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As has been said, there are always risks involved. So it is up to each individual as to whether or not you wish to engage in covered oral or not. Those choices come with risks and so long as you are willing to accept those risks, then so be it. Herpes 1 and Herpes 2 are literally identical viruses. The only difference is in where they live. Type 1 lives at the base of the ear (which is why it shows up on the lip, nose, etc). Type 2 lives at the base of the spine (hence genitals being where they show up!). The only other "difference" is the stigma attached. There is always a stigma attached to type 2, because of its transmission and where it shows up. As has been mentioned, the risk of transmission is very low if using protection, and while asymptomatic. (Do your research and know what symptomatic herpes, type 1 OR 2 looks like, and don't meet an SP - or alternatively book a client, IF symptomatic!). However, while the risk is low, there is the slight chance that while asymptomatic and using protection, be it oral or FS, that herpes can be contracted. VERY rare, but possible. Another point of note... Testing for this is done via blood work, and all they tell you is if you were "responsive" to type 1 or 2, or both. This doesn't mean you have an active infection right now. It could mean you had a breakout 10 years ago. So it's not overly helpful. But if you are responsive, you could have an outbreak at any time. Triggers vary from person to person. Wow I sound like an encyclopedia (the use of that word also dates me lol). But I've done my research and I always ask sexual health nurses a LOT of questions. I'd rather go into making a decision based on risk when armed with a LOT of info!!!!

Eastern Canada is also very happy! We had fantastic weather for the long weekend :) I took full advantage of it to continue all the yard work and flowers gardens I started over the last few weeks. Time for a nice cold shower, a glass of wine and salmon on the BBQ!

Actually sex isn't for the faint of heart if you get right down to it How does a married person really know if his/her spouse is faithful What do you know about that woman in the bar. What does she know about the guy she is about to see What do people know about the ladies/gentlemen they are meeting on dating sites and I could go on The only 100 percent absolute safe sex is celibacy, ok well masturbation. But that comes with health risks too...loneliness. RG

2 out of 3 days of this long weekend were sunny and really warm here in NL! I was out in a tshirt and capris! Yay!!!

The Weather has to my hi light also, four nice days in a row, so happy I now have all my yard work done, hopefully this is only the beginning after the tough winter we had.

A shopping spree with my son for is graduation...suit, shirt, a bow and shoes...soooo handsome :)

Similar to Miss Lane's joy - I was wearing shorts for the first time this weekend here on the Fundy coast of NB

I'm also looking to buy a new BBQ! I've been looking around and doing my research for the last 2 weeks. I'll be getting one by the end of this week. That and a new bicycle so I can enjoy the beautiful bike paths all over the city :)

Anything one puts on the internet, is in open waters. Once you put it out there, it is usually out there forever. Unless your material was copyrighted and watermarked then reproduced for someones own benefit (which it was not) I don't see what the issue is. Ladies copy ads and titles from here and use them on other sites, and nothing is ever done about it as it was not done on here. One should be careful what they write about others on their own blog if they don't want it to come back to haunt them - that or stand behind what one writes as Slander is not accepted - neither is creating drama. Don't write or publish anything your not willing to accept the consequences for.

This is something that I think is very important in this industry. Just as much as it is in private relationships. The problem in a lot of cases, imo, is that there are many people out there who think just because you have your clothes off, that means you are consenting to whatever they had planned. Because we no longer discuss things before hand, we now have to wait until behind closed doors. And often, things start getting going a little too fast. Now, I realize that guys are paying for time and some feel it is costing them dearly to "talk" but honestly, 2-3 minutes of chit chat to understand what the limits are is not all that inconvenient and could honestly make the whole encounter that much more enjoyable when one stops to think about. Don't get me wrong, I'm as excited as any when meeting a lovely lady and she is "enthusiastic", to say the least. But sometimes, I really want a little tamer encounter just because that's the mood I'm in. Maybe I just don't want to go through with the whole thing either. Day to day stresses have got me somewhat unable to feel amorous and maybe I just want to lay there and cuddle and talk. After all, I pre-booked the time, possibly sent a deposit and don't want to be one of those "last minute cancelled" guys. I also think there are days when an SP has had a not so good encounter or a rough time due to outside forces and maybe things get a little overwhelming. She does her best to put on a brave, happy face and give me, her client, the best service possible. I appreciate that very much but if she really doesn't want to, I would like to think I am man enough to accept her desire not to continue. The notion of "I paid so I get everything I want." is something I don't care for. It is immature and vulgar. Most men wouldn't do it with their wife or girlfriend so why would they think it is okay with one of these women? Maybe I won't be the most popular with this POV but women in this industry deserve the same considerations that every other woman expects in our society. We shouldn't lose sight of that just because of the transaction involved.

