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Emily holds the same sentiments as I do. I prefer 40+ because I find older men 40 + are from a different generation and younger men are expecting something in return that I don't or could never offer them such as wanting me to be their girlfriend, give them a discount because they're a student and the "now" factor at 3 am. While these are extreme examples, I have come across them in the past until I put my age requirement at 30+. To answer your question Tempted Monk, older men understand, value and appreciate intimacy. This comes with age and life experience that one doesn't find in their 20a or 30s. All age ranges have different goals, expectations and values. I have always identified with the older demographic because in my early 20s I found myself thrust in life experiences comparable to people in their thirties when they are just starting out. I bought my first house at 22 and have been living on my own since I was 18. I have never really clicked with my generation at the time because I always felt I was 10 years ahead of them in reality based situations. Now I find I like dating men 5-15 years older then me. It is not a huge age difference but enough that they are from that generation of sharing the same values as I do. I have had some good experiences with gentlemen in their early 30's-mid 30's but there are still a few who think that because they are so hung and good looking, I should bow to them. This is my business and while I enjoy it, I'm also here to make a living and be able to pay my bills. We're not on a dating site. I'm older and I have young men in their 18-23 age range contacting me and I'm old enough to be their mother. Sorry but it doesn't sit well with me even though I'm here to offer a fantasy, I just can't bring myself to it. Other times I felt like I was corrupting them and I can't be doing something I will feel uncomfortable with. I have in the past and left me feeling not good. I'm not knocking the younger generation but we all have preferences just as the gentlemen do here with choosing ladies age, body type, etc. It's nothing personal. I'm an old soul and not exactly a spring chicken even though I'm often told I look younger than my actual age but 40+ men make me feel wanted and appreciated and in turn I give that back to them.

My answer is based solely on myself and I can't answer for others. I prefer mature company +40. Im not saying a 25 year old can't be mature, but the connection is different in the past experiences I have had. Someone older than myself is someone I tend to mesh better with, from experience I have found that I have few issues visiting with mature company (they follow the rules, read websites, don't haggle and well they don't stalk me in my hotel lobby- yes that has happened) as well screening is NEVER an issue. My experience with younger clients 98% of the time is usually not something I want to repeat, the lack or respect to this professional and me is one of the big reasons as well as the fact that they seem to not follow instructions well and feel that it is ok to want to date me or take me for coffee off the clock. The fact that initial contact in my experience from a younger gentleman usually starts with "I'm super good looking you should see me for free" or can i have a student discount and r u free now - is enough indication to why I don't wish to see the younger generation - they are also the one who seem to hold the entitlement card and feel because they have money I should see them (and they wont allow me to screen them). I will say in the new younger clients I have clicked with, they had 2 references and were rare from the norm Every lady is different and every lady has different boundaries and rules, for me I'm at a point in my career where chemistry is better than anything and without it there is no date. - regardless of age. We all have our reasons for who we wish to spend time with and why and to be honest its really no one else concern except for the lady who has put her policies in place and they should just be respected.

I'm different!! This is me speaking for myself only. I think we under estimate our younger generation. Sex sells now a days, and really only has been in the past ten years, so our younger hobbyists and Sps are the new us in retrospect... I do get what a lot of woman from lylas birth mean when they say younger men seek, ask don't follow instructions, wanna marry you, have your babies etc.. however in another ten years those men will be the older generation booking us.. I've dated men in there twenties and men in there eighties.. It comes back to your generation, and what you may think is okay or not.. Patience with young ones is important.

As always a fun, enjoyable, exciting event! A special thanks to Loneskater, Mister T and Alexxandria for being such generous organizers and hosts. Lots of relaxed socializing, great mingling and a wonderful opportunity to meet old friends and make new ones. Lyla is a very positive community!

I myself have had the best experience with men ages 24 and up. I'd wish that the younger ones knew to be respectful and kind, but it's hard to connect with someone who doesn't always visualize you as human, which keep in mind,is not ALWAYS the case. Women on the other hand can range to 19 and up with not a problem in terms of being someone making an appointment with myself. I myself prefer mature people, whether that be man or woman. In terms of clientele, I think every SP just wants a great experience and appreciate those with at least half a brain to be good company. It's all about atmosphere. I have had wonderful experiences with young adults with great manners and had quite poor experiences with mature people. I think it MOSTLY comes down to the individual. In terms of judging at first stance, I would always choose an older client as I would more than likely get less drama and more chance of a regular visit. -Brody

