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7 pointsIts true in any industry when you become successful you get haters. Jealousy is an awful thing and it exists quite bad in this business. As it has been said, best to ignore it, however from experience, I suggest you screen shot any and all stuff said against you, save all emails and if you need help tracking an IP, I'm an email away. As well I can put you in touch with a wonderful police officer who may be able to help you with this situation if it escalates. These people need to be dealt with, but the best way is to smile and focus on your business - god knows that drives them more crazy when they can't get to you. xoxo Emily
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4 pointsThere's a new blonde at PM: Chasta. She's really hot, especially in the CR. Also there yesterday afternoon (Wednesday): Candy, Delicious, Chloe, Anika, Loanna, Ashley, and a few others.
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4 pointsWhat a heartbreaking loss tonight :( That goal by Tampa with 0.9 seconds to go in the third was a real killer! 3-0 Tampa... I'm hoping the Habs win 1 or 2 games (and save face) before starting their golf season... They are still my team though :) GO HABS GO!!
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3 pointsI have been increasingly concerned that the discussion in the massage section may lead to problems for the providers. Especially the places that do other salon services. Escorts control their phone and location. Massage parlors such as bw, to/eb, Nevada's all have specific licenses but when the place is catering to a whole other clientele for other services I really think we need to keep our conversation much more vague. Some providers are students and I really worry that too much publicity through this review board could have negative implications for them. We have been in my humble opinion too free to identify some locations Although we have to be members o be on here it is not difficult to join. Our identity is very protected but some providers of massage can be left exposed by these conversations I see a big difference in what we should discuss depending on how the provider advertises
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3 pointsYes so true! Honestly the only person i would like to be in competition with is myself to become better mentally emotionally and physically than the person I was yesterday I have no desire to be like anyone else...we all as women have our on unique qualities and should embrace that It's sad to say but in this industry some women are very competitive and that's where the hostility comes from You may like me for my boobs but may like another lady for her behind...and you all have that right to spend time with the lady you choose....could be you ,connect more with one on a personal intimate level and with another on a sexual level
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3 pointsJust a quick comment, not directed at you Danielle, but mentioned because you pointed it out. There may be competition in this business. But ladies really aren't in competition with other ladies. There is someone for everyone as they say and the lady you are may attract some men, and other men may be attracted to another type of woman. And some men, due to the polyamorous nature of this lifestyle may be attracted to women in general. So all ladies just need to present themselves in a positive professional way. That way in part, they present themselves in a positive light and will continue to attract the clients that they normally would. I guess my point, awkwardly made LOL is any lady trash talking another lady isn't making herself more attractive to clients. All she does is make herself, at least to me, unattractive and someone not to see. So Danielle, keep handling yourself the way you are. The other lady is likely losing potential clients by her actions. Hope that rambling makes sense But in a lighter vein, but it is often true...and kind of applies here RG
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3 pointsYes I can honestly say from all this negativity I have actually gained a few New friends so I have to say some positive has come out of it ...men do not like jealous women! It is not a good look If I feel some way towards someone I just will not bother with them and move past it...I would have entertained it and acted out last year but I am seriously trying to be on a different path in my life plus its draining and those types of people do not deserve my energy
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3 pointsWe had a pretty good presence in the march, with a fair number of red umbrellas and signs. There are photos on our Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/WinnipegWG?fref=ts I think this may have been Winnipeg's first public demonstration for sex workers' rights, so I'm quite pleased.
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2 pointsWhat should you do when another companion obsesses over you and tries to slander you on line with lies or just trash talk? Ignore it or deal with it but in what way Just looking for opinions Very much appreciated
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2 pointsWhooha, that's a lot of pressure to put on one man alone. It's like asking him to play perfect games (shutouts) all the time and never let a goal in because his team can't score more than 1, maybe 2 goals, per games. Even "great" goalies are not perfect and let a goal in one in a while. 5-1 and 6-2? I don't think Price is the only one responsible for those. There is only so much he can do by himself without the support of his defense allies, especially when they are often playing one man down because of so many stupid penalties. Plus, you have to give credit to the other great players on the other team. I really think Price is a great goalie and without him, the Habs most likely wouldn't even had made the playoffs. I think he has stepped it up more than anyone else on his team. It takes a team effort to win... not a sole player alone.
