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What a season this has been for the Ottawa Senators. Back in February, partisans and media were buzzing about the "McDavid" lottery. Then both starting goalies got hurt. Enter stage left, Andrew Hammond. The Hamburglar craze took over and the Senators close out the regular season by winning the last game and sneaking into the playoffs. Then many fans and media wrote off the Sens after they fell behind 0-3 in the first round against the Habs. Craig Anderson comes in and plays lights out and finally in game 5, a few Senators found the twine and proved Carey Price can be beaten. My friends who are Habs fans, initially chirping "sweep sweep" are now mostly quiet. Indeed, doubt has crept into the minds of the Canadiens. Ottawa made history by overcoming a 14-point differential and getting into the playoffs. Can the Senators pull another miracle out of the hat and win this series? Got to believe! Should the Sens win game 6, the Habs will go on to lose the series and make a little history of their own - losing a playoff series for the first time after leading 3-0. Cue the "Jaws" music.. the Sens smell blood in the water and the Habs might not be able to stop the bleeding in time. CM

i just love the never quit attitude of the young sens. they've been playing hockey at the highest level since febuary. battling t'ill the last game just to make the playoffs and now down 3 nothing and winning the last two games. win or lose the series we can be proud of our team. the future is bright for the sens.

Steak and fries...mmmmm I'm on a diet I don't like diets

I guess it's been postponed for another game hehe.

The Sens played great, Anderson was superb and they had a bit of luck on their side too..:wink:

I'm in the same boat. I'm sure there are many ladies on Lyla that would be happy to a respectful gentleman. Just forget the ones who don't want to see someone like you (weight and age wise that is) and contact the ladies who would be happy to see you. Good Luck RG

SpiralStairCase Your comments were wonderful.....your honesty and depth are appreciated. What good fortune for both you and Novarella. I know where I will look for my next appointment. Hawktree

Moments before they get to the door, I'm actually going over and practicing in my mind what to say when they first come in :P When I get nervous my mind gets all jumbled and my words come out like gibberish, so I always try to go over what I want to say a few times so it hopefully comes out well when they first walk in. When they actually do get in the door, I have about 5 seconds of just getting a first impression from a person's look before we start speaking, and once we start talking my mind's a blank! I'll be honest, there's been times where I've pre-judged someone just from seeing them from the peephole, but as soon as they walk in and start talking, I realize we're going to have a great time, and you really can't judge a book by it's cover(cliche, I know!). You always do have those fleeting thoughts of "what if something goes wrong, or what if they try something bad?" and you sort of go over escape scenarios and what you would do if something bad did happen, but luckily(and hopefully) we don't have to use those very often.

I came across a video the other day and I decided to share here because while watching it, although I felt so happy that I am aware of what I'm worth (my inner value, not looks) I also realized that it wasn't always the case and that it took a lot of self-work to get there and also I was blessed with great people and circumstances to walk into my life to learn to appreciate myself because I know my value and I don't need anyone to say it to me. The video is directed to women but I really want to share this with both men and women, although I'm sure the women here will give it a different perspective because another thing that clicked me while watching it was how in this profession we can sometimes be put up on a pedestal and others not very appreciated however thinking about it on the men's side of this business, some also stereotype those who pay to spend time with a lady ... Bullshit! I've met some wonderful men through this, nicer than some jerks I've met in my personal life, same way I know many ladies here are better people that women who aren't escorts. So here's this video for all of us to remember that our worth is based on our actions which make us a better or not so better person but being on cerb and what it involves is not one of them :)

Congrats Daniel on 1000 posts and thanks for your participation on Lyla with your posts!

