up my schedule for other bookings. I have had a few people get frustrated with me over this if/when they lose their opportunity to see me because they failed to confirm on time, but pre bookings are not an automatic right. They are a privilege and also something I greatly appreciate but only when a gent respects my time and confirmation protocols. Otherwise, it defeats the purpose of pre booking. And, if contact is initiated first through email or text, I ask for that to be followed up by a phone call AT THE TIME OF RESERVATION, even if it is weeks in advance, and this also goes for when I am visiting Ottawa. While it does not prevent time wasters, or cancellations or no shows in general, it increases my confidence that the intended booking is sincere and makes the interaction more personal. I have actually had gentlemen tell me that the phone conversation makes them feel more accountable to respecting my time and more excited to see me because it is more personal...also meaning not waiting until the last minute to inform me of a cancellation, but rather telling me in advance even if they think they may not be able to honour their appointment because they do not want to lose out on the chance to see me in the future. For my Ottawa visits, I have had a few gentlemen come across as somewhat irritated that they would have to call me weeks in advance of a date in order to reserve a time with me. However, I stick to my protocols and most totally understand why I ask for this call. The call not only lets me know they are a sincere about booking, it lets me assess how they come across, and if I want to take the appointment at all. If someone sounds like a jerk, I don't want to block off 2, 3, 4, 5, hours of my time, only to find out the day before that I don't want to see this person. Similar to what some of the other ladies in this thread have stated, I also ask that a check in happens an hour before meeting. If I don't hear from a gent by then, I know things are a no go, and because I accept same day appointments, often from regular and repeat clients, many of whom are spontaneous about checking in about my availability, then I am able to give them the appointment time or at least a start time shortly thereafter. I know some ladies do not provide same day appointments due their business models that work for them (total respect for that), but I find that offering same day appointments really helps me on a number of levels. And, for sure, cancelations happen for very real reasons, and so I take that into account, but if it becomes a repeated issue with a given client (due to an unpredictable schedule), and say, it isn't too last minute and it is someone I am choosing to see again, I may say that I prefer if they check in with me same day to inquire about my availability and if we can work something out, then great. If someone cancels on me last minute, with few exceptions, (here in Kingston) I ask for a $100 cancellation fee payable at our next appointment if I choose to see them at all. For some, they will refuse to pay and just never call back, but for those who have already seen me, more often than not they will pay the fee. This helps to offset lost income, and also increases the likelihood that they will honour their bookings and/or at least to provide me with more advanced notice when they cannot make an arranged meeting time in the future. Have I potentially 'lost' clients over staying firm on my protocols, sure. But, they are not the client base I want and it prevents a lot of headaches and frustration for me. And, even with all of this, last minute cancellations still happen. Jenny, take a little comfort in knowing it is not you. We ladies know what you are going through. Hugs! Anna

I do not consider any appointment as being confirmed until the client calls a minimum of an hour for prebookings and half hour for same day bookings ahead to let me know he's on his way at which time I will give him the address of my visitor parking. When he arrives there then he needs to call again for my unit number.

Just one word of caution, when a lady books a client and gives the building address, only give the guy the buzz code. Do not give them the apartment number and tell them when they do buzz up to NOT address you by your working name as others may be coming through the front door. If your real name is on the buzzer list, ask the building management to change it to "occupied" because of privacy reasons or a former relationship gone bad. And if you have a monitor on the t.v. to watch people come in, even better. This way you can see if they come through the front door when you buzz them in. Anyone can claim to be in the area but if you want to take it one step further a landmark like a strip mall, gas station close to your place with a payphone will suffice. There are gentlemen out there who jumped through my hoops because they respected my safety. And I appreciate that. :)

