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I just finished watching the Bruce Jenner interview with Dianne Sawyer, and I have to say, I have a new found respect for him, coming out to society about transgender! As he spoke, I could relate to his feelings of not being able to "come out", to family and friends, in fear of their reaction, being an SP, I felt the same way, just recently I started posting face pics, which have given me a sense of freedom, just because I am an SP doesn't mean there aren't many more areas to my life, but at the end of the day, for myself I am glad I made that decision! Throughout the interview he discussed feelings of how others would look at him, but he new this is who he is, and society be damned! I learned from his interview, that no matter who or what people see us as, I am still me, and proud to be who I am, so Bruce Jenner I thank you for coming out to the world, you have my highest respect!!

Yes, presumably. Backpage is moderated, just not enough. You can't post explicit pics and you can report issues. Perhaps that could be a resolve. If more would report those who b&s perhaps less would be able to get away with it.

I'm not even going to touch your gross overgeneralization of male patrons, but I've been dancing since 2009 and have known many dancers who have been around longer than that, and that is absolutely not standard. Stage tipping in general isn't standard around here, so to expect a new dancer to stage tip every dancer is just mind-boggling. Perhaps a more seasoned dancer told her that as a joke or just to see if she could get away with it? Not all dancers are friendly to newbies. Alternatively, maybe she just wanted to tip all the dancers to get on their good side but felt the need to give you an excuse for it. Or, if she came from the USA, I could see where she might think that was expected -- they have a far stronger stage tipping culture down there. Of course, there's never much sense in trying to figure out why dancers do anything as sometimes there's no rhyme or reason to it. ;)

Arkaine: Free at last! Liberation is on the horizon. Bunker down and wait her out.

This thread underwent the interesting transformation starting from the discussion of reliability of information on BP and ending on discussion if participation in BP is good or bad. Actually, I don't see how using some website can make someone or something better or worth. Let me put it this way. As a client, I go to BP from time to time. Does this change my personality or makes me worth client? I don't think so. If I come to the escort companion from BP, will she treat me in a different way then the guy who came from Eros or personal website directly? I hope not. Or am I wrong Ladies? If I found companion on BP, will I treat her differently than Lady from Lyla? - no way, with the same respect and high expectations. It does not depend on website, it depends on person. Being general commercial site, BP is just less reliable source of information than some special sites for escort advertising - that is all. This means that a little bit more efforts are required on both sides. Clients should do some search and verification, Ladies are expected to do smart advertizing to save us some time on that search and verification. (BTW, Mia's ad is the perfect example how it can be done right on BP - no doubts about person authenticity or service quality - IMHO.)

