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4 pointsWhy hello everyone! Getting my groove back and more excited to be back than ever. I have been fortunate to have many lovely encounters with many lovely men. Lots of laughing, lots of itches scratched and lots of smiles that continued to be glued to my face as I curled into bed with a glass of wine and Netflix. Many of you have recognized me, but for those of you who don't, or are simply new to this hobby, my name is Natalie. If you would like to know who I used to be simply click on this handy-dandy link: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=16867&highlight=Littlelady Yup, it's me! I'm your tiny companion. One that loves what I do among many other things in my life. Those things include playing music, collecting records, finding great deals at thrift stores and reading books while listening to CBC radio. Well, that's enough about me. What about you? What are your hobbies? What do you love about your job? Do you prefer your coffee black or with enough sugar and cream it could be classified as a dessert option? I like to know these things. Why? Because I feel that having a strong emotional/mental connection leads to strong physical connections. So when contacting me, feel free to tell me a bit about yourself. And of course, you can ask me things as well! Oh yeah and I guess I'm supposed to tell you that I'm mid 20s, 5ft, 105lbs, red hair, green eyes and a rockin' round butt. I'll be hosting at a lovely, lovely, LOVELY downtown location until Friday morning. Donations are 240 an hour. Have a good one! Wear your poppies! -Natalie
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3 pointsParty friendly referrers to drug use and we do not discuss this here or link to ads of anyone advertising this. ... it's not funny and the few idiots who advertise this just add to the bullshit stereotype and that leads to uneducated morons writing stupid bills and making those bills law.
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3 pointsIt looks like they are open to reviewing Bill C-36. http://www.macleans.ca/politics/ottawa/prostitution-laws-could-see-more-changes-under-liberals/
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3 pointsI think it helps to remember that when the women here see their clients, it's as professionals, not as personal "dates". Their service and time don't become less valuable based on who their client happens to be. Imagine that your question was instead: "Hey, all you female dentists/mechanics/psychotherapists! Would you serve JT free of charge because he's gorgeous and the PM!?" The answer, of course, would be be "not a chance!" And so it's not surprising you're seeing the same response here. It's always tricky comparing this work to other professions, but in this case I think it applies well.
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3 pointsI have had men in position of power attempting to play the high profile card with me. My response has always been the same: when we are together, I am the Queen, and your social status is therefore irrelevant. I however get all putty in the hands of modest and humble men :)
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3 pointsSomeone in a position of power/status/etc would have more than enough income to compensate a professional companion for her time and companionship. It has been discussed many times on this board about no negotiating, no discounts such as student discounts etc. Why should someone in a position of power/status, someone who has the resources to properly compensate a lady expect a freebie? Ladies want a date with a gentleman, someone who wants a mutually beneficial arrangement with a lady. Not paying doesn't benefit the lady in any way, shape or form. Remember, for the lady, this is her livelihood, and no matter how good looking a guy is or what his position of power/status is, that doesn't pay the lady's bills. This lifestyle is a luxury for gentlemen, not a necessity, and cheap clients aren't what ladies want to meet A guy who doesn't pay irrespective of his position or looks isn't a gentleman, just a bad date A rambling over cup number two RG
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3 pointsNope not at all....your position of power/looks does not give you free service (pay the rate Just like every other gentlemen)
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3 pointsHey folks. The Winnipeg Working Group has heard a rumour that the police are planning hotel busts leading up to the Grey Cup, and will be targeting "repeat buyers". This doesn't mean that you should stop seeing SPs, just be careful, and remember that if something looks too good to be true it probably is. This community has lots of tips on having safe encounters and there are many established and reputable SPs around. Service providers, also please be careful. This campaign is part of the belief that sex trafficking increases during big sporting events (it doesn't). One known tactic that the police employ is to pose as a client, book an appointment and then show up with half a dozen cops to "offer resources" and make sure you're not being trafficked or coerced. We don't know if this will be happening but I wouldn't be surprised, and it would be both a waste of time and really upsetting to have this happen.
