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I can personally attest to the fact that Lyla is a community . Even though I've ruffled a few feathers from time to time when I needed some help and support I got it in spades. Those I speak of have given me some great advise but more than that a sense of family , a family who pulls together and supports each other when controversy rears its ugly head. Thanks ladies

We are a happy family and speaking on the majority we all agree that we are here to support one another. If there is an issue that needs to be discussed we are able to do so without fear of outlash from others, With no need to ever single another out in hopes they will learn how a peaceful community can gets along.

No No they are not closed till June. They will close Sundays and Mondays during the month of May to complete the renovations that have already begun, the place is undergoing a considerable face lift and the champagne rooms will be more discrete the the old ones yet still conforming to bylaws. The place is gonna look nice when all is said and done. But just to quash any rumors they are not closed until June :)

Since I don't have any kind of a background in psychology guess I'll have to stick to the original topic :-) In my case I've never had any issues with providing my real name and actual phone number to a lady. First and foremost being a single guy I don't have to hide any hobbying from an SO/GF. As well I've had the good fortune to have met many ladies at the various Ottawa socials so I've had the chance to get to know many of the ladies and get a tremendous sense of trust and comfort in providing this information. In fact I've mentioned other details such as workplace as I've had that high a level of comfort with the ladies I have met. Lastly even if I had not met the lady at a social, based on a lady's board presence and reputation I choose ladies I feel comfortable with. for me the bottom line is if you're not comfortable or don't trust someone then perhaps that person may not be for you or if this is a general feeling then you may not be giving yourself the best opportunity to truly enjoy this hobby and enjoy the company of the lovely ladies here. Just my thoughts.

One of the pluses of living in Halifax is that it is relatively small: at least, the central core is. That means it is virtually impossible for me to go anywhere without driving past, and being reminded of, the scenes of many pleasant encounters. I leave my house in one direction and drive past Katherine, or go the other and pass Lilly or Tracie. I can't go to work without driving past Feisty Ferrari's former location, and from the Commons I am reminded of the sites of half a dozen happy memories. Is that true for others as well? Or is it a unique feature of smaller cities?

I do use BP from time to time because frankly, it's the only real game in town around these parts, for the most part. Now, many touring ladies from review boards who tour in the area also advertise on BP when they come here. The one problem with BP is that it is advertising only so if a lady only advertises there, we, as clients, have to try and do more homework to get an idea of who she is. On review or reco boards, we have the luxury of being able to have online conversations with ladies and that makes our decision so much easier. It also helps immensely when we are first meeting as the nervousness isn't quite as bad. Having said all that, I have met several women that advertise exclusively on BP and they have been fantastic, lovely ladies who love what they do and we enjoy each others company. I do, however, take my time, use picture search tools, etc. and watch for suspicious wording in the ads. I have been very good at this, for the most part but there have been a few sub-par experiences over time. This is the risk one takes. I have never been scammed or had any brush-ups with the law and I will continue to enjoy myself by using my instincts.

Do you have any idea on how many ladies on this site you will offend with this? Probably all! It's like asking the ladies who the best date would be --- there would more than likely be thousands of answers. As what one lady finds as perfection may not be to the taste of another lady. Not only does any one gentleman have his own preferences, but the fact that an experience with one lady with differ from that of another gentleman. What one gentleman finds incredibly appealing about one certain lady will certainly be a different opinion about what another gentleman finds. When you read through reco's, the same lady will have differences of opinion from different gentlemen on what the experience is. This is one of the reasons that you find Y M M V on many of them. I cannot believe that this was actually asked!

