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No replies from the ladies but I suppose it's possible this has been answered before in another thread. I'd do a search if I were you. From my experience, the ladies you will meet are, quite simply, women. Sometimes they have Os, sometimes they don't. It depends on their mood, their attraction to you, your skill as a lover and so on. I've had many encounters where both sides have had 'release' but I've had just as many where it was more one sided. I think that the normal rules apply. Take your time, foreplay, read her body language and look for clues to what feels good. When in doubt, ask. I almost always ask ladies about favorite positions and what works best for them. Again, they're human. One gets off doggy style, another likes to grind in cowgirl. Some can get there via oral, some not so much. And some simply enjoy it without ever hitting the O at all but that doesn't mean she didn't have a good time. Treat a woman like a woman and things will happen as they do.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada and I have come to understand as I have gotten older that Mental Health Challenges are going to impact all of us at some point in our life yet we are often unwilling to seek the help we may need.... afraid of the stigma of being seen as needing mental help. A number of years ago I experienced a significant loss in my life that I still deal with every day and struggle with every day. I have started to talk more openly about my challenges but yet still have not really sought professional help in dealing with the grief I feel. I have not gotten the help for a few reasons.... 1. I truly feel that this burden I carry is rightfully mine for not doing more for the loved one I lost ... I know that is stupid but it is how I feel. 2. I was raised in an environment where men were the strong ones.... they provided help... they supported other in need they bottled up their feelings and looked after others.... so it is a sign of weakness to not be able to cope with what life throws your way 3. A lot of who you are is how you are seen in the community and in your workplace and in your social circles and while by no means a high profile person I have a very good senior' management position... I am active in my community on several charities and boards and amongst my social friends I have always been the person they come to for advice and frankly I am somewhat afraid of how all of that would change if they knew of my daily struggles. So why am I even posting this... well like I said I am trying to talk more about it and strange as it seems the fact that I am just Ice4fun here makes it somewhat easier. I am also posting this because I think we all have a responsibility to look among our friends for signs that they are struggling and give them our support to seek help. Of course as I know only too well it is often way easier to give advice then take it yourself. I hope Mental Health Awareness week allows you to give some thought to this issue. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-05-04/article-4134588/Mental-Health-Week-gets-underway/1

what size are your boobs? Do you have a pic? What to see a pic of my dick? How much for an hour? Do you have a tub? Do you have a shower? Do you do such and such? Are you shaved? Can I ....? .?????? All questions from different dudes this morning. All by text. Hmmm I knew there was a reason I didn't list my number before. Lol You found my number. You texted me. My prices and info are on my website. Read my reviews and recommendations then contact me.

Guys that text and I reply politely once or twice . Then I ask them to go to my website or call me if I have time . Then... Nothing . Do they have any idea how many messages we get in a day ?

Why oh why do some keep asking for details in this day and age? The laws have changed. Asking in a public way things like who gives more then a happy ending, is not going to go over well. For those that don't think things through, sometimes others see and read this site so they can gather Intel. Stop asking publicly WHO gives extras. It's not cool or helpful for those who are in this industry. PLEASE.

Gossip period but especially clients who gossip about other girls.

Or those who you give info to and then silence without a thank-you. Usually months later they text back asking for info again and seeing the texting history from the past, I just ignore. A little "Hello" and "Thank-you always goes a long way with me. :) Most guys from Lyla have always been considerate when booking and in person but I post on this thread because I'm sure a lot of men here often wonder what we have to deal with at times.

I have been reading these posts and shaking my head, call me naive but I never thought you ladies would have to endure such Neanderthal behaviour. I am looking forward to engaging in my first visit with a lovely companion. I will be nervous, shy, excited and appreciative but never disrespectful. I can't understand the need to be a bully or conduct oneself as a jackass. I hope you find many more gentleman than you do otherwise.

That bloody show is finally pull off from A&E! http://titsandsass.com/ae-pulls-8-minutes-from-the-air/

Please use the little shot glasses I have provided for mouthwash instead of drinking out of the bottle while you have the door shut in the bathroom. I have to throw out my mouthwash as a result. I always appreciate those who use the little plastic cups. Going to the bathroom for a number one and using my towel hung on the back of the door to wipe yourself or your hands. Use the towel sitting on that counter that is provided. Calling me three times asking for Monica. I am Nicki. When reading ads, please make sure you have the correct name and phone number. Posted via Mobile Device

Here's the link of a story I just came across. It's sad but at the same time beautiful and I think explains the struggle of mental disorders very well.

