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No replies from the ladies but I suppose it's possible this has been answered before in another thread. I'd do a search if I were you. From my experience, the ladies you will meet are, quite simply, women. Sometimes they have Os, sometimes they don't. It depends on their mood, their attraction to you, your skill as a lover and so on. I've had many encounters where both sides have had 'release' but I've had just as many where it was more one sided. I think that the normal rules apply. Take your time, foreplay, read her body language and look for clues to what feels good. When in doubt, ask. I almost always ask ladies about favorite positions and what works best for them. Again, they're human. One gets off doggy style, another likes to grind in cowgirl. Some can get there via oral, some not so much. And some simply enjoy it without ever hitting the O at all but that doesn't mean she didn't have a good time. Treat a woman like a woman and things will happen as they do.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada and I have come to understand as I have gotten older that Mental Health Challenges are going to impact all of us at some point in our life yet we are often unwilling to seek the help we may need.... afraid of the stigma of being seen as needing mental help. A number of years ago I experienced a significant loss in my life that I still deal with every day and struggle with every day. I have started to talk more openly about my challenges but yet still have not really sought professional help in dealing with the grief I feel. I have not gotten the help for a few reasons.... 1. I truly feel that this burden I carry is rightfully mine for not doing more for the loved one I lost ... I know that is stupid but it is how I feel. 2. I was raised in an environment where men were the strong ones.... they provided help... they supported other in need they bottled up their feelings and looked after others.... so it is a sign of weakness to not be able to cope with what life throws your way 3. A lot of who you are is how you are seen in the community and in your workplace and in your social circles and while by no means a high profile person I have a very good senior' management position... I am active in my community on several charities and boards and amongst my social friends I have always been the person they come to for advice and frankly I am somewhat afraid of how all of that would change if they knew of my daily struggles. So why am I even posting this... well like I said I am trying to talk more about it and strange as it seems the fact that I am just Ice4fun here makes it somewhat easier. I am also posting this because I think we all have a responsibility to look among our friends for signs that they are struggling and give them our support to seek help. Of course as I know only too well it is often way easier to give advice then take it yourself. I hope Mental Health Awareness week allows you to give some thought to this issue. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-05-04/article-4134588/Mental-Health-Week-gets-underway/1

what size are your boobs? Do you have a pic? What to see a pic of my dick? How much for an hour? Do you have a tub? Do you have a shower? Do you do such and such? Are you shaved? Can I ....? .?????? All questions from different dudes this morning. All by text. Hmmm I knew there was a reason I didn't list my number before. Lol You found my number. You texted me. My prices and info are on my website. Read my reviews and recommendations then contact me.

Guys that text and I reply politely once or twice . Then I ask them to go to my website or call me if I have time . Then... Nothing . Do they have any idea how many messages we get in a day ?

Why oh why do some keep asking for details in this day and age? The laws have changed. Asking in a public way things like who gives more then a happy ending, is not going to go over well. For those that don't think things through, sometimes others see and read this site so they can gather Intel. Stop asking publicly WHO gives extras. It's not cool or helpful for those who are in this industry. PLEASE.

Gossip period but especially clients who gossip about other girls.

Or those who you give info to and then silence without a thank-you. Usually months later they text back asking for info again and seeing the texting history from the past, I just ignore. A little "Hello" and "Thank-you always goes a long way with me. :) Most guys from Lyla have always been considerate when booking and in person but I post on this thread because I'm sure a lot of men here often wonder what we have to deal with at times.

I have been reading these posts and shaking my head, call me naive but I never thought you ladies would have to endure such Neanderthal behaviour. I am looking forward to engaging in my first visit with a lovely companion. I will be nervous, shy, excited and appreciative but never disrespectful. I can't understand the need to be a bully or conduct oneself as a jackass. I hope you find many more gentleman than you do otherwise.

