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Instead of asking cerb why not go see a doctor and get a diagnosis instead of speculating? :) Could be anything from yeast, fungal, bacterial, or etc...

I've been following this case closely for years and just last night had a discussion about it with a constitutional lawyer with some great insight into the dynamics of US military motives, children soldiers and human rights. Trained soldier or not, his age is a key factor in deciding whether or not he is a danger to society. I've never met a 15 year old who had the mature awareness of insight regarding potential outcomes from an action taken. In his situation, I can't imagine what I would have done, a grenade may have seemed appropriate to ensure my survival if I had already learned how to use one. At 15, we process our situations mentally/emotionally very differently. Watching this young mans release, seeing his face after 10 years with a bag over his head (literally) showed me he "did" the time, the time didn't "do" him. He needs time to acclimate, heal and adjust. I feel he is entitled to enter society and screw it up or not, the right we all share as Canadians. As for the dichotomy of Harpers Captain Save a Ho legislation, it was the only option to keep the religious right somewhat appeased. He cares not for sex workers safety or quality of life and that position is mirrored for all citizens who don't fall into the Cons narrow guidelines of an upstanding citizen. There is no logic to it. Cat

That just makes him a trained soldier. It doesn't make him a terrorist. The worst accusation that I've seen aimed at Omar Khadr is that he killed an enemy soldier on a battlefield. That's not a crime; it's what happens during wars. To return to the original point... The problem is that you're looking for the consistent world-view. There isn't any; what matters is what's politically expedient. In Omar Khadr's case, it's trying to demonize him and scare everyone into permitting more power for the government to "keep us safe" (have a look at the abomination that is C-51 and has just passed the Commons). In the case of sex workers it's the expediency of throwing a bone to the base on an issue that a lot of voters won't remember and punish them for at the ballot-box. Sad, but there it is...

You don't shower daily!!!...????? You ever think maybe ummm.....sweat You know, that section where your arms meet your upper torso...aka armpits.....they develop a smell too if not washed daily Now if you properly wash daily and have good hygiene practices and it still happens then see a doctor Smelling your fingers after shoving them down there, sometimes some people have just way too much information to "share" RG

TMI man! TMI! You probably have yeast infection or even smega. Look it up and don`t book with anyone until it`s cleared up. Go see a doctor and maybe get some monistat at the pharmacy while you`re at it to stop the itching. Now you know what we ladies have to deal with at times. I feel like I want to puke now.

It can probably be cleared up with paint thinner or oven cleaner. I doubt it a big deal otherwise it would smell like stale beer or bread. Now that the warmer weather is here it will probably just go away on its own anyway. I really doubt the increase in temperature and sweating will exasperate it either. If you find that you can't stop sticking your finger down there maybe get a pair of hip waders and seal them at the waist with duct tape. Avoid the medical profession like the plague. Although if you have the plague already just go see a doctor because you didn't avoid the plague so you won't lose style points. Good luck and switch fingers often.

The term open-minded plays into the fantasy that advertisers using it are more experienced and therefore more comfortable offering a wider variety of options and activities, from couples, to accommodating fetishes, etc. This is not necessarily true, however, at minimum it should mean that any topic of concern, any desire one might like to explore, can be broached with the provider in a tolerant and understanding environment, without being judged for having that particular bent. Far more than not, I believe that to be the case. Beyond that, the term is used too widely to be useful as a predictor of outcomes, the correlation may be fairly non-germane. What matters today, as before, is still communication, communication, and communication. What it definitely does NOT mean is that personal safety boundaries can be negotiated away with someone that claims to have an attitude more "open to suggestion". Dangerous or undesirable activities can still be discussed without judgment, but it is still at the discretion of the provider whether a particular activity will be permitted. A segment of the client population will always try to get maximum mileage and I don't purport to be able to change their behaviour or to speak for anyone else. If you do the proper research, as has been outlined in many forums on this board, and look for a provider that appeals to you by looks, body type, style of advertising (or whatever factors it is for you), and you get that initial chemistry on contact , then you're likely to have a very satisfying experience, regardless of any specific terms used. Just my nickle's worth.

Geez lol Are you trying to win the best award for the most discussing sarcastic advice given in this thread? lol If so, hats off to you! You've done a mighty fine job at turning my stomach!

This is a joke right???? I don't mean to be rude but its the last part about the fingers and smelling it Ill be honest I LOL'ed. If not, Hunny this is definitely a case of TMI!!!

