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I would not touch these questions with a ten foot pole, especially post C-36, that is just my opinion. Who knows who is reading this and who asked the question. Always best to stay clear to open questions like that. But that's just my humble opinion.

Personally, I prefer to advertise myself and book my own visitors. It's more comfortable for me to talk to a client directly, though our manager is a smart lady and has never sent me someone unpleasant. Helps to weed out rude or disrespectful people and meet only with those I feel I would enjoy spending time with. :-)

My son came for a visit for the long weekend he will be back in August and after he will get married in September. I have not seen him since December and it was nice to catch up with him.

This button is your friend: Seriously... use it. Mod doesn't read everything on this board as he simply doesn't have the time, so when suspicious stuff crops up - or things that are against the site rules - he probably won't see it, unless someone flags it for him to look at. But no need to bother with this thread now, 'cos I've just done it :)

When your short term goal is developing the ability to pass gas, stand up, or cough without also passing fluids, you better be able to laugh at yourself. It's getting better. I swear it is.

I realize being new here and posting an 'angsty' thread probably isn't the best thing, but it has to be said : For the love of god ladies stop posting ' no restrictions' in your ads. I say this for the following reasons: 1) You place pressure on other women, especially younger, and or newer members to engage in no restrictions. If you truly have no restrictions and enjoy the services you offer, great! Allow people to enquire about your services. A lot of new, or younger girls may think that's standard and will engage in behaviour that can potentially physically harm them, or cause stress, and self- esteem issues. 2) From my experience from many clients who started off with a 'do you have no restrictions', or, 'it's no restrictions, right?' Or even " you will have no restrictions" have been completely foul individuals. I always discuss things extensively with potentials, and luckily sooner rather than later they show just how awful they are via txt, by either calling me a bitch, trying to get discounts, or speaking to me in a very rude, derogatory manner. Worst still, saying they will also get Full Bareback Service. I always refuse these customers, but I may be privileged to do so. Please, ladies, if you specialize in greek or other services, please place that in the ad or tell people while booking. 3) What I've heard from other SP's is that those clients tend to be the most rough, demanding, aggressive (not in the erotic sort of way), and often pay after service or even leave some money out. From what I've gathered from these jerk-off's txts, that seems completely in line with their behaviour and is not surprising. 4) Enabling clients to continue behaving in this manner make it harder for other SP's, as well as yourself in the future. Doing "risky activities" Girls from agencies often charge 'extra's for more risky activities. Make sure other's are not taking advantage of you, and ensure you reduce your risk of exposure ) If you do offer Greek, please enforce rules such as you needing to lube up prior ( so it's adequate, many clients seem to underestimate how much is needed), and try to control the depth for the first minutes. Research how to relax yourself, and how to feel good in this position. Being physically damaged, or psychologically distressed is not worth the extra money. Greek can absolutely be done in a way that feels great, but make sure your client respects how to go about it. If he doesn't respect you or other Sp's, he's not worth dealing with. Full Bareback Service: I really highly recommend you don't do this. I have recently received many txts asking about it. What started this post was a guy starting off his inquiries with' How much donation for hour and do you have any restrictions?' I decided to answer his questions despite his bad grammar and no restrictions comment, responding never hurts. I gave him the usual and he then replied with " if you are clean and DD free I might go for bareback". Seriously, what the fuck? Why is this so common now? Second of all, I did, in no way mention or offer bareback. It really disgusts me that this person just assumed I would preform it, which makes me wonder: How many people are offering this sort of thing now? Secondly, ' if I a clean and DD free' First of all, what is DD? I can only assume it meant disease free. Second of all, way to be completely rude and insulting. If you decide to go ahead with Bareback Full Service for the love of god not only should you charge the typical agency standard for service, you should also charge additional money; I'm talking several hundred more. One girl from an agency does do Bareback Full service, but only with clients she sees regularly, and who get tested regularly. What's more, on top of the $250 an hour agency fee, she also charges 400$ more. Yes, 400$ more. She's gorgeous, so maybe not everyone can charge that much, but at least charge $200 to $300 more. Be smart about who you offer it to. Seriously, if one guy can get away with demanding bareback sex from multiple escorts for cheap, he is at greater risk for having something. Please, ladies. Be smart, be safe, and don't sell yourself short. Most of all, do not let people pressure you to do things you aren't comfortable with. These things really are what define the line between working empowered, while being part of an awesome subculture, and exploitation.

