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The "no black clients" thing has come up in the past: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=162146 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=99610 These threads are worth reading, although they've led to some heated discussions; there's a variety of reasons why a provider might do this. But a pre-emptive reminder, if we're going to discuss this again: please keep it civil!

I must admit, I'm a bit bemused about this, "Client 1 was late and wanted the full booking, so I had to push client 2 back when he showed up on time" thing. Why on earth should the second client suffer because the first can't get his act together? I know, stuff happens, but it really doesn't seem fair to push the consequences of that onto someone who's entirely innocent.

I personally tend to leave kissing up to my comfort with the gentleman. I generally greet new friends with either the double kiss (which immediately shows me if they're uncomfortable with kissing) or a light nibble on the neck. After we've gotten settled, I've had time to analyze whether kissing is a good fit for us both and will initiate light kising, with heavier, passionate kissing depending on their cues. The first meeting is always a bit awkward anyway. I just try to make light of that fact and do my best to make my gentlemen feel more comfortable. Great post btw!!! ***Quick edit*** Just realized, that was more for the ladies. My advice to you is once you've gotten settled in with her, pull her close, slowly brush past her face with your cheek, and whisper in her ear "May I kiss you?" To me, that would not only take off the pressure e of figuring out your comfort, but also, its such a sexy gesture that id be instantly turned on.

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I agree with Waterat your post was pretty straight forward... just explaining that things happen and frankly that's how I feel... sometimes unexpected things happen and we (client and lady) need to make the best of it. As Zeno said No need for you to apologize you comments and input are appreciated. :)

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At the start of a session, I always ask upfront about likes and dislikes. That includes kissing. Most seem to appreciate that we set the ground rules upfront, and I always respect her boundaries. Throughout the session I'll ask her if there area places she likes or doesn't like being touched. Everyone woman is different, so I would rather ask than have a awkward moment of "sorry I thought you would like a finger in the stink?" Ask always.

I kinda think there is the general guidelines that both parties should accept: Respect each others time... if you are late don't expect that the other party can or should accomodate you regardless of the reason If you make a booking and can't make it last minute... if you are the client you pay the full fee... if you are the lady you get no payment and refund in full any deposit if there are issue... communicate them ASAP Now that said I also think that it is in both parties long term interest to be as flexible as you can be when issues come up... that does not mean have expectations but it does mean that if you treat people well it often means they will do the same to you Just my Opinion

Melanie: You said nothing confusing nor anything requiring an apology. Your post is valued, appropriate and in no way is making excuses. Please continue to speak your mind and share your ideas with us. As you point out 'stuff happens' and you can't be held responsible for having to interrupt a session to shoo away housekeeping - I sense you are too honest and forthright a person to steal someone else's 'do not disturb' sign (I might have, lol) but regardless a sign on the door doesn't guarantee privacy. Best Regards, waterat Additional Comments: I'll hazard a guess and suggest that very few ladies hang out in the hallway nor spend their day peering out the door peephole to monitor the progress of housekeeping in their hallway

I truly hope all of my friends have had a joyus and peaceful Christmas this year. Forgive me for not being in touch with you since I left for Cuba. Upon my return I was knocked out with bad pneumonia and sadly it took 3 Doctors to finally get the right meds! For this reason it has taken much longer than usuale to get better. I am not out of the woods yet. And may require time to get back my healthy glow and in shape. Plan on being tip top shape for my 41st Birthday on Jan 8:) Not long after that I will be having a pro photoshoot. So till then, stay happy and healthy and dont forget who loves ya babe!

