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so sad for yet another act of terrorism When will it ever stop? I'm deeply saddened. Why can't people just understand that deep down we are all the same. No matter our religion,skin color,language or where we live.. We all bleed in red. One fight after another gets us no where. Come to your sences people. Let Our chrildren live free. Still waiting to hear from a friend there.

I write this 24 hours after my first experience to share what I went through, figure out what I went through for myself, and maybe help a few other gents along in the journey of their first time. I'm not going to name names as this is meant to be a review of my experience, not the specific girls. Stage 1: Justification This step, although it took some time, was somewhat easy for me. I was looking for a particular experience that my wife is not willing to give me. Does this make it any different than seeing an escort for any other reason? Maybe not to some, but it did the trick for me. Although justification was easy for me, it was by no means a quick process. I had done plenty of research on this topic before I was fully able to wrap my head around it and decide it was a decision I was OK with. Stage 2: Research As I just mentioned, a lot of my justification and my research happened at the same time. This is not a concept I have ever looked into before a few days ago. I'm not even 100% sure what made me decide to launch Chrome in incognito mode and type my search into Google. I also could no longer tell you what the first dozen pages I looked at were. I can say that over a few days I spent close to 20 hours getting used to the lingo (google "escort terms" if you haven't already), reading and rereading articles (both from the hobbyists as well as ASPs points of view), browsing ads (backpages and skipthegames were my two primary sources, although there were several others I went through) as well as agency websites, and finally I wound up finding this gem of a forum. I spent a lot of time googling girls' phone numbers to see what other ads they have posted over time, trying to find ones that seemed reliable. I also spent a lot of time looking at prices in the area. One tidbit of wisdom I found again and again is "you get what you pay for". While I didn't have a huge budget, I wanted to have the highest odds of getting what I was looking for out of it. I eventually found a price range I was comfortable with, both from a wallet and a quality from other reviewers standpoints. This is when everything became very real for me, and I started to wonder.. Can I get away with this? Stage 3: The Fear I was in a good position to go through with this. My wife and I were both vising our own families, in her case in a totally separate country. I was not close to home, and had no chance of her showing up to surprise me. I spent some time thinking things through: What breadcrumbs might I leave? How can I minimize them? What do I do if I miss something? Will the girl randomly call or text me someday and ruin everything? I'll admit right now, I have a fairly narcissistic personality, so my first instinct was "of course I can get away with it!" I still spent a great deal of time thinking about this part though. My final decisions to get over my fears were as follows: 1) I was doing my research on my work laptop, in incognito mode. Even if my wife found something incriminating on my laptop somehow, I've already done a ton of research so whether I go went through with it or not, the laptop is a real rislk. 2) I decided to only contact girls I could text, and I did so from my regular phone. I turned off iMessage on my iPad, and I knew it was already disabled on my Mac, so I had no worries of messages syncing. I could delete them from my phone later. 3) For every girl I would text, I would block their number at the end of this experience. This would prevent the possibility of future messages (even though, really, what are the chances of them reaching out to me unsolicited? Basically zero), and also giving me the option of finding them again through Google down the road if I so decide. If, for some odd reason, my wife is ever going through my blocked contacts list and asks why I have numbers from this particular area code blocked, my excuse is they were old annoying clients (I ran my own business) from when I used to live here. 4) I switched 'Find my friends' to track from my iPad, which I left at my hotel room while I was out, and promptly switched it back after. This gave me the excuse of "I'm going to bed early hun" and after "Can't sleep, I'm going out for a drink". With these plans in place, I send my first message.. Stage 4: Disappointment Unexpectedly to me, my first message to my first (very well reviewed) choice got a response, and after a few messages back and forth wound up in an appointment the following evening. Knowing the lingo was super important here, and I'm sure knowing what to/not to say played a huge part as well. If you haven't done it yet.. Do the research! The plan, since it was booked 24 hours in advance, was to confirm two hours before the appointment, and then she would send me the address 30 minutes beforehand (at this point I only knew the general area). Two hours before, right on time, I send her my confirmation text. A few minutes later, reply of "Can't wait!" 30 minutes to go, I hop in my rental and start heading in the general direction. 