I understand your anxiety. I have been a member here for 1186 days according to the message at the top of my screen without a contributing post. Finally, last week I gathered the courage to visit one of these beautiful ladies. Like Goodtree said above ... relax and enjoy! I am sure the next time I visit ... sooner rather than later I will walk in with anticipation rather than anxiety. Angel's Touch was my choice and I was not disappointed. Now, if I just had the courage to make my first post! ;)

There is nothing about being "smart" and charging an extra 3-4-500$ per hour for bareback full service. No one should do it.Ever. Having money doesn't prove anything. You don't know where every men stick their dicks, I don't know with whom you've slept. It's playing russian roulette with your life to anyone that do it.

I can't help but notice the similarity between this thread and the one at https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=213779, despite the fact that they appear to come from two different accounts....

Rest in peace B.B. King. Lucille will sing forever and the legend will live on.

Another great day! Took my God daughter out to dinner. She is leaving the country in a few months for a year. I will miss her a lot!

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Yup, great weekend weather in Ottawa, absolutely beautiful!

Eastern Canada is also very happy! We had fantastic weather for the long weekend :) I took full advantage of it to continue all the yard work and flowers gardens I started over the last few weeks. Time for a nice cold shower, a glass of wine and salmon on the BBQ!

I see that Atlantic Canadians are are all happy. :) Same here on PEI.

Quickly searched the boards and was surprised to find no mention of this. Highly recommended read for: -Exceptional clients (clients with special needs/accommodations) -Providers looking to understand why accommodations are necessary and how to deal with them. -Providers looking to understand the holistic nature of their craft There are many resources out there, the majority of which are academic in nature and plagued by meticulous vernacular. Give Don Shewey a read. He has published a series of articles related to the subject. He describes an SI as follows: I like to say that sacred intimates combine the roles of priest, prostitute, and psychotherapist. In other words, they approach sexuality with the understanding that it's related to soul work and to spirituality. They use mindfulness and integrity to help people identify, embrace, and practice desire as holy, sexual embodiment as an expression of the soul. They hold the body as sacred and view erotic energy as a crucial component of human life and spiritual health. Their primary intention is that of healing -- and by healing I mean not just addressing the wounds to the spirit and the flesh caused by sexual abuse, addiction, or disease but also acknowledging that the fun and the pleasure, the vitality and the divine mystery of sex have nourishing properties in and of themselves. That's a message that easily gets lost in a culture that is as ambivalent or sex-negative as ours. Sacred intimacy has a relationship to sex therapy as it developed in the second half of the 20th century with the work of Masters & Johnson and Helen Singer Kaplan, who performed a great service by bringing accurate information about sex to the American public and developed effective treatments for sexual disorders. Sacred intimates may or may not treat dysfunctions, and they generally work from a wellness perspective, not fixing problems but encouraging and expanding sexual joy. Although it would seem like psychotherapy is the field most appropriate for sexual healing, in practice many psychotherapists are terrified of dealing with sexuality, either because they have their own unresolved sexual conflicts or they are afraid of legal liabilities. How often do psychotherapists acknowledge that they themselves have sex lives? How often do they share information about erotic resources or facilitate detailed explorations of masturbation or sexual fantasies? Today psychotherapists are intensely focused on boundaries and shy away from sexuality lest they be perceived as provocative, seductive, or harassing. However, it's possible that deflecting or avoiding sexual issues reinforces shame and cultural repression" Taken from Don Shewey's article "The Sacred Intimate-- An integrative approach to sexual healing"

Great thread!! BB F/S Is A Big NoNo In Most Sps Eyes, but there are some that post like that & it kinda seems almost like that. We can only control our own stuff and ads right. It sucks that it is happening tho.

