Jump to content

Leaderboard


Popular Content

Showing content with the highest reputation on 04/12/15 in Posts

  1. 6 points
    Generally speaking I have already liked my guest before we have even met. I spend some time chatting and kibitzing well before a date, I don't know what my date looks like but by meeting time its all immaterial. I have talked , emailed so much its a certain good time . The connection has been made and it all appreciative after I open the door!
  2. 5 points
    With a new client, I tell myself that I am going to corrupt him with my feminine wiles. Hehe. I can spot personalities right away and have a plan to conduct the session adjust to all different types. I am always myself without a put on but there are some guys who don't say much or are very shy so I basically adapt to their personality.Usually it takes a few minute to see if someone is going to be a d*ck whether they are attempting to be too grabby or pushy or ask inappropriate questions. My advice to guys is never walk in the door and give the lady the up and down look. We don't like that! With good long standing regulars, it's like seeing an old friend. I have this one regular and he so nice. He one of those happy people to be around and it carries over to me when I see him. I locked keys in car at store when I was supposed to be on my way at my location to meet him and he picked me up. We talk about everything and I do tarot cards for him and then he told me one of my predictions came true. lol.
  3. 4 points
    She is retired . Some ladies think joining this industry is a trip to fast easy money . Unless you are a long term companion this is not true. It takes several years to build a solid , reliable reputation . Ladies who preserve and take the time to build valuable regular clients will never have to drop away. However if you take your guests for granted and deliver unsatisfactory service you will be retired just as fast.....
  4. 3 points
    Yes, last minute cancelations are a real pain! Thankfully, I don't experience them too often, but, sometimes, they come in waves and that is frustrating because it can make a whole day a practical write off. I find this especially true for me because I build in a generous amount of time between appointments for self care...relaxing, making sure I make time for meals, etc., etc., so, not only is the timeframe of the appointment lost, but also any potential appointments one turned down in the planned 'break times' in between...So, a last minute cancellation on a one hour booking can potentially result in pretty much a whole afternoons income lost. I find the following things to be helpful for me: For new and repeat clients booking days and weeks in advance, I ask for confirmation of a date the day before by or before 4pm. If I do not receive confirmation, I assume the date is not a go ahead and open up my schedule for other bookings. I have had a few people get frustrated with me over this if/when they lose their opportunity to see me because they failed to confirm on time, but pre bookings are not an automatic right. They are a privilege and also something I greatly appreciate but only when a gent respects my time and confirmation protocols. Otherwise, it defeats the purpose of pre booking. And, if contact is initiated first through email or text, I ask for that to be followed up by a phone call AT THE TIME OF RESERVATION, even if it is weeks in advance, and this also goes for when I am visiting Ottawa. While it does not prevent time wasters, or cancellations or no shows in general, it increases my confidence that the intended booking is sincere and makes the interaction more personal. I have actually had gentlemen tell me that the phone conversation makes them feel more accountable to respecting my time and more excited to see me because it is more personal...also meaning not waiting until the last minute to inform me of a cancellation, but rather telling me in advance even if they think they may not be able to honour their appointment because they do not want to lose out on the chance to see me in the future. For my Ottawa visits, I have had a few gentlemen come across as somewhat irritated that they would have to call me weeks in advance of a date in order to reserve a time with me. However, I stick to my protocols and most totally understand why I ask for this call. The call not only lets me know they are a sincere about booking, it lets me assess how they come across, and if I want to take the appointment at all. If someone sounds like a jerk, I don't want to block off 2, 3, 4, 5, hours of my time, only to find out the day before that I don't want to see this person. Similar to what some of the other ladies in this thread have stated, I also ask that a check in happens an hour before meeting. If I don't hear from a gent by then, I know things are a no go, and because I accept same day appointments, often from regular and repeat clients, many of whom are spontaneous about checking in about my availability, then I am able to give them the appointment time or at least a start time shortly thereafter. I know some ladies do not provide same day appointments due their business models that work for them (total respect for that), but I find that offering same day appointments really helps me on a number of levels. And, for sure, cancelations happen for very real reasons, and so I take that into account, but if it becomes a repeated issue with a given client (due to an unpredictable schedule), and say, it isn't too last minute and it is someone I am choosing to see again, I may say that I prefer if they check in with me same day to inquire about my availability and if we can work something out, then great. If someone cancels on me last minute, with few exceptions, (here in Kingston) I ask for a $100 cancellation fee payable at our next appointment if I choose to see them at all. For some, they will refuse to pay and just never call back, but for those who have already seen me, more often than not they will pay the fee. This helps to offset lost income, and also increases the likelihood that they will honour their bookings and/or at least to provide me with more advanced notice when they cannot make an arranged meeting time in the future. Have I potentially 'lost' clients over staying firm on my protocols, sure. But, they are not the client base I want and it prevents a lot of headaches and frustration for me. And, even with all of this, last minute cancellations still happen. Jenny, take a little comfort in knowing it is not you. We ladies know what you are going through. Hugs! Anna
  5. 3 points
    I do not consider any appointment as being confirmed until the client calls a minimum of an hour for prebookings and half hour for same day bookings ahead to let me know he's on his way at which time I will give him the address of my visitor parking. When he arrives there then he needs to call again for my unit number.
