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Very similar to most here, I love my wife and we are still very much in love but we were never very compatible when it came to bedroom matters. Mostly it seemed she participated to please me and probably she wanted to start a family. Once we had the family, our bedroom activities disappeared. It slowly dropped off over a 10 or so year period and then I realized that I was constantly needing it and pleasuring myself to keep the desire at bay. I was becoming bitter and miserable and thought long and hard about asking for a divorce but could not see myself happy without her in my life. I went through some serious meditation and soul searching and realized that having an affairs was out of the question. In the end, I decided to get a non-RMT massage because it did not involve any "participation" on my part and that was how I rationalized it to myself that I was not cheating. I was travelling for business a fair bit in Europe and Australia which gave the opportunity as there were many legal establishments to choose from. That lead to meeting some amazing ladies who provided the release and over time, I participating by touching them back and then the reverse massage and then seeking out the full encounter. My frequent business travels to Europe and Australia ended about 8 years ago but I was still travelling within Canada and that is when I found this website. I learned the norms of how to behave and to participate safely here in Canada, so I owe this site a debt. I try to contribute where I can even though I haven't been able to participate much since the stupid new law came into effect. I'm currently back to self pleasuring again but hope to re-enter the hobby soon. One final note, my relationship with my wife over this time has improved dramatically. I'm no longer resentful of her for not wanting to be active in the bedroom. We enjoy each other's company, we attend the theatre, concerts, museums and galleries, we started hiking again and travelling for pleasure and have rediscover the activities that brought us together in the first place. This is the life that we had wanted with each other.

Bought my ticket a few days ago. This will be (I'm an eternal optimist) my 3rd social and I've always had a wonderful time. I just realized I should have posted I was attending sooner to hopefully inspire more of my lady friends here to attend!http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/images/icons/icon12.gif Here's hoping!

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In my experiences with the bill in place in place is that you have those that are extremely careful about who they see because they tell me they've done their research. Then on the other end of the spectrum, you have these dark seedy characters who dont have the qualities I would personally look for in a client. Specifically how careless they are especially when requesting unsafe things right like they were ordering a takeout menu over the phone. It's very alarming and has made me change my business practices in terms of switching 90% to massage sessions in order to get to know my clients as an icebreaker. I've become more choosy as a result and very careful as to who I meet. There is a definite difference in the type of clientele on certain sites apart from this site. Before the bill was in place, it was a mixed bag of decent sounding people calling me when I was advertising on site like Bp. For every 5 men that contact me, only one of them I would agree to meet. The decency isn't there anymore. It's how much can I get and for how short of a time. Still, there are good clients out there and those are the ones I end up meeting. While I can't proof a direct correlation to the bill, the number of people asking for unsafe things is astronomical compared to past years. This is scary. Posted via Mobile Device

Make love and spend time with family in between while recharging ;)

I first joined here when things weren't great at home. ...lacking affection, mostly. I kinda just lurk, but really enjoy reading people's posts here. I love the openness of such a usually taboo subject. I'm a man of very few words usually so I don't post much at all. I've never booked anyone's services yet for a few reasons. First, I'm very very picky because I don't plan to make it a hobby. So if there is one that might be it. I might try to fit a few outstanding bucket list items so I need to pick wisely... But things are getting better at home now so who knows... I'll play that by ear I guess. I still find the discussions interesting so I might stick around a while.

Like many of the married man here I am happy in my marriage but lack the intimacy with my wife. I don't want the wham bam thank you mam' kind of sex, I look for finer things that a lady can bring me. I love kissing and holding a lady close to me and to be appreciated for being me. I'm a bit eccentric but isn't that a quality? I have been a member here since 2008 because the girls I have seen from other site where just that "girls". NJ

I recently had the chance to meet Lucy. I had wondered about her for a while now. She advertise on BP but her pics doesn't give you the full picture!!! (too bad). Lucy is a beautifull and classy woman. She is not a girl, but a lady!! She is easy to talk to ( and a very smart woman for that matter). She is is like a long lost friend that you meet again after a long time apart. Very friendly lady.She has a body to die for. Very beautiful brown eyes and a GREAT smile. I will not go into details about our rendez-vous, but the time that I spend with Lucy was terrific. She loves what she does and she like to please her customer!! Be gentle, passionate and adventurous with her and she will show you stars!! I highly recommend Lucy for those who are looking for a lady and not a girl. You will not be dissapointed!!! Thanks Lucy!! See you next time!!! XOXOXO http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/fr-ca/FemaleEscorts/your-lucky-day-30/1564803