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2 pointsJust realized it's been a year now since I got into this profession! Feels like it was yesterday, the year went by fast, and luckily it's been almost entirely positive experiences :) Posted via Mobile Device
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2 pointsGood morning, Thank you for the warm hospitality and sunshine during my visit. Possibly i'll see you again in the future. xoxo Emily
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2 pointsWhile it's never over till its over it is not looking very hopeful for the HABS...unfortunately the people they needed to step up in the playoffs just haven't and while Price might be the best goalie in the league he can't win every game for you... Price has made them competitive but they need to put the puck into the net. While I hope they stage a miracle come back let's just say that I will not be betting any money on them. BTW GL... As a Toronto Fan I can certainly understand how you feel... I too would have liked my team to win one or two before heading off golfing lol.
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2 pointsI stopped by to see my regular RMT this afternoon - a lovely young woman I have known for almost fifteen years now. She, at thirty-seven, is due to have her first child (a girl) in a few weeks. She is lovely, as always, although a bit rounder than usual, lol, very well, and totally beautiful! A wonderful association with a certain ALO queen bee who is also very special to me ;) Life is so good! bellafan
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2 pointsYou can report PMs in much the same way that you report posts. Perhaps it'd be worth doing so, and then maybe troublesome members can be warned off, and if they don't improve they might feel the gentle caress of Mod's Banhammer....
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2 pointsNot for the Lyla guys but really annoying.... Received a text message out of the blue from someone and that they can get me a lot of business. I guess they don't know who I am because they only see green when perusing the ads. They will take half the commission of course. No, I don't require a 'manager'. The universe is my manager. I don't need a human being to do this. I tell the universe what I want and it brings it. Actually it happens pretty quick now. Lol. As if! With years of experience in this business, I could be a 'manager' myself but that's not me. If someone wants to be an escort and wants someone to manage them the right way, hopefully they will look for a reputable agency. Get a clue and stop trying to ride off women's coattails and the money they make. Get your own damn job!
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2 pointsJust ask the SP you want to see not to put make up on! Some girls might not wear make up(or a lot of it) in their private lives but may put on a little more for sessions because they think that's what the guy wants. I'm sure if you request no make up that can easily be done! lol
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2 pointsI recently inquired about this -blocking certain members so I wouldn't receive PMs from them- and unfortunately, this function is not available. Even if they are on your ignore list, they can still send you a PM. "Member name is on your ignore list view message" will replace the subject title with their board handle under it. It would be nice if this function was available to prevent unwanted communication from reaching your PM inbox and not have to resort to Mod (if need be) to deal with some of the less than pleasant PMs.
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2 pointsNortherOntGuy's advice is probably wise but more and more I am starting to think we should be challenging the bullies who hide in the shadows and make peoples lives unbearable ... they do it because they can get away with it. Just my Opinion
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1 pointThis week is Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada and I have come to understand as I have gotten older that Mental Health Challenges are going to impact all of us at some point in our life yet we are often unwilling to seek the help we may need.... afraid of the stigma of being seen as needing mental help. A number of years ago I experienced a significant loss in my life that I still deal with every day and struggle with every day. I have started to talk more openly about my challenges but yet still have not really sought professional help in dealing with the grief I feel. I have not gotten the help for a few reasons.... 1. I truly feel that this burden I carry is rightfully mine for not doing more for the loved one I lost ... I know that is stupid but it is how I feel. 2. I was raised in an environment where men were the strong ones.... they provided help... they supported other in need they bottled up their feelings and looked after others.... so it is a sign of weakness to not be able to cope with what life throws your way 3. A lot of who you are is how you are seen in the community and in your workplace and in your social circles and while by no means a high profile person I have a very good senior' management position... I am active in my community on several charities and boards and amongst my social friends I have always been the person they come to for advice and frankly I am somewhat afraid of how all of that would change if they knew of my daily struggles. So why am I even posting this... well like I said I am trying to talk more about it and strange as it seems the fact that I am just Ice4fun here makes it somewhat easier. I am also posting this because I think we all have a responsibility to look among our friends for signs that they are struggling and give them our support to seek help. Of course as I know only too well it is often way easier to give advice then take it yourself. I hope Mental Health Awareness week allows you to give some thought to this issue. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-05-04/article-4134588/Mental-Health-Week-gets-underway/1
