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My apologies in advance. My post is long and a bit heavy, but a highlight for me today, nevertheless. I finally understand how important it was for me to spend a couple of weeks with my grandfather in Laura, Saskatchewan over fifty years ago. My grandmother had to go somewhere. My grandfather had suffered a stroke and needed someone to stay with him, just in case. We were living in Saskatoon, not far away. It was summer - a beautiful warm, dry Saskatchewan summer. I was twelve or thirteen, I think. I was the one who would be with my grandfather. I didn't understand then how important my presence could be. My grandfather had four children, including my mother, the eldest, and one son, Joseph (Joe), the youngest. Joe was very talented but quite wild around the edges - spoiled rotten, drank too much, chased skirts and ended up in the St. Lawrence River in his early thirties, with a wife and many children in St. John's, NL. I resembled Joe a lot. I would guess that my being with my grandfather comforted him greatly. We very much enjoyed being together. We exchanged very few words, but lots of connection. We would go for walks and collect beer bottles and mushrooms, which he would cook in butter. Yummy! In the afternoon he would smoke his pipe in his den, and take a nap. Beautiful, peaceful times! A lovely man, of few words, who lies buried now in Laura, with his wife, not far from where my mother and my father also rest in peace. Only tonight did I realize fully how good that time was for me, and probably for him :) bellafan

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I have been accused of being willing to burn ANYTHING in my usually pretty humungous bonfires. We could get that painting and have a wonderful Lyla party culminating with Harper going down in flames - again. :)

Hard as it may be to believe, simple, over the counter medicines are hard to find in Cuba. I find the hotel maids really appreciate Children's tylenol, brand name toothpaste, and the like, as "tips". If they can't use it themselves they can barter it with other Cubans

Good for you! It is good to honor those who have gone before us by keeping them in your mind and heart. Even if you only remember now and then, they like it, I'm sure. :)

You should have just left. I find that disrespectful for someone to do that. Always follow your intuition.

Gotta be willing to see the good and not just pick on what is not perfect for your liking. Thats what adventures to other cultures are about! Absolutely spot on. Keep that in mind and you will have a great time in Cuba.

This is how they do it in Sydney:

I would recommend not going to see any girl until she has some good photos posted otherwise you may be disappointed. Some do advertise on BP. CMJ, Paradise, Angels, Vibe all have good pics posted. AND, don't forget the indys.

Her ad says bbf extra i take that as ����. I would run from that as fast as possible

Hi there. I thought this would be an interesting topic. I have not met too many SP's yet. Just 2 younger ones and 2 older ones. However i have found the experiences to be different. Younger ones seem to be in it for mostly the sex. They are wild and try to get it over quickly. Not as much chatting and foreplay. Older SP's offer more companionship and erotic experience. They are slower and tease more and want to make the sex last longer. Then they cuddle more. As I have not had many experiences yet. Can I get your opinions on whether you find SP's experiences different based on their ages?

TOFTT! Chanel is a beautiful Belorussian elite companion from Toronto. Advertises on EC and BP. Extensive services menu. Gorgeous 5' 6" busty, slim blonde. Great kisser. LOVES what she does! Outstanding SP. I had the time of my life! Pics on website are what you get.... 100%! Lovely accent. Not a clock watcher as our session exceeded two hours. Definate repeat. Definate recommend! Treat her well gents! I want this goddess to return often.

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Hi, Does anyone have any intel on her? She looks beautiful.

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I went to the casino, btw I withdrew 300$ from our bank account

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Here's my take on it. I don't fear any area of Halifax for my personal safety, but I don't want to have a great experience and come back to my car and find it broken into or missing. That would be a disaster I don't need. Safe, secure and if possible; discrete parking is a priority for me. I'm not leaving my car on Highfield park drive or Creighton st. Options like that would make up my mind for me.

Some use fake pics because they are afraid to use real ones for personal reasons. As long as the pictures are very similar in body shape, size, and age is accurately represented then I'm good to go. However if it is an outright manipulation I'm gone, awkward or not. It's not always easy to leave, but I said it before and I'll say it again, it's the people who stay rather than take a stand and leave that perpetuate the bait and switch. By staying you are actually telling this person "hey, this works, keep doing it!!"

Although I have cut down on hobbying, I have to say that when I first started I was seeing a lot of the younger SP's & MA's. but over the years, I find it more comfy with the 30+ women. They have more experience, most are not rushed, and most are clean (meaning no drug or drinking habits).