I don't want to steer the conversation in a different direction but I thought I would add to Kate's point about the address and location when giving it out to clients. Sometimes if I have doubts I will make the person call from a payphone to make sure they're in the area. Many ladies who used to escort years ago and before cell phones would make clients call from the nearest payphone to make sure they were in the area. In fact, I knew one gal who told me that she had a bird's eye view from her balcony apartment to the payphone she would get her clients to call from. With technology these days, spoofing numbers and texting apps, privacy is always a must but you still have to go with your gut instincts which is why I always make sure I speak with them on the phone and I ask to call them back. It's kind of like being a bloodhound sniffing them out so to speak and if my intuition is yelling "No!", I excuse myself and hang up without booking them. I know within 20 seconds whether I want to meet a person or not. They could sound like the nicest person in the world but if something really throws me off whether it's how they speak to me, the type of questions they ask, I listen to that inner voice, always! Same goes for text with the type of questions they ask. I will never book strictly by text or give out the address in text in case someone's wife were to find it or people who have no boundaries, etc.

Cancellations and no-shows are a fact of life, not just in this line of work but in all lines of work. Dentists, physicians, hair dressers, etc.... they have all had people not show for appointments or cancel without rescheduling. It happens. You can't control what other people do but you can sure as hell control what you allow them to get away with. Many ladies have a policy where if a gent cancels with less than a certain amount of notice given, he is to pay an additional fee on his next visit. Other ladies have a policy where a deposit is required to book again. Both are useful and will help weed out the chronic timewasters. And the point about having a gent confirm the appointment shortly before is a must, in my opinion. Don't give out your location, just your general area (nearest major intersection) and have clients phone you when they are there to get the address and directions. Clients who have no intention of showing up will often just not bother to make that confirmation call and you can go ahead and make a note of their number so you can decide if you want to bother answering if they call again. Don't be afraid to impose rules on your clients. The ones worth seeing will be happy to oblige.

probably because it crosses the line of discretion....

I'm starting to get a headache in regards to clients cancelling. I have no idea what to do to prevent it or if I CAN prevent it. Lately, my only method has been to mention that cancelling adds a small amount to the next time they want to meet, as that weeds out guys that would reschedule repeatedly and keep not showing up. And, clients that act like I've personally insulted them for doing so I probably wouldn't have wanted to meet anyways due to that absurd sense of entitlement. I mean, I get it, but I wish they'd understand it's also my job. When you cancel, that's me throwing away money. Like your boss calling you into work and then burning your paycheque in front of you and saying "lol never mind you don't work today". If you're going to schedule, make sure you actually have the time for it. On another note, is it at all possible that people fake accounts out of spite to book with girls they don't like and then back out? Has that been a thing, ever?

Seeing many puppies in Vancouver today... Not sure what's up with that but it's nice!

Go HABS go!

Hello GrassHopper et al. Here's an old-school trick which might help in the future and actually works on, most if not all, operating systems. "The hosts file" is part of every computer and, now days, is used as a blacklist of known bad sites and servers. It is checked before the computer tries to go to a site on the Internet. So if an address matches in the list you will simply get a "server cannot be found" message or an empty window. This also stops bad software from contacting home to download more offensive ads or viruses. This file exists in different locations depending on the kind of computer you have. [eg. Windows, Mac, or Linux] and the normal approach is to use free add-on software which updates the file periodically. As you can imagine the hosts file size can become huge and may slow down computers that are older than six years. However most software allows you to limit the size of the file. Without further adieu, here's a link covering most of the free software out there and complete background on how the hosts file works. Please do not be intimidated by the Geekyness of this page. Detailed information is at the top with the software near the bottom. Hosts File software. (a.k.a There's no place like 127.0.0.1) PatrickGC

no shows or cancelling on a regular basis to me = no respect at all to the ladies in this industry. it rarely happens that I have to cancel at the last minute, but I ALWAYS contact the escort or MA in advance. it has recently happened to me that an escort was supposed to see me, and she claimed she had car trouble, and texted me at the time she was supposed to arrive. she made no effort to make other arrangements to meet. so I was not impressed at all. but it does happen.