Greetings, sisters and brothers, I would like to suggest a forum for how you came to be involved in the business. I trust I'm not repeating anything, but I have found that many of the people on Lyla/CERB are very interesting. I would love to hear your story. That includes the clients, too. I am sure that they have a story to tell. My story begins when I was a child. I was born in England. My mother always told us to respect working women, because they provided a valuable service. That attitude has prevailed my entire life. That life has been rich, fulfilling, and successful in the real world. As an older woman, I found myself becoming a counterpart to mature, successful men. A connection of mutual choice on an intellectual, sexual and even spiritual level, without the dross of expectation. Simply put, I love men. Compensation is the boundary. What is your story? What brings you here; motivates and stimulates you? Why do you love what you do? I'd love to hear your story. Cheers, Ann XXX

http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/madame-olivia-in-service-available-xoxo/2062910 http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/its-brittany-bh-outservice-in-dartmouth-xo/2193360 This is the same girl. She is the girl in the photos of the first ad. She has removed all photos of her whole face since I told her I was going to warn people about her after she stole a large sum of money out of my shorts while I took a shower at her apartment.

Happy Birthday Raven. I hope you have a very special day to a very sexy lady!

Happy Birthday to emiafish! Hope you have yourself a great one!!! :D

Well took the plunge to see this lady on BP all i can say it is her in pics but not sure how old the pics are inbox if you want details

As the title goes, if anyone is looking for an honest review of Vanessa Rios, pm me.....it's worth your while before arranging to see her.

I will never forget this guy for as long as I live... Several years ago, I was on my way home from school, famished. I decided instead of fumbling around my stove in the blazing heat that Id just grab a burger on the way home. I lean against the counter and place my order to-go. A very good looking, black, hip-hop style guy, was seated right next to wear I was leaning and said to the waitress, "I got that bill." Taken aback, because this is NOT something that occurs ANYWHERE in Montreal that I know of, let alone the ghetto I was living in, I wondered if the guy was from out of town. In any event, I decided it would be very bad taste to not inform the gent of the situation. So I said, "Wow! That is so so nice of you. But listen sweety, before you go wasting your money, I gotta tell you... not only am I super beat and dying to get home and my dog needs walking so I wont be able to sit and chat; Its moot anyway because I do have a boyfriend. So thank you, but please feel free to let me take care of it." The gent replies, "I aint buying you $3.75 burger to try to get you to talk to me, that's just bonus. I just want to let you know I think you are fiiiiine and looking at you has made my day, so I want that treat to be on me. As for you having a boyfriend... that's ok that's aight... oh yeah, he can be your boyfriend noooo problem...while I (he leans in close with a mischievous grin).. I can be yo' MAN!!!! heh heh Yes Sah! mmm-hmm" I LAUGHED SO HARD and even clapped! I told him that was both the cheesiest and best pick up line Ive ever heard and that he has made my day... Its one of those 'you had to be there' things. The look on his face as he leaned in for the punch line, he even did the eyebrow thing and everything! Classic! He replied, "Thought you might like it. Only thing better than buying a girl her meal and making her smile, is making her laugh her ass off. You take care beautiful." Killer!

Good afternoon, Thank you for a lovely visit in the big city, it was great to be back and enjoy all you had to offer from food, to fun to great company. Hope to see you again soon. xoxo Emily

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Happy birthday emiafish. All the best today

happy birthday. hope you have a great day.

Happy birthday, emiafish. Make it count, have a great time!

Happy Birthday emiafish, I hope you enjoy your day !

This one never worked for me but it should. "Is that a mirror in your back pocket?" She says "No, why" I say " because I can see myself in your pants". Or "Can I get you number because I lost mine"

Happy Birthday to you :icon_smile:

Happy Birthday, Emiafish! Enjoy your special day!

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A very Happy Birthday to you!

Mmmmm special hugs and licks for your birthday! Hope you have yourself an amazing day *muah*

Happy Birthday emiafish Enjoy your special day RG

by the pictures that is Lucy Diamond. Seen her several time when she was in Moncton, totally miss not having her here!!!

From my involvement in this life style I have come to understand that different people have different preferences and that what one guy might love might not be another guys cup of tea. If the lady who is the subject of this post is the same Candy Julie in this ad from BP http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/fredericton-the-french-version-of-the-temptation-candy-julie-613-769-4322/1986835 Then I can tell you from my personal experience with her in May of this year that the pictures in the ad are of her and that they are in fact recent and so is th video. My time with this lady was exceptional and I am certainly looking forward to her visiting St. John's In th next few weeks. I think i probably owe it to this lady to post a review of her here on LYLA ... I did post one on the ������ review site but that's not a great site for most people as you really need to be a paid member on that site to read the full review. In any case I would certainly recommend her highly.