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Most of the time I have read reviews and the reviewer had mentioned that the woman was a great kisser. Usually when I go see a new woman I would have communicated with her thru PM or email or twitter. I usually ask if they allow kissing or not. Many women don't kiss and some just love kissing. It is a personal thing with them. It all depends on your hygiene also and chemistry. Many times upon being brought into the room. the woman would usually hug and give a little kiss. A few times the kisses are very passionate. A couple of times, they just brought me to the couch and we would kiss passionately for a few minutes. These are signs that I am going to enjoy myself. But a few times I have dropped in on women that I had no previous contact with and they don't know who I am. I find these sessions sometimes awkward as I am shy and don't like to make the first move. A good sign that they don't kiss is if you try and they turn away or let you kiss their cheek. Several times I've had no kissing during the session, but at the end I asked if they kissed, and they all said that they did, but that they were waiting for me to make the first move. Then they would give me some nice kisses at the end before we left. Several of these girls I have returned for many visits and had great kissing and cuddle sessions with them. So question to you woman? How do you let the man know that you allow or do not allow kissing? Would you perfer not to kiss during the session but will if asked? Or only kiss if you feel some chemistry. Or never kiss at all? Should they guy ask if he can kiss you, or should he pucker his lips and hope you kiss him? lol Guy's Have you gone thru this awkward experience, do you make the first move? or are you too shy to?

Well boys, I gotta say, I had a great evening. I decided to TOFTT on BP with the lovely Kathleen. I couldn`t find any reviews of her, but I had a good vibe from her ads. She`s been around for about six months. Was in Calgary before that. Texting was fast and easy She greeted me at her nice hotel downtown with her stripper heels and a robe. She is very friendly, smells wonderful. Nice body, and delicious, gorgeous ass! There was light kissing Gorgeous! So now I`ve provided what was missing for this lovely girl...a solid review on this board.

Saw Jenny from BP tonight. Agree with all recommendations about her. She is very sweet, nice to talk to with, very beautiful body. Booking was super easy with quick responses. Location is convenient in Kanata. Treat this lady well and you will enjoy your time. I did. Repeat - definitely. http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/limited-timey-jyincalls-onlysweet-as-sugar-and-hot-as-fire/29956700

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Coming to a realization that in many ways ways have been a complete idiot...

When you send off an email that might ruin your life in the short term, but you do it because you're trying to save yourself over the long term. It so sucks, and you have no clue what the reply will be, but you owe it to yourself and to whoever you're email to find out once and for all the truth of things. So feel like puking now.

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I am very excited to let everyone Know I have a male duo partner. Duncan Jordan will be available by advance appointment the third week in January. He will be available for M/M/F, Couples and single males. Duncan is 35 years old, university educated, open minded and very respectful. I have known him for several years and he will certainly please anyone that he keeps company with. He is tall, gym fit and has the look of a GQ Model. Please watch for photos coming in January.

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Have seen a few ladies over the last couple years but never had such an experience as tonight. The ladies I have seen before in Belleville/Kingston/Peterborough make the situation less of an experience to enjoy and more like a service (more like waiting for an oil change than enjoying the fun of a test drive) which don't get me wrong, we all know what the true situation is. Khloe completely changed that for me tonight, not a clock watcher for sure, after the first round, she offered me a massage then we laid and talked for a bit (as it turns out we know a few of the same people.) Once we had begun the second round, it was at the end of the hour (I would recommend spending any time with her but an hour is great) but she didn't stop or ask for more money just seemed to genuinely care about my experience. Truly shows passion for what she does. Have never had such an experience before and enjoyed so much that I had to leave a tip and felt it deserved a review, which I've never done. Nice clean, discrete, hotel room. Offered me to shower there before leaving (I don't have anyone to hide my adventures from, but the gesture was nice compared to being kicked out faster than you can get dressed. Without a doubt I would repeat, in fact might only see her going forward.

First of all - I get housekeeping over and done with first thing in the morning. I make a point of going up to them, telling I'm going out for a bit, and could they please make up my room while I'm gone. This way, they don't bother me for the rest of the day. Second - if someone is late, and I have other plans, their appointment ends on schedule. I never book back to back appointments, but I sometimes share an incall with others, and I don't want their schedule to be mixed up. So, unless the gent has let me know in advance, and I can advise them of their options, it goes as planned. Obviously, if no one is schedule after my time, I have more flexibility of when things go wrong - traffic, last minute things. However, if its a case of someone thinking I'm a walk in clinic and they can show up when they feel like it, sorry, not going to happen. I rarely have to change the start time more then 5 minutes - I always get to my incall before the encounter start time. However, things do happen and I always let them know. However, for those that book last minute, want to see me right now, this make things difficult. This is why I prefer advance notice. If you have given me advance notice, I will be on time. However, if you have booked last minute, I might be a couple of minutes late and will let you know. I've never pushed an encounter more then 10 minutes, and that was because of a traffic accident - as it turns out, he was stuck in the same accident.