Hey ladies what is a major turn off when someone is looking to book a time with you ? One thing I absolutely hate is when someone texts me and says....What's up? Like really lol that will not grab my attention First impressions mean everything and I prefer a gentlemen being respectful and courteous when inquiring about my ......... For an example; Hello how are you or Hi I am .... and I am interested in knowing more about you and your ........!......so much better

As a hobbyist or Sp or MA Most of us, are living a double life. Like Superman or Spiderman. Clark Kent by day and Superman by Night Peter Parker by day and Spiderman by night. We all have our private lives that we shared with Friend, family and co-worker. And then we have this other secret life where we meet other Men and Women for a quick sexy fantasy encounter. Or for some it is their income. However, we all have our secrets that we need to keep from our friends and family. And run the fear of being caught and suffering the consequences. But this is part of the thrill of living on the edge. It's what makes this life style a bit risky and exciting. But it can be stressful as you are always afraid of getting caught or being found out. Being careful, by having second phone or forgetting to close your browser when you still have cerb or emails open or forgetting to erase your internet history. Just wanted to get your thoughts and experiences of what it is to lead this double life. Did you ever get caught and how did you explain your way out of it out, or had to suffer the consequences. Hope to hear, some of your thoughts on this subject.

Formerly Henderson and Main St. New location is safe and well operated. Same line up and rates and roster as we are familiar with. If you've been to Henderson you will like Route 90 as it is basically the same operation. Just ask for your fave provider and likely she has made the move. Leanne, everyone's favourite, is at the new location. I saw her early in the week. I've been to the new location twice. Much more of a convenient location for me, and the same services as Henderson. You can find their ads on BP, CL and KJ. Key words in their ads are 5 minutes from the airport and 10 minutes from downtown. They accept phone call appointments only.

Once, a long time ago on here, somebody asked me if I was the "official cerb greeter." I thought this was funny, but I kind of liked the idea, and I do try to make it a point to say hello to as many of our new members as I can, especially our new female members. I hope it makes them feel welcome, and you just might strike up a new friendship. You never know. So yesterday I notice a new name on the board. Virginia Snow. She's just joined, and she's on, looking around, so I drop by her page to say hello. She responds right away, and we chat a bit by pm. She has a sense of humour, and she seems interesting. She asks about the social groups and I see she joins some of them. I think I'm going to like her. This morning I woke up feeling very stiff and in need of attention, and thought a massage might help. Somehow I awoke with the thought of this newbie in my mind. Virginia..I wonder..I text her. What will happen? To my surprise, she gets back to me a few minutes later, and she has some time. She will take care of my stiffness for me. OK, it's a date, and at the appointed time I'm there. The door opens. My jaw drops. Virginia greets me with a smile and a hug. She is a stunner, and a spinner, and a blonde, and all the things that I like. A hot hot youthful body, a beautiful face, and one of the best bums on the planet (I've already posted her in the thread). She takes my hand and leads me inside, and undresses me and herself, and takes care of me. Very well. By the end of the session my stiffness had completely disappeared, and I was floating/am still floating, happy that I had made that initial contact yesterday, and happier still that I sent that text this morning. It was well worthwhile! So once again welcome, Virginia, from the unofficial greeter. Thanks for greeting me back and for seeing me today. More please!

Many of us donate to charity all year long whether it be through churches, the United Fund or many of the other commendable organizations that are out there. As we approach the Christmas season thoughts go to others very often and decisions and choices are made. It shouldn't be that its only in December that people contribute that little bit extra here and there but that in reality is very much the way of it. Therefore, if you give where should it be? For me my thinking has changed over the years. For a few years as a Christmas gift I gave goats to families in third world countries through the World Vision organization. Two years ago I decided that there are people in need in Canada so I moved much of my donation to local food banks. Last year I gave a donation to Power as a Christmas gift. This year I am undecided as yet. POWER or PIVOT are choices for their work with sex workers and their involvement in fighting our one year old legislation. I gave a small donation today to a local group that is sponsoring a Syrian refugee family. There are so many great places that require funding. Wherever I decide to make donations I will check beforehand to be assured that the funds are going to the place and purpose that I intend and not primarily to administrative fees. Whether it be because of Christmas, or for any other reason, I encourage everyone to support worthwhile groups that assist those of us who are less fortunate than we may be ourselves.

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Blindfolder - most times (the universal qualifier :icon_wink:, turn about is fair play!) Real Christmas Tree: Pine, Spruce, cedar, or fir?