15 minutes to go, with no address, I follow up with what I was hoping was a playful text of "Did you forget about me? ;)", only to receive a "Crap omg yes, I'm so sorry! Can we meet at 8 instead?" I agree, she asks me to text her at 7:30 for her address. I kill some time, send said text, and never hear back. I briefly considered sending a second text around 7:45, but figure if she isn't responding she likely had a better opportunity come up (a regular, maybe a longer booking, who knows..), and I didn't want to start my experience by being a bother to someone else, so I left it and moved on. (Never did hear anything back). 8:30, after sitting around pondering for a while, I get back on the interwebs and start pulling up my other choices from before. Since this was now pretty much a last minute booking, I figured I would contact two at once and see what happens. One never did reply, but the other did and we quickly had an appointment set up. Stage 5: The Experience (aka Stress and Nerves) I'm going to back track for a quick second here - I mentioned before I was looking for something specific, but for the below to make sense I need to point out I very much enjoy intellectually connecting with others. I went into this with the hope that a good ASP could provide me with that experience, whether genuine on her part or not. About the exact moment I knocked on her door, all the nerves hit me at once. I knew, theoretically, how the general encounter ought to play out, and I knew how I wanted ours to. I had even thought through how to communicate this to her so that she could help make it happen that way. But from that moment on, the calm part of my brain took a vacation and I may as well have been on my first ever date with the hottest chick in the city. I decided right then to be upfront about it - Why try to hide what she was bound to figure out when she could help make it easier? She was good about it - Gave me my space to get boots and jacket off, paid no attention to the envelope I left on her table. She spent a few minutes chatting, massaging my shoulders, then quickly changed gears onto what I was looking for. Things progressed fairly quickly at this point, which I wasn't totally expecting but went along with. Got exactly what I had asked for. Then, desire and reality parted ways. I had about 20 minutes left on the clock, but in retrospect I could have just left at that point for all I got out of it. We spent about 10 minutes chatting about movies and then her tattoos, but I had the feeling she had already disconnected and had no real interest in talking. With about 10 minutes left, I thanked her, she mentioned next time I was in town, and I was on my way back to my room. Stage 6: Reflection I did my best not to analyze my entire experience right away. I got back, showered, and thought about the good half. It wasn't until this morning that I started thinking about the experience as a whole. It took me until this afternoon to realize that although she looked exactly like she did in her photos, she was not quite what I was expecting - I was aiming for petite but she was a bit ... "petite-er" than I thought she would be. I pulled up her pictures again, and perspective is everything. My reflection eventually wound up with the question, "Was I happy with what I got?" Eventually I decided, not quite. I don't regret it by any means, and if I were back I may contact her again - But maybe not as my first option, I'm honestly not sure at this point. There's something to be said for knowing what you can expect. Stage 7: What's next? Oh boy. My main issue with this question goes back to the 'Fear' stage. It's one thing to do it in a remote location not needing to worry about the wife. But the idea of back home where I need much better excuses of where I'm spending my time and money means I'll need to totally revisit that stage. I'm also almost 100% happy with my home life, so I don't feel I will have much of a desire to go through the hassle. For me, in my current life circumstances, this will most likely remain a "now and then, when I'm safely on a business trip" hobby. ... Maybe.