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1 pointAffectionate touch, sensuality and the perfect massage await you: Leaving you bone-tingling...long into the night... ;) To Learn A Bit More About Me: Read What A Few Gentlemen Have Said About Our Time Together So Far: Here A Mature Wise & Witty Kitty :wink: Discover me & learn what head to toe sensuality really feels like... THIS WEEK : On: Friday! Currently from 3:30pm-4:30pm only! & NEXT WEEK: Tuesday 4pm-10pm Wednesday 10am-4pm Thursday 4-10pm Saturday 4-10pm Please call Vibe at 613 680 8059 to reserve our time together. Warmly Yours, Cali Meow :smile: **Lovers...Years...& Glasses of Wine...All Things That Should Never Be Counted**
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1 point1- "Can you describe yourself I forgot what you look like" Do you really think I will see someone who has no idea what I look like!? I have no interest seeing someone who is too lazy to over internet to look who I am. Seriously? 2- stupid questions.. "Does your pictures are real?" Do you really think that if someone is using fake pictures she will tell you? I have plenty of recommendation, etc.. Please do your homeworks
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1 pointThe pros in the game are well aware of the risks and by and large are the most discrete. The best example of lack of discretion for me are those who for whatever reason seek out legit RMT's and then look for or hope for a little extra and then talk about it on these boards. Stupid is as stupid does. Peace MG
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1 pointI think we should not list the actual name and street Maybe direction to the advertisement would be ok
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1 pointYou know, there is really something wonderful about being who you are, and enjoying that, for both women and men! Fantasy is beautiful, and so is reality! I love being who I am and I love women who love being who they are, and who love to have some fun with fantasy, as I do ;) bellafan
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1 pointAffectionate touch, sensuality and the perfect massage await you;) Leaving you bone-tingling long into the night... To Learn A Bit More About Me: Read What A Few Gentlemen Have Said About Our Time Together So Far: Here Mature - Wise - Witty :wink: Discover me & learn what head to toe sensuality really feels like... THIS WEEK : TODAY FROM 4-10pm! Next on: Friday 10am-4:30pm Please call Vibe at 613 680 8059 to reserve our time together. Warmly Yours, Cali Meow :smile: __________________
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1 pointit was in either Australia or New Zealand. i think the link is in the News section. it is a good example for why decriminalizatin is necessary. there was no problem for the sp to report the incident and to get criminal charges laid.
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1 pointI never came across such situation, but if this would happen to me, I would take a very grave facial expression and tell the abuser that I have AIDS and that I only have 2 months left to live, but that I am happy to know that soon he will be my partner in the afterlife.
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1 pointI'm a playful, flirtatious, very sweet and fun loving girl. I provide a VERY personal service...Completely giving you the full attention you deserve!! Make your day or night an unforgettable one by CONTACTING me! I am 100% independent!! Gentlemen, don't keep looking through stones, you have found your jewel!! Satisfaction is a must, you will love me in person! 100% discreet 100% independant 100% non rushed I'm jazzy im 27 506 803 9554 text or emails only no phone calls
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1 pointI wholeheartedly agree with you! There are certain people who love to flap their gums and make innuendos in their comments. They do not realize the potential consequences such comments may cause given the new laws. Discretion is a must in the current environment.
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1 pointPm the mod if it's harassment or something else inappropriate. I'm sure the mod would want to know because if someone is misbehaving or acting inappropriately they may to others as well. Best of luck.
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1 pointYa the ignore list only means YOU cant see them, not the other way around:( I tried it and turns out it only block me from seeing their posts, but they can see mine ( profile too) Sadly we did have this option but people were abusing it.
