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Sonething I find rude, and I get sometimes it's an innocent question because someone may be nervous, is asking what school I go to, what I'm taking in school etc when we just met or before. Believe it or not I had a guy PM me on here asking of I go to Queens University(in kingston) and said 'I'm a professor there and want to know if you're in any of my classes? Wouldn't that be so awkward?" Wtf ... why would I tell anyone that information, especially an anonymous person behind a screen? Lol

I have a website which I've given to them. I don't have reviews and I don't ask my clients to write a review. If they want to write a review they can, but I don't say, "hey write a review for me" when they leave, I never mention it to them because during our time it never crosses my mind and I don't bother to ask them later. I would feel I am begging.

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I just want to take the time to wish everyone in this wonderful community Happy Holidays and hoping and wishing all the best 2016.. I have been very grateful and sincerely appreciate all my clients thus far and I also want to thank anyone who has shown sincere interest and inquired about my business.. For those who know me and have given me the opportunity to get to know them I want to let them know that I truly feel blessed to have had such amazing experiences and some very memorable times with them.. Each and every single one of you I hold a dear spot in my heart. I want to thank you for your business and your friendship and your support throughout 2015.. I also hope that 2016 brings many more enjoyable memories with all of you and hopefully new memories made. Again A Very Happy Holiday and may everyone be blessed and showered with Love Hope Prosperity Health and New Great Memories in the coming year. THANK YOU CERB/LYLA and THANK YOU EVERYONE!!! XOXOX

Went there to visit. Nice big modern room. Very discreet.

I don't see where your questions are too personal, it's just small talk, nothing had to be revealed that was too personal, what a jerk he is. It's not like you were asking him for his specific address or when he was going to be home so that you could confront a significant other. When are people going to lighten up?

There is a difference between legalization and decriminalization. Decriminalization is what we want... to have the same labour laws as any other form of labour. We already have laws on exploitation and human trafficking. Legalization means imposing laws and regulations specific to our trade. It may sound like a good idea, but if you look at areas like Nevada where brothels are regulated, you see things like workers not being able to leave the brothel for a set amount of time, unless they are under surveillance (eg. someone is with them) for fear that they could engage in sex off-site and nullify the mandatory testing done at the brothel. There are many reasons why people enter this industry; some people have criminal records (often prostitution charges) and regulating the industry means they might be barred from continuing to work legally, thus sending them further underground.

Had the immense pleasure of getting up close and personal with these awesome abs: shared with permission and thanks from our own Cali at Vibe: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=10813&pictureid=73117

If you're looking for a ''peripatetitian'', I'm in! I am not a therapist. I consider myself as a sex-pert. Lot of imagination to deal with any kind of situations, new games, soft bdsm, temptation plays, hot to cold or texture experimentation, toy unboxing, party organization, ... As for ''solving an issue that is not an issue'' is right, I believe. We all come to a point where sex become more an experience than an obligation. It may help (may not), but on longer session, I like laying down in front of a football or hockey game, sitting in angle of the TV, and just play with myself, as inviting as I can be. Having extra toys, feathers, ICE (as for why, this is my dirty secret) and a lot of lub on hand is mandatory! Also, going for shopping with your s.o. in sex shop can give a lot of ideas! Ask questions to those working there, as they would know how use them (WickedWanda's my best for customer service). And last, there is nothing to be ashamed about sex and fantasies, whatever they are. Finally, explore, drop the taboos, and have fun! I'm just a PM away!

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Sometimes, they feel 30 minutes isn't enough and 1 hour can be too long so 45 minutes is the between time. It also is like saying, they aren't sure they would fit well with the SP so the full hour may be long, and 30 minutes might be too short.