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Saw him at the NAC a few years ago, and it was an honor to hear him play. When so few can even aspire to the label "artist" in today's music industry, King is still one of my favourite artists.

Personally, given your expressed preference for curves and a quality girlfriend-type experience I'm recommending Tiffany Black before she leaves town: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=213647

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Meaghan, first time I have disagreed with you on anything,its so distressing! Vitos is better than Il Pomodori,really?

This is an interesting topic. There's is kissing your mom... or your sister.. or a dear friend. Then there's kissing your lover. Very different. Hobbyists invest (into) a fantasy. For me, part of the fantasy is kissing, passionate kissing. I don't feel much passion can be created without kissing. Passionate kissing on the lips is a very intimate act, moreso than some sexual acts. We are tactile beings and romantic kissing creates an intimacy that cannot be substituted. I am fairly selective as to who I see.. and I've been fortunate to have met many great kissers. Fantasy or not, it's all part of the experience. Without kissing, the playdate becomes rather mechanical. CM

Good apples deserve to be praised/commended. Bad apples deserve to be reported.

Flirting with my Virtual Wife Gabriella, one of the special ladies I got know to here on Lyla in 2014, we do have a great community here on Lyla.

The Weather has to my hi light also, four nice days in a row, so happy I now have all my yard work done, hopefully this is only the beginning after the tough winter we had.

Similar to Miss Lane's joy - I was wearing shorts for the first time this weekend here on the Fundy coast of NB

2 out of 3 days of this long weekend were sunny and really warm here in NL! I was out in a tshirt and capris! Yay!!!

and this next one is mostly special and , for me, quite a first, Julia Roberts:

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Banning a few of these blabbermouths is long overdue. Much of what they write sickens me. We all know who they are. God knows what grief they put these women through when their bosses find out.

Ask any man who's been divorced; it's all commercial sex: pay by the hour or pay by the marriage.

I think the best way to get "rid of bad apples" is to just focus on your own business and promoting the visions you want in the industry - be the change you want to see in the world.... wasting time and energy on others is pointless - "the bad seeds" as you call them.... they always self destruct anyways. Cheers

Being new to seeing escorts after a long abstinence from sexual activities due to circumstances that are beyond my control I agree whole heartedly. My mental state of mind has changed and I feel my Vitality once again. SW provide a service that is a required need.

thank you for posting this it speaks to the point or one of them which I was trying to make in my "why aren't doctors supporting sex workers". Our sexual health is as important as our mental and physical health, they are intertwined and support one another. How anyone relates to and discusses these are important. As ch6radio states though in todays society there is still a fear in experiencing/discussing pleasure. Sex is still a taboo topic, so sad.

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Love kissing...for me it's what brings the connection.

A female anchor on a local TV station asked the weatherman on air about some nasty weather that was supposed to come in over night. She said, "Bob, where's that 8 inches you promised last night?" Needless to say, the weatherman and the male anchor completely lost it for a few minutes and the female anchor wanted to crawl under the desk!

One more thought well a couple, sort of related to the topic at hand. When doing a sleepover, weekend escape, week holiday etc well first and foremost it should be with a lady you know and she knows you. Not something to be done with a lady and gentleman who have never met before...btw not a better start to the day than waking up with a special lady you know and really like lying beside you. It's not about sex, it's about companionship. But when you want to do such an escape, discuss together your plans for the escape. What both of you want to do. An overnight/weekend/week etc is not 24/7 sex/time in the bedroom. Maybe the lady has some ideas, and maybe you do too, and between the two of you, both of you can find something that you want to do together...it's about sharing your time together And, especially in longer escapes, make sure there is alone time. A lady may want time to herself. Maybe an hour or two by herself, or more, or less. She probably will let you know that when you are planning your escape. And it's not an unreasonable request for a lady to make A rambling RG