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1 pointThat bloody show is finally pull off from A&E! http://titsandsass.com/ae-pulls-8-minutes-from-the-air/
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1 pointHi!! <3 Finally getting settled into my new place! :) I am doing incall and outcall, from my new location in Halifax! Right beside my old location, easy parking, clean, discreet, quiet - close to downtown! Monday May 4: Early morning - 11pm Tuesday May 5: Early morning - 11pm Wednesday May 6: Early morning - 11pm Thursday May 7: Early morning - 11pm Friday May 8: N/A (Out of town) Saturday May 9: N/A (Out of town) Sunday May 10: Early morning - 11pm My rates: 120hh 200hr 300-90 min 350-2hrs (I charge for time of our date only! No "extra" fees or whatever... everything included =)) I'm 5'10, 23, in shape, very small waist and large hips - hourglass with a bit of a booty LOL. I have long platinum blonde hair, pretty face, always groomed nails and try to keep a tan on my lightly freckled body! 36DD-24-38, enhanced but told I'm very natural feeling (I was originally a full C) I'm very open-minded, happy and friendly! I enjoy playing as much as I do talking, cuddling and sipping sparkling wine! If things get really wild I tend to be submissive and let you drive. I guess we can't list specific things anymore, but I am open to most safe activities and willing to try a lot of things =) I have a lot of great reviews (Thank You <3 <3 <3) on here if you want to read them first. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=197925 http://lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5160 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=9828 PM me or email me [email protected] if you want to setup a date! =) <3 Kisses, Christina <3 xoxo VIDEO (Follow this link): http://tinypic.com/r/5y84s7/8
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1 pointThank you for all of your input on this topic I do appreciate it This individual is not a Lyla member This has been happening on another site And I do agree with not entertaining the situation and just laying low on it for now I am one for positive vibes and making positive connections and for us as women being there for each other and empowering each other especially in this industry
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1 pointI would suggest you take the high road and not discuss it (ie names etc) publically on Lyla. If you see a post on Lyla use the Report Abuse icon so Mod can deal with the post If on other boards, the site likely has a similar mechanism to report offensive posts. But giving public attention to the comments actually works counterproductively, it gives life to this person's trash talk Now if the talk falls in the realm of libel, contact a lawyer...but again, keep it between you, the lawyer and the writer of the libelous material. If obsessive writings, as in stalking, contact the police It can be frustrating but should be kept off the board Good Luck RG
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1 pointthank you for posting this it speaks to the point or one of them which I was trying to make in my "why aren't doctors supporting sex workers". Our sexual health is as important as our mental and physical health, they are intertwined and support one another. How anyone relates to and discusses these are important. As ch6radio states though in todays society there is still a fear in experiencing/discussing pleasure. Sex is still a taboo topic, so sad.
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1 pointAvailable @ Angel's Touch..... Tomorrow....Friday April 24th 2-11pm Saturday April 25th 12-11pm Be ready to live a real body to body exxxperience non rushed session sensual shower together fun strong massage amazing bodyslides reversed massage lingerie high heels my session with you is focused only on you.... not the clock I am here to tease you to please you and make you dream.... come true pm me or call 613-274-7073 xoxox a bientot j'espere
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1 pointI know I shouldn't speak for others but there are some who when hiring a companion seek a whole package. To them sometimes internal beauty is far more important and can makeup for what to some may be lacking externally. So to them they CAN find beauty in everyone and therefore, to them everyone is beautiful. So they are not being "fake" as you put it. It's also understandable by many of us who advertise that many looking are also in need of the external only, and that too is okay. But never sell anyone short. What I find funny sometimes is when those "external seeking" guys complain about someone they found physically hot to be a bitch to be with, lol. Again to each their own, but as someone who has never been into the physical, I get how some can see beauty in all, but that's just me. No offence to anyone but I think anyone who sees ugly is being ugly, look for beauty and you'll find beauty:)
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1 point@eagertoplease L-O-L I guess u just looked at the mirror :) So much H8H8H8 Take care mate :)
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1 pointI agree with ice4fun, I would stay and never know, she could win you over with her sweetness and skills. We are much more than just a body or a face, lot of times chemistry can be found just in the way she moves, talks, smells. Give her a try. If it is rally important to you to be attracted to the face then leave her the donation in full. Perhaps next time you book a lady for the first time, you can politely tell her that you really are attracted to a model type face and ask her if this would be her description. Such as clear skin, white teeth, make up on, if she says yes to this and you arrive and is on the opposite end of that description, then give her a cancelation fee and excuse yourself.
