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Back when the whole Ashley Maddison thing happened, over 50 people asked to close their Lyla accounts within a week! So we want to give you some tips to avoid your personal information being exposed if a hack like this happens again (we're sure it won't, but just to be safe). NEVER USE YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS FOR SITES SUCH AS LYLA, ASHLEY MADDISON, LEOLIST ETC. If you use your personal email that others know and a site gets hacked like Ashley Maddison did, you're just asking for problems if you don't want people to know what you are up to! We use ALIAS emails here and the only piece of personal information asked for is an email - so make sure you have hobby emails. Servers get hacked! Even MULTI MILLION DOLLAR COMPANIES so please take precautions in case the worse happens.

Toilette paper that is set on the wrong side...annoying... I must be OCD ;) For me this is the right way :D http://puls.canuckingabroad.com/replace-a-recessed-toilet-paper-holder/trendy-recessed-toilet-paper-holder/

I have had the honor to know a number of amazing SP's who provide so much more then service . They listen, they console , they care, they give advice , they understand, they forgive, they share their many acts of kindness, they support.. give us strength , they give us something to look forward to, like a child at the expectation of Xmas...and they give us a trust that is hard to find... ..if only more of us could be like them...what a better world this would be... Those Special SP's .... We are blessed in Atlantic Canada for so many things that big cities just dont have... I lost my lovely wife to cancer 6 years ago and a long 9 year illness prior to leaving me...if was difficult and if had not been for a very special SP , Im not even sure if I would be around today ...at least in the capacity I am today... Thank you for being there for us when we needed you.... and in case you are wondering , there is a tear in my eye....and if just made its way down my cheek...

Life sometimes throws us a curve ball and we have to cancel but there are some real gentlemen here who realize the work you go though to get ready to spend your time with us and how you can't immediately book someone else to take our place, so if we have to cancel we still donate in full, at least I do (and I know there are others that feel the same way) on those very rare occasions. We also greatly respect what you do for us and treat you with the respect and admiration you deserve. Very sorry to hear you have encountered a few men that are still boys and haven't grown up yet. Hopefully as time goes on you will find regular clients who are more worthy of your time.

The shooter in Virginia seeking his 15 minutes of fame on TV and Facebook/Twitter without letting the consequences of what he did to those he shot, and those who loved them, deter him from what he wanted. That he ended up shooting himself does not make the events fairer; only sadder. It sucks that people can think about and act towards others in a hurting way. As a wise singer once co-wrote "All you need is love..." and he came to the same end!

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Hi everyone, CBC Ottawa has an interesting documentary called the Human Library http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/watch-full-documentary-on-cbc-ottawa-s-human-library-project-1.3137148 I would recommend you watch the whole documentary but there is section that should interest the members of LYLA. It starts at the 34.40 mark thereabouts.

What a certain Cougar was wearing yesterday.... Thanks for sharing CapitalCforcougar :)

I enjoy taking my frustration out at the gym, put some music on in my headphones and feel the beats, have a hard workout :)

pic looks really good. I couldn't found any reviews on terb. Would like to know... anyone? Update: found some info on terb. not sure if I can post the link here. may be not. Seems to have good reviews.

Apparently the universe decided today was my day! I lost my wallet over a year ago and before I moved to my new place. I thought it was long gone! Called the Inn in Kingston to book a room for my visit... Turns out they have held onto it for over a year because they couldn't get in touch with me! My head is spinning and I think my face might break if I smile anymore! This is way better than I ever thought possible...

Please consider a couple of sessions with experienced Reiki master/energy therapist. I didn't believe in chakras or clearing of negative energy until I experienced myself. It isn't terribly costly, at least not the lady I see. :)

A little positivity goes a long way... Finally things are going better! One good client makes a world of difference! Thank you so much for all the positive comments everyone :)

Yes there is an answer and that is applying the law of attraction to your business. We've all been there in those rough moments and what vibe you put out, you are attracting right back to you. I'm not perfect. There are some days where I'd like to take a strip off of someone but feeling that emotion will bring more of it directed at me. Notice how you will get one WOT calling or texting, you get furious and it happens again and again and again in the same day? That my friend is the law of attraction. When you are saying what you DON'T want, that's all the universe hears and will give you more of it. In my ads, I say "Rates are FIRM". Why? Again when you say the word DON'T, that's all the WOTS tend to hear and will circle around you like a bunch of sharks. Stop saying in ads "I don't do this or that as much as you can. Instead of saying "No blocked calls", you say "Blocked calls will be ignored." I only have callers now who are willing to follow my protocol. Notice how I said in the previous sentence, I ONLY instead of "Don't?". So set your intention of what you DO want and focus on that but not efforting on it either even in a good way wanting it to happen. Just expect it. Don't ask or try to think about how it will happen. Just know good clients will come your way. You have to believe that. Stress, worry and anger all cause resistance to what you really want. Imagine your good intentions ( i.e. having good clients) was a rocket being launched out into the universe. You want to have good clients. The universe HAS to provide you with what you want. This is the law of attraction. However because you may still have wots on the brain and you feel a need to be in control of the situation then a WOT calls, followed by your own personal frustration and then there are more wots. This is called resistance. You need to let go and trust the universe. You have to wake up everyday and tell yourself you will be seeing nice clients and they will all follow your protocol. Any fear or worry will cause the rocket to go the other way to Wotville. My business has changed as a result with the above info and I have helped a few other friends of mine in the business with learning about the law of attraction and how to apply it in all areas of their life. I'd love to teach a crash course on this for other ladies because it really has changed a lot of things for me in a positive way. Also gratitude meditation works wonders for me in my business because it allows me to appreciate what I already have instead of focusing on what I don't have. See the difference there? When you appreciate, the universe will give you more. Never insult the universe by not appreciating. You need to buy the book "Ask and it is Given" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. This will change anything and everything about you will react to life's situations whether they are major or minor. I still gets the WOTS here and there but you have to respond favorably to YOURSELF instead of reacting to them. I still have my moments but they are few and far between as opposed to wanting to tell them to literally go eff themselves which I would never do because I'm a professional but that's my inner voice coming out right now. lol. I'm sure many have seen me bitch or be rather upfront on certain threads on this site but then I let it go. I have 68 seconds before it becomes a manifestation in my life. I'm able to get out of a mood quicker than I was before because I know what's coming for me if I don't! Once again, I'm not perfect but I'm aware of the tools needed to be used to change my attitude and I do it. There are the secrets that wealthy millionaires use all the time! Notice how the book "The Secret" had so much hype surrounding it 7 or 8 years ago? Why did people give up on it and claim it didn't work? Because they wanted their manifestations or their wants and needs immediately. They wanted it and kept saying "Where is it?" which is resistance so they never received it. It doesn't work like that. And as for winning the lottery, the words "winning" and "lottery" are a large feat and uphill battle words to being with. They are resistance words because they are based on odds which is something else that also has to do with resistance. Set out the intention like mailing a letter, forget about it and it will come back to you. Trust me! I do it everyday. I have small manifestations happening for me. I tend to manifest good things. I can think about a client I haven't seen in a while, set the intention that they will call, forget about them and a few days later they call! Sometimes I have even managed to do this in a matter of a couple of hours and one time in 15 minutes while I was out the Home Depot. lol. I have a list of regulars I do this with in my mind and do it at the beginning of each week. One time 2 out of the 5 called and the other 3 the following 2 weeks after that. This is not luck. It's the universe responding and giving me the manifestations I requested. I also see triple numbers on license plates, on the internet and everywhere I go up to 20 times a day. This means I'm in alignment with the universe when I see this. It's being in sync. But that's a whole other subject which has to do with spiritual awakening and being conscious. I am appreciative of everything and everyone in my life. :) PM me and we can talk.

http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/6015-9030-sweet-beautiful-casedy-magical-mouth-soft-skin-incall-and-outcall/29357324 I have seen her ads pop up for awhile. anyone have any experience ?

Just copy and paste the url from the page you want to link to. Like this: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=213996&highlight=busty

According to cowboykenny, sham agency, fake photos on their website http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=10202

http://ottawasecrets.com/Krista.php http://dosug116.com/anketa/956 http://www.top-modals.com/?m=prostitutes&id=6239 Granted the ads from the latter two sites are 3 years old. Stated that she was 20, which matches ottawasecrets current profile of 23. Maybe she moved to Ottawa from Ukraine but never had the opportunity in these last 3 years to take new pictures. :)

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Good morning you ;) I will be available tonight from 7pm until 10h00pm in the west end to make you live a real body to body experience. Don't be surprised. You won't be able to resist.... I have a killing smile and burning hazel eyes... a soft skin like silk and a 36 C breast that will make you melt... let's not talk about my behind. .. round and firm. Miam! Our session will be non rushed and very unique. Sensuality is my speciality and please you is my mission. You are more then welcome to pm.me or text me at 613 261 4169 to know more about my services . Is it your birthday? Come on in. Free door Fee and special in the room. I will also be available Thursday from 7h00pm until 10h30pm. (Already booked between 8h30 and 10pm ) Recommendations : https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37195 ALSO NURU MASSAGE AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST ****new pictures ! Have a peek ****** Have a wonderful day Xoxo Lany

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To my sweet Ottawa Gentlemen and couples ;) as much as I enjoyed and treasured my time with you. Some more intimatly other in a casual way. It's time for me to say Goodbye and close that beautiful and fun adventure. I will be entertaining and enjoying some quality time with a few great gentlemen before I dissapear ;) I will keep great memories and will never forget about our time together. Hoping to meet you for a last time and if not wishing you great time with the wonderful ladies on CERB. Sending you lots of love and sweet times ;) MONICA DD XOX www.monicadd.escortbook.com [email protected]

***Just a quick note!! It's come to my attention by many cerberians (I made that up just now ha), that my rates are too low and that it's actually reflecting badly on me and my service! I realize I should invest in some new professional photos, but other than that I am a high class lady! SO - I will be raising my rates soon to accommodate all of this. I just wanted to let you know that if you have already seen me before the rate raise that I will always honor your grandfathered rate. You will not be expected to donate the extra, as a token of my appreciation for our times together!** ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hi!! <3 I'll be staying in a nice hotel downtown Halifax this week, for IN/OUT! I posted some new pics at the bottom too! <3 My availability: Monday Aug 24: Available (After 4) Tuesday Aug 25: Available Wednesday Aug 26: Available Thursday Aug 27: Available Friday Aug 28: Available (Early Only - Til checkout) My rates: 120hh 200hr 300-90 min 350-2hrs (I charge for time of our date only! No "extra" fees or whatever... everything included =)) I'm 5'10, 23, in shape, very small waist and large hips - hourglass with a bit of a booty LOL. I have long platinum blonde hair, pretty face, always groomed nails and try to keep a tan on my lightly freckled body! 36DD-24-38, enhanced but told I'm very natural feeling (I was originally a full C) I'm very open-minded, happy and friendly! I enjoy playing as much as I do talking and cuddling! If things get really wild I tend to be submissive and let you drive. I guess we can't list specific things anymore, but I am open to most safe activities and willing to try a lot of things =) I have a lot of great reviews (Thank You <3 <3 <3) on here if you want to read them first. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=197925 http://lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=5160 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=9828 PM me or email me [email protected] if you want to setup a date! =) <3 Kisses, Christina <3 xoxo

Hi! I'm happy to say I'll be downtown from late-afternoon on Tuesday (25th) until noon on Thursday (27th). Should you wish to see me between Thursday and Friday, please let me know in advance and I'll try to extend my visit. As always, I'll be in a discreet, smoke-free, downtown location with ample street & lot parking available. During my visit, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time for you (some advance notice needed) It never hurts to ask though =-) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romanance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who are more daring... the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a solid 5'7, (5'11 with heels) 36D 24 34 with very long (real) dark hair and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix. I just added a bunch of new ones! Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to hobbies to philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. I'm a passionate person and not afraid to dive deep into someone I am with.. So don't be shy to tell me what mood you are in and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi $240h $160hh (multiple hours work on declining scale. Benefits to on-going relationship/frequent visits.) 2hr $440 3hr $600 Please contact me if interested in Overnights, 24hr and Multi-Day-Get-Away packages. Chez vous $290h (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional contribution for additional companion Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further contributions may or may not be requested, depending on several factors. IE the nature of the subject, frequency of visits, appointment length, number of extra specialties within one appointment and so on. I pride myself on being very fair to both of us in my pricing. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very versatile and um... creative *giggle* No private numbers please. Hope to hear from you soon! Kisses, JessyCeleste 613-793-4183

I assume you mean Talia. She is about 5'10" with heals, long straight black hair, enhanced chest and a rock hard body. She clearly works out a lot. She said she only dances occasionally and as I am not a regular, I can neither confirm nor deny. She is super nice, so treat her well belleville.

I've seen Coco as a duo with another lady (90% sure it is the same lady) and can say that she is a legit SP. Additional Comments: If you like black girls, try Jai-lynn. Additional Comments: Tried to see Miss Pretty P. (Paris) yesterday but kept getting jerked around on when she would be ready. Made me nervous. Could just be typical BP poor service but I got called it off. Irony is that she's one of those SP that has a big spiel about "no time wasters". Location was a motel but the bottom end motel in Burnside.

That's my main problem with this disclosure. It doesn't seem to be motivated by money or morals, so I'm left to conclude it is just an act of the most obscene type of vandalism. While every news outlet seems careful to point out that Ashley Madison does not send verification emails to ensure the supplied email address is valid (or owned by the person supplying it), all the credit card transactions including the date of the transaction, the persons real name, home address (or rather the billing address for the credit card), last 4 digits of the credit card number, the authorization number and the amount of each transaction is there - that can't be explained away by someone setting up a bogus account using your email address. I'm also shocked by the reaction on social media, it seems everyone not affected by this has a very poor judgemental attitude (e.g. serves them right, looks good on them, etc.). Not only am I very disappointed by this, it has definitely lowered my opinion of the human race overall. These are real people and some of them will end up divorced as a result of this and some of them have children that will be forever adversely affected by their parents divorce. I don't think anyone can ever come up with a valid reason why someone could be "justified" in adversely affecting the lives of so many people they don't even know. Quite simply what other people do is not our business and not for us to judge what they do. I do however find I have no problem passing judgement on the vandals behind this for the irreparable harm and damage they have done.

I've had them many times. when I think back on them they seem like they may have be past dreams come true. Additional Comments: I've had them many times. when I think back on them they seem like they may have be past dreams come true. Rubs

That's wonderful news! Some magic does happen in life sometimes! I hope to have the chance to meet with you tomorrow for a coffee. If not, this means you will be very busy, which will be good ;-)

That's great to hear! Now if you wish for any type of abundance or prosperity in your life, here are a few short meditations that work for me in my business. These will all help you manifest good clients!

I so sorry you are having a rough time. This is a lonely profession and if you have no one to vent to it can be even more stressful. First of all, you set the rules. Don't let others make you think otherwise. Plan you day and do things you enjoy. Nothing worse then planning on doing something you enjoy, someone books you, then you put your plans on hold and then they cancel. So, I fit their bookings around my plans and not the other way around. My regulars are my main source of pleasure and income, so they know when they need to contact me to set up an encounter. I never sit around waiting for an encounter. I go about my day, do what I want to do, and if I can see someone great. However, if I don't see someone, I still had a great day. Don't know if this helps, but don't let the few bad apples ruin it for you. Make sure you are screening properly to weed out those that habitually cancel. Feel free to pm me if you have any specific questions. Good luck.

Emails and catching up with the goings on in the news....

Simple answer is you are paying for her TIME... you pay before because no matter how good or bad you think the experience is, she is still spending her time with you. There is no guarantee of it being amazing... some people just don't click... but for me anyway... it nearly always has been great. If it isn't great see someone else, but don't blame her... sometimes its just doesn't work. Sometimes you need to find the right gal that you really connect with and then just see her -- for the past year I've alternated between two particular ladies because they are particularly amazing (but so different from each other). But I've never had a bad experience. If you want to thank her for an extraordinary experience you can tip her after. But never, never, never ask for your money back...

Please pay before. I am sorry for your experience, really I am. I've had instances where I was counting the money and noticed anywhere between 20 to 80$ was missing. Luckily this was before play. Several decided to leave or ' were going to get the rest out of the car' and vanished. it's unfair for us to be put at risk also. As mentioned on here, see verifies independent members, reviewed members, or members who have been on here for a long time with photo sets and the like No client who wants to pay afterwards will be permitted to see me, and a lot o Sp's feel the same. It's not worth the risk to us Let's keep us all safe

I always prefer payment up front. I have a regular who assumed the half hour rate was half the hourly rate. So when he went to pay me after, he was short. He told me he would make up the difference and of course didn't. So our previous wonderful times were ruined with a bad taste in my mouth. For this very reason, all bookings are paid at the beginning of our encounter. No exceptions. Please don't make us ask for the donation. It really ruins the moment.

I'm quoting you not for any particular reason but just because this: sometimes sps get ripped off by their regulars simply because they switch to allow post payment, and that is what that bad element actually look for. at what point does the sp relax her policy, he wonders, and if you are there reliably paying after the session, it can actually influence that sp into relaxing that standard practice for any repeaters. so at some point, her new habit of doing that is going to cost her. If you truly have no intention of not paying her, i cannot think of any single reason for her to have to prove she trusts you. I can imagine a lot of worry and concern going thru her mind during the entire encounter that at the end even you will say that you forgot your wallet. I can't imagine anyone really wanted to put any sp that they do want to repeat with thru that worry. Pay up front, first visit or fiftieth, do not let her think it is OK to accept post payment from anyone. give her that consideration, and trust, and show her that it is not ok, no matter how many visits any of her clients have with her, she must always always get paid first. no one should have to prove they trust by changing their standard policy, if standard as we know is prepayment, then prepayment it is. all the time every time.

Payment upfront always. Of course we establish regulars sometime I don't mind they pay after, hell sometime we both even forgot about the envelope and I had to text ...hmmm you forgot something! Could you imagine having a good session with ANYONE if we were always in fear that someone may stiff us and not pay? Perform our best and then having the oh sorry I forgot my wallet in my car?

This happened to me many years back with a popular touring lady. In my excitement and nervousness, I totally forgot about the donation in my pocket until the lady reminded me when I was leaving. It was a big embarassment to me (probably to her too for having to ask)! Since then, I always make sure to hand over the envelop as soon as I arrive. To remind me, I even hold my envelop inside my pocket when I walk in the door. With the donation out of the way, the lady has now one less thing to worry about during the encounter. Of course, to avoid any bad dates who could potentially run off with my money, I always make sure I see only well established and reviewed ladies.

Wow. Why are you asking to find ways to pay after? What is the reason? Does it really matter if you pay before then if you don't have an inappropriate intention? This isn't an appropriate conversation. If you're trying to find a way to avoid paying until after your experience to give less than the agreed upon amount that's pretty sad. Even if the escort didn't live up to your standards. That's a pretty greasy thing to do to a half naked woman. A deal is a deal. Sometimes the chemistry isn't there. No one is to blame for that. Opening a discussion to do a totally underhanded thing to back out of a deal is disgusting. What difference does it really make otherwise? We all take risks. Both parties involved. If you're looking to do something like this to an escort , maybe you should think about the kind of escort it is that you're seeing. This is the oldest profession in the world. For as long as it's been the customer pays first. Almost any other legit business requires you to pay first. Sent from my SM-G900W8 using Tapatalk

email bookings do work well, as long as the potential client isn't looking for the 'now' appointment. Some clients don't realize that we could be in a dead zone for internet and not receive the message at that time, or in a situation where we can't answer the email right at that time. Booking by email has worked well for me when the client is booking a few days in advance, as this way I can get a sense of what the client is looking for. I do follow up with a call for confirmation though, this way you can get a clear sense of communication and no miscommunication. If someone doesn't like your policies, too bad for them. You have your policies set up the way you wish to conduct them, it is not up to the client to dictate how they are going to contact you. Let the timewasters and no-shows fall to the wayside, they are not worth your time and effort. I direct clients to my website and contact page, this way I know they have (or should have read) my cancellation policies and have filled out my screening page. Clients that truly want to see you, they will be the ones that will do whatever it takes to see you :-)

Many providers don't provide their address in written form (i.e. email or text) and I think this is probably a helpful approach. Disclose only enough information to make the rendezvous work on your terms!Stay safe and don't give any time to the arseholes!

Booking by e-mail is a good way to weed out the impulse guys, who have a greater propensity for being time-wasters and no-shows. And of course some phone contact the day of the appointment is good as well. A quick phone call can tell you a lot: confirms gender, get a sense of how sober they are, and a general "feel" for the guy. Some ladies want clients to phone a few minutes before the appointment when they are at a nearby intersection, other ladies want a phone call earlier. You find what works for you and what you are comfortable with. Contrary to what some would have you believe: us ladies choose what we are comfortable with and the clients work around it. They don't call the shots. If you're not comfortable with anything, don't do it. That's as true of how you book your appointments as it is of what you do when you're spending private time with a gent. By all means, contact Miss Rushton. She's a sweetheart and is always happy to help give tips on screening.

I only book via email and don't have any issues (some will complain, however when they realize it show you book, they learn to respect your rules). You can email me [email protected] if you want more details on how I conduct things.

Mail is fine, but your might want to request a confirmation call on the day of the appointment. I have used email to introduce myself, but feel more comfortable talking to the lady if I have a positive email response.

You can always ask for references, and speak to other SP's about your prospective client to get a good sense of how things stand. Remember, your safety and comfort level takes precedence over everything else.