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I really don't get what all the fuss is about. You give your name out to dozens of companies (for example, I just signed up for a gym membership and they wanted to see my driver's license) but you balk when one of us asks for it? Let's be straight here, this isn't about your privacy, it's about a stereotype that s ex workers are dishonest and untrustworthy. And if I'm being honest (and I always am, to a fault), if you think that lowly of me, you can go yank yourself off.

LOL if you want a real name, get a girlfriend. Ladies choose to protect their name because we want to avoid stalkers, harassment and good-clients-gone-bad. I am sorry (not) that it ruins your fantasy. FANTASY being the keyword here. Some of us require the client's real name to avoid this exact same individuals mentioned above.

When I first began in this lifestyle back in 2010 I booked a date with a lady who had verification/screening procedures which included providing my real name OMG!!! I thought, she'll know my real name. Seems all too funny to me now, but I remember the feeling in the pit of my stomach after providing ALL verification information...what if she contacts my workplace, she could call the papers, etc etc etc Well reality kicked in. This lady was very appreciative of me being open with her. And I have found EVERY lady who has screening procedures in place appreciates it when a gentleman provides all information requested Most ladies I see have screening procedures in place including providing my name There is nothing to fear from providing a lady information. In my experience ladies are far more trustworthy with my personal information than say businesses who have my information, such as cable companies, phone companies, the government etc etc etc Ladies use this information for their safety I understand the real concern for a man to be concerned about his privacy, but a lady equally has a real concern for her safety and a lady's safety trumps a man's privacy each and every time Screening including providing your name goes a long way to establishing trust between a lady and gentleman. When you first meet a lady after being screened it makes the date all the more special and intimate...because you took time to establish trust. And intimacy comes from trust, trust comes from verification Don't be afraid of providing your information to ladies guys, seeing professional companions isn't about anonymous encounters. It is about a date with a lady, a real live three dimensional person. So if a lady you wish to see requests your personal information, provide it. It is becoming more and more the norm. A quick morning rambling RG

Another point to this story is that as a client, you really lose nothing by providing your name to a reputable provider. However, if a reputable provider who has a website, advertises, puts her face out there etc. provides a real name they are then open to some VERY negative outcomes. Being judged, having their family and friends aware whether chosen or not, being open to restricted travel, having any business or school affiliations impacted, potentially having negative impacts on children whether in school, receiving some sort of assistance or just in general, having many personal things about you called into question and even potentially having your life or way of life put into jeopardy. As was mentioned, we build our reputations slowly and the right way to be known for discretion, trustworthiness and as a professional. We put in effort each and every day. We give based on what we are comfortable with and the risks we are willing to take. Clients have a world of information on us even if NOT our name. Asking for a real name from a client is part of a screening tool for our safety. I don't know many ladies who, right out of the gate, would feel secure providing their name to anyone with all the risks associated. The risk factor is minimal on the client side but maximum on the ladies. If a client is not willing to take a minimal risk but demands a maximum one, perhaps they should rethink their participation and also how they view risk.

No but having your real name does give us some recourse if we need to report you to the police should you assault or rape us, for example.

I thought this should be discussed because of the many gentlemen lately, on here and elsewhere, that seem hesitant and reluctant on divulging their real name when booking an appointment. I'm hoping with this discussion it'll assure some, hopefully, that it is protocol for most to require and request it. A professional companion will base the success of his/ her business on reputation, without a good one it would be hard to survive. Word of mouth travels. First and foremost is our ability to be trustworthy and discrete with any information given. Divulging anyone's personal info would and should be anyone's downfall(exception being someone dangerous or criminal). So know that when dealing with someone professional, (and by professional I mean a companion who has been reco'ed/reviewed, has a website, is established, posts or is known on a forum/s, someone you can find info on or get an online impression of)any personal information given would be held with the upmost care. It is understandable that a gentleman may be nervous but the important first step on connecting with any companion is research. You can google names/numbers/read reco's, websites, posts and other media accounts to become assured of their reputation and business model. Then when you connect you should feel comfortable knowing that the chosen companion will want to know who they are meeting. Trust is key just as chemistry and connection are and without a name how can there be any?

