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First for the record, the social has not been cancelled, it was postponed a second time to a date in the fall. Secondly, I did not hear a complaint when I took a few days to cash in the money to pay for said tickets. Thirdly , my last post suggested ppl, who already bought tickets, should let me know what they want to do about tickets. For the record, Ottanon did send me a PM which I saw this morning while packing my stuff. I had every intention to do the e-mail transfer today. However, these days I am helping a friend at a restaurant. Before 6 am I was awaken by txt from a server who was sick and could not come in to work. All attempts at finding a replacement failed so I had to take her spot. And it was a busy day so had ppl in till around 8PM at which time I had to interview a potential employee. Now why am I doing this post so late? well after the interview, I noticed the walk in cooler stopped working and temperature in it was rising quickly. So I thought getting that fixed and preventing the lost of thousand of dollars worth of food was more important than returning 45 dollars. So now, instead of taking 45 mins to drive back home, I will do the e-mail transfer, and just to show I am not cheap, I will send an extra dollars in interest. And BTW since its seems its the organisers who should stop living to contact everyone, I will make sure, in the morning, to txt the lady, who's ticket was also being paid for, and let her know if she comes in September, she now needs to buy her own ticket. THANKS TO ALL THOSE WHO MADE UNDERSTANDING COMMENTS!!! Additional Comments: Sorry folks guess the refund will have to wait. The only e-mail I have is the interact one (catch.interact...) Doubt I can send the refund there. Can I go home now???

Let's take s deep breath here and I'm not into a flame war. That said, the requests for the little bit of money would of been best to had done in private. It leaves a bad taste in the two individuals that put in their endless efforts to organize these events. Yes everyone has done some kind of organization in fund raisers, socials,golf outings but out of respect as I've done numerous of these type of events we try to please everyone, and to respond within 5 days or 10 days whatever the case might be its best to have some kind of patience for VOLUNTEERS. This never should of come out in this thread about monies owned. My humble opinion. And Alexxandria and Skates thanks for ALL you both do, it is difficult to please everyone.

It has only been a couple of days since the cancellation was announced. Bear in mind that the people who organize the socials do so entirely voluntarily, get pretty much nothing in return, and have jobs and other things going on in their lives. If they decide that they can't be bothered any more, we'll all be much the poorer for it. The fact that they've just put a lot of time and effort into organizing an event that not enough people can go to - despite the fact that some folks had been explicitly asking for it - is hardly going to be encouraging for them. Giving them shit over the refunds this soon - and publicly, at that - is probably not going to help.

For the record I have sent the transfer with an extra dollar, now that I have been given a proper address to send it. BTW, did I forget to mention that a certain person, that claims to be the founder of the socials, tried to use that to come in for free at a recent social. Anyone who knows mistert can confirm this information. There is an old saying not to spit in the air as it might fall back on ur face.

It's not necessarily a racist thing. If a lady's agent or SO is black, he/she may not want other black men to visit, which is why they explicitly put it in the ad. This also applies to other races where the lady may not feel comfortable seeing men from her community. I used to know an Asian lady who was not comfortable seeing Asian men. I am not sure if it appears tacky to actually put it in the ad, but at least they're being honest. The type of service we are offering is that of intimacy and whatever reason we choose not to see certain people, is really no one's business. For example, I am no longer entertaining clients under 30 because as a rule I have found it to be more trouble than it's worth. I still have a few younger ones that I let see me because they are the exception to the rule. But that was only because their initial contact was more than a "Hey" or "Yo escort lady, I wanna git with u" type of text.

I don't think you had realized you look like a fool. And trying to make Loneskater to look bad is not acceptable, you over reacted period. And whatever he decides to do with his free time or who he sees is his personal choice. We had over 20 tickets sold and you are the only one that made a fuss about it. And If you don't appreciate all his work for community too bad, you cant please everyone. And Im glad there were not more post from you about this matter, because certainly each time you look even worse than before To all pms I received regarding this issue and supporters my dear thanks

My apologies to be so direct, but if they were so successful you are welcome to do the next one "By the way the Christmas social I spent thousands from my pocket to have it ready, you can ask loneskater or Mister T". When you do things you never expect things back, when is upset ask for everything in return" And yes loneskater has being very busy, and if you do send an email address he can refund your money, but if you don't where would you like to being send to? ALEXXANDRIA

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Been a number of heated threads on this topic already and no matter what anyone answers it never is the correct answer it seems JMO but no need to bring back a heated discussion on the subject, here are a few threads on the subject http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143689 RG

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Well, that took an interesting turn, didn't it. I would humbly suggest that since the "Ottawa summer social" is a no-go, this thread should be closed and a new one for the Ottawa September Social be initiated.

It's good this matter has been resolved now. I'm very surprised to see so much anger about a few dollars. I get the idea of the importance of communication, but would suggest that a more generous and understanding approach with loneskater and Alexxandria would have been more appropriate and more effective. bellafan

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When someone specifically mentioned that they took the time to read the lady's website, it says she uses clean sheets for EVERY session. They would already know that. I guess they didn't read it. I find that very off putting And just saying "Available" isn't a good way to start out. Hello is always better. Guys may not think this is a big deal but we are in an intimate business here and saying Hello or quickly introducing yourself will get you more brownie points. Trust me! When I see someone say "Available?", it appears to me that this is just a transaction that is cold and impersonal. I don't roll that way and I have no interest in meeting men like that. Same with "Rates, service, location?" Delete, delete and delete! Forgive me for wanting to give someone an experience and starting out with a connection first. That means by saying "Hello" if you want to have a great experience and not just some in and out like you're another number. If a guy treats a lady like that, she may receive him but not with her best foot forward. So maybe that could explain the dirty sheets, etc you have had. If that suits you, then no harm, no foul.

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Don't even get me started on the "Do you do discounts for regulars?" guys. 99.999999999999998% of the time it is directly followed with "If you give me a discount I will book every XXX for the next XXX" Literally makes me want to chuck my phone. Good thing that it's indestructible. Another one that kills me is "BJ?" or "CIM?"... As full sentences.... Until you have developed the ability to use a full sentence, not just bark things at me like I'm a robotic sex machine, you are incapable of consent in my world.... And, oh lord jesus, the "I'm married and you're the only escort I see, can we please do bareback?" guys. I rage out. Uncontrollably. I have told every single one of them how I felt to the point where it's cruel. You want to risk your life? Sure. You want a worker to risk her life? That's her choice. You want to risk your wife's life without even telling her? Without even giving her the choice? You are officially sick, disturbed and will not be coming anywhere near me. We all know you are lying, you see more than one escort and you say the same thing to them to. As for walking on egg shells, good. If I am trusting you not to rape, beat or otherwise harm me.... you should be very cautious. You may not get laid if you say the wrong thing, if we choose the wrong client.... Well let's just say I would rather my mother never get that phone call.

People who do not hold the door open for others, or do not thank you for holding the door open for them. People who feel their backpack/ purse/ not so full gym bag are entitled to an addition sear on the bus. When the rum is all gone :( ;)

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"Are these sheets clean?" What am I? A dirt bag? That is disgusting! And btw I have a secret second job in the evenings.... it's called doing laundry. So yes, ALL the sheets and pillow cases are clean for each guest I have which is not a lot these days. I am very selective with who I decide to meet with or who I will allow to sit on my clean sheets. lol. "Avail?" How about writing it out in a proper sentence which doesn't even take 30 seconds. I will only answer those who send a proper greeting. This speaks volumes about the person.

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definitely check on bp if they have a website or are listed here also. For instance, I have an ad on bp and state that you can see me here, so do some of the other sps. For what you seek, take a look in the Winnipeg section of Lyla, check through the ads, see if anyone strikes you in particular, then contact them in the method they have outlines in their ad. Most of us have websites, please check those if they are available, and this way you can receive a lot of information. What you like and what others have recommended may be a match up in the end ;-) There is a Winnipeg recommendation area, just look on the main page of Lyla, scroll down to Winnipeg, click on that and voila! The ads, and the recommendations are there. Hope you find what you are looking for, Lyla is a great site to be on, welcome to Lyla :-)

I'd agree with the previous answer 100%. Stick to this forum and Escorts Canada and you'll have a great time. I was in your place a year ago with a lot of hesitations and questions and found a supportive community here. Stay away from anyone without reviews and an online presence. I can assure you, you will be safe and will have a great time. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

My best companions are ones where we touch base dueing iu meets, ask about work, goals, hobbies, and encourage development in thise areas and celebrate triumphs. I have a lovely friend who just came back from the U.K- I adore listening to him while snuggling, and am excited to see him for more than just sex and money. You can't have this connection with all clients/ SP's. Sometimes it's great to have strictly buisiness-like fun,; an oasis away from home. Though the boyfriend away from home with no strings attached/ drama type relationships are really part of what makes this pleasurable for me. Repeating surely builds something unique, to be sure. - Chloe.

1. EC. And this one. And PERB. 2. Depends who you ask. 3. Depends what you are into. The most recommended locals are generally mature women (just read through threads, or do a search of a name you've found). If you want someone younger and you're new, try a well-recommended traveller, generally from Korea, China, or Quebec who is in town for around ten days. A word to the wise. There are two reasons to use this site. One is to find "the best" SP for you so you have a great experience, but even more importantly, it is to avoid a truly terrible experience: not merely lackluster service, but anything from flakes and no-shows to scams and violence, robbery armed and otherwise, and potential involvement with LE. There's a shark in the water, and next to it crocodile, and along the bank, a tiger. So, with that in mind, a broad tip: do not answer any ad on BP unless you have found recommendations from someone trustworthy (there are ways here of gauging that) and/or checking pics on TinEye and/or searching for matches of phone numbers. While there may be legitimate reasons why someone keeps changing their name, or why multiple SPs may be sharing a number, it can also be a red flag.

I don't have any problem using my real first name, its easier than making up a fake persona. I would have to know a lady quite well before giving any more information, but that has happened on occasion. I also don't see any reason to inquire about a lady's real name or identity. I don't see why anybody would want or need that info. For me its the persona the lady has chosen that I'm attracted to, and I think she rightfully should stick to that. Many of them have full lives outside of this profession and they have a right to their anonymity. The lady's need to guard their real identity for safety and security, and I support that.

I myself do not discriminate race( not judgemental at all when it comes to your nationality)...but there are some that probably do because they only date black men so maybe they are afraid of running into someone they may know on a personal level and yes some being ignorant and racist! But then again just like it is a man's.choice of what type of woman he would like to spend time with it is our choice as SP how we would like to.conduct our business I was told I loose business because I prefer to see the older mature gentlemen and.not young.men and that may be true but at the end of the day its what I feel comfortable with Xo

I choose to enjoy the company of companions when I travel and typically I have a very tight window of opportunity to visit with someone on my trips so I tend to book well in advance to ensure that I get the time slot I desire. On a couple of occasions I've had circumstances change around the timing of my trip or my meetings and have had to cancel on some ladies. In all cases it was days in advance however I still offered to pay her cancellation fee if she had one. Reputation is everything for companions and clients and I would never risk mine over a few bucks. I've also cancelled related to illness but again days in advance and again offered to pay the cancellation fee. I have also been cancelled on by a few companions. Twice last minute, within an hour of the appointment. One was a no show, I was at her location and messaged her for the apt number and she went MIA. It turned out that her phone died and she didn't have her charger at her incall so she couldn't get back to me. The other time her period apparently surprised her last minute and she cancelled. In neither situation was I really out anything. Disappointed yes, but I still had my funds to book another day. I choose to give a lady two chances before I deem her a "flake" so I took the ladies at their word and did rebook with each. In both cases I did have a great time on my next visit, however with no additional compensation in terms of time or $. Only once have I actually been out anything and it was when I booked a lady who was only available to do outcall. I went ahead and arranged a hotel for the visit and checked in. 20 minutes before the date she messaged me and said she couldn't make it so there I was with a hotel room at $270 and nothing to do and despite my best efforts could not arrange another lady on short notice. That one stung a little, and to add insult to injury I later found out that she cancelled on me to see another client for a longer appt. I would never book with that SP again but in this business it's to be expected that shit will happen from time to time. I've also paid deposits to "well known" respected travelling ladies to secure my appointment and truthfully it doesn't bother me at all to do that for the right lady that I know is legit. An elite, super respected, travelling lady I know, visited St. John's (paid for flights and hotel, big bucks ) based on clients who booked her time in advance. When she arrived she had the majority of those clients cancel. She was left to hope that she manage to get enough last minute clients (difficult to conduct proper verification last minute) to make her trip break even. In my opinion that lady would have every right to expect those clients to pay a deposit in the future for another visit. By cancelling they have shown themselves as untrustworthy clients and they need to prove to that lady that they deserve to be trusted. Basically, companions share with each other info on no shows, cancellers and time wasters. Likewise, clients also share information on ladies who are flakes. Reputation is everything and why f**k around and screw yours up. A Friday morning, coffee time rambling from Chuck

Ladies will ask for a deposit or request a cancellation fee, there is far too many guys that try and play the "book ya game"...yes and the "book ya game" as artist of the game,they like to book up space, than cancel within less than 12 hours. Meanwhile a gent like myself with good reputation,and have been verified/screened wanted that time, gets that last hour text and she tells me she now available..... to be quite honest,that pisses me off to no end. The fee's are there for a purpose, for the lady to protect her business, and for guys not to fuck them over with pulling a quick cancellation. It's a known fact that even agencies that are competitors will call the other and book time with a visiting SP too (Some ladies may use a agency in a city to represent them), and that is to simply "fuck over the competition" It goes without saying those that might be known as a tire kicker/time wasters may have to pay those security deposits, but I don't blame the ladies at all. Those that have a great rapport with ladies, actually sometimes don't have to pay a security deposit as we have been "Okayed" and verified AS good clients,but we would pay the cancellation fee is something drastically happen. I had a session not to long ago we were into our 3 hour session and by 1.5 hours, I received and family emergency text ( we were both taking a break after half way through and checking messages ) I had to leave, I left her of course the full donation when we first started so when I was getting dressed she gave me back some cash. I told her "no" I booked up her time, she said "No you're a great client and I know you will be back." :) Plus I've seen her numerous times. Shit does happen from time to time,but I like to think if you build your reputation as a good client, good things happen to those. Yes, I have had many...many...cancellations done to myself from ladies over my time, and some legit reasoning and I have been well compensated the next visit :) Like less fee,or more time, but those ladies that never responded back OR gave myself a reasonable explanation, well, I simply ignore them and they never see a cent of my coin ever. I work hard for my money as well, and I don't like being fucked over when taking time from my business,driving to and from her place and not even getting an apology, having said that, that was years back and I learned my lesson who to see, and I stick with reputable ladies, just like they stick with reputable gents. "Time is money" So lets's not waste it, it isn't fair in this business.

As always, a measured & well laid out response. If I may add to your list of reasons: There are unfortunately certain cities with a notorious history of no shows, last minute cancels & other assorted waste of time crap. My apologies to the wonderful men who reside & hobby there, but Winnipeg is in the top 3 of Cerb ladies list of " Won't go, won't show, not gonna happen" cities. Sorry, but that is the truth. Now you may have zero blame in this but you are now the recipient of others disrespect for a lady's time. The city also has a major pimp/low rent indi/b&s agency problem. Not to mention the ever lovely Mr Jetz, who in my opinion, should be eviscerated & hung by his entrails in a public ceremony. But I digress. My best advice: Do your research in your chosen intended, make sure that your deposit will not disappear (happens sadly which is why knowledge is paramount) & keep that appointment. Once you establish a reliable reputation with a few escorts, deposits may be waived in lieu of a personal history or good references (note that they are still at the lady's discretion & agencies don't count) And if successful, you may turn the tide of opinion for your city that will invite many wonderful ladies to visit, only enhancing your hobby experience. No pressure though, LOL! Hope this helps. Sandi

All good responses so far, I hope your question has been answered, but I thought I'd add my two cents... A gentleman would not have to be charged a cancellation fee, read RG's post for the definition of gentleman! As for deposits, they would be required for several reasons...a travelling lady is time limited and would usually expect her expenses as a deposit, a local lady booking a new member with no references or no post history (like you) may look for a deposit of half just for security and to get a feel for whether or not you are a gentleman, or perhaps you habitually cancel and have a bad rep amongst the ladies (they do talk to each other!). You didn't specify whom you 'heard' this from, but I would go back and ask this person which category above they fit themselves into! Life is good today, don't waste a minute of it!

The lady is within her rights to request and expect a deposit or cancellation fee. For the gentlemen, this lifestyle is an escape, an indulgence if you will. For the ladies this lifestyle is their livelihood! (emphasized because it seems to be something forgotten by some) If a lady cancels or no shows the worst for the guy is he doesn't have an encounter with her....but he does get to keep his money and can possibly set up another encounter with another lady If a guy cancels, that was time the lady set aside for him on the belief she would get income (remember, this is their job, their livelihood) It was time she could have used to see a paying client instead of setting aside for what turns out a no show/no income period of time. Instead she has, for that period of time, made no money...money to pay the rent, groceries, bills, possibly support her kids (yes, some ladies are also mothers) That's not to mention other expenses. The lady may have booked a hotel room for incalls , may also tour (which has added expenses involved). She could be paying for a hotel room, plane ticket, meals, incidentals etc, based on seeing a paying client. If a guy is a no show or cancellation then she from a business perspective just has expenses yet no income. Her profit loss statement is a loss If you schedule an encounter with a lady, carry through with the encounter. If you can't make it and are a no show or cancellation, pay a cancellation fee to the lady. You already have the money (or should have) so no excuse for not compensating the lady for her financial loss because you couldn't keep your commitment. And let's not forget something else. I've read posts, mostly in other boards (which thrive on negativity btw imho) about the lady being five minutes late or along those lines, and bashing her to holy hell...I read posts by those "men" I want to bash them (but I digress) But those same type of "men" seem to think it's ok to no show or cancel on a lady without compensating her someway. If you cancel and get a reputation for being a habitual canceller, well it isn't just between you and the lady, ladies talk to one another, and you will get known, and not in a good way A rambling from a guy who paid a lady her donation in full plus tip when he couldn't make an encounter due to illness. At least financially it wasn't a loss for the lady RG

I've had to cancel less than 12 times in years. Sometimes, it cannot be helped. However, if I have to cancel a session and when they rebook, I discount the next session. It isn't some lame $20 off either. We put in work for our sessions, re-arrange schedules, drop plans, I even dropped my basket shopping and fled the store once. On top of me being presentable, so does my location. I am OCD and often that is part of the hour notice. (drive home, 10 second tidy, get room prepared, towels etc, and then get MYSELF ready) Winnipeg has been HORRIBLE for no shows, double, triple booking girls. That no show section grew an amazing amount in 4 months. It has gotten to the point, I have to check the number in the bad date section before I agree to an appointment. I am also seriously considering a pre-booking fee and a cancellation fee. If all of these touring girls with extensive booking requirements and deposit requirements can do it, I feel I can do the same. How touring girls choose to book is totally understandable, I just don't understand why I am met with so much reluctance. I also feel if you lost your nerve and try to walk in and out you should pay some sort of fee. We just exposed ourselves (literally) and our location. Is that fair? Do we know where you live? As a Greek provider, whether you partake or not, you owe that fee. It is a specialty service that requires more preparation. Do you order a meal and not pay for it even if you only had a bite and there's nothing wrong with it? SD