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Good for Stlitz for leaving . This ought to never be tolerated. I have spoken with many gentlemen and when they showed up the lady was not even close to what he booked. If all men walked out eventually this problem would be erased. I have been told by most that they went through with the appointment to save a fight. There is nothing to fight about. If one misrepresents themselves they deserve nothing less that a fast turn around and out the door.

I don't think I have preferred client age, but I do have a preferred client attitude, lol I have met some 20 year olds with more respect and diligence than those of advanced years, and also some very distinguished gentlemen that are very childlike in responses. To each his own I guess.

Can't really add more! I also LOVE kissing as part of the building up but.. Bad breathe is a killing for me. Especialy smokers one... Please rinse your mouth and dont smoke right before appointment! I dont smoke so I dont have pleasure kissing a ashtray.. Lol

I won't kiss a man who has a rough beard, bad breath, or lesions in the buccal area. Or bad hygiene in general, which is not your case. As stated in your comment, chemistry plays a big part, and interpretation of the act is also a factor (one may kiss you on the couch for 10 mins before entering the main course, as another will kiss you all action long. There's also the whole BS bullshit. But all and all, don not take everything you read for granted. You may be mislead.

I am upfront on my website about what I offer and do not offer, and I remind my guests during our first session together. If at any point a gentleman is unclear about something, I find it very respectful when he asks me. I dislike the "I'll just go for it and see if she stops me" approach. Please, just ask. Communication is key to a wonderful experience together!

i have my ads set up in a way that works most of the time. It has to be enough information to attract the clientele you are actually looking for, the ones who do take the time to read an ad. I do not provide rates/services in an ad not just because it is not allowed on the majority of sites, but because my screening is to have people phone me. Not text, not message and not email. if they can't respect the ad enough to make the phone call, without texting/emailing with some lame excuses as to why not, then it is an easy pass. someone who doesn't comply with a simple condition of booking is a red flag for someone who won't comply with your conditions of behaviour on arrival and during sessions. someone who thinks they are 'too good' to do that is not a good client. on the topic of repeating information already provided there are a few reasons for that, which do include the fact some haven't read the ad. but some have, and the question is to confirm that what they read is correct, and not out of date. And to give you a chance to show them a bit about yourself. Any conversation regardless of how lame it is is about your marketing. relying on one type of marketing, just the contents of the ad? that's not always a complete picture. Part of your ad is how you communicate with the potential client.

Every provider is an individual with their own personality, ways of doing things and style. To me, this is what should come through in advertising. Along with that comes what the provider will and will not find acceptable, what they do or do not want and the quality of client they are hoping to gain. Some ladies are more tolerable of somethings while others are not. How a gentleman behaves towards a provider through one on one contact is reflective of his own personality. Some will read everything, think and digest then follow directions. Some want to streamline the process and others believe you are in business so you are there to provide time to them answering their questions and they do not have to put in effort. If there is an initial clash between what the provider requires and what the gentleman is willing to provide, that is a powerful screening tool. This is a case of wants/needs on both sides. If those can't be met or agreed on, then it is the wrong combination. Each side of the equation must determine what is suitable for them and neither should have to "adjust" for the other as there is someone for everyone. Determine what you want to do and do it and if someone wants more/less than you're willing to give, move on. We could all bend over backwards every day trying to please and would all end up frustrated.

I find the hair and eye combo dictate the turn on, but on hair colour alone, auburn rocks.

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I enjoy kissing provided that the client has good mouth hygiene. I really dislike kissing someone after they have smoked and attempted to use gum before the meeting... Those clients, I really can't go through with the kissing. If they haven't asked when they booked an appointment about kissing I usually ask them when they arrive, "do you enjoy/like kissing?" usually they all say yes. I don't ask them if I know they're mouth hygiene is bad. I've told blank to someone after they wanted me to kiss them and I bluntly said, "Sorry, you have bad breath." This was near the end of the session. I like when clients tell me the details before a meeting of what they would like me to do or want. I've done this with role playing and it goes smoothly because I know what will be happening and there isn't this long discussion before we begin. I also enjoy the spontaneous times, not knowing about the client, I like the mystery. I've had experiences where they've booked and they just wanted the talk and kissing, so they directed me to kiss them after they said something or if I enjoyed what they talked about. I enjoy listening and talking.

