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I passed all my courses, which means I finally get to graduate after putting it off for so long! Woohooo :)

Discretion on both sides needs to be respected. I think every lady I've seen on a regular basis knows my real name and where I work. They could reach me easily and with little effort. That is an element of trust, and was earned. Having said that, I've never been particularly interested in knowing the real identities of the women I see, although I do know some details about their real lives, which they have chosen to share. I would be very hesitant to give my name to someone I had never met before (although I have done it a few times, in part because of their presence and profile on this board made me feel I could trust them). As I said, that trust is earned through the development of an ongoing intimate business relationship. This is precisely why there are verification processes and references for initial meetings.

I guess it's that professionalism I am seeking. It's not easy to find...show up at an incall...messy bed, unclean/unfit bathroom. Smell of smoke...or too much scent... Overall I think that you do get what you pay for, so for me, someone advertising low rates means the service/environment/attitude will match.

Just from personal thoughts, I expect not everyone wants to be part of a community or to interact in certain ways. I'm sure there are those who enjoy doing their own thing in their own way without any rules or restrictions. There are certain expectations from being on a forum like this such as posting and interacting. Many question when someone has been here for awhile with no posts or still in moderation. All that can be done is to get LYLA out there and/or try to attract more people via word of mouth (IE: if you see a new provider or a new client). Forums like this are definitely a safer way to go and offer more support for everyone.

Yes, thank you Berlin! Historically, the medical profession has made an industry of producing expert knowledge based on ideas of sickliness and deviance and suffering, and sex workers, who have struggled for voice in having their experiences accounted for and counter narratives respected, have been a key group to be made subject to this paternalism. A reality that is very hard to change without destabilizing the basis of expert power accorded to medicine.

How did this thread go from divulging a real name to psychopaths and so on.... Perhaps sticking to the initial topic would be best

I prefer the woman i'm being intimate with calling me by my real name. So much better than them screaming out "You are the best I've ever had Johnybird!!!!" lol! ok maybe i'm exaggerating the actual quote and the enthusiasm behind it, but you get the just of what I'm saying ;) It's such a beautiful sunny day today -

Because doctors hold the same prejudices about s ex work as anyone else.

The diagnostic criteria for psychopathy and borderline personality disorder are NOWHERE near the same. Not at all. I don't know what articles you are reading, but for one, Wikipedia is not always the best source of information. Best, Someone who has studied psychology.

The Most Beautiful Way To Stop A Bully I've Ever Seen https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ii6L_Aux9RU Peace

LOL if you want a real name, get a girlfriend. Ladies choose to protect their name because we want to avoid stalkers, harassment and good-clients-gone-bad. I am sorry (not) that it ruins your fantasy. FANTASY being the keyword here. Some of us require the client's real name to avoid this exact same individuals mentioned above.

It's too bad more SP's in Halifax area don't use this site. It would be safer, as well as a better way for them to have an interaction with clients.

Oh Geez! I hadn't even noticed I was in the Nova Scotia thread LOL! I'm a long way from home :) .

I agree with you here that this site could be utilized more by sp's in the area. Albeit, not all sp's would want to be on here, due to the fact that we are a community that garners the well being of the client as well as that of the sp. Many of us advertise on other boards and/or sites also. I, for one, advertise on bp and on other sites, but find that many of the sp's on bp are not who they say they are. Just today I found two ads, connected to each other, that were using fake pics of playboy models and Bulgarian sp's. WTF! Be yourself! When you come to the location of a lady on Lyla, you will be greeted by a lovely lady. Her surroundings will have fresh amenities and will be a comfortable and relaxing place to spend your time. The pictures you view on her ads/profile will also be of her, not some random pic pulled from someone else's page or that of a well known celebrity (some people have no idea when it comes to this). The ladies of Lyla are professional, it reflects in our ads, our profiles, our websites and our demeanor. You will find this out when you contact us, we treat you with the utmost respect when you contact us the way we wish to be contacted. There is too much bs on other sites sometimes, but we advertise because it gets us out there. I have found Lyla to be a great community to belong to, lots of great advice, information and fine gentlemen and ladies. We take care of each other and look out for each other, a wonderful place to be. The saying is true 'you only get what you pay for'. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. My favorite saying, if it looks cheap, it is cheap! Attitude goes a long way in this business. If I have a great attitude, gentlemen will appreciate that. If I offer substandard service, then I am doing myself, and the gentleman, a disservice.