Also, as with any unknown condition, please do not book with any provider until a diagnosis has been made and it is cleared up.

The site is designed to send traffic to Adult Friend Finder a site known for using other peoples images for false profiles. Ladies contacting escortbusts.com to have their images removed will find the process difficult and challenging, most give up, in the end they will attempt to extort a fee from you to have your image removed. I would think that most gentlemen would be smart enough to see through this set up.

I'm kind of curious if the the OP is being serious here because he has other posts on other threads that indicate he has some health issues and may or may not be on medications. Bottom line though is that your body has some pretty sophisticated chemistry. Throw that out of whack and it does strange stuff like break out with rashes and smell bad. It's pretty much common sense and if you are involved in this lifestyle you need to pay extra attention to those kinds of things. Generally if your finger can't pass the sniff test you need to get some professional advice. But I kind of thought we all knew that already?

Being open minded is something I will always be. If someone introduces something new to me, I can't flat out say no. If I haven't tried it or experienced it I can't find myself saying no to something. Just because someone asks about something I've never tried, I would be 100% open to it. I might do a bit of research and ask questions so I know what it is all about. Only time I say no to something is if I've tried or experienced it and I didn't enjoy it, I usually give a brief explanation to the person so they understand why. Being asked to be honest about things in this field of work I am comfortable doing. Better to be informed and straight than not and run into communication issues down the road with clients.

Do not send me a message asking me to negotiate my rate because there is not enough sufficient funds for hobbying. It`s not my problem! This is very insulting and makes me disinterested very quickly. Seeing me is not a service that is a necessity so don`t try to bargain with me like I`m a commodity!

Oy, isn't that just a little like giving yourself a Dirty Sanchez?

Landing a seat next to a real hottie on the train today....its like I won the lotto :) as I always get stuck next to the most annoying people

Reading/replying to emails, surfing/posting on Lyla, and smelled my computer, its clean (private joke) RG

MsManda is in Alberta at this very moment...look up her Schedule http://msmanda.com/calendar/ Beautiful, smart and fun :) Bianca :)

Use reputable independents and spas and you shouldn't have any trouble. The police have enough trouble keeping up with their real targets, the underage, the pimped, and the illegals.

Well they're not all 'friends' - two of the three simply thanked Nutbust for visiting their profile: basically another of the many 'non-participants' among the membership who don't visit enough to find the answers to their own questions. Back on track: All the cerb/lyla ladies are fun and welcome respectful mutual touching and appreciation.

In my opinion, you're over thinking it. Go to a reputable spa, that has been reccomended on this board by many people. Relax and enjoy! Last word advice, be discrete until in private room setting. Cheers

By deciding to participate in this industry I think we all have to be aware that there is some Risk associated with most of the activities. Is that risk high or low well from my perspective that all comes down to an individuals risk tolerance levels ... if you have a low tolerance for risk than you may need to be very careful with your involvement in this industry. If you have a more realistic tolerance for some risk and you ensure that you take appropriate precautions such as ensuring you only visit reputable providers and that you restrict your conversations during booking to discussions of time and companionship then the risks are in my opinion extremely manageable. Risk in this industry comes in many many forms ... of course there is the risk of arrest if you are engaging in activities currently considered illegal but there is also other inherent risks for example if you are married and your spouse is not aware of your activities there is the risk of this discovery and its impacts on you and your family... there is the risks associated with colleagues and friends becoming aware of your activities in a world where while acceptance is increasing you will still most likely be seen as a pervert. Of course the ladies who provide the services must manage all kinds of risks including physical danger. In your particular case you refer to your love of Massage but your concern with the risks related to LE... Well from my perspective if you are visiting a well established reputable Massage establishment and you conduct yourself appropriately then the risk is very very very very low. As I mentioned earlier of course when booking the visit you should not discuss any activities that could be considered communication related to the purchasing of sexual services ... discussions regarding the level of massage services the lady provides should be done in the privacy of the room with just the lady. Just my Opinion

No, well at least at a "licensed" spa... HOWEVER, unless there are elements of human trafficking, the LE tend to leave them alone. OR there has been a specific complaint made... Heck I've don't recall any Indies being bothered either. I've been going to spas for OVER 15 years fairly regularly (and throughout the city) and have yet to even think that LE had any interest in me. LOL You're safe... go enjoy the GREAT ladies of our City's Spas!!!