I had asked a white female provider from Quebec, who was visiting Halifax, why she had "no black males" on her ad and she said she had a number of times found herself in a situation with a man who ended up not wanting to be a client but rather wanted her to work for him and it was a scary and intimidating experience. Then a short while ago I had a nice visit with a black female provider in her 20's and she had "no black males" on her ad. I had asked her why and she eluded to the same issue. I personally can't speak to the accuracy of their experiences but I do find if very unfortunate that a few may have ruined it for the rest of the respectable gentleman who would want nothing more than the rest of us, a respectful and mutually rewarding experience. In the end I Believe that it's not race that makes the person, it's the person that makes the person. But I cannot and will not judge as we all have our own perspectives and experiences we draw from to survive. It's too bad some of these providers wouldn't join Lyla then they could ask other providers about potential clients. Back page on its own can be a scary place for both sides. What ever the case (and with no judgment) I find these race specific ads unfortunate.

I find this one hilarious.....when a gentlemen sends a text asking for rates/location acting all nice then when you give the information he says nothing back...no thank you nothing lmaooo

Guys trying to send pictures of their private parts. I haven't had gentlemen from this site do this but ignorance is bliss because I purposely have a burner phone and don't bother getting imaging plan for this very reason but I still get the text notification. I really have to shake my head and wonder if some men find this endearing? Really? Have some class for heaven's sakes and be a real man. I dont want to meet you now. Ugh...

I think I had Jackies' LAST training session today, and I can tell you...She IS Ready!! Of course the legendary, beautiful and soooo sexy Jessica was on hand to guide the session along, but we all sort of just meshed together and the fun was non stop. But this is about Jackie...who is a pretty little spinner, with amazing assets, which include beautiful brown eyes you can dive right into. Right from the shower to the table, and eventually back to the shower again ;-)...my time was intense. I did hot yoga before I went to CMJ, and I cant tell you which was hottest and had me sweating more :-) The smile is still on my face from my visit. Jackie is easy going, and ready to reciprocate with a fun loving attitude that is hot, and very sexy. You will enjoy yourself...for sure!

I've noticed the newbies of NB are offering 30/45/60 min dates. Is there really a difference in thirty and fourth five minutes? You ladies charging him to shower or?... Am I missing out of a new deal?!? Aha!

Sending my very best wishes for Christmastime and New Year to all in the lyla world, and especially to those that I've become friends with. There are many different degrees and ways of friendship, but I appreciate them all. I've had a great year, meeting lots of gorgeous, fun, and interesting women, dancers, MA's, sp's, and getting to know some of them well. There are others I haven't met yet, but who have shared their time with me, writing and texting, and I'm grateful for those conversations too, and the promise and excitement they hold. And of course my male friends, drinking buddies, correspondents, members of social groups with me, fellow posters, and so on.... This is a world that I love to spend time in, a world of shared pleasures and experiences, of shared communication and feelings. I want to thank every single person that I've interacted with this year, and to wish all of you the best for 2016! This is for you!

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and all yours as well .

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From Dec. 24th, I will be more than please to welcome you in a beautiful and old country house, in the Lower-Laurantians. Half-way in between Montreal and Ottawa (access by the 640 or the 50 - about an hour away both sides), I host in a location with hidden parking at the back, surrounded by high cedar trees, and no nozy neibourghs. Two floors to play, two rooms and three beds, place is always a non-smoking environment, and fresh towells always available. Also, place can host or be rented for poly-parties. So come and indulge in nature with a really down to earth companion! Must be cormfortable with pets, including a medium sized dog. Available only to regular clientele, reservations must be made thru LYLA.com.

You are allowed to add your phone number/contact information to your profile AND your signature. However, you are not allowed to solicit to others guestbook page. You can advertise every 12 hours in the advertisement section, however you can not advertise in any discussion thread. However, if someone is asking for something specific you offer, you can reply. Hope this helps.

I see and understand your frustration with all this. Been there lol. But just leaving a number may be interesting, to see who will text, who will call. I have done experiments like that. It never seems to make any real difference. Good people will still find you! Meantime you have to weed through the others. Every day I get up and say 'don't get impatient.. and remember to be extra kind to the people who actually do contact me in my preferred way, even if they are not potential clients. At least they read my ad !! :) That has to mean something.... Somebody (he was a saleperson at one time) said you have to shake 10 hands to make one deal. (or something like that) PS - It's hard answering inquiries and not get paid for it. And I have not perfected my method yet, I still lose my patience. But I guess like anything, it takes practice and a good mantra :)

She is real. She used to dance at barbs then went on to pigales. No idea about anything else...

