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Its true in any industry when you become successful you get haters. Jealousy is an awful thing and it exists quite bad in this business. As it has been said, best to ignore it, however from experience, I suggest you screen shot any and all stuff said against you, save all emails and if you need help tracking an IP, I'm an email away. As well I can put you in touch with a wonderful police officer who may be able to help you with this situation if it escalates. These people need to be dealt with, but the best way is to smile and focus on your business - god knows that drives them more crazy when they can't get to you. xoxo Emily

There's a new blonde at PM: Chasta. She's really hot, especially in the CR. Also there yesterday afternoon (Wednesday): Candy, Delicious, Chloe, Anika, Loanna, Ashley, and a few others.

What a heartbreaking loss tonight :( That goal by Tampa with 0.9 seconds to go in the third was a real killer! 3-0 Tampa... I'm hoping the Habs win 1 or 2 games (and save face) before starting their golf season... They are still my team though :) GO HABS GO!!

I have been increasingly concerned that the discussion in the massage section may lead to problems for the providers. Especially the places that do other salon services. Escorts control their phone and location. Massage parlors such as bw, to/eb, Nevada's all have specific licenses but when the place is catering to a whole other clientele for other services I really think we need to keep our conversation much more vague. Some providers are students and I really worry that too much publicity through this review board could have negative implications for them. We have been in my humble opinion too free to identify some locations Although we have to be members o be on here it is not difficult to join. Our identity is very protected but some providers of massage can be left exposed by these conversations I see a big difference in what we should discuss depending on how the provider advertises

Yes so true! Honestly the only person i would like to be in competition with is myself to become better mentally emotionally and physically than the person I was yesterday I have no desire to be like anyone else...we all as women have our on unique qualities and should embrace that It's sad to say but in this industry some women are very competitive and that's where the hostility comes from You may like me for my boobs but may like another lady for her behind...and you all have that right to spend time with the lady you choose....could be you ,connect more with one on a personal intimate level and with another on a sexual level

Just a quick comment, not directed at you Danielle, but mentioned because you pointed it out. There may be competition in this business. But ladies really aren't in competition with other ladies. There is someone for everyone as they say and the lady you are may attract some men, and other men may be attracted to another type of woman. And some men, due to the polyamorous nature of this lifestyle may be attracted to women in general. So all ladies just need to present themselves in a positive professional way. That way in part, they present themselves in a positive light and will continue to attract the clients that they normally would. I guess my point, awkwardly made LOL is any lady trash talking another lady isn't making herself more attractive to clients. All she does is make herself, at least to me, unattractive and someone not to see. So Danielle, keep handling yourself the way you are. The other lady is likely losing potential clients by her actions. Hope that rambling makes sense But in a lighter vein, but it is often true...and kind of applies here RG

Yes I can honestly say from all this negativity I have actually gained a few New friends so I have to say some positive has come out of it ...men do not like jealous women! It is not a good look If I feel some way towards someone I just will not bother with them and move past it...I would have entertained it and acted out last year but I am seriously trying to be on a different path in my life plus its draining and those types of people do not deserve my energy

We had a pretty good presence in the march, with a fair number of red umbrellas and signs. There are photos on our Facebook page https://www.facebook.com/WinnipegWG?fref=ts I think this may have been Winnipeg's first public demonstration for sex workers' rights, so I'm quite pleased.

What should you do when another companion obsesses over you and tries to slander you on line with lies or just trash talk? Ignore it or deal with it but in what way Just looking for opinions Very much appreciated

Whooha, that's a lot of pressure to put on one man alone. It's like asking him to play perfect games (shutouts) all the time and never let a goal in because his team can't score more than 1, maybe 2 goals, per games. Even "great" goalies are not perfect and let a goal in one in a while. 5-1 and 6-2? I don't think Price is the only one responsible for those. There is only so much he can do by himself without the support of his defense allies, especially when they are often playing one man down because of so many stupid penalties. Plus, you have to give credit to the other great players on the other team. I really think Price is a great goalie and without him, the Habs most likely wouldn't even had made the playoffs. I think he has stepped it up more than anyone else on his team. It takes a team effort to win... not a sole player alone.

Just realized it's been a year now since I got into this profession! Feels like it was yesterday, the year went by fast, and luckily it's been almost entirely positive experiences :) Posted via Mobile Device

Thankyou so much Emily ...I will send you a pm!

