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Glass ceiling bullshit? I call MRA bullshit.

Well, I took the plunge with this 40-something MIL* (Note: she doesn't provide the F part :lol:). (The $#@%^& censorship robot had to be circumvented). She provided me with a very detailed message describing her services, and I booked her for the most basic offering, just in case. I needn't have worried. She proved to be very friendly and highly skilled at her craft. I thoroughly enjoyed the build-up and the finale, which left me very happy. I will definitely repeat. Please note that she operates a legit studio in a multi-business building on a busy street a little outside of downtown, and she does not wish any info posted that could possibly identify her. Please be very circumspect on the public board, and very careful when sharing her info in private. I normally provide as much public detail as discretion allows, but in this case, I will err on the side of caution. I will not share details via PM either. There's no need for me to describe the session, since C provides all the info you need to know to book her, and she will deliver. Start by PMing her, and go from there. I'm sure you'll be happy you did.

There are 2 different and related questions here: 1. Why protect children at all costs? Our most basic instincts include that of procreation, and that of protecting the next generation. Our very survival as a species has depended on it since the very beginning. It's the reason the sound of a crying baby is so hard to ignore. It's the reason people will jump out into traffic to save a child in danger. It's one of the few reasons I have any faith in humanity. 2. Why women first? Okay this one is trickier. I think it is partially based on the fact that they traditionally have been the main caregivers to the children, whom without them might not survive. (see answer to question 1). It is also wrapped up in what are often looked at as outdated notions of us big strong men being the protector and provider for the "weaker" sex. There is chivalry and nobility in it. Heroism has always been seen as a desirable male trait, while cowardice is definitely not. While the reasons why may be outdated, I have a lot of respect for those who put others before themselves, and zero respect for anyone who would push a woman, child, or anyone for that matter out of the way to save themselves. Call me old fashioned........

So because you can cherry pick a handful of women in top positions, that negates the evidence that women are under represented in top executive ranks? I don't get it.

Geez...is right. Women and children have been dying as the consequences of front line soldiers for millennia without any need to be on the front line. Maybe if there were more women in those positions of power we wouldn't need questions like this. Posted via Mobile Device

Getting a special "Daddy" gift with a kiss from a daughter - I'll always treasure both!

I was there today, Thursday, at around 5. First, the lovely short blonde Chanelle offered me very good dances in the CR. We had some chemistry there. I felt drained after that. But the best surprise of the day was the blue-eyed Megan. She's a pale brunette with many tattoos and piercings. So not too long after Chanelle took care of me in the CR, I went back with Megan. I was lucky to catch her at the beginning of her very second day working as a stripper, but she really impressed me. I usually prefer girls who have been exposed to the environment for a little longer so they have already learned to do this job the way I like. This girls might be young and (in appearance) shy, but she already knows perfectly the drill of the Playmate. In the CR, all it took to get rid of her shyness was for me to instruct her and she turned out to be kinky and docile. This girl is already as good as any experienced dancer there. Probably better than some in fact. Also, she didn't care that others could see her having fun with me (cheers to the customer who came out of the booth beside ours. I hope you enjoyed the show!). Again, I felt drained after that! So I recommend Chanelle and Megan (but mostly Megan). I also saw Martia, Kim, Katie, Chloe, Alex, Delicious, Tanya, Morena, Candy and about five more that I couldn't name.

I just posted a recommendation. Check it out.

"I may not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it."