Yesterday was a very sad day for our family. Our dog, or specifically my daughter's dog which was 12 years old and had been my daughter's faithful companion passed away. He was a great faithful dog that wouldn't hurt a flea. We've had many animals at home during the 20 years. At times we had a mini zoo at home. He's had cat's, rabbits and snakes put on him. And he was kind of them all. The last couple of month's had been rough, as he was having troubles walking and had to be lifted up so that he could limp outside to go for a pee. But the last couple months, he had to go outside every 2 hours for a pee :(. I think his kidneys had been failing. My daughter had recently moved out and he was faithfully waiting each day at the front door to wait for her. She did come home every couple of days for dinner and to see him. He was happy each time he saw her. But my daughter was sad as she could see that he was getting worst each day. She is an animal fanatic and loved her dog very much. It was her that suggested that maybe it was time for him to be put to sleep. She was in tears when she said this, but she didn't want him to suffer. She has been coming home each night to spend time with him and to sleep in the family room with him each night, She woke up 3 to 4 times each night to let him out. Last night she felt he was going soon, and bought him a Mac Donald's burger and fries. When we got home he was lying on his side panting. But when he saw the burger and fries, he perked up and gobbled down his meal. Soon afterwards he lied down on his side and starting convulsing and breathing hard and his eye's were rolling back. We thought that he was going to pass soon. The family and her best friend sat with him for several hours, petting and talking too him. We then decided to call a vet that does home visit's to put him to sleep. We did not want to suffer more. We found a vet that could come within 30 minutes. While waiting we surrounded him with love and kept petting him. When the vet arrive. She apologized for being late. She was nice french woman that is serious about her job. She was very caring and compassionate. She kept us informed as to his health status and kept reinforcing to my daughter that she was doing the right thing. His kidneys had failed and he was dying and could be in this conditions for hours before he passed. We told her to put him to sleep. She explained to us what would happen at each state and asked for permission to go ahead. She told us to keep petting him and talking to him as she prepared the needles. First injection was to put him to sleep and relax him. This would take about 15 minutes she said. Meanwhile my daughter is crying and telling her dog that it was okay for him to go, and that he was a good dog. We were all crying as we sat around him. And we were telling stories about him as a puppy. the vet said that it was good that we did not bring him to a vet hospital as it is stressful for the dogs, as they get stressed going to the vet as they have memories about previous visit's to the vet. It is too clinical and cold. It is better for him to pass at his home with his loved ones around him. After 15 minutes, he was sleeping, she administered the final injection that would stop his heart, this would take about 30 seconds. After 30 seconds he stopped breathing and looked at peace. My daughter then cried for a while. The vet was very soothing and tried to comfort my daughter. After giving us time to say goodbye to our loyal family member. We wrapped his body in his favourite blanket and she promised that she would respect the body and bring it home with her until the people came tomorrow to take the body for cremation. She said that would bring back his ashes when they were ready. I was very much impressed with the vet's attention to detail and how compassionate and understanding she was. There was no rush and she kept us informed at all times at what to expect. She even gave us each a big hug before she left. This at home visit was the best way for us to say goodbye to our loving pet. He passed away with his family and friends around him. Our other dog laid on his body after he passed, I think she knew what happen and was looking for him today. He is at peace now and his memory will stay with us forever. My daughter is now compiling all her pictures of him and making a digital album. Just wanted to share this experience with you and if you have to say bye to your pet a at home visit from one of these loving vet's is a great way to do so. May he Rest in Peace :)

I came across a video the other day and I decided to share here because while watching it, although I felt so happy that I am aware of what I'm worth (my inner value, not looks) I also realized that it wasn't always the case and that it took a lot of self-work to get there and also I was blessed with great people and circumstances to walk into my life to learn to appreciate myself because I know my value and I don't need anyone to say it to me. The video is directed to women but I really want to share this with both men and women, although I'm sure the women here will give it a different perspective because another thing that clicked me while watching it was how in this profession we can sometimes be put up on a pedestal and others not very appreciated however thinking about it on the men's side of this business, some also stereotype those who pay to spend time with a lady ... Bullshit! I've met some wonderful men through this, nicer than some jerks I've met in my personal life, same way I know many ladies here are better people that women who aren't escorts. So here's this video for all of us to remember that our worth is based on our actions which make us a better or not so better person but being on cerb and what it involves is not one of them :)

This is EXACTLY why I started this thread.... to show you guys what it's like to be compared to unrealistic photoshopped images. I know you guys probably don't think we care, but we do. Guess what? We feel inadequate too, daily. We see all kinds of threads about "best bum" and other similar things... Most of us will NEVER live up to these expectations, and it can be detrimental to our self esteems to see it all over the site all the time. As far as I am concerned, this thread is for us ladies to enjoy, and for you guys to have to try and force down your own medicine. Sorry.

Woke up to a sunny day! :)

I don't want to seem harsh or blame you, but you dog will only learn if you teach him and teach him right. Every dog is different and will respond to training differently. He is chewing, likely because he's bored. You need to tire him out, exercise him more. He is most likely teething as well and could be stressed at being left(separation anxiety) by you his pack leader. Find him a favorite chew and kennel(crate) him with it. Training a dog to be comfortable in a crate is important. The easiest way of doing that is putting him in there with his favorite food/chewy or toy and leaving the door open, praising him, then in time close the door, leaving him for short intervals and praise him for being good in it. Make it a place he'll want to go. Crate training can prevent separation anxiety, which is the hardest issue to solve with a dog and give you peace of mind when the dog is left. Most dogs are given over to pounds, shelters and rescue orgs because of behavioral issues and more often than not, they are caused by the owners themselves. Good luck, I know it can be frustrating and time consuming but owning and raising a dog isn't easy, cheap or uncomplicated, they are intelligent social beings after all:)

I feel your pain, but it's a great way to keep the boards moderated and to stop all of the spam. You should embrace it!