I'm a bit shy about asking or to pucker up and approach a kiss in the event of a refusal, it's a tough turn down to accept and I don't like the rejection. I always appreciate the lady to do the first move or I will only do it if I have read in her review that she loved kissing.

Hello Gentlemen of Ottawa, If you are seeking for a genuine , easy going High Class Companionship, with top-notch service who carry herself with elegance and charm. Well allow me to introduce myself. My name is kathy and It is my very first time touring ottawa.I am glad to say that i will be visiting you until the 28th of november . Come treat yourself to an experience that will awaken all your senses! I'm sensual,sexy and seductive with just the right amount of naughtiness to take all your stress away. I take pride in maintaining myself,features will impress you .I have an angel face that matches my beautiful personality. Its often say that i have a sweet kind soul and i'm positive you'll get the chance to notice it first hand. I love the company of a men who knows how to treat a Woman the way she deserves to be treated.I take pleasure in learning from others and engaging in intellectual conversations. I am a sincere listener. I don't smoke but can enjoy an occasional glass of wine with a respectful polished gentlemen. Hope we meet soon for a adventurous moment together ! As I am only visiting for a short time, pre-booking is always welcomed to ensure we will be able to spend time together. Text or call : 613-853-2165 Email: [email protected]

It wouldn't be a discussion about Star Wars if the Mighty Jabba didn't give his best wishes to the story. Hope the new flick returns respect to the empire. Ho Ho Ho Ho....

If all you posted was your contact number, you'd get slugs like me asking what your number is...despite the fact that we just dialed your number. The sad irony is that we're being earnestly stupid.

I'd imagine you'd still get all the questions, and all the tire-kicking, but the kind of client who likes to do some research before ever making contact would be unlikely to call. I'd almost certainly ignore it, unless I had a compelling reason not to (e.g. lots of recommendations, or something).

The ad with contact info only? It would be punishment for good clients who read the adds and websites. They don't deserve this. And it would change nothing for those who don't read anything and don't follow any rules. They need just phone number anyway. IMHO

Anyone who is scared away by this is not worth your time. Why? Perhaps they should educate themselves on the current laws instead of taking some obscure scam site's word for it. If a person is paranoid to begin with, they should not be partaking in this whatsoever and personally I don't have time for hand holding or guys who want to come into your apartment and wanting to check in other rooms to see if they have someone hiding in there. I hear of these stories and it's ridiculous! If I encountered that, they wouldn't make it past the front door and I would tell them to get out immediately. What is this? A search and seizure? As if! I can't stand secret agent/paranoid types and they shouldn't be doing this. We can only relieve their fears to a certain extent. The rest is up to them. If this happens again, let them know they that should read up the current legislature here in Canada instead of the b.s. crap they are looking at on a U.S. website, take some time to research the lady they wish to see, hang up and say goodbye. I wish people like this would take the time to understand the laws because we are NOT the USA for heaven's sakes! Then thank yourself that you didn't have to justify that you are not a cop, blah, blah, blah because you shouldn't have to. A client's part in all of this is to make sure they are making an informed choice. If they can't bother to do that, you shouldn't bother either.

I know of one reportedly underage sp who started out posting as 20 or 21, then as she got older, her ads showed a younger age. I agree tho that the underagers are probably going to use 18 or 19. When in doubt, ask for unrevealing ID, know your dates, see the photo and date of birth, you don't need to see their real name and address. And remember, LE can and has done underage sting ads, and if you show any interest in them getting back to you saying they are not 18, you need to report it. I would hope that anyone here would know better than to actually post the underage sp's ad. that's just asking for predators to seek her out, really bad idea. don't share it by pm either, please, just report it and make sure you do what you can to get that ad removed asap. I think by now you ALL should know what to avoid, the red flags in any ads, and if in doubt, ask.