Indeed.. hockey is Canada's game!! 2014 Sochi - Men and Women gold 2015 Juniors - Gold 2015 IIHF - Gold Canada owns hockey gold in the most recent Olympics, the World Juniors and the IIHF, all at the same time... a Canadian first.. CM

Everyone is different. I spoke to a sexual health nurse and asked the same question about giving oral without protection. No matter what there's always going to be risks involved but getting anything from unprotected oral is low. However, it's higher if a man and man were to have intercourse and contracted something, then chances can be higher for HIV or herpes. From my understanding, and please correct me if I am wrong. It's easier to contract something with unprotected sex than unprotected oral sex. No matter there is still a risk for getting something no matter how safe someone can be. This might be of help, I know it is back dated but it has stats, not recent. Something more recent but still back dated, go here. Here is a few others where you can find more information, some of it is updated. That is why it's important to get regular check ups, not just us the escorts, but the men who also see the escorts. It only protects everyone. Better to know than not know and give something to someone.

I see that Atlantic Canadians are are all happy. :) Same here on PEI.

Spending the long weekend with Carrie Moon :)

I woke up today ....the sun is shineing and im feeling great(give thanks) Additional Comments: Luckyme....see now we are both feeling great today lol Xo

oral to genital transmission of herpes is pretty common - up to 50% of new genital herpes infections are type 1, which is typically known as oral herpes. oral infections of type 2 herpes is quite rare without genital infection of type 2, in the limited research that's been done on this. The risk of transmission per sex act is quite low when infected parties are asymptomatic, so I wouldn't be overly concerned about transmission, but I would personally opt to use barriers for oral sex for this among many reasons. Most people who have herpes are asymptomatic, and asymptomatic testing for herpes is not recommended (and not very useful), so many, if not most, people who are infected don't know. However, herpes can be transmitted asymptomatically.

As a joke and sister thread to "What was the last thing your purchased?" I thought it would be funny to start this new thread ;-) Thinking about purchasing something? Need some feedback, point of view, review, or tips before going ahead with the purchase? Let's just ask other members what they think about it! So here is the next thing I am thinking of purchasing: a razor scooter with two boards instead of one. It seems to be a very good exercise for your whole body. I am looking for something fun as a new exercise. Anyone has ever tried one of those??? https://www.trikke.com/product/t7-fitness/

I have been reading the discussions on this forum for a while, and finally decided to post one myself. I want to tell that fell in love with the new Russian Girl. Her name is Aphrodite. She has long blonde hair, beautiful big blue eyes, and the most sensual beautiful full lips! She recently started working at Paradise Spa in Ottawa. It is her part-time work, and she is actually a student and goes to University; I am not sure if she will be happy if she ever sees that I posted about her here, as I noticed that she doesn't advertise herself much in this industry, but I just couldn't resist to write about her! I think I fell in love! She is so gentle and feminine! She has very nice body, and her breasts are full and natural. Unlike most other girls I've had experience with, she is quiet and humble, but that is a good thing for me, as she lets you relax and enjoy yourself! But if you talk to her, she is so intelligent and so polite! For me, she stood out from all the rest of my experiences so much! I would marry this girl. I hope everything works great for her, and that she gets treated well and respectfully by other guys at her spa! For me, she is a true gem

Yup, great weekend weather in Ottawa, absolutely beautiful!

A new pair of Calvin Klein underwear, the colour is a surprise, hope to be able to model them this week!!!

lol Herelookin' you need to learn how to view the Paradise/Angel's website! Here's a link that will get you there! http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/aphrodites-profile/ Cheers

New lawn furniture with a hammock and possibly new BBQ

A train ticket :)

Darling Cristy, yes there is a HUGE difference here - all my intellectual property is solely mine, watermarked, copyrighted and DMCA protected, so yes if another wishes to reproduce my work - there is an ISSUE and one I won't take lightly (and neither will others) Someone linking your blog into a thread is not harming your intellectual property in anyway and its no different than someone linking a news article in a thread. Had you copyrighted and protected your material, then you might have a case about your material being posted.

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Shouldn't the same then hold true about posting derogatory blogs about someone else. People living in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. No one stole your "thoughts" why in god would they. A link to your blog was all that was posted. But no one passed it off as their writing, it clearly is yours. Yes, I know what you wrote. RG

I would like to answer these questions in the context of "second article". As it says "they want a piece of your soul' - exactly right, many of us, clients, pay for the illusion of having a small piece of soul, not just sex. And "Maybe 20% of the time I truly hate the sex,... and the other 60% is tolerating it" - to be honest, I probably prefer to know and pay for NOT being with that woman. This is the case when I want to use my consent for no. Very personal opinion of course.

The "helpful replies" amounted to "go spend your money on a lady you may not have an attraction to", or words to that effect. When somebody tells me "You can never go wrong with ABC Company", I tend to take them with a HUGE grain of salt; I have been burned too many times in the past. What is wrong with wanting to see an accurate, tasteful, visual representation of the ladies on shift? If I would take your advice and "just go", and I find that none of the ladies there are to my own, personal taste; I would now have wasted my time and, perhaps, my money, as well as increasing my frustration at both the ABC Company and the people of this board whose advice I have taken. Again, why is this such a difficult concept to understand?