There can never be enough Conservative bashing. On the other hand, conservative-bashing is just tedious. C'mon, was that not just the most perfect metaphor for the Harper government? HARPER: "Don't worry, we're the experts! Glad you called us in. Now just shoo, off you go to that other room. There's nothing to see here. I'll just use my superior worldview to take care of the nation's problems!" VIDEO: Harper casually pisses in the nation's coffee cup.

Being the East Coast .. I was born out of wedlock and legally adopted by my grandparents in NL .. life with them was perfect .. i had and did everything a child would want but they never told me that they were sick .. I was 15 when I said good-bye to both of them .. Yes .. 6 weeks apart .. Cancer is cruel .. well I was soo scared that welfare would take me and put me in a foster home .. I hitch-hiked of the island to Halifax .. 15, scared, broke, and ALONE .. well .. i went the catholic church on Spring Garden Road ( I was raised in a strict Catholic Home ) to ask for help .. within a day I had a job 11 - 7 at Tim Horton's by the base and went to high school by day and struggled to pay for food and a rooming house in MusGrave Park .. Well, I graduated high school and joined the military to have stability but lack friends and adult guidance .. i met 2 lovely ladies in my apt bldg who danced and we became friends, they knew i wanted a 2nd job so they invited me down to the local strip bar to apply as a waitress LOL .. well the regular patrons put money down to see me naked .. haha .. boy it was scarey yet exciting and for the first time since my parents died .. I FELT IN CONTROL .. POWERFUL .. That power has taken me across Canada and USA as a feature Attraction dancer, of course .. it never was enough .. so magazine shoots, soft porn, voyaguer cam shows, Seeking Arrangements, to the " Escort High Life " lol .. The people whom I have met during my 30 years in the sex industry has been from all walks of life and each and everyone of them has taught me something and has touched my life .. I hope that i will continue this road for a few years still and meet many of you fine people of LylaLand .. Thanks for listening xo

Yep... I get your point totally.... people need to respect the wishes of the people they are intimate with... if i expect a lady to respect my privacy I need to respect hers.

It does happen...guilty ;)

You are right Ice4Fun. Some ladies want explicit reviews, and I have no issue with that. However, I see some reviews that are of ladies who are discreet in their advertising, and have a really hard time getting the guys to edit their reviews. This is where I have an issue.

As a client I can't say I have seen any change but let's face it I generally talk about this with a relatively small group of like minded people mostly here on Lyla. Unfortunately I think Mr Harper has been successful at pandering to his base by imposing a tough new law and has been able to effectively remove the issue from the public debate during the election period. For many who know nothing about the industry he has effectively painted a picture of perverted men taking advantage of helpless women. The dialogue around strong women who have a rights that was the theme of the post supreme court decision has been all but removed from the discourse and the election outcome will not likely change that. As for clients acting as if the law never changed I think there is some truth in that... generally I think people have concluded that LE is only gonna enforce the law in the case of trafficking or street workers so with the limited exception of being slightly more cautious and doing a little more research they have moved on as if nothing has changed. In regards to explicit reviews I kinda think that can be a two way street... in my particular case I have written both very explicit and very tame but it has always reflected the specific approval of the lady in question. Some ladies prefer no reviews or reviews that are very discrete while others want all the details out their as part of their marketing approach... which is right... I guess whatever works for the lady. What I can tell you is that if you have read a review that I have written it has been sent to the lady for her approval before it is posted. Just My Opinion

I`m out in BC now, and it seems everyone is operating under the old rules. Even if you specify no details, they still insist on asking details. I`m horrified at the level of details in reviews on other boards. Even if the guy is anonymous, the lady is not. So, in fact they could be putting a target on her back by stating the level of specific details they do. Its almost like a bragging contest, and I don`t like it. Being an escort is not illegal, however, advertising certain services is. So, I resent those that make it public what happens between 2 consenting adults with the level of detail that seems so rampant. Even before the changes to the laws, I always told my guys to edit out details if they were graphic, as I found it just cheapened the experience. Its really a shame. Guys seem to think that as long as they are staying away from certain segments, they are ok to ask details. However, in reality, it is not ok. It used to be as long as you didn`t ask in public, you were ok. However, under the new laws, it doesn`t matter if asked in public, via telephone, via text, via email, it is clearly solicitation, and as such against the law. If you look at some of the dating sites, they are really specific on what is allowed to be stated. So the guy will say, I want a mistress who enjoys the physical side of the encounter. To me that's pretty clear. No details needed. Why can`t guys in this industry do the same.

