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My hummingbirds came back on their usual schedule, actually arriving a few days early this year on May 11th. I went from my typical four feeders to eleven and the little guys are everywhere. They are so interesting to watch. They do EVERYTHING fast and yesterday I watched two of them mating. Five seconds max! Jeeze, I thought I was quick! The foreplay was fascinating however. Diving and swooping and chattering and wish I could have interpreted the pillow talk. :) Typical guy though, he was out of there as soon as he completed his mission but she basked in the afterglow for a few seconds.

Well it seems a welcome back was premature as some circumstances changed??? That said, today I'm going to again nominate my (virtual) wife Gabriella Laurence for ---- Goddess Of The Day I'm sure I'm not the only one who valued her contributions here on Lyla. Just her rep point standing (311008 points, and the most points of anyone) show what the Lyla community thought of Gabby and her contributions Wifey, your presence here will be missed. You may be gone from here but you won't be forgotten Signed Hubby

There is a lot of discussion here about 'other sites' and guys should do their homework when seeking the entertainment of girls. There are a lot of ways of checking pics, to see where else they are posted. Tineye.com, imgops.com, google images, just name a few. Cowboy Kenny's diary is a haven for the bait and switch girls. Check there for the same ads in different cities at the same time. Guys, don't get disappointed when the girl isn't who she claims to be, do your homework before you take a leap of faith. Verified girls, girls on recommendation boards (such as this great one of Lyla), places where you can actually see recommendations on girls, these are all great ways of weeding out the fakers and bait & switch girls. If there is no website, listed, but the ad says, 'top rated, well reviewed' but you can't get any info on where those reco's are, then they may not actually exist. Girls can put anything into their ads to get you to see them, but putting a little effort into your search and doing some research may save you from having not quite the experiences you were expecting. Talk to the girl (in the manner she wishes communication), and get a vibe of how that equates to what you are seeking. Ask questions of the info that's in the ad. If someone says in an ad they are 22 and you ask how old they are and they say 19, then you have a problem. All it takes is a little effort. Lyla is a great site, so are others, but this site is for positive vibes and keeping the community informed.

following up Cato's post...

Getting my garden planted. Corn, potatoes, onions, swiss chard, beans and spinach. Will get my broccoli and tomatoes next week.

I gave someone a warning for posting negative comments about a lady, they replied by PM with the following (I removed the persons name to keep them anonymous). My Reply to this person... The internet is so anonymous, it makes it easy to exploit/abuse. I don't know if your being honest when posting negative comments or malicious and trying to discredit someone so here on this site we do not say negative things. PERIOD Anyone who does not agree with this policy I tell to go find another discussion site that is more fitting for them to call home. This community was and will continue to be built on POSITIVE comments and people! It shocks me that people still tell me we are doing things wrong by not allowing negative comments here. This site has been running for a LONG time now and has a good community who embraces that core rule. New members continue to join and try to tell me that this is not the way we should do things. Some even go as far as saying they have some sort of right of freedom of speech to say what they want here in our members only website.... i politely tell them to go review the laws and when they educate themselves come back and apologize for the ignorance. Some stats to share and prove our policies work... Cerb/Lyla Purges some old posts each year (a few thousand) but currently we have 525,041 posts We have over 55,600 registered members We have over 9400 members who post and contribute (Active Members) On average we have 1100 people on the site at ANY given time We have OVER 60000 unique visitors a month to the site We have OVER 200000 visits to the site per month On average the site serves 190GB of data per month! ... and that accounts for over 15 MILLION hits! Being positive, being nice to people, focusing on the good! ... IT WORKS!

Very much in agreement with the other ladies on this. A half hour really isn't enough time to get to know someone, their likes/dislikes etc. It's always been better for me when a first encounter with someone is an hour or longer. Any further encounters can be in a shorter time frame, but really, think about it, how much can you really do in 30 minutes? It's nice to chat, get into the mood, rather than just getting down to it.

I agree with the other ladies have posted, the fist date should be longer 60-90mins at least. It allows for time to getting to know one another as well as time for the date to flow. First dates can have some nerves that the extra time helps calm down and it also helps with knowing you can take time to relax.

Well and speaking for me given the choice between 30 minutes or an hour, I'd go with a minimum of two hours...and I'm usually partial to three or four hours. Encounters aren't about how long you can last. In fact with legalities in this day and age all it's about ;-) is time and companionship. So a longer encounter allows time to make a connection, time for conversation over drinks, maybe have dinner out etc etc etc. So my two cents is for longer dates RG

My preference is always to start with the longer time for a first encounter. It gives us an opportunity to get to know each other. The ensuing encounters can be for a shorter time frame as we've already met.

http://www.cbc.ca/m/news/canada/new-brunswick/rcmp-warn-of-online-sex-scam-that-ends-in-blackmail-1.3087991 That's nuts!! Stay safe!!!

