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About 3 years ago before I decided to become an SP, I began to explore the swinging lifestyle as a Unicorn (single female). As you can imagine, single females have their pick of the litter and pretty much everyone wants you just like any other rare mythological creature out there. It was exciting and fun. I realized I genuinely really love being with couples, men and women alike. Coming out of a very sexless long term relationship, the swing lifestyle was exactly what I was looking for and it really helped me discover my own sexuality and liberate myself from the rigid and torturous ideal that we all must be in monogamous relationships. Whenever I met couples that seemed healthy and happy, I admired their ability to overcome jealousy and possessiveness, which permeated most relationships. What a liberating idea it was to be able to express yourself sexually with many different partners of both sexes and still have the kind of bond and love between partners. Here's the thing that people need to know; Everything I said in the above paragraph is true... but only for the lucky few who it really works for... the likelihood that you can continue in the lifestyle consistently and regularly for a long period of time is slim to none. Eventually, either you or your partner is going to have a seriously shitty experience and be completely turned off. Here are the things that I found in the swing scene that totally turned me off. 1. Partners not being on the same page. Meeting numerous couples, I began to really see how they varied from couple to couple. All had different rules and expectations. But the worst thing I came across was a lot of reluctant girlfriends/wives who were really only doing this for their husbands sake. The worst thing ever is knowing this woman is not really into girls but is feeling like she has to go along with this for her partner. As a 3rd girl joining in... I knew to tread lightly at first and that any sign of jealousy or disagreement between them meant run the hell away! Secondly, when I did bring a male partner with me, he would get so carried away, I was left on the sidelines just watching or stuck with a guy who I definitely had no interest in at all. It was very unlikely I would ever meet a couple with my partner who we both liked the other couple equally. Basically I would feel obligated to take one for the team, and I refuse to ever do that... unless I am getting paid! 2. Drama & Gossip This pretty much goes along with number 1 and of course is to be expected when you are dealing with straight couples in a taboo lifestyle. Again everyone has their own rules and expectations and sometimes these rules get broken a bit and one partner might feel disrespected or become jealous if they do not feel the situation to be fair. The general first golden rule to swinging is to never use this lifestyle to "fix" your relationship. Without the proper communication and boundaries set between the couples, there is always a chance that things can blow up in your face. There have been plenty of relationships that end quite soon after exploring this world. I will also add another personal account of when gossip became extremely apparent and very disturbing to me. I started to get invited to these private swing parties at various condos. There was one particular couple there that definitely shouldnt have because they purposely loved spreading rumours and turning people against one another. I became extremely disturbed to find text messages on my phone the day after the party with that same couple reciting all the sexual acts I performed and with whom I did things with. How creepy is that!? 3. DRUGS DRUGS DRUGS!!! Lastly, I would warn anyone getting involved into the scene to be aware how drug fueled these events usually are. I have gone to parties where everyone is on MDMA and feeling all lovey dovey, but there isnt a single hardon in the room because the guys cant get it up! I have often had to supply viagara to help these poor boys out, but even then they would have difficulty not just with their boners but paying attention to what the hell was going on. Nothing is as big of a turn off when everyone's pupils are dilated and look like gigantic black holes and their eyes are rolling in the back of their heads. Along with MDMA, people are often doing coke and GHB amongst other things I am sure. GHB is the date rape drug and I won't lie when I say that it makes people super horny and more likely to end up doing something with someone they really didn't want to. I once saw this young girl at some parties who was always so high she could hardly communicate and 2 guys were just pummeling her. Whether she would have done that sober... I highly doubt it. Too often things happened in intoxicated states that began to feel like women were being sexually exploited at these parties. What once was a liberating and free experience... started to feel like sexual abuse. I will end this blog by stating that I learned a lot about the swing lifestyle and probably would not have become an SP had I not entered into that world. However, being an SP is far more fulfilling and way more empowering than being in the swing scene. I find that I get treated with a lot more respect by clients and I have never felt like I was being exploited. Being able to compare the two worlds, one cannot help but be completely turned off by swing events. Why would I want to feel pressured to have sex with people I don't even enjoy and I don't get paid, when meanwhile I enjoy my work and get paid and have fun with some of the sexiest girls ever at the LJX parties! This choice was very easy for me to make!

Anytime someone has put out their hand to shake mine, I always go in for the hug and a big kiss. Sorry, but in this industry, a handshake just doesn't work. I find that those that put their hand out, just don't know what is allowed and what isn't. So, I let them know that we are going to get intimate real quick, and it sets the tone for the encounter. Ottawa is no different then any other place. Just might be a bit more nervous and reserved. This is your opportunity to shine.

I can recommend the following things for Halifax: The Titanic exhibit: http://www.novascotia.ca/titanic/ The Public Gardens: http://www.halifaxpublicgardens.ca Citadel Hill:http://www.pc.gc.ca/lhn-nhs/ns/halifax/visit.aspx For dining I recommend: http://www.fivefishermen.com http://bicyclethief.ca I can say that almost every pub is great for night life and the bar scene is full of young university students, so I can't recommend a good club. There are great spa's and shopping in Halifax. Feel free to email me if you want more information or details.

I'm a hugger .. lol ok ok and a kisser too ;)

Heading to Halifax at the end of October. Does anyone have any recommendations for great restaurants, bars or sightseeing spots that I should check out? I have only heard positive things about this lovely city and its been ages since I have been out east. Would love anyone's recommendations! Thanks Lyla members!

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The lower deck is a great pub.

I generally live in the moment and take every compliment with a swell of joy. My mind is so busy that my motto is "I may forget what you said but I'll never forget how you made me feel". I always remember those who made me feel something and think of them even when they're not around. I am thankful and blessed for that.

I cared for a young girl in my area who was 13 when i was 22, she lived in an abused family wth another sister and 2 younger brothers .. she would stop into to see me after school .. and told me secrets of her homelife .. one day i called children's aid on her abusive mother and they were removed from the home and went to a foster home together .. She found me on facebook and told me the reason she is who she is today ws because of me .. She is a social worker for battered and abused children .. the greatest compliment ever

Him: whose painting is this? Me: mine. Him: I know, I mean... are they duplicates of someone famous? Me: of course not, they are all original. what do you mean famous? I'm not famous. Him: Oh! you did those yourself? you paint? Those are very nice!

If you have a taste for seafood most defiantly go to Stayner's Wharf excellent seafood chowder and more, for a good steak I usually head down to The Argle right downtown

Not from Halifax so take my recommendations with a gain of salt...that said when I am in Halifax I always try to get to Saltys on the waterfront for a meal and have never been disappointed.

A couple of recent marriage proposals. However, from a young guy, "you are so amazingly hot. I wish I had met you when I was younger." Of course, if we had met when he was younger, I'd be in jail.....

While I do offer 30min can't say I really enjoy it. Like more time! 45min is better :)

I realize it was not smart that I had the extra cash on me. I was not driving and when I got there it dawned on me. I put it in my back button-up pocket. I kept my items with me, but after the service she offered me a shower before I left, and suggested I take my clothes with me. I originally posted that it was then that she had taken it. But just before the service, she asked me to go into the bathroom to get something for her. That's probably when she went through my stuff. Again, not smart of me, but it's still theft. And she is currently posting ads on BP under MULTIPLE names, Olivia, Brittany, Brittany b*&ch, Forbidden Fruit, etc. Does that not seem a little shady? And when I checked my pocket and realized the money was gone, I told her that if she didn't fork it over, I was going to warn people about her. That exact same day, she stopped using the face pics she posted before that, and started posting ads under another name. I don't doubt people have had good experiences with her. I had seen a couple positive comments about her awhile ago on this site. That's why I decided to set up a meet.