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2 pointsI don't think I would even see him period. Paid or not. It is simply not a risk I would be willing to take. Should it get out in the media, I would be harassed and hounded. $250 for the hour and right to say I fuck JT is not worth the possible harassment. My discretion and normalcy of life are just to important.
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1 point:) finally able to meet her... "wow".. from the time I stepped into the door & I really hated to leave when it was time... it was a non-rushed experience...2 hrs seemed to way to quick...if you haven't met her you should! pics are 100%..she likes to laugh...I won't get into details But I highly recommend her! I can't wait till she makes another visit our way!
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1 pointAs a child of the late 60's and early 70's the anthems of Bob Dylan and Joan Baez still ring true to me. Justice and freedom are very important to me and as those artists did in their own way through their music and as anti Vietnam war protesters did in their way, Canadians this past week called for their own freedom and their own quest for justice with the overwhelming choice to dump the Harper agenda and his way of dictating. Mr. Trudeau made many election promises and now that he is in the real world it shall be of great interest to me and to many whether he will honor those promises. The promise that probably should be of common interest to all of us here is his opposition to Bill C-36 which has become the bill entitled the, "Protection of Communities and Exploited Persons Act." There have been references to this in other threads with the general feeling seeming to be that it will not be a priority for Mr. Trudeau to change and therefore we should not expect the repeal of the legislation to happen at least in the short term. Despite being a political junkie and following it closely I am probably one of the least politically aware people in the country about how things actually happen. My own thought is that if it is going to happen then it will have to happen relatively early in his mandate because once another election draws near in four years it would become a political football. This brings me to the point of this thread. When the Supreme Court of Canada struck down the old laws in order to remove dangerous working conditions for sex workers there were many of us here who wrote letters to our Members of Parliament, to the Minister of Justice and to the Prime Minister, all without success. The Conservatives had plotted their course and did what they were going to do regardless of facts or research or the Supreme Court decision. I will argue that now is the time for another writing campaign to our new Members of Parliament, to our new Prime Minister and to the new Minister of Justice once he or she is appointed. As well, since the Supreme Court decision came down I have sent $50 a month, or at least most months, to P.O.W.E.R in order to give my little bit by way of support. It is organizations such as P.O.W.E.R out of Ottawa, and STELLA out of Montreal and P.I.V.O.T out of B.C. that may well be the organizations of sex worker advocates that exert formal, "Pressure," on the new government to repeal the law and decriminalize. Any little bits of financial support that you can send their way may be a wonderful personal investment for each and every one of us. I shall do my letter writing to parliamentarians and continue my little bits of financial support to sex worker rights advocates. I hope that many of us will do the same. Now is not the time to sit back but rather the time to become active and vocal again.
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1 pointYes most ladies do post daily to advertise their self and their business You can always check for reviews on the ladies to make sure they are legit Good luck!
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1 pointGood peaceful day today. Relaxing yet taking some time to reflect on the hardships my grandfather and those like him endured for all of us in WWII. Especially for those who were not as lucky as he was to eventually return home and start their own families. Thank you and we remember.
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1 pointMisterT, I completely understand;moving is so time consuming. Brownies were brought up,so I thought I would ask. It will nice just seeing you.