Good morning, Thank you for a lovely few days in your very summer feeling city. The weather was wonderful, the company amazing and I look forward to seeing you again soon. xoxo Emily

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Just got a PM from a barb's ATF of mine. It looks like Lea will be returning to Barbs this Friday night ( May 29, 4pm - ). I'm not sure how often she will be returning after that. But, I'm sure any who remember her will want to get out and say hi at least. She wasn't just a pretty face, and bod, but a good talker too :)

Today I plant my garden, do some yard work all the while working on my tan. Also the fact of a problem slowly being solved! A chapter soon to close soon! Feels good.

I love cutoffs!

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Had a great day and went out with a special person in my life for dinner. Posted via Mobile Device

Shoes off when a person enters! Were some people born in a barn?! Posted via Mobile Device

The big game for Chicago is now on, after one period no score, it would be nice to see Chicago win to see two game seven's in the semi finals.

Exchanging a few lovely texts with a sweet lyla lady and arranging a future meeting.

Good evening, For those of you who don't know me, my name is Carley Chase and I am a high end, independent, part time companion. I cater to an elite class who enjoys the companionship of a fine woman. I have model looks with long blond hair, big brown eyes and silky soft skin. I am extremely laid back, easy going, very openminded, funny and classy. I am going to be visiting Fredericton on Thursday, June 4th and I would love the opportunity to spend sometime with you. If our schedules coordinate and we are able to arrange a rendezvous please email me at [email protected] To learn a little bit more about me please feel free to take a peak at my website http://www.carleychase.com I will be looking forward to hearing from you soon and, even more so, to seeing you soon. Lots of love to you always Carley xox

I saw her a couple of weeks ago. Nice and upscale location. Pleasant expereince - 8/10

...is not what this girl is made of! If you're a little on the wild side, we may very well get along just fine! I'm tall, voluptuous & busty, with long dark hair & sultry green eyes... open-minded, fun & imaginative...sensual & sexy... What are you waiting for? Available everyday from 10am-10pm

Gentlemen, many of you have your own distinctive experience with this lady and most have been good. Everything in this industry is variable mileage because it deals with people. Everyone can have an off day, an off encounter with the same person or even encounters that are polar opposites and this isn't just to speaking about client or provider but both. We always stress research and part of that is gathering all the information you can. Elias902 had an encounter that I'm sure at the time was rather stressful and upsetting. What he says is the truth of his experience, weighed against all the other experiences know that while things may be great, there is always that sliver to be aware of. Just because one or many had a certain kind of experience doesn't mean they all were the same. Everyone's input is valuable even if it is outside the norm. It all adds to research.

I can't see her threatening anyone. I know over the years, people had said a lot of bad things about her and other sp I seen but not once I had a bad time with any of them. To be honest it is all about how you treat the girls and mostly give them respect, don't be pushy. Not saying you were Elias902 but these girls, any girls, needs to be treated with respect.

I agree with Nik420, I seen her this week and the pics are her. She use to work out west and the pics that come up in Tineye are for ads out west, but make no mistake, that is her a s s with out question. She is fun, safe but fun.

I usually don't comment but I agree with Spitz. I seen her a few times over the last couple of years and not once I felt threatened. She was a sweetheart and very friendly every time.

Hi , this is Katy, a classy, out-of-this world sexy and sweet girl, undeniably one of the most attractive girls around and definitively fun to see.Once you're in company, I will take you to a place where very few have been: A world of pure relaxation, pleasure and quality time you well deserve. 5'4'', 100lbs, 34DD(natural)-24-34 Place: MyPlace @ WestEnd / YourPlace (min 1hr plus driver fee - depends on distance) Availability: 11:00 AM - 11:30 PM Rose: 140/hh, 200/45m, 240/hr , 360/1.5hr

Thanks for the bday wishes.. I had a lovely day :)

Thank you for all the replies. I ended up calling him and telling him because we have always been close. He took it great it turned into a lot of laughs and I passed on some helpful info his way of course recommending lyla. Also ended up being a great support to me. All of my close friends know it's more my family that doesn't because they are not all supportive and can be judgmental. I keep it on a need to know basis for the most part but am not ashamed. Thank you all :)

I cannot recommend Carrie enough. Two hours is definitely the way to go! In all honesty, if she's not the best of all my experiences, she's damn close!