  6. 3 points
    Just one word of caution, when a lady books a client and gives the building address, only give the guy the buzz code. Do not give them the apartment number and tell them when they do buzz up to NOT address you by your working name as others may be coming through the front door. If your real name is on the buzzer list, ask the building management to change it to "occupied" because of privacy reasons or a former relationship gone bad. And if you have a monitor on the t.v. to watch people come in, even better. This way you can see if they come through the front door when you buzz them in. Anyone can claim to be in the area but if you want to take it one step further a landmark like a strip mall, gas station close to your place with a payphone will suffice. There are gentlemen out there who jumped through my hoops because they respected my safety. And I appreciate that. :)
  7. 3 points
    I don't want to steer the conversation in a different direction but I thought I would add to Kate's point about the address and location when giving it out to clients. Sometimes if I have doubts I will make the person call from a payphone to make sure they're in the area. Many ladies who used to escort years ago and before cell phones would make clients call from the nearest payphone to make sure they were in the area. In fact, I knew one gal who told me that she had a bird's eye view from her balcony apartment to the payphone she would get her clients to call from. With technology these days, spoofing numbers and texting apps, privacy is always a must but you still have to go with your gut instincts which is why I always make sure I speak with them on the phone and I ask to call them back. It's kind of like being a bloodhound sniffing them out so to speak and if my intuition is yelling "No!", I excuse myself and hang up without booking them. I know within 20 seconds whether I want to meet a person or not. They could sound like the nicest person in the world but if something really throws me off whether it's how they speak to me, the type of questions they ask, I listen to that inner voice, always! Same goes for text with the type of questions they ask. I will never book strictly by text or give out the address in text in case someone's wife were to find it or people who have no boundaries, etc.
  8. 3 points
    Cancellations and no-shows are a fact of life, not just in this line of work but in all lines of work. Dentists, physicians, hair dressers, etc.... they have all had people not show for appointments or cancel without rescheduling. It happens. You can't control what other people do but you can sure as hell control what you allow them to get away with. Many ladies have a policy where if a gent cancels with less than a certain amount of notice given, he is to pay an additional fee on his next visit. Other ladies have a policy where a deposit is required to book again. Both are useful and will help weed out the chronic timewasters. And the point about having a gent confirm the appointment shortly before is a must, in my opinion. Don't give out your location, just your general area (nearest major intersection) and have clients phone you when they are there to get the address and directions. Clients who have no intention of showing up will often just not bother to make that confirmation call and you can go ahead and make a note of their number so you can decide if you want to bother answering if they call again. Don't be afraid to impose rules on your clients. The ones worth seeing will be happy to oblige.
  9. 3 points
    probably because it crosses the line of discretion....
