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Until you have a rapport with a lady that you are repeating with, pay before. Yes you run the risk of having them run off or not getting what you paid for....but as already said, that will be last money that lady ever gets from you. Once you have a working relationship and they know you will be back, it becomes less of an issue plus the lady is more relaxed and the timing of the money becomes a non issue because you both know it's there and will be paid. It's about respect on both sides of the transaction, and that goes a long way in BOTH leaving satisfied.

One thing I have learnt over time is this, ALOT of ladies are not comfortable in a social situation with a client. NB is a SMALL place and one never knows who they may run into in public. How do you explain to someone you know who you run into in a restaurant that you're out with a friend when he looks like your dad (this is only an example). I, for example will not spend time with anyone in public that I have not previously spent time with. I need to feel comfortable with who I will be in public with as well as that we are a "good fit socially". Understand many gentleman do not get the no PDA's in public and once that happens a lady is less likely to want to go out in public with someone. Social situations are built on trust and compatibility. Find a lady you enjoy, visit with her on her terms and then ask her if dinner, casino and a date is possible.

Being in Halifax....cant really beat that....

I just had a guy completely flip out because I told him I won't do bare bjs. Started berating me, telling me I was ugly, fat and that his friend said I smelled. How he bet my family would be proud of me when they find out what I do. All this because I said no to bare in a province that is issuing warnings about syphilis being on the rise. Really?! There's a turn off. Someone that can't respect someone for being careful about what they do.

Are you aware that you have to pay for their time even if it's just dinner outing? Maybe that's the reason why. I don't think any lady wants to hang out and not have their time compensated .

I don't think this is my biggest highlight of the day but it sure will bring some Summer time fun, while cleaning out the storage room in my basement I found more of something that I thought I found all of sometime back. Hello 1990! I just found 4 useable Oopee Beach Balls from KFC... I was like 8 or 9 yrs old when they gave these out 90's commercial:

Easiest safe word system to use is one that is used at most public functions and even among mist privately. The traffic light system is super easy to remember. Green = all good, keep going Yellow = slow down need a breather Red = everything stops and we talk about what triggered the red after aftercare is done. Aftercare is essential when doing scenes no matter how hard or how soft. Could be just cuddling after or needing certain things. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me. I've been both sub and Dom. I am also a part of my local kink community and mentor others.

Always, always at the beginning. This goes beyond etiquette and you have to appreciate what a highly charged topic this is. Think of it from a lady's perspective and paying after is basically holding a threat over her head the entire time that you won't pay her. That isn't a recipe to help with chemistry. And truly, far more often the lady has a whole lot more to worry about from the unknown client than vice versa! Pay for your time. If you don't enjoy it then don't repeat.

I love feet!! Lol... Its so sexy seeing a woman in high heels! Kissing her feet, being played and teased with by feet... I was wondering if there are any MA's that offer Foot fetish fun? Anyone seen one that you would recommend? Tried doing a search but everything seemed old...though chances are I didn't do it right haha.. Anyways... If any of the lovely ladies see this post... Please feel free to pm me...

Given the staggering number of possible planets out there (so many that's it almost impossible to wrap one's head around the number), statistically speaking I'd be shocked if there wasn't other life somewhere. I'd be equally shocked, however, to learn that it had actually visited earth. So my guess is aliens...sure...but aliens with the technology and desire to travel all the way to earth to see what they can learn from anal probing...I'm thinking no.

Maybe start out in baby steps...get to know the lady, let her get to know you. Trust doesn't happen overnight. It may require booking a conventional date or two in the privacy of your hotel room to get to know a lady, and she gets to know you. Plus it allows the trust required to go out socially to be established. Nothing prevents you on those first couple dates relaxing, having conversation over drinks, maybe order room service. Once the lady gets comfortable with you and trusts you she may be inclined to go on a social date with you. Of course discretion is important. In a smaller city, the lady (or you) might not want to run into anyone who knows you/her. I know for myself there are a couple cities I would stay locked up in good and tight in my hotel room. Only because I wouldn't want to run into people I know and have to answer questions One other thing, if you meet a companion who would like to go out to dinner with you, discuss with her ahead of time restaurants she might like to go to. Nothing worse than showing up at a steakhouse and your date is a vegetarian Good Luck RG