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1 pointGood Day, Gentlemen of Ottawa I am Bianca Jaguar, a youthful looking mature over 50 companion. There is much more to me than meets the eye (mine being blue). I can be classy, sassy or demure. I am friendly, outgoing, well spoken (fluent in both French and English), passionate and playful. I am just as comfortable in yoga pants as I am in an evening gown or anything in between (or not at all). Whether it be a quiet, romantic interlude or something a bit spicier or wild such as a night on the town or something more formal like a black tie affair, I am quite enthusiastic and flexible in accommodating your desires. I exude sensuality, and I am an alluring and confident woman. I have long flowing golden locks, a bronzed tan and toned curvaceous figure with long, shapely legs. I am impeccably groomed from head to toe and take very good care of myself, working out on a regular basis and adhering to a healthy lifestyle. In the past I have competed as a body builder and since have worked hard to stay fit and fabulous. I am all woman with a warm heart, and soft, but firm touch. I am passionate and authentic. I am very attuned to my environment and strive to give you the utmost attention and quality experience. I am sweet, honest and have a great sense of humour. I am well read on a variety of topics and can hold my own with class and gracefulness when required. If you are a mature and respectful gentleman or couple, and have a good attitude and outlook on life, I would love to hear from you. I am open to discussing the options available to making your desired encounter a memorable and pleasurable one. I will be visiting Ottawa Nov 18-19 I will be offering duos with Sophie Lee...inquire for détails! Since I have limited availability and only see a select few guests per day, I highly urge you to pre-book to avoid disappointment. [email protected] (preferred method for initial contact) or text 514-600-7158 400/h Please visit my website for further instructions at Biancajaguar.com Until we meet...remember it's a jungle out there, but you can come out of the cold and warm up with me... Bianca xxx Your Exquisite Companion
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1 pointHi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm
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1 pointWhen will you be in Moncton exactly? If you're in this week, both Sophie Lee and Bin a Jaguar are in Moncton for the rest of the week. Both wonderful ladies from Montreal. You can thank me later ;)
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1 pointWould you like to spend a little bit of time with me tomorrow? I am a tall, voluptuous and nicely full-figured shaped woman who very attractive, very friendly and provides very nice times too. ;) Just so you know: I am not usually available during the weekdays... I am a full time office worker and part time service provider. I love to laugh, have fun , provide pleasure and enjoy. My Stats: Age : 35 Height: 5'9 Measurements: 40DDD-34-41 Weight: 175 lbs Hair: Brunette Eyes: Brown I have long brown hair that reaches to the middle of my back, a very pretty heart-shaped face w/ a flawless complexion, full lips and almond shaped eyes. My skin is pale and very soft & I do not have any tattoos or piercings To see more pictures of me, please click here Hosting very close to St Laurent/417 area. Very nice, clean and discreet place, parking available, convenient and private location. Welcoming atmosphere with shower facilities for you to use :wink: The Rates for my time are as follows :wink: 200 = 3/4 hour 250 = 1 hour 350 = 1.5 hours If you wish to make an appointment, please pm me to do so and to obtain my contact information. Bye for now, Vanessa Vale xoxo
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1 pointI love the feeling of a man hardening to my touch. You will have my undivided attention as we lock eyes and explore the points that make us tick. Allow me to pleasure you with delightful kisses and my warm touch as we reach the point of true connection. Physically I am tall & fit, my 36DD breasts and long legs to wrap you in tight embrace are the total package. I have long blonde hair, ocean blue eyes and silky, sun kissed skin. If you are looking for an affectionate & playful companion then we should meet! VISITING: Saint John Nov17-18th Moncton Nov19-21st . This will be my last trip to New Brunswick until late Spring 2016 so advance bookings are recommended to avoid disappointment. Respectively, I prefer initial contact via email and confirmation via phone. I offer an upscale hotel suite for hosting. If you can see yourself being spoiled... please refer to my website(below) to learn more. Discretion is always assured and your need for confidentiality is highly valued - I only ask the same in return. Let's make lasting memories... Sierra xoxo
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1 point[/ Yes you need to stop. Take a deep breath... Stop and imagine my toned and tanned body rubbing against yours.... Imagine my tongue all over you while my hard nipples are between your fingers. .. Come see for yourself why I am one of ottawa,'s favorite MA http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=37195 I will be in bells corner tomorrow (Wednesday ) from 9am until 1pm And Friday from 9am until 7pm Don't miss out on the ultimate body to body exxxperience.... All you need in one room with one MA Txt only at 613 261 4169 Pm Or booking at 613 820 8887 Xxxx Lany B]
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1 pointSure would, but whoever it is, my rates are not negociable. If M. PM is willing to take the risk, I hope he will also be able to accept the consequence of his acts if he was to be caught. This said, it is easy for me to say, as I travel twice a year in OTT, and I do not depend on this for my living. Consequences for me wouldn't be the same as for the ladies well established in the Capital, and offering services as a profesion... But I sure thought of it when I saw the unofficial pics... ;)
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1 pointHaving dealt with people who have had some sort of position or power or status in my line of work ( and whose names will NEVER be mentioned as I'm like Vegas) I would have to decline completely. Being the age that I am now, I look back and cringe at the "what ifs". Never again! I consider myself a low key person and that would just be too much. And even if I did, forget about his looks... he is still paying. It's just like the texts I used to get "I'm young, hung and good looking." Young, hung and good looking don't pay my bills sweetheart. So therefore JT would have to pay up and definitely a higher fee based on the huge risk one would take to see him. Still not worth it imo. He is a human being first and secondly a politician. Let's not elevate him to a God like status.