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As alaways, on behalf of your Social organizers, Thank you to all who contributed to last night's event. A nice sunny Friday everyone !

Geez that's right across the street from a middle school.

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I went visit this fine lady last night and the picture is her. And one of the best service I had in a long time.

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All you can eat Sushi lunch for those with who I work - a pre-festive treat!

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Hello Folks I found this forum to fulfill a need as most of us do, I look forward to meeting some well respected and reviewed companions. Regards Additional Comments: I am also new and need help :)

https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/group.php?do=create Easy peasy ...just follow the links. Enjoy!

Maybe it's because you're a bad customer. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/matt-walsh/bad-customer-service_b_3799574.html This is a customer service job and there are a lot of parallels to draw from, particularly the nonsense idea that the customer is somehow superior to the service worker ("the customer is always right"). Anyone who has ever worked customer service whether it be fast food, call centers or more personal work can tell you: you can love your job but absolutely loathe some of your customers. Why is that? Well chances are good that they are simply bad customers. Maybe they've let the phrase "the customer is always right" go to their heads. It's a brilliant phrase that oversimplifies to the point of absurdity. The customer and the service worker are human beings, and humans are not always right. Some customers get a little too self-important and we've all seen it no matter what jobs we've worked in our lives. We have all known (and probably even been) that customer at some point. I'm the customer and I am paying for this and I want it my way!! Just like a child throwing a tantrum, bad customers exhibit similar behaviors and attitudes. I say on my website clearly that when you book an appointment that time is guaranteed with payment, but it's your attitude and hygiene that really determine how that time goes. In other words, don't be a bad customer. All too often you find clients who forget that we have every right to refuse them and while they are busy crying foul over the effect (refusal) they neglect to consider the cause (bad attitude, bad hygiene, etc). Am I saying bad experiences are all the customer's fault? No, that's absurd. However sometimes people really are just a sh*t customer and they ought to address their underlying entitlement/sexist/whatever issues because that stuff is seeping through and ruining things (likely in all areas of their life because these behaviors do not exist in a vacuum). Just like the person in the article pitching a fit over ketchup, every bad customer has their own issues going on that they are probably not dealing with and thus they will continue to be a bad customer the minute things don't go their way. These behaviors have surprisingly little to do with the trigger, which could be anything, so it's best not to take it personally when you encounter a bad customer. Food for thought ...

I once read something about our brains not processing negatives (like don't, can't etc) Also the last word you say is more likely to be remembered and processed (that is why people like to have the last word). Example: 'Don't forget to pick up milk'. The brain processes 'forget' and ignores the don't. If you say 'Remember to pick up milk', the person is more likely to do that as there are no negatives in the sentence. When ketchup lady says 'no ketchup' the listeners brain is receiving only 'ketchup', quickly processes that and she gets ketchup. What people have to do is say something like 'without ketchup' (although that is hit or miss as I tried this myself) or 'can you leave the ketchup off the burger'. The listener would hear 'off the burger' and if they forget what to leave off, they at least know there has to be follow-up as they know SOMETHING has to be left off the burger. It's not about the minimum wage earners being stupid or whatever, it's about how the mind processes and takes in information. But ketchup lady is still a short-fused biotch.

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Hi there, thank you for checking my ad. You will not be disappointed with my A+++ massage... My name is Vivian. I'm 28 years old. Gorgeous, i am a classy looking Lady with long black hair, seductive cat eyes ...., beautiful silky soft, tanned skin. work out body with all the right curves in the right places. You have finally met your dream girl... I greet you at the door with a lovely smile then lead you to the massage room...I will start with a deep soothing tissue massage to relax all your muscles then follow with a soft touch to invigorate your whole body then the fun time ... It will be the most relaxing, creative and passionate session for you ever. So amazing that you cannot help yourself from thinking about it and want to come back for more ! http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92146 For relaxing massage $40/30m $50/45m $70/60m appointment only, call/text me at 6l3 7l2 l2OO mon to sat 10am to 7pm

I live here. Have been pooning here for thirty years. There is no point trying to sugar coat this. The Winnipeg marketplace has become very unsafe over the last five years or so. Meth is everywhere, even in nice neighbourhoods. Guys cannot ever, ever have an unknown lady come to their house. It is dangerous and asking for trouble. It has caused me a LOT of problems, and I know it has caused other guys problems too. Never have someone you do not know to your home unless you know them really well. I learned the hard way, do not make the same mistake I did. Winnipeg has a very unique demographic and a lot of poverty. That too affects people's attitudes and motivations. Never go to a sketchy neighbourhood for a session. Hotels are safest. Any lady who can rent a room in a nice place probably has her affairs in order. Most online ads other than EC in Wpg are using fake pics. If you are being bait-and-switched, walk away immediately. Don't argue or haggle, just leave. Basically my advice is find someone you click with and stick with them.