That bloody show is finally pull off from A&E! http://titsandsass.com/ae-pulls-8-minutes-from-the-air/

Please use the little shot glasses I have provided for mouthwash instead of drinking out of the bottle while you have the door shut in the bathroom. I have to throw out my mouthwash as a result. I always appreciate those who use the little plastic cups. Going to the bathroom for a number one and using my towel hung on the back of the door to wipe yourself or your hands. Use the towel sitting on that counter that is provided. Calling me three times asking for Monica. I am Nicki. When reading ads, please make sure you have the correct name and phone number. Posted via Mobile Device

Here's the link of a story I just came across. It's sad but at the same time beautiful and I think explains the struggle of mental disorders very well.

Thank you for this post. I'm sure most if not all of us have someone who has mental health problems or even suffer from it themselves. Mental Health Awareness is a lot more important that many imagine, I recently opened a group to discuss topics about it or simply find support. If anyone wants to join it send me a request. If someone here needs the support but doesn't want to post in the group feel free to PM me and I'll post on your behalf.

Texts that go like this...."hi I read your ad on such and such, may I see a pic and can you tell me the rate?" If you actually saw my ad, there are numerous pics and as short as the verbiage is it does include the rates! Oh, and for the record, some half hour appointments can be supremely hot just as some multi hour appointments can be extremely tedious!

When a gentlemen calls we have a conversation book a time and about 20 minutes later I receive a call that he has to cancel something has come up....I'm pretty good with my intuition and i just smell b.s ....I honestly feel at times some men shop around for rates book with a lady and still shop around for cheaper then cancels the confirmed appointment Trust me I realize that life happens and I do respect that but at times I honestly feel other wise and its very frustrating especially when you get ready for the appointment or have to postpone or put off another possible booking Please shop around check rates and services offered then call to book!

I rarely if ever wear make-up ever, the only product I use daily is stilla 10 in 1 HD beauty balm. And the odd lip gloss. Summer is definitely the time if you wear makeup to not wear any and enjoy the fresh look of summer on your face from a day in the sun :)

I agree with Amber & Nicolette, I had made the mistake of not communicating certain things with the first lady I ever saw, It just made explaining the whole situation when I just met them a bit awkward and made me not as relaxed as I could have been. She was so wonderful and sweet about it :icon_smile: After that first time, when booking with someone new, I would let them know ahead of time and they were always so understanding and I would receive nothing but supportive and positive messages back from them. Luckily my issues seem to have resolved itself, I chalk it up to nerves mostly. As long as you are being respectful, you're doing it right.;)

Being a compassionate person with my clients, I find it good for them to open up to me whether it's beforehand letting me know of their concerns especially if they feel vulnerable or nervous as opposed to not being open where self preservation is concerned. In sessions, I always try to make the client feel comfortable but if there was something bothering them or something wasn't happening because for various reasons in their life and I didn't know about it, I would be perplexed. As long as I know I did my best to make the client feel comfortable and welcome, there is only a certain point because I'm not an intrusive person either. It also helps to find a provider and have a conversation on the phone so you can gain an idea of what their personality is like. I do this with clients and instantly I have an idea of what they will be like and I'm usually right. If I don't like what I hear, I excuse myself and decline the appointment. I will always give the client a chance to communicate their fears, doubts or worries. I don't find this being needy. What I would find needy is someone not respecting my time or not knowing the boundaries outside of a session or constantly emailing or texting wanting to talk. When a client communicates up front, I am able to know how to provide them with the session that they are looking for rather than it being a guessing game. A client is always worth the effort especially if you have a chance to help them with whatever it is they are going through but also respect the lady's boundaries at the same time.

I've been extremely fortunate... being born in Canada.. lived here in freedom and relative safety.. being able to go to school.. turning on the tap and having clean water.. indoor "mr flushie".. all the conveniences of 'modern life'. Having spent time overseas in third-world nations (in both combat and civilian roles) makes me feel blessed. Giving back to the community is a huge thing for me.. helping those who need help. Donating to a food bank.. helping out at a community garden (those plots of land that the city allocates so folks can grow their own veggies).. donating blood.. buying a coffee for the car behind you at the drive-thru.. things that make folks smile. The thing that brings the biggest smile to this half-century old face of mine?? Donating time.. being there for others.. sometimes complete strangers. I'm a single parent and I take my teenage daughter with me to three seniors homes a month so she can spend an hour entertaining them by playing the piano. The pure joy on the faces of the residents is the reason my daughter and I are seven feet tall for the rest of the day. Giving of oneself is the best gift and at least for me, a source of strength and reward. CM

