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I have been increasingly concerned that the discussion in the massage section may lead to problems for the providers. Especially the places that do other salon services. Escorts control their phone and location. Massage parlors such as bw, to/eb, Nevada's all have specific licenses but when the place is catering to a whole other clientele for other services I really think we need to keep our conversation much more vague. Some providers are students and I really worry that too much publicity through this review board could have negative implications for them. We have been in my humble opinion too free to identify some locations Although we have to be members o be on here it is not difficult to join. Our identity is very protected but some providers of massage can be left exposed by these conversations I see a big difference in what we should discuss depending on how the provider advertises

Wondering how some men get away with how they treat women!

Conservatives gone in Alberta! Yes!! A historic day!

I think that would come down to the personal taste of the person seeing you. I would rather you wear what makes you feel the most attractive and sexy at the time. If it were up to the 2 options you described I prefer the professional look, always loved a girl with her hair up and glasses :) but that would go for any age just not just mature (I don't consider 30s-40s mature btw maybe because i'm in that age group :P). That being said if someone dressed younger it wouldn't bother me either. I don't think it's a deal breaker. My way of thinking is whatever you wear, it's all good as long as you feel attractive and sexy in it. One lovely lady I see regularly would always greet me in Lingerie, then on our last date she asked me if i wanted her to wear anything special and I told her whatever made her feel comfortable. She greeted me with Jeans and a nice blouse and I found she looked beautiful, it's what she felt best in at the time. Like Lady Sophia said, it will radiate and it does :)

I never came across such situation, but if this would happen to me, I would take a very grave facial expression and tell the abuser that I have AIDS and that I only have 2 months left to live, but that I am happy to know that soon he will be my partner in the afterlife.

One guy tried to do exactly that to me, but I caught him. It really freaked me out. The whole point of this thing is that it's supposed to be consensual. When I get one of these guys, I watch them VERY closely.

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People who mumble on the phone and can barely open the mouth.. You are not calling your friend buddy.. Turn off!

I find it peculiar that when spending precious time with txt, answering questions, looking at schedules to match up everything but then when I say you need to voice call me in order for me to put in my calendar....suddenly they drop off the planet! What was it that scared you? Having to speak with a voice rather then txt? Like are we not going to be face to face and will we not speak then? LOL... Also being told....xx$ for JUST that??? JUST for company and massage? YUP you got it:)

I remember once I was told by a man that women are like seafood, the fresher the better. Of course that was his own opinion. I certainly prefer mature men for myself, young men... I don't know, you guys are cute, but ... hmmm... just not as sophisticated emotionally. Aah, sorry, a little bit off the topic :tongue:

I agree as well but how do we control this? I know for myself I try to only answer through PM to other members that I normally share info with or has in the past helped me out, as soon as you post PM me if you need you are bombarded with PM's from members that have very few posts, its really a catch 22 but I know we need to find a better mousetrap to help protect these places.

I recently inquired about this -blocking certain members so I wouldn't receive PMs from them- and unfortunately, this function is not available. Even if they are on your ignore list, they can still send you a PM. "Member name is on your ignore list view message" will replace the subject title with their board handle under it. It would be nice if this function was available to prevent unwanted communication from reaching your PM inbox and not have to resort to Mod (if need be) to deal with some of the less than pleasant PMs.

Really interesting replies...made me think about what makes me feel sexy, actually. The lingerie I'm wearing in the photo definitely makes me feel that way. It looks a little dom, and I can definitely be that if the occasion calls for it. I do like power suit jackets with nothing underneath. THAT makes me feel sexy. I realized that the thongs have to go. I've never liked them. In fact, I haven't been wearing underwear at all for a little while...that, to me, is sexier than a thong. I've also been trying to find a pair of 50s style panties with ruffles on the bum...not much success so far, but I haven't done a thorough search on ebay. I like wearing glasses sometimes, because there's something erotic about taking them off before you get down to it...basically, I want to look like a cross between Courtney Love and Jackie O., if that makes sense.

As a woman who just reached 40, I agree with the above poster Heneryporter. I feel a women in her 40's is really prime age to show of our sophistication in a way I never could have pulled off in my late 20's or even early 30's. I love to wear my elegant one pieces, business suites, and when I feel young at heart a will do my cut of jeans and halters and heels too:) Wear what you feel sexy in, and it will radiate :)

Ya the ignore list only means YOU cant see them, not the other way around:( I tried it and turns out it only block me from seeing their posts, but they can see mine ( profile too) Sadly we did have this option but people were abusing it.

That bloody show is finally pull off from A&E! http://titsandsass.com/ae-pulls-8-minutes-from-the-air/

Skip them and go for Felina instead. She offers a massage session for you to get familiar with her, and let me tell you, that her massage will leave ALL your muscles relieved of pressure.

Why oh why do some keep asking for details in this day and age? The laws have changed. Asking in a public way things like who gives more then a happy ending, is not going to go over well. For those that don't think things through, sometimes others see and read this site so they can gather Intel. Stop asking publicly WHO gives extras. It's not cool or helpful for those who are in this industry. PLEASE.

I have seen both Kayla and Serena, for a first timer I would recommend Kayla, JMHO.