not all that use bp are bad, I have had some very good clients through bp and other advertising, but you learn how to screen them and get a 'vibe' for the genuine ones. Don't be afraid to let them know that you will give the location 15-20 minutes before the appointed time. If they are truly serious, they will be there, but, there are a lot of timewasters out there. Try giving a location that you can perhaps see from your windows as an area for them to contact you in. Or if there is some kind of landmark that you can use,, and have them describe it to you once they reach it, preferably not too far from your actual location. I did this in one of my locations. I could see directly into a parking lot (where they could park their vehicle safely) but it also gave me the opportunity to see if they were indeed serious, lol The 'I'm in the area' bs, you have no way of knowing, especially if they do not know your location. If you haven't given out the location, even a general area, they could be anywhere. bp can be quite a lucrative marketing area, if we could get the scum of the earth to stop wasting time, lol. Don't be afraid to put in your ads that you are looking for serious inquiries. If it takes a lot of texting, calls or looks like timewasting, it probably is. Hopefully this helps a little, but hang in there, you will find a solution :-)

beautiful day out instead of rain and snow, what a difference the sun being out makes. Took a walk along the boardwalk, lovely spring day :-)

meeting someone new and feeling the connection, nothing better:)

Just had a thought. Let's reverse the situation and ask the same question. Would you as a client, who I assume values discretion, send a picture of your face to a complete stranger who may or may not end up meeting you? Be sure to send a pic. everytime you get asked to!

Sadly all that just comes with this. There are tons of guys out there that book with no intention of actually coming to see you. I have had it where the guy even book days even weeks in advance, sound very sincere and respectful and even confirms and call when they are 'in the area' and never show up. That is why I never give the full address when booking. I agree with a previous comment about pimps trying to mess with other girls(I have even googled numbers after a no show and saw that it was another working girls number) but I also think some guys just like imagining us 'getting ready for them' and get off on that..When I get a no show I never text asking where they are etc because I know that is what they want. Certainly sometimes stuff does happen and you can't control it but usually you can tell who is just making excuses and playing games. Cancelling 10 minutes before an apt usually doesn't help lol. Thankfully this doesn't happen too often and the men who are gentlemen all make up for it :D

I'm sorry for you Jenny, but hang in there we all get them. I know that hearing this won't solve the issue but hopefully it will console you a bit. To answer your last question, I believe so. But cancellations happen for a myriad of reasons from the legitimate to the down right felonious and spiteful. I find asking for an email money transfer for pre-bookings helps and have potential clients call an hour or so before meeting to confirm, if they don't call move on. That way there isn't much time wasted. I believe it was Nicholette who recommended this to me and it helps. Remember the good times when the bad arise, that'll make them pass more quickly and know you aren't alone:)

I feel your pain! Is tricky on cancellations cause on one hand at least they canceld and didn't pull a no show, But on the other hand you can't tell if it is a sincer cancellation. I had one person that did it over and over, so I told him I won't bother booking him anymore. Sent me a big sob story, and never heard from him for about a year. Then when I was in his city, he tried to book again, I explained that I will not book him as the history we had so far was not good. He then said, ohh so sorry I was having a hard time then. I still refused to book him. So in this case the only thing I could do is just plainly refuse him for now on. On occation they cancel because they are new and nervous, if it is the second time I ask them if this is why . Then explain to them how it messes us up when this happens. I gently say they are welcome to book one more time , but if canceled then I will refuse a future engagement. And yes, sadly sometimes there is a jealous person behind it too. Some people just get off on the power trip from messing up our day.

Something that I find a turn off is when one companion pronounces her opinion of how other companions conduct their business publically on a board like this. Every lady has a business model that works for them. To publically make comments and posts as if there is one "right" way to do things and thus by extension every other way is wrong, and their way is the only right way. And then posting it publically for other ladies and prospective clients to read is a major turn off A second major turn off, said before, but deserves repeating. It is plagiarism whether in ad titles and content, or outright stealing of websites Any lady who plagiarises is stealing, and I am left wondering if she would steal another lady's ads/websites etc, what else would she steal A rambling RG

Ok, let's make it clear... 1. We do have pictures. It's our first contact with you. The most beautiful ones are the one SELLING. 2. Some of us are paying CRAZY money for them. Photographers, suits, background decor... 3. We are not all Spinner models. Some of us are older, having some things to hide (I, for myself, have tattoos and light strechmarks). When we pay for our pics, they are modified. Not photoshopped, but certainly ''enhanced''. Tone is corrected, we strike some poses to be at our best. And yes, sometimes, they don't show everything. Strech marks are not the best sellers. If I don't show them, do I modify my pics? NO! I'm showing what I want to show, and accusing somebody of posting fake pics could be very dammageable for there reputation. Please, when you look at our pics and call us, ASK US if we have ''factory default'' as it may not be fake pics, but what we are hiding could be a turn off.