BP- raising their AD rates! Pretty soon there going to want a percentage of our encounters

this thread is making me feel inadequate :( lol! .

Come out to the May Day rally on May 1. We'll be joining the Winnipeg Labour Council at City Hall at 5:30, to call for sex work to be recognized as real work, and for labour rights for sex workers. We'll be there with our signs and red umbrellas. Come out, join us, support us. We'll be a group of sex workers and allies (health professionals, clients, researchers, academics and other supporters.) No need to identify yourself as a client or sex worker - just come out and hold a red umbrella and show your support :) You can find more information here: Winnipeg Working Group event: https://www.facebook.com/events/696033777173631/ General May Day event: https://www.facebook.com/events/798623103558773/

Isn't that the phone # for PK??

Ma is short for Massage attendant, like Sp is short for Service provider. There is a list to review....I cant seem to find it now, maybe removed with all the censorship ? Google can likely help... Not quite understanding your last sentence..."parting with a prized 7" " My point was that a less than scrupulous attendant/provider could've really fleeced me in the early going as I was completely naive and just thought if I felt this way, then she must too. It could've been bad...and there have been many stories about just that. She wasn't like that...and life is good!

Back in 1995 I was in Montreal on business. After a particularly draining day, I decided to indulge in a little company. Now remember, this was before internet, so the "search" consisted of looking at the ads in the local newspapers. One ad caught my eye. Blonde quebecoise, 21yrs old, blue eyes. Sounded good. I called the number and arranged for a one-hour date. "Kim" arrives at my hotel room. Yup, she was gorgeous, but something was adrift. She walks in, calls the agency and the date begins. She undresses and lays on the bed. I was massaging her back when it hit me.. she fell asleep!! Wow, someone else had a worse day than me! Then the snoring started. Wonderful. I tried to shake her a bit to wake her up, but she was sound asleep. A bit of panic set in. I didn't know what to do. I am still dressed, so I decide to sit on the chair and have a smoke. Kim was on her stomach, naked and sound asleep, in a pose that reminded me of Jill Masterson covered in gold in the James Bond movie "Goldfinger". After about an hour, a woman calls the hotel room, says she is calling for Kim. I explained the situation and the woman on the phone yells out "merde!". Another 15-20 minutes go by and there's a knock on my door. The person identifies herself as the woman from the agency. She enters and proceeds to wake up Kim. Kim is groggy but starts to put her clothes on. The other woman checks Kim's purse and makes sure she is dressed ok. The woman returns my envelope and apologizes. Both women left my room a few moments later. Thus ended my first experience. It would be another two years before I even thought of entertaining another encounter. CM

It was a very valid inquiry and one I hope which will be beneficial for you and Miss Amelia and I hope you'll meet her. Of course this is a recommendation board, which I thought meant, it gives a hobbyists an opportunity to reco a companion should he/she choose and for members to view them. I didn't think it meant in order to meet, someone has to have them or one had to rely solely on them, but to each their own:)

In the technical sense, the big difference is that Lyla is moderated and BP isn't. If you're into that sort of thing, BP is to Lyla what 4Chan is to something like Reddit. It isn't that one is BETTER per se but the barrier to entry and rules of Lyla are more challenging so you're more likely to have quality postings. From the client standpoint, you need to be LESS careful on Lyla because presumably everyone here is legit. Not to say a Lyla date is a sure thing but there's less of the wild west up in here.