She's using playboy models Devin Justine's pics. http://www.pbgals.com/cyber/devin-justine/ Her 'duo' pal, 'Summer' is using Bulgarian escort Amalia's pics http://topescortbabes.com/escort/Malia_30582?18plus=true Since I sincerely doubt Playboy models are working in Halifax, and Bulgarian escorts are holding current ads in Sofia,Bulgaria, I have seriously doubts these two are anything real. Completely fake pics again.

Tampa v mtl will be a good series, should go to game 7... With mtl winning ;) A few surprises for me, thought van city and st Louis would have advanced.

Seen her twice already. I can't remember the acronym( starts with a Y?), she/we rocked our world today for the hour again. Today we even skipped the first shower and got into the heavy, was the full hour till we did finally go into the bathroom. No it was not mechanical....service wise. She's a beauty, if you like tall and high end "suicide girl" like tattooed woman with confidence, and a body to play for. She is probably mid 20's and looks very similar to the photos in the ad. Head to toe she is scrumptious....sensual, soft and well manicured. Had to pass this along, I know it's her present profession she deserves the credit. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-beautiful-asian-girl-k-100-real-visiting-winnipeg/2290032

agreed with the other post. go see 1 MA 1st, then go get a duo once you've done that. best of luck :) fyi Annapurna, that would be me that posted the duo reco for Khloe & Skylar :)

Woke up this morning after 7 numbers being given to me in a dream specifically for lottomax which appeared on the ticket in the dream. The dream was so clear that i was able to remember them all in perfect order and wrote them down. Then I went and bought a ticket. :)

OMG WOW!!!! I just want to thank every single one on this thread that took the time out of their day to wish me a happy birthday yesterday!!! It really meant a lot to me seeing this today!!!!

Great meal cooked by my daughter. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Finding out that someone you THOUGHT was a friend, is not a friend at all!! Finding out from others that they played the same game with others to just get ahead:( Even sucks more that I knew nothing about it, it was brought to my attention! wow, talk about rose colored glasses! hahaha Sucks to trust sometimes:( Additional Comments: Thanks everyone! So nice to have community isn't? I feel so much more loved and like a tight community knowing that we all support one another when things go wrong! So many of us here have supported one another for years, it is comforting to say the least! Things that DON'T suck...lol...xo

I'm going to be blunt and I'm sure quite a few of you will get your jockeys in a bunch, but it needs to be said. 1. No one cares who you are. The majority of you are not high-profile enough to matter. 2. The paranoia around us getting hacked or your info leaked because we lost our phone or some other ridiculous scenario you come up with to avoid taking responsibility for your own actions (eg. contacting s ex workers) is so entitled to me. Has an escort ever been hacked in the history of the internet? NOPE. 3. You can't have it both ways; you can't expect us to provide high level customer service like remembering little details about your life, interests, etc and not expect us to keep info. 4. If you think we're going to extort you or some other malicious action, you need to seriously re-evaluate how you think about s ex workers and your participation in this industry. 5. Your privacy, your personal life, your marriage--none of that trumps my safety. My life is on the line when I invite men into my space. It is not my responsibility to make sure that your wife doesn't find out, or your children or your boss or whoever. 6. It is in my best interests to keep your info private and secure, my reputation and business is on the line. All of which is to say, give us the info we ask for, or move along, but quit whining about it. *drops mic*

The criteria that we each use to choose who we enjoy seeing is so subjective and individual by nature I am not sure what a poll like this would prove. I have met a number of ladies who I like for different reasons and i certainly would not want to offend any one lady by ranking her against other ladies. Good luck with the poll though

Good evening Ottawa gents, I will be visiting the beautiful capital Thursday May 14th to the late afternoon of Saturday May 16th. I will be available to host or visit you. Please allow me to introduce myself, my name is Malika (ma-lee-kah) Fantasy, I'm a young French in my mid twenties who has an overwhelming lust for life and wanderlust and pleasure...I hope that we can share common passions. Or, if you prefer the one-on-one experience, I am down-to-earth, bookworm type girl with a wild side. I love to laugh and play as much as I like discussing travel and French literature. Time with me is a sweet escape from reality with a connection that feels natural and easy.Versatile you could say that I am, from a short one hour escape to a weekend adventure away in New York, I can tailor our time together to our perfectly meet our needs. In appearance, I stand 5ft6 tall with a toned natural figure. I have soft colorful skin and waist length brown hair. A twinkle in my eyes and an impish smile. I have no preference in term of terms of race, age, abilities and body size of the individuals I spend time with. One woman isn't enough? Why not arrange my girlfriend Gia Wren Marlowe to join us? Please email me for more details. I will be hosting from a beautiful private location in the heart of downtown. All the amenities that you need are offer. Or I can come and visit you with proper verification. Schedule: Thursday May 14th 4pm-10pm Friday May 15th 3pm-10pm Saturday May 16th 8am-5pm Rates: 250/hour 350/1.5 hours 450/2 hours 650/3 hours Au plaisir de se rencontrer... Malika Contact: [email protected] texting only: 647-696-5066 http://www.malika-fantasy.com __________________