  10. 2 points
    I'm starting to get a headache in regards to clients cancelling. I have no idea what to do to prevent it or if I CAN prevent it. Lately, my only method has been to mention that cancelling adds a small amount to the next time they want to meet, as that weeds out guys that would reschedule repeatedly and keep not showing up. And, clients that act like I've personally insulted them for doing so I probably wouldn't have wanted to meet anyways due to that absurd sense of entitlement. I mean, I get it, but I wish they'd understand it's also my job. When you cancel, that's me throwing away money. Like your boss calling you into work and then burning your paycheque in front of you and saying "lol never mind you don't work today". If you're going to schedule, make sure you actually have the time for it. On another note, is it at all possible that people fake accounts out of spite to book with girls they don't like and then back out? Has that been a thing, ever?
  11. 2 points
    Seeing many puppies in Vancouver today... Not sure what's up with that but it's nice!
  12. 2 points
  13. 2 points
    Hello GrassHopper et al. Here's an old-school trick which might help in the future and actually works on, most if not all, operating systems. "The hosts file" is part of every computer and, now days, is used as a blacklist of known bad sites and servers. It is checked before the computer tries to go to a site on the Internet. So if an address matches in the list you will simply get a "server cannot be found" message or an empty window. This also stops bad software from contacting home to download more offensive ads or viruses. This file exists in different locations depending on the kind of computer you have. [eg. Windows, Mac, or Linux] and the normal approach is to use free add-on software which updates the file periodically. As you can imagine the hosts file size can become huge and may slow down computers that are older than six years. However most software allows you to limit the size of the file. Without further adieu, here's a link covering most of the free software out there and complete background on how the hosts file works. Please do not be intimidated by the Geekyness of this page. Detailed information is at the top with the software near the bottom. Hosts File software. (a.k.a There's no place like 127.0.0.1) PatrickGC
  14. 2 points
    no shows or cancelling on a regular basis to me = no respect at all to the ladies in this industry. it rarely happens that I have to cancel at the last minute, but I ALWAYS contact the escort or MA in advance. it has recently happened to me that an escort was supposed to see me, and she claimed she had car trouble, and texted me at the time she was supposed to arrive. she made no effort to make other arrangements to meet. so I was not impressed at all. but it does happen.
  15. 2 points
    not all that use bp are bad, I have had some very good clients through bp and other advertising, but you learn how to screen them and get a 'vibe' for the genuine ones. Don't be afraid to let them know that you will give the location 15-20 minutes before the appointed time. If they are truly serious, they will be there, but, there are a lot of timewasters out there. Try giving a location that you can perhaps see from your windows as an area for them to contact you in. Or if there is some kind of landmark that you can use,, and have them describe it to you once they reach it, preferably not too far from your actual location. I did this in one of my locations. I could see directly into a parking lot (where they could park their vehicle safely) but it also gave me the opportunity to see if they were indeed serious, lol The 'I'm in the area' bs, you have no way of knowing, especially if they do not know your location. If you haven't given out the location, even a general area, they could be anywhere. bp can be quite a lucrative marketing area, if we could get the scum of the earth to stop wasting time, lol. Don't be afraid to put in your ads that you are looking for serious inquiries. If it takes a lot of texting, calls or looks like timewasting, it probably is. Hopefully this helps a little, but hang in there, you will find a solution :-)
  16. 2 points
    beautiful day out instead of rain and snow, what a difference the sun being out makes. Took a walk along the boardwalk, lovely spring day :-)
  17. 2 points
    meeting someone new and feeling the connection, nothing better:)
  18. 2 points
    Just had a thought. Let's reverse the situation and ask the same question. Would you as a client, who I assume values discretion, send a picture of your face to a complete stranger who may or may not end up meeting you? Be sure to send a pic. everytime you get asked to!
