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To clarify a few things, anyone I end up having a date with has had at least 5-10 emails in exchange with me - so we can get to know one another (nothing was off on his communication and he was forth coming via email). When one is nervous they usually are non-forth coming in emails as well as in person. I asked him the questions I ask anyone (not like i asked of this address and SIN number) and have for almost all my time in this business. Ive dealt with nervous people in the past and non have ever pulled this type of BS behaviour. He knew all too well where my hotel was as when we confirmed on the phone I made sure he knew where I was, where to park and where the entrance is. There is only one of the chain brand of hotel I was staying at and the only one at the intersection - so I'm sorry I don't buy I'm lost when he texted ( 15mins early and when I asked where he was parked it was a 5mins walk (even if he had to walk up the stairs, 8min max) As for the housekeeper, she was 3 doors down and in her own world, he claims because she went from her cart into the room (the one she was cleaning) that is must be a sting. Im sorry you watch way to much A & E. People come and go into hotel hallways and rooms all day long, no one pays attention to much unless you bring it on yourself. Im clear on my site and in my ads that we will be communicating before and during our date (after is up to you). Considering what i ask to screen is more invasive than what i ask in person, I don't buy nerves with this guy. (plus the first time I've had someone say my questions were too personal) Someone who goes through as much communication with a companion as he did, should have some butterflies as we all do on a first date. Once inside the suite that is well lit with open doors and the person they booked standing in front of them after they are hugged should in most cases be able to breathe a sigh of relief. I even offered for him to look in the close or dresser if that would he help him relax to show I was "alone" and not part of a sting. From my time in this biz, newbies have a way they act and this guy was no newbie he played my screening to be a douche. Im willing to bet that every SP he has booked he has played the same stunt with - after much thought I know when I have been played. I get nerves and respect they do happen, but people serious about a date generally relax at some point, laugh and have fun. This was not the case.

Sending my very best wishes for Christmastime and New Year to all in the lyla world, and especially to those that I've become friends with. There are many different degrees and ways of friendship, but I appreciate them all. I've had a great year, meeting lots of gorgeous, fun, and interesting women, dancers, MA's, sp's, and getting to know some of them well. There are others I haven't met yet, but who have shared their time with me, writing and texting, and I'm grateful for those conversations too, and the promise and excitement they hold. And of course my male friends, drinking buddies, correspondents, members of social groups with me, fellow posters, and so on.... This is a world that I love to spend time in, a world of shared pleasures and experiences, of shared communication and feelings. I want to thank every single person that I've interacted with this year, and to wish all of you the best for 2016! This is for you!

That's unfortunate. If someone is that paranoid and edgy it's best they never even make the appointment. We're only human and there can never be a promise of zero awkwardness when the client is against communicating at all and tells lies that complicate the matter. I had someone new show up to my hotel 30 min early for his appt and ask to come up. I said there are people in the hallway a sports team is here let me see if they will leave before you come up. A few minutes later he asks just to come up I said I still hear talking in the hallway. He comes out of the elevator and texts me that he's leaving and uncomfortable. I said I'm sorry but you showed up very early and I told you the situation. I am discreet they don't even know I'm in here. If you leave I won't be able to rebook you. He got mad at me and left. I mean if you're that worried about seeing anyone why not do an outcall? Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Have A Very Merry Christmas and enjoy the holidays xo Additional Comments: Have A Very Merry Christmas and enjoy the holidays xo

Very similar to Miss Rushton. I see gents above 30 years old only but honestly prefer above 35 for many of the same reasons. I find I enjoy sessions with gents who have seen a few ladies before, understand they absolutely must be screened, shower and pay in advance before the fun happens and treat me with respect and don't try any unsafe services. I can't count how many times someone tells me they are soooo mature and soooo respectful and 28 or 29 and will I see them? I talk to them a little and they start being all will you do a hh Bb? (Which I don't) or they start acting paranoid about giving me their name and have no reference. I don't want to chase clients or train anyone. I want to see people who want to see me and not just every single girl around to try them like a carnival ride. I like men who do their research and read my website, ad and reviews and ask me questions I haven't covered already instead of "rates/restrictions Hun?" Etc. I love mature men who know what they want, are good at communicating before and during session and can relax and have fun without pushing my boundaries, trying to squeeze their value out of me or make me be someone I'm not. I have found some younger guys emulate porn too often in sessions and try to jackhammer me and it's not my style and I don't enjoy it. I like sensual and seductive touching and building up for an explosive release at the end and not to go through the 10 positions they have on a checklist in their head. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

For what it's worth, I kind of like Mystique. Don't worry about it sounding "real" enough. Most guys know we don't use our real names, that the names we choose are just working names. It's unique and sounds like served you well. Don't worry about dropping the Maria name. Guys will remember you more by the service you provide and your integrity than what your name is (was). :icon_biggrin:

Merry Christmas and Happy new year everyone... All the best! Cheers. Sent from my Nexus 5 using Tapatalk

Merry Christmas Everyone I hope you have a wonderful Christmas that lives up to all your expectation and a new year that brings us all Peace, Love, Happiness and an abundance of prosperity.