I agree with all that has been said here. It isn't just Halifax though, as there are other areas of the country where it would be wonderful if ladies (and clients) participated more actively. But, having spend nearly a year away from the board, and occasionally venturing to other sites, I can certainly confirm what an incredible and unique place this is. Athos

Gabriella suggested I give lyla a try, she thought I would enjoy it more. I've only been here a few weeks and I think it's great, so much more respectful than the other board I was on. I always felt like I was out of my element there but feel right at home here :) It's great to participate in adult conversations and fun lighthearted respectful threads. It's also nice getting to see the personalities of a lot of these lovely women. Lyla is a bit of a learning curve than what i'm used too. I still go on the other site from time to time, because they review more often. But I've come to enjoy the company of a few great ladies that I see on a regular basis, so my visits to the other board aren't as frequent.

Well I can't recommend Lyla to the ladies I see...because the ladies I see are already on Lyla and it's because of they are here that I contacted them and had date(s) with them ;-) A very few times that I saw ladies off of other boards, well I couldn't suggest they join Lyla. They were just suspensions/bans in the making...in fact two are suspended from Lyla LOL This board is a community, not just an alternative to BP. And not trying to be elitist, but it's not for everyone RG

Fanny's was where babylon is now, I worked there for many years. Later it moved to the Market on York street and rebranded as O' Ladies and eventually closed. The Liquor Store bar now occupies the space in the market.

My prediction is the Habs winning in six again, this series will have close scoring with a great possibility of more Overtime for sure. Go Habs Go Both teams advanced without their top guns getting many goals it will interesting to see who gets out of their drought first.

But JohnnyB- she'd probably scream oh Johnny your bird! DB- Just what I did last night;) because I thought that was your real name, lol.

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I met with Lady Faith today and if you're into domination etc you need to see this lady. Very professional and accommodating. You discuss what you're interested in and she leads you on that fantasy. She is a petite beautiful woman and her pictures while nice don't do her justice to her real life appearance. Her tease and denial is amazing - I plan to repeat.

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Homemade burgers on the BBQ! It's BBQ season again.

Not sure what your point is with this post. As it mentioned they dated for months. Unless I'm misunderstanding and reading it wrong. Most who date know one another's real names.

The port city of St. John's is also a great place to visit... hint... hint... lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

So so true, I love it that every time I see the same person my date is different. I can't talk for the lady, but the more we get to know each other & the more comfortable we are with each other it just seems like the dates take on a whole new energy and excitement. There is almost a 180 degree difference between the first date and the 3rd or 4th date I've had with the same lady and I love it! :)

The sun is shining, Birds are chirping (well kind of) Was finally able to have my morning coffee outside, for a change, out on the deck. And they only pricked me once this morning Everything is good in the world :) -

^Those two details do indeed make a difference! I've never danced in Hamilton, so I was replying with the assumption that you were talking about an experience at Pigale's or at least Ottawa/Gatineau. In any case -- I'm happy to hear that it isn't the standard for seasoned dancers the expect new dancers to tip every stage show either here or there. If anything, it should be the other way around since the seasoned dancers will likely have more tip money than the newbies who are still learning the ropes!

I was not singling you out, as I don't find that productive. Individual stupidity is something the MOD should monitor, not the rank and file members, so if I thought you were a habitual line crosser, I would complain to the site itself. I don't think anything stated here was horribly negative, but I did feel like some of the comments being made betrayed the positive spirit of the board, so like any other idiot with an opinion, I stated it :D After recent changes to the law came into play, I felt like this site had become more snippy and contrary, but I've come to realize that these types of threads and comments have always existed, they were just heavily diluted by the significantly higher volume of sp ads, as well as some other threads relating to certain aspects of the business none of us are very comfortable discussing. I am hopeful this country comes to its collective senses and we can go back to our usual conversations on lust and debauchery!

