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Evening Folks Finally time to go thru more of Tom's stuff and to related some of the discussions he and I had at the end of his journey. My little brother, who hated when I said that, because he was born just a couple of minutes after me, really loved the community here. There were some very special people that he wanted you to know how he felt. I will endeavour to send out personal notes to as many as possible, it was a long list.....horny bastard! He did want to send out a special thank you to Marc (k) and Angie at Angels Touch and Paradise Spa. He said he was thankful to get to know you. Always spoke highly of the establishments and the ladies that were there and who played so well! To his friends on the East Coast, he loved the interaction through this venue. To his supporters that through the last couple of months gave him strength and encouragement, I say thanx. So I will endeavour to get the individual thank you's out over the next little while. House got sold, now working on stocks and stuff. His family is coping well, all still laugh at some of the goofy, stupid things he did while completely sober or after a dram or nine of his single malt! Keep well folks Charles

Alas, it seems people have had a lot of reasons to share bad experiences and turn-offs they've been having recently. And though such posts can be educational and it's good to vent a bit, I thought it would be nice to hear some happy stories too. :) So my question (for everyone): what's the nicest unexpected act, thing or experience that a lady or gent has surprised you with? For myself, it was probably a wonderful Lyla lady I was messaging back and forth with. It was very easy going and genuinely flirtatious, and as we got more creative at one point she surprised me by sharing some erotic stories she had written. Already such a friendly chat, it was a sexy and unexpected gesture and one that I thought showed some trust in the context beyond which I'd any right to expect. It touched me and turned me on both - a memorable combination, to be sure!

Had a client once show up with a huge bouquet of stargazer lilies. He read on my website they're my favorite. I have to say, showing up with a big-ass bunch of flowers like that really made a great impression. I always appreciate gents who approach this as a date with a woman they are interested in rather than an appointment with a woman they're paying for.

Probably a trip to Cuba paid last year by a regular... Or last year I saw someone for an extended encounter. He was from the States but flew with everything he got me. An expensive granit cheese cutting board, some books on tattoos, some lingerie and what was amazing...On Twitter I posted that I wanted to get a tattoo inspired by the art of Ozuama Kaname. He went online, did research, then drew a picture of me (obviously with all my currents tattoos) and then drew an imaginary tattoo of what he thought would look good on me. He spent so much time on this I cried

Well, that took an interesting turn, didn't it. I would humbly suggest that since the "Ottawa summer social" is a no-go, this thread should be closed and a new one for the Ottawa September Social be initiated.

It has only been a couple of days since the cancellation was announced. Bear in mind that the people who organize the socials do so entirely voluntarily, get pretty much nothing in return, and have jobs and other things going on in their lives. If they decide that they can't be bothered any more, we'll all be much the poorer for it. The fact that they've just put a lot of time and effort into organizing an event that not enough people can go to - despite the fact that some folks had been explicitly asking for it - is hardly going to be encouraging for them. Giving them shit over the refunds this soon - and publicly, at that - is probably not going to help.