30 minutes is much too short. by the time you get in, get undress take a shower and include the cleanup shower, that is only 15 minutes left for fun. I usually do 45 minutes because I usually go at noon. 45 minutes is just enough time to chat and cuddle and take showers. Plus you need time to get there and from work without taking too long a lunch break.

There are some setups out here where the rate option is the 45. I don't think anyone can cut that back to get a lower half hour rate, but they can add to it for the hour. In those places (mini brothel setups called micros) yes showering before is part of the 45 but the shower is not actually optional as far as i can tell. if you don't have one, why not try it? 45s are a great way to get that half hour guy who is never done in under 40 minutes to compensate for the extra time he really needs. he doesn't need an hour, or he'd never pay for the hour, so why not have a mid way rate time option that will please both you and him.

15 minutes lol? I would rather offer a 45 minute option then a 30 minute option. I've even seen some that offer a 20 minute option. Next we'll be seeing a pay by the minute like you can hire some plumbers. http://www.minuteplumbers.net Of course paying by the minute can end up costing a lot more then by the hour. To each their own. Offer what you are comfortable with.

Well I've never really thought about that to tell the truth, that's interesting to think about, I've done 15 mins for my quick on and the go friends but I've never considered 45 mins, I can understand how some people would feel a bit more comfortable with more time, especially 1st timers :) I'm going to look more into it, seems like a good idea ~Kim Harrison <3

No really, I'll do it :-)

Hi Amelia There is a thread in the Ottawa section titled 45 minute appointments. Type that into search, should pop right up. I have no idea how to post the link from my cell ~ I am not tec savy I found it helpful and have been offering extended sessions for sometime a good meet & greet option 4 1st time callers Hope this helps answer you question Happy holidays S.

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The smell of the Christmas tree in the morning.

I agree with OP sentiments and think they're most applicable in massage because there's such a wide range of experiences provided in these sessions (and where y.m.m.v. seems to play a big part). For me, I love kissing and it really makes (or breaks) a massage session. I've done a number of CMJ intro sessions - they're fun and a great way to see if you want to book regular sessions with a hostess. Most of my conversations have been pretty casual, though, as I never thought to ask more direct questions ("do you like to kiss?", "would you rather spank or be spanked?", "so other than gay rape porn, is there anything else that turns you on?"). Now that I know better, next time I'll be more playful. :)

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I know! It has to be a chronic thing.

I worked at one of the clubs today and it clearly states on my profile and on my Ad were I was located today and someone still sent me a PM to ask me which club I was at lol. Please ,Please, Pleaseeeee! read the ladies Ad's thoroughly before contacting them.

My experience with Asian has always been B&S. As far she goes I don't know much more. I just stay away from them because of it.

The ad with contact info only? It would be punishment for good clients who read the adds and websites. They don't deserve this. And it would change nothing for those who don't read anything and don't follow any rules. They need just phone number anyway. IMHO

i have my ads set up in a way that works most of the time. It has to be enough information to attract the clientele you are actually looking for, the ones who do take the time to read an ad. I do not provide rates/services in an ad not just because it is not allowed on the majority of sites, but because my screening is to have people phone me. Not text, not message and not email. if they can't respect the ad enough to make the phone call, without texting/emailing with some lame excuses as to why not, then it is an easy pass. someone who doesn't comply with a simple condition of booking is a red flag for someone who won't comply with your conditions of behaviour on arrival and during sessions. someone who thinks they are 'too good' to do that is not a good client. on the topic of repeating information already provided there are a few reasons for that, which do include the fact some haven't read the ad. but some have, and the question is to confirm that what they read is correct, and not out of date. And to give you a chance to show them a bit about yourself. Any conversation regardless of how lame it is is about your marketing. relying on one type of marketing, just the contents of the ad? that's not always a complete picture. Part of your ad is how you communicate with the potential client.