Well I went here today , after I left I was pulled over by a unmarked police car , the detective questioned me for about 10 minutes about what I was doing there .. So guys be careful , and if you have concerns about privacy because of your job or family id stay away , I was told a investigating officer will drop by my home sometime if he had more questions

Over 100 mostly young lives snuffed out, in acts of crazed fanaticism. We need reason and enlightenment in the face of religious zealotry of all kinds, but we also need a strong political response to acts of barbarism and efforts to restore medieval stupidities and worse.

So far my family and friends are safe. Emma, I hope that the person you know is safe too. I am horrified, sad, anxious. It seems to be only the beginning of the worst to come though, I am afraid.

I am happy my family is safe at the moment... but what a sad day indeed.

In the next two weeks the Inquiry into MMAW will be launched. One would expect that C-36 will be addressed during the inquiry and that recommendations will be made to amend/repeal. That is in keeping with the pledge to have policies and hence laws that are based upon evidence, not dogma.

I rarely bother hobbying anymore. I just haven't found it really worth it lately. I still do troll this sites to check out the ads. In fact I'm sure most of us do that here too. Sometimes someone new will pop up and tempt me to pull the trigger again for a good massage. Vibe was one place I hadn't checked out before, and Adele's pics did the trick. She is so freaking beautiful, people. SUPER gorgeous.. I don't think I've ever, ever met an MA with this level of smoking hotness. While her pics are amazing, there aren't any with her sexy smile, that alone made me weak from the beginning. And she's nice - reeeeeally nice to boot. There weren't any 'extra' extras offered, but she was so amazing that I still felt like I had a GFE-type experience. I'm just surprised that no one else has reviewed her before I did. Adele is now the new standard to which I measure the rest of the upscale MA joints in town. There's so few like her out there, which again is why I rarely bother anymore.

Last Monday was my second time seeing Marianne in 6 months. Just like the first time, my second experience was great! Very clean rooms. Very good massage, good aftercare and a bonus for the bush lovers! Only downsides, no showers and no so discreet access. (On that note, there is plenty of street parking and the doorway to get in is shared with a phone store. I never felt unsafe walking in). PM for more details/info.

well gentlemen I had another massage with capitol c for cougar yesterday and it was better than the first. she sure knows how to rub you right. and yes would recommend and repeat, she's of the board right now but you can find her here or pm me for info to see her . thanx for the wow massage C

I was going to see this provider about 6 months ago. I was scared off when she started offering car services at VERY cheap prices at 4am (I was working nights)..... Not for me, but to each their own. Also 4-5 texts in a row is a bit much... especially that late at night.

Sending prayers to those in Paris and to everyone around the world...we need to come together and stop this madness Life is precious...life is love

http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=224415 Anna sounds like she would be a lot of fun. All the women at Vibe have got great reviews. Will have to try it soon.... MLS

IN TONIGHT AT BARBS at 5PM! Hope to see some friendly faces! I'm not sure how much longer I will be dancing! Most likely "retiring" in the next few weeks. LOVE YOU XOXO

You were the first one? She is a long time provider. Search Kali on BP. She has gone by numerous names in the past.Yes, tiny apartment, futon, good looking, but also hard drug user.

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I suspect you can use an app for that like Tape-a-Talk. So instead of recording your voice you can use to record message as you play it

Midnite is everything a woman should be and more importantly a great person, I felt like I made a friend.

Use a wire that connects the phone headphone jack to your computers Line in and record it on the computer.. would be one way.

I just hope that LE didn't see that post about Anna last week, the one in which some total f***ing moron posted the address of the private house where she's now working. I couldn't believe it when I saw it. Unfortunately, it was up for about 18 hours before I reported it, and the Mod deleted it. I presume he also banned the idiot, but it's too bad no one reported that post earlier. With what happened at Sunhope yesterday, it's especially important that we be very careful what we say here in order to avoid getting providers in trouble. I turned down a request for info this week from a member who's belonged here for 16 months and has no posts. Better safe than sorry! https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=714588&postcount=60

I saw Adèle about a week ago :) I don't often write recommendations these days, for reasons known to me and the people who are close to me. But I have to say, Adèle is an amazingly attractive woman! One of the most beautiful, intelligent and classy women I have ever met - and I have had the pleasure of being with a number of very attractive women! I am a very lucky guy :) To be able to spend some moments in the company of a lovely woman like Adèle - it's more than most men could ever dream of ;) If you have the chance to go see her - do that - it's a really good idea :) You will always remember your time with her, guaranteed :) bellafan

At first I thought: 'Is she who I think she is?' Then I thought: 'Who else could she be?' Barb's has had a website of one sort or another for quite a while, but I've only recently noticed that it has been substantially changed - not sure how long ago the changes were made, waterat. http://barbarellasvip.com/ They also have an instagram page. Here's my fave pic from the instagram page that isn't in the 'Gallery' section of the site.