Although there are many good comments in the thread, I think this one is the most important. I can't really tell you how "a book about my life as an escort" will sell, because that doesn't narrow down what the book really is enough to define the interested market. A book much like Belle du Jour is sexy, exciting, sex-celebratory, deliciously frank and scandalous, and has young, brilliant, gorgeous, and well-off people being young, gorgeous and well-off while having sex. Who doesn't read that? This is why Belle du Jour was such a best seller. I don't know what approach your book takes, so I'll just invent a hypothetical book that may or may not resemble the one you are writing. It's a thinly fictionalized account of a mature escort finding her way through the world of sex work. a) it will draw as directly as possible from her own real experience, which would be a primary strength for the book. It's a personal story. b) It will comment on her own self-assessment as she incorporates sex work into her own life: the tension between that and who she was previously; and the tension between that and who she is during the rest of the time when she's not doing her new job (comparing and contrasting with the other roles and relationships in her life). This is the primary, personal story in the book. c) It will comment on the reality of sex work versus i) the public perception of sex workers and what they do, and ii) her own perception of those things before she started doing it. This includes both "wow, most of these clients aren't bad guys after all!", some "wow, a lot of men really are the immature jerks you'd expect." It has some "wow, this is way less glamorous than it sounded in Belle du Jour," and quite a bit of "omigod this is really a lot of hard work and it takes an incredible amount of time just to manage, advertise, prepare, and execute." Because she's challenging social conventions, this is the social and political commentary in the book. d) It will possibly have some sexytimes stories. "He slid his fingers gently along the inside of my thigh..." kind of stuff. This stuff is very, very, very hard to get right and easy to get wrong. But if she does get it right, this is the sexy story in the book. e) It will examine the clients she has seen, what they have in common and what makes them unique, the relationships she has struck up with them, how they differ from popular expectations of who sees escorts. It will also confront the issue of married men seeing escorts, probably concluding that this has its regrettable side but in the end is more constructive and healing than destructive, and better than many of the alternatives. In the course of that it will examine the role of sex in our modern lives and relationships, how sex and intimacy can be neglected, and the sex worker's role in helping with that. This is once again social commentary. For such a book: a) is a strength that gives fundamental value to the book, but doesn't predict any particular market. b) skews heavily toward a female market of 25-50, who are interested in identity, the larger role of sex in a woman's life beyond sexyfuntimes, and contemplating their own futures or reflecting on the lives they have lived so far and the personal conventions they're questioning. c) will interest a few men interested in social issues, but mostly women in that same 25-50 age group, informed about sex and ready to explore and challenge conventional views about it. d) well, women 25+ and men 40+; the men segment depends on how it's written but mostly the younger men aren't inclined to read about mature people's sex. e) strong with men who will identify with the clients (age 40+?); very weak with men who don't want to identify with those clients; moderate with women 25+; strong with women 40+ who are, or were, married to men just like those clients. So this book scores best with women 25-50, and strongest with those 40+; and moderately with men 40+. The sex itself isn't the selling point. The personal story is the selling point, and interest in this story is supported by the social commentary and the sexy story. Interest in the political commentary will be incidental. A small segment of people will be interested in this aspect, but mostly it's something that's just delivered alongside the rest, like vitamins in a loaf of bread.

if she has asked for certain information, it's what she wants. Best to fill out what she has asked for. That would be the respectful thing to do.

As a true hockey fan I have to give credit to the Sens especially Anderson giving him full credit, he is playing outstanding. Yip all Hab fans are very nervous after watching that game tonight. As Gabby mentioned we got our ass kicked royally in our own barn. A stat tonight has our top six forwards at a -3 so far, they have to show up on Sunday and bring their A game or there will a game 7.