Yeah she is the real deal. met her once. Accommodating, fun, punctual and reasonable. Very gittery though.

I'm sorry that you didn't have a good session with me. That's to bad. I find that sometimes some people come in with expectations that are not safe and that I'm not willing to do, like some ladies will go to great lengths to make every man happy ( those expectations are usually not safe) I think you may know what I'm talking about. Hopefully when you come in, someone could provide you with what your looking for. In my eyes, it's always good to play safe. :) take care.

Hey Brody Here! PARKING TEMPORARILY UNAVAILABLE Sorry for any inconvenience. In call is still available, but I am waiting on the contractors to plow the massive pile of snow, that is my parking spot. I myself do not own a vehicle and depend on my parking space for my beloved vistors. Again, my deep apologies. Winter is not my friend. See website for details. http://www.brodystyles.info Happy New Year! Specials for Lyla and p411 members! I offer the full, laid back,quirky girlfriend rendezvous, along with several types of massage . I have big blue eyes and hour glass figure, to go along with a marvelously cheeky and nerdy side! I am a nurturer and a giver and am not well suited with suitors who prefer a quick fix. I am attracted to the whole concept of intimacy and am also into several fetishes, which include feet. I definitely would have to say, that I appeal to several personalities as long as you are respectful and clean. I offer a laid back, sensual tone but also a tone of 'Let's get weird", to the appropriate occasion. I offer out and in calls. In call is offered in our Nation's Capital at a non- commercial, private residence. Have your secret desire, satisfied.The soft, sweet,quirky girlfriend, you can't help but crave. My world is, your world.With warm embraces and stupefying kisses. Welcome to a world where,you can be yourself. Relax and enjoy an intimate experience with me. Soft skin aching to be touched. I'm not fake nor do I know how to be. I offer a non-rushed experience with a real person. I would love to enjoy my time with you. Let's have some mind blowing chemistry!

To continue raising my standards....in everything I do. Peace MG

I wish i could!!!Happy holidays Muah! VJ

I agree with this too, and it's well said. But making resolutions is like setting benchmarks, picking out areas where that daily effort should be specially directed.

Elegant in its simplicity. Much harder to accomplish but I would echo Conquistador's comment

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Kat's found a new home up at the Go-Go for anyone interested in spending some time with her.

lol The next time someone says that to me I think I'm going to ask do they think he will want to join in? Then I will say No, you're not his type. LOL

I know Emily Ruston regularly tours to Gander and Julie Candy has on both her visits to NL this year... other than that I don't believe Gandar has been seen as a good touring city... relatively small population base.

Nerd - let's just say it's a very reliable source and I'm obviously not at liberty to reveal personal information on a public forum regarding this. All I'm saying is be careful as this residence is now being watched - what you do with that information is entirely up to you.

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I'm not sure what other ladies do but I don't buy book back to back I have at least a half an hour between appointments that gives me time to take a shower freshen up and get a bite to eat if I want to. That way I don't have to cancel or push back anybody's appointment. There's the odd time where a client can be late for his appointment and that can probably push back the other appointments booked after him.

I've seen her twice, she is good looking, petite, slim, young (20s) and kind of bubbly. She's from Hong Kong and communication in English is very challenging for her, so any complicated requests may not work for you. (I speak some Mandarin and a bit of Cantonese which helps.) Not into kissing but offers her tongue, if that helps. Others on the other board have been less enthusiastic. ����. Added next day: The pics are her.

Always ask! Agree 100% with the poster who said to avoid the "try it and see" approach... If someone has not given clear consent, then it comes a little too close to sexual assault. Maybe a little too extreme of an argument, but I don't think that's too far off. And definitely, agree with Raven... Brush your teeth, and chew a stick of gum, or have a mint on your way over. If a client has awful breath, DFK is off the menu.