What are your rates? No Hi how are you nothing .... Just what are your rates Common courtesy is free to use just saying Tired of the one word texts and no introductions Not a very good first impression in my books

I'm watching a documentary about sex work and it is bringing up a lot of feelings. It is looking at some of the most vulnerable women in the industry and different perspectives... And all I can think about is wanting to have millions of dollars so I can create non-profit organizations to help with housing problems, detox if they want detox, and even a booking agency that workers can use to screen clients on their behalf, to book drivers, to rent apartments... There is so much people could do, so much we could do, if our goverment didn't suck so much and if people actually cared about the safety of sex workers.

Indeed this is a topic that is important. My dearest friend has suffered many years through different diagnosis, medications and doctors. I also had a dear uncle who has now passed who suffered with Alzheimer disease . The medical system is brutal to those with conditions. She isn't wealthy and has been treated, in my opinion, horribly. I've seen her change from a bright and contributing human being to a paranoid and angry person and needing support. For friends and loved ones of those with illnesses it certainly can be a challenge and sometimes one to great to bear. Some of the medications they give them can cause so many other issues, weight gain, the most minor, bladder problems, skin issues, severe mood swings etc, are just a few. I am empathetic and sympathetic to all who live with, are friends with or related to anyone with a mental disorder. There is no greater struggle.

I totally agree re Felina. She's one of the top two or three escorts in Winnipeg and is also an excellent massage provider. Giselle is a post op tranny. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but I believe transsexual providers should be upfront about their status. I'm sure there's a market for them. There are three, possibly four, transsexual massage providers in Winnipeg who advertise regularly. Only one of them (not Giselle) advertises as transsexual.

I use to think and be the exact same way. Keeping everything bottled up and taking care of others first instead of grieving myself. One day it became too much and the wall I build holding all those emotions came crashing down. I have not been the same since. I now feel every emotion, so much stronger and way more intense, it's not something I recommend. Now instead of me controlling my emotions, my emotions often control me and coping can be very difficult at times.

This is a very important topic and worthy of much discussion, especially due to the pervasive stigma surrounding the mentally ill in society today. As I later found out, two of my ex-girlfriends were afflicted with disorders which affected their day to day functioning and ultimately our relationship. It was sad, and still causes me a lot of grief. Both those ladies are wonderful people, yet are faced with uphill struggles on a daily basis through no fault of their own. After all, no one asks to have a mental illness...

Some guy books an appt 5 days ago...never confirms, no text nothing so I just called it a no show...the same guy texts me today asking "weren't you suppose to come to Moncton...Duh!!! yes I went and left. He says I was waiting for your text...yeah right 5 days after you Wake up!! Do not expect a reminder for our appt...you have the responsibility of confirming. Shaking my head....

Half hour rates are NOT half of the hourly rate. The discounts start on multi multiple hour encounters. The more time you book, that's when the rate goes down. I have a minimum rate to see you. Please don't make an assumption. If you are not sure of the rates, please ask.

I've always liked the minimal approach for any season :) Always found the natural look so sweet & beautiful. Mind you, it doesn't bother me if she has full on makeup either. I'm spending time with her because I enjoy her company, not because of the amount of makeup she has on, well unless she has so much on she looks like the joker. That would be a bit too distracting ;) Either way, full or bare, women are still my favourite! <3

Okay! So yeah lol When I have pictures posted in my ads but yet i get asked for pics because he cannot make them out on his phone(ummm no) Same guy by the way...gotta love pic collectors Positive energy people xo