Every provider is an individual with their own personality, ways of doing things and style. To me, this is what should come through in advertising. Along with that comes what the provider will and will not find acceptable, what they do or do not want and the quality of client they are hoping to gain. Some ladies are more tolerable of somethings while others are not. How a gentleman behaves towards a provider through one on one contact is reflective of his own personality. Some will read everything, think and digest then follow directions. Some want to streamline the process and others believe you are in business so you are there to provide time to them answering their questions and they do not have to put in effort. If there is an initial clash between what the provider requires and what the gentleman is willing to provide, that is a powerful screening tool. This is a case of wants/needs on both sides. If those can't be met or agreed on, then it is the wrong combination. Each side of the equation must determine what is suitable for them and neither should have to "adjust" for the other as there is someone for everyone. Determine what you want to do and do it and if someone wants more/less than you're willing to give, move on. We could all bend over backwards every day trying to please and would all end up frustrated.

Generally they are clear about what services are offered. But I would suggest reading up reviews especially as sometimes it is not what they say. pictures could be fake and once there was this lady who advertised massage and the whole time she just applied moisturizer on the back and complained about her big bo..s, back pain and life.

last minute Christmas shopping! This works especially well at this time of the year, lol If the wife wants to come with you, tell her it would spoil the surprise if she were to see where you are shopping. (of course, you have to have a small token of affection hidden away at your work place/vehicle/home so that a 'surprise' can actually be made.) This also works at Valentine's Day.

Good evening Gentlemen. I am home with you until Christmas Eve to pamper and delight all your senses. Let's get together and chat. Laugh , catch up and cuddle up. I am offering you my special attention until I leave for the holidays. Do you need a massage that only I can give? My skilled hands and soft touch await your aching body. Something a bit more? Drop in and leave a new refreshed man. As a special treat I am offering Lady Sophia's amazing 30-30 for the man who wants IT ALL and may be on a Christmas budget. This amazing service will be offered by myself and New Brunswick's touring lady Hannah Skyler. Please see this section for her ads and information. Looking forward to seeing all of you. Katherine xoxo

From Winnipeg: If you like BBWs then Winnipeg has them. But I just can't find an SP with a truly killer body that isn't a BBW. I like smaller women and there don't seem to be any around. The other thing is, have you guys found that the ladies don't rely on email as much as they used to? That's my preferred method of communication but it seems today's SPs prefer phone calls.

No sorry darlin but not all sp have an Agent/Manager/pimp I have been in this business for a few years and not once have I ever needed to have someone running my business I know many women who work and have worked through out the years and never been pimped as some like to call it I personally will never understand why girls need it but hey to each their own And once again in my opinion Black gentlemen are Not all agents/managers/pimps....I have met several very nice respectful black gentlemen some whom I have been seeing for years and will continue seeing them because I enjoy their company

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As an SP, I offer an "experience" not to be a "cum bucket" for someone's release for lack of better words. No thanks. If I'm going to be just a release for somone, they are going to be paying for it. I'm not a machine and a 15 min appt is not worth it to me since it takes the same amount of time to set up and get ready. Then there is the aspect of those trying to get more time for free and then there is the volume where how many clients are coming and going in a day. I am a very discrete person and would never allow this to happen when I can make more on a single appt alone. I'm not an avid clock watcher but when someone texts me with a laundry lists of specific acts they want for $60 for 15 mins or expect what they would get in a 30 or 60 min appt, do yourself a favor a favor and go to a street corner. I take time and pride in what I do and myself and my surroundings reflect that as well. I have no interest in doing these types of appts and contrary to men who are fans of 15 min service, you get what you pay for. In a fantasy world, if I did one of these 15 mins appts, it would be the bare minimum. Why should I go out of my way when someone is attempting to negotiate my rates? Why should I go the extra mile? I had someone text me once and said they only needed 5 mins of my time for $20. DELETE! If you're looking for a 15 min session then more power to you but don't expect the world for $60. Last year a 15 min appt was $100. Then it went to $80 and now guys are demanding $60. The reason this is happening because women let them. They get into this business with no training from an agency. They have a cell phone, put up a BP ad and call themselves an escort. Then some men bully them into giving them service for $60 -$80 and often times let manipulate them into staying overtime for the same rate. Some of these women don't know any better. The real sense of having an experience with an escort is long forgotten such as when I first started as an SP. That whole aspect has been thrown out the window and it's all about how a man can get off in the shortest amount of time with the lowest amount of cash to offer. Thankfully there are men out there who appreciate SPs and the time together.