  19. 2 points
    Sadly all that just comes with this. There are tons of guys out there that book with no intention of actually coming to see you. I have had it where the guy even book days even weeks in advance, sound very sincere and respectful and even confirms and call when they are 'in the area' and never show up. That is why I never give the full address when booking. I agree with a previous comment about pimps trying to mess with other girls(I have even googled numbers after a no show and saw that it was another working girls number) but I also think some guys just like imagining us 'getting ready for them' and get off on that..When I get a no show I never text asking where they are etc because I know that is what they want. Certainly sometimes stuff does happen and you can't control it but usually you can tell who is just making excuses and playing games. Cancelling 10 minutes before an apt usually doesn't help lol. Thankfully this doesn't happen too often and the men who are gentlemen all make up for it :D
  20. 2 points
    I'm sorry for you Jenny, but hang in there we all get them. I know that hearing this won't solve the issue but hopefully it will console you a bit. To answer your last question, I believe so. But cancellations happen for a myriad of reasons from the legitimate to the down right felonious and spiteful. I find asking for an email money transfer for pre-bookings helps and have potential clients call an hour or so before meeting to confirm, if they don't call move on. That way there isn't much time wasted. I believe it was Nicholette who recommended this to me and it helps. Remember the good times when the bad arise, that'll make them pass more quickly and know you aren't alone:)
  21. 2 points
    I feel your pain! Is tricky on cancellations cause on one hand at least they canceld and didn't pull a no show, But on the other hand you can't tell if it is a sincer cancellation. I had one person that did it over and over, so I told him I won't bother booking him anymore. Sent me a big sob story, and never heard from him for about a year. Then when I was in his city, he tried to book again, I explained that I will not book him as the history we had so far was not good. He then said, ohh so sorry I was having a hard time then. I still refused to book him. So in this case the only thing I could do is just plainly refuse him for now on. On occation they cancel because they are new and nervous, if it is the second time I ask them if this is why . Then explain to them how it messes us up when this happens. I gently say they are welcome to book one more time , but if canceled then I will refuse a future engagement. And yes, sadly sometimes there is a jealous person behind it too. Some people just get off on the power trip from messing up our day.
  22. 2 points
    Something that I find a turn off is when one companion pronounces her opinion of how other companions conduct their business publically on a board like this. Every lady has a business model that works for them. To publically make comments and posts as if there is one "right" way to do things and thus by extension every other way is wrong, and their way is the only right way. And then posting it publically for other ladies and prospective clients to read is a major turn off A second major turn off, said before, but deserves repeating. It is plagiarism whether in ad titles and content, or outright stealing of websites Any lady who plagiarises is stealing, and I am left wondering if she would steal another lady's ads/websites etc, what else would she steal A rambling RG
  23. 2 points
    Ok, let's make it clear... 1. We do have pictures. It's our first contact with you. The most beautiful ones are the one SELLING. 2. Some of us are paying CRAZY money for them. Photographers, suits, background decor... 3. We are not all Spinner models. Some of us are older, having some things to hide (I, for myself, have tattoos and light strechmarks). When we pay for our pics, they are modified. Not photoshopped, but certainly ''enhanced''. Tone is corrected, we strike some poses to be at our best. And yes, sometimes, they don't show everything. Strech marks are not the best sellers. If I don't show them, do I modify my pics? NO! I'm showing what I want to show, and accusing somebody of posting fake pics could be very dammageable for there reputation. Please, when you look at our pics and call us, ASK US if we have ''factory default'' as it may not be fake pics, but what we are hiding could be a turn off.
  24. 1 point
    If you ever encounter any sort of problems with anyone while working, anything ranging from sexual assault to theft, intimidation, abuse, harassment, threats, stalking or anything else, and want to talk directly to a female officer who will listen and help (if you want it), here is the name of an Ottawa officer who has been helpful to sex workers in the past: Sergeant Patricia Ferguson Sexual Assault Section Tel. 613-236-1222, ext. 5463 Or, to anonymously report to the police any kind of bad behaviour you've experienced: Bad Date Line Call 1-800-303-5407 - anonymously. http://www.ottawapolice.ca/en/ServingOttawa/SectionsAndUnits/saca/baddateline.aspx From Ottawa Police Services: Working in the sex trade can make you a vulnerable target, and predators count on the fact that you may not report crimes against you. We need your help to identify and track serial and predatory offenders. The anonymous reporting system is for individuals victimized while engaging in the sex trade. By calling the toll free number (1-800-303-5407), you will be prompted to leave a message regarding the details of your assault along with as much of an offender description as possible. Information gathered could be the missing link needed in identifying a serial predator. The anonymous and free Bad Date Line gives you an opportunity to report sexual and physical assault without revealing your identity. For more information about the Ottawa Bad Date Line, download their pamphlet (PDF, 206k). The Ottawa Police Service understands the desire of victims to remain anonymous and supports the Bad Date Line in an effort to identify potential serial offenders preying upon victims who they believe will not report the attack to police. The Bad Date Line does not subscribe to caller ID and no attempts will be made to identify callers. It is preferred that victims contact police directly to report an assault so that a proper investigation can be conducted and ensure a predator is removed from the street. Ottawa Police treat all victims fairly and equitably. If you wish to speak with an officer regarding an assault or receive more information regarding the investigation process, you may contact the Sexual Assault Unit directly at 613-236-1222, ext. 5944.