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that sicken everyone

I guess so. She has a lot of leadership, and is extremely cold blooded. But it's desperate people, and desperate people tend to do desperate actions... We are talking about Cadets, kids, in real life. I suppose I'm starting to feel like an old army mom... ;) Better get used to it...

Whoa RG! There is a difference between 'having' and 'being' a humongous dick - SH is certainly the latter - and I can imagine him (or his painting) welcome as fuel at any mrrnice2 bonfire!

Another proud "darksider" here. :) Lived in Dartmouth much of my life and am happy to do so. It is funny how many people from across the harbour act like crossing the bridge is entering a different country. You can get to downtown Halifax from Dartmouth faster than you can many places within Halifax itself! And yes, there are good and less reputable streets on both sides of the bridge. But as others have said, I put much more stock into the reputation and communication of a lady than any worries about location.

Found that out. Fake pics stolen from other SP's in Colorado and California.

I would glady expose one of M. Trudeau, tho...

from listening to some of the ladies lots

I actually went to Halifax to work once. It was a personal vacation, and if I could see a gent or two, perfect, however, if I didn't, no big deal. I was travelling with my dog, so limited on hotels. I found one in Dartmouth, and made a reservation. However, once I got there, I was like, no way, I will not stay there. I drove around, and found a beautiful hotel just 5 minutes away from the one I was going to stay at. 100% difference in the two hotels. Spent the weekend there, had a blast, and enjoyed myself. However, some of the guys that called me were like, No, I won't travel to Dartmouth. No big deal to me, as I was having a great time. For those that did come to see me, they were surprised at the hotel and that it was nice. It was a chain, so the standards are the same for each location. So, yes, Dartmouth seems to have a bad reputation. I'm not from NS, so don't know all the ins and outs. However, my one experience staying at a hotel there, is yes, there is a difference that is like night and day within the same block. Funny, the nice hotel, was only $20 more per night then the dive I originally booked. Good luck beautiful!

I agree. every visit I had with a mature lady was take your time. tease and satisfy you. I also found the young ones try to get it over very fast .

I got a text too. With the talk about them moving, this sounds like a legit message. It also came on the phone that I use for these kind of activities so, it's not a number I give out all the time.

just wanted to bump this thread to see any more opinions ?

I can't stop smiling!! Don't ask me why! I'm just happy!

I could probably contribute to this thread daily for a while because I have been so very fortunate to have met some incredible people in my sojourn on this site, but today I shall put forward two Goddesses of the Day. In no particular order, allow me to put Meg O'Ryan's name forward again. It has been a while since I saw Meg but I recall it vividly. She is a wonderful person and I consider myself fortunate to have met her. Today I also would like to put the name of Midnight-Energies into the thread. Tracie has been a wonderful companion and she has returned more to me than I ever could to her. I hope that you both are well and perhaps one day we shall meet again. It would be my pleasure.

It's probably safe to say that there are a number of variables that come into play when deciding to visit any lady. Really, I would visit any lady with more than a couple positive reviews on this site, regardless of location whether it was my first time seeing her or not. As others have said in this thread already, when considering seeing someone for the first time who does not have any reviews to go by, neighbourhood is definitely a factor, and there are areas on both sides of the harbour that I would not venture into for a first meeting. Accessibility, parking, and my comfort level to enter and exit 'unnoticed' are big factors. Sometimes a hotel location for a first visit makes me feel more at ease for a first visit with someone with no reviews on this site. Usually easier to park and blend in to the crowd when coming and going. The first point is the important one. When considering a visit to any of the fabulous, well-reviewed ladies on here like Lexy, Danielle and others, location isn't really a factor.

Short answer: all of the above. It's your choice what to do in the situation but most would say be polite, say no thanks and leave and don't put yourself in a potentially dangerous situation. Some guys like the look of the girl and stay, and then will post it as a B&S later. Some have stayed and had a great time while others didn't and there have been cases of a third person showing up, robbing and threatening. It is always recommended you do your homework on any provider you wish to see especially new or transient. If you do take a chance, listen to your gut when it says "leave". This is an easy industry to take advantage in which is why sites like this are great for being able to discuss and posts warnings. Have fun and be careful.

Not as much of a concern about location if the lady I'm visiting has a good and well known reputation. There are a few areas I wouldn't visit if it was to meet someone for the first time. For example I wouldn't visit someone unknown if they were based out of Highfield Park area.