Wish you all the best!

It is great to see 5 Canadian Teams in the playoffs, with two of the hottest goalies playing against each other in the Montreal - Ottawa series I see low scoring games with the Habs winning in six of course, Go Habs Go. The other Canadian teams I am cheering for to advance are Calgary and Winnipeg.

Happy Birthday Meaghan. The sun has decided to come out for your special day. Enjoy.

Have a happy birthday, hope your lasagna turns out great, I am sure it will!

Happy Birthday Meaghan Enjoy your special day RG

It certainly is good to see 5 Canadian teams in the playoffs... Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Go flames go!!!! So damn excited they are in the playoffs!!!!

Stone for rookie of the year

Senators are in the playoffs-life is so good.

When my ad clearly states my hours (e.g. done at 6 p.m.) and I get a request at 5:59 "are you still available?"

Guys, Bianca Jaguar is coming back to Halifax for a visit and I strongly recommend that you go see her. She is an amazing lady. She's beautiful with an incredible body and an awesome fun personality. I've seen her three times before and all I will say is WOW, three outstanding experiences. She is a true gem. You will not be disappointed. Treat her well and she'll treat you like a king.

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From my perspective when this happens unless it was a blatant B&S or there was a dangerous situation or illegal activities ie. money stolen etc then you need to just chalk this up to one of the risks of the hobby and move along. I understand that when things like this happen we hate to feel like someone has taken advantage of us but the reality is there is not that much you can actually do about it. On CERB / Lyla we restrict ourselves with good reasons to an environment that focuses on the positive so with few exceptions this is not a place to air dirty laundry... I think someone suggested that there are other sites where if you were so inclined you could go and freely air your dirty laundry but I would suggest to you that if that is your plan then keep in mind that the reality is that this becomes a "he said" "she said" and those discussions often don't come out positive for either side ... the end result might just be that other ladies who you may want to see may choose to not see you as they don't want to risk a similar situation in their future. The bottom line is there are risks associated with participation by both clients and ladies... ladies see bad client who treat them bad or short pay just like clients see ladies who might act inappropriate.... both need to move on. I am a big believer in Karma... whether it is a client or a lady that acts inappropriately it will ultimately come back to them as our actions represent us in the world and try as we may most people will in the end actually see us for who we really are. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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Respect truly is a two way street. Being respectful of what we offer is greatly appreciated, in more ways than one ;-) I give of myself for this 'hobby' and I do truly love what I do; who I meet through it and the opportunity to grow within myself. What I find disrespectful is: -negotiators (enough said on that one) -hygiene not up to par (I am fresh, please be the same way when you visit me) -endless messaging with no end in sight of even a potential booking (I don't mean 15 or 20 messages or texts, that is fine, it's when it reaches over a hundred I tend to pull away) -taking advantage of (or trying to) special rates that are no longer offered (from several months ago) -showing up unannounced (you now have my address if you have been here, but it doesn't give you license to just 'show up') -being rude to me just because I cannot take your call at that exact moment (perhaps I am with a gentleman or in an important meeting and I have given you the courtesy of telling you this) Respect definitely is appreciated. We work hard to give you the best experience you will ever have. Being offered a massage by a gentleman is wonderful indeed, even if it is only 5 minutes. Gentle chit chat in the beginning, a great way to break the ice. Nothing shows disrespect more to me than those who insist that I should: -lower my rate, as other girls offer for less -be available when 'you' want it (I do have other clients and book accordingly, and I actually do have a personal life) -(my favorite) the no-show with no notice, no message or explanation (even though an explanation isn't really warranted) especially when it is repeated. Please be respectful of us, we are respectful of you.