@Hud Bannon, yes that idea excites very much! To this day ;) xo

I will be leaving for my home in CB tomorrow evening and not available again until January 3rd . I wish all my friends the best Christmas ever . Please if you can give to a charity that will make a difference , there is time left . This is a special time of year whatever you religion. Reach out with small gifts to neighbours. Even a visit to a single senior citizen will make that persons day. I encourage myself and all my friends here to use their imagination and just look close to home. What you do, even small gestures can bring great happiness to another lonely human being . Christmas blessings to all !

To clarify a few things, anyone I end up having a date with has had at least 5-10 emails in exchange with me - so we can get to know one another (nothing was off on his communication and he was forth coming via email). When one is nervous they usually are non-forth coming in emails as well as in person. I asked him the questions I ask anyone (not like i asked of this address and SIN number) and have for almost all my time in this business. Ive dealt with nervous people in the past and non have ever pulled this type of BS behaviour. He knew all too well where my hotel was as when we confirmed on the phone I made sure he knew where I was, where to park and where the entrance is. There is only one of the chain brand of hotel I was staying at and the only one at the intersection - so I'm sorry I don't buy I'm lost when he texted ( 15mins early and when I asked where he was parked it was a 5mins walk (even if he had to walk up the stairs, 8min max) As for the housekeeper, she was 3 doors down and in her own world, he claims because she went from her cart into the room (the one she was cleaning) that is must be a sting. Im sorry you watch way to much A & E. People come and go into hotel hallways and rooms all day long, no one pays attention to much unless you bring it on yourself. Im clear on my site and in my ads that we will be communicating before and during our date (after is up to you). Considering what i ask to screen is more invasive than what i ask in person, I don't buy nerves with this guy. (plus the first time I've had someone say my questions were too personal) Someone who goes through as much communication with a companion as he did, should have some butterflies as we all do on a first date. Once inside the suite that is well lit with open doors and the person they booked standing in front of them after they are hugged should in most cases be able to breathe a sigh of relief. I even offered for him to look in the close or dresser if that would he help him relax to show I was "alone" and not part of a sting. From my time in this biz, newbies have a way they act and this guy was no newbie he played my screening to be a douche. Im willing to bet that every SP he has booked he has played the same stunt with - after much thought I know when I have been played. I get nerves and respect they do happen, but people serious about a date generally relax at some point, laugh and have fun. This was not the case.

Legs are definitely one of my strong points ;) lol Yay for 4 years of pole dancing ^.^

I want to thank you right away for broaching this subject. Kissing, like many other activities that happen within session, is best to ask for consent before taking action. If a MA is respectfully asked before actions are taken, everyone will have a good time. If she feels like she is control and can opt in or out, rather than being pounced at, she will get more into the situation. If you are concerned this is "not sexy" there is always the option of intro sessions. For a small investment you can meet the girl and discuss what her limitations are so you can make a decision if whether the full package (personality, looks, limitations) is what you are interested in.

I won't kiss a man who has a rough beard, bad breath, or lesions in the buccal area. Or bad hygiene in general, which is not your case. As stated in your comment, chemistry plays a big part, and interpretation of the act is also a factor (one may kiss you on the couch for 10 mins before entering the main course, as another will kiss you all action long. There's also the whole BS bullshit. But all and all, don not take everything you read for granted. You may be mislead.

I am upfront on my website about what I offer and do not offer, and I remind my guests during our first session together. If at any point a gentleman is unclear about something, I find it very respectful when he asks me. I dislike the "I'll just go for it and see if she stops me" approach. Please, just ask. Communication is key to a wonderful experience together!

Looking forward to making that fantasy come true! It is becoming real haha! (Sweet Eva with a bad girl provocative side is speaking right now ;)

Definitely add my vote for Felina in any category. :) Although I have only seen her twice now, I will be back when I can for certain.

If you don't understand the law, this should help.

I totally agree with you guys...I guess they have their reason for posting this...colour of skin doesnt represent what a person is like... Their loss....just ignore...there will always be people like that! Bianca xxx