I logged on to lyla to find I had some private message notifications!!! What I found were a number of messages of support. Which confused me at first. Than I thought hmmm what were my last few posts. So I went back and did some investigating and found your comments. I sincerely apologize if you found my post insensitive. Sometimes when Im feeling a little over inspired I may not consider my words as deeply as one should on a sensitive board such as lyla. My only Intention was to send positive energy with the best of intentions. I would however have to think all men daft to believe that they are some how so great as to be that 1 special guy for the Whole day when the cost of a nice hotel for the evening is comparable to that of the hour. I think speaking for H.o.b.b.y.i.s.t, and I can't stress this next point enough, as a H.o.b.b.y.i.s.t, I can say with relative certainty H.o.b.b.y.i.s.t.s are privy to the realities of the situation. And I would personally find it offensive if someone thought we were so self deluded to think otherwise. I also have to believe that if your intentions were solely kind and you merely just wanted to educated me, which I am always very open to, then you wouldn't have felt it necessary to call me out publicly, but would rather have PM'd me your kind advice. In fact, just pointing out the issue publicly only intensifies the possibility of the negative consequences you feel I've caused by drawing even more attention to it. Lastly, Im sure you'll be relieved to know that I have also received a number of positive and inquisitive messages asking me about the wonderful and amazing person you are worried I negatively impacted with my posts. Having said all that , I do respect and appreciate your perspective, but criticizing publicly and saying "I don't want to start a fight" is a contradiction in terms. Please PM me anytime as I am always open to your discreet advice.

You were right, Luckyme! Wow, what a great game played by the Sens tonight! Hats off to Anderson, too! We got our butts royally kicked lol

I am so weak, or I really needed to get back. So I visited 17 Apr. Jenny was in great form and I stuck around to see Stacy as well after the shift change.... It was all good. Anyone else?

Nah... the weather is still too chilly for golf. They'll stick around and play a few more hockey games. :icon_biggrin:

I've said it before and I'll say it again. As long as there are suckers, there will be scammers. Most have had the old Bait and Switch happen at least once, but it shouldn't happen to anyone too often unless you're a slow learner and don't use your instincts and the tools available to protect yourself. But what's more important is that one has the nerve to turn around and leave. (muggings or dangerous situations aside). I have to believe scammers are scamming because it works way too often. In other words people feel awkward or too guilty to leave. If people weren't succumbing to the situation, and the scammer wasn't profiting than the scammer probably wouldn't bother... NO?

I always first put out into the universe .... Positive energy and good vibes I hope we both connect and enjoy each other on many different levels And respect each other

I am always nervous, and hoping that things go well. And when they knock on the door, I take a couple deep breaths before I open the door to shake off nerves. Yup - us ladies get nervous too ;)

Thank you both for your comments. Honestly though, it is Nova that deserves the praise. If there were more people like her, there would be no reason for people like me. And yes, my second appointment was discussed and booked before posting a review. Anxiety and pity/handouts simply don't jive. Again, my sincerest thanks to those that provide such support. We are a fickle people and require great care. Our sessions may be limited to hours, but your efforts can last a lifetime. ~SS

I think your target would be the 35 -50 demographic. These would be the people interested in the topic from whatever angle, have the interest in reading and be open to a new topic. In would think the younger demographic may have sine intetest but it would be hit or miss. If they were readers generally and had an interest. Most others are into other genres and interests. As was mentioned it also depends on the pov you took in the book. Good luck and excited to hear what happens. Publishing digitally is such a great option now.

SpiralStaircase, a virtual HIGH FIVE to you!!!!! You sound like a seriously cool dude. For those who get to know you, of course.

Quickly searched the boards and was surprised to find no mention of this. Highly recommended read for: -Exceptional clients (clients with special needs/accommodations) -Providers looking to understand why accommodations are necessary and how to deal with them. -Providers looking to understand the holistic nature of their craft There are many resources out there, the majority of which are academic in nature and plagued by meticulous vernacular. Give Don Shewey a read. He has published a series of articles related to the subject. He describes an SI as follows: I like to say that sacred intimates combine the roles of priest, prostitute, and psychotherapist. In other words, they approach sexuality with the understanding that it's related to soul work and to spirituality. They use mindfulness and integrity to help people identify, embrace, and practice desire as holy, sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. They hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Their primary intention is that of healing -- and by healing I mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves. That's a message that easily gets lost in a culture that is as ambivalent or sex-negative as ours. Sacred intimacy has a relationship to sex therapy as it developed in the second half of the 20th century with the work of Masters & Johnson and Helen Singer Kaplan, who performed a great service by bringing accurate information about sex to the American public and developed effective treatments for sexual disorders. Sacred intimates may or may not treat dysfunctions, and they generally work from a wellness perspective, not fixing problems but encouraging and expanding sexual joy. Although it would seem like psychotherapy is the field most appropriate for sexual healing, in practice many psychotherapists are terrified of dealing with sexuality, either because they have their own unresolved sexual conflicts or they are afraid of legal liabilities. How often do psychotherapists acknowledge that they themselves have sex lives? How often do they share information about erotic resources or facilitate detailed explorations of masturbation or sexual fantasies? Today psychotherapists are intensely focused on boundaries and shy away from sexuality lest they be perceived as provocative, seductive, or harassing. However, it's possible that deflecting or avoiding sexual issues reinforces shame and cultural repression" Taken from Don Shewey's article "The Sacred Intimate-- An integrative approach to sexual healing"