  25. 1 point
    Being like a Leafs fan will be good for you... helps build character... teaches you to be tolerant of feedback from others... reminds you that there is always hope in the future.... teaches you how to deal with disappointment.... lololol... you will be a better person because of this experience :) Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  26. 1 point
    Happy BDay sexy!! The best for U and may all U wish for comes your way beautiful!! Bisous Barbara xxoo
  27. 1 point
    Happy bday you sexy,smart Lady and I wish you many sensual bdays to come.
  28. 1 point
    Birthday lasagna with garlic bread and chocolate cake with whipped cream for icing. Hehe
  29. 1 point
    Happy Birthday Meaghan... I hope you have an great day. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  30. 1 point
    Hi Jenny. You certainly sound like you have the right attitude and approach to this. And the ladies as always are providing some found advice. From a gents standpoint...yeh it's just wrong. A rare occasion can occur and I can imagine a cancellation is a little better than an outright no show. As has been said it is very disrespectful. And those are likely not situations that would turn into a 'good' date. In 5 years I've never cancelled. I was late once but that is because the plane I was travelling on was delayed and the lady and I stayed in contact by text so she was aware. But I too have been 'no-showed'. 3 times in fact. It does really suck and in all cases those ladies didn't stay in the business long. Hang in there, know it happens, and cherish the great encounters. Cub
  31. 1 point
    It sucks, but sometimes cancellations are legitimate and a fact of life Speaking for myself, I cancelled last minute on a touring lady due to illness. What I did was still pay her in full for the encounter...why should she be out plane fair, hotel fees etc due to my illness Another time I had to postpone on a lady but when I re-booked a few weeks later I increased our time together and increased her tip...for the inconvenience What I would suggest, is first implementing screening/verification for prospective clients. What it has involved, and only seen from this guy's vantage point, is providing a lady my real name, board handle confirmed by PM, email and phone number. You likely could ask a lady (or ladies) how screening/verification works. To this end there is a Verified Independent's Section (Ladies Only)...contact the Mod about how to gain access Second is you could insist on a deposit from a prospective client before booking. Someone is not going to be a no show if he has paid a deposit Just a couple thoughts A rambling RG
  32. 1 point
    I also am thankful for Miss Jane's post as I actually think it is good that we talk about these issues openly... Positive change only comes from open thoughtful discussion with many perspectives shared that influence and inform the dialogue and help form a best path forward. We learn from hearing the perspective of others... In regards to Miss Jane's comment about what hobbyists want... I accept that her experience informs her opinion and therefore it is her reality but similarly my reality as a hobbyist for 20 plus years is that I have never seen "my" participation in this hobby in the way she describes and think it is valid to express that... you are correct she never said "all hobbyists" but to be accurate she also did not say "Some" or "Most". Like I said...I like the diverse dialogue... we are all better for hearing other opinions. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  33. 1 point
    Your alarm clock will also work, lol! After you've showered, had a healthy breakfast and completed your day's to do list why not add something special and enjoy a date with me :wink:Cristycurves. As you can see I'm nicely curved, cute and I'm also very accommodating, always fun, unscripted, sincere and absolutely discrete. There is never a dull moment with me:shock: I prefer contact by phone-902-453-6323-by reliable and mature respectful gentlemen only. I'm looking forward to hearing from you * I don't keep set hours so feel comfortable contacting me at your convenience. If I'm unavailable or busy just leave a voicemail and I'll follow the instructions left in it- thank you*
  34. 1 point
  35. 1 point