Is there a function that thanks every post others make? Reminds me of that cougar lady that thanked every post made in a thread!! Was tired of seeing her named as thanking a post and it persuaded me to never ever try to arrange a session with her ..LOL. Now Kris is thanking every post ... is there a prize for most thanks or for most thankful?? I can see the lady that Kris was rude to thanking a member that pointed out his rudeness as that makes sense, but thanking every post makes one wonder the purpose. Also wonder why the rude statements were made in the first place - must be some ulterior motive or maybe he is just a rude mean person..

I'm not sure if I am changing the intent of this thread or not, but it is certainly related. Retirement is a big thing financially as has already been written about but also psychologically. I know a few individuals who were in high stress jobs that upon retirement were bored out of their minds. They found that they needed something to occupy their time, and regretted the decision. Another friend who had an amazing professional career went to work at the take out window at Tims and absolutely loved it. When I retired I figured that I could take a year and putter on my beautiful old home and property. Now here I am seven years later and still puttering and not the least bit bored and I am loving it. Life is short enough for some so for me to retire from a job that I truly loved was a wonderful decision. The passing of my wife two years afterwards and before she had decided to retire was a huge blow and I always now encourage people to retire when they can financially and take some well deserved time to relax and enjoy. As for CPP I took it at 60 because I have no vibes that I am going to live past the break even point. Not morbid, just a bird in the hand sort of thing. :)

In terms of inflation and the impact it might have... well to compare any financial item over time you have to compare constant dollars so inflationary impacts must be considered especially if we are talking about something spread over 15 to 20 years. For example if the taking of the early payments allows you to purchase a retirement property now versus waiting 5 to 10 years when the value may have gone up 10% or more a year then it becomes easy to see why inflation and the usage to which the funds will be put to becomes important. Frankly it's not really possible to know which option is better without knowing all the details related ti the individuals situation... that said discussions like this are important because it gets people thinking ahead of time about retirement... thanks for starting th thread. Just my Opinion

Basicly your math is right but like most of life's decisions it is not really that simple... you have not factored in inflation or any investment of the money you might receive earlier or if the money might have been used to paydown or pay off a high interest debt earlier. Bottom line there is a break even point but it is different for every person's individual situation... Just my Opinion

Agreed! I have clients that shower before and after, but it never takes more than 5 minutes.. even with mouthwash, so I don't count it as part of the appointment. XX

I always encourage showers for hygiene and I usually give a few extra minutes for it. Most take a 2 or 3 minute shower which is reasonable. What is not reasonable is someone taking more than 5 minutes and then wanting to take another minute shower after. A half hour appt turns into 45. Most guys I have never seen do this. I've had it happen where someone spent 10 minutes in there before and 15 minutes and found it completely unacceptable and wearing out their welcome. I had to knock on the door because I had to leave and I was getting suspicious. They took their sweet ass time and knew they were doing it. That is someone I would never repeat with. While the above is a rare and an extreme case, I don't count the time for a quick shower of 2 or 3 minutes. I'm not a clock watcher with this but if someone is taking advantage of more than 5 minutes, I have no qualms in telling them they are cutting into the appointment.

I am so happy when a client who is coming over asks beforehand if they can use my shower. It is important, I like someone clean. Most come directly from work (i.e construction workers) and it's nice how they clean up before we engage in anything. Shower fun is also enjoyed. Some want to just step in quickly and out.

Generally it's part of the appointment, yes. Having said that... Showers for two are a lot of fun. Sometimes it's difficult to remember that the shower isn't supposed to be the entire appointment :) Even if you're just quickly cleaning up before the fun starts, the lady you're with will undoubtedly appreciate your concern for hygiene, which may result in you having more fun than you might otherwise, or perhaps she'll add a little bit on to the end for you. No promises, obviously, but it doesn't hurt.

Well then you wouldn't like me because unless we have met before, I would be counting the money at the beginning of the session. When I would encourage you to relax and undress, etc. I would do it in such a way that it was not the sole focus in that moment. And yes, in the end, getting paid is is what it is about. It is a business transaction and that doesn't mean we don't choose our clients based soley on them compensating us or that we don't enjoy ourselves or feel an interpersonal connection. But at the end of the day, we are paid companions and no matter how you want to slice it, us not counting the money in front of you does not take away from that. It rarely happens, but I have had gents give me the incorrect amount or Canadian Tire money and even overpaid (especially when the new bills came out). There is nothing that will spoil my mood more than discovering after the client leaves that I was short-changed.

The backlash against topless women is similar to the shit women get for breastfeeding in public. Guess what? Boobs aren't always sexual. And if you can't control yourself at the sight of a topless woman, that's YOUR issue, not hers.