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1 pointif I were ever to get that call, and I seriously doubt it would ever happen, your status and position have no bearing in what my rate would be. I have clients from all walks of life, from high profile positions to the guy that works nights part time in a gas station. It's the quality of time that we spend together that I respect, not your position in life. Would being able to say to myself ' I just had JT' be a thrill to me? No, because having discretion, I wouldn't be able to tell anyone for fear of being harassed.
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1 pointPeople who cancel with minimal notice and wonder why I'm not so nice when they provide a lame excuse....
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1 pointI managed to get out for to see the Redblacks and the Fury this weekend. The atmosphere was fantastic at both games, fans were enthusiastic and vocal. Hope the Fury can pulled the championship on the road next weekend, and already have my ticket for the Eastern final...can't wait!!!
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1 pointHello gentlemen :) I am Amelie, 27 years old, 5'6, 115 lbs, I am tall and thin with nice curves where it counts at 34A-26-36. I have been one of the top providers in Montreal for a few years now and this is my second visit in Ottawa :) I do not believe in playing a role, I am me, and I am here to meet the real you and share a real experience together I am slightly geeky, usually smiling, and conversation comes easy to me, I've been told am I great at breaking the ice and making people feel comfortable. For this reason, please do not hesitate to write me and share anything about you or any inquiry or preference you may have about me. amelie.court [email protected] (no space :p ) Donations: Please feature the donation prominently in the room so we do not need to discuss it during our meeting LYLA special 1 hour ........................... 350 1.5 hours .......................... 500 2 hours .......................... 600 Social ............................. 150 My availability: Please prebook appointments as much in advance as possible and always let me know about potential cancellations with enough time. Thank you Monday November 16th 6pm to 10pm (duos available with Delilah Sansregrets!) Tuesday November 17th 4pm to 10pm You will find much more information about me and many sexy photos on my website http://www.ameliecourt esan.com (without the space :) ) Many many HUGS! Amelie Gray
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1 pointIf they do, there are groups just chomping at the bit to launch a new constitutional challenge. I would hope that the new Liberal government does the right thing by either repealing C-36 outright, or at the very least refering the issue to the SCC. After all, why should we have to relive Bedford et.al for no reason, while in the meantime needless violence may be perpetrated on sex workers, and the lives of countless others are ruined? E.g. (I believe the original Bedford case took 7 years+ to wind its way through the courts).