I gave someone a warning for posting negative comments about a lady, they replied by PM with the following (I removed the persons name to keep them anonymous). My Reply to this person... The internet is so anonymous, it makes it easy to exploit/abuse. I don't know if your being honest when posting negative comments or malicious and trying to discredit someone so here on this site we do not say negative things. PERIOD Anyone who does not agree with this policy I tell to go find another discussion site that is more fitting for them to call home. This community was and will continue to be built on POSITIVE comments and people! It shocks me that people still tell me we are doing things wrong by not allowing negative comments here. This site has been running for a LONG time now and has a good community who embraces that core rule. New members continue to join and try to tell me that this is not the way we should do things. Some even go as far as saying they have some sort of right of freedom of speech to say what they want here in our members only website.... i politely tell them to go review the laws and when they educate themselves come back and apologize for the ignorance. Some stats to share and prove our policies work... Cerb/Lyla Purges some old posts each year (a few thousand) but currently we have 525,041 posts We have over 55,600 registered members We have over 9400 members who post and contribute (Active Members) On average we have 1100 people on the site at ANY given time We have OVER 60000 unique visitors a month to the site We have OVER 200000 visits to the site per month On average the site serves 190GB of data per month! ... and that accounts for over 15 MILLION hits! Being positive, being nice to people, focusing on the good! ... IT WORKS!

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Happy Birthday to Highsexdrivebabe, hope you have a great day !

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Yup. Put simply, men are the present. Women and the children they've traditionally cared for are the future. A species whose behaviour favours the future, survive. Those whose behaviour favoured the present, are all extinct.

Have a great day! Xoxo

Happy Birthday to a real fun and lovely young lady bon fete Mon cheri Additional Comments: Happy Birthday to a real fun and lovely young lady bon fete Mon cheri

Happy Birthday Highsexdrivebabe.... Have a fantastic Day....

Where did you see a proposal mandating that 50% of CEOs and elected officials be female? I don't recall seeing that. I have seen people remark, and find it odd myself, that women tend to be underrepresented in positions of authority, compared to their percentage of the general population. And "fighting for our country"? We don't need to fight for Canada. At least not at this time. And if the US's and UK's recent misadventures are any indicator, fighting isn't really going to be an effective response to unrest elsewhere in the world. About all anyone can be shown to be fighting for are military-industrial complex profits. IMNSHO, anyone would be a fool to fight and possibly die for that. Male or female.

I was just reading an article on Lifehacker about how to follow up with questions after an interview to improve your chances of getting hired next time. It struck me that customers could probably do the same when they find they're being rejected by SPs they'd like to see. I know I end up having to say no to people every week, and it's always for a handful of the same dumb mistakes. I bet this happens to others too. Nobody wants to have to turn down business. We'd of course rather meet, have a good time and earn some money. Even worse, I often come away feeling that the guy I turned down probably would have been an okay guy, but his approach style compromised me and put me in a position where I had to say no. Maybe a little tune-up in initial contact etiquette would help us get to go. BTW, here's that article I was reading. http://lifehacker.com/find-out-why-you-didnt-get-the-job-with-these-followup-1712254953?utm_campaign=socialflow_lifehacker_facebook&utm_source=lifehacker_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Happy Birthday Barbara Enjoy your special day RG

Happy birthday Barbara. You are a very beautiful and sexy lady and I hope your both day is very special.

They would probably snigger at anyone who DIY 's. Its an insecurity thing. A truly confident person would just wish you luck or even be helpful. I run into it with car mechanics all the time.

Happy Birthday sexy lady ;) hope you have a terrific day xoxo Sassie

Happy Birthday beautiful lady. I hope your day brings nothing but pleasure and smiles and everything you love. You are a true gem!

this just came to my attention this afternoon. A few days ago I sent some text messages back-and-forth with an MA. Timing did not work out but was very interested and getting in touch with the SP in the future when the timing was better.in order to make the process more smooth in the future, I saved her number in my contacts under an alternate number for someone I have not spoken to in 10 years. This afternoon while I was scrolling through my Facebook newsfeed, right there in front of me was a picture of a girl who I thought was incredibly similar to the MA's pictures from her Backpage ad. Naturally, I clicked her picture to see if it was an open profile and to confirm that it actually was her. Her tattoos were identical to those in pictures on the back page ad. This is where it gets scary. According to Facebook, we have zero mutual friends. The only reason she showed up on my newsfeed, in my honest opinion, is because I have Facebook messenger installed on my iPhone. In order to let Facebook messenger work to its full potential I allowed Facebook access to myself phone contacts and their cell phone numbers/emails. I just finished sending the MA a series of text messages prefacing each time that I am "not a creep, but really thought that she should know". I informed her that the reason she showed up on my Facebook newsfeed is probably because her cell phone number is linked to her Facebook account and that she should probably remove herself phone number from her Facebook account. Probably out of shock and feeling of having her privacy violated, she told me to "stop stalking her". To which I replied, "if I was really a creep, why would I ever! Give you this information". Ladies and gentlemen, if you were unaware that Facebook could be giving away your private information to possible clients, now you are. I most certainly am not a creep, but if I was, it would be a much scarier place for M A's and SP's considering their private information could be browse freely by complete strangers. Please consider removing yourself phone number and email addresses from your Facebook profile. As soon as somebody enters your information into their self own Facebook connect see you too and makes it possible that they could be given access to your name/job/whereAbouts/FRIENDS LISTS!

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TW: words. I'm generally against limiting anybody's right to say whatever they damn well please... although I'm also against shielding them from the consequences of that. A right to freedom of speech does not imply a right to be listened to, or compel anyone else to broadcast what you have to say (this point is mostly lost whenever anyone gets fired for saying something stupid), and there's certainly no right to avoid ridicule and contempt if that's the reaction your speech provokes from others. One thing that really disturbs me, though is the increased movement towards allowing people to avoid seeing or hearing anything that they might dislike. Every summer, we see a rash of speakers being dis-invited from giving graduation and commencement speeches because a delicate flower somewhere disapproves of something the speaker once said. I'm fine letting people know what they might be in for so that those who might dislike it can stay away... but they'll have to accept the consequences of missing out if that's what they choose to do, and I'm absolutely against them forcing anyone else to miss out as well.

This looks like a very good way to get rid of people who inconvenience or embarrass the government. And another 9-0 SCC ruling in the works.

Attended this afternoon's FIFA Women's World Cup Soccer game between Mexico and France with the lovely Isabella Gia. No doubt it would have been more enjoyable if the score were more favorable to Mexico :icon_wink:

I think that being able to debate, whether it being on a light topic or a deep one, is very much cultural. I am originally from France, and my friends from France living here and I agree to say that here debating is a very difficult thing to do. Nobody wants to hurt anybody. But there are ways to debate without insulting others, while still being able to strongly affirm one's point of view. So sometimes people mix "debate" with "fight". Hence the first debate TV show that appeared on TéléQuébec years ago, hosted by Marie-France Bazzo at the time - I don't know if this show is still on - that was called "Let's go for some sport!". And the song lyrics of this show were simply: "Let's go for some sport! OK, but I'll stay calm" (hopefully my translation is good enough to be understood properly). For French from France, debating is simply a natural cultural thing to do.

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You are correct Dunstan. The Naomi listed on BP is known as Naomi79 here on Lyla.

If I'm not mistaken, this is Naomi79. Here is a link to her profile: https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=108719

She is very good looking! And quite the conversationalist. I'd definitely see her again. I would discuss with her beforehand any expectations that you may have.

I've been reading this thread with interest. I left for a while, because I felt my life had moved in a different direction and I was finding the board to be taking too much of my time. I missed it for a while, then didn't miss it, then became curious again as to what was happening. I left before the change in laws, and came back after the change. I'm not sure I see a huge difference in the board because of the laws. Blocked out words, etc., are a pain. But the basic essence of what this board is, in terms of a community of like-minded group of people involved in this lifestyle, has not. I agree completely with Phaedrus, though, that as someone who has been here for some time (though not as long as others), it can become tired. New threads on old topics. Communities have cycles ...ebbs and flows. New people come in and old people leave. The discussion cycles around. My worry would be that the legislative changes might be dissuading new members from joining. But overall, I do think the health of the community is still strong. I've missed threads where people feel they've been poorly treated. So I certainly hope that hasn't become an undercurrent. I don't necessarily see it, but I also am not very active. I'd urge everyone to keep to the philosophy of this board, which has made it so unique.

A couple of things on this. First, we've lost a few members who contributed a lot and initiated a lot of discussion; they've left, or faded away, or just don't post much any more. Newer folks haven't really replaced them. Maybe it's the new legal climate, maybe it isn't. I don't know why, and I don't know what - if anything - we can do about it. There's also a bit of change in perspective. When I first started reading this board, everything was new and interesting. Now, some of the stuff that I found fascinating back then is a bit... "Oh, God. Not this thread again." I think the folks who have been around a bit longer and have seen pretty much the same thread a dozen times need to remember that there are always going to be people who haven't, and newer members aren't going to find that thread from six months ago which is now on page 14 of the forum index. The board may not now be the same as it was when I first joined... but neither am I the same as I was when I first joined. Nor is anyone else who's been around for a while. As for debates/discussions... yes, the balance here is difficult. Ideally people disagreeing will do so nicely, and people being disagreed with won't take it personally, but none of us are perfect. There's a difference between vehemently disagreeing with what someone wrote and attacking that person, but many of us have differing opinions on where the boundary between the two lies. It's even harder in a written forum where the subtleties of tone of voice are completely absent and comments posted in a light-hearted spirit are misinterpreted. The laws have had some effect... but I think this is limited. Yes, the ladies have to advertize differently, but they seem to be managing. Recos can't be as explicit as they once were... but I've never really liked the play-by-play accounts much, so I'm afraid I don't care about that :). And we now can't ask questions like, "I'm looking for someone who offers..." which is kinda annoying. I hope this will change.

Wow, what a tremendously uplifting response. I must apologize for not being online much. This issue notwithstanding, bureaucracy and and the energy put in to daily life have taken, momentarily, a little out of me. The reporters need to be acknowledged and congratulated Nick Purdon and Leonardo Palleja. They kept the focus on attitudes and stigma, asking the question: [paraphrased] "Are our attitudes causing harm?" Nailing the issue right on the head, and getting people to look deeper into their societal beliefs. The most amazing thing is that all the responses from people I don't know here in Vancouver have been positive! A day after the segment aired a man stopped me on the street, vigorously shook my hand, and said: "Thank you so much!". Similar things have happened since then. Now I know that my own stereotype [physical disability] affords me a bit of a shield-a side effect of political correctness-but from what I have seen the new legislation has very little support from everyday people. Nor has there been any political rumbling relating to this video from the health care system. By the way: that does not mean our healthcare system is in good shape. In Vancouver over the last month or so, there have been massive cuts, and I mean massive, to home care support systems. Many disabled and elderly getting slashed down to an hour or less a week. It would take several posts, long ones at that to fill you in on all the details. Suffice it to say: There must be a change in B.C. politics and Harper's gotta go! I will be trying to catch up with everyone over the next week! PatrickGC

Shoudn't these girls be a tad more angry at the people forcing them to do this? WTF did I just read?!? :S

Yea exactly! I'd rather stay out of the forest and not munch on the grass. Posted via Mobile Device

Each time that you download an app on your smartphone, it asks you to accept several conditions, which usually are very scary, because it means that this app will access ALL your private information on your phone. If you do not accept these conditions, you cannot download an app. So yes, Facebook, Google, everybody is watching us! Phaedrus (Lyla member for those who don't know) had once informed us of this website below for social media that has the opposite philosophy to Facebook regarding privacy, protection of your information etc... So if you still want to enjoy a social media platform without having your information stolen, you can switch from Facebook to Ello: https://ello.co/beta-public-profiles This said, in this technological era, I think that it is pretty impossible to have our information completely protected. Unless we live as hermits in the woods :-(