One great thing about this site, is that it is not made for everyone. Not saying all isn't welcomed, but, it takes a certain amount of discipline, professionalism and courtesy that is not always found in just everyone. If this were made in a way that just anyone could fit in, well I suppose we would be CL in that case. We have a tight community that is a great tool to be able to rely on each other for information and support. But if everyone from CL came here, do you think we might have a lots of mis matched information, fudes, jealousy and so on? Once I introduced someone to the site. Thought she would really do well here, I helped her learn and well sadly I was wrong. She no longer is on this site due to her poor aptitude and unwillingness to get along. It was embarrassing for me, and now I will take extra caution on who I introduce. My suggestion is, when you find a gem, then introduce her to the site. Of course more gems we have here the brighter we shine:)

Here on business and wondering if there are any sp nearby or travelling girls at a hotel. Girls with rev go to the front of the line :)

It's unfortunate that the Flames lost the first game of their round 2 match up but hopefully they will bounce back in Game 2. I'm not sure what to make of the HABS round 2 match up... statistically I think they would have been better off playing Detroit who they had a better head to head record against this year. The Lightning owned the HABS in the regular season... in fact I think they won ever matchup this year. My hope is that the regular season record is just that... history and means nothing because this is the playoff but is certainly would not hurt if Price stays hot and Stamkos stay cold. In any case this Proud Leafs fan will be pulling for Calgary and Montreal in the 2nd Round.

Sometimes even when the lady is a gem, some ladies wish not to be apart of a discussion board. I know a few wonderful ladies on BP and when I ask if they want to join the site they say no because they don't like to post and share thoughts. I have also heard as well, that the regulations and rules (as good as they are) can be intimidating and the idea of saying the wrong thing or whatnot would make them start off on the wrong foot. That can also be said for ladies that are here but do not post often other than ads. It requires a lot of time to go threw the rules and if a lady has a family and another full time job then this can be time consuming. There some great ladies found everywhere. And even though this is the most secure site, we have seen bad apples here too in the past. Recommendations, consistency and references are the smartest way to take the first plung with a lady you never met yet.

Unfortunately its because almost every second ad it full of fake pics and info. Doesn't mean its all deception . Tineye and similar tools help us weed out the real stupid ones but I for one don't risk my time unless they are reco'd here. But in saying that this thread proves there are some legit ones

the reactions to this thread is why I love this board .

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

I know that these sorts of posts are quite common on some other boards. Who gives the best x, who is best at y. This is a bit of a different community. to the OP ... Hang around, explore a bit more, and you'll see why. The reaction to this thread, rather than everyone rushing to throw a name into the ring, really reflects the difference. Athos

Seig Heil! I mean... happy birthday. No wait... I had it right the first time.

I agree with you here that this site could be utilized more by sp's in the area. Albeit, not all sp's would want to be on here, due to the fact that we are a community that garners the well being of the client as well as that of the sp. Many of us advertise on other boards and/or sites also. I, for one, advertise on bp and on other sites, but find that many of the sp's on bp are not who they say they are. Just today I found two ads, connected to each other, that were using fake pics of playboy models and Bulgarian sp's. WTF! Be yourself! When you come to the location of a lady on Lyla, you will be greeted by a lovely lady. Her surroundings will have fresh amenities and will be a comfortable and relaxing place to spend your time. The pictures you view on her ads/profile will also be of her, not some random pic pulled from someone else's page or that of a well known celebrity (some people have no idea when it comes to this). The ladies of Lyla are professional, it reflects in our ads, our profiles, our websites and our demeanor. You will find this out when you contact us, we treat you with the utmost respect when you contact us the way we wish to be contacted. There is too much bs on other sites sometimes, but we advertise because it gets us out there. I have found Lyla to be a great community to belong to, lots of great advice, information and fine gentlemen and ladies. We take care of each other and look out for each other, a wonderful place to be. The saying is true 'you only get what you pay for'. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. My favorite saying, if it looks cheap, it is cheap! Attitude goes a long way in this business. If I have a great attitude, gentlemen will appreciate that. If I offer substandard service, then I am doing myself, and the gentleman, a disservice.

Because doctors hold the same prejudices about s ex work as anyone else.