I think the best way to get "rid of bad apples" is to just focus on your own business and promoting the visions you want in the industry - be the change you want to see in the world.... wasting time and energy on others is pointless - "the bad seeds" as you call them.... they always self destruct anyways. Cheers

I will choose my thoughts and words very carefully as I too can relate to this situation. Whether it is done online and even via email or PM's, we either always see/read it or get told about what slanderous things are being written or said. It is very hard not to respond online or contact that person. We are human and the first thing when someone attacks us is to defend ourselves. What I have learned is you can't have a civil conversation with someone of that mentality and it's like communicating with a rock. It does make you question their motives and want to ask why but truthfully in my experience it's useless to even bother. You have a wonderful community of friends, fellow companions who also understand and have dealt with being the target of simply put a mean spirited person. You know who you can confide in and that you have a safe place to vent, there is no denying that these things are hurtful and upsetting. Don't ever let someone try to break your spirit and that is what I feel the motive in my situation among other distasteful things was and currently is based on. You are an amazing, beautiful, kind person and keep your head held high, do not give anyone that type of power over you and shake it off. Easier said, I know but this is beneath you. The best thing you can do is ignore and contact the sites where this slander and harassment is being posted to have it removed. This is cyber bullying and a crime. All my love!! xoxo

What should you do when another companion obsesses over you and tries to slander you on line with lies or just trash talk? Ignore it or deal with it but in what way Just looking for opinions Very much appreciated

How do I block a user from gaining any and all access to my account & is this possible?

Emma, in town with BLE. She wears minimal make up and has an all natural spinner type body. Sure if you requested all natural make up it wouldn't be a problem I recommend her none the less. Cheers. http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/emma-petite-french-treat-visiting-nowrock-hard-body-hope-you-ready/2448420

it was in either Australia or New Zealand. i think the link is in the News section. it is a good example for why decriminalizatin is necessary. there was no problem for the sp to report the incident and to get criminal charges laid.

Went to farmers market, and said "WOW that is one big & thick hot sausage! " Ohhh boy wasn't just the red peppers that were red! lol

I feel like there could be an argument for an assault charge there. Some precedent in Canada for that sort of thing in the case of people with HIV knowingly having unprotected sex without informing partners. You did not agree to sex without a condom therefore taking it off without consent should meet the definition of assault.

Yesterday, Tuesday night was pretty good in terms of atmosphere and numbers of dancers. Maude, Sofia (Latina from Costa Rica), Melissa, Jordan, Naomi, Anne Krystel were some of the ladies present. About 25 girls and it was pretty lively without getting too noisy.

This is so much personal preference and to some extent the ladies personal style. For me personally I always like the lady to just wear whatever makes her feel sexy and good about herself. Let's face it if the school girl outfit feels like a stretch to the lady it will most likely be less then successful. Who better to know what makes her feel sexy... then the lady herself. Just my Opinion

Lazy morning start today... after a hard night... had what I thought was a great meal last night in Halifax that turned into a nightmare evening as the meal did not sit well with me to say the least... so slow morning and hoping for a better day.

It's all about fantasy, so have fun with it. If a client makes a request and you are comfortable with it then wear that. As it's been said, any other time be you, wear what makes you feel the best. I have panites with ruffles on the bottom, I believe I got them either at Victoria's secret or La senza, would have ben a while ago though. Check their online sites:) I love wearing lingerie and getting dolled up it makes me feel sexy and it's something I don't do in my personal life. It's good to have fun with different looks:)

I fully agree with the post by JohnyBird, well said!

That reminded me the news I came across recently that a client somehow took the condom off without alerting the worker. The lady found out later and called the police. it happened in a city that prostitution is legal though. Don't know what happen at the end. I guess some guys just don't care!

If I want to meet a young girl I would book one. If I want to meet a more mature woman then a mature woman is who I'd book. There's lots of variety out there already. No need to get one and pretend it is the other. Just get the real thing. And the ladies who come to my house are pretty discreet. I don't want the neighbours seeing girls in Sailor Moon outfits coming and going.

As far as I know Amelia, on this site there is no longer a privacy function. If on Gmail and think other email accounts, you can mark as spam and will send email there so you don't have to look at it. Hope this helps? If not, others will chime in.

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I agree with Amber & Nicolette, I had made the mistake of not communicating certain things with the first lady I ever saw, It just made explaining the whole situation when I just met them a bit awkward and made me not as relaxed as I could have been. She was so wonderful and sweet about it :icon_smile: After that first time, when booking with someone new, I would let them know ahead of time and they were always so understanding and I would receive nothing but supportive and positive messages back from them. Luckily my issues seem to have resolved itself, I chalk it up to nerves mostly. As long as you are being respectful, you're doing it right.;)

Being a compassionate person with my clients, I find it good for them to open up to me whether it's beforehand letting me know of their concerns especially if they feel vulnerable or nervous as opposed to not being open where self preservation is concerned. In sessions, I always try to make the client feel comfortable but if there was something bothering them or something wasn't happening because for various reasons in their life and I didn't know about it, I would be perplexed. As long as I know I did my best to make the client feel comfortable and welcome, there is only a certain point because I'm not an intrusive person either. It also helps to find a provider and have a conversation on the phone so you can gain an idea of what their personality is like. I do this with clients and instantly I have an idea of what they will be like and I'm usually right. If I don't like what I hear, I excuse myself and decline the appointment. I will always give the client a chance to communicate their fears, doubts or worries. I don't find this being needy. What I would find needy is someone not respecting my time or not knowing the boundaries outside of a session or constantly emailing or texting wanting to talk. When a client communicates up front, I am able to know how to provide them with the session that they are looking for rather than it being a guessing game. A client is always worth the effort especially if you have a chance to help them with whatever it is they are going through but also respect the lady's boundaries at the same time.