I guess I'll go against the grain here. I'm not trying to offend anyone here, but... It sickens me that our government released a convicted terrorist. He was not a child when he killed Sgt. Christopher Speers, if I recall correctly, at the time he threw the grenade he was 3 months shy from being able to serve as a full time soldier in the Canadian Forces. During WW1 and WW2 there were many teens who lied to sign up and serve and fight in the wars. On all sides. If he was perhaps 12 or younger I can understand where you all are coming from. As he was almost 16, you're easily able to decide your actions. Look at the worlds history, there have been some brutal murders by minors. Do these individuals deserve to be free? As someone with experience, it takes training to be able to effectively throw a grenade. I can guarantee you that if you've never touched a grenade you would not be able to successfully arm it. Especially in a situation as hectic as combat. This tells me that he put in the effort to learn how to kill, this tells me that h rehearsed these drills over and over until it became second nature. Now, saying that. I'm not saying that what happened to him at Gitmo was ok. Before anyone accuses me of being a Harper lackey, I do not support Harper and his bullshit. If anything I went from someone who voted Conservative to someone who is tired of seeing his freedom and basic rights being slowly taken away. The bill that deals with sex workers is absolute garbage. C-51 is way to broad and it gives the government far too much space to be sketchy. Ontario is voting this month to ban the sale of flavoured Tobacco....basic things an adult should be able to choose if they want to do or not. Additional Comments: I just want to say that despite my feelings on this topic. I do truly appreciate the opinions people have on this. Most people I've spoken to have no clue who he is or what the situation around him was like.

Here's an interesting discussion on the subject... What does "Open Minded" mean to you

Why not just ask "Who does things that can get themselves fired from an Agency or get a visit from LE?" Your motives are suspect.

Just because the ladies didn't have the proper visas doesn't necessarily mean they were trafficked or being forced to work. It stands to reason that they were just working illegally like they might in any other profession. Hopefully they give follow up information

Stephen Harper and Peter MacKay are an embarrassment to humanity. They can't imagine being a 13 yo boy growing up in the circumstances he did and at 15 having his family under attack from US soldiers. I'm sure I know many 15 yo's who would have responded in exactly the same way. The parallel between our government's approach to sex workers and to Omar Khadr are truly terrifying.

Summer is here (we basically skipped Spring) and I enjoy sitting down with some ice-cream on a hot day (I eat ice-cream all year round), so what is your go to ice-cream flavour to have on a hot day or any given day? I love Mint Chocolate Ice-cream, I think this flavour beats all other flavours I've had out there. Some other flavours that I enjoy in the summer and only in the summer are: Bubble gum Cotton Candy other fruity ones What are your favorite Ice-cream flavours to have in the summer to beat the heat?

I'm interested but can't find any info help would be greatly appericaited, if you have any info on her good or bad please let me know. Thanks: Blitz http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sensualseductivehighly-addictive-molly/2148683 Additional Comments: So I did so more digging around and she passed the google image and tin eye search, she was posting in March and early April under the name Naomi but I've know girls to change their names before. If you have any info on her please share. Regards: Blitz

I'm not sure if this has been discussed before, but a lot of people will ask an SP if they are 'open minded', and a majority seem to think that the meaning is that she will do basically anything and everything. Most of the times for the girls I know in this business and myself, when the first question asked 'are you open minded?' that usually leads to a list of graphic questions....Not always, but most of the time :P This is the actual definition on google "open-minded" [oh-puh n-mahyn-did] Spell Syllables Examples Word Origin adjective 1. having or showing a mind receptive to new ideas or arguments. 2. unprejudiced; unbigoted; impartial. So to the ladies and gents on here, what is the definition for having an open mind in this industry? Would love to hear your feedback :D Also, I would like to add that being asked for a 'menu' is a huge turn off! I'm not a restaurant and everyone is different! I always go with the flow and everything should happen naturally :D xoxoxo

Ottawa police say 11 women will be deported after a human trafficking investigation into commercial massage parlours and body rub facilities. Police say they investigated 20 locations from April 27 to 29 resulting in 11 bylaw charges for improper licensing. Canada Border Services Agency also detained 11 women for immigration-related matters who appeared for admissibility and detention hearings last week. Removal orders were then issued for each woman. All 11 were found to be working without a valid work permit, police said. No criminal charges were laid but police said the border services investigation continues, which could spark more charges. Ottawa police also said additional investigations were launched after the three-day bust. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa...ions-1.3067083

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God. That should be the Frist place to go DOCTORS. Any time I don't feel right about anything I go and make a appointment to see my doctor. Not ask strangers darling. We are not doctors and bet most of us wish we were. But the best place to go and find out what it is, is your doctor Hun.