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:ThankYou: To all the fine gentlemen and wonderful ladies of Lyla. Enjoy the seasons best wishes for the holidays, and good things happening in 2016. Let it be the best year yet. Happy holidays everyone

Hugs and well wishes to all and bring on 2016!

I don't see where your questions are too personal, it's just small talk, nothing had to be revealed that was too personal, what a jerk he is. It's not like you were asking him for his specific address or when he was going to be home so that you could confront a significant other. When are people going to lighten up?

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^ THIS When inevitably asked by clients about my "menu" I remind them that I am a sensual and carnal woman who enjoys her work ... but their attitude, hygiene and level of respect are what really determine how our time goes. I make no promises how our time goes in advance because how am I to know for sure you will not treat me like an object rather than a person, have poor hygiene or are otherwise a turn-off? I don't know, therefor I don't tell. I understand the need for many to know as they are paying a considerable amount of money for a companion's company. However, I decline to discuss proclivities as the real determining factor is not what I enjoy, but whether I enjoy it with a specific partner.

I have kept my stripper name and it serves me well. Also it gives me a background and people know me, so I am not 'new' in any parts... just different now lol

I understand having that feeling. It's almost like it is a challenge for them to get through your screening process and they want to accept and defeat that challenge. I have had that happen too. So I know what you mean. It leaves you feeling unsafe and wondering to what extent they will take this, or was it just a challenge and they are content and walk away. Those guys are always sketchy, and act all nervous, when they are full of it. So I see where you are coming from. Don't worry about it any more. Could be someone who will report to friends on his conquest.. but do be aware that his friends may play that game too for awhile. So of course, be vigilant so as not to allow it to happen again. And find a way to put your foot down if you see it might be happening again to prevent further incidents like this. Good luck!

I agree with the above sentiments. If Mystique is a name that suits your brand and persona, plus you are already well known by that name it makes sense to keep it. Your idea of using Le Mystique also holds merit. Have you considered keeping Le Mystique as a surname of sorts and giving yourself a first name? Maria Le Mystique Devi Le Mystique Vivian Le Mystique Those are just off the top of my head (the first one because you mentioned using the name Maria though I quite like the sound of Vivian Le Mystique).

The initial welcome is very important, it sets the stage for the rest of the evening. Nothing says welcome more than a bright and warm smile. A gentle hug, a smooth transition inside my home and some interactive small talk. This gets the mood flowing, and gives each other a chance to get to know each other a little better, if it is a first encounter. Regulars are treated with the same welcome, but conversation can be a bit more casual. I offer refreshments and massage to everyone that visits me, it is a great way to set the mood, and gives each other a chance to explore each other. I really dislike the 'in and out' quickie, it is very mechanical and rushed. I like my guest to feel as though they are the most important person to me at that moment.

When I first started doing this, I would get the question 'are you open-minded?'. I would say yes (for all the reasons the ladies here said) and I even started putting it in ad because I was asked so often. After a while, when they asked that question, I would say 'i'm doing this aren't I'. And the response would be 'that's not what I mean'. Later still, I learned that open-minded means something totally different. So now I just say 'no' and skip all the hassle. It IS code for something! Now it seems to mean some unsafe offerings so 'no' just about covers it. But when a girl offers it in ad, she may just be doing what i initially did and respond to the many requests. Until she realizes that it is code for something else, she could just be innocent of the actual meaning.

Just had an hour session with this fine young lady. She is everything advertised and her pics are real and legit. She really enjoys what she does and is a very sensual and charismatic person. If your looking for someone who makes you feel at ease and a great conversationalist plus someone who enjoys what she does and is very good at it, then you need to see this woman. She is a beautiful young woman!!! A gem.

Before Triple A Spa under went new management the was a hostess Roxanne/Roxy. Does anyone know if she's still in the industry and if so where is she working Thanks

Well that's just because they have not met us yet :) All jokes aside... I pick who I want to see so I don't judge if the lady does the same. Now that said I might not judge but begging and pleading and whining might be all part of my approach if she really attracts me lololol

I know your post was probably primarily seeking the advise of the ladies here on Lyla but from a guys/client perspective I have to agree with what has already been said: Pick a name that represents you and you feel good about Guys fully understand that it is a work name and not real and frankly if they don't get that then maybe you would be better off not seeing them The only concern a client should have with a lady changing her work name is if its required because of a bad reputation that she has earned and is trying to hide from. If you are planning on moving forward with Mystique then post the name change on here so its clear why the change is happening and for those existing clients where you have permission to contact send them a note advising of the change. it might also be a good idea to have a transition period where you post things using "Mystique (formarly Maria)" if you make the dirrect association it will be clear that the change is not a case of hiding from a bad reputation. Just my Opinion