Welcome new members and visitors. This section is for Lyla newbies (New Users and people new to this industry). Here are some steps to get you started... 1) Please be sure to read the RULES and FAQ. We try to keep this as up to date as possible so answers to most of your initial questions should be found there. 2) When you sign up as a new user, your first 5 to 10 posts will be manually moderated by us. This stops spammers, abuse and any negative slander that we do not allow here. It can take up to 24 hours excluding weekends and holidays to approve your posts so please be patient with us! 3) Take some time to thoroughly read this section. We have included some great posts here from our members and made them sticky so they show at the top of this section. Feel free to jump into the conversations - that's what Lyla is all about! 4) This is a community and we are all working to make the community better. Your contributions and participation in the discussions should be positive and enjoyable. We do remove negative comments as this is NOT a review board or a place to air your dirty laundry. Please do not use Lyla to slander, call out, fight or flame anyone. SPREAD THE LOVE, THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF IT! 5) Please no promotion of sexual services here. You can advertise escort services, but no explicit sexual acts. That includes abbreviations. 6) In the words of Thumper... "If you do not have anything nice to say... don't say anything at all". This is the Lyla policy and anyone who breaks this rule is given a suspension or banned from the site. No warnings. Thanks everyone and enjoy the forum! Lyla xx

Quickly searched the boards and was surprised to find no mention of this. Highly recommended read for: -Exceptional clients (clients with special needs/accommodations) -Providers looking to understand why accommodations are necessary and how to deal with them. -Providers looking to understand the holistic nature of their craft There are many resources out there, the majority of which are academic in nature and plagued by meticulous vernacular. Give Don Shewey a read. He has published a series of articles related to the subject. He describes an SI as follows: I like to say that sacred intimates combine the roles of priest, prostitute, and psychotherapist. In other words, they approach sexuality with the understanding that it's related to soul work and to spirituality. They use mindfulness and integrity to help people identify, embrace, and practice desire as holy, sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. They hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Their primary intention is that of healing -- and by healing I mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves. That's a message that easily gets lost in a culture that is as ambivalent or sex-negative as ours. Sacred intimacy has a relationship to sex therapy as it developed in the second half of the 20th century with the work of Masters & Johnson and Helen Singer Kaplan, who performed a great service by bringing accurate information about sex to the American public and developed effective treatments for sexual disorders. Sacred intimates may or may not treat dysfunctions, and they generally work from a wellness perspective, not fixing problems but encouraging and expanding sexual joy. Although it would seem like psychotherapy is the field most appropriate for sexual healing, in practice many psychotherapists are terrified of dealing with sexuality, either because they have their own unresolved sexual conflicts or they are afraid of legal liabilities. How often do psychotherapists acknowledge that they themselves have sex lives? How often do they share information about erotic resources or facilitate detailed explorations of masturbation or sexual fantasies? Today psychotherapists are intensely focused on boundaries and shy away from sexuality lest they be perceived as provocative, seductive, or harassing. However, it's possible that deflecting or avoiding sexual issues reinforces shame and cultural repression" Taken from Don Shewey's article "The Sacred Intimate-- An integrative approach to sexual healing"

Come out to the May Day rally on May 1. We'll be joining the Winnipeg Labour Council at City Hall at 5:30, to call for sex work to be recognized as real work, and for labour rights for sex workers. We'll be there with our signs and red umbrellas. Come out, join us, support us. We'll be a group of sex workers and allies (health professionals, clients, researchers, academics and other supporters.) No need to identify yourself as a client or sex worker - just come out and hold a red umbrella and show your support :) You can find more information here: Winnipeg Working Group event: https://www.facebook.com/events/696033777173631/ General May Day event: https://www.facebook.com/events/798623103558773/

Hey, Just wondering if anyone could provide some suggestions on someone that has a big natural chest?

Sia -Elastic Heart I won't post the link because the video is too controversial. Posted via Mobile Device

Breakfast with Miss Mel :) Cant think of a better way to enjoy the sunshine :)

Sorry Miss Mcleod, but this just seemed so appropriate considering your last name and the title of your link :) .