I think the issue here is that there are a number of ladies with different styles and interests and we do not all have the same business model. I am contacted at least once a day with someone asking for my "one hour rate" to which I constantly need to reiterate that I don't offer one hour dates as they are very different in nature than longer dates. When someone advertises 15min, 30min or 45min dates you can be sure that the lady is advertising a sexual service meaning the focus of the encounter is very specifically the sexual act. When ladies advertise longer dates and services as their main offering they are generally focused on the chemistry, the connection and more of a date feel. These are two very different types of services and very few ladies can effectively offer both as many ladies have said longer dates can be very emotionally exhausting and shorter dates can be very physically exhausting. In your post you highlight that you are looking for the longer date, the connection which in general will not be established in a date of less than one hour (and often 2hrs or more) so I'd guess you are not in the target market for the ladies that prefer to offer shorter dates. There are different markets for the various types of encounters and it's very important to seek out those that provide the type of experience you are seeking, otherwise you are likely to be disappointed with the outcome of your date. So I don't single out another lady I'll use myself as an example, please bear with me as I don't have much experience with the shorter date. I always advertise 2hrs or more, I do have discounted rates for multiple hours, my dinner date (half out half in) isn't even double my 2hr rate and often is longer than 4hrs as well and as such it's my most popular date. I offer that because I am trying to make it clear that I prefer a social engagement, I enjoy talking to my dates and getting to know them as individuals. I used to offer 1hr dates when I was with an agency and though I still met a number of wonderful people I always walked away from the date a bit uncomfortable, I felt awkward and I wasn't able to relax and enjoy my time with the person I was with, when it came to intimacy I never felt I could relax and enjoy myself as I didn't feel a particular level of trust with the person I was with. I'm not an extrovert, in fact I'm very introverted so for me the immediate intimacy of 1hr dates was difficult. Now I know a number of good friends in the industry that have a completely opposite take on this business, one lady explained to me what she enjoyed best is the 'dirty' feeling of meeting someone new and having sex with them while not knowing much about them. Another lady said she finds it difficult in longer encounters to find that connection as she's in a different point in her life than most of her clients but they both enjoy sex and she can find that commonplace in a half hour or hour. So there are different ladies, different views and different approaches, one is not better than the other they are just tailored for different people and hopefully we all connect with the type of date we are looking for. Finally in regards to costing often you are paying a premium for longer dates rather than shorter ones. For my base city my $1500 for a dinner date is fairly average but my 2hr date of $900 is a premium. This has nothing to do with the amount of time I spend changing sheets, showering, etc. but is mainly based on the incentive to those that also enjoy social dates, it's a way of connecting with my preferred audience. In fact longer dates can take much more planning and work as most extended dates are prebooked and multiple emails (or phone calls) will be exchanged before one arrives at final plans. When a client is paying $1500 vs. $250 for a date there are higher expectations on the lady even though the lady at $250/hr may make more in gross profit than the lady at the higher rate. I know it's often expected of me to have nails, hair and makeup done, in general it's expected that I have a much more extensive wardrobe to allow me to easily blend with whatever environment I am invited to and those clothes are expected to be of a certain quality as well as I am expected to appear to match the clients social status - it generally isn't discrete to go to a fine dining restaurant with a lady half your age in a $30 dress when you are wearing something bespoke. So all in all the costs are different, how the ladies invest in their business is different and how they spend their time as well. I also don't spend a lot of my day sitting at an incall waiting for the phone to ring but the cost of that time is certainly calculated in how a lady with a different business model much the same as I calculate the time spent emailing with restaurant suggestions, verification, or concierge type services. *whew* end of my novel but I hope (if anyone bothered to read it) I have provided a little more insight into why ladies structure their businesses, both time and cost, the way they do.

Changing sheets and redoing our makeup is a very small part of our work. Sex work is also emotional labour. Spending 2 hours with one gentleman can be a lot more emotionally draining than spending an hour each with 2 gentlemen. Chemistry would play a huge role here.