The only answer, of course, is "we don't know." There's no reason to imagine we're the only life that's arisen in the universe, or even just our galaxy. The buildings blocks are everywhere, and there's nothing unique about our sun or our planet. So, are there other civilizations in the universe? I just about guarantee it. But are there any in our galaxy? Hard to say. The Fermi paradox is all about "given all the time and space that's been available, there should be lots of alien civilizations around us; but we should also be hearing from them, and we're not." The spans of distance, and of time, between the stars are so huge that it wouldn't surprise me if that meant no two civilizations capable of communication would ever overlap. Maybe we're the only extant civilization in our galaxy; there could have been others before but they've since died out, and others will arise but only after we're extinct. Little blossoms of civilization, popping up all over the galaxy... but never two at the same time. It's a good argument to eventually set up automated beacons somewhere like Pluto, designed to keep broadcasting out into space in every direction for a billion years. Maybe that way, long from now, someone will come and lay a few flowers at our civilization's tomb.

Receiving an unexpected and thoughtful card from a friend delivered in an unusual manner.

My Hitachi Magic Wand is my best friend. However be careful to not use it for too long and too much or like me you can desensitize your clit after a while...

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A very Happy Birthday to Kourtney! Have an amazing day luv!!! :D

Hi Everyone, I'm Kristen from Ottawa and will be providing companionship in the downtown core in the next few days. I look forward to getting better acquainted with this site and meeting new friends. Kristen

That's just a danm disgrace when someone has to belittle you for something you do not want to do You should never have to do anything you do not feel comfortable with...it's suppose to be all about good times I also do not provide anything bb and if someone feels the need to get upset because of it well they just aren't worth my precious time This seems to be a big problem lately....just because some offer a certain service doesn't mean all ladies do We are all different and work in different ways Playing safe is a Turn On for me thank you Additional Comments: There is nothing worse than going on a booking (out of town) and after speaking with someone and making plans on seeing them and then you don't hear shit from them Like why do you do that? I understand life happens but it takes only a a minute out of your day to write/call to cancel Such a major turn-off and I think those types will be marked in my book as NO for future visits

Boxers (grey and white plaid) to go with the cool of the evening after another warn day.

There's nothing like beach volleyball! Thanks for those, shaved! And here's our Emily Wilson, with thanks :)

For those of you who I haven't yet had the pleasure of meeting, my name is Bridgette and I'm an exotic dancer at Barbarella's. The Champagne Room is my favourite playground, and intimate dances with me are a playdate you'll never forget. We can start off by getting to know each other or reconnecting while watching beauties grace the stage. I'm an educated 24 year old woman and an avid traveler. I love swapping travel stories and restaurant recommendations. After enjoying some friendly conversation, we can move into the Champagne Room: while you sit back and make yourself comfortable, I'll heat things up by getting close and sensual. My long auburn hair will brush up against your face and the rest of the room will simply disappear. You can find me at 340 Queen Street this Friday, July 24, from 1:00pm until 6:00pm. I'm not at Barb's often, but I'm generally available on Fridays and Saturdays by request, so don't be shy about shooting me a PM if you'd like to come see me.

I can only speak for myself but it's a safety and discretion issue for me....I prefer our time spent is One on One in the privacy of our room not saying I am Not open to dinner and casino if I have met you then I would consider But I always require hotel room and full name to call and confirm before coming I wouldn't just meet you at the casino....how can I know it's legit and not a waste of time? Just my opinion

Check out Barbara highsexbabe as welll. There is not enough I can say about this lovely lady. She is the ultimate experience.

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I would look into You tube, it has some good DOM training. I have done this, and found it helpful to find the inspiration needed and spark some creativity. You will want to start saving some tools to have a good play box ready. The hardest part is to determine if your sub knows fully what they want and don't want. Many THINK they want this or that, then when time comes they do not. Safe words, wavers and consultations are very important.