she still has Classifieds on the page for Ottawa, so perhaps it was just some other rules infringement. I think the MOD would remove her references completely if there was anything alarming

Contact info.. WELL yes of course like a phone number as per any said appointments how else does one know room number, on time etc etc etc, in fact some ask to speak to the real you days prior to the appointment... OH an like an email address too...how many times do you think we may get an email from someone stating they are coming to your city...or even sometimes a text right of the blue from a lady that I removed from my contacts in my phone after our last appointment over a month and half ago but she texts me saying she is coming to town, I kinda of chuckled, as I was in Mexico when that came through. So yes Cristy THAT IS personal contact info required too. ;) And I like to be quite clear, it IS NOT a MUTE point. Happy Hump Day ;)

When I first began in this lifestyle back in 2010 I booked a date with a lady who had verification/screening procedures which included providing my real name OMG!!! I thought, she'll know my real name. Seems all too funny to me now, but I remember the feeling in the pit of my stomach after providing ALL verification information...what if she contacts my workplace, she could call the papers, etc etc etc Well reality kicked in. This lady was very appreciative of me being open with her. And I have found EVERY lady who has screening procedures in place appreciates it when a gentleman provides all information requested Most ladies I see have screening procedures in place including providing my name There is nothing to fear from providing a lady information. In my experience ladies are far more trustworthy with my personal information than say businesses who have my information, such as cable companies, phone companies, the government etc etc etc Ladies use this information for their safety I understand the real concern for a man to be concerned about his privacy, but a lady equally has a real concern for her safety and a lady's safety trumps a man's privacy each and every time Screening including providing your name goes a long way to establishing trust between a lady and gentleman. When you first meet a lady after being screened it makes the date all the more special and intimate...because you took time to establish trust. And intimacy comes from trust, trust comes from verification Don't be afraid of providing your information to ladies guys, seeing professional companions isn't about anonymous encounters. It is about a date with a lady, a real live three dimensional person. So if a lady you wish to see requests your personal information, provide it. It is becoming more and more the norm. A quick morning rambling RG

Had my staples removed yesterday morning. CLSC nurse said a portion of the incision margins didn't look just right so she used steri-strips to help until it got better. About six in the evening I felt way too much liquid in my lap. On inspection, found a small tear in my incision had opened and was acting as a drain. Not a doctor, but pretty sure this isn't good. On the advice of Info-Sante, went to the ER. Doc on call was impressed with the McGyver-esque arrangement I'd assembled to keep my insides in. Declared it to be okay enough to get me through the night and said to see my doc in the morning. Just got back from seeing him. All is okay. Keep the site dry. Pick up nothing heavier that 5 (five) pounds. Have a nice life. Which I will do. But I gotta say there was a moment in there that scared the bejeebers out of me!!

I find it funny when I read on some review boards that the session felt rushed and she was a clock watcher when they only booked for 15-30-45-60 minutes. I mean, isn't it the time they paid for? If you feel like you need longer not to feel rushed or you would like to spend more time with the lady, by all means, book a longer session. I also think there's a huge difference between someone reserving a lady's time for 30 minutes and finishing on time versus booking an extended dinner date and going over. If I offered sessions of two hours or less, especially the short ones under an hour, I would definitely finish the appointment on time with the expectation of being compensated for the extra time (for example, 30 minutes). Basically, the longer the session booked, the more flexible I am with my time, within reason. Jenny, don't let people intimidate you or push you around by saying you're being a clock watcher.

I am not sure there is a definitive answer on this it is very subjective I think. For me personally I can't say I always tip but have on occasion... I will more regularly bring a small gift perhaps wine or lingerie or even some flowers especially if I happen to know what the lady likes but to be honest It's not something I do all the time. If the lady is someone who I have seen more regularly I have been known to be generous on a more regular basis but to be honest never really thought of it as tipping... more just something I like to do. I don't think ladies expect tips or gifts but I have never seen one disappointed by one.... and let's face it the lady's we meet go to great lengths to make us happy too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Tips are like the business itself, unpredictable. Getting them or not isn't necessarily an indicator of anything, nor is their amount. That can vary greatly. None of us ever expect them but certainly appreciate them. When I'm given a tip it causes me to believe I've surpassed his expectations, I hope:) If a gentleman overstayed his welcome by a 1/2 hr then he should have offered you a half hour fee, if you have one, but that's just my opinion, but both should be aware and are responsible for keeping track of the allotted time.