I was wondering if anyone had any recent duo recommendations? Looking at Touch of Euphoria, Angels/Paradise, or Vibe for possibilities.. any suggestions or information would be much appreciated .. gonna be my first massage and looking to have as great an experience as I can :biggrin:

it's friday, and i woke up happy :)

Honestly, I'd book based on the girl, not the closest location. The cab fare will be worth it if you've met the right MA! There are a few working downtown, but at spas the "roster" can change from day-to-day, so the girl of your dreams could be working out of your reach today, but downtown tomorrow. I'd browse the recommendations here, there are lots of beautiful indies and spa ladies to choose from! Good luck!

Based on what I read and understood on Jenny's post, they're asking if they have to shower, not if they can take a shower. There's big difference between the two :)

I can't speak for doctors and my opinion based on personal experience with the medical system isn't the greatest. To often treated like just a number and a guinea pig. However, I can say sex workers and even MA's have changed my life. They do what medication could not for me, without harming side effects. Not once have I left a session feeling worse then I did prior like some psychologists sessions. There's nothing wrong with pills or psychologist or other methods but for me the most effective and least harmful has been with sex workers or MA's. I will forever be greatful to the wonderful women I've meet and helped me. I believe the power of touch can be healing in many ways. I sometimes wish some people could live in my shoes and then they would see sex workers the way I do.

I hope someone spat in his cake batter.

Happy birthday big guy!! :) Hope he likes the strippers I got for him ;) Posted via Mobile Device

Who wants to be my first adventure in SJ? I am beautifully curvy, classy and sexy. I have magical hands and a kiss to die for. Up scale In Call service, I will only book if you can call me after an initial text. No rushed appointments as I like to make the most of our time together xo Alex I will only be i SJ for 1 day, Friday May 1, catch me if you can ;) 506-478-0360

Skyla, Madison, Ginger, Cynthia, Paris, Amana, Chia, Eva, Chardonnay, Maya, Maude & Angie. Thursday afternoon.

Nice find Cowboy! this explains why be wants a monument to the 'victims' of communism and skated around calling it 'totalitarian communism'. Totalitarian Harperism - yuck. Harper and his office are starting to make Duffy look like an angel. lol

So so true, I love it that every time I see the same person my date is different. I can't talk for the lady, but the more we get to know each other & the more comfortable we are with each other it just seems like the dates take on a whole new energy and excitement. There is almost a 180 degree difference between the first date and the 3rd or 4th date I've had with the same lady and I love it! :)

So I've seen on several boards that men complain about when a service is YMMV; but here's the thing..every single encounter will always be YMMV, and that can be a very good thing. If we took the YMMV out of our services, then every encounter would be extremely mechanical and robotic. We'd have the same conversation, the same actions, etc. There would be nothing genuine about it, and who wants that? :P Also, every encounter is also different, because each person we meet is different, so everything we do with them will be catered to that person, their body, their personality, etc. Obviously if someone shows up with very bad hygiene, you can't expect to get the same service as someone who is squeaky clean, and also if you show up and are rude or aggressive or whatever else, you also won't get the same experience as someone who is friendly and respectful. That being said, I do notice that the encounters I have with people I have great chemistry with are quite different; Not in the sense that they get better service or even more services for that matter, but they get a different side of me. If I meet someone and right away it feels like we've been friends for forever and I'm extremely comfortable around them, then it just means they will see a more at ease version of myself, instead of the one who takes a little time to get to know the person before I fully relax. So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

If this will be your first massage I would suggest you get your 'feet' wet by seeing one MA.... duos are wonderful but I think you'll be able to better appreciate the duo once you've had some experience of a massage. All the locations you suggested are excellent.

Plan B is a secret....at least for me. That's one of those things you don't put out there in case someone is reading it and chooses to use it against you. It's like telling announcing where you keep your jewels so they know where to look if they decide to rob you. Instead I'll say there IS a Plan B and even a C and I'm not afraid to put them in motion.

Someone talking to you from another room. Last time it happened I thought a pork chop was going to fall. Wt ?