My answer is based solely on myself and I can't answer for others. I prefer mature company +40. Im not saying a 25 year old can't be mature, but the connection is different in the past experiences I have had. Someone older than myself is someone I tend to mesh better with, from experience I have found that I have few issues visiting with mature company (they follow the rules, read websites, don't haggle and well they don't stalk me in my hotel lobby- yes that has happened) as well screening is NEVER an issue. My experience with younger clients 98% of the time is usually not something I want to repeat, the lack or respect to this professional and me is one of the big reasons as well as the fact that they seem to not follow instructions well and feel that it is ok to want to date me or take me for coffee off the clock. The fact that initial contact in my experience from a younger gentleman usually starts with "I'm super good looking you should see me for free" or can i have a student discount and r u free now - is enough indication to why I don't wish to see the younger generation - they are also the one who seem to hold the entitlement card and feel because they have money I should see them (and they wont allow me to screen them). I will say in the new younger clients I have clicked with, they had 2 references and were rare from the norm Every lady is different and every lady has different boundaries and rules, for me I'm at a point in my career where chemistry is better than anything and without it there is no date. - regardless of age. We all have our reasons for who we wish to spend time with and why and to be honest its really no one else concern except for the lady who has put her policies in place and they should just be respected.

with all of the fake ads, fake pics and bs that goes on with booking, what would you be inclined to do if an ad only contained the contact info? No location, age, availability. It seems that no matter what info is in ads, some guys only look at the phone number anyway. If we ask to text, we get calls. If we ask to email with a little bit of info from you we get one-liners. We provide websites for all of our information, and we are told "I looked at it" but we are asked for info on there. What is your opinion if the only info on an ad was the contact number?

yoga (when I can), running outside (in the good weather, treadmill on the bad days), swimming, and general weights. Had to take time off from working out, now it is definitely time to get back at it.

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i find kissing is very much a part of the 'date' experience. But there are limitations as listed in other responses. Bad breathe, any indications of cold sores, etc, are a definite put off for me.

I notice that RG keeps referring to it as a lifestyle. Thats the term I like to use. Hobbying has always seemed weird to me but I can see it as a tongue in cheek wink wink term for something you do for distraction or enjoyment.

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How about terms like Date for both Ladies and Gentlemen Also can be used to describe what happened..as in I had a date And for the men, how about Gentleman And for the ladies well how about, Ladies, Companions Conveys a much more positive image of this lifestyle doesn't it RG

And Amberleigh West, again :)

I agree with you. Stamp collecting is a hobby. Intimate interpersonal relations aren't a hobby. To me this is a mutually beneficial lifestyle that should be based on mutual respect between two adults That said, hobby and hobbiest seem to be accepted terms in this lifestyle. Which I don't think is done with any malicious intent A morning rambling RG

Saw it last night. Well done. Certainly geared toward fans of the original three films. Possibly too much so. Plot line feels oddly familiar. I'll say no more except fans are going to like it.

It's not the hair that makes the woman, it's the woman that make's the hair. Any colour is fine with me as long as it suits the woman.

Basic black boxer-briefs.

Sounds exactly like Havana. She's gorgeous and delightful. Worth waiting for - try again. :-)

Red. Any shade. :)

I am totally and discretely available. Just send me a pm and I'll willingly fulfill every need.... Seek and you shall find!

I'm very attracted to blondes. I'm naturally a brunette but it doesn't suit me and find it ages me. Blonde suits my fair skin and warms me up. Lol. Everytime I see an attractive blonde, I can't help but stop and look . Lol. Shay, if you don't mind me saying so, I think you look hot with blonde hair. Met you once briefly at one of the very first Lyla socials.

I've always wondered about these type of people, the ones who don't seem to follow simple instructions or don't read your ads or webpages, do they ever actually commit and follow through? You would make the time wasters day :icon_smile:. Imagine how many questions they could ask then.

Nope, but to a couple of female doctors, being very careful about the words. You don't want to make these ladies angry, lol! It's great that so many modern doctors are women :) Have you ever howled at the full moon just for the heck of it? Additional Comments: Whoops, I was still on the notes theme :) Never made love with a teacher, but sure wanted to with Ms. McCann, my French teacher in grade 9. Short skirt, lovely round hips, very sexy and so smart! Have you ever wished that pantyhose was never invented? Selfish, I know, but there is something so wonderful about the feel of the warm flesh of a woman's thigh just above her stockings. Fond memories!

From what I've heard from some of the ladies, there are quite a lot of clients out there who aren't on any forum at all (they find providers via things like BP and CL, or even newspapers - still!), and there are also a lot who are entirely uninformed about the legal situation. And someone who's just found and joined a forum such as this might well not find the previous threads on it. Yes, this has come up before, and I fully expect it to come up again.

