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Did you receive a PM asking for your email and the email asking for HELP MONEY? We have some reports that men on the site have received PM's stated in a urgent nature asking for a personal EMAIL address then you receive a email with a sob story asking for HELP in the form of financial assistance (Personal donation). If you had this happen (even by a reputable sp) please PM me the name of the provider who did this. It is NOT acceptable and it is ABUSE of the PM system and the council here has been made aware of it and we are not happy. I know ONE lady who is doing this but I want to know if more then one is doing this and also how many people this lady is doing this to.

Bullshit. Sorry to be blunt, but that's the only way to describe this. It's especially ironic that you accuse others of having little or no knowledge of history. Off the top of my head, without actually bothering to look anything up, here's a few people and organisations that you seem to have little or no knowledge about. There's the IRA, ETA, 17N, and the Red Army Faction. There's FARC and Sendero Luminoso. There's Aum Shinriko, the LTTE (who invented suicide-bombing; did you know that?) and Babbar Khalsa. There's the ANC and Nelson Mandela (yep, they were considered terrorists in the past). And in the US we've had Timothy McVeigh, Ted Kaczynski, and pretty much every lunatic who's perpetrated a mass-shooting who you'd undoubtedly call a terrorist if they happened to be called Mohammed. That's just a very quick list, without research, and cherry-picking an example or two from each corner of the globe. I'm sure it could be greatly expanded with a little effort if anyone can be bothered, but I think it serves to prove the point that there have been and remain a great many terrorists who aren't Muslim.

If we wait until there is no suffering in Canada and we're all 100% happy then we'd never help anyone else. It's not an either/or option, in any event. It's similar to people saying we shouldn't fund science or the arts because that money could be spent on something else. Besides, humanity and morality aside, it's in our own interests to help the rest of the world and those at need. We don't live in isolation and chaos and suffering elsewhere will still affect us. Throughout our history people have been resistant to immigrants or those in need coming here for one concern or another, concerns that almost always turned out to be invalid. At one point we despised the Irish coming over. At another point we argued against taking in fleeing Jews. I don't want the next generation to look back at us and shake their heads at how we could callously ignore people in such desperate situations. The word terrorist has "terror" in it for a reason. They win by making you too scared to act humanely and rationally. I know I couldn't look any of these refugees in the eye--suffering in very real ways I can't even imagine--and turn them away because of some hypothetical fear that I'd be risking my own comfort and safety. There will always be dangers and risks--hell, I've a better chance of being shot by some young white man shooting up a school or a theater than a bombing!--we can't let that rule our humanity.

IMO, I would advise against going to a client's home. I do not do outcalls to homes with the exception of 2 regulars and they are both disabled. Unless you can verify that they have a landline and listed with 411, anyone can book a fake appointment and give a false address. You just don't know what you're walking into. With regards to outcalls at hotels, ask for their first and last name and be sure that they are in their room to answer the call. Go to upscale major hotels only and no sketchy or seedy motels. If they give you the name, verify it with the front desk and ask to have your call put through to their room. If they refuse to give their registered name, I'd advise against going. Again, could be a fake booking and if your safety is compromised, you don't have anything to fall back on. The biggest weapon you can use is your intuition. Listen to it. Ask to speak to them on the phone and chat for a few minutes. Anything used to protect yourself can be used against you and in most cases illegal. If you decide to go to a hotel, have someone to call and give them the name and info beforehand. Call when you're in the room, and have a secret way between you and a trusted friend if something is wrong and then you have a way out. I have done this a couple of times when I didn't feel right. I will also not engage in alcohol with a client because you could be slipped something in your drink. I just say "no thanks" and that I do not drink for personal reasons. Some people will try to push for this but stand your ground.. If I did drink with clients, I wouldn't drink it unless I saw them open it and peel the wrapper off with the cap or take off the corkscrew. Even then if your drink is left unattended or you turned your back. I won't trust anyone in these situations. When you're done, call when you're leaving while still in the room and when you have left the building. I always tell the client while in the room at the beginning of my boundaries. Also I tell them my restrictions on the phone. I make it very clear and if they are looking for something I don't offer, they need to find someone else to meet. If they persist in asking in person, I warn them that it won't work out and I will be leaving and that someone is downstairs to get me who knows where I am. Anyone intoxicated upon arrival, make up a story and leave. You do not want a confrontation with a drunk person who will most likely insist that it's okay and that they are safe. Not likely when someone has consumed too much and you can't predict their behavior. Some guys sound okay on the phone an hour or two before but if they've hit up the hotel lounge downstairs for drinks, it could be an entirely different story once you get there. Always be on alert for that. Don't do anything if you don't feel right about the person. There will always be another client waiting in the wings. Safety is paramount while money is secondary in these situations. I no longer do outcalls except for those 2 regulars who I trust.