Good morning, Thank you for the warm hospitality and sunshine during my visit. Possibly i'll see you again in the future. xoxo Emily

While it's never over till its over it is not looking very hopeful for the HABS...unfortunately the people they needed to step up in the playoffs just haven't and while Price might be the best goalie in the league he can't win every game for you... Price has made them competitive but they need to put the puck into the net. While I hope they stage a miracle come back let's just say that I will not be betting any money on them. BTW GL... As a Toronto Fan I can certainly understand how you feel... I too would have liked my team to win one or two before heading off golfing lol.

I stopped by to see my regular RMT this afternoon - a lovely young woman I have known for almost fifteen years now. She, at thirty-seven, is due to have her first child (a girl) in a few weeks. She is lovely, as always, although a bit rounder than usual, lol, very well, and totally beautiful! A wonderful association with a certain ALO queen bee who is also very special to me ;) Life is so good! bellafan

You can report PMs in much the same way that you report posts. Perhaps it'd be worth doing so, and then maybe troublesome members can be warned off, and if they don't improve they might feel the gentle caress of Mod's Banhammer....

Not for the Lyla guys but really annoying.... Received a text message out of the blue from someone and that they can get me a lot of business. I guess they don't know who I am because they only see green when perusing the ads. They will take half the commission of course. No, I don't require a 'manager'. The universe is my manager. I don't need a human being to do this. I tell the universe what I want and it brings it. Actually it happens pretty quick now. Lol. As if! With years of experience in this business, I could be a 'manager' myself but that's not me. If someone wants to be an escort and wants someone to manage them the right way, hopefully they will look for a reputable agency. Get a clue and stop trying to ride off women's coattails and the money they make. Get your own damn job!

Just ask the SP you want to see not to put make up on! Some girls might not wear make up(or a lot of it) in their private lives but may put on a little more for sessions because they think that's what the guy wants. I'm sure if you request no make up that can easily be done! lol

I recently inquired about this -blocking certain members so I wouldn't receive PMs from them- and unfortunately, this function is not available. Even if they are on your ignore list, they can still send you a PM. "Member name is on your ignore list view message" will replace the subject title with their board handle under it. It would be nice if this function was available to prevent unwanted communication from reaching your PM inbox and not have to resort to Mod (if need be) to deal with some of the less than pleasant PMs.

Conservatives gone in Alberta! Yes!! A historic day!

NortherOntGuy's advice is probably wise but more and more I am starting to think we should be challenging the bullies who hide in the shadows and make peoples lives unbearable ... they do it because they can get away with it. Just my Opinion

Gents (and Ladies) Here's another newbie question but probably everyone is interested to see what you think on this topic. Obviously all of us are aware of the notion of tipping for great service received, however tipping often has customary practices that are unique to the surrounding circumstances. What are the 'best practices' re: tipping in the SP space? For example... - always tip except in the face of worse possible service (like tipping in a restaurant) - only tip if the service was 'blow you away' good (Not a BJ pun!) - never tip because the donations are "all inclusive" (this would seem unlikely to me) And lastly, is tipping generally percentage based (like a waiter or a cab) or a fixed amount based, or whatever you think it was worth based? Sorry to bring up money when so many more fun topics are at hand, but these Ladies deserve Best Practice and personally, I definitely do not want to miss the mark on this important point. Thanks in advance for all of your thoughts.

This week is Mental Health Awareness Week in Canada and I have come to understand as I have gotten older that Mental Health Challenges are going to impact all of us at some point in our life yet we are often unwilling to seek the help we may need.... afraid of the stigma of being seen as needing mental help. A number of years ago I experienced a significant loss in my life that I still deal with every day and struggle with every day. I have started to talk more openly about my challenges but yet still have not really sought professional help in dealing with the grief I feel. I have not gotten the help for a few reasons.... 1. I truly feel that this burden I carry is rightfully mine for not doing more for the loved one I lost ... I know that is stupid but it is how I feel. 2. I was raised in an environment where men were the strong ones.... they provided help... they supported other in need they bottled up their feelings and looked after others.... so it is a sign of weakness to not be able to cope with what life throws your way 3. A lot of who you are is how you are seen in the community and in your workplace and in your social circles and while by no means a high profile person I have a very good senior' management position... I am active in my community on several charities and boards and amongst my social friends I have always been the person they come to for advice and frankly I am somewhat afraid of how all of that would change if they knew of my daily struggles. So why am I even posting this... well like I said I am trying to talk more about it and strange as it seems the fact that I am just Ice4fun here makes it somewhat easier. I am also posting this because I think we all have a responsibility to look among our friends for signs that they are struggling and give them our support to seek help. Of course as I know only too well it is often way easier to give advice then take it yourself. I hope Mental Health Awareness week allows you to give some thought to this issue. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-05-04/article-4134588/Mental-Health-Week-gets-underway/1

Watching hockey talking to Lexy and eating hot lips

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A very highly regarded board member returns! :)

Walking by the ocean and enjoying the warm weather and waterfront....

