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I can personally attest to the fact that Lyla is a community . Even though I've ruffled a few feathers from time to time when I needed some help and support I got it in spades. Those I speak of have given me some great advise but more than that a sense of family , a family who pulls together and supports each other when controversy rears its ugly head. Thanks ladies

We are a happy family and speaking on the majority we all agree that we are here to support one another. If there is an issue that needs to be discussed we are able to do so without fear of outlash from others, With no need to ever single another out in hopes they will learn how a peaceful community can gets along.

No No they are not closed till June. They will close Sundays and Mondays during the month of May to complete the renovations that have already begun, the place is undergoing a considerable face lift and the champagne rooms will be more discrete the the old ones yet still conforming to bylaws. The place is gonna look nice when all is said and done. But just to quash any rumors they are not closed until June :)

Since I don't have any kind of a background in psychology guess I'll have to stick to the original topic :-) In my case I've never had any issues with providing my real name and actual phone number to a lady. First and foremost being a single guy I don't have to hide any hobbying from an SO/GF. As well I've had the good fortune to have met many ladies at the various Ottawa socials so I've had the chance to get to know many of the ladies and get a tremendous sense of trust and comfort in providing this information. In fact I've mentioned other details such as workplace as I've had that high a level of comfort with the ladies I have met. Lastly even if I had not met the lady at a social, based on a lady's board presence and reputation I choose ladies I feel comfortable with. for me the bottom line is if you're not comfortable or don't trust someone then perhaps that person may not be for you or if this is a general feeling then you may not be giving yourself the best opportunity to truly enjoy this hobby and enjoy the company of the lovely ladies here. Just my thoughts.

One of the pluses of living in Halifax is that it is relatively small: at least, the central core is. That means it is virtually impossible for me to go anywhere without driving past, and being reminded of, the scenes of many pleasant encounters. I leave my house in one direction and drive past Katherine, or go the other and pass Lilly or Tracie. I can't go to work without driving past Feisty Ferrari's former location, and from the Commons I am reminded of the sites of half a dozen happy memories. Is that true for others as well? Or is it a unique feature of smaller cities?

I do use BP from time to time because frankly, it's the only real game in town around these parts, for the most part. Now, many touring ladies from review boards who tour in the area also advertise on BP when they come here. The one problem with BP is that it is advertising only so if a lady only advertises there, we, as clients, have to try and do more homework to get an idea of who she is. On review or reco boards, we have the luxury of being able to have online conversations with ladies and that makes our decision so much easier. It also helps immensely when we are first meeting as the nervousness isn't quite as bad. Having said all that, I have met several women that advertise exclusively on BP and they have been fantastic, lovely ladies who love what they do and we enjoy each others company. I do, however, take my time, use picture search tools, etc. and watch for suspicious wording in the ads. I have been very good at this, for the most part but there have been a few sub-par experiences over time. This is the risk one takes. I have never been scammed or had any brush-ups with the law and I will continue to enjoy myself by using my instincts.

Do you have any idea on how many ladies on this site you will offend with this? Probably all! It's like asking the ladies who the best date would be --- there would more than likely be thousands of answers. As what one lady finds as perfection may not be to the taste of another lady. Not only does any one gentleman have his own preferences, but the fact that an experience with one lady with differ from that of another gentleman. What one gentleman finds incredibly appealing about one certain lady will certainly be a different opinion about what another gentleman finds. When you read through reco's, the same lady will have differences of opinion from different gentlemen on what the experience is. This is one of the reasons that you find Y M M V on many of them. I cannot believe that this was actually asked!

One great thing about this site, is that it is not made for everyone. Not saying all isn't welcomed, but, it takes a certain amount of discipline, professionalism and courtesy that is not always found in just everyone. If this were made in a way that just anyone could fit in, well I suppose we would be CL in that case. We have a tight community that is a great tool to be able to rely on each other for information and support. But if everyone from CL came here, do you think we might have a lots of mis matched information, fudes, jealousy and so on? Once I introduced someone to the site. Thought she would really do well here, I helped her learn and well sadly I was wrong. She no longer is on this site due to her poor aptitude and unwillingness to get along. It was embarrassing for me, and now I will take extra caution on who I introduce. My suggestion is, when you find a gem, then introduce her to the site. Of course more gems we have here the brighter we shine:)

Here on business and wondering if there are any sp nearby or travelling girls at a hotel. Girls with rev go to the front of the line :)

It's unfortunate that the Flames lost the first game of their round 2 match up but hopefully they will bounce back in Game 2. I'm not sure what to make of the HABS round 2 match up... statistically I think they would have been better off playing Detroit who they had a better head to head record against this year. The Lightning owned the HABS in the regular season... in fact I think they won ever matchup this year. My hope is that the regular season record is just that... history and means nothing because this is the playoff but is certainly would not hurt if Price stays hot and Stamkos stay cold. In any case this Proud Leafs fan will be pulling for Calgary and Montreal in the 2nd Round.

Sometimes even when the lady is a gem, some ladies wish not to be apart of a discussion board. I know a few wonderful ladies on BP and when I ask if they want to join the site they say no because they don't like to post and share thoughts. I have also heard as well, that the regulations and rules (as good as they are) can be intimidating and the idea of saying the wrong thing or whatnot would make them start off on the wrong foot. That can also be said for ladies that are here but do not post often other than ads. It requires a lot of time to go threw the rules and if a lady has a family and another full time job then this can be time consuming. There some great ladies found everywhere. And even though this is the most secure site, we have seen bad apples here too in the past. Recommendations, consistency and references are the smartest way to take the first plung with a lady you never met yet.

Unfortunately its because almost every second ad it full of fake pics and info. Doesn't mean its all deception . Tineye and similar tools help us weed out the real stupid ones but I for one don't risk my time unless they are reco'd here. But in saying that this thread proves there are some legit ones

the reactions to this thread is why I love this board .

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

I know that these sorts of posts are quite common on some other boards. Who gives the best x, who is best at y. This is a bit of a different community. to the OP ... Hang around, explore a bit more, and you'll see why. The reaction to this thread, rather than everyone rushing to throw a name into the ring, really reflects the difference. Athos

Seig Heil! I mean... happy birthday. No wait... I had it right the first time.

I agree with you here that this site could be utilized more by sp's in the area. Albeit, not all sp's would want to be on here, due to the fact that we are a community that garners the well being of the client as well as that of the sp. Many of us advertise on other boards and/or sites also. I, for one, advertise on bp and on other sites, but find that many of the sp's on bp are not who they say they are. Just today I found two ads, connected to each other, that were using fake pics of playboy models and Bulgarian sp's. WTF! Be yourself! When you come to the location of a lady on Lyla, you will be greeted by a lovely lady. Her surroundings will have fresh amenities and will be a comfortable and relaxing place to spend your time. The pictures you view on her ads/profile will also be of her, not some random pic pulled from someone else's page or that of a well known celebrity (some people have no idea when it comes to this). The ladies of Lyla are professional, it reflects in our ads, our profiles, our websites and our demeanor. You will find this out when you contact us, we treat you with the utmost respect when you contact us the way we wish to be contacted. There is too much bs on other sites sometimes, but we advertise because it gets us out there. I have found Lyla to be a great community to belong to, lots of great advice, information and fine gentlemen and ladies. We take care of each other and look out for each other, a wonderful place to be. The saying is true 'you only get what you pay for'. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. My favorite saying, if it looks cheap, it is cheap! Attitude goes a long way in this business. If I have a great attitude, gentlemen will appreciate that. If I offer substandard service, then I am doing myself, and the gentleman, a disservice.

Because doctors hold the same prejudices about s ex work as anyone else.

Welcome new members and visitors. This section is for Lyla newbies (New Users and people new to this industry). Here are some steps to get you started... 1) Please be sure to read the RULES and FAQ. We try to keep this as up to date as possible so answers to most of your initial questions should be found there. 2) When you sign up as a new user, your first 5 to 10 posts will be manually moderated by us. This stops spammers, abuse and any negative slander that we do not allow here. It can take up to 24 hours excluding weekends and holidays to approve your posts so please be patient with us! 3) Take some time to thoroughly read this section. We have included some great posts here from our members and made them sticky so they show at the top of this section. Feel free to jump into the conversations - that's what Lyla is all about! 4) This is a community and we are all working to make the community better. Your contributions and participation in the discussions should be positive and enjoyable. We do remove negative comments as this is NOT a review board or a place to air your dirty laundry. Please do not use Lyla to slander, call out, fight or flame anyone. SPREAD THE LOVE, THE WORLD NEEDS MORE OF IT! 5) Please no promotion of sexual services here. You can advertise escort services, but no explicit sexual acts. That includes abbreviations. 6) In the words of Thumper... "If you do not have anything nice to say... don't say anything at all". This is the Lyla policy and anyone who breaks this rule is given a suspension or banned from the site. No warnings. Thanks everyone and enjoy the forum! Lyla xx

Quickly searched the boards and was surprised to find no mention of this. Highly recommended read for: -Exceptional clients (clients with special needs/accommodations) -Providers looking to understand why accommodations are necessary and how to deal with them. -Providers looking to understand the holistic nature of their craft There are many resources out there, the majority of which are academic in nature and plagued by meticulous vernacular. Give Don Shewey a read. He has published a series of articles related to the subject. He describes an SI as follows: I like to say that sacred intimates combine the roles of priest, prostitute, and psychotherapist. In other words, they approach sexuality with the understanding that it's related to soul work and to spirituality. They use mindfulness and integrity to help people identify, embrace, and practice desire as holy, sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. They hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Their primary intention is that of healing -- and by healing I mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves. That's a message that easily gets lost in a culture that is as ambivalent or sex-negative as ours. Sacred intimacy has a relationship to sex therapy as it developed in the second half of the 20th century with the work of Masters & Johnson and Helen Singer Kaplan, who performed a great service by bringing accurate information about sex to the American public and developed effective treatments for sexual disorders. Sacred intimates may or may not treat dysfunctions, and they generally work from a wellness perspective, not fixing problems but encouraging and expanding sexual joy. Although it would seem like psychotherapy is the field most appropriate for sexual healing, in practice many psychotherapists are terrified of dealing with sexuality, either because they have their own unresolved sexual conflicts or they are afraid of legal liabilities. How often do psychotherapists acknowledge that they themselves have sex lives? How often do they share information about erotic resources or facilitate detailed explorations of masturbation or sexual fantasies? Today psychotherapists are intensely focused on boundaries and shy away from sexuality lest they be perceived as provocative, seductive, or harassing. However, it's possible that deflecting or avoiding sexual issues reinforces shame and cultural repression" Taken from Don Shewey's article "The Sacred Intimate-- An integrative approach to sexual healing"

Come out to the May Day rally on May 1. We'll be joining the Winnipeg Labour Council at City Hall at 5:30, to call for sex work to be recognized as real work, and for labour rights for sex workers. We'll be there with our signs and red umbrellas. Come out, join us, support us. We'll be a group of sex workers and allies (health professionals, clients, researchers, academics and other supporters.) No need to identify yourself as a client or sex worker - just come out and hold a red umbrella and show your support :) You can find more information here: Winnipeg Working Group event: https://www.facebook.com/events/696033777173631/ General May Day event: https://www.facebook.com/events/798623103558773/

Breakfast with Miss Mel :) Cant think of a better way to enjoy the sunshine :)

Good afternoon, Thank you for a lovely time back up North, I can't wait to come back in the summer. See you soon xoxo Emily

Hey wait a minute... I know it's not huge but no need to refer to it as a little thing :P lol

Sometimes you just have to find the right Doctor, I have met a couple of Doctors who were very open to alternative types of medicine. That being said I don't think a Dr. will specifically say that you should have sex with a sex worker but can suggest to have more sex. It's like them saying that you have to lose weight or get more exercise and not go into specifics on what to eat or what form of exercise to get. Whenever my Dr. told me I needed to get more exercise in my daily routine, somehow sex would be one of the first things that came to mind to add in my 'getting fit' repertoire :) What's the alternative? Walking on the treadmill for an hour or 2....or 3..... 4? Not as much fun. *sigh* getting myself worked up again... I need some exercise ;)

I would be in the same position, with Charlottetown being such a small place I gave great memories ever time I am downtown whether I go by the Delta, the Holman or other special places I have had the pleasure of meeting our Lyla ladies. The fun part is the memories will last forever.

I was wondering if anyone had any recent duo recommendations? Looking at Touch of Euphoria, Angels/Paradise, or Vibe for possibilities.. any suggestions or information would be much appreciated .. gonna be my first massage and looking to have as great an experience as I can :biggrin:

Based on what I read and understood on Jenny's post, they're asking if they have to shower, not if they can take a shower. There's big difference between the two :)

I also suspect that sexual health and well-being is something many doctors know very little about. As others have said, most doctors, especially family doctors, likely have all the same hang-ups and misconceptions about sex work as the general public.

I hope someone spat in his cake batter.

My blog entry to celebrate 25 years of the Hubble Space Telescope. http://katevonkatz.wix.com/welcome#!blog/cmt0/Post/6LSPRGF3q2y.text Will be doing one over the weekend to commemorate the MESSENGER mission to Mercury. Can ya tell I'm an astrophile?