Spending time with two beautiful ladies for dinner and drinks!!!

I am SO excited for it. Marvel movies are my absolute favourite and this one looks like it's going to be particularly amazing.

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Proud sens fan. Sens got away with this one. Easily their worst effort of the series. Dominated for two periods. Anderson made some key saves. Lots of puck luck in this win. I have no problem with Prust/Subban. Love Subban. I would take him over EK in a heartbeat. Immense skill and plays on the edge. Reminds me of a OV in his prime. Again, Sens will take the next home again and lose the series in 7. A win for hockey fans.

Spending the evening with friends :)

It's actually 5 posts in 5 days. So even though you have 11 posts, most were done yesterday. Youve made 11 posts over 4 separate days. I suspect once you post today you will come out of moderated status.

It is a bit of a fine line to balance on at the beginning. I remember seeing my first Ma and it was easy have my thinking and feelings spill outside the fantasy and I was dreaming of more. Fortunately she was a very reputable (sexy and beautiful too) lady on this board and maintained her same approach throughout subsequent visits. It would have been so easy for her to take advantage of me at that vulnerable time...emotionally and financially. We still get together regularly and have a blast! Thanks...(if you're reading this, you know who you are)

This! I imagine if you put a fair bit of technical information about best practices for things like screening and other business matters, it might save someone having to figure it all out on their own. Like the lady I mentioned above. I told her that there were a number of 'new to the business' type threads here on Lyla but if your book had a bit of getting started advice, it might be a big attraction. I wonder. Controversy sells. If your book was on some level a howto guide to getting started with escorting, would that be scandalous? Would people potentially criticize it as encouraging young women to become escorts? If you want to sell a million copies, having a bunch of people angry with your book is potentially a really good start.

Because they really hate knitting and quilting and truly love causing others grief! Some people think their way of life should be everyone else's, and the same goes with their beliefs and morals. They think they're going to "save" people and rid society of the "sex demons" lol. No need to apologize it becomes sickening and I grow tired of hearing these Mr. and Mrs. prim pants going on and on about the decay of our morals because of sex workers or massage parlors. Most of them just need a good...... well you know!

I would hope that most who post a reco do so to benefit the companion. Not because they have a need to tell a dirty story or to brag or to share intimacies. A good reco would help a companion by ensuring others that they'll get what they see, that she is discrete, approachable, trustworthy and someone they'll enjoy. So you say this person has many great ones, that in itself should be your assurance. That should tell you that divulging the required info will be safe and discrete. So I'd say, you shouldn't have any issues with doing so. if you truly want to see this person follow the requested protocol as it's never usually up for negotiation any how. Happy hobbying.

bs ad, she's using Chinda's pics, only she cropped the photo and erased the phone number. Chinda works in Washington DC http://washington-dc.classivox.com/female-escorts/510-693-5503-hi-handsome-im-ur-exotic-mixed-playmate-best-in/v/294513/ she tours, but not to here, and not with that phone number, here's her ad from California http://newmarket-escorts.cityelist.com/escorts/ads/706690/L-K-HEART-STOPPiNG-COLOMBIAN-MIX-100-REAL-pics-Available-Now-22 Kinda funny how she was 22 last year, but she's only 20 now? yea right!