The only time I ask for a gentleman's real name is when I am meeting him at his suite. Part of my screening process is two-step verification when I'm going to an outcall. I will ask the name the room is registered under, so that I may call the hotel to verify that he is indeed actually registered there in that room. Too many times, we receive calls to go meet someone at a hotel only to find out that said person is not there, never has been and perhaps (worse) someone else is actually in that room! We all have a screening process in place that works for us individually. We do so for our safety. I have a difficult enough time even getting gentlemen from Lyla to give me their handle when they contact me by text. I have no idea of who you are when you inquire, it's nice to know who I am chatting with. I want to know a little about you so that our time together will be more pleasurable. I don't believe that any reputable lady is going to use any of this information for ill will. Once I have verified that person, I erase the information as it is no longer needed. When we have you as a guest for incall, we are revealing to you our address. You already have our phone number/email/website etc, you know what we look like, why is it so difficult to know a little about someone we are inviting to our private sanctuary? I have noticed that a lot of gentlemen here on Lyla don't even have the region they are located in on their profile, making it difficult to know if I am even in the correct region for them. They don't have to list the actual city, but knowing if they are in the same area as me would be nice. I've had quite a few gentlemen inquire to me, only to find out that I am either in another province or across the country from where they are. Makes for a waste of time when I am trying to setup something from them when they don't even take the time to see where I am located.

Umm... Actually there are a lot of things about this whole deal that are kind of silly. But like with a lot of other things in life, if you want to play the game, you go with silly. I have no problem giving my name. I know why she needs it. I'm pretty sure my name is more secure with her than with Target, Home Depot or other corporations who have famously suffered security breaches. There have been instances where, without looking for it, I've come to know someone's civilian name. We've discussed it and, in the interest of simplicity, I continue to use her advertised name. Oddly, in a way, I see it as a respect thing. I know my doctor's name but I would never, even after 30 years, call him "Claude". For this woman, in this scenario in which we find ourselves, she is Magic Snowflake. Maybe if we were at the same high school reunion I would go with Mary. Otherwise, hi ya Magic Snowflake!

Your response is part of the reason for my thread. We as companions are known, by aliases in most cases, yet we have viable information readily available to those looking. This information is enough to satisfy any intelligent person that the professional companions advertised are reliable, trustworthy, discrete and reputable. Yet those who contact us anonymously have shown nothing, if they haven't responded with a name, and this should cause us to want to meet? You should understand we have proven ourselves through our business practices, etc, a client, male or female needs to prove their trustworthiness through providing details that are verifiable. That is simply how it works. Perhaps another can explain it better, or for some perhaps they'll just never understand.

This is a generalization, but often the more information an SP is seeking to verify your identity, the more established and professional she is. If you want to see a higher end provider, a lot of times, you are going to deal with more red tape, because these people often have a business plan that accounts not just for their budget, but also for their safety.

You mean you aren't really Mr. Green !!??!! From the Clue board ? MrGreen in the beddddrooom with the penis-stick ? ;)

One has to remember the dynamics of arranging a date with a lady. The lady has her screening/contact information on her website It is the man who initiates contact with the lady, not the lady initiating contact with a man. Would anyone provide personal information to a stranger who just contacted them. And if the man doesn't like the lady's screening requirements (which he should know before contacting her), he is free to contact another lady who doesn't require his name, and not contact a lady who does require his name. And just a feeling, but I get the impression that guys who want a lady's personal information, like her name just want it as a form of tit for tat...she has my name, I want hers. But more ominously are some "clients" who want a lady's name for nefarious purposes. There could be other Robert Picktons out there. Or obsessive men, ones who get possessive and might stalk and would enjoy having a lady's personal information A rambling RG

I have never had an issue providing my real name, In my situation I really have nothing to hide. I can understand someone who is married being reluctant though. Seeing the number of strangers an Escort meets I wouldn't expect these beautiful creatures to give out their real names. It doesn't bother me in the least, there have been a couple of instances where the person I have been with has told me their real first name after just the first time I met with them, which is flattering in a way because it shows trust. Obviously I would never reveal their names to anybody, trust and discretion is a huge thing with me. Funny thing is even though I know their real names, I still refer to them as their Escort names because I'm so used to it. :)

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Like everyone people in this industry have things that happen in their lives that require last minute changes... in my experience with the ladies I have met in this industry they tend to have a higher than average desire to be on time and be accountable for commitments they have made but like everything their are exceptions. In the few cases where a lady has had to cancel on me at the last minute I have generally found they were very eager to makeup for having to cancel and as such very accommodating. Bottom line.. shit happens... life goes on. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

As a co worker I agree with all that's been said, despite the lack of recos she's a busy girl and that speaks for itself. She's good at what she does and stunning, and maybe you can pop her cerb reco cherry if you enjoy yourself as much as I think you will ;)

I am pretty sure that is just a troll website/marketing gimmick to get you to sign up. If you go to the home page for that webaite they have ads of a loottt of sps, Pretty much half of backpage. And some of the ads are from sps who are very well reviewed here and are long time members as well. I would say, nothing to worry about.