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Happy Mothers day as well to all the mom's of fur babies, though some may not understand, many of us love our pets as dearly as those who have children, love their children. Happy Mothers day to all :)

I'm glad you started this thread Mirella. I always thought that if someone said they were open minded it meant that it did not matter if you were a man, woman or couple, straight or bi, as long as everything was discussed before hand. You are not here to judge and are willing to partake into some activities that might interest you. Funny how we all see it in a different view. Can't wait to see what everyone else will reply.

In fact a member since 2011 with friends including Chantal, Katrina and TaylorDevine and you are asking about this? What gives?

Ladies, start watermarking your pictures. If they steal your pictures that are yours and are watermarked, it will be easier to have them taken off the site. Find their hosting provider and email them with abuse in the subject line. They will steal them off BP and other sites. There are also online companies who specifically deal with this sort of thing to have your pictures removed from these types of site for a fee. To watermark your pictures, just google "free watermarking sites".

It is a scam site. All the numbers are just collected from online ads, no legal connection at all. They make money by selling memberships to their private review board. They claim they can connect you to "safe" providers. Hope nobody here gets swindled and gives up their cc info!!!!

Religious fanaticism is the root of the Harper government's stance on many things. They try to hide it, but often can't. Sex workers need to "be healed"! And I guess some others of us need to be beaten, and then "healed" or something, that Stephen Harper, in his infinite wisdom, might decide. Maybe that's why Harper ties in with the American extreme right that celebrates police and military strutting around as though they are the centre of the universe. Great! Religious war, something everyone needs more of :( God help us! That's just my point of view as a Canadian trying to live in freedom and peace.

After one severely screwy week, received an email that made everything better and left me smiling BIG time!!

Its true in any industry when you become successful you get haters. Jealousy is an awful thing and it exists quite bad in this business. As it has been said, best to ignore it, however from experience, I suggest you screen shot any and all stuff said against you, save all emails and if you need help tracking an IP, I'm an email away. As well I can put you in touch with a wonderful police officer who may be able to help you with this situation if it escalates. These people need to be dealt with, but the best way is to smile and focus on your business - god knows that drives them more crazy when they can't get to you. xoxo Emily

:( You wonderful ladies have nothing to be self conscious about. It's just men being boys. Truth is you can have any one of us begging at your feet while having us babbling incoherently. You are all beautiful <3 .

From CBC Radio "The Current" http://www.cbc.ca/radio/thecurrent/the-current-for-april-2-2015-1.3018995/brenda-cossman-sex-workers-given-lower-bar-when-it-comes-to-consent-1.3019150 The 7:30 audio piece link is on the left hand side, below the picture.

Many thanks to my curl twin Alexandria ;) and Loneskater. It was fun catching up with old friends and beautiful ladies. I had the pleasure of meeting 3 nice gentlemen at the bar...I'm sure you will recognize yourselves...thank you for the great conversation :) Bianca xxx

If some one doesn't want to see me any more...... shrug If I don't want to see some one any more ...... shrug. No need to make anything or everything complicated. Peace MG

Your very right, the ending of ANY relationship is never easy, however in this lifestyle if boundaries are not crossed and lines not blurred, the split should be simple and easy. It is a break up of a business relationship or transaction NOT a marriage and should not be confused with one. This is a business relationship or business transaction, lines only get blurred when one refuses to respect what the other person in the relationship is saying. At the end of the day, the friendship you think may be there is blurred by money. And unless your spending mutually agreed upon time off the clock, the friendship one thinks they had really does not exist. Call it whatever you want, but one does not pay someone to be there friend. The only people who ever feel resentment when a relationship ends are the ones who refused to respect the rules and chose to treat it as a "I paid for it so I own it" situation. Fact of the matter is NO ONE owns anyone and money was for time and companionship, not the persons physical being. If a lady cut you off and does not want anything to do with you anymore, one needs to have a good hard look at themselves and think about their behaviour, and how they have handled things for it to turn out this way. As a client you are free to end the business relationship anytime, and we say nothing....yet when the situation is reversed why is it we get so much grief? I think its time to man up and take responsibility for ones actions