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1 pointIF YOU CAN NOT GET THIS MESSAGE TO GO AWAY AFTER READING PLEASE READ THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST. ****************************************** PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO CIRCUMVENT THE CENSORED WORDS! ****************************************** I am sure by now many of you have noticed a number of words have been added to the censor list. I know it makes the site very hard to read but instead of jumping ship and moving to another country like other adult boards are doing we have decided to instead conform to the new laws. This means 1) No one can ADVERTISE that they offer prostitution related EXTRAS if you offer this off the site that is find as long as you do not LINK to a site offering such things or offer them here. To conform to the new laws we can not to allow you to ADVERTISE such things here on cerb or advertise a website or blog or ad somewhere else that offers such things. If we find you are linking to a website from cerb that offers such things we will need to BAN your site from linking from cerb. Since people will ignore the law and try to post ads offering such things on cerb we had had to add certain keywords to the censor to ensure no one posts ILLEGAL things. Unfortunately this takes away from the discussion area. Now it is NOT illegal to discuss prostitution or related ACTS but I am not sure how the law will see it if someone is posting that they are a ESCORT (Not offering any PROSTITUTION related extras) and some guy posts saying "Oh, She did such and such with me!" (Guys like to brag when they get something extra that was not advertised....) 2) People may start to try to CIRCUMVENT these words. This will get you SUSPENDED or BANNED as you could put the website in jeopardy. Anyone seeing anyone trying to be creative (offering to do stuff like "squeeze the juice from a hot dog", "Suc the icing off a rooster" or "go in and out of grease for extended vacation" .... you get the point! Please REPORT THIS and DO NOT QUOTE IT! If you reply to it with a quote and do not report it you may also get a warning. 3) Some words are standard words such as O U T C A L L and S E R V I C E and these had to be censored as well as they could be taken the WRONG way and we are being EXTRA VIGILANT at this time to ensure cerb stays within the boundaries of this new law. 4) Use your .... people, don't brag about extra things that may or may not have happened when in private with someone. Just share that you have a nice time, you will see her again and focus on the nice things. More to come but I am asking for help with CENSOR words as well. Please report any ADVERTISEMENT posts that HINT or BLATANTLY SAY they offer PROSTITUTION RELATED EXTRAS so we can ADD to the CENSORS and protect the site. IF YOU CAN NOT MAKE THIS MESSAGE GO AWAY.... Your browser settings are probably not accepting cookies. Switch to another web browser or change your settings and see if it helps. A INCOGNITO browser will probably also cause this issue as well.
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1 pointToday on the news, reporters were talking about Conservative bills that are due to be repealed / amended, according to Justin Trudeau. They mentioned C-24 and C-51... that's it. Nothing said about C-36 whatsoever, so it's up to us to get the word out and keep the pressure on!
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1 pointThe Conservatives just got their ass handed to them on a platter so if the government acted fast to repeal or amend the current law I think it would be extremely doubtful that the conservative senators would be willing to challenge the authority of a newly elected house of parliament over a prostitution law... maybe over a financial issue but not this law as there is no upside for them and let's face it the Senate wants to protect themselves. The problem as I see it is that it does not seem likely to me that this will be a high priority item for the new government... I hope it is but I am doubtful. Just m Opinion
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1 pointI have an idea.... If that were a likely scenerio, what if we just asked the Liberals to refer the isue to the SCC? I believe the high court would undoubtedly strike down the current legislation. Then we would be in position where the government could simply let the exiting laws fall, without the need to write new ones which could potentially be voted down by the Senate. In effect, we would have a defacto decriminalization of the industry. Admittedly, my knowledge about the courts and the legislative process is a bit scant, so if there is an error with my reasoning, please point it out. However, it seems like it could work...
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1 pointOkay, a couple of things to say here. First... I've found that massage rates tend to be reasonably consistent between the major spas (including P/AT) and independent providers. You're usually looking at 180-ish for an hour; it may be a bit more or less depending on where you go and what options you want (or don't want) where those exist. For the spas that only publish a door fee rather than an all-in rate, you can do the math yourselves. Don't ask me about other lengths of appointment because I tend not to go for those :) Second, a word to those people making snarky comments about people with long-standing accounts asking questions like this: it's perfectly possible to have been involved in this industry for a long time without ever going to a spa. Maybe those folks have only seen escorts in the past. Maybe they've stuck to indy providers, where it's much easier to ask questions directly of the person who you'll be with. Or maybe they haven't been involved with this industry for a while; people do end up doing things like having monogamous relationships, sometimes for years at a time, without playing away from home while they do. An account with few posts that's been around for a long time and hasn't been to a spa is not inherently suspicious. None of that means that anyone should feel obliged to answer PM'd questions from people with no posting record - hell, I quite often don't myself, and I'm far more likely to help out other members who do things like post recommendations - but if we could hold back on the open scorn and hostility, it'd be nice.