The pros in the game are well aware of the risks and by and large are the most discrete. The best example of lack of discretion for me are those who for whatever reason seek out legit RMT's and then look for or hope for a little extra and then talk about it on these boards. Stupid is as stupid does. Peace MG

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Let's just say a lady and a donkey become good friends....

I think we should not list the actual name and street Maybe direction to the advertisement would be ok

You know, there is really something wonderful about being who you are, and enjoying that, for both women and men! Fantasy is beautiful, and so is reality! I love being who I am and I love women who love being who they are, and who love to have some fun with fantasy, as I do ;) bellafan

Interesting topic. I've never worn the school girl outfit because I'm in my thirties and even though I have somewhat of a younger look, I wouldn't feel comfortable and no one has ever requested it anyways. I did a have a cop uniform at one point. My escort friend I work with always laughs when I walk in the door with an authoritative looking bun in my hair and the aviator sunglasses. I'm told I look like a cop. Lol. The naughty maid outfit was a hit as well until someone actually stole the outfit. It had no back to it just a little pick apron you could tie up. Sexy librarian was another good age appropriate attire. That's just me. I just couldn't picture myself in the school girl uniform. Posted via Mobile Device

Certainly pictures are a big addition but I can access the full browser version of Lyla on my phone as well and access it the same as on computer but for me the presentation and ease of access on tapatalk is greatly enhanced but others might feel different. Tapatalk is a free download.. give it a whirl I think you will also appreciate it. Just my Opinion

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I agree:) when and if I receive "tasteless" pm's from those who are on my ignore list I simply ignore them, they aren't read and are deleted promptly. That's a simple solution:) Those who you ignore however you couldn't or shouldn't want to comment to either;)

I fully agree with the post by JohnyBird, well said!

Ya the ignore list only means YOU cant see them, not the other way around:( I tried it and turns out it only block me from seeing their posts, but they can see mine ( profile too) Sadly we did have this option but people were abusing it.

The sun is out - makes today all that much more bearable :)

Here's the link of a story I just came across. It's sad but at the same time beautiful and I think explains the struggle of mental disorders very well.

I just recently sort of went through this myself. But I was not targeted on line. Instead, heard some far fetched claims and lies that came from someone. Thing is this person has also 2 others on their list, spreading lies about each one to who ever wants to believe them. In my case, I just cut off all communications. Like Nicolette says, starve them. And if people want to listen to the lies and believe them, well sucks for them because they will miss out on knowing the truth and probably become a victim as well. Cream rises to the top as they say. And they will eventually be proved wrong in their slander, if indeed you are not these things they say. Stay steadfast in your truths, and don't let others weaken your spirit. Don't read what they post, don't fight back just focus on your own day to day life. They will run themselves into the ground eventually.

I absolutely agree and that is exactly what I have been doing and staying positive Misery does like company and I have totally reached that point in my life where I want nothing to do with it Just sad that we have to go through so much when all we want to do is provide some happiness into someone's life

Take the high road and ignore them. Karma will come around and bite them in the ass!!!

Being new to seeing escorts after a long abstinence from sexual activities due to circumstances that are beyond my control I agree whole heartedly. My mental state of mind has changed and I feel my Vitality once again. SW provide a service that is a required need.

Why bother if she doesnt pass tin eye? Dont take any chances. as far as blonds with large breasts and small waists, Have you seen CristyCurves or Christina4U (shes in town till the 20th). many of us on this site can vounche that they match their pics and that they are true professionals.

I know I shouldn't speak for others but there are some who when hiring a companion seek a whole package. To them sometimes internal beauty is far more important and can makeup for what to some may be lacking externally. So to them they CAN find beauty in everyone and therefore, to them everyone is beautiful. So they are not being "fake" as you put it. It's also understandable by many of us who advertise that many looking are also in need of the external only, and that too is okay. But never sell anyone short. What I find funny sometimes is when those "external seeking" guys complain about someone they found physically hot to be a bitch to be with, lol. Again to each their own, but as someone who has never been into the physical, I get how some can see beauty in all, but that's just me. No offence to anyone but I think anyone who sees ugly is being ugly, look for beauty and you'll find beauty:)

My friendly suggestion here, mate...is to look at urself in the mirror and ask urself "gee, I wonder how many of these ladies see my face and think the same towards me" All of the ladies on here are beautiful and be thankful for their services :) Have a great weekend yall :)

Unless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk