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Back when the whole Ashley Maddison thing happened, over 50 people asked to close their Lyla accounts within a week! So we want to give you some tips to avoid your personal information being exposed if a hack like this happens again (we're sure it won't, but just to be safe). NEVER USE YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS FOR SITES SUCH AS LYLA, ASHLEY MADDISON, LEOLIST ETC. If you use your personal email that others know and a site gets hacked like Ashley Maddison did, you're just asking for problems if you don't want people to know what you are up to! We use ALIAS emails here and the only piece of personal information asked for is an email - so make sure you have hobby emails. Servers get hacked! Even MULTI MILLION DOLLAR COMPANIES so please take precautions in case the worse happens.

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I have had the honor to know a number of amazing SP's who provide so much more then service . They listen, they console , they care, they give advice , they understand, they forgive, they share their many acts of kindness, they support.. give us strength , they give us something to look forward to, like a child at the expectation of Xmas...and they give us a trust that is hard to find... ..if only more of us could be like them...what a better world this would be... Those Special SP's .... We are blessed in Atlantic Canada for so many things that big cities just dont have... I lost my lovely wife to cancer 6 years ago and a long 9 year illness prior to leaving me...if was difficult and if had not been for a very special SP , Im not even sure if I would be around today ...at least in the capacity I am today... Thank you for being there for us when we needed you.... and in case you are wondering , there is a tear in my eye....and if just made its way down my cheek...

Life sometimes throws us a curve ball and we have to cancel but there are some real gentlemen here who realize the work you go though to get ready to spend your time with us and how you can't immediately book someone else to take our place, so if we have to cancel we still donate in full, at least I do (and I know there are others that feel the same way) on those very rare occasions. We also greatly respect what you do for us and treat you with the respect and admiration you deserve. Very sorry to hear you have encountered a few men that are still boys and haven't grown up yet. Hopefully as time goes on you will find regular clients who are more worthy of your time.

The shooter in Virginia seeking his 15 minutes of fame on TV and Facebook/Twitter without letting the consequences of what he did to those he shot, and those who loved them, deter him from what he wanted. That he ended up shooting himself does not make the events fairer; only sadder. It sucks that people can think about and act towards others in a hurting way. As a wise singer once co-wrote "All you need is love..." and he came to the same end!

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Hi everyone, CBC Ottawa has an interesting documentary called the Human Library http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/watch-full-documentary-on-cbc-ottawa-s-human-library-project-1.3137148 I would recommend you watch the whole documentary but there is section that should interest the members of LYLA. It starts at the 34.40 mark thereabouts.

What a certain Cougar was wearing yesterday.... Thanks for sharing CapitalCforcougar :)

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Apparently the universe decided today was my day! I lost my wallet over a year ago and before I moved to my new place. I thought it was long gone! Called the Inn in Kingston to book a room for my visit... Turns out they have held onto it for over a year because they couldn't get in touch with me! My head is spinning and I think my face might break if I smile anymore! This is way better than I ever thought possible...

Please consider a couple of sessions with experienced Reiki master/energy therapist. I didn't believe in chakras or clearing of negative energy until I experienced myself. It isn't terribly costly, at least not the lady I see. :)

A little positivity goes a long way... Finally things are going better! One good client makes a world of difference! Thank you so much for all the positive comments everyone :)

Yes there is an answer and that is applying the law of attraction to your business. We've all been there in those rough moments and what vibe you put out, you are attracting right back to you. I'm not perfect. There are some days where I'd like to take a strip off of someone but feeling that emotion will bring more of it directed at me. Notice how you will get one WOT calling or texting, you get furious and it happens again and again and again in the same day? That my friend is the law of attraction. When you are saying what you DON'T want, that's all the universe hears and will give you more of it. In my ads, I say "Rates are FIRM". Why? Again when you say the word DON'T, that's all the WOTS tend to hear and will circle around you like a bunch of sharks. Stop saying in ads "I don't do this or that as much as you can. Instead of saying "No blocked calls", you say "Blocked calls will be ignored." I only have callers now who are willing to follow my protocol. Notice how I said in the previous sentence, I ONLY instead of "Don't?". So set your intention of what you DO want and focus on that but not efforting on it either even in a good way wanting it to happen. Just expect it. Don't ask or try to think about how it will happen. Just know good clients will come your way. You have to believe that. Stress, worry and anger all cause resistance to what you really want. Imagine your good intentions ( i.e. having good clients) was a rocket being launched out into the universe. You want to have good clients. The universe HAS to provide you with what you want. This is the law of attraction. However because you may still have wots on the brain and you feel a need to be in control of the situation then a WOT calls, followed by your own personal frustration and then there are more wots. This is called resistance. You need to let go and trust the universe. You have to wake up everyday and tell yourself you will be seeing nice clients and they will all follow your protocol. Any fear or worry will cause the rocket to go the other way to Wotville. My business has changed as a result with the above info and I have helped a few other friends of mine in the business with learning about the law of attraction and how to apply it in all areas of their life. I'd love to teach a crash course on this for other ladies because it really has changed a lot of things for me in a positive way. Also gratitude meditation works wonders for me in my business because it allows me to appreciate what I already have instead of focusing on what I don't have. See the difference there? When you appreciate, the universe will give you more. Never insult the universe by not appreciating. You need to buy the book "Ask and it is Given" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. This will change anything and everything about you will react to life's situations whether they are major or minor. I still gets the WOTS here and there but you have to respond favorably to YOURSELF instead of reacting to them. I still have my moments but they are few and far between as opposed to wanting to tell them to literally go eff themselves which I would never do because I'm a professional but that's my inner voice coming out right now. lol. I'm sure many have seen me bitch or be rather upfront on certain threads on this site but then I let it go. I have 68 seconds before it becomes a manifestation in my life. I'm able to get out of a mood quicker than I was before because I know what's coming for me if I don't! Once again, I'm not perfect but I'm aware of the tools needed to be used to change my attitude and I do it. There are the secrets that wealthy millionaires use all the time! Notice how the book "The Secret" had so much hype surrounding it 7 or 8 years ago? Why did people give up on it and claim it didn't work? Because they wanted their manifestations or their wants and needs immediately. They wanted it and kept saying "Where is it?" which is resistance so they never received it. It doesn't work like that. And as for winning the lottery, the words "winning" and "lottery" are a large feat and uphill battle words to being with. They are resistance words because they are based on odds which is something else that also has to do with resistance. Set out the intention like mailing a letter, forget about it and it will come back to you. Trust me! I do it everyday. I have small manifestations happening for me. I tend to manifest good things. I can think about a client I haven't seen in a while, set the intention that they will call, forget about them and a few days later they call! Sometimes I have even managed to do this in a matter of a couple of hours and one time in 15 minutes while I was out the Home Depot. lol. I have a list of regulars I do this with in my mind and do it at the beginning of each week. One time 2 out of the 5 called and the other 3 the following 2 weeks after that. This is not luck. It's the universe responding and giving me the manifestations I requested. I also see triple numbers on license plates, on the internet and everywhere I go up to 20 times a day. This means I'm in alignment with the universe when I see this. It's being in sync. But that's a whole other subject which has to do with spiritual awakening and being conscious. I am appreciative of everything and everyone in my life. :) PM me and we can talk.

Inspired by events that occurred this morning. Feel free to add. These have nothing to do with the SP or client roles though I'm sure there is an extensive list, perhaps in people's minds. Drivers, cruising below the speed limit in perfect weather. Changing lanes with no turn signal Combine 1 and 2 above - WTF The person 5 cars ahead in the Tim Horton's drive through ordering breakfast for what seems like 12 people and then paying with a credit card. Everyone's input welcome.

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I've had many great experiences with MA's and SP"s. I've helped a few out in the beginning when they started by giving them advice and tips. I've become good friends with several of the first women that I have met and have been friends with a few after 5 years. The've been there when I needed someone to talk to or cuddle. They provide me with the passion and fun that I need sometimes. They also have turned me from a shy man to a more confident. They have fulfilled fantasies that I have had, helped me tick off a few items from my bucket list. They've help me be a better man, that knows now how to please a woman. They've made me a better and happier man :)

They had their role. But I think the primary responsibility lies with the people who put themselves at risk. Who's more responsible for protecting a man's children: some company's CTO, or the man himself? And here I completely agree. I don't condemn people who signed up at Ashley Madison, nor married people who see SPs. We all know that there can be compelling reasons, human reasons, understandable reasons for seeking companionship outside some marriages. And if someone weighs the risks and chooses to go ahead anyway, I have no issue; who am I to claim I can better comprehend their choice? But what I do condemn is people who get caught, and then try to escape responsibility for their choice by claiming "but it's not my fault!". It is their fault. They're the ones that put their marriage, and the people who rely on it, at risk; and now that bill has come due. If they really didn't stop to think about that possibility before putting everything at risk... well, they really, really should have. This is why I have little patience for the threads we sometimes see here that ask "hey, does seeing an SP really count as cheating?" We can acknowledge that there can be legitimate reasons for that choice, and that the risk is lower than a civilian affair -- but the risk is there just the same. Downplaying how one's partner might perceive it ("But it's just a transaction! But I felt no emotional connection!") just tries to evade the gravity of the decision they're really making.

To my sweet Ottawa Gentlemen and couples ;) as much as I enjoyed and treasured my time with you. Some more intimatly other in a casual way. It's time for me to say Goodbye and close that beautiful and fun adventure. I will be entertaining and enjoying some quality time with a few great gentlemen before I dissapear ;) I will keep great memories and will never forget about our time together. Hoping to meet you for a last time and if not wishing you great time with the wonderful ladies on CERB. Sending you lots of love and sweet times ;) MONICA DD XOX www.monicadd.escortbook.com [email protected]

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I've seen Coco as a duo with another lady (90% sure it is the same lady) and can say that she is a legit SP. Additional Comments: If you like black girls, try Jai-lynn. Additional Comments: Tried to see Miss Pretty P. (Paris) yesterday but kept getting jerked around on when she would be ready. Made me nervous. Could just be typical BP poor service but I got called it off. Irony is that she's one of those SP that has a big spiel about "no time wasters". Location was a motel but the bottom end motel in Burnside.

I believe that Robin Drake (Sweet Emily J's partner) advertises this service.

That's my main problem with this disclosure. It doesn't seem to be motivated by money or morals, so I'm left to conclude it is just an act of the most obscene type of vandalism. While every news outlet seems careful to point out that Ashley Madison does not send verification emails to ensure the supplied email address is valid (or owned by the person supplying it), all the credit card transactions including the date of the transaction, the persons real name, home address (or rather the billing address for the credit card), last 4 digits of the credit card number, the authorization number and the amount of each transaction is there - that can't be explained away by someone setting up a bogus account using your email address. I'm also shocked by the reaction on social media, it seems everyone not affected by this has a very poor judgemental attitude (e.g. serves them right, looks good on them, etc.). Not only am I very disappointed by this, it has definitely lowered my opinion of the human race overall. These are real people and some of them will end up divorced as a result of this and some of them have children that will be forever adversely affected by their parents divorce. I don't think anyone can ever come up with a valid reason why someone could be "justified" in adversely affecting the lives of so many people they don't even know. Quite simply what other people do is not our business and not for us to judge what they do. I do however find I have no problem passing judgement on the vandals behind this for the irreparable harm and damage they have done.

I've had them many times. when I think back on them they seem like they may have be past dreams come true. Additional Comments: I've had them many times. when I think back on them they seem like they may have be past dreams come true. Rubs

That is wonderful news! Because you were in a positive frame of mind by having a visit with a good client, this brought you more abundance and what I would call a small miracle. The following video fits your situation very nicely! A manifestation I had been waiting for a long time came to me today. It is not a material item but rather someone I would consider very special. Today was a beautiful day! The universe is now in alignment with you and the smile on your face means you are in the vortex! The vortex is where all good things happen!

That's wonderful news! Some magic does happen in life sometimes! I hope to have the chance to meet with you tomorrow for a coffee. If not, this means you will be very busy, which will be good ;-)

That's great to hear! Now if you wish for any type of abundance or prosperity in your life, here are a few short meditations that work for me in my business. These will all help you manifest good clients!

I ride a bicycle to work whenever possible. Idiots who do those things make everyone on a bicycle look bad. Nobody notices the dozens of bicycles riding properly but the one idiot sticks in the memory of drivers. I also ride a Harley and same thing applies. Most motorcycle riders are pretty careful. But there's always a few who ride like they are invulnerable, or ride with open ear splitting exhausts. I'd say grow up, but most of them are already grown up and should know better eh?

Emails and catching up with the goings on in the news....

Simple answer is you are paying for her TIME... you pay before because no matter how good or bad you think the experience is, she is still spending her time with you. There is no guarantee of it being amazing... some people just don't click... but for me anyway... it nearly always has been great. If it isn't great see someone else, but don't blame her... sometimes its just doesn't work. Sometimes you need to find the right gal that you really connect with and then just see her -- for the past year I've alternated between two particular ladies because they are particularly amazing (but so different from each other). But I've never had a bad experience. If you want to thank her for an extraordinary experience you can tip her after. But never, never, never ask for your money back...

Please pay before. I am sorry for your experience, really I am. I've had instances where I was counting the money and noticed anywhere between 20 to 80$ was missing. Luckily this was before play. Several decided to leave or ' were going to get the rest out of the car' and vanished. it's unfair for us to be put at risk also. As mentioned on here, see verifies independent members, reviewed members, or members who have been on here for a long time with photo sets and the like No client who wants to pay afterwards will be permitted to see me, and a lot o Sp's feel the same. It's not worth the risk to us Let's keep us all safe

I always prefer payment up front. I have a regular who assumed the half hour rate was half the hourly rate. So when he went to pay me after, he was short. He told me he would make up the difference and of course didn't. So our previous wonderful times were ruined with a bad taste in my mouth. For this very reason, all bookings are paid at the beginning of our encounter. No exceptions. Please don't make us ask for the donation. It really ruins the moment.

I'm quoting you not for any particular reason but just because this: sometimes sps get ripped off by their regulars simply because they switch to allow post payment, and that is what that bad element actually look for. at what point does the sp relax her policy, he wonders, and if you are there reliably paying after the session, it can actually influence that sp into relaxing that standard practice for any repeaters. so at some point, her new habit of doing that is going to cost her. If you truly have no intention of not paying her, i cannot think of any single reason for her to have to prove she trusts you. I can imagine a lot of worry and concern going thru her mind during the entire encounter that at the end even you will say that you forgot your wallet. I can't imagine anyone really wanted to put any sp that they do want to repeat with thru that worry. Pay up front, first visit or fiftieth, do not let her think it is OK to accept post payment from anyone. give her that consideration, and trust, and show her that it is not ok, no matter how many visits any of her clients have with her, she must always always get paid first. no one should have to prove they trust by changing their standard policy, if standard as we know is prepayment, then prepayment it is. all the time every time.

Always, always at the beginning. This goes beyond etiquette and you have to appreciate what a highly charged topic this is. Think of it from a lady's perspective and paying after is basically holding a threat over her head the entire time that you won't pay her. That isn't a recipe to help with chemistry. And truly, far more often the lady has a whole lot more to worry about from the unknown client than vice versa! Pay for your time. If you don't enjoy it then don't repeat.

Wow. Why are you asking to find ways to pay after? What is the reason? Does it really matter if you pay before then if you don't have an inappropriate intention? This isn't an appropriate conversation. If you're trying to find a way to avoid paying until after your experience to give less than the agreed upon amount that's pretty sad. Even if the escort didn't live up to your standards. That's a pretty greasy thing to do to a half naked woman. A deal is a deal. Sometimes the chemistry isn't there. No one is to blame for that. Opening a discussion to do a totally underhanded thing to back out of a deal is disgusting. What difference does it really make otherwise? We all take risks. Both parties involved. If you're looking to do something like this to an escort , maybe you should think about the kind of escort it is that you're seeing. This is the oldest profession in the world. For as long as it's been the customer pays first. Almost any other legit business requires you to pay first. Sent from my SM-G900W8 using Tapatalk

email bookings do work well, as long as the potential client isn't looking for the 'now' appointment. Some clients don't realize that we could be in a dead zone for internet and not receive the message at that time, or in a situation where we can't answer the email right at that time. Booking by email has worked well for me when the client is booking a few days in advance, as this way I can get a sense of what the client is looking for. I do follow up with a call for confirmation though, this way you can get a clear sense of communication and no miscommunication. If someone doesn't like your policies, too bad for them. You have your policies set up the way you wish to conduct them, it is not up to the client to dictate how they are going to contact you. Let the timewasters and no-shows fall to the wayside, they are not worth your time and effort. I direct clients to my website and contact page, this way I know they have (or should have read) my cancellation policies and have filled out my screening page. Clients that truly want to see you, they will be the ones that will do whatever it takes to see you :-)

I know the ladies I see book using email Included in initial contact is providing screening/verification information including reference and real name This is done ahead of time, but even after it is done, I still contact the lady a couple days ahead of time to confirm the date Likely if a prospective client provides complete screening information and confirms the date you won't get no shows. And if he has to cancel he'll notify you Just my two cents RG

Mail is fine, but your might want to request a confirmation call on the day of the appointment. I have used email to introduce myself, but feel more comfortable talking to the lady if I have a positive email response.

You can always ask for references, and speak to other SP's about your prospective client to get a good sense of how things stand. Remember, your safety and comfort level takes precedence over everything else.

Lol I signed up yesterday to see what this site was all about, and although I am flattered that I appear to possibly be fake, I can assure you that I'm definitely real!! :) Additional Comments: Awe u guys r so nice :)

Someone who takes up two parking spots near the mall entrance because they're more important than everyone else. If you don't want to chance your car door getting dinged at the mall, park further away and WALK. Also, I sympathise with SPs in terms of hygiene. I go to casinos once in a while and just love it :x when I can smell the next player coming. And this is at the higher limit tables. Even more enticing is when they turn to talk to me and knock me off my chair. Dang! Ever heard of a toothbrush?