Nicolette's advice is very complete. the safety call & someone knowing where you are is always one of the most important things. Letting the client know or see you making the call is not a bad idea at all. Before you leave home: use google. Google the phone number, and also the address you are given. Do not go until you have verified that they are using a working phone number. You call them back, give them your ETA. obviously if the number doesn't work you aren't wasting your time. When you google the address you are given, it is not just to figure out where you are going, it is to verify the address exists. And what is actually at the address. You might find out the address doesn't exist, or you might find out that it is incomplete. If the address given leads to an apartment building and you don't have the unit number for example, you don't go until you get it. you need to google the whole thing.

Hi there I thought I would start a thread on Car's. With all these members here I thought we could share some knowledge on the topic of buying and fixing cars. I'm sure there are some members here that are car salesman and mechanics. I've bought quite a few cars in the last 30 years and have learnt a bit. The last 10 days, I've had to fix 3 cars, which had one problem after another :( Tips in buying a car. Do you research. -Buy an hour before the dealership closes, this way they wont' keep you negotiation for 3 to 4 hrs. They will close the deal quick if they can. - Buy the last day of the month. They have quota's to fill and have to pay another month's lease for the car on their lot. - If you want a particular colour, or model of the car and it's not on their lot, they can get it from another dealership, but will have to pay the other dealership a fee. the car I wanted was 900. - be willing to get up and walk out, if they want your money, they will come get you with a better dealership. - They make a huge markup on the rust proofing, extra warranty and rust proofing. - The last 2 car's I bought I used CarCostCanada.com. They will show you the dealer's cost of the car and the cost of the options. You can use this knowledge to get the best price with little negotiation. - Don't tell them you have a trade-in till you negotiate the price of the New car. Otherwise they will play around with the price of the trade in to make it seem like you got a better deal. Car Repair tips. -If it's not under warranty, most repairs will cost you at least twice as much as a independent garage. -The oil change place will try to up sell you on there other products and services that you may or may not need. But fluid changes are much cheaper then the dealer. A cabin air filter will cost you almost half the price and free installation. Services are cheaper at these places. They will do light bulb changes for free, but may cost a bit more for the light bulb. But some times changing a lightbulb in the tail light is a pain. If you can use a independent service garage that is recommended do so. There hourly rates range from 50 to 90 an hour, Where as a dealer rates is 110 - 130. I can usually get the same job done for half at a garage. I have also found good mechanics and mobile guys that charge as little as 45/hr and they come to your house to fix the cars. Another thing I started doing, is buying my own parts. I buy them from a place called CAPS if you are in Ottawa. Regular customers get a discount and mechanics get a better discount. For example the list price of brake rotors are about a 100. My price is 37 to 40. Calipers are around 50 but you pay a core charge of 75 which you get back when you bring back the part. So dealers charge you full price and make money when the return the part and charge you a lot for labour. They give you a book rate of 2 hrs. Where I have seen a mechanic do the same job in 45 minutes. My brother in law used to be a mechanic, and he said if he wanted to, he could always find a problem to fix. Watching some TV shows, they show how some of these places scam the customers into expensive repairs that are not needed, and sometimes not even done. You can get good deals on parts online or at some part's store. Some parts you can get and the junk yard. Instead of doing expensive body work, you can sometimes find the body panel in the same colour as your car and just have it installed. Places like Mida's where they guarantee their brakes for life, make their money on the installation of the replacement brakes, They may charge you over a hundred dollars to replace the brake pads that cost them 25 dollars. Get a good mechanic thru word of mouth of friends and neighbours. A good mechanic is worth his weight in gold. An inexperience mechanic may take several tries to find a hard to diagnose problem. This week I had 3 cars to fix, problem after problem. 6 sets of brakes, tire changes, snow tire installation, oil changes, While leaving the garage, my driver side power windows fell into the door. Had to get the window regulator, These I got the indy mechanic to fix with me supplying the parts at very good price. Dealer will charge 400 to 800 to fix brakes. I paid 200 to 250 depending on the quality that I wanted. Brought 1 car to the dealer for the 99 dollar winter special. Ended up costing me 1500, they wanted 2500, but I will bring the brakes to my mechanic. Told my mechanic what they charged and he said he could have done it for 800. Last of all, after all these car repairs, my daughter came home with a flat tire, that I had to deal with. My first time using a jack to change tires :( That's all I have share for now. Hope to get any more tips or interesting auto buying or repair stories. Anybody been scammed. Please share so that other's will not make the same mistake.