I only deal with independents, so I can't speak for clients that go to agencies. That being said, I haven't conducted myself or been treated any differently. Actually I think I have been more active :) I also stick with independents that are reviewed or advertise on these types of boards. I believe LE is more concerned about human traffickers, I doubt they would waste their time staking out an Indy's place.

I know I'm not a guy but thought it would be fine to add my opinion/thoughts. I myself firstly saw an exotic dancer with the spelling I use and loved the way it sounded with sexy before Lexy . I then Googled the name to see if it was taken by an escort, it was not. I have been using the same name/spelling "Lexy" and same cell number for over 10yrs, I have never changed it besides adding "Sexy" or "902" for board handles but it has always been "Lexy". I purposely spelled it with a "Y". When I noticed all the others popping up I decided to ask the ladies in our private section to help me come up with a last name and so "Lexy Grace" was created. Many using the name spell it Lexi and some add numbers and such but it can be confusing and frustrating at times when a wave of the same name trickles in. I guess the best thing to do when discussing one of the now many, I would use their full/complete board handle. Hope that helps a bit, Sexy Lexy Grace ;)

The lady is legit Clean condo ��, has a roommate who left when I arrived. The roommate also looked real good.

I'll be back over there soon guys :)

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I have been a client in this industry for well over 20 years... I started primarily as a bit of fun when I traveled for work... many of my coworkers would hit the bars when we were on the road drinking and hoping to pick up someone for the night... I was married and this never really appealed to me so I would often head off to the casino or the strip clubs (ok ok more often the strip club) I considered this harmless fun and frankly got to meet some amazing ladies this I think naturally transitioned into seeing escorts which has in my opinion been great fun. I am older now and approaching retirement in the last 10 years our family has experienced some significant challenges which undoubtedly has impacted the relationship between my wife and I. I love her as must as I ever did and will never leave her... she will always be the one true love of my life but our situation has changed and the companionship that once was there is not any longer so I have sought it more frequently with wonderful companions in this industry. I have met so many wonderful ladies some of which I can honestly say have made a dramatic impact on my life... this industry with all its negative images and stereotypes has so many amazing.... giving... caring participants... so many other sectors of our community could learn a thing or two about life from the ladies of Lyla. As I do head into retirement I hope i have many more years of meeting people in this industry. Just my opinion.

Her add is back up on BP. She is well worth seeing.

Back when the whole Ashley Maddison thing happened, over 50 people asked to close their Lyla accounts within a week! So we want to give you some tips to avoid your personal information being exposed if a hack like this happens again (we're sure it won't, but just to be safe). NEVER USE YOUR PERSONAL EMAIL ADDRESS FOR SITES SUCH AS LYLA, ASHLEY MADDISON, LEOLIST ETC. If you use your personal email that others know and a site gets hacked like Ashley Maddison did, you're just asking for problems if you don't want people to know what you are up to! We use ALIAS emails here and the only piece of personal information asked for is an email - so make sure you have hobby emails. Servers get hacked! Even MULTI MILLION DOLLAR COMPANIES so please take precautions in case the worse happens.

Hello Gentlemen, I'm Raven, I stand 5'4, great curves, black curlyish hair and deep brown eyes. Let's enjoy a glass of wine, some great conversation and create a sensual experience for both of us. I have an incall available a few days a week, otherwise outcalls only. Pre-booking is recommended and appreciated. You can text, call or email and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I will be in Brandon August 23-26th. Can't wait to meet you, and to those I have had the pleasure already - see you again! Cheers Raven xoxo 204-801-9934 [email protected]

This Lexi girl is a scam. Saw her today and she sends you in the shower and then her "brother" shows up. She sends you a text while your in the bathroom telling you that you need to go for 20 mins cuz she needs to speak to her "brother" and it's really important. Pictures aren't of her but if you look up past posts through her account you will find accurate pictures. I had a bad feeling from the texts and should have listen to my gut. My 1st and last scam. From now on I will stick to the recommended girls. Hope this helps and no one else gets scammed by these 2. Can't get her ad to connect with this post. Her/their # they use is (204) 515-4850

They are one in the same and should be avoided at all costs http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?p=9760 When in doubt, check the diary out !