It's been a while since I have said thank you to the women of Lyla.com It's been just a little over 5 years since I had joined Cerb. The first year I mostly lurked and read recommendations and the interesting threads until I finally got the nerve to meet my first SP. The first meeting lead to another meeting and so on. Then I went and tried a MA, but that didn't work out too well:(. But the next MA was a well known GFE MA which showed me how much fun Massage can be :). Since then I have met many women, some of which I am still seeing after 5 years. I've met many great women here that I have had the honour to repeat with. In my many experience, I think I only had 3 not very good experiences, one of which was a bait and switch. But the rest were all good experiences with many that were exceptional. I have participated and started many threads in the last 3 years and have chatted with many people in the chat room. But since the beginning of the year with the new laws and the name changed from Cerb to Lyla. I've noticed that the mood here has changed. The censorship has affected the topics that we can discuss. Recommendations have to be written in a less descriptive manor. Many members have stopped seeing companions afraid of being caught by the new laws. Quite a few women had retired from the profession. But most have stayed and adjusted their advertising to fit with the new rules. But recently the women are coming back and members are starting to post on threads and posting more recommendations. The new laws haven't really changed much so far. No stings or people being arrested in Ottawa yet. The police are only interested in going after pimps and human trafficking. The MA spa's have been hiring many new sexy women. There have been quite a few women that have retired that are coming back to the business. Some of them I considered legends when they were here. I've had taken the opportunity to meet some of them recently, as I had missed my chance before :). And found out why they are so highly recommended. As I have said before, the women who truly enjoy being a companion are the most fun to be with. Hopefully in time this government will be replaced and the laws changed so that we can have more freedom of expression. So here is my toast to the women of Lyla.com. Salute, to the kind caring women of Lyla.com that post and contribute their opinions and advice to us men. These women offer their services without discrimination to men of all sizes, races, disabilities. All the ask is that you are a gentleman and that you have great hygiene. They offer companionship, sometimes friendship to lonely men, widowers and virgins. For a short time the man can feel the love and passion of a woman. Some men are shy and lonely. This gives them the chance to be with a woman that he can only dream about, the girl from school that they only dreamed about being with. Or they help you have the fantasy that you dream about. Sometimes they can keep a marriage going by providing the sex that is needed in a sexless marriage. I have become a more confident man and have had many outstanding experiences with many of the women that I have met here in the last 5 years. Many memories made and friendships that continue to this day. I have gotten to know a few of this women personally and admire them for what they do to support their kids. Or to put themselves through University. I just wanted to show my appreciation for the companionship that they offer. And I am sure that other members of Lyla.com feel the same way. If so, let's here from other members. Yours Someguy

On my second visit with a lovely touring lyla lady, she presented me a beautiful hand-made Thank You card with her own hand writing expressing eloquently her appreciation for the way I treated her at my first visit.

One of my gentlemen friends shares the same type of spiritual interests as I do and we always have these fascinating conversations. He feels like a kindred spirit. He bought me a book from an author I have been meaning to check out for some time. Thanks you know who you are and you made my day! Xo. This is a bit different but I did have a client buy me a car as a surprise. This was more of an exclusive arrangement but nevertheless something I would never expect. He said the look on my face was priceless! This was some time ago and I learned that he has passed away. He was a special person. I have many great clients and while gifts are never expected, to me it is the time and thoughtfulness they put into it whether it's a gift or act of kindness. Posted via Mobile Device

Let's take s deep breath here and I'm not into a flame war. That said, the requests for the little bit of money would of been best to had done in private. It leaves a bad taste in the two individuals that put in their endless efforts to organize these events. Yes everyone has done some kind of organization in fund raisers, socials,golf outings but out of respect as I've done numerous of these type of events we try to please everyone, and to respond within 5 days or 10 days whatever the case might be its best to have some kind of patience for VOLUNTEERS. This never should of come out in this thread about monies owned. My humble opinion. And Alexxandria and Skates thanks for ALL you both do, it is difficult to please everyone.

I had the extreme pleasure of meeting Meaghan today and had an amazing time! She truly is a wonderful lady and provides fantastic service. I highly recommend her. Booking an appointment was really easy. She has an ad here on Lyla, which is very accurate. She is very prompt in replying to texts. She is traveling across Canada and is only in Winnipeg for another day or two, so don't miss out. Thanks Meaghan for a wonderful time.

Anytime a client gifts me with a new book. There's a reason my wishlist is almost entirely books :)

Last night, I had a miscommunication VIA txt messages. Messages were not coming threw in right order and so on. Well he almost decided not to come, but then said alright on my way.... I was just so happy that he decided to have faith and still visit with me rather than jumping to conclusion that I was not sincere. So often we don't give or get the benefit of doubt when these things happen. I am grateful that he did, as we hit it off amazingly! I am sure I have made a lasting friendship:)

Why have some posts in here been deleted? Someone used very racist language, and that + all references were removed? I'm not saying that Ottanon is correct for what he has said, but now it just looks like it's one-sided.