Who wants to be my first adventure in SJ? I am beautifully curvy, classy and sexy. I have magical hands and a kiss to die for. Up scale In Call service, I will only book if you can call me after an initial text. No rushed appointments as I like to make the most of our time together xo Alex I will only be i SJ for 1 day, Friday May 1, catch me if you can ;) 506-478-0360

Skyla, Madison, Ginger, Cynthia, Paris, Amana, Chia, Eva, Chardonnay, Maya, Maude & Angie. Thursday afternoon.

Well I can't recommend Lyla to the ladies I see...because the ladies I see are already on Lyla and it's because of they are here that I contacted them and had date(s) with them ;-) A very few times that I saw ladies off of other boards, well I couldn't suggest they join Lyla. They were just suspensions/bans in the making...in fact two are suspended from Lyla LOL This board is a community, not just an alternative to BP. And not trying to be elitist, but it's not for everyone RG

Get to see if you have chemistry with a couple of ladies 1st. That could take some time. Once that is complete, i would say that the majority of the ladies will do duo's and doesn't matter who its with. Im sure you'll have a great time as I did, but keep in mind that it does take a little time.

Lets all just hope that this is his last Birthday as our Prime Minister. I am personally willing to make contribution to a retirement gift for him. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I would suggest booking a full hour, that way you can work out all your pre-massage jitters, have a chance to enjoy a FULL back/leg massage with your MA, and develop a "relationship" with her during your time together. She will help you relax and "put you at ease" to prepare you for what's to come. Of course, I'm talking about drinking tea while doing needlepoint and engaging in polite conversation, but take from that what you will... ;)

I passed all my courses, which means I finally get to graduate after putting it off for so long! Woohooo :)

Desperately needing an antihistamine at 1am, and there's none in the house. Spring really isn't my favourite season.

agreed with the other post. go see 1 MA 1st, then go get a duo once you've done that. best of luck :) fyi Annapurna, that would be me that posted the duo reco for Khloe & Skylar :)

So so true, I love it that every time I see the same person my date is different. I can't talk for the lady, but the more we get to know each other & the more comfortable we are with each other it just seems like the dates take on a whole new energy and excitement. There is almost a 180 degree difference between the first date and the 3rd or 4th date I've had with the same lady and I love it! :)

So I've seen on several boards that men complain about when a service is YMMV; but here's the thing..every single encounter will always be YMMV, and that can be a very good thing. If we took the YMMV out of our services, then every encounter would be extremely mechanical and robotic. We'd have the same conversation, the same actions, etc. There would be nothing genuine about it, and who wants that? :P Also, every encounter is also different, because each person we meet is different, so everything we do with them will be catered to that person, their body, their personality, etc. Obviously if someone shows up with very bad hygiene, you can't expect to get the same service as someone who is squeaky clean, and also if you show up and are rude or aggressive or whatever else, you also won't get the same experience as someone who is friendly and respectful. That being said, I do notice that the encounters I have with people I have great chemistry with are quite different; Not in the sense that they get better service or even more services for that matter, but they get a different side of me. If I meet someone and right away it feels like we've been friends for forever and I'm extremely comfortable around them, then it just means they will see a more at ease version of myself, instead of the one who takes a little time to get to know the person before I fully relax. So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

In all my time in this business I have NEVER had a bad date, by that I mean someone violent or causing me harm. And when I had my agency none of the ladies working for me ever had a violent call as I screened their potential guests as well. I firmly believe my strict screening plays a huge role in this. Id rather be alive and safe than risk my life over any amount of money - its just not worth it.

Plan B is a secret....at least for me. That's one of those things you don't put out there in case someone is reading it and chooses to use it against you. It's like telling announcing where you keep your jewels so they know where to look if they decide to rob you. Instead I'll say there IS a Plan B and even a C and I'm not afraid to put them in motion.

These are all advertising terms that are supposed to be attractive and draw interest....so I thought I'd try them, lol. However, there is truth in my advertising, since what I offer isn't available in stores. I could be cost effective, cheaper than a girlfriend, anyways;) Scientifically proven, well that maybe a stretch, but a visit with me I'm sure, most scientists would agree, can leave one feeling happier, more relaxed, less stressed, enlightened, intrigued and even in need of more:icon_eek: Award winning? Well some have eluded to my talents as such, my legs having the possibility to and my personality and looks, well you just have to see for yourself:icon_wink: So why not take some time for yourself, have a laugh, maybe a drink, and indulge in Cristycurves. Hourly and 1/2 hr appts available. Please call -902-453-6323-I book all appts by phone only. Have a happy day and smile it'll make everything better.