I'm always surprised by questions like this because if she is to your taste and someone who you'd like to see why the need for hesitation and for another's opinion to do so.. but then again everyone is different:) She is a valued member here, has gorgeous pictures, some posts and advertises a phone number so you could talk to her directly to get a feel, wouldn't that be your best reference or deciding factor?

Congrats Royalfun on reaching the 3000 post mark....

She is very Hot !!!

Hey hun you can watch it on You tube the entire 2 hour interview!!

That's a lot of posting! Thanks for all your contributions and congratulations on reaching 3000!

Congratulations on your 3000 posts!

Congrats RoyalFun; I especially appreciate your social group contributions.

Woohoo! 3000!!! Congratulations ;-)

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Meryl Streep & Helen Mirren! Oh the oscar winning performance I would experience :) .

Tomorrow will definitely be an interesting (and exciting) game to watch!

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i just love the never quit attitude of the young sens. they've been playing hockey at the highest level since febuary. battling t'ill the last game just to make the playoffs and now down 3 nothing and winning the last two games. win or lose the series we can be proud of our team. the future is bright for the sens.

Proud sens fan. Sens got away with this one. Easily their worst effort of the series. Dominated for two periods. Anderson made some key saves. Lots of puck luck in this win. I have no problem with Prust/Subban. Love Subban. I would take him over EK in a heartbeat. Immense skill and plays on the edge. Reminds me of a OV in his prime. Again, Sens will take the next home again and lose the series in 7. A win for hockey fans.

Wow, I thought I knew what pleasure was but it got redefined last night. the experience is the best combination of mutual affection and hands down top professional level of skill. Best experience ever, sincere love received fully. Thank you for the naughty and positive energy!

I guess it's been postponed for another game hehe.

Great game, only got to watch the tail end of it... But 5 goals, wow... Back in our barn now so lets see what happens... Rally caps are still on.

The replay showed Prust in the blue paint of the goal crease he is fair game to get a whack behind the legs it was not a spear but when a player turns around and spears the goalie that's intentional that is why Ottawa went on the power play poor judgment on Prust and nice to see Ottawa bury the fifth goal was like up yours Montreal we will beat you in the score sheet. The commentary on Sportsnet is the worst either play by play or pre and post games.

I've always been a fan of Simon and Garfunkel. Wait...what kind of duo are we talking about? Hmm...if I'm in the realm of dreams I'll go with Christina Hendricks and Jennifer Lawrence. Beauty, wit, and fun! (plus I actually found it easier to narrow down my celebrity crushes than pick from amongst the ladies of Lyla).

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I saw that on twitter and as appalled at what they put that poor man through. Some people need to be kicked in the ass and kicked over again. Very sad. I want to hug that poor soul.

Lol, I'm glad I'm not the only one and will Farrell the weather guy on Canada am Daniel boone;), lol and a few more I'll think of later :)

Thanks everyone for an entertaining read... Of course the bottom line here, as has already been pointed out a few times, is that you are either okay giving more detailed personal information or you aren't. Yea or Nay Arguing the reasons why a companion chooses to have certain specifications in order to spend time with her is not accomplishing anything. A lady chooses her rules and what she's okay with and that's that. I'm not even going to go into reasons why saying shit like "if she wants your real info you should have hers, too" is skewed logic at it's best. If you don't understand why you're being obtuse, me adding yet another explanation is hardly going to enlighten you. I get that guys want to protect their privacy just as much as the ladies do. But again: if you don't like the way a lady handles her business, then find someone who is more suited to you. No need to try to use weird logic to justify your stance. Move on to another companion whose expectations and requirements are at a level you are willing to meet. Wow! Rocket science! Okay kids, let's all make nice and go about our lives.

