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I've been thinking about how tricky the seemingly simple activity of conversation can be in our lifestyle. When on a date I like having some time to chat and make a connection, which means hopefully discussing more than the weather or how we're feeling that day. But of course some questions can be too prying or even go past inappropriate into offensive. Let's face it, when visiting an alluring woman you've been anticipating the pleasure of spending time with, especially if it's the first time meeting them, words don't necessarily come easily. Nerves can either make you seem boring or intrusive. I imagine ladies also find breaking the ice and getting more than two-word mumbled answers out of a gent is sometimes an issue. I thought it would be helpful to try a thread where we mention questions that should be avoided, but even more useful perhaps share some topics of conversation that can be meaningful and fun. Good topics/questions/ice breakers: --Do you like to travel? Where would most love to visit? (can often lead to amusing stories, shared interests, discussion of future, etc) --A lot of ladies will post some of their interests on their website (which I appreciate). Take a peek, and maybe you'll notice a sports team, author, movie, etc that you both like. It can be a good ice-breaker and easy connection. --Any specialty cooking dishes/favourite meal? (or odd foods you hate). When I admit I don't like any kind of cheese that always gets a reaction! --Do you have any pets (some of my biggest laughs with a date are sharing and one-upping each other with stories about the crazy antics of our pets. I think I disappointed one lady when I had to admit the scratches down my back were not a sign of my sexual prowess but rather a sneaky cat who used me as climbing pole to get up on a shelf). --Are you a salty snack person or a chocolate person? Seriously, this is vital insight into a person. Not quite as much as asking whether they believe toilet paper should be hung over or under...but that's a second date question ;) Questions to avoid: --Have you been busy? (anything that makes it sound like you're prying into how many people a lady has seen) --How often do you get tested? --Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife Obviously personal tastes will play a part, but I'd love to hear any others people have to add, especially those questions/topics that fall on the good side and can lead to a real conversation without seeming like you're prying.

Nerd - let's just say it's a very reliable source and I'm obviously not at liberty to reveal personal information on a public forum regarding this. All I'm saying is be careful as this residence is now being watched - what you do with that information is entirely up to you.

I'm glad Christmas is over because I have a large family and it's very exhausting hosting it every year. I've got 1.5 days left before I leave for a much needed vacation.

Yes all of those are cant miss and also Lexy Grace ; Stefanie Bell ; and of course Christy Curves

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I have stayed at hotels where there was no 'do not disturb' sign available to me. And at another, even with the 'do not disturb' sign hanging on the door have had housekeeping bang on door, saying 'i know it says do not disturb but did you need any service'. lol At another place someone stole my 'do not disturb' sign. Sigh. So yes there is no guarantee that housekeeping can be timed properly with an appt. No matter how hard you try, stuff still happens!

Whether it's my lawyer, dentist, doctor or any other appointment I make in advance I allow a 15 minute grace period and after that I leave. If I receive advance notice the day before or at least a couple of hours before then I'll make an allowance if it works for me. Otherwise if I'm prepared to make the commitment then I expect others to do the same. Within this game it's very rarely happened without notice but it has and I left and never made another contact. "Respect" is a two way street. Peace MG

This is fu*k*** bad as I have enjoyed this place for a while and found it convenient on my way to work and back. I have seen backs of guys leaving and one time a truck pulls up when I was leaving. It made me nervous and I would make sure that my appointments did not cut close to another. The whole thing about the garage was just way stupid, but there was no other choice I guess. It was a matter of time that the increased foot traffic would be noticed by the nosy neighbors. Thanks for the Intel guys. Time to lay low and let things cool off a bit. Someone visiting should have a friendly chat with her (if possible).

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No hits on tineye, the phone number has been used before with the same pics and the girl/phone# are not listed on the cowboy's dairy... IMHO, so far so good.

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Happy belated birthday handsome. Hope you had the best one ever. Kisses

Happy Belated Birthday :)

Happy Birthday Notch and thanks for your contribution to the board. Lots of pleasure and fun times in 2016.

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I hope you had an amazing birthday Notch Johnson. xo

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.....used some of earlier mentioned red wine to do up a steak for a late dinner.. opting for bubble bath n chat later... currently digesting and relaxing... still (and always hehe) addressing emails ;) looking forward to new bubblebath I bought earlier as a treat ;) Additional Comments: ....currently p1ssy at myself for using up all my tub time on emails hehe.... having a shower and hoping to fall asleep...

