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Ms. Savannah Lane: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=83555 Ms. Autumn Raine: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=110704 are both independent ladies in Newfoundland. You can also catch Ms. Emily Rushton when she tours to your island: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=22822 I am sure there are others, but these are the ladies I know. Good luck!

Where I was born and raised: Toronto, ON Where I have lived: Saint John, NB Where I live now: Victoria, BC

Where I'm From Well I been all over I was born in Vienna Austria. Actually no memories LOL, I was yanked out of there before any lasting impressions made. But here's the skyline Then was abducted by my parents LOL and taken to Ottawa where I've lived off and on including my university days at Carleton I've lived in Kingston And Peterborough And then I've lived in smalltown Ontario, well two smalltowns The First And where I currently live RG

While its now where I'm from, its home and has been for over 4 years...One of the most beautiful, historical cities in Atlantic Canada and the one I call home....Saint John.... This city skyline: A 3 Cruise ship day: City View and the Bay of Fundy: And one more city shot:

Have lived here a little over 5 yrs and have yet to try all the restaurants I would like, there are so many! I have to say my favorite is The Bicycle Thief and I love The Wooden Monkey(all food is local and organic from NS). The Carleton is a great place to eat and listen to live music. The Stubborn Goat(Grafton St) has amazing pub food. A walk along the waterfront is a must, you will find lots of shops to pop into as well as the Museum of the Atlantic. Hope you enjoy your time here and don't hesitate to contact me if you have any questions regarding your stay. I'm also reference friendly if needed ;) Have fun! Sincerely, Sierra

I've generally had poor experiences with local agency girls; the independents are almost always best IMHO. I can give very high recommendations for Savannah Lane and AvaLynn. Sasaki was nice too, but not in the same league. Having said that, there are also both good and bad visiting agency-based ladies, and except for one dreadful experience I never got the impression there was a habit being supported.

Coucou all, I do consider myself a 'Québécoise' but back in 1966 there was no hospital on the Gatineau-Hull side so I was born in Ottawa Civic Hospîtal therefore an Ontarian!!! Then again I am fully bilingual so if U want me to be an Ontarian I am and if U prefer a 'Québécoise' so am I!! There is a real charm to crossing the river to work, have fun and have been born so yes I LOVE Ottawa!!! Bisous Barbara xxoo

I am laying back relaxing in a hot steamy bath with my feet up and legs spread apart mmmmmm feels great....what about you?

Where I spent my formative years Additional Comments:

nah .. i like the metal one .. just use a hardhat lol

About 3 years ago before I decided to become an SP, I began to explore the swinging lifestyle as a Unicorn (single female). As you can imagine, single females have their pick of the litter and pretty much everyone wants you just like any other rare mythological creature out there. It was exciting and fun. I realized I genuinely really love being with couples, men and women alike. Coming out of a very sexless long term relationship, the swing lifestyle was exactly what I was looking for and it really helped me discover my own sexuality and liberate myself from the rigid and torturous ideal that we all must be in monogamous relationships. Whenever I met couples that seemed healthy and happy, I admired their ability to overcome jealousy and possessiveness, which permeated most relationships. What a liberating idea it was to be able to express yourself sexually with many different partners of both sexes and still have the kind of bond and love between partners. Here's the thing that people need to know; Everything I said in the above paragraph is true... but only for the lucky few who it really works for... the likelihood that you can continue in the lifestyle consistently and regularly for a long period of time is slim to none. Eventually, either you or your partner is going to have a seriously shitty experience and be completely turned off. Here are the things that I found in the swing scene that totally turned me off. 1. Partners not being on the same page. Meeting numerous couples, I began to really see how they varied from couple to couple. All had different rules and expectations. But the worst thing I came across was a lot of reluctant girlfriends/wives who were really only doing this for their husbands sake. The worst thing ever is knowing this woman is not really into girls but is feeling like she has to go along with this for her partner. As a 3rd girl joining in... I knew to tread lightly at first and that any sign of jealousy or disagreement between them meant run the hell away! Secondly, when I did bring a male partner with me, he would get so carried away, I was left on the sidelines just watching or stuck with a guy who I definitely had no interest in at all. It was very unlikely I would ever meet a couple with my partner who we both liked the other couple equally. Basically I would feel obligated to take one for the team, and I refuse to ever do that... unless I am getting paid! 2. Drama & Gossip This pretty much goes along with number 1 and of course is to be expected when you are dealing with straight couples in a taboo lifestyle. Again everyone has their own rules and expectations and sometimes these rules get broken a bit and one partner might feel disrespected or become jealous if they do not feel the situation to be fair. The general first golden rule to swinging is to never use this lifestyle to "fix" your relationship. Without the proper communication and boundaries set between the couples, there is always a chance that things can blow up in your face. There have been plenty of relationships that end quite soon after exploring this world. I will also add another personal account of when gossip became extremely apparent and very disturbing to me. I started to get invited to these private swing parties at various condos. There was one particular couple there that definitely shouldnt have because they purposely loved spreading rumours and turning people against one another. I became extremely disturbed to find text messages on my phone the day after the party with that same couple reciting all the sexual acts I performed and with whom I did things with. How creepy is that!? 3. DRUGS DRUGS DRUGS!!! Lastly, I would warn anyone getting involved into the scene to be aware how drug fueled these events usually are. I have gone to parties where everyone is on MDMA and feeling all lovey dovey, but there isnt a single hardon in the room because the guys cant get it up! I have often had to supply viagara to help these poor boys out, but even then they would have difficulty not just with their boners but paying attention to what the hell was going on. Nothing is as big of a turn off when everyone's pupils are dilated and look like gigantic black holes and their eyes are rolling in the back of their heads. Along with MDMA, people are often doing coke and GHB amongst other things I am sure. GHB is the date rape drug and I won't lie when I say that it makes people super horny and more likely to end up doing something with someone they really didn't want to. I once saw this young girl at some parties who was always so high she could hardly communicate and 2 guys were just pummeling her. Whether she would have done that sober... I highly doubt it. Too often things happened in intoxicated states that began to feel like women were being sexually exploited at these parties. What once was a liberating and free experience... started to feel like sexual abuse. I will end this blog by stating that I learned a lot about the swing lifestyle and probably would not have become an SP had I not entered into that world. However, being an SP is far more fulfilling and way more empowering than being in the swing scene. I find that I get treated with a lot more respect by clients and I have never felt like I was being exploited. Being able to compare the two worlds, one cannot help but be completely turned off by swing events. Why would I want to feel pressured to have sex with people I don't even enjoy and I don't get paid, when meanwhile I enjoy my work and get paid and have fun with some of the sexiest girls ever at the LJX parties! This choice was very easy for me to make!

Go jays go! They could clinch tonight, I believe.

Getting settled in to watch game one of the Bluejays double header. A beer, corn and a roast beef dinner to go along with it shortly.

can not go wrong with mary freddygirl

My children are now adults but I don't have any grandchildren yet so on Halloween I tend to just stay home and try to make the experience for trick or treaters at my door a really fun experience... usually interactive with lights, music, fog Machine and anything else I can find to make each year a unique experience.

All Black Calvin Kleins.

Call me ! (downtown) Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

amen brother, saw her today and still smiling :)

This hot little firecracker is back in Kingston for a few days, I saw her again and highly recommend!

1345 Pembina http://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/winnipeg/chinese-massage-acupuncture-pain-relief-help-sleeping/1105227693?enableSearchNavigationFlag=true

Taxi fare to my hotel and now a glass of wine :)

Hey I know how you feel.

And she's back in Kingston now, and still so sweet!

Hi All, I am looking for a great independent preferably located in the west. I used to see someone (Michaela, please excuse the spelling) but she is not around anymore. She was the best at making you feel welcome and was an awesome person to be around. I am looking for an open minded and really fun person, into light fetish and even some ��������. Also I do tend to lean more towards slender. There might not be anyone out there like that but I thought I would try! thanks for listening.

hug and kiss all the way.

This morning I am wearing white boxers with lite blue and dark blue stripes.

Slate grey cotton briefs

I'm French and I'm not from Ottawa or Montreal and what I like is a hug followed by a huge French kiss. Ok that might be going to fast but I do like the French kiss further on in the encounter.

A couple of recent marriage proposals. However, from a young guy, "you are so amazingly hot. I wish I had met you when I was younger." Of course, if we had met when he was younger, I'd be in jail.....

Anytime someone has put out their hand to shake mine, I always go in for the hug and a big kiss. Sorry, but in this industry, a handshake just doesn't work. I find that those that put their hand out, just don't know what is allowed and what isn't. So, I let them know that we are going to get intimate real quick, and it sets the tone for the encounter. Ottawa is no different then any other place. Just might be a bit more nervous and reserved. This is your opportunity to shine.