Poutine and wine, buts its divine :)

A brand new Lazy Boy recliner Should have it delivered by the end of the month RG

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And she's back in Kingston now, and still so sweet!

all natural extra-terrestrial mini & fun superfun lil spinner at your place Available: at your place!! 5 ft 0, 99lbs, great down to earth attitude, unbelievable service Petite, tanned, toned, long hair, great assets, witty. mini, fun, sexy, sweet, hot, the elite treat you are gonna love to meet I am able to visit your place or hotel room. book asap by email Great reviews! Always a great time! No stress only big smiles Elite v. I. p. service "I've seen Hannah Star; a great bundle of energy, attractive, talkative, and a great person." "I had the pleasure of meeting Hannah today for the first time. Wow, this girl is very service oriented. The 'straight to business' attitude was great - full-*n ******* within 2 mins of being out of the shower! She seemed to know exactly what I wanted before I had to ask - Very enthusiastic overall and really knows how to please (me at least)! Banging body." "Lil Hannah is the hottest thing this side of Beverly Hills. If I could I would be with her morning afternoon and night, Hannah is the sweetest, sexy girl you will find. Can't wait for my next visit! " "We were very comfortable with each other. Her service was first rate as she spared no effort to provide me with the warmest and a super-friendly girl friend experience. I have no hesitation to recommend her to anyone and she surely will be my repeat as well." "I'm one of Hannah's regulars. She is so keen, loves what she does and does it very very well! Very few rules or restrictions. Enjoy" "I've been with Hannah, she's a hot spinner. If you like tiny and tight, she's well worth it" "Hannah is wonderful. She is super nice, the time we spent together was totally awesome. She looks like a goddess, she is so hot!!!!!!!She really knows how to please,I would give her a rating of 11 out of 10 Any time with Hannah is time well spent" [email protected] 6138690031 is an unreliable phone so pls avoid texting-PMing-calling I am not NOTIFIED BUT emails will be answered more swiftly. Check my recommendation/reviews and feel free to write me one if you would like to share about our wonderful time

Greetings Everyone! My name is Skylar & I'm a petite beauty with booty here to take all your tension & stiffness away! I'm available on: WEDNESDAY! From 4pm until 10pm for an up close & personal, in the flesh meeting you are sure to love! I have experience as an exotic dancer and some of you may recognize me from a few of your favourite stripclubs in the Ottawa area!? I'm open-minded, sweet & fun and I love being in the massage industry because I'm AWESOME at it! :wink: We have beautiful rooms with amazing showers here at Vibe and I am looking forward to getting you alone & relaxed soon! (So much fun!) My Schedule This Week Is: WEDNESDAY! Currently from 4pm until 10pm! Thursday 10am-4pm Friday 10am-10pm Saturday OFF Sunday OFF ********** Please call Vibe at 613 680 8059 to reserve your precious time with me! You can visit my Cerb Profile & see more pictures: Here! & Check Out My New Recommendations: HERE!& My DUO Recommendation HERE! xoxo Skylar

While on a business trip there recently, I too had a nice dinner at Salty's by the harbour. The view on the patio was great but it was getting windy and chilly towards the end of our dinner. Food was very decent.

I think it makes a huge indication on how things are going to proceed. If she goes for the handshake - then things are going to be all business. If she goes in for the hug - then she is genuinely interested in what is about to follow.

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Being an SP is one of the best jobs I have ever had. The benefits to having a flexible schedule and enjoying the company of many awesome clients has been super rewarding to me. I really appreciate how this industry has benefited my life.

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I prefer wine and cheese most defiantly Hot summer nights or a cool breezy Autumn day

All the time but if you're looking for that it's usually a fetish and is more money.

where on Pembina is this place and what is the name thanks

Good afternoon gentlemen Freshly back from Cuba and got a nice Sunkist tan on me ;) I am available tonight from 7pm until 10h30 pm Tomorrow from 9am until 2pm Wednesday from 9am until 2pm Reverse massage Soapy shower Sensuality and so much more..... All you need in one room with one MA Specials on prebooking You are welcome to pm Text only at 613 261 4169 Or booking at 613 820 8887 Xxxx Lany

iv been to Pembina, after 6pm tho Alisha is wonderful lots of touching ball play but no real h e . I but I came 2 times lol... cindy will definitely help you

How's That For A Skirt? ;)

Wowza, look at dat booty! ;)

You can always call and ask to speak to Jasmin. Tell her your situation and preferences and I'm sure she would recommend a few ladies for you, after all she wants you as a happy client who will return on a regular basis.