This friendship thing... I wonder how does one signup for such a thing :) As for the ass who was a no show... There is just no end to some people's stupidity... now you see if you were here in St. John's the question would be how do I keep this guy Ice4fun from showing up :)

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Welcome to the community Black Panther ;-) Lots of ladies will be gentle with newbies :-) There are many great ladies on this site, take a look at their postings, ads, websites and I'm pretty sure you can narrow it down to what you are looking for. Ask questions if you are unsure, just be polite about it, lol. Many of us welcome a newbie and take our time with them to assure them of their comfort level and of discretion. Happy hunting

There are many companions in the Ottawa area A good starting point is the recommendation thread for Ottawa https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=125 If, after reading the recommendation thread you find a companion who interests you contact her using her preferred method of contact, letting her know you are a newbie and what in general terms you are looking for (ie lay back and relaxing as you put it) I don't think it's advisable post C36 to discuss any specific activities you'd like. Remember, you want to see the lady for time and companionship. Good Luck RG

Can't help but think that while they may have jewels on them the real treasure is actually inside them.... Hope your having a great Christmas Raven

Just a friendly warning to be careful, I heard from a source that there has been a similar situation here to what happened at ness a while back - neighbors might be complaining.

Have seen a few BLE girls. Only one time did I have a problem. Have not seen her add, in a long time though. Otherwise they all BLE girls have been good

No I'm not a Scrooge but glad Christmas is over. Now life can get back to normal, well as normal as possible RG

Always ask! Agree 100% with the poster who said to avoid the "try it and see" approach... If someone has not given clear consent, then it comes a little too close to sexual assault. Maybe a little too extreme of an argument, but I don't think that's too far off. And definitely, agree with Raven... Brush your teeth, and chew a stick of gum, or have a mint on your way over. If a client has awful breath, DFK is off the menu.

BLE stands for Body Language Entertainment. It's a site/group that helps travel companions along their way. For example. . https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=226716 That is one of the most recent posts they have done.

* SNOW* bright white fluffy snow. I know some of you are shaking your heads :) the weather is quite delightful for December 23rd However the true Canadian & Child in me hopes those flakes start falling for Christmas eve ( I can't remember the last green Christmas in K-town) I love this time of year and all that comes with it I would like to wish you all a very Merry Christmas from the bottom of my heart & hope all of your wishes come true GENTLEMEN 35+ let's get Hot & Steamy together. I offer a nice and discreet in call location where you can relax & unwind as I help you to release that built up holiday stress soothing your sore aching muscles fulfilling the naughtiest of fantasies & desires I know you want 2 play naked rubbing each other from head 2 toe anticipating every single touch to every slow passionate Kiss! when ready to engage & enjoy new intimate levels of pleasure, I hope you will give me the opportunity please you in every way. I look forward to having a lot of fun & getting to know each other I possess many unique qualities you seek in a mature fun-loving companion I am a scrumptious little brunette A vibrant enticing beautiful woman with a gorgeous elegant youthful appearance. I take great pride in how I look an absolutely love to dress to impress in & out of the bedroom. You will love how I make you feel with my sexy curvaceous body and baby soft skin come into my world enjoy your self completely arousing one on one sexy good fun selena

I will be leaving for my home in CB tomorrow evening and not available again until January 3rd . I wish all my friends the best Christmas ever . Please if you can give to a charity that will make a difference , there is time left . This is a special time of year whatever you religion. Reach out with small gifts to neighbours. Even a visit to a single senior citizen will make that persons day. I encourage myself and all my friends here to use their imagination and just look close to home. What you do, even small gestures can bring great happiness to another lonely human being . Christmas blessings to all !

Very similar to Miss Rushton. I see gents above 30 years old only but honestly prefer above 35 for many of the same reasons. I find I enjoy sessions with gents who have seen a few ladies before, understand they absolutely must be screened, shower and pay in advance before the fun happens and treat me with respect and don't try any unsafe services. I can't count how many times someone tells me they are soooo mature and soooo respectful and 28 or 29 and will I see them? I talk to them a little and they start being all will you do a hh Bb? (Which I don't) or they start acting paranoid about giving me their name and have no reference. I don't want to chase clients or train anyone. I want to see people who want to see me and not just every single girl around to try them like a carnival ride. I like men who do their research and read my website, ad and reviews and ask me questions I haven't covered already instead of "rates/restrictions Hun?" Etc. I love mature men who know what they want, are good at communicating before and during session and can relax and have fun without pushing my boundaries, trying to squeeze their value out of me or make me be someone I'm not. I have found some younger guys emulate porn too often in sessions and try to jackhammer me and it's not my style and I don't enjoy it. I like sensual and seductive touching and building up for an explosive release at the end and not to go through the 10 positions they have on a checklist in their head. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

Her name is Tatyana, and she worked briefly at 335 Henderson before they moved. She's a slender redhead in her late thirties, I would say. She works out of a private residence. She is friendly and chatty, and provided a decent massage, I left happy. Her prices are commensurate with those at many other local places. I will probably place her in my rotation and repeat in the future.

I don't think I have preferred client age, but I do have a preferred client attitude, lol I have met some 20 year olds with more respect and diligence than those of advanced years, and also some very distinguished gentlemen that are very childlike in responses. To each his own I guess.