Yes indeed! Just frustrating either way especially when they ask to see a pic lmaooo like are you serious because any where you seen my contact number you have seen a pic guaranteed They try hard but it just shows me they are not who I would like to share my time with I would much rather spend it with a kind genuine gentlemen who has taken the time to read my post I have no problems at all providing rates/location/availability Just as long as you are respectful xo

I am very glad to see everyone posting here in a positive way on this thread as it had potential to go very bad. I think londoncapers got his answer.

I never even thought of paying afterwards, i understand you don't want someone to run off with your money, but like cinelli said if you stick with known, reviewed ladies there is nothing to worry about. Always pay first or in advance. After spending time with some of these ladies, it's hard enough remembering my first name :P

One of my friends, a newbie to this, has had two ladies run off with his cash recently. Maybe that's a Winnipeg thing that outsiders don't understand. Be careful who you are dealing with and stick with known, reviewed ladies. I stick to the same ladies and pay before, during or after. No big deal, we have mutual trust. With touring ladies paying in advance secures a spot.

I've always paid at the beginning of an encounter, sometimes, actually more so now, I pay even before the beginning of an encounter...I pay the lady weeks/sometimes months in advance via email money transfer When I started in this lifestyle this was explained as the proper etiquette to follow for payment Whether you have a great, good, fair or poor experience is moot, you are paying for the lady's time and companionship. Sometimes whether an encounter is great,good, fair or poor depends on the lady, more often than not it depends on both you and the lady...chemistry/connection is important and that takes two. Irrespective, my experience is the lady gets paid at the beginning of the encounter. She shouldn't have to worry if she's going to be paid. And no matter how good or bad a date is, she gets paid, so why not pay her up front to begin with A morning rambling over cup number one RG

"Ontario 10 charges under new Criminal Code have been made for pimping and 4 charges have been made in ontario for advertising the sale of sexual services." Is there a link to read more about these charges?

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Why have some posts in here been deleted? Someone used very racist language, and that + all references were removed? I'm not saying that Ottanon is correct for what he has said, but now it just looks like it's one-sided.

has anyone seen Lucy at Jade spa. would like some info on prices and extras provided please. send me pm please, and thank you

Happy GiganticFantastic Birthday to you Kourtney!

Happy Birthday Kourtney, hope you enjoy your day !

Wishing you a Happy Birthday Kourtney :) Hope you have a awesome day :) xoxo

I highly recommend Britney and Christina!!! Damn great massage from each and both are sexy hot!!!

Happy Birthday Kourtney Enjoy your special day RG

Happy Birthday Kourtney have a good one

I'm shocked that nobody mentioned Rodney's Oyster Bar in Toronto. If you love seafood like me, I would highly recommend you try it.

In Ottawa the Mongolian Village is by far my favourite! It's a build your own stir-fry type of place, you choose your veggies, meat, noodles, sauces, etc and the cook it up for you :) Plus with free soup and rice, how can you go wrong?! PS - they deliver now too! Posted via Mobile Device

Definitely the silver spoon in Ottawa, it has the best thai curry I've had... nothing in Toronto or Montreal compares :(

Meaghan, first time I have disagreed with you on anything,its so distressing! Vitos is better than Il Pomodori,really?

From my recollection, the photos are very accurate. She has very light skin with great complexion

I've met this lady twice and was quite satisfied both times. She is ver attractive and friendly. I would recommend ignoring that jerk on CL that keeps bad mouthing her. He's full of crap as far as I'm concerned.

In Ontario 10 charges under new Criminal Code have been made for pimping and 4 charges have been made in ontario for advertising the sale of sexual services. none of the charges in ontario are "purchase of sexual services" but thats ontario.... Saskatoon has been going after guys and i am not sure how many charges and not sure about other provinces.

Of the ladies mentioned here, I've only seen Jordan (twice), so I can certainly recommend her without hesitation. Meaghan and Miss Manda have great reps and are on my "Just-Gotta-Love" list. ;) Looking through the recommendation section here, and on BP, will give you a couple more possibilities, I think.