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Final 6 to 1 Canada... totally dominated the Russians... excellent tournament for Canada.

And now 5-0 Canada. Glad to see Ovetchkin and Malkin getting their asses handed to them. Edit 6-0. Officially a wipeout.

Today I'm cheering and will be watching of course ....Team Canada VS Russia in the Gold Medal game! Go Canada!

Sweet girl. Attentive and Eagar to please. The girl had alot of energy. Didn't look at the clock. Had a great time.

A beautiful beautiful beautiful day and I went fishing after supper. I have trout for breakfast. :)

Firstly...I dont see any harshness here. However the OP has 3 posts, and one of the other ones questions the cleanliness at ALO??? Now it's the website... So 2 post out of 3 are imho a bit passive/aggressive criticisms of a place he has never been and seems to singling out one spa vs the rest. ALO is great, and if he wants to go there he should, and will , more than likely, enjoy himself there just as much as he would at the others.

That face pic is 10-12 years old. Addictions have aged her quickly. She's been working that long.

When guys ask if your pictures are really yours and that they need to confirm it's really you. Now I get you guys want to be careful and such, but first if you had actually read my website, that shouldn't be a question that needed to be asked. But second, and here's the big one..what kind of answer do these men expect to get? If a women really is using fake pictures, do you expect her to own up to it? "Oh yes sir, you caught me! Those pictures aren't really me, but you should come see me anyways!" No, I'm pretty sure you're going to get a "yes" no matter whether they're real or not, so your question seems a little useless in the end. Posted via Mobile Device

I remember when Cleo was managing and it was equally well run. Happy to see girls looking after girls.

Alexandria is not only a first-rate spa manager, she is one of the best MAs I have ever met. She made me feel comfortable instantly and her attitude was top-notch when I was with her.

I see a lot of talk around the idea of "enthusiastic consent" (see here for an example: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2013/03/enthusiastic-consent/) but while the intent is good, it doesn't actually work in the context of this industry. This post explains what I'm thinking better than I could: http://titsandsass.com/getting-away-with-hating-it-consent-in-the-context-of-sex-work/ Food for thought.

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Consent should very much be a part of this industry, as it should be a part of everyday life as well. Not just for the women(though this is important since we should never feel obliged to do things we aren't comfortable with just because money is involved) but for the men and everyone else too! It is always good to check in with whomever you are playing with to make sure they are okay with everything, and even if that sounds like a mood killer, it really isn't! I've found myself lately always asking in a flirty and playful manner if it's okay before I start any kind of sexual activity with them, since in the past I've had a few men mention that there was something that I had done(like oral or kissing) that they didn't want or weren't comfortable with, but didn't know how to say it, and I just assumed it was okay. Never assume anything is okay without verbal consent! Everyone has the right to back out of any sort of sexual activities if they aren't comfortable continuing, whether they were paid or not, though it is trickier in this business since of the money exchanged and services agreed upon, so it's hard to say whether payment should be negotiated, since it would entirely depend on each individual situation, and can really only be decided between both people involved. Either way, consent is sexy! :) Posted via Mobile Device

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No, well at least at a "licensed" spa... HOWEVER, unless there are elements of human trafficking, the LE tend to leave them alone. OR there has been a specific complaint made... Heck I've don't recall any Indies being bothered either. I've been going to spas for OVER 15 years fairly regularly (and throughout the city) and have yet to even think that LE had any interest in me. LOL You're safe... go enjoy the GREAT ladies of our City's Spas!!!

Haha, I only wear underwear for work. The breeze feels amazing.

Some time ago I learned an important life lesson while spending time with a beautiful dancer. After being approached and spending about 20 minutes with this beautiful young lady she asked me "would you like to go for a dance" to which I replied "of course, I was just looking for the right moment to ask you". She let out a huge sigh and replied; "Thank you. You have no idea how nervous I was to ask you to go for a dance". I was stunned. "Why would a beautiful, sexy and intelligent woman such as yourself be nervous about asking a shy middle aged guy like me if he wanted to go for a dance"? Her reply changed me forever. She asked; "how many times in your life have you been shot down by a girl in a club, or asking her for her number.....30-40 times total in your life". Well it doesn't matter how beautiful you are, we dancers can often get turned down for dances that many times in one night. Rejection hurts and I feel it each time I approach a customer.......especially one I've never met before". I've always been highly respectful and appreciative of the times that I've spent with dancers but before that encounter I'd never given a second thought to a dancer's insecurities or vulnerabilities. That encounter changed me as a patron of SC's but more importantly it changed who I am as a man for which I'm eternally grateful.

I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.