I enjoy kissing provided that the client has good mouth hygiene. I really dislike kissing someone after they have smoked and attempted to use gum before the meeting... Those clients, I really can't go through with the kissing. If they haven't asked when they booked an appointment about kissing I usually ask them when they arrive, "do you enjoy/like kissing?" usually they all say yes. I don't ask them if I know they're mouth hygiene is bad. I've told blank to someone after they wanted me to kiss them and I bluntly said, "Sorry, you have bad breath." This was near the end of the session. I like when clients tell me the details before a meeting of what they would like me to do or want. I've done this with role playing and it goes smoothly because I know what will be happening and there isn't this long discussion before we begin. I also enjoy the spontaneous times, not knowing about the client, I like the mystery. I've had experiences where they've booked and they just wanted the talk and kissing, so they directed me to kiss them after they said something or if I enjoyed what they talked about. I enjoy listening and talking.

Rowdy, I believe Megan of Megans Touch offers Nuru, but I have not tried it.

Brook is a lot of fun I am never disappointed always a great time.

I have already seen Brooke and am looking for other shall we say curvaceous women. If you guys recommend me some it would be greatly appreciated.:boobies:

Someone is spreading a rumor about Lyla so I am just posting this here to reassure everyone that the rumor is not true. Male members are NOT going to require paid accounts and we have NO INTENTION of every doing that! It may be some other site and they are just confused with the name but I can assure you that Lyla has no intention of that.

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It's a good - and fair - question. I've always worked on the basis that anyone at one of the spas with a good reputation is almost certainly there because she applied for the job, and is free to leave if she wishes; the frequency with which MAs tend to come and go (and come back again, sometimes at the same spa and sometimes at a different one) tends to make me think there's no coercion going on. I also think well-established and recommended indies are OK - anyone who's running a business herself is, again, probably doing so because she's chosen to. But in this case I'm thinking of the MAs that have been around for a while, who are active on the boards, and who may have their own website; not all of that is required by any means, but I look for more than just the occasional post on BP or wherever. As for whether any given person is really doing what she wants, or just doing what pays the bills... that's another matter entirely, and to some extent I think that's unknowable for us clients. But let's face it, there's a lot of people out there doing a job they'd perhaps not have chosen, but keep at it because it's better than the alternatives. I suspect most people in call centers, for example, would rather be elsewhere...

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If you have seen Brooke I am not sure there is much bigger than that in Thunder Bay on a regular basis. Have fun.

This past Friday Emily and I had a five hour date together. And it was special (well all dates with Em are special) in that it was sort of an anniversary date for us. It was our tenth date together. Also unique, well to me, it was my first time I stepped out of Ontario for a date. Our date was in Gatineau, Quebec. So it's my first out of province experience. Emily arrived at my hotel on time looking as young and beautiful as when I first met her. We greeted each other with a hug and kiss. We then sat down and over drinks, well for this special occasion, champagne and nibblers and for a few hours just got caught up on things in our respective lives. The conversation continued. Then Emily got a twinkle in her eyes, not a word spoken, we stood up, embraced, and the next thing we were kissing, snuggling and more. It was an unrushed evening of kissing, caressing, conversation and.....:-) Unfortunately, even though our date was unrushed, it did have to end. So when time was up we got up and dressed and I drove Emily back to her hotel. You may gather I like Emily. Well it's no secret, I do. What first attracted me to Emily were her posts on Lyla and yes, her pictures too. Then it was our emails back then when I introduced myself, hoping for a first date, and I knew I wanted to meet her. And when we first met, and our subsequent dates, well Emily and I clicked, and had a certain chemistry. As beautiful as Emily is in her photos, she is even more beautiful in person. And not just in looks, but she has an inner beauty. Not to mention a smile that brightens up a room. The photos in Emily's album are accurate. She looks even more beautiful today than when I first met her. Emily is a kind caring lady with a big heart. She is a lady who will provide a memorable escape to any respectable gentleman. I can give an unqualified recommendation to Emily as a wonderful companion to see. Finally, a Big Thank You goes to you Emily. You have been a wonderful companion and friend. You are one of the very few people I trust without reservation. You made me realize that seeing companions was not about anonymous dates between two people. It is based on trust and as, well in our case, openness and real intimacy. And that there is nothing incompatible with friendship and professional companionship, as long as there is mutual respect and it is mutually beneficial. Thank You for being a bright light in my life Emily. Here's a big hug and kiss for you, until the next time we meet. I have included with this recommendation two photos which are an accurate reflection of Emily's beauty. The first is one of her current pictures, the second is from one of her earlier albums. And Emily's inner beauty is even more beautiful (if that could be possible) than her physical beauty. Thank You Again Emily RG

Any info on her? She looks awesome on her pics.

I must agree, I love cat's response to this forgotten thread. In my opinion sexuality has nothing to do with age. Granted, some younger ladies may be "in it for the money" but let's not pull out the tar and feathers! I hate assumptions and stereotypes! Don't forget, that that can be reversed! The goal is to find someone that attracts you whether it be physically, intellectually, emotionally or a combination of all or one or two. As long as you have had a great time, is that not the goal?