Thank you for this post. I'm sure most if not all of us have someone who has mental health problems or even suffer from it themselves. Mental Health Awareness is a lot more important that many imagine, I recently opened a group to discuss topics about it or simply find support. If anyone wants to join it send me a request. If someone here needs the support but doesn't want to post in the group feel free to PM me and I'll post on your behalf.

Texts that go like this...."hi I read your ad on such and such, may I see a pic and can you tell me the rate?" If you actually saw my ad, there are numerous pics and as short as the verbiage is it does include the rates! Oh, and for the record, some half hour appointments can be supremely hot just as some multi hour appointments can be extremely tedious!

When a gentlemen calls we have a conversation book a time and about 20 minutes later I receive a call that he has to cancel something has come up....I'm pretty good with my intuition and i just smell b.s ....I honestly feel at times some men shop around for rates book with a lady and still shop around for cheaper then cancels the confirmed appointment Trust me I realize that life happens and I do respect that but at times I honestly feel other wise and its very frustrating especially when you get ready for the appointment or have to postpone or put off another possible booking Please shop around check rates and services offered then call to book!

I rarely if ever wear make-up ever, the only product I use daily is stilla 10 in 1 HD beauty balm. And the odd lip gloss. Summer is definitely the time if you wear makeup to not wear any and enjoy the fresh look of summer on your face from a day in the sun :)

I agree with Amber & Nicolette, I had made the mistake of not communicating certain things with the first lady I ever saw, It just made explaining the whole situation when I just met them a bit awkward and made me not as relaxed as I could have been. She was so wonderful and sweet about it :icon_smile: After that first time, when booking with someone new, I would let them know ahead of time and they were always so understanding and I would receive nothing but supportive and positive messages back from them. Luckily my issues seem to have resolved itself, I chalk it up to nerves mostly. As long as you are being respectful, you're doing it right.;)

Being a compassionate person with my clients, I find it good for them to open up to me whether it's beforehand letting me know of their concerns especially if they feel vulnerable or nervous as opposed to not being open where self preservation is concerned. In sessions, I always try to make the client feel comfortable but if there was something bothering them or something wasn't happening because for various reasons in their life and I didn't know about it, I would be perplexed. As long as I know I did my best to make the client feel comfortable and welcome, there is only a certain point because I'm not an intrusive person either. It also helps to find a provider and have a conversation on the phone so you can gain an idea of what their personality is like. I do this with clients and instantly I have an idea of what they will be like and I'm usually right. If I don't like what I hear, I excuse myself and decline the appointment. I will always give the client a chance to communicate their fears, doubts or worries. I don't find this being needy. What I would find needy is someone not respecting my time or not knowing the boundaries outside of a session or constantly emailing or texting wanting to talk. When a client communicates up front, I am able to know how to provide them with the session that they are looking for rather than it being a guessing game. A client is always worth the effort especially if you have a chance to help them with whatever it is they are going through but also respect the lady's boundaries at the same time.

I've been extremely fortunate... being born in Canada.. lived here in freedom and relative safety.. being able to go to school.. turning on the tap and having clean water.. indoor "mr flushie".. all the conveniences of 'modern life'. Having spent time overseas in third-world nations (in both combat and civilian roles) makes me feel blessed. Giving back to the community is a huge thing for me.. helping those who need help. Donating to a food bank.. helping out at a community garden (those plots of land that the city allocates so folks can grow their own veggies).. donating blood.. buying a coffee for the car behind you at the drive-thru.. things that make folks smile. The thing that brings the biggest smile to this half-century old face of mine?? Donating time.. being there for others.. sometimes complete strangers. I'm a single parent and I take my teenage daughter with me to three seniors homes a month so she can spend an hour entertaining them by playing the piano. The pure joy on the faces of the residents is the reason my daughter and I are seven feet tall for the rest of the day. Giving of oneself is the best gift and at least for me, a source of strength and reward. CM

What are your rates? No Hi how are you nothing .... Just what are your rates Common courtesy is free to use just saying Tired of the one word texts and no introductions Not a very good first impression in my books

I'm watching a documentary about sex work and it is bringing up a lot of feelings. It is looking at some of the most vulnerable women in the industry and different perspectives... And all I can think about is wanting to have millions of dollars so I can create non-profit organizations to help with housing problems, detox if they want detox, and even a booking agency that workers can use to screen clients on their behalf, to book drivers, to rent apartments... There is so much people could do, so much we could do, if our goverment didn't suck so much and if people actually cared about the safety of sex workers.