Good afternoon, Thank you for a lovely visit on the west coast of the island, it was great to be back and enjoy the snow and sunshine. I look forward to seeing you again in the spring time. xoxo Emily

For an MA virgin I would suggest reading the recommendations section to pick an MA you think you will have a good rapport with. Think about things that are essential to you in the ideal session, and PM her to make sure those are all available. Once you've done the homework and booked an appointment, as stated above, it's really all about being clean, punctual, and respectful. I'd say the only area to particularly focus on is breath, as the rest should be part of your daily routine. I will add, however, that gentlemen are at times over zealous with their preparation and shave areas they wouldn't otherwise just for my sake. Please feel free to be comfortable. Present yourself as you normally would, for your kindness will count far more than a hairless chest :p Most importantly, don't be shy to express your needs and desires to the MA, or to ask questions about her boundaries. We are all very open and have likely heard the same inquiries before :) If you'd like more teasing in a specific area, let her know! If you need more time at the end to chat and cuddle, don't hesitate to ask! The MA will know how to lead the appointment, but she can better tailor it to you if you speak up. And like anything else, a smile goes a long way. This should be a fun experience! Come in with a positive attitude and you can expect it to be reciprocated. Happy hobbying!

Vivian is sexy on a motorcycle for sure ! Here are more pictures of girls on a motorcycle that are sexy ! This is one of my favorite view, a girl with a pony tail in the wind !

That's....not even slightly accurate at all. Posted via Mobile Device

.....all terrorists are Muslims? !!!!!!!! There are some in Northern Ireland who might disagree with that statement. Is that a real quote or did you make that up to try to sound insightful? You failed to validate it by attributing it to anyone.

Thanks Waterrat. However some new ladies do not have access yet so if I try to help any way I can if the question is posted here.

Hello everyone! Did everyone have a great weekend? I sure did, I even did some shopping! Got some sexy new outfits and they're currently stowed away just begging me to be worn! "I will look so much better on your bum than shoved in a corner of a suitcase" said the burgundy garter belt. "I'm meant to be showed off on your tiny feet!" cried the new patent leather stilettos. Don't you agree? I do, but I think they need an audience. Are you a lovely older gentleman who appreciates music and likes the new Aziz Ansari show on Netflix? Do you enjoy laughing and feeling like a giant as you cuddle a woman who is barely 5 feet tall? I'm a happy person who loves learning about what makes you tick. If you feel like laughing and getting a cardio workout then come visit my lovely downtown location this week! I can see you between 9am and 2pm and after 7pm (but no later than 10 as I have a serious Netflix and sleeping addiction). Have a good one! -Natalie xo Oh yeah, 5ft, 105lbs, mid 20's, red hair, green eyes, rockin butt and full 32Bs

A big +! to any reco of Gina. Her massage is amongst THE BEST, and the the options are great.

Agree completely! I'm not sure why this thread hasn't gone wild! If you see her you'll understand what a massage should be. Check "Gina" in RECOMMENDATIONS.

there are lots of great threads and posts to read on here. Anything in General is a great place to start, but just taking a look around you will surely find some interesting topics. If you're looking for something in particular, just do a search on the posts. Lots of really cool information, and lots of funny stories too. Enjoy your hunt!

I have also met Emily a while ago and i would have to say that if she would choose to associate with someone I am sure that person would need to be similar in attitude, so I would think it's a safe bet. Also curious to see how it went/goes.

Probably fake, but definitely not 12, not with those boobs and bush

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Happily retired. That's all that matters.

Guys, get your ticket for the Christmas social while it's hot!! We're working on getting specials guests too!! Additional Comments: We still have spots available cor both gents and ladies. Get yours today, its a good opportunity for the community at large to be together and share a drink and a bite to eat. Have a nice thursday everyone!