    My mom was into the late stages of Dimensia in 2007, and subsequently was put into a manor , mom loved it there, our family was very fortunate to have such a loving and caring staff. The times I went to visit mom, I noticed that many of the residents did not have family or friends visiting, and at Christmas time, especially it broke my heart! Mom passed away, in the summer of 2008, every Christmas since then, I make it a point, to buy gifts at random, for the residents that do not receive any, I sign the card " In Memory Of Mom"
  36. 1 point
    Special rates are as follows: IN ONLY. N/A for OUT. massage reg 140 special 120 The usual reg 60m 220 special 180 The usual reg 90m 280 special 260 In anticipation and with gratitude, Eroticism at its finest, Kayla, your She Devil. http://www.kaylayourshedevil.com/ [email protected] 204-295-6241 call or text *** email is preferred. Text messages asking questions that are answered on my ads, website or don't indicate interest in an appointment are ignored. Follow me on twitter @shedevil1996
  37. 1 point
    I kinda think we all make to much of pictures... I agree they are great marketing tools and should be reasonably recent and generally be representative of the person who will answer the door. But to expect a lady to match a photoshoot picture with perfect lighting and the photographers eye positioning her for the desired image is really unrealistic in my opinion. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
  38. 1 point
    Proud to announce the grand opening of Studio Saint John! I have been very busy bee, secretively working on my new studio! It has been a long awaited journey, and hope that we will enjoy our secret love nest! :tongue: . A place that is dedicated to hosting for a gentlemen's get-a-way. Our secret garden, an oasis of relaxation and intimate moments. Spacious studio with modern décor with a special touch of charm! Studio STJ is a unique concept that is versatile for overnight visits or just a quick afternoon delight. Studio STJ has all the amenities you require for a cozy visit! Massage room with all hot spa equipment, a lounge room for wonderful chats, and a romance room . Brand new furniture that will give you all the comfort of an upscale location. A full kitchen available for evening dinner dates or over nights. :grin: If all goes as planned I will host my first visitors TUESDAY APRIL 14TH 30/30 Duo may be also an option...stay tuned! It must be understood that all enquires will need to pass through a very secure booking method. I will NOT disclose any information on location if: 1. you are using an app 2. if you are using pay phone 3. if you have blocked number, I will ask you to send txt first. :whip: ALL CONFIRMATIONS will have a 2 call system, this is txt/call for confirmation THEN ... I will call you right back with location details! This is to ensure that you are booking with a proper number. I truly believe that you will enjoy your visit at Studio STJ, and hope to provide you with all the comforts of paradise you look for in Gentlemen's get-a-way! Send a pm to enquire for Tuesday bookings. and with whom the 30/30 offer is including:) Visit my site for more details and options of massage or entertainment packages available for you to enjoy! http://www.ladysophiaclassic.com/ 506 261 7313
  39. 1 point
    The first camp is also able to support their claims about clients by referring to review sites. Even tho reviewers are a small percent of the clients sps see, and the nasty trash talking reviewers are an even smaller percent of that, these are the places where the anti's go to get 'proof' to use against the clients. And by extension, against sex work itself. From those, they have created websites and anti sex work promotional articles to further their agenda to stop sex work, because after all, they have really horrific examples to hold up as proof. They get to say 'in their own words' referring to why 'johns' don't care about sps, and how and why they (clients) would never lift a finger to help one, let alone report to LE if they suspected someone was working against their will, just so long as they get off. And as cc says, they'd be right, because there is a hardcore group of guys, usually the loudest, or frequent posters, or whatever, all just feeding info to the abolitionists. They make our jobs to educate or reeducate the general public or even a fence sitter that much harder, because of course, those guys don't care if someone is forced, or given drugs to work, or underage, their biggest concern is that she didn't appear enthusiastic. I was looking for a recent article to show what I mean, but i can't find it or the key words to search for it. :( in any case, you've seen it all before, i'm sure, that's why you are not on a review site, you are here on cerb.