My guess the details of how a lady screens are and rightfully so, going to be kept confidential. In my experience it isn't just your real name required. Ladies also want a reference from a reputable independent companion, email address, contact phone number. Some also like your board handle (confirmed by PM) and a work phone number. Information for screening/verification is more than just your name. Just my opinion, but ladies are seeing a man alone intimately. Something that takes a great deal of trust on their part. Ladies, in spite of men's fear for their privacy, run higher real risks than guys do. Anything clients/potential clients can do to minimize the risks, well I for one am willing to do A rambling RG

Quick question for the ladies. How do you know he's giving you his actual real name? No one has ever asked me for I.D. or proof in the past?

Finished planning the next 3 weeks of travel and it all worked out on the first try :)

I never wear perfume for intimate encounters.. many of my clients are married!! it's a huge no-no. Even a shower doesn't always remove all strange scents.. it's not worth the possible consequences

Hi sexy, I personally wear perfume even for encounters and some gentlemen just find it very sexy and so do and I even have some regulars that know I loved when they have perfume on that make sure to put perfume on before our encounter!! Only once a gentleman walked in and said U R wearing perfume? And I said yes he went I am allergic to perfume so the session changed... For me if a gentleman is allergic to perfume he should state it when calling for an apt for I would gladly not wear any of course. In my room I used different room fresheners and had no complaints so far about that. Maybe when U book an apt U could eventually ask if a gentleman likes if a companion wear perfume or not and then just adapt accordingly. Guess I could do the same too!!! Have a great day sexy! Barbara xxoo

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I've never been asked for my "real" name, perhaps it's because I've been around awhile and have a presence on boards and twitter. That being said I wouldn't provide it if requested to do so. It certainly is a woman's prerogative to request such information as it is mine not to provide it. If it became an issue, no harm no foul.....I'd just move along. Peace MG

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Not sure if you were actually after an answer, but the big difference is that there is an actual huge widespread issue of female genital mutilation, both historically and ongoing. The few times someone has actually done something equivalent to a man it typically is taken seriously, with charges laid. It's a news story because it's such an exceptional circumstance and (though it by no means justifies the act) it's often connected to some wider and inappropriate action the male took to get themselves into trouble. In the case of female genital mutilation it's mostly done simply as a means of subjugation. Basically it's easier and generally less offensive to make an innocent joke about cutting a penis off because that's not a common practice and so it is easier to take as the innocent joke intended. Female genital mutilation is invariably tied up into wider issues of mysogomy you can't separate it from. It's like if you made a joke where the punchline was about a high gas bill...it would take on a whole different and darker meaning if it was about a Jewish person because of the real historical tragedy associated with it. Anyway, not trying to derail the thread or start a debate and that's probably more than anyone wanted to read...but if you were really wondering what the difference is, there ya go.

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Usually if it's a last minute cancellation a reputable lady will suggest a new time and possibly make it well worth the inconvenience just to show that they take their profession seriously and there are a lot of quality gals out there that do this, because as stated we all know shit happens.

There definitely is a paranoia about getting caught by their wives or girlfriends, but weather they give their name or not that paranoia will still be there. I think there is more of a chance that they will get caught by lying where they were, the scent off their clothes or overall them not being careful, rather than a reputable Lady outing them. And there is absolutely no reason or benefit (for us men) for a Lady to give out her real name. Yes it's really nice when we are told and makes us feel a little special, but no guy should be pushing or even asking for it. :)

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I use axe, but don't over do it. I've been told by many women that they really like the smell of it :)

Just a few threads on the subject of fragrances and perfumes http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=67842&highlight=fragrances http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53614&highlight=fragrances http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=23370&highlight=fragrances http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151438&highlight=fragrances http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191849&highlight=perfumes http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=119278&highlight=perfumes RG

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It's been a long run and sometimes fun but the time has come to say goodbye to winter and welcome in spring! Well I hope you didn't think I was leaving!! I couldn't leave all you gentlemen, the excitement of our visits, the playfulness and mystery of who'll I'll see next. I thrive on the possibility of meeting with a delectable, kind, confident, indulgent gentleman that has an insatiable appetite for fun, for me and for excitement. Lets create some together, shall we;) Please feel comfortable contacting me at your convenience. I prefer phone calls only. 902-453-6323 You can expect absolute discretion, trust, sincerity and true enthusiasm. With Cristy, only your imagination can limit the possibilities. I look forward to hearing from you soon:)

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Is this an unwarranted dick pic Actually a campaign button for Richard "Dick" Nixon RG :-)

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Vanessa and Jenna at Barb's both have very lovely, big, natural boobies! They both tend to work in the evenings. Vanessa is usually in on Thursdays after 4pm, not sure about Jenna.

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