I generally live in the moment and take every compliment with a swell of joy. My mind is so busy that my motto is "I may forget what you said but I'll never forget how you made me feel". I always remember those who made me feel something and think of them even when they're not around. I am thankful and blessed for that.

In my civilian life: You listen... apparently not everyone does. Peace MG

I cared for a young girl in my area who was 13 when i was 22, she lived in an abused family wth another sister and 2 younger brothers .. she would stop into to see me after school .. and told me secrets of her homelife .. one day i called children's aid on her abusive mother and they were removed from the home and went to a foster home together .. She found me on facebook and told me the reason she is who she is today ws because of me .. She is a social worker for battered and abused children .. the greatest compliment ever

Well after I retired, two different former students, came separately to my home and told me that I had turned their life around, Makes it all worth while.

him: Hey hun you have an amazing body for 40 me: Thank you however I am actually 48 Him: Wow rocking body .. you look like you have great stomach muscles .. me: why thank you .. on work abs at least every 2nd day .. need to have a good strong core Him: so babygirl what are your rates for the hour Me: $ 300 for the hour Him: Thats pretty stiff for 48 .. like you are almost ready to be put out for pasture Me: thank you for your remarks have a nice day jerking off Sorry just had to say the last part hehe

Hello A little help and welcome to Lyla! Sorry to hear of your condition and holding out positive vibe for you. What I would suggest is contacting a few ladie and explain the situation. From there, you can gauge an idea of how they will respond to what you are dealing with, etc. Then I would suggest a phone conversation as this is always the first clue and indicative of whether or not you both would be suited to meet. There are very many nice and understanding ladie among us. :) I agree with other member that massage be good to start and isn't in hurry.

You can book with confidence. She is a classy lady. She love what she does. She is very cute and sweet. Can't wait to see her and Sophia!!! :icon_biggrin:

I know Ella well. We sometimes duo . she is a classy and lovely lady!

Just wanted to know that I have been the victim of several Baits in the last 6 years. One stands out as the Girl would not talk to me and I thought she was playing hard to get. I was living in a secured building, use of access cards and fobs to enter the garage, elevator and weight room/sauna. Somehow this Girls "Protector" we shall say for lack of better words. Knocked on my door, girl rushed out and he said "you should be ashamed of yourself." Heart pumping and adreniline running I shut the door and called Security. They were out of the building before Security could locate them. This was from C R A I G S L I S T, when it was semi-safe (before I was aware of CERB or other dependable sites), but I have now taken measures in always calling the girl, never text. Make sure that she knows what she enjoys, her restrictions, speaks English and knows my City. I somewhat do an Interview with "New Girls" I see, but it is my donation to the Adventure; I want to make it worth my time and hoping it makes Hers. BD

I think the age thing has to do with the level of maturity. If someone under, let's say 30, leads off with "hey sexy mama, want a ten inch" I won't even consider meeting him. If a 20yr old starts off with "good morning Meg I was wondering about your availability". It's all in the approach! I am not impressed by your sexual prowess I am however impressed by good manners and good grammar which you seem to have ( punctuation is a pain on an iPad! Lol). Sorry but some boys have made it bad for some young gentlemen!

I have had similar experiences in certain massage places where the sign on the wall says "professional services only" and yet extra was negotiated. Some on this website have asked for pointers on etiquette and procedure regarding going for a massage. I suggest call and make an appointment and ask for the price. When the therapist takes you to the treatment room remove all clothing unless instructed otherwise. Cover your backside with towel or blanket as provided or not if none is provided. Tell the therapist that the massage feels good. Say it again when she is near sensitive areas. One can usually tell if the massage can lead to extras. At times it is clear that the massage will be therapeutic or relaxation only, when no accidental touching near the sensitive areas occurs. If the therapist is brushing up against or very near genitals it is likely that an extra is an option. So then ask for it without shame or guilt. On the other hand if there is no indication that an extra is an option then don't ask. Next time go to another place. In many places there are no extras, others offer sensual massage but no extra, others offer sensual massage and no extra but they don't mind if one touches himself. Others offer massage and extra and still others massage and/or extra and/or full service. Most therapists will not suggest an amount for an extra, which should be obvious as to why. Ask for the extra and then offer an amount. Some will not offer any extra until you have had a few visits and built trust. I have had massages in Winnipeg, Regina, Calgary and San Diego. The etiquette and amount of tip are very similar. The therapist or attendant knows what to do. Just go and have the experience. Hope this is helpful.