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1 pointUnless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk
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1 pointMy fave hetero position is stradling like a lapdance Like girl on top, but the guy sitting up like on a couch
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1 pointAhhh, the ?tipping? debate! I noticed there was a decided void in SP response so I will take a minute to share my thoughts? From an agency girl perspective, tipping is often a way to generate extra income because after they pay the agency and the driver, they usually end up on the short end of the stick. 10 years ago, I ran for an agency, we collected $260 for an hour, with $110 going to the house, $40-$100 to the driver depending on where the visit was located, which left me maximum of $110 with as little as $10 in my pocket. With a $15 book on fee and mandatory car cell phone fees of $25 per night, I needed 3 full fees per night to make working worthwhile, God forbid I get credit card calls, which somehow always worked out us getting nothing. We were not allowed to refuse a call so we had to find creative ways to ensure we were paid. Tipping for extra service was the only way to keep our heads above water. The nice thing was that we had a shift, we worked, and we went home and had a life. That said, it was unfair to the guest who would end up with less than what he expected because he was not prepared for the extra fees. Independents are in a slightly different boat. We usually have a higher upfront fee, but we also assume ALL the costs incurred, which is far more than many realize. If we charged what we feel we should to get our ROI, the protests would be heard long and loud. Many Indies have a smaller bottom line than an ambitious girl at a well run agency. So when it comes to tips, many things need to be considered. In the south, SP's are tipped much in the same manner as a restaurant. Anyone walking a restaurant wouldn?t consider walking out without leaving a tip if everything was satisfactory. I tip everyone in the service industry, from the girl who washes my hair, to the man at Suny?s who pumps my gas because a little bit from many adds up at the end of the day. Flowers and trinkets are lovely in thought, but a girl can?t deposit wilted stems into an RRSP, and my bank doesn?t seem to take dildos, massage oil, garter belts or silk stockings on deposit -go figure! As Joyful C has so wisely stated, most SP?s live a fragile existence financially. We provide an illusion of playful luxury for our guests benefit, but rest assured, 90% of the time it is smoke and mirrors. Behind the scenes we struggle to pay our bills, put diapers on our babies and try to take care of those we love, all the while working on a way to get to a normal existence if that does in fact even exist. An extra $20 from each client equals a full appointment by the end of the week, and at the end of the month that pays the cell phone, buys the groceries and lets us take the little ones away for the weekend after we have paid both rents (home and incall), all our advertising, babysitters, hydro, car repairs, personal maintenance and the same expenses everyone else has. Not to mention the monthly payments on augmentation, lifts, tucks and anything else to keep us up to the exceptionally high standards expected if we want to continue making money in this arena. There are few SP?s who can keep up the daily client service to ensure long term financial viability in this business because of the emotional and physical toll this business extracts which sometimes means extended time offs to get our heads, hearts and bodies back in order. We have no paid holidays, benefits or paid personal days. If there is a crisis that forces us to take time off, we lose money and clients which often means we work regardless of illness, pain or any other of lifes challenges. Each SP has her own reasons for working, but the universal element is that we all are trying to achieve some sort of financial stability. I never expect tips, and I can count on one hand how many I have received since my arrival in Canada because of the nature of the business here. Hate to tell you guys, but Canadian men are not known for their generous nature, they rank a close second to Germans in this realm (I think the outlandishly high taxes inflicted in both countries has something to do with it!). I would never expect a tip from guests that have me on retainer, I see them weekly. But unless you are going to be a bankable commodity in a SP?s life, a tip relative to the quality of service is a sure way to say thank you and have her know you mean it... Catherine
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