I already said it in this thread, but I feel that it is important to say it again: As a Kingston Escort, 95% of my business comes from BP. I repeat: 95% of my business comes from BP. And I must not be the only one!Therefore, implying that BP only/mostly has fake ads, bait and switch etc... is putting fear in potential clients, strongly suggesting them to stay away from girls who advertise there. Meaning to stay away from girls like me. Only about 5% of my clients ALSO have an account here on Lyla. But even this 5% often found my ad FIRST on Bp. So you get it, without BP = no business for me, no business for other girls who work in Kingston too. Funny enough some people who have participated to this thread encourage this fear of girls while they do advertise on BP... So all the other girls are bad, but they are not? Hm... Instead of searching for what is wrong with the others' ads, or making up fears hoping that it will attract more business to them, I personally prefer to focus on HOW I ADVERTISE MYSELF. I have no time nor energy to loose on being BP's police to check which girl is real or fake. I am not to be taken responsible for fake ads on BP. I don't manage BP and cannot do anything about it. The fact is that it is the first place where men go to look for an escort. At least it is true FOR MY CITY, Kingston. And I do advertise or have profiles/accounts on many other websites, whether them being boards, or simply advertising sites for escorts. If some disrespectful men try to negociate donations, acts, or avoid my screening process, then end of discussion, no meeting, that's all. And I have never had any issue with my clients so far. Of course there are WOTS and no shows, but we ladies all experience that. My website link is always in my ads. My observation is that less than 5% of guys take the time/make the effort to visit it. So it is a lot of biases to put on ladies who use BP to advertise their services, when we know that we all have to do it! BP is what it is, I cannot change it. Can you? And one last thing, again about biases. I am going to quote what Leprechaun1957 wrote: ". I avoid certain locations or hotels (e.g Montreal Road or Rideau Street)" Why? Because the ladies you might meet/have met who are located in this area are not trustworthy? All of them? Are you absolutely sure about that? You might miss some wonderful experience by making this idea a general rule, and mostly, you might insult some who live/work in this area and who are known to be reputable ladies, welcoming gentlemen in very nice locations... And by writing this, you might put fear in some potential clients' minds who will conclude that they must not see girls who are located in this area. We have all said that: do your research. Well, people, please do your research, and avoid spreading fears and biases, it is insulting, and I am personally fed up with this. Thank you.

True! Emma from Montreal had text me last minute once and apologized because of a last minute. She then rewarded me later the same evening with a duo, with Pam who was also travelling. Same price as solo....very nice!

I actually do meditations or guided sleep hypnosis that I find on youtube. I like going into that deep trance which leads to an uninterrupted deep sleep and wake up feeling more refreshed than ever. https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=sleep+hypnosis

Do two parties have to have something to offer in a negotiation? It appears the ladies hold the cards on this one. Begging comes to mind here. I don't think the ladies should be making the donation to the monetarily challenged. I hope the ladies don't feel bad when this happens. Its sad but it always will. Hopefully it just helps with your screening so you know right away not to invest time. You have to shake your head a little though when you think about it. I spend so much money renovating, vacations, fancy meals etc. Etc trying to create memories so when you look back it feels like you lived a good one. Well all I know is when you can trade a few hundred roses for an hour of time from an angel there should be no begging, you should just pay the rate if she accepts you because you will be lucky to have a life memory. They are by far my most vivid and happiest. Ask a girl to turn a dream into reality and if she can knock 20 bucks off cmon....do u want fries with that?

We have to be very careful when we generalize things. As other persons said, it depends on the city. Being in Kingston, 95% of my clientele comes from BP. I wish that more gentlemen in Kingston knew about Cerb/Lyla but it is definitely not the case. Plus there are gentlemen who, even if they are part of the Cerb/Lyla community, do not wish to write a recommendation about a lady, even if they have spent a good moment with this lady, simply because they are not interested at all in writing a recommendation. By saying that BP is bad, you can hurt ladies like me, working in smaller cities, who really care about what they do, and are proud to offer the best of them to gentlemen so that they can spend a delightful moment together. Please, do not generalize or categorize. Do your screening work and research when you wish to book an appointment with a lady. And if you have any doubt in the process at any moment, stop and do not go further. Scams exist everywhere. Thank you for not misjudging or categorizing quickly.

I disagree. Lots of us use BP as another way to advertise. However, if BP is the ONLY site, then I would be concerned. That's why using cerb AND Google helps to weed out the fly by nights. Do your research when visiting anyone.

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