Well I can say, I love 30 min sessions hahaha, Like wow it is 1030 am, fresh out of shower and my phone rings... Next thing you know I have the greatest 30 min ever, no long extended txt or arrangement or anything, and BAM we both are happy:) I think it is sexy as hell! Not saying I do not appreciate long engagements, that we can really have an experience that is heavenly together, one that takes weeks or days to prepare for, but there is something so much fun about the spontaneous fun adventure a 30 min session brings! Keep 'em, coming :) Yaaahooo lol BTW, is awesome Ice 4 fun enjoys hours and such, not sure if he was condescending so to say, but ya to each there own I believe in:) Type txt can be so hard sometimes, on both ends. My turn off is when someone is booking a massage and wont lie down to enjoy it, but is trying to twist and turn and wants to ...I dunno stare, I am like " come on hun I really want you to have a nice massage because that is what you booked me for, I will save you a good 20 min at the end;) Anyways, back to my deck for more sun:)

I tend to wear little to no make-up or when I do wear make-up it's very light. Light brush with mascara, eye liner and some eye shadow. I rarely put any cover up on. I enjoy my natural face with the freckles. :)

Hello Gentlemen of Calgary, If you are seeking a mature companion who is tender enough for the soft-hearted and wild enough for the more adventurous, then allow me to introduce myself. I am Bianca Jaguar, a sensuous, sexy, confident, blue-eyed, blonde vixen. Having competed as a body builder in the past, I have a fit, curvaceous body with long shapely legs. I exude femininity with my womanly charm and charisma. I have a friendly demeanour and a smile that will put you at ease and set the mood for the ultimate encounter. I am passionate and genuine. Once you spend time with me, you will see how truly authentic I am. I am highly responsive while being completely attentive to your needs and desires. I am sweet, endearing, honest and witty. I am articulate, and whether it be curling up beside a fireplace, casual dining or accompanying you to a black tie affair, I am the perfect companion for all your desires. Being a mature lady yet also looking much more youthful in appearance than my chronological age allows you the advantage of both qualities for a memorable encounter. I prefer to spend my time with mature, respectful gentlemen and couples. When I say mature, I mean to say that maturity is not always determined by age, but rather by your attitude and outlook on life. If you are such a gentleman or couple, I would love to hear from you to discuss meeting and exploring the options for a tender and exciting rendez-vous. I will be visiting May 10-13 with limited availability. Pre-booking is advised. $400/hour *Special for Lyla members: 50$ off pre booking at least 48h (pm is required) Overnight dates are available for established gentlemen! Please visit my website for extended dates and more information about me: http://www.biancajaguar.com Initial contact: For same day/ short notice appointment booking, you may text only 514-600-7158 Or email me at: [email protected] (preferred method for initial contact) Please introduce yourself by telling me a little bit about yourself such as your interests and profession. Indicate for when and for how long you would like to meet. For advance priority booking, please visit my website and complete my booking form. That is the best way to secure your appointment. First impressions are everything. To make sure we are both comfortable, please note that I will not respond to vulgar or rude correspondence. Also my donation is firm and clearly posted on my website, so there is no need to discuss it. I trust that most of your questions can be answered on my website. I am always happy to answer any other enquiries you may have. Thank you! Merci Touring Dates: See my calendar on my website! Looking forward to meeting you! Bianca xoxox Your Exquisite Companion!

Hello Gentlemen of Toronto, If you are seeking a mature companion who is tender enough for the soft-hearted and wild enough for the more adventurous, then allow me to introduce myself. I am Bianca Jaguar, a sensuous, sexy, confident, blue-eyed, blonde vixen. Having competed as a body builder in the past, I have a fit, curvaceous body with long shapely legs. I exude femininity with my womanly charm and charisma. I have a friendly demeanour and a smile that will put you at ease and set the mood for the ultimate encounter. I am passionate and genuine. Once you spend time with me, you will see how truly authentic I am. I am highly responsive while being completely attentive to your needs and desires. I am sweet, endearing, honest and witty. I am articulate, and whether it be curling up beside a fireplace, casual dining or accompanying you to a black tie affair, I am the perfect companion for all your desires. Being a mature lady yet also looking much more youthful in appearance than my chronological age allows you the advantage of both qualities for a memorable encounter. I prefer to spend my time with mature, respectful gentlemen and couples. When I say mature, I mean to say that maturity is not always determined by age, but rather by your attitude and outlook on life. If you are such a gentleman or couple, I would love to hear from you to discuss meeting and exploring the options for a tender and exciting rendez-vous. I will be visiting May 8-9 with limited availability. Pre-booking is advised. $400/hour *Special for Lyla members: 50$ off pre booking at least 48h Overnight dates are available for established gentlemen! Please visit my website for extended dates and more information about me: http://www.biancajaguar.com Initial contact: For same day/ short notice appointment booking, you may text only 514-600-7158 Or email me at: [email protected] (preferred method for initial contact) Please introduce yourself by telling me a little bit about yourself such as your interests and profession. Indicate for when and for how long you would like to meet. For advance priority booking, please visit my website and complete my booking form. That is the best way to secure your appointment. First impressions are everything. To make sure we are both comfortable, please note that I will not respond to vulgar or rude correspondence. Also my donation is firm and clearly posted on my website, so there is no need to discuss it. I trust that most of your questions can be answered on my website. I am always happy to answer any other enquiries you may have. Thank you! Merci Touring Dates: See my calendar on my website! Looking forward to meeting you! Bianca xoxox Your Exquisite Companion!

Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 613 712 1200 mon to sat 10am to 7pm

They always show in those documentary's the bad side, those who are desperate and other negative aspects of the business. For those who are in it with drug problems and other issues it certainly becomes a vicious circle. The negativities society puts on them for being sex workers often gives them cause to self medicate more and cause more internal harm. It's a shame people wouldn't wake up to the fact that sex isn't taboo, the devil or something that needs to be sacred. Every body has it at some point in their life and those who don't are wishing they would! Yes many could use help with housing and other ways to improve their personal or work lives. But thanks to our government who likes to keep their heads up their asses, real help will never come.

I have to say, after listening to the Social ( and other media) today I was left a bit frustrated at the media! The statement that caught my attention was.... " what kind of fashion icon will should she be" LIKE REALLY???? is that all a princess should aspire to be? Diana did so much for: human rights in the most oppressive countries, brought women's equality to the table of everyday people shown support to her soldiers, personally worked for clean water in many countries, food fairness and education rights of girls everywhere! So... Princess Charlotte will be viewed as a mere fashion statement??? I find this a sad day for young women looking up to the Royal Family for what to aspire to be! Princess Charlotte can be anything and many things! To reduce her future as merely a fashion statement is a disgrace to the intelligence and power the Royal Family could have good or bad! What was your thought upon hearing this?

The last thing I purchased was a few items: frozen pizza (I love frozen pizza) mints, coconut water, and gatorade. Nothing special. Posted via Mobile Device

I honestly think bad apples are not on Cerb or not here for a very long time. Most ladies/agencies have built excellent reputations here. AND, thanks to Cowboy Kenney, many bad apples are weeded out on those other sites. We're very lucky to have him here. I love Cerb ladies and agencies.

New poster here, but frequently go to Ness. I've had sessions with Linda, Lisa, Rose, Red and another girl, who's name escapes me that is small and shortish hair, and left happy with them all. Rose is the best massage by far. As for four hand massage, all of the girls listed above will accompany each other to leave you happy. I have also had a massages with Emily and Lily and neither leave you happy, but you can ask to bring someone else in to finish you off. They also accommodate short notices very well. Only thing I don't particularly like is after a while my face gets sore from resting on the towels.

Well then why talk about something you don't know what you're talking about. His post came across, to me as bragging about his longer dates and condescending towards those who book shorter dates. The original post was about clients who book shorter dates and then spend a lot of time in the shower at the end of the date. I4F in what I also read as a condescending post towards those who book shorter dates, posted first he doesn't know what he's talking about and then goes on about his longer dates and how a client should conduct himself in shorter dates. I quote him copied/pasted "I kinda think that if a guy chooses a quickie booking of 30 minutes or less he should accept that it does not include a show after or he should ensure that the fun activities are completed at least 10 minutes before the end of his time." This advice coming from a guy who doesn't book shorter dates and by his own admission "First I should say that I have never booked a half hour appointment so it could fairly be said that I have no idea of what I am talking about but here goes anyway." Now a respected board member, mr green who does book shorter encounters and knows what he is talking about tells how he conducts himself in a shorter date. His is the opinion that has a value for the original post. As for Emily's post, hardly condescending. It was answering I4F's post wondering why a swipe taken at him. I4F post in tone and writing to those who book shorter dates, even telling us he doesn't know what he's talking about...now that was the height of condescension. If I4F didn't want an answer to his question as to why a swipe taken at him first don't post a condescending post directed to those who book shorter dates. Second if he is going to post, then talk about the topic at hand, don't brag about his longer dates, which have nothing to do with the topic, and third, don't even ask why he is being swiped at. If you ask the question, don't be surprised if you get an answer you don't like A rambling over cup number one RG