Yes gents .. I felt so welcomed and was treated so kindly that I am returning to your beautiful city January 22 - 27, 2016. SO after the hustle and bustle of the holidays are over and you need some TLC .. worry not I will be back to relieve your stress and have you refreshed like Autumn Raine falling on a warm September evening .. You know you need to try this again and if you haven't before .. what stopped you .. but there is always January to make up what you missed out on .. I look forward to seeing old friends and making new ones .. Until then .. warm thoughts of us sipping a glass of wine and ... you fill in the blanks .. All my hugs and Kisses, Autumn

Yes, but in a hot tub. Does that count?? "sexless for an extended period of time": Isn't that the definition of marriage?? :) Have you ever been in a play (other than a school production)?

Back by popular demand. the original miss Ashley formerly of nevadas and also Indie I could not stay away. There is way to much fun to be had. Call. Email. Or text. 204. 227. 0032. [email protected] Posted via Mobile Device

I agree the ad needs to be reported to backpage. But more important than outing the girl on here, I think people need wake up and avoid the high risk dates. I'm the first person to praise the options that backpage provides, but we all know there are underage women out there, whether it's by choice or coercion. We know backpage is the where they go. You know they'll be smart enough post as 18, 19 or thereabouts. So you know exactly the risk you're taking with those ones. Throw in a few adjectives like young, tight, fresh, tiny, or student and you're at the doorstep of wink-wink-nod-nod you know the deal. I hate painting everyone with the same brush, but there's only one way to really keep yourself safe and that's to avoid the questionable ones altogether. Cutting off the cashflow is also a wonderful way to drive those who don't belong in the business out of it. Just my two cent rant for the evening.

Emily holds the same sentiments as I do. I prefer 40+ because I find older men 40 + are from a different generation and younger men are expecting something in return that I don't or could never offer them such as wanting me to be their girlfriend, give them a discount because they're a student and the "now" factor at 3 am. While these are extreme examples, I have come across them in the past until I put my age requirement at 30+. To answer your question Tempted Monk, older men understand, value and appreciate intimacy. This comes with age and life experience that one doesn't find in their 20a or 30s. All age ranges have different goals, expectations and values. I have always identified with the older demographic because in my early 20s I found myself thrust in life experiences comparable to people in their thirties when they are just starting out. I bought my first house at 22 and have been living on my own since I was 18. I have never really clicked with my generation at the time because I always felt I was 10 years ahead of them in reality based situations. Now I find I like dating men 5-15 years older then me. It is not a huge age difference but enough that they are from that generation of sharing the same values as I do. I have had some good experiences with gentlemen in their early 30's-mid 30's but there are still a few who think that because they are so hung and good looking, I should bow to them. This is my business and while I enjoy it, I'm also here to make a living and be able to pay my bills. We're not on a dating site. I'm older and I have young men in their 18-23 age range contacting me and I'm old enough to be their mother. Sorry but it doesn't sit well with me even though I'm here to offer a fantasy, I just can't bring myself to it. Other times I felt like I was corrupting them and I can't be doing something I will feel uncomfortable with. I have in the past and left me feeling not good. I'm not knocking the younger generation but we all have preferences just as the gentlemen do here with choosing ladies age, body type, etc. It's nothing personal. I'm an old soul and not exactly a spring chicken even though I'm often told I look younger than my actual age but 40+ men make me feel wanted and appreciated and in turn I give that back to them.

I will preface this by saying I am in my mid fifties... I think the Ideal age for a client is some one al little more mature perhaps mid to late 50's living in St. John's NL but that's Just my Opinion Lol

Actually, dancers don't need to have their Smart Serve to work in a club, so in the absence of a formal amateur night, any interested lady could simply get hired and work one shift, treating it as an "unofficial" amateur night and then never work again -- unless, of course, it turns out she likes it!

Go see the gals at Bliss. New location is fabulous!!!

Someone is spreading a rumor about Lyla so I am just posting this here to reassure everyone that the rumor is not true. Male members are NOT going to require paid accounts and we have NO INTENTION of every doing that! It may be some other site and they are just confused with the name but I can assure you that Lyla has no intention of that.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)