Phaedrus, excellently articulated and accurate points. I recently spoke with the reporter from the CBC National who is preparing a news item on the effects of the new law on escorts. During the initial investigation it was noticed that clients are tremendously underrepresented in the discussions, articles, and media. So indeed, the "supertanker" is slowly turning. I heard about this because I'm involved with the activists and I'm willing to speak out.-if anyone would like this information, just p.m. me and I'll pass it along. At this point I don't know when or if the news story will make it to air and the reporter is to be commended for trying to get perspectives from the client's perspective. Apologies for the short reply. My voice dictation software is acting up. PatrickGC Additional Comments: Agreed FunAdventures blindly legalizing the industry with a history such as ours would be disastrous. However, the goal is to make violence unacceptable and in this context that means "anything against any person's will". As the situation stands now people can not protect themselves because they are now literally farther from being legal and law. Criminals love this, because criminals don't obey the law, by definition, unless it in their favor. This is something bureaucracy just doesn't seem to understand: The Law Only Works On Those Who Acknowledge And Obey It. That's why the current law affects the people here and not the ass holes on the outside. And those same "lovely individuals" usually have access to unencumbered physical resources and the occasional lawyer or two. However if the industry was legalized responsibly, pressure could be brought to bear. I realize that for this to really work it takes a fundamental shift in society. Usually that takes a long time, but not always, nevertheless it must sought after. Because what ever society deems as acceptable behavior has ripple effects of crossed all facets of life. This industry must evolve and be governed by dignity, standards and a code of ethics. Right now some segments of the society aren't concerned enough when someone is harmed or disappears. Apologies for my rant. But the industry and people should be part of the mainstream. Or at least closer to it. PatrickGC A Side Note to lighten things up a little bit: Soon after the new law was enacted an official request was sent to revenue Canada to exempt all working individuals in this industry from income tax. Since any moneys received by way of any transaction under the new law are to be considered obtained by way of extortion. To date revenue Canada has not responded. [if I can find the original article I will post it here.]

Phaedrus, as so often, really nailed it for me. From my perspective, which is inherently slanted because I myself am involved in this industry, I agree with most insofar as society doesn't give a rat's hairy keister about either the companions or the clients. The general census is that companions are uneducated, drug addled women with daddy issues. We know this is not true at all, but general society doesn't. It's a stereotype that is prevalent and detrimental, and it contributes to society's apathy regarding companion's rights and safety. As for clients, I don't think society has any expectations or preconceived notions other than that they are depraved, perverse and perhaps having a physical reason for needing "to pay for it" (being obese, ugly, etc.). Again, we all know this stereotype is no truer than the preconceived notions of companions, and yet it persists. Beyond those basic assumptions about what kind of people we are, it would seem no further thought is given on the subject. The average member of society is ignorant in the true sense of the word: they simply have no actual knowledge and therefor they presume stereotypes to be truth and leave it at that. That's my opinion, anyhow... :)

There have already been such good and thoughtful responses to this thread. If I try to narrow it down to the two specific questions posed then perhaps I may differ somewhat from what has been said to this point, not that I disagree with anything posted to this point. For society to respond to how they would expect a client to behave there must be a presumption that society knows this exists, even if society does not understand why clients seek out companions. My idealism still exists and I believe that with the above premise, society would expect a client to behave properly, respectfully and in the same way that non-participants expect to be treated in their own lives. Therefore I believe that standard for clients agrees with presumed social norms. However if one looks at the questions from the perspective of the non-participant, the beliefs of society I expect are quite the opposite. The existing stereotypes, even with all of the media coverage in the last year, are still perpetuated. Even five years ago before I discovered this world I did not think of it too much, but when I did I would have assumed that clients were losers and rough and low lifes, and that companions were used and were druggies or criminals. Sad eh, and I am supposed to be a reasonably intelligent man. Thanks for the thread Patrick. MN2