I have told all my friends when I started to work as a private companion. As I have amazing friends, it did not change anything at all between us. And they saw how it improved my life and my health, so they are happy for me. My family members don't know, and they all live far away so chances that they would discover it are quite low. So I do not bother telling them. I am not sure all of them would accept/understand it. And as much as I would like to disclose easily what I do when I am in social events, meeting new people, etc... I know well enough that some people can be extremely narrow minded, stupid, mean, or even dangerous in the way they could talk or act, therefore I only say what I do when I feel confident that it is safe for me to disclose this information.

I'm out to everyone. I mean, it was on my CV when I applied to graduate school. Even my own students know (I am a TA for a first year course). Mom said, "I'm shocked but impressed that you have the courage to take advantage of such a goldmine." My dad was in the navy and saw a few "ladies of the night" in his day and was unperturbed. My sister was not impressed.

I'm on the same boat as Lily is, I do know my family would not understand so my current occupation is not something I'll share with them.I'm not sure about my friends so I prefer not to find out, Is not that I'm ashamed of it because I'm not but is not easy for people who have never been part of this to understand how it really is, I've actually have had people that I've met through my job tell me that they would never be friends or anything else with an escort because of their job like if being on the other side makes it any different so if some who are involved in this don't get that what we do for living doesn't define the kind of people we are then there's no much hope that others will (in my case at least.) I'm the kind of person that don't really need to know about what the people I'm friends or somehow connected with do and I never ask people personal questions, I am ok with only knowing what they want me to know as it's the vibe I get from them, the connection we have and who they are as human beings that I care about so being like that makes deciding not to share certain things a bit easier :)

I've been lucky with the family that I have, and my immediate family all know, though some other members do too(step-mom, cousin, etc.). While they weren't all understanding or accepting of it at first, we've all gotten to a much better place over time. I told my mom the first day I started, which I realize now was probably a mistake since it was pretty much on Mother's day, and that was a shitty gift to give her :P I don't like having any secrets from my family, and I know they would question where my money was coming from. My brother was ultra-supportive from the beginning, and he helped me discuss it with my mom and dad to give them a better understanding of the work I was doing, since they only knew it from the roles you would see in the TV or movies. It took them a good while, which I expected, but finally they came around and my mom eventually said that while she may never fully get what I'm doing, she wants me to be happy and she can see it's improving my life and she loves me, so if this makes me happy, then she'll stand behind it. However, the rest of my family might not be quite so understanding, and I know that my parents would prefer them not knowing, so I keep that info to myself during family gatherings. Like Summer said, I do it on a "need to know" basis, I try to judge how the person will react, and if they seem accepting and non-judgemental, then I will discuss it if the timing is right. I do find it annoying sometimes that I can't go into detail about my job when people ask what I'm up to these days, though imagining their look of shock on their face if I did is always an amusing past-time! Posted via Mobile Device

I live a double life.. I keep this so discrete no one in my family would ever in a million years, believe I'm an escort! I recently this year told some good friends of mine, what I do when I'm not working my other job and thankfully no one really cares. I'm the same girl they always knew, just now have people to talk to that have my best interests at heart.

In my opinion, getting together with a lady without kissing is akin to just a "wham bam, thank you ma'am", very impersonal. I love kissing!! And I have met some amazing kissers and hope to meet many more. I love the initial kiss when you meet a lady for the first time, maybe just a quick brush on their lips or sometimes a breathtaking deep throat kiss where you have to come up for air. And then after you have met the lady a few times its like getting together with a long lost girlfriend that just sets the tone for the rest of the visit, it just gets better with time, like a fine wine. The light brushing of lips, the gentle taste of the other persons tongue, their mouth, the nibbling on the lips, the gentle bites, the moving from their mouth to their neck (Eva), moving down lower, gently running your lips and tongue over their breasts, nibbling a bit on their nipples, feeling the nipple grow as you gently kiss, lick, nibble, moving down lower over their belly, feeling her quiver as you hit a bit of a ticklish spot or erogenous zone, moving lower to the inside of their thighs gently moving your tongue and lips aroung getting closer and closer to......... Do I like kissing?? Hell yah!!!!!!

Two very Sexy ladies visiting nb. They both deserve a mention here. The very beautiful Exotic touch Danielle and equally beautiful Maraena. Show them some love Moncton.

I think the incredibly Sexy and very hot Lexy Grace deserves a mention here. Currently in ns and planning a trip to nb. Let's welcome her.

i would be interested in giving in this situation rather the receiving... but thats because I'm a bit more dominant. Ive never had the opportunity but i would love to try and its kind of hard to just bring that up in conversation... "hey, how are you?... do you mind if i pee on you?"