These are all advertising terms that are supposed to be attractive and draw interest....so I thought I'd try them, lol. However, there is truth in my advertising, since what I offer isn't available in stores. I could be cost effective, cheaper than a girlfriend, anyways;) Scientifically proven, well that maybe a stretch, but a visit with me I'm sure, most scientists would agree, can leave one feeling happier, more relaxed, less stressed, enlightened, intrigued and even in need of more:icon_eek: Award winning? Well some have eluded to my talents as such, my legs having the possibility to and my personality and looks, well you just have to see for yourself:icon_wink: So why not take some time for yourself, have a laugh, maybe a drink, and indulge in Cristycurves. Hourly and 1/2 hr appts available. Please call -902-453-6323-I book all appts by phone only. Have a happy day and smile it'll make everything better.

Alot of reputable ladies advertise on BP and even CL....I myself advertise on a few different sites because i do still meet a lot of decent respectful gentlemen You have to put yourself out there and be seen as anything being advertised But I do agree with what has been said...its best to check for reviews or maybe a website or do the tinyeye research to make sure the lady is decent and legit

Dam that sucks.... red flag for sure! :(

While anyone of age can access any type of adult industry sites now or in the past, the trends I've seen in the last few years is that this industry is not as taboo as it once when there were no classified sites catering to this business. Anyone who isn't really looking to meet an escort for companionship has the ability to browse these sections on classified sites while looking for something else.. They can buy women and tires in the same place. This brings in traffic that perhaps wouldn't be prospective clients or escorts when they were strictly adult sites years ago. Imo there seems to be a correlation with being on a mainstream site as opposed to an adult only escort site. A lot of escorts who may be on BP are not on site like escorts-canada. There are escorts who are on both who have already established a presence. They may use BP because that's the place to go. With BP you don't have to establish yourself to be an escort whereas in the past it was something gradual. While industry sites like Lyla have the ability to be more vocal about bait and switch, BP doesn't offer that. I view BP as a popular place to advertise but in my experience of using it for every 10 men, there are 2 good guys who take the time to look at the website, are polite and don't negotiate, are not pimps trying represent you or trying to ride your coattails. I'm been in this in this business and compared to past years on BP there are a new wave of people calling who seem seedier than ever who try to trade "things' ( I won't say here because it's prohibited) for service or to try to get them as their own clientele. It's bullshit. Before BP I never experienced this craziness when I was on sites like LYla, E-C- any other popular adult sites. So why does it happen on BP and not anywhere else? There is next to no moderation there and I view it as a free for all for some people to exploit it like I mentioned above. It's "the place to go" now because that's where most guys go to look and most people ( well at the least the ones I know) advertise there because if they didn't it would limit their business. The ones I have dealt with, 80% wanted to negotiate, wanting $100 for an hour of companionship, many were pimps trying to recruit, one even wanted to rent a room from me ( yes this is true! lol), drunk guys calling between midnight and 5 am and the list goes on. And it costs $10 a day. $10 a day for me to put up with this crap. No thanks. I have put up an ad there once in a while but I don't deal with 20 something guys and many of them on a beer budget who call me "baybe". Most of them just want you to send them pictures and text back and forth all day long. It's not effective for me but for massage in the body rub section, I have had better luck advertising there once in a while. The business has changed with technology, new demographic of clients such as the younger guys now hiring escorts more than before it seems maybe because some ladies may advertise within their budget. And before anyone decides to say I'm labeling people who advertise on there etc as they have in the past these are my personal experiences only. Other people have had success with that site and some other ladies I know close to me told me they feel like they have to advertise there because that's the place to go even though they can't stand dealing with some of the people who contact them before they find a few good gem client. I have been at this for a while and for years I have been accustomed to dealing with certain types of sites and certain types of clientele with little to no hassle when booking. Most respected the rates, booking process to and took the time to find a professional. That has seemed to change with the introduction of classified ads. Now most prospective clients and less desirable clients are all looking on one site and it's difficult than ever now to weed through time wasters to find a decent client.

Just bought 2 new lingerie set from my favorite store! Love how it feels underneath my sexy secretary look and how it embraces my curves... totally me ! :)