My opinion is that society as a whole doesn't care. This is a lifestyle that doesn't impact them, so they just don't give it a thought. Prior to the new legislation I'd wager if you asked any Canadian on a street corner (oooppps maybe a bad choice of words LOL) they would have said prostitution is illegal. And most likely don't even know the law has been changed I think what is more important is educating both clients and prospective clients and companions and prospective companions into what is proper etiquette and behaviour. I'm less worried about what society thinks of how we should behave, and more concerned about being the best client I can be. And passing along any tidbits of advice I can. To this end a board and community like Lyla is a very useful forum for the sharing of ideas and learning about this lifestyle. I know it was beneficial to me in my early days of this lifestyle So I'd say just be the best client/companion you can be. And don't worry about societal expectations, because society likely doesn't even care My take on it RG

I think "society" in general falls into two camps. The first are those who were taught that this industry is wrong and hurtful to people and those involved are sick or drug riddled or whatever. They had the stigma attached to their thinking and they never questioned it nor looked any further into it but will react with it when required. The other camp doesn't really think about it or care. They are mostly focused on themselves and their lives and what others do doesn't have any real impact. This is the group that as an industry we need to reach because some of the new laws, ours included, could have actual impact on them even though it's not specifically about them. If the government feels taking away our rights and freedoms is okay and they do so unchallenged, who is to say they won't try it with the rest of the people in some capacity. It's like the anti-bullying law they have that gives access to private records and conversations via cell and email. How many people pay attention to the fact that police can charge you if you don't give over your phone password even without a warrant. The first camp has the loudest voices and aren't afraid to use them and can influence others because of this. They paint us with the ugliest brushes, client and worker alike. Most, no matter what we say or what we show them, will probably still continue to believe what they want. The other camp I believe, can be swayed or at least remain neutral. They are usually impacted by whatever personally touches them. This is when it could be important for them to know someone. I would love to see a positive wave of impact it's just difficult to stand up and be heard when you are unsure of the impact.

But what you've outlined isn't crap, there in lines the reasons the public perceptions are as they are. There are a lot of clients that don't give a crap, they are there just to get their rocks off and couldn't care a less about the escorts position in life. A lot of the women are in this business because of poverty, drugs, abuse and other negative reasons. Sadly all of these things are true and do shed negativity on the business. There are also many women who have chosen this profession, who are happy to be in it and who are using it as a stepping stone in a positive way. There are also clients who seek out this type of escort and will only interact with responsible and professional women. The negativity of this business is harsh, real and unfortunately always overshadows the positives. As does the theory that a cheating man/women is a bad man/woman, as is the one he/she is cheating with. The fact that a lot of clients are attached also solidifies society's belief that those involved in this business cause the ruin of marriages and other relationships. That many of us are evil seductresses who have no morals or self respect. You would be hard pressed to find anyone in society to openly admit that an escort could actually enhance or help a coupled relationship, or that an escort may be an educated, level headed, productive member of society. These are my beliefs from my experiences in this business. I also believe that until society becomes more "European" towards sex, meaning, more accepting and open about it, the acceptance and opinions towards sex workers and their clients will stay unwanted and negative:(

Awesome I would love to find a reputable provider in the cp Perth smiths falls area. I'm back and forth from those areas to the city fairly often it would be nice to stop for some personal time while in gods country

Communication communication communication. If in doubt, ask. If you aren't sure if she's open to the occasional email then just ask her :) and don't "assume" anything! Xoxo, Miss Lane

Is there anything better than the first kiss with a new partner? I think not, the anticipation, the newness and the potential are intoxicating. No need to rush into it, slowly cup a hand behind her next and start with a soft peck then slowly start to move together sort of like dancing, you lead, she leads, stop and maybe brush the hair out of her eyes and kiss her forehead, neck and shoulders. For me kissing is all about the lips a little tug on the lower lip the light tongue on the corner of her mouth. Just slow and soft. You'll know if your doing it right lol. Good kissing can become great, bad kissing is bad kissing. Deal breaker......absolutely. Peace MG

I kind of want to keep quiet on this as I want her all for myself lol but Hailey at paradise has been amazing to me. Very passionate and not afraid of actual intimacy ie cuddles and low key affection. What else do you need in a girlfriend :-) That said I agree with the above statements. Think it all depends on chemistry and respect. :-)