That seems to be the consensus. It's all about comfort and her perspective tends to matter more than my own. I will struggle. Her response to that dictates the value of the session. Second session was two hours. Decided to go unmedicated. This proved to be a mistake. The CS session removed all physical barriers. As intensity grew, I replaced them with mental ones and detached. Again, Nova was observant and adapted. Reeled me back in a few times. The session was of great value. Therapeutic on several levels. I just need to test the waters before I dive in head first. Another session booked. Will be better prepared for what she brings to the table.

I totally agree re Felina. She's one of the top two or three escorts in Winnipeg and is also an excellent massage provider. Giselle is a post op tranny. There's nothing inherently wrong with that, but I believe transsexual providers should be upfront about their status. I'm sure there's a market for them. There are three, possibly four, transsexual massage providers in Winnipeg who advertise regularly. Only one of them (not Giselle) advertises as transsexual.

Thank you for this post. I'm sure most if not all of us have someone who has mental health problems or even suffer from it themselves. Mental Health Awareness is a lot more important that many imagine, I recently opened a group to discuss topics about it or simply find support. If anyone wants to join it send me a request. If someone here needs the support but doesn't want to post in the group feel free to PM me and I'll post on your behalf.

If you take the time to read Danielle's post, you will clearly see that she is looking for advice on how to handle the situation best. If you personally believe the thread doesn't belong on the board (which it does- it's not the first time someone looks for advice on different situations), you should use the report option and let the Mod deal with it.

Another special night for me to remember. I wrote a recommendation for Carley after meeting her last August with a headline "can it get any better" having the privilege of the having Carley as my regular for the last eight months I can honestly say it does get better and better each and every time we meet, at first I tried to figure out why now I am accepting the fact we click in so many ways I am just one happy smiley Magician. After having shorter visits with her over the winter I had the chance to be in Moncton overnight I asked her if she would accompany me in an overnight visit, I did have an overnight last fall with her and Gabby this time I was greedy and kept her all to myself. Carley greeted me with her amazing smile, she is so pretty. We all have different ways to initiate foreplay one I always wanted to do was to go out and buy Lingerie for my date which I did for this special lady. I have a few favorite colors white being one of them and after Carley spending a week in the sun I knew I was in for quite a Lingerie show. She came out of the bathroom with her face a glow wearing a robe opening it to show me the most beautiful body in a very sexy negligee, she could easily be on the Victoria Secret runway, you can guess what this lead to. In any extended time with someone both parties need to be comfortable with each other, there needs to be time to relax with each other one of my favorite things recently is a nice bubble bath in a Jacuzzi, to let you know if you think Miss Carley is sexy you should see her wet from head to toe priceless !!! She is definitely fun in the tub!!! I am always nervous in going out to a restaurant so I asked her if we could eat in the room, Carley was wondering why I asked her to bring her sexy black dress. In a conversation with another lady recently she told me a gentleman friend took her to a Casino which she enjoyed very much. I mentioned my plan to Carley that I would love to flirt with her at the Casino, we both got dressed up I dropped her off she went in then I went in about five minutes later. I found this to be foreplay at its best seeing her walk around playing slots in her sexy black dress knowing you were just with her plus you were spending the night with her. We never made our fortune, we were there about a hour when she comes close to me asking if I was ready for Lingerie show number two, back to the hotel yes!!! I thought Lingerie show number one was hot seeing her walk to me in her white Bra and Panties with the white stockings it just wasn't the Magician's face that was a glow, my god did she ever look gorgeous. It did not take me long to get her under the covers with me. Carley this was indeed a very special night for me from our fast and furious times to our slow and sensual, our dual massages, our flirting at the Casino, waking you up in the morning with the flick of my tongue,(all I can say that is I do not have enough morning sex), the time with you in the Jacuzzi was the simply amazing. I never did have an agenda in my head on how this night would of went if I did we definitely blew that out of the water. Gentleman, this is a few of things I had planned for both of us to have a very enjoyable time together and as I mentioned it was more than I could ever imagined. If this special lady happens to be visiting your city I highly recommend you to get on the phone. Carley I am looking forward in trying to make our next sleepover as good as this one was, thanks. Your smiling and happy Magician:) P.S. I know time doesn't fly it sure seems that way when I visit Carley whether it is for a hour or a sleepover.

underwear? I was supposed to wear underwear today? lol, it was so warm here today I didn't wear any under my dress, felt ssssooooo good ;-)