A large latte brought this morning by a regular who has been working out of town, and came back for the weekend. it is my favourite thing.

Your last sentence "or asked it was going to the next one maybe" perhaps things in this thread would of been best left at that. Even if it was September social or the Christmas social, its paid for in advance. If it was myself that's what I would done, my monies are paid for the next one. No big deal. Now we have words exchanged, people getting on either side of a phrase used, just makes me think, f$&k was it ALL worth it? I don't think it was worth it at all.....so even it was 5 days 10 days 15 days, people are on vacation, working, operating and running a business I don't think anyone's intention was NOT to refund your funds. I shake my head at shit like this, no wonder ALOT of us than been here for quite sometime don't post here anymore, I'll stay over at another site rather than reading about someone having a melt down over 45 bucks or whatever. And yes it's your money but seriously ??? I posted on this thread because 2 volunteers were (IMHO) attacked and as far as I'm concerned it was not required, and I would defend people that take time out of their busy lives organizing an event that others can enjoy. Hopefully this doesn't f$&k up future events. Peace out! Catch you on Twitter

Been a number of heated threads on this topic already and no matter what anyone answers it never is the correct answer it seems JMO but no need to bring back a heated discussion on the subject, here are a few threads on the subject http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143689 RG

Jenny was dancing daytime earlier this week. Also seen were Joy, Tiffany, Juicy, Chloe, Havana, Sofia and Serenity. All great eye candy and good company. Recently there's been a stunning visitor called Lexus. Pretty with pale clear skin, and amazing T&A on a very lean hard body. Cato may be interested to hear that Ariel has been in Saturday's and some evenings lately.

For the record I have sent the transfer with an extra dollar, now that I have been given a proper address to send it. BTW, did I forget to mention that a certain person, that claims to be the founder of the socials, tried to use that to come in for free at a recent social. Anyone who knows mistert can confirm this information. There is an old saying not to spit in the air as it might fall back on ur face.

First for the record, the social has not been cancelled, it was postponed a second time to a date in the fall. Secondly, I did not hear a complaint when I took a few days to cash in the money to pay for said tickets. Thirdly , my last post suggested ppl, who already bought tickets, should let me know what they want to do about tickets. For the record, Ottanon did send me a PM which I saw this morning while packing my stuff. I had every intention to do the e-mail transfer today. However, these days I am helping a friend at a restaurant. Before 6 am I was awaken by txt from a server who was sick and could not come in to work. All attempts at finding a replacement failed so I had to take her spot. And it was a busy day so had ppl in till around 8PM at which time I had to interview a potential employee. Now why am I doing this post so late? well after the interview, I noticed the walk in cooler stopped working and temperature in it was rising quickly. So I thought getting that fixed and preventing the lost of thousand of dollars worth of food was more important than returning 45 dollars. So now, instead of taking 45 mins to drive back home, I will do the e-mail transfer, and just to show I am not cheap, I will send an extra dollars in interest. And BTW since its seems its the organisers who should stop living to contact everyone, I will make sure, in the morning, to txt the lady, who's ticket was also being paid for, and let her know if she comes in September, she now needs to buy her own ticket. THANKS TO ALL THOSE WHO MADE UNDERSTANDING COMMENTS!!! Additional Comments: Sorry folks guess the refund will have to wait. The only e-mail I have is the interact one (catch.interact...) Doubt I can send the refund there. Can I go home now???

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Well I've met some great ladies and treasure all the meetings I've had. And I know I've been blessed with some great surprises. A couple top of mind that stand out. - since this is something that passes time while I travel a great woman I know adjusted her touring plans so we would be in the same city at the same time. - a regular lady (semi-retired) who knows me quite well sensed on one date at my hotel that I wasn't as up-beat as normal. She took charge and out we went to a bar nearby for some drinks and karaoke. It sure changed my mood and well the rest of the night back at my place went as perfect as always. - I received a small painting that was part of a set a few years back. She has the other piece. I still have it in my office. - many other cards, small gifts and candies that mean so much. - and recently a big Lindt bar and personal note from a lady when we had a mix up in communications. It really is all the little things. Luv them all! Cub

Finding out that the lady looks much better in person than her pics. One very special lady, I knew she was slim. When I met her, she was TALL and slim with forever legs. My god, how happily surprised I was.