Making wonderful plans and then illness preventing your following through on them...

Well i have been texting her trying to meet her and all i got back from her was 1 message hard to book if no answer back

Had the great pleasure the meet Natalie for the first time. As has previously been mentioned, she is a fantastic person. Lots energy, great body, easy to talk to, just all around a really fun woman to be around. If you are in to spinners, then Natalie is a must see! I definitely plan to repeat with her. :D

Welcome Carmen Lots of nice people here. PS there is a providers only Forum if you pm a mod once you get a handle on things Enjoy!

I was getting ready for an early flight to Toronto, and don't do mornings very well. So, I decided to wash my hair, so I wouldn't have to do it in the morning. After I washed it, I reached for the mousse, and put it in. However something was not quite right. I then looked at my mousse, and realized it was the flea treatment for the cats. My hair was silky shiny, and not a flea in sight. Gawd. When I got married, my son was a newborn, and I nursed him. We were piss poor, and I couldn't afford the proper pads nursing mums use. So, I would cut a period pad in half, and use them instead. I borrowed a beautiful white dress for the occasion. We got married, and afterwards at the reception, I had to take my baby to nurse him. My new sister in law (all of 8 years old), wanted to come with me. Once we got to the washroom, she turns to me and asks... "Why do your Breasts say "always?" I'm a bit confused..... She says again, "your breasts, they say always." Then it hits me, I didn't remove the wrapping to the sticky part. I'm like looking in the mirror, and sure enough, it's clear as day. Not one adult mentioned this, it was an 8 year old child. I later asked my new husband, did you notice it? He replied yes, I asked him why he didn't mention it, and his reply was I thought that was your wedding present to me.

Great news from the oncologist. Latest CT is clear. 55 weeks cancer free!

I was walking on Somerset st. in Ottawa and all of a sudden a 10" pink dildo hit me on the head, it must of came from the 15th floor and I screamed "WTF" and I did not see anyone. I still have the dildo in a box at home waiting for someone to claim it. J/K

Age 4: Was playing in the refrigerator one afternoon and put butter in my hair minutes before my mother was taking my dad to the airport on one of his many business trips. He missed his flight as a result. Age 15: Moving to a new house. Was moving things with my sisters and we jumped out on the passenger side. For some reason the mini van went into reverse ( dont ask me how) as I jumped over the seat and the car start rolling back with my youngest sister in it and went right on the neighbor's lawn hitting the fence. Luckily it stopped there because they had a pool on the other side. Age 26: was moving things around in a condo downtown. Had to move the sofa so I put boxes on the balcony. I threw the light weight box on the ground and out came a 10 inch pink dildo rolling on the balcony. Before I could step outside and catch it, it slipped under the glass partition where there was a space and went down 15 floors. Before I could look over and about to cringe, all I could hear from down below was "wtf?!!!" in an extremely loud voice. I'm assuming someone walking by on the sidewalk on Somerset st in Ottawa literally got hit on the head with a flying dildo from 15 stories high. Posted via Mobile Device

Wow, you definitely fucked up there! Lol! I have sooo many 'I fucked up' stories!! The only one I can think of right now is a few years ago I accidentally somehow pocket dialed a friend while I was having sex with my boyfriend lol I noticed a couple hours later and saw that she listened for 7 minutes....hahaha of course she denies that part, though hahah. I was definitely a little embarrassed but I laughed about it later :D

A new government or in fact any particular government being in power has nothing at all to do with constitutional challenges. A challenge needs to work its way up through all of the court systems I believe. What a new government could do is refer the legislation to the Supreme Court for a ruling on its constitutionality, or change the legislation. If there is ever a good opportunity to effect change it is now and making that happen does not fall solely on the ladies. Everyone can do their part if they choose to. Rather than repeat myself I refer you to this thread, "Decriminalize Now - A Suggestion."

It looks like they are open to reviewing Bill C-36. http://www.macleans.ca/politics/ottawa/prostitution-laws-could-see-more-changes-under-liberals/

Hey folks. The Winnipeg Working Group has heard a rumour that the police are planning hotel busts leading up to the Grey Cup, and will be targeting "repeat buyers". This doesn't mean that you should stop seeing SPs, just be careful, and remember that if something looks too good to be true it probably is. This community has lots of tips on having safe encounters and there are many established and reputable SPs around. Service providers, also please be careful. This campaign is part of the belief that sex trafficking increases during big sporting events (it doesn't). One known tactic that the police employ is to pose as a client, book an appointment and then show up with half a dozen cops to "offer resources" and make sure you're not being trafficked or coerced. We don't know if this will be happening but I wouldn't be surprised, and it would be both a waste of time and really upsetting to have this happen.

Not just a photo; not just an abstraction. A very beautiful young woman you can actually go see, and be with, at Vibe. A very classy young woman who deserves your greatest respect. Adèle is a lovely, warm woman! I so look forward to seeing her again :)

Skylar Heart, again; I can't resist :) Thank you, Skylar And reposting this one from her brunette days :)

If they do, there are groups just chomping at the bit to launch a new constitutional challenge. I would hope that the new Liberal government does the right thing by either repealing C-36 outright, or at the very least refering the issue to the SCC. After all, why should we have to relive Bedford et.al for no reason, while in the meantime needless violence may be perpetrated on sex workers, and the lives of countless others are ruined? E.g. (I believe the original Bedford case took 7 years+ to wind its way through the courts).

...Although Sated, I Want You Aching" Madame De Loup Experience The Passion, Feel The Sexuality, Smell The Desire, See The Sensuality, Taste The Pleasure... Available Wednesday 10am - 10pm Thursday 3pm - 10pm Friday 3pm - 10pm Saturday 3pm - 10pm Sunday 3pm - 10pm

A few kind gent brought this to my attention and I wanted to share with my fellow friends in Ottawa. Apparently, someone is using my pics in Ottawa: http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/slim-girls-do-it-better-tight-and-ready-baby-soft-skin/28973268 I find it interesting to see that all pics in this ad are stolen. Very flattering or simply a case of laziness ? Sorry to disappoint but this ad was not posted by me. And this girl is absolutely not Eva either lol. Just google my number and you will see. If I can save some of you from a bait & switch situation or from whatever scary/awkward situation I'm glad to do so. Keep an eye open and don't get played by the frivolous... Cheers, Eva

Bumping your ad for free won't guarantee it will stay up for long. After you have bumped it for free, wait a bit and then click the link in your confirmation email and when it shows the "move" feature showing, then you can pay $1.00 using a paysafecard to bump it to the top again. You can purchase a paysafecard at any Canada Post outlet or certain Esso Gas Stations for as little as $10 plus service charge. You need to go up to the cash and actually have the cashier punch it in and they will give you a receipt with a pin number on it which is basically the card. My advice is not to rely on free bumps to keep your ad going.

Barney, you need some SERIOUS education on escorts. Have you ever heard about independent escorts? I agree with what has been written previously, this naive statement is offensive. Please, inform yourself.

Just FYI Mod recently put in a Gatineau area forum https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=370 So far it seems to have little traffic...maybe ladies and gentlemen haven't noticed this forum yet Just mentioning it, maybe if more Gatineau ladies advertised here and guys who have had good encounters with Gatineau ladies posted their recommendations here, not to mention post in discussion and massage areas where appropriate ;-) this forum will grow Anyhow, just posting for information RG

Thanks Mutau. It was fantastic. I'm still beaming.

Way to go with the flow, joji. It is always the unexpected that gives us the most joy.