  40. 1 point
  41. 1 point
    Ass worship for sure ;) any day! PM me any time
  42. 1 point
    Yeah, that 20 is not a 'tip', it is a sign you need to be more in control of your clients & sessions, to the point of actually telling them 'all good things must come to an end' at the half hour mark. Don't worry about being called a clockwatcher or getting a complaint, this is a guy who knew exactly what he was doing, and pushed to see what he could get away with. I had a friend who actually would stop and collect the extra $$ for extra time when a client seemed to need more or was at that point of going over, because she knew that there was a good chance he would not either have it, or pretend he didn't or 'forget' that he owed more for going over time. regarding a real tip, then repeat biz, being on time, not double booking, not going overtime unpaid, these things help get repeat biz. if you allow one to make you go overtime, and you are not being compensated for it, you get a sour feeling which can affect other client experiences with you. If you allow someone to make you go overtime when you have already set up another appt for a certain time, and this overtime guy didn't compensate you, you may also miss that 2nd appt and the 2nd guy thinks you are flakey. You get a poor reputation in his eyes as well, he doesn't repeat because he couldn't rely on you to be on time for prearranged appts. Those loser guys who make you go overtime then don't compensate do a lot of damage, being called a clockwatcher for allowing a guy to only stay the time paid for is just something to ignore. If someone asks when first contacting you and they use that term, just decline the appt. Anyone who mentions it or asks about it, to me, is a clockwatcher, who watches the clock in order to try to stay longer than the paid amount of time. All new sps get the predators. It would be better to not use any words in any of your ads that indicate you are new to the biz or young, because that is when they come out of the woodwork lol
  43. 1 point
    Went to Ottawa and after visiting a local Asian Massage close to my hotel, I was not that impressed. SO.... I decided to hop on a bus (FYI they have some great rapid bus lanes and I can only imagine if our city get's their crap together ours could also be that efficient)... but anyway I digress. I travelled by bus to VibeUrbanSpa (they have a constant ad in the side bar here on LYLA)... http://www.vibeurbanspa.ca/index.html MIND-BLOWING experience, not going into too much detail. But it was nice to be treated like a king and real person. This just means our local "spa's" have a long way to go. I like EB and they have taken lots of my money over the years, but after visiting Vibe....... All I can say is I can hardly wait for my next trip somewhere. So I took one for the team.... but if they are all like this.. I'm first in line to try it again! If you truly want details, PM me and I will share. P.S. The $$$ spent was less than we are expected to pay here.
  44. 1 point
    Kissing is so monumental and important, it's definitely a deal-breaker for me! As others have mentioned, it's so exciting, pleasurable, fun, and the anticipation leading up to a first kiss is so thrilling. Ugh, just thinking about a good make-out session is wonderful! I will almost always prefer there to be kissing during encounters. I can understand why some do not want to partake in it, and that's fine as well, but given the choice, kissing is the ultimate foreplay and definitely a sure-fire way to have a great and passionate time together. Everyone in the world should make-out more, it would make the world a better place :) Posted via Mobile Device
  45. 1 point
    http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-what-are-you-waiting-for-come-and-see-your-dreams-come-true/2104936 seen shes been posting on BP a lot lately any info would be appreciated
  46. 1 point
    Maybe a pet peeve of mine, but plagiarism, whether in ad title or content When a lady takes another lady's ad title or content and passes it off as her own ad it is a major turn off. Ladies spend a lot of time and effort in their ads to present an image of themselves. Their writings reflect their personality. So plagiarism, is the stealing of another's thoughts and passing them off as her own,and is that lady no less than trying to pass herself off as another lady IMO. And they are in intent, in my opinion, no different in intent than a lady using another lady's photos and trying to pass them off as her own. This is why ladies watermark photos. But you can't watermark an ad title or ad content. Some ladies may not have a knack for creative writing. But a simple descriptive ad would work, and be honest. And much better than what is to me a stolen ad from another lady A rambling RG
  47. 1 point
    Had her few weeks ago. Pictures accurate, service ok, i guess she was tired
  48. 1 point
  49. 1 point
  50. 1 point
×
×
  • Create New...