Been there. Yes it does say professional massage. But the owner rubbed me unprofessionally. Thats all i am saying. Rest is imagination.

Wow sorry to hear it is canceled. I definitely would have liked to come had I planned my trip to Ottawa around it. I do not understand why guys complain about the cost of a social when they get to essentially see and talk to all the ladies in the area for free without booking a session. It is a great boon to clients to be able to get to know a lady on her time off for just partially covering venue costs. We just did a free social in Toronto downtown, but the venue was not private and some civilians walked in off of the street, some complained also that since they could run into someone they knew in real life they didn't want to attend, and others that there weren't enough hot ladies at the event! My mind was boggled because I am pretty picky when it comes to girls and I saw plenty of young hot ladies dressed to the nines. Unfortunately it seems like those that complain the loudest would always have something to criticize. This hobby is supposed to be fun, something you do on your free time! No one is forcing you to pay for or attend if you don't want to. You don't see any ladies complaining they're not getting paid to attend the event in their free time lol.

Well took the plunge to see this lady on BP all i can say it is her in pics but not sure how old the pics are inbox if you want details

These sweeps have been going on for a long time. They targeted street workers after businesses have complained. Nothing new. However, I'm still blown away by guys that continue to insist on asking specifics. They want details, they want to know what is provided. Even after I specify no details, they still ask if X is provided. They've just solicited a sexual service, and therefore are at risk if I was an undercover officer, of being arrested. So, even though they are targeting street workers, everyone needs to realize that they are still at risk ANYTIME they solicit a sexual service. I'm still perplexed at sites that allow graphic discussions/reviews of details. Time and companionship guys - stop asking for details and stop bragging about details. Think with your big head please. There are no code words anymore, there are no easy ways to find out details. Time and companionship. Frankly I'm grateful I no longer have to discuss specifics. I don't want to see these guys. If they can't figure it out, they really need a lesson. Unfortunately, the lesson can be costly for them.

I have in the past accepted a reference from an agency on occasion (but it is only because I knew the owner) I will not accept anything except a reference from a reputable companion (as in paid advertising, website, board presence) My safety and well being and that of those I have previously met is way too important to me and that is why my screening policies have gotten stricter. As well with the bylaws in some cities, it is not worth risking anything for any amount of money. I am reference friendly and it saddens me when other ladies are not, as the gentleman will see who he wants with or with out your consent, you don't own the client and you should want nothing more than for him to be safe.

That surprises me, the ladies I've met have been very happy to provide references. In fact the reference provider tells me, words to the effect, RG, you'll like her. All reference providers I've used want me to have a happy experience seeing ladies, not just them, but all ladies. But that's been my experience The ones who'd get annoyed or maybe petty jealousy, well fortunately I haven't experienced it. And a lady that possessive, for lack of a better word, well how would she feel if you commented to her about all the clients she has. One thing about this lifestyle, it is polyamorous, it isn't monogomous. But I'm getting sidetracked here. All ladies should realize providing references is good for all ladies. Yes the lady may provide a reference for you today for another lady (helps her safety) But next time around it may be another lady providing a reference for this lady who requests it, helping her safety. It should be considered a win-win by all RG

I may be in the minority here but I prefer a 30 minute appointmen for that first meeting that way if we don't click there is no awkwardness, if we do click then we can extend the sessiion or book longer next time. Thankfully I can count on half a hand encounters where we didn't click. Also some providers are great at the physical aspect of an encounter, but aren't comfortable with the social conversational aspects of a session, providng a 30 minute session may well be within her comfort zone.while it takes the same amount of time and care to prepare for a longer apointment as it does a half hour. There is likely a market for it as some gents may not be seeking the social aspects of an encounter and would prefer the option. Its important however for gents to respect the providers who choose not to offer 30 minute sessions. We are lucky to live in a socitey where we have a variety of choices and options t choose from that meet out emotional, financial and physical needs!

I agree with RG...In fact I'll add that I love when I am asked to provide an independent reference, as other than the obvious security factor for her, it shows me the lady actually cares about who her clients are and that can have positive consequences such as being more at ease when first meeting...