If they're a licensed MT, yes, but don't expect a receipt for 'non therapeutic' (I know, all servicing can be extremely therapeutic!!! but not in the eyes of the insurance company). There are umpteen threads addressing this question/fantasy and they all emphasize that virtually no registered massage therapist is likely to be interested in putting there whole likelihood at risk by providing extras and a receipt. Use your own 'budget' for hobbying.

You can almost definitely find who you're looking for on http://www.indycompanion.com :) Good luck! Posted via Mobile Device

This a thread about a certain Provider not the rules of the board:spank:

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Sweet handful above and below, let me be your delight. Daring and discrete. A perfect lady, you will want to meet me, and stay longer. I am a busy and engaged young woman, my time is precious to me. Please be respectful, and considerate. I will do my best to make our time together precious too. For those who do not contact me, but have enjoyed my postings, you can only imagine until you engage in the possibility... For those sweet generous men who have spent time wit'h me, thank you. Please see me again. :) I am leaving too soon....

Great service, she was open to many things and I had a great time. PM for details.

The sign is visible in the ad.

I highly recommend Britney and Christina!!! Damn great massage from each and both are sexy hot!!!

Spas are better. Way better. IMHO... So, the downside first: you don't have the choice that a SC gives you. You can't just walk in and take your pick of twenty or fifty people, or sit down and wait to see what catches your eye. Some folks visit spas and pick one of the available MAs; other folks decide who they want to see and go to see that person when she's working (CMJ doesn't do walk-ins, so you'd be better off doing a little research in advance). Now, the good stuff... if you're not comfortable in the open setting of a SC, you'll probably find spas far better. You'll almost never set eyes on another client; at CMJ you may well not see anyone except the lady you're visiting, and if you do it'll be one of the other ladies. You get someone's undivided attention for whatever length of time you choose, and you know how long and what it'll cost you up front; there's none of this "OK, one more song" business, or having to count the damn things. It's much easier to get to know the ladies, because they're not trying to hustle you for a dance while you're talking to them. And you will have... more fun. A lot more fun. In conclusion: what Claire said :)

I met Layha for the first time last Saturday, after having first been drawn in by her ad, encouraged further by her pics, and then completely sold by her blog. It may sound a little counter intuitive on a board like this, but I'm not really the biggest fan of anonymous sex, and maybe that was why the detail in her ad and the blog had such an impact - it made her less anonymous, and really helped shine a light on how she might be in person. When I arrived at her place, Layha answered the door in jeans and a sleeveless shirt, and I was taken aback a little by her presence, but not in a bad way. She looks good in her pics, and they obviously aren't touched ... but in person, she is just so much ... more. (and less - I was surprised by how tiny she is). I've been struggling with how to describe the experience with her because I want to do her justice without sounding overly sappy, and I think the best words to use are "effortless" and "over achiever". In conversation she was genuine, articulate, and obviously quite bright, and yet a little timid at the same time. In appearance she was ... capable of making me incapable of coherent expressions even now. Achingly cute? Ya. That works. And maybe most importantly, she just comes across as being downright cool. It's that last part that will have me back. If you are into spectacular technical skills, she's got 'em. Smart, funny, casual, open-minded, ridiculously cute, jaw dropping body ... just a total package .. which is why I felt it necessary to write this, after too many years of only reading recommendations.

She is on EC....if that helps.

UPDATE: So I happened to be downtown and had some time to spare so ended up at barb's. I had a good time. The ladies were very friendly and accommodating. Thanks again for all the recommendations! I will try the other ones recommended here eventually. Being during the day it was nice because it was almost empty of customers. Being during the day it was a bit weird because it was almost empty. :-) Need to find a time when its somewhere in between I think...

I remember a place out in Carlsbad Springs called The Oasis. Now that was a hell hole!