I just did ... after a period away I decided to return. Glad I did. But decided it was time to retire Porthos, and opt for a different name. Thought it appropriate to stay within the theme though. Athos

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

Seen her twice already. I can't remember the acronym( starts with a Y?), she/we rocked our world today for the hour again. Today we even skipped the first shower and got into the heavy, was the full hour till we did finally go into the bathroom. No it was not mechanical....service wise. She's a beauty, if you like tall and high end "suicide girl" like tattooed woman with confidence, and a body to play for. She is probably mid 20's and looks very similar to the photos in the ad. Head to toe she is scrumptious....sensual, soft and well manicured. Had to pass this along, I know it's her present profession she deserves the credit. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/new-beautiful-asian-girl-k-100-real-visiting-winnipeg/2290032

The positive energy of a woman's smile - very special women - Alexxandria, Eva Laperle, Bianca Jaguar, Eden Nymphettt... Smiles from such wonderful women fill my universe with positive energy and I love it :)

Hi I'm living in Pembroke now please when calling mention cerb also I rarely check mail so to book today call or text me I'm friendly fun I Start with a massage 5"7 115 petite and very pretty perhaps your visiting are Lovely city. ... What a great way to unwind so book with me today this is a Ottawa # 1 613 793 2219 see you soon

I love the delta and the mariott myself. The delta rooms are clean and modern, the pool is beautiful and the gym is new. It is also very conference oriented so nobody looks twice at people walking in and out. The mariott wins in my opinion though. It is renovated but in an older style. It also has a great pool and a nicer gym plus a really cool roof top patio. The restaurant is amazing and decently priced whereas the I find the delta's stuffy and over priced. The rooms at the mariott are much bigger, more open, huge windows and (some) have balconies. It is also conference oriented so discrete

Actually most hotels will offer a day rate when they have available rooms. All you have to do is ask. I have gotten day rooms at the Marriott and the Delta. They love to rent a room out twice in 24 hours. Just say you need a place to hold a meeting or meetings. This is something that happens all the time. I think I got a King sized room with an amazing view at the Marriott for about $90.

In addition to those listed here are a few more that are reasonably priced, clean and sp friendly with regard to easy and discrete access, access to some after 12 midnight may require buzzing to get in but otherwise for daytime and evening play they're great. The chateau is rather pricey and rarely offers deals so any provider working from there may charge more to cover there additional costs. Chimo on St Laurent Albert at Bay Suites Radison Queen & Bay National Queen & Bay Extended Stay Cooper & Cartier Holiday Inn Cooper & Cartier Marriot Queen & Kent Indigo Laurier & Metcalfe These are outside the downtown core but also sp friendly and reasonably priced. Hilton Lac Lemay Ramada Casino Chateau Cartier Keep in mind though that Ottawa is a tourist destination so pricing and availability can be costly and difficult around certain festivals over the summer period.

Rule#1: Respect. Have it, know it, meditate on it and personify it. Other rules to ensure a good time: Be clean, like very clean, like very very clean, like bleachy clean - shower, bathe, then shower again and use copious amounts of soap on ALL parts of your body. Rinse well because you never know where lips or a tongue may end up! Communicate. Don't just talk, but listen as well. If you have certain expectations, then POLITELY express them and I'm sure that you will be politely told what is and isn't available. If an SP says not to do something - then just don't do it, end of story - don't try to talk her into it, you will both feel worse for it. Be fun, have fun.