Same pics found on various model sites and other escort ads in other cities.

On servicing: bear in mind that warranties on cars may be dependent on getting them dealer-serviced at the specified intervals, which means you pay too much and do so more often than necessary. You may or may not consider this worthwhile to keep the warranty valid. On finance: last car I bought, I asked whether they'd work with me on the price if I paid outright rather than taking the financing. They wouldn't. I think the reason for this was that in my case the cost of the 0% finance was borne by the manufacturer rather than the dealer, and so it made no difference to the dealer's profit margins whether I took it or not. But this obviously won't always be the case. YMMV, as they say :)

I requested an address that will receive from couriers (from BP) and so far it has not been provided (in other words no response on that). The address I have is a P.O. Box and couriers will not deliver to a P.O. Box. I sent mine regular mail. From mailing to receiving credits on my acct took exactly one week

Don't worry he gets it.

Legit SP and not a bad location, but I didn't go back. Not exactly enthusiastic.

These are families with children who need our help, fleeing the very people we are all afraid of. The Canada I grew up with would not turn their back on them out of fear. I know the world has changed, but we have to keep our humanity. Don't let the terrorists win. Don't let fear change who we are. How can we stand up in solidarity against their victims in France, yet turn our backs on their victims in Syria? I believe that Canadians deep down are good people who will stand up for the people who need us most. I really hope I am not wrong for all of our sakes.

If you prefer, it IS possible to purchase Credits on BP without using Bitcoin. If anyone is interested please PM me and I will give you my number to text me. I will provide the info. I finally got around to doing it but I didn't want to tell anyone until I could see for myself if it works. It does! It involves moneyorder in US funds to BP itself. I am so happy as I don't have to purchase paysafe or deal with bitcoin.

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Repeated for emphasis. I dropped a long time favourite because of this. I regularly booked two or three hour sessions but she could not go more than fifteen minutes without checking her phone. It got to the point where she kept it right beside us on the bed. She didn't see it as an issue. People who are phone addicts don't realise it.

I've always done outcalls and you at least have the option of not seeing the client ever again if he acts up.....and he does not know where you live. clients show up for incalls drunk or high ALL the time so just doing incalls does not avoid that. customers can "act up" or be violent ANYWHERE. there is no avoiding that it is part of this occupation. the craigslist serial killer in the U.S. was murdering sp's working out of hotel rooms and recemtly a Canadian sp was shot out east in a decent hotel. violence can happen anywhere. do what you are comfortable doing. everyone has different comfort levels - some prefer providing incalls while others prefer outcalls. everyone is different.

I agree with this. It's yet another reason why trying to put up a virtual wall now offers only an illusion of security, purchased at the expense of the 25,000 desperate human beings we thereby leave stranded. We have a working intelligence agency and police network. They're further helped by the cooperation of peaceful and diligent communities who already raise flags about potentially violent radicals in their midst. Let our authorities do their jobs. Meanwhile we can do Canada's traditions proud by taking care of tens of thousands of desperate people who need our help right now.

I am disappointed by all of the anti-immigration and anti-refugee talk. Put it this way: if someone from Paris wanted to immigrate to Canada, claiming they felt unsafe in France, would we let them? We wouldn't be having this discussion, it would just happen. The only reason the Syrian refugees are looked at differently is because they are Muslim. It's racism, and that's not a claim I throw around lightly or often. I'm not saying everyone is a bigot, I'm just saying that when we're afraid of something we let our emotional lizard brain run with it's categorization and labelling, and in this case we are (admit it) looking at every Muslim as a potential terrorist until proven otherwise. It's disheartening. And, inevitable. But, we can choose to let our rational minds rule the day and override those emotional leanings. If we don't, we've let terrorism push the humanity out of our hearts that much more, and become more like them.

I never thought original 25K number by Dec 31 was feasible (eg here in Ottawa there is a huge shortage of affordable housing and this would just make it worse) To me it was a number meant to get votes not based on logistics. Paris doesn't really change my opinion - a number that can be accommodated in the 5-10K range w/o affecting refugee applications from elsewhere is OK. Goes without saying even before, that applicants have to be carefully screened with priority to those with family here, single mothers and NO single males.