After yet another perfect PEI weather day and many hours of weeding the garden and flower beds, I'm sipping on a well deserved beer and I will browse on Lyla for a bit. AND....new PEI potatoes for supper from the neighbor!

dog treats for my travelling girl. not only a wonderful gesture, but she LOVES them.

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i was asked to stay for dinner after a Massage session with one of the MA's that I had first met and saw for 3 years. She also made me lunch a few times. I miss her. I've had a couple of women asked me to stay longer after the session so that we can chat more over a glass of wine. This demonstrates to me that they truly enjoy being with me and I have become friends with these women.

"How much for 10 minutes?" I wrote back and said "Are you kidding me? LMAO!!" Even an oil change probably takes longer than that! I have to shake my head and wonder what is going to become of this industry? I've noticed it's become so cold and mechanical from the way people introduce themselves to this clinical type of experience they seek. If it wasn't for all the great regular clients I have cultivated, it would be this type of bullshit that would make me want to leave the business. Many thanks to the clients out there who do take the time and effort. You do not know how grateful I am as I'm sure many other ladies are as well. Posted via Mobile Device

I enjoyed his company and always had a chuckle when I saw that pair of golfing pants in his photo album here on Lyla. He was one of a kind and many hold a special place for him their thoughts and hearts. Cheers to Tom! Posted via Mobile Device

he is missed on this forum, his witty remarks and quips really got us going on here :-) He was a wealth of making us laugh, cry and have a great chuckle sometimes

when they tried to do a summer social last year, it didn't work out either, and I had paid for my ticket. having said that, I don't recall sending a PM to loneskater asking for a refund right away. I do believe he sent me a message saying I had a choice, I can get a refund, or I can go to the next social. at that time, the next social wasn't announced, but I chose to get a refund. we exchanged messages, and arranged a time to meet, and it was set and done. bottom line is, like a lot of people on this board, I DO trust loneskater, he wouldn't rip people off. just my opinion. looking forward to the sept social, and as usual, its on the day before I get paid LOL

Being taken out for breakfast by a special lady the morning after our encounter. An unexpected and pleasant surprise, which made it all the more special And one of the reasons I continue to see her RG

I still attend on showing up for the social, provided there is transportation, and that I have no midterm. Despite how this thread has derailed, I am still excited to come out and meet you guys. I will be purchasing my ticket closer to the date (presumably the 20th). Ladies who are attending! I highly encourage the VIP package. How awesome will it be to get in a limo and arrive stress free? -Chloe.

Going through a broker was the best way to do this, for me! Everything was thoroughly explained, and I *think* i'm with a good company. I was under the impression that insurance rates were higher here, but my cost is actually a few dollars lower here for essentially the same thing, with added value.

Many thanks for this update; a gent truly loved by all. Gone but never forgotten [with apologies to the author]

its very common now in Montreal and Toronto Halifax is just catching up with are about 20 years behind down here. I don't think it is meant to be against anyone just more of a personal preference. Is it ever nice to go home and just walk into a Massage parlour or go to a strip club , nothing here, maybe someday this city will catch up it is a beautiful place though.

I recently had a session with Lisa, the new lady who replaced Anna. Lisa is tiny, but shapely, in her mid-to-late thirties, I would guess, and provides a pretty good massage. I was feeling happy when I left, but not quite as happy as when I saw Cathy a few weeks ago.