Hawktree: Thank you for pitching in. I began the review as a summary of my experience with Nova and to express my thanks to her and fellow providers that accommodate and adapt to people like me and to remind them of the existential gift of their craft. For some reason I needed to expand and sharing such personal details has been nothing short of cathartic. I never expected such support and good will. Now, I fear I have shot myself in the foot. More interest in Nova means less time for me. Selfish I know. What can you do? I had to restore balance. I am starved for Karma. You will not be disappointed.

I have missed all the fine handsome gentlemen in Fredericton, so I am coming back, not only am I packing my sexy dresses and surprises, but I am bringing along a friend, Amelia Fox! This will be my first visit to St John, and Moncton! I am excited to meet new gentlemen! I am the complete package, from a lady that can accompany you to a diner engagement, or quality time, just the two of us, the possibilities are endless! I am able to see you alone or with my beautiful energetic friend, please call or text 902 432 9036 Fredericton Wednesday April 29(one day only) St John Thursday April 30-Sun May 3 (noon) Moncton Sunday May 3 (times to be announced Follow me on Twitter @ victoriaphenix1,, announcements and candid pictures

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Not necessarily a red flag here. She did not read the rules and broke a post title rule so her ad was removed by a mod, this locks her from posting for 12 hours so she made another account to circumvent the 12 hour repost suspension. She should have read the rules. She got a 7 day suspension (multiple pm's and stuff were also involved) we want her to know we are serious about her reading the rules before using the site further.

I would say that it depends on the angle you took when you wrote your book. In fact, you might be the only one to know which category of readers are primarily targeted. Hope it helps ;-)

there are some good girls on bp, I am one of them, lol. But it's true, girls that pull this crap don't deserve gentlemen.

i like the "no games" line in the ad...LOL

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I find as time goes on in this country it becomes more conservative and more rules are put in place. It may not be for the best interest of the people, but as long as it looks like they are doing something they think the votes will come in. I spent manu months serving this country in a place for those who didn't have "freedom" or so we were all told. Sadly I felt more free there than I ever have in Canada.

I love what I do and have trouble calling it "a job". I only started 6 months ago, and had the chance to be "mentored" by two wonderful professional independent ladies (thank you again my friends). I feel so lucky to have met them exactly at the moment I needed them. I quit two part-time jobs to get into this activity because I needed to experience something else, but also because I was - and am - totally reviewing my vision of life, in general. Let's call it a "big review". This is for sure one of the best decisions I have taken in my life, and absolutely do not regret it. There is way more companionship and psychology involved in doing this, than it is about the "adult games". The real intimacy is this, being human with someone, exchanging with someone. What a gift to give and to receive. And sometimes, it can even become a luxury, because our lives are so stressful, complicated, painful etc... I shared some time with a gentleman a few days ago who just wanted to talk for hours. Just talking and sweetness. This is what he truly needed and wanted. It is moving to think that by just being me and listening to him, offering some sweetness, I helped him a lot. I think that this is one of the best jobs in the world. I also think that people who do not get this job do not get a big part of what being human is. And this is so sad.

Hi nntsci: I do not do business with escort agencies at all, but I would think it should be business as usual and they are just trying to avoid problems advertising sexual services. IMLO, they will not get busted any more now than in the past. Nothing will change. In fact, the agency is doing you a favour. The only time you'd get into trouble is if you meet an undercover police officer. So as long as the agency is reputable, I think you are safe. The fact remains that everyone involved should simply go with the idea that they are buying, or making a donation for, time and companionship. Chatting and smiling. Laughing and discussing world issues. And if the lady decides she is willing to go beyond that (surely because you are soooo cute and she likes you so much), then that is something between consenting adults. I am not saying anything you haven't already heard. I just wouldn't be alarmed by the changes to websites. I get that it sucks for those of you that like the nude pictures and a set menu in advance, like in the old days. But we must evolve as a species and nature will find a way, n'est-ce pas?