As with many things I have such mixed feelings over the issue. Normally I am an anti-immigration person, the reason being that we have our own Canadian issues that funding can deal with - unemployed Canadians, poverty, aboriginal discrimination and the list goes on. My feelings at the moment on the Syrian refugees goes counter to that and no doubt for my own unique reasons. It comes down to terrorism. I am not prepared to let the terrorists have their way. If and when we change our policy due to fears that that ISIS has generated then they have won. So let's take these refugees and let's help them incorporate into a Canada that is welcoming and that will allow them to make their way and contribute to our country. I also am ready to give our new government a chance to demonstrate their smarts. Until they prove otherwise I shall trust that with time they will do checks on our new future Canadians. They no doubt are moving quickly in order to meet a campaign promise so if the new people end up on military bases until the proper process for settling them is carried out and followed through on then so be it.

Guys what are you doing? get off your computers and give this angel a call :). Left my 1hr visit with her a couple hours ago, and I have got to say again and again, she is the best girl I have had the fortune of getting into bed with. Not trying to brag but a fairly long list :). I am not too sure how to describe how great of a night this was, but i should have known it would be a very monumental night, because once i left the house i noticed how warm it was for the time of year, than the drive on 401 to get into town was incredibly quiet so quick. Well once i pulled up to hotel and texted her things just kept improving. i remember walking into her room and seeing her move towards me to give me a little kiss and a hug that warmed my insides up:) she not only smelt great and looked fantastic but her warm demeanor and very cute smile just made me feel i was sitting on a bed with a very close friend i have known for years. Now this is my second visit with Keilani and will not be the last. I left that room after being touched and kissed by this wonderful sexy Hawaiian girl smiling from ear to ear. I wanted to knock and stay for another hour, which i had this time made3 sure to bring extra coin just in case, but my bigger head won the battle with my pecker as i do have to get up in the morning and go to work lol. I am not going to go on about what she does , as that may all differ depends on who you are and how you treat her. I am not sure. All I can say is , i did everything i love doing in the bedroom and it felt to me , she seemed to very much enjoyed it all also. she said tonight it has been kinda quiet this weekend here in Kingston for her and I can think of no reason for her not to be fully booked. I did tell her she is far more sexier in person than those pics she has used on the B P site. I know if she were to have better pictures taken of her, she will have a phone that will never stop ringing. I am not trying to say she is the most gorgeous women to have ever visited Kingston, but you combine her looks with her personality, charm and how at ease she makes you feel and suddenly she is at the top of my list for girls to continue to call. cant wait for her next visit. Hell i may take an early lunch break tomorrow just to do some dinning down under. call her guys, I am pretty sure if she doesn't start getting busier , she may not want to stop here again. And that my friends would be a huge disservice to all of us. visit with her and once you leave , you will have an amazing feeling inside yourself for a few hours at least :)

What is it that makes crazy attractive. Everything I hear about this makes me think I should not even think about it. But then it I think I wonder what it would be like. Curiosity killed the cat. I think I can use my brain enough to just steer around this. I am getting smarter as I get older.

Seen her yesterday with her duo partner photos are spot on and she is tall as stated in her ad I'd say 5 10 or 5 9 I'd recommend doing a solo with her if your interested as her duo partner takes the lead mostly when their together from my experience but she is very engaging and knows what she's doing will visit again when she's back as she comes here twice a month she mentioned

I'm probably "old school" but I think it's rude in any social situation to be pulling out the phone all the time. (A pet peeve of mine actually. ) In an encounter as intimate as this, it's even worse. I like to get lost in the fantasy of the moment. To feel that I am the most important thing right here and now. Checking the phone every time it makes a noise drastically takes away from that illusion.

Looks like credit cards are coming back for backpage. When I went to pay my bill, the option to pay was there.

Shortandsweet, Send me a text and I will be glad to help you out. It's really not complicated at all. The biggest hurdle is finding a seller and I can put you in touch with one. I can guide you step by step over the phone.

Sounds like a bunch of ass kissing going on around here! :D

It's not safe with condoms if that's what your asking but it's very good as a massage oil.

I have spoken with Backpage and they said they can't do anything about it. I contacted the review board on that website and they said their legal team is working on it but I haven't spoken with friendfinder.com there is an email at the bottom of the website so you can copy links of the stuff they copied & send the backpage ad links as well. unfortunately everyone who posted on backpage is a victim of them coping our ad and making up lies. better search your numbers ladies!