Not 100 per cent sure but look for angie monday and friday's this summer. I think she said she is working out of town the other week days

Chia, Lexy, Tasha, Christina, Clarity, Jasmine, Texas, Gabrielle, Kelly, Jamie, Madison, Maya, Skyla. Two or three other girls whose name I did not get. Have not seen Angie is some time (sad face)

It's not necessarily a racist thing. If a lady's agent or SO is black, he/she may not want other black men to visit, which is why they explicitly put it in the ad. This also applies to other races where the lady may not feel comfortable seeing men from her community. I used to know an Asian lady who was not comfortable seeing Asian men. I am not sure if it appears tacky to actually put it in the ad, but at least they're being honest. The type of service we are offering is that of intimacy and whatever reason we choose not to see certain people, is really no one's business. For example, I am no longer entertaining clients under 30 because as a rule I have found it to be more trouble than it's worth. I still have a few younger ones that I let see me because they are the exception to the rule. But that was only because their initial contact was more than a "Hey" or "Yo escort lady, I wanna git with u" type of text.

It's good this matter has been resolved now. I'm very surprised to see so much anger about a few dollars. I get the idea of the importance of communication, but would suggest that a more generous and understanding approach with loneskater and Alexxandria would have been more appropriate and more effective. bellafan

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on my opinion you overreacted please send him email asap, he will be going on holidays tomorrow, and he will be happy to return your money.

When someone specifically mentioned that they took the time to read the lady's website, it says she uses clean sheets for EVERY session. They would already know that. I guess they didn't read it. I find that very off putting And just saying "Available" isn't a good way to start out. Hello is always better. Guys may not think this is a big deal but we are in an intimate business here and saying Hello or quickly introducing yourself will get you more brownie points. Trust me! When I see someone say "Available?", it appears to me that this is just a transaction that is cold and impersonal. I don't roll that way and I have no interest in meeting men like that. Same with "Rates, service, location?" Delete, delete and delete! Forgive me for wanting to give someone an experience and starting out with a connection first. That means by saying "Hello" if you want to have a great experience and not just some in and out like you're another number. If a guy treats a lady like that, she may receive him but not with her best foot forward. So maybe that could explain the dirty sheets, etc you have had. If that suits you, then no harm, no foul.

Sure you can have a rebate! But you have to pay for the whole two years up front to get it... :)

If you haven't yet had the pleasure of even meeting me why would you ask for a discount..I have given not one not two but three different rates and as far as I am concerned if he cannot pay at least one of those and already asking me for a discount that is Not a good luck or a turn on in my books I offer three different rates for those who may not be able to afford the hour I absolutely adore and appreciate my regular cliental and treat them good, for someone that hasn't even met me face to face yet already ask to lower my rates is not someone I have any interest in You have no idea what we as companions go through on a daily basis,how many times we are asked to lower our rates and what not I love what I do and I love being with those who appreciate me and our time together But before you ask me about a discount try meeting me first (become a regular) then maybe we can talk Sorry my comment made you feel a way but that is my opinion and how I feel about that situation

As a luddite who has a god awful cell phone with a pain in the ass text function, I always prefer email bookings. I have an email address that is solely for SP related conversations which makes things easier on the discretion front. I will say I also tend to book days in advance so email exchanges are more practical since there is more time for responding. I regularly confirm my meeting the day before via email. On the day of the meeting then I start to use my cell phone (and that god-awful text function) as per the instructions of the lady that I have made an appointment with. This system works very well for me and I assume it works for the ladies as I have had no problem making appointments.

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1. EC. And this one. And PERB. 2. Depends who you ask. 3. Depends what you are into. The most recommended locals are generally mature women (just read through threads, or do a search of a name you've found). If you want someone younger and you're new, try a well-recommended traveller, generally from Korea, China, or Quebec who is in town for around ten days. A word to the wise. There are two reasons to use this site. One is to find "the best" SP for you so you have a great experience, but even more importantly, it is to avoid a truly terrible experience: not merely lackluster service, but anything from flakes and no-shows to scams and violence, robbery armed and otherwise, and potential involvement with LE. There's a shark in the water, and next to it crocodile, and along the bank, a tiger. So, with that in mind, a broad tip: do not answer any ad on BP unless you have found recommendations from someone trustworthy (there are ways here of gauging that) and/or checking pics on TinEye and/or searching for matches of phone numbers. While there may be legitimate reasons why someone keeps changing their name, or why multiple SPs may be sharing a number, it can also be a red flag.