Everyone should read this article. Facebook is like Big Brother. Doesn't matter if you're logged in or not, they track you. It's spooky, and frankly I don't like it. Sadly there's not too much you can do about it other than quit Facebook altogether. But there are some helpful browser plugins for Chrome and Firefox to help. http://lifehacker.com/5843969/facebook-is-tracking-your-every-move-on-the-web-heres-how-to-stop-it To be honest, I am shocked that there are still people who aren't aware that both Google and Facebook are at full-tilt Orwellian levels of monitoring users. Oh, and for those of you with Google smartphones... GoogleMaps tracks your every move. Unless you disable not just the "your location" thing, but also disable any apps from tracking your location. http://www.howtogeek.com/195647/googles-location-history-is-still-recording-your-every-move/ Technology is amazing. It's also fucking terrifying. Get educated, folks. Then get proactive!

I'm pretty sure if either parties don't post their cell numbers on Facebook, there wouldn't be an issue. I've been on Facebook for quite a long time, and NEVER posted my phone number on it, and I still don't have it. not like I have something to hide, but I just prefer its not on there.

Thanks for posting. This is why I refuse to have anything to do with Facebook on my phone. It's so creepy how everything is tracking us at any given time, and people are giving that kind of power away willingly. This can translate poorly for clients too.

And the lady coming out retirement only was paid for time spent...so??? where is the crime to catch? lol

In my past experiences of doing outcalls, I always asked to take a shower regardless of whether or not if I had an appointment. Sometimes if it was late and I wasn't going anywhere else, I just wanted to go home and take my own shower. It's been a long time since I did back to back on an out but if I had to go somewhere else, a shower was always a must. I no longer visit other locations and like the fact that I'm at my own location and they come to visit me. I am always fresh! lol

Hello everyone , In June, various members of the Canadian Alliance for Sex Work Law Reform, lawyers (from PIVOT and the HIV/AIDS Legal Network), and academics (all supportive of sex workers' rights) will get together to discuss the new laws related to sex work. The goal is to share information about how the new laws are impacting sex workers, and what our strategy is moving forward. My understanding is that they will discuss strategy related to a new legal challenge... and what that could possible look like. If you have time, can you answer these questions? Feel free to PM me if that's easier (with your response) or e-mail POWER at [email protected] Here are the questions: 1. What are some of the safety issues you face when doing sex work? What is your relationship with police? 2. Have the police been hassling you and if so, do you know why? 3. Have the police been hassling your clients and if so, do you know why? 4. Do you go to the police if you need help? Why or why not? 5. Where do you work and is that the place you would like to work or would you prefer to work somewhere else? 6. Do you advertise and have there been changes in terms of how you advertise? 7. Do you work with others, have there been changes in terms of how you work with others? 8. What can you do with third parties (receptionists, security, etc) in your place of work? 9. Have you changed your safety mechanisms since the news laws have come into effect? If so, how? Thanks for any time you put into this - you can answer some or all of the questions - it's as you see fit!

Yes, it's me (formerly Penny Love). I am back and pleased to announce I am once again available for fun chez moi only. Sorry, no calls chez vous unless we have met before. I am hosting at a quiet, nicely appointed location in the Woodroffe and Baseline area but just until April. I am also available in Orleans with advance notice (weekday mornings preferred), if possible). I will be available this week-end (Sat. & Sun): 9 a.m. - 9 p.m. Mon-Fri: 10 a.m. - 8 p.m. I have limited access to a computer, so I prefer that you contact me by texting or calling. I can be reached at 613-222-54*00 No blocked callers please. Looking forward to getting reaquainted with old friends and making new ones. Since I only see a limited amount of guests per day, please book early to avoid disappointment. I pride myself in offering quality encounters and if you liked me before, you'll even like me better now! Recent Recos: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=P&t=208628 Older Recos: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=87450&highlight=Penni (Please note that website mentioned on this reco thread no longer valid)