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Are the same .. the Catholic Church in my community in NL .. My great Grandparents donated all the land in the area which house the church, schools, graveyard, park, town council office etc .. our church celebrates 100 years in 2018 and is about to shutdown and sell if we cant pay to keep it .. so i give 2500 a year toward its bills to save it and our precious land :)

When it comes to safety, I think the industry is like other industries in that if you do your research and use your big head, the chances of putting yourself at risk is lowered. Those companions who are here to establish themselves, establish a solid reputation of trust and discretion, will be easy to find, easy to research/follow and will have a trail to follow.There are many well established companions to suit any taste. Check boards, websites, Twitter, Tumblr, Snapchat, Instagram etc. Avoid stolen pics, comments about party people, no limits, 24/7, etc. Constantly changing names or numbers are also flags. Yes, there are a lot of new and varied companions and many are enticing. Tineye, google image, recommendations. Also, listen to your gut. There is nothing wrong with taking a chance on someone new but if safety is your first priority, only you can determine risk. Trust in this industry comes from openness. Ladies have screening to protect themselves and are more open to those willing to provide the requested information. If you view your safety as valuable yet try to avoid screening, you're saying that the ladies safety is less important than yours and does not establish trust. A reputable lady is discrete and only wants your details to ensure her own safety. So many believe they are just waiting to blow up their lives but you have to ask yourself, to what end? That would destroy whatever business they were trying to build. It's not a perfect situation for sure but there are many things that can be done to reduce risk and ensure safety. Both sides want this and it's just a matter of meeting in the middle. Honestly, when it comes to safety, ladies put themselves more at risk than clients do. This is a reality proven by the many instances of violence and harm. Hope this helps a little. Be safe!

Have I mentioned that I like this look??? :) Additional Comments: And a repost of a favourite pic...also via the spinners social group

(digression) And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why this broad has a policy of not allowing negative reviews. Far too many of them are... less than legit. OK, end of digression. As you were...

Most of my donations go to my mother's church in Cape Breton . I make a monthly contribution because a lot of my money goes to helping the poorest of the poor . The church helps people who have fallen between the cracks of society . Those who for whatever reason don't qualify for assistance and just don't have enough food to make the month . I empathize with world hunger and poverty but feel my donations need to stay closer to home .

Autism Nova Scotia I've donated to. And the turkey drive for food bank.

I've seen here in the past. She's a legit SP. Very tiny & tight.

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For most of my adult life I have been involved in charities and community groups mostly related to children's needs and supporting families in the community... I will readily admit that my main motivation for this involvement has tended to be my own children whose capacity to care for others and seek out opportunities help has been inspiring to me... I'm not sure if a Christmas tradition we started as a family played apart in the giving nature of my children but I hope it did. Each year as a family at Christmas time we would seek out families that we could assist during the Christmas season with gifts and food and frankly the basic necessities of life.. in the early years money was tight in our family but we made a point of ensuring that as we did for ourselves at Christmas then we did for others... As our family income grew we were able to do more but the reality is we tended to get more out of the giving then the families receiving... To meet and develop friendships with these families sometimes over several years taught me and I think my children that happiness was not derived from financial abundance... I learned that the stereotypes of people in need are just that stereotypes ... people find themselves in need for many many reasons and it in no way reflects on their character or integrity. The fact is you or I could be in the same situation...I have always felt that it was a blessing for me and my family to be allowed to be part of their lives. My children are older now and they continue to contribute to the community in wonderful ways well beyond anything their old man could ever have thought possible for me personally my charitable en devours have slowed quite a bit over the last few years as I have struggled with personal issues in my own life but our family tradition of giving to others at Christmas has remained a huge part of the Christmas Spirit for me.

While it is not a local charity or close to home, I stumbled across this man's story and it was very compelling. I found his story through something else I was researching and that is synchronicities in numbers which happens to me many many times a day for the last year and a half. Despite what he believes in and whether or not others can relate to how he got there, I admire this person very much and what he has done to help so many people and want to help him through a donation. https://www.gofundme.com/y4f2w4

I loved when someone told me I had good energy, nice to hear a less common compliment :)

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

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