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1 pointI saw this lady today and must concur. An hour that you'd have to look far and wide to duplicate.
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1 pointI've recently met a few new women lately that did not kiss. Sessions were good, but not as much fun with out the kissing and cuddling. But the last girl, that I had saw for the second time, was a awesome kisser and to be able kiss and cuddle after the main event was great. It makes the difference between a good session and a great session. Without kissing there cannot be true intimacy between a man and a woman. I've had a few older men pm me about which women kissed and cuddled. And most of them had said that they would be happy with just the kissing and cuddling. It's something that us older men miss and need sometimes.
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1 pointKissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages. It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries. I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.
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1 pointFour year old chedder (makes extra old seem like mild) and macaroni today, plus hagen das dulce de leche ice cream...had macaroni and cheese for dinner tonight, my cat wanted ice cream for desert LOL RG
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1 pointthanks cat. this post has lifted my spirits a little more. the site has grown so large that I really can't do it on my own and I have been pushing myself this last year to a breaking point. people are constantly complaining and everyone seams to feel they need to tell me how to do things. most people do not consider that they are just one person demanding my time with frivolous complaints, whining and my favorite... redundant bitching (when they just repeat themselves over and over than get pissed off when I tell them where to go or remove them) with the site growing so large we have 10 times more spammers (you rarely see these as I remove them before you ever see them... only a few get by recentlybecause some exploit exists that has not been patched yet that allows the spammers to circumvent the moderation queue) .. I would estimate 300+ spam posts are removed each month. title infractions.... we don't want the site to lookk like cl with all the crazy post titles trying to out do the next one and gain the most attention... so i have very specific rules to stop this and i use to take the time to pm each person and tell them what they did wrong... i found that even when i took the time people would ignore the pm and continue to break the rules so now i just delete the post and give them a infraction with a link to the rules.. I get people every day wasting my time asking me to elaborate on what they did wrong... did they read the link with the rules??? NO... They are just wasting my time. about 300 posts a month break this rule and more than 1/2 of them break the rule over and over again. This is disrespectful and these people do not deserve to use the site so I just keep deleting the ad posts and eventually just remove them. if they are literate enough to post an ad they can dam well read the rules or they are not welcome here. when I suspend someone (especially a SP or a male member with 50+ posts) i get people PM me (who only hear one side of the story) demanding I let them back or telling me I was wrong or calling me a dictator. These people run to the other sites and tell everyone how horrible I am (and really that did not bother me in the past but now its getting a little annoying).. FINALLY... we have those idiots who post shit like "I am affraid to post on cerb because I will get in trouble" or "I know the rule is... hopefully the mod does not remove me" or the really big idiots who want to fight with me on the site and don't think I have the balls to kick them off!! Yes, it wears on me!! Yes, I am done with it and yes I would not wish this job on anyone. Cat probably meant to post this in the PRIVATE area away from public view but we can let everyone know. I am done and I am working on a way to keep the site moving forward. We are looking for a way to have the community help moderate the site (Myself, the SP's who have SP ONLY access and the ELITE members have a private discussion thread where we are trying to come up with a solution that will keep the site moving forward and keep the integrity of the site alive. I have confidence in our members (Most of them) and I think a few should be removed who are trouble makers but I will leave that up to the people who will take my place as the decision makers. This is not open for public debate but if you are an elite member or a SP ONLY member you are welcome to comment in the private area and have your say. We would love to hear any idea's. If you are not able to see that area please DO NOT pm me. My PM is very busy and full with all this. I am willing to help the transition go forward smoothly (I am not walking away tomorrow or anything) I will continue forward and make sure the site is in good hands before I move on. I will probably always be part of the site in some sort of way (System admin, Server Admin, Software upgrades, etc... after all I am a computer guy and not a politian).
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1 pointDemocracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat
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