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After owning my new, used car for less than a month, the clutch went 3 days after I got it. The dealer apologized profusely took it back and his mechanic put in a new clutch (at their expense). Fast forward to two weeks later, the new clutch blew on my way home from Burlington Ottawa. Thank goodness I did not break down on the 401 or 407. I have been stuck in Oshawa since Friday evening and had to wait until Monday morning for the local transmission shop to open and take a look. I am am facing a $1500 bill because the slave master cylinder is shot and blew out the second "new" clutch. Of course the dealer back in Ottawa is himming and hawwing that we'll have to "talk about" what he's going to do for me. Yeah, well was not prepared to get into an argument on the phone until I can assemble all the documentation etc. before I present him with the bill. At least I will be have it back today and be back on the road home. So not looking forward to dealing with the auto dealer. Merry Christmas to me, ugh! First world problems, but still stings.

Her name is Tatyana, and she worked briefly at 335 Henderson before they moved. She's a slender redhead in her late thirties, I would say. She works out of a private residence. She is friendly and chatty, and provided a decent massage, I left happy. Her prices are commensurate with those at many other local places. I will probably place her in my rotation and repeat in the future.

Emily, I'm sorry this happened. I'm always so cautious when asking questions when we first meet. When I bring up a topic like, what do you enjoy doing in your free time? Or What type of work do you do, it's not so I can gain additional information about my guest so I can then turn around and blackmail them. It's a genuine attempt to understand who they are. I've met some who just are like pulling teeth trying to gain some chemistry with. I'm sorry, but I'm not a machine. I need some sort of connection. However, I have to giggle to myself when a basic question gives me all the details to their life. Where they work, the specific details of their life I don't need to know on a first meeting. So I get the frustration guys feel when asked some questions, and some spook so easily. However, this guy sounds a little like someone who really had no intention of going through with his appointment. Housekeeping in the hallway? Is he joking? I had a client arrive at my hotel and there were 3 rcmp cars out front. He did text me to make sure everything was ok. Their presence had nothing to do with me, but yes, I could understand if he wanting to bow out. He did come to see me, and we kinda giggled about the fact that the cops were out front. And he was cute too. Even funnier, I was wearing my Sargeant McLeod outfit for him, and he thought I had really gone all out to create the environment. Lol

. I hope everyone has a great Christmas. Peace, love, happiness and lots of great luvin! Xo

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Ugh. Sorry to hear you went through this, Emily. I must say, though... having re-read the OP a couple of times, it really strikes me that what we have here sounds like a first-time client who's just nervous as hell, really not sure how these things are supposed to go, not handling a stressful situation at all well, and just digging the hole deeper every time he panics a bit more. "It's been a while" may have meant, "... since I last got lucky" rather than ".. since I last saw an escort"; it's not obvious to me that it makes him a liar, although obviously I wasn't there and don't know what was said or how. Hopefully this guy has learned that seeking paid companionship is really not what's right for him, and won't do it again (at least, until/unless he sorts his head out).

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MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR to you and all yours as well .

I see and understand your frustration with all this. Been there lol. But just leaving a number may be interesting, to see who will text, who will call. I have done experiments like that. It never seems to make any real difference. Good people will still find you! Meantime you have to weed through the others. Every day I get up and say 'don't get impatient.. and remember to be extra kind to the people who actually do contact me in my preferred way, even if they are not potential clients. At least they read my ad !! :) That has to mean something.... Somebody (he was a saleperson at one time) said you have to shake 10 hands to make one deal. (or something like that) PS - It's hard answering inquiries and not get paid for it. And I have not perfected my method yet, I still lose my patience. But I guess like anything, it takes practice and a good mantra :)

Just be aware that you are creating a paper trail or maybe in more modern parlance, an electronic trail of your economic activity. Those records will be subject to subpoena by folks like Revenue Canada or LEO investigators.

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I wanted to take this moment of your time to say " Happy Holidays " to you fine Lylaland folk .. I leave for vacation next Wednesday thru to January 8th, 2016 sooo .. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year Everyone xoxoxo Have Fun but Stay Safe .. Don't Drink and Drive xoxo

I think RG hit it right on the head and that etransfers are very safe financially for the lady as long as the lady accepts the transfer before providing the service. Just my Opinion

Open minded means YMMV. Often offered in 1h+ sessions, it means that we may try new things, things you don't usually do with and SP. It can go from special treatment to games, to special request. I just don't kiss and tell since... YMMV!