Indeed this is a topic that is important. My dearest friend has suffered many years through different diagnosis, medications and doctors. I also had a dear uncle who has now passed who suffered with Alzheimer disease . The medical system is brutal to those with conditions. She isn't wealthy and has been treated, in my opinion, horribly. I've seen her change from a bright and contributing human being to a paranoid and angry person and needing support. For friends and loved ones of those with illnesses it certainly can be a challenge and sometimes one to great to bear. Some of the medications they give them can cause so many other issues, weight gain, the most minor, bladder problems, skin issues, severe mood swings etc, are just a few. I am empathetic and sympathetic to all who live with, are friends with or related to anyone with a mental disorder. There is no greater struggle.

I totally agree re Felina. She's one of the top two or three escorts in Winnipeg and is also an excellent massage provider. Giselle is a post op tranny. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but I believe transsexual providers should be upfront about their status. I'm sure there's a market for them. There are three, possibly four, transsexual massage providers in Winnipeg who advertise regularly. Only one of them (not Giselle) advertises as transsexual.

I use to think and be the exact same way. Keeping everything bottled up and taking care of others first instead of grieving myself. One day it became too much and the wall I build holding all those emotions came crashing down. I have not been the same since. I now feel every emotion, so much stronger and way more intense, it's not something I recommend. Now instead of me controlling my emotions, my emotions often control me and coping can be very difficult at times.

This is a very important topic and worthy of much discussion, especially due to the pervasive stigma surrounding the mentally ill in society today. As I later found out, two of my ex-girlfriends were afflicted with disorders which affected their day to day functioning and ultimately our relationship. It was sad, and still causes me a lot of grief. Both those ladies are wonderful people, yet are faced with uphill struggles on a daily basis through no fault of their own. After all, no one asks to have a mental illness...

Some guy books an appt 5 days ago...never confirms, no text nothing so I just called it a no show...the same guy texts me today asking "weren't you suppose to come to Moncton...Duh!!! yes I went and left. He says I was waiting for your text...yeah right 5 days after you Wake up!! Do not expect a reminder for our appt...you have the responsibility of confirming. Shaking my head....

Half hour rates are NOT half of the hourly rate. The discounts start on multi multiple hour encounters. The more time you book, that's when the rate goes down. I have a minimum rate to see you. Please don't make an assumption. If you are not sure of the rates, please ask.

I've always liked the minimal approach for any season :) Always found the natural look so sweet & beautiful. Mind you, it doesn't bother me if she has full on makeup either. I'm spending time with her because I enjoy her company, not because of the amount of makeup she has on, well unless she has so much on she looks like the joker. That would be a bit too distracting ;) Either way, full or bare, women are still my favourite! <3

Okay! So yeah lol When I have pictures posted in my ads but yet i get asked for pics because he cannot make them out on his phone(ummm no) Same guy by the way...gotta love pic collectors Positive energy people xo

Well I can say, I love 30 min sessions hahaha, Like wow it is 1030 am, fresh out of shower and my phone rings... Next thing you know I have the greatest 30 min ever, no long extended txt or arrangement or anything, and BAM we both are happy:) I think it is sexy as hell! Not saying I do not appreciate long engagements, that we can really have an experience that is heavenly together, one that takes weeks or days to prepare for, but there is something so much fun about the spontaneous fun adventure a 30 min session brings! Keep 'em, coming :) Yaaahooo lol BTW, is awesome Ice 4 fun enjoys hours and such, not sure if he was condescending so to say, but ya to each there own I believe in:) Type txt can be so hard sometimes, on both ends. My turn off is when someone is booking a massage and wont lie down to enjoy it, but is trying to twist and turn and wants to ...I dunno stare, I am like " come on hun I really want you to have a nice massage because that is what you booked me for, I will save you a good 20 min at the end;) Anyways, back to my deck for more sun:)

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Without a doubt my daughter's have been and will continue to be the greatest source of true happiness in my life. Just thinking of them brings a smile to my face.

My personal preference is less is best all the time. In real life and this life I've favoured those who don't wear any including lipstick. Not a glamour guy at all... girl next door natural beauties for me. Bonus is no fighting for mirror space in the morning :) Peace MG

Less is best for summertime. The best remedies and protections for nice skin are sunscreen and drinking water, especially with lemon. I have oily skin and don't tan so a powder for me is a must. Cornstarch works great for blotting. I also like lip gloss and mascara. For a date however I like an erotic look, and love "making up " as part of my getting ready, eye make up and lips especially:)

Mine is working now.

Hi! I'm Kristie! Your Busty Blonde Girl From Quebec! If you are looking for a sexy sensual good time... I am the one you need to see. I'm a French woman with a really nice 36D so you know that I'm a great girl :wink: I have beautiful curves & a beautiful smile... I'm Available: TODAY: From 11:15am until 4pm! ***** & Thursday from 10am-10pm & Saturday from 10am-4pm! I offer you a sensual body slide massage...like no other: I promise you will love my soft hands and body. If you want to relax and have a good time...Don't be shy to come see me... Call 613 680 8059 to book with me or for more info visit my profile! Come visit me at Vibe and you'll be happy for the rest of the week :wink: Here are some of my Cerb Recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=K&t=162612 xxx K

yeah it works now and I have the updated version of tapatalk

I think I'll send Will and Kate a copy of Robert Munsch's 'Paper Bag Princess' as a baby gift!

Lol

Thanks for posting on this topic, and great perspective too! However, as my title is Charlotte Elizabeth Diana and the media.... I am speaking on how the media is portraying this event. Be it the Social or even then news. I feel it is disgraceful to use that headliner as a way to report "news" as in fashion news when so much more can be represented.

Well you were watching the Social and look at the fake, pretentious women who host it? In all reality they have nothing better to talk about, and who would watch their awful show if they don't talk fashion? Im sure with Will and Kate for Parents both George and Charlotte will grow up with the proper values instilled in them. They have done a great job keeping George out of the media and trying to raise him as normal as possible. Im sure it will continue with Charlotte as well. Charity will be a major part of both of those children's lives, Will and Kate while royalty are as grounded as it gets.

Ask any man who's been divorced; it's all commercial sex: pay by the hour or pay by the marriage.

I guess I was in a grumpy mood when I posted earlier, but I did say "remote" possibility. As most people have said, this industry relies on discretion and it's not in anybody's interest to betray any personal information given. Word gets around pretty quick. And as Berlin (I believe?) said, most of us just ain't worth the bother. lol

Plain and simple - I4F you post was condescending towards those who book 30mins. Not everyone one is a multi hour booking, yet not all 30mins bookings are disrespectful of a ladies time. While its great you need to remind everyone that you only book longer dates, in reality - it does not need to be mentioned - unless your going to partake in a shorter date you really have no need to comment on a ladies annoyance of a shorter date disrespecting her time. - when you have no idea in reality of what it is. I don't offer shorter dates, so I choose not to comment on threads that don't relate to me or what I offer. Your post was ignorant and unnecessary. Just Emily's Opinion

If it's someone I've met before and enjoyed, I'm usually excited to see them again. If it's someone new, while I'm still excited, I hope that they will be open to and with me and that it will be an exchange of energy even if it's a pleasure session.

If we aren't offering sexual services, why would we offer sexual tutoring?

The feeling of joy makes me happy. Anything we ever thought that would make us happy whether it's a relationship, material things or even winning the lottery doesn't actually make us happy. It's the emotional feeling of joy that makes us happy in whatever particular circumstance in life. Knowing what I know now, I cannot go back to thinking the way I did before... ever.

I think people are getting worried and making way too much of this walking past the front desk. For all the front desk staff know, you checked in when they were off shift. I have gone by the front desks of hotels many a time, including one where the front desk is more situated in a hallway you have to walk through to get to the elevators. I just walked by like I belonged there never questioned. Staff are used to seeing people come and go, even for a romantic rendezvous ;-) hey that's life. Just walk into the hotel like you belong there. The only way you'll get questioned is if you draw attention to yourself. If hotels started questioning everyone, guests and guests of guests